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Narcissists are appealing for good reason: they're charming, compelling and don't
hold back on the compliments. By the time you realize just how toxic a narcissist can
be, you've likely already been duped into developing feelings for him or her.
Of course, not everyone you date who's vaguely self-absorbed has full-blown
narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) (http://psychcentral.com/disorders
/narcissistic-personality-disorder-symptoms/). It's important to note that narcissism
exists on a spectrum, said Dr. Craig Malkin, an instructor of psychology at Harvard
University and the author of Rethinking Narcissism: The Bad -- and Surprising Good
-- About Feeling Special.
"Not all narcissists have NPD," Malkin told The Huffington Post. "'Narcissist' is just a
label that indicates someone scores well above average on narcissism measures.
Theyre high in traits, but may or may not have the disorder."
Below, Malkin and three other experts shed light on the telltale signs you're in a
relationship with a narcissist.
New research suggests that people who constantly update their Facebook status
(http://www.theguardian.com/technology/2012/mar/17/facebook-dark-side-studyaggressive-narcissism) are more likely to exhibit narcissistic traits. If you're currently
coupled up with a narcissist, be prepared to have your Facebook newsfeed flooded
with humble-brag statuses and photo posts.
"The most outgoing narcissists adore the spotlight," Dr. Craig Malkin explained.
"Image churning (http://psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/2014-04665-001/) on Facebook
draws attention to people. The flood of likes and comments gives everyone a rush of
affirmation but narcissists tend to become hooked. That's probably why people who
frequently update tend to be more narcissistic than those of us content to choose one
selfie and stick with it."
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Good luck getting a word in edgewise while having a conversation with a narcissist.
Dominating the conversation -- even when the topic relates entirely to you -- is a
hallmark trait of the narcissist. They may feign interest in your college basketball
picks, but deep down, they can't wait to to hijack the conversation and offer up their
superior opinion.
Their interest is always short-lived, said Swithin. Over time, you will notice that
every topic is skillfully turned into an opportunity for the narcissist to brag or boast
about their favorite topic: the narcissist! A simple conversation about your new car
will likely turn into an opportunity for him to talk about the rare sports car that he is
importing from Germany.
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