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Leading Like Google


I saw Linda Hill, Ph.D., speak at the World
Business Forum and asked if I could interview her
for SUCCESS. Hill is a professor of business and
the faculty chair of the Leadership Initiative at
Harvard Business School; she is also the co-author
of the book Collective Genius: The Art and Practice
of Leading Innovation. For more than 10 years,
Hill and her team studied executives from many of
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Did she find good leaders? Of
course. But the style of leadership, which was remarkably
consistent across these companies, was the opposite of what
you might expect. An innovative
chief has a vision and the ability
to communicate her vision
successfully to her team, who then carries it out,
right? Wrong. The managers Hill studied let their
staffs know that they didnt have all the answers.
When it came to the vision thing, these leaders
drew ideas from intense collaborationand when
conflicts occurred, no one rushed to quash them.
You cant think of something new unless you are
being pushed to think in new directions, and you
cant do that unless youre engaging with people
who have different viewpoints, Hill says.
The speechand our article on Page 58have
already changed how I function as an editor in
chief. However, at home with my 11-year-old, who
thinks she ought to be able to stay up until 10:30
on school nights (after watching a Friends rerun
with me), I find that an autocratic style of leadership is still best.

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Learning and innovation go hand in hand. The arrogance of success is to think that what you did
yesterday will be sufficient for tomorrow. Art begins in imitation and ends in innovation. I think
frugality drives innovation, just like other constraints do. One of the only ways to get out of a tight
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Laura Novak was in demand: She had celebrity clients and to create a great opportunity for those who are serious about their
regularly spoke at photography conferences and workshops across photography careers to be mentored and to mentor others. A
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the country. But something was amiss.
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more retail.
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to 10 locations in the works for 2016. For me, the
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again to the CEO of a franchise company, Novak says.
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Laura Novak
every day. Ive taken two maternity leaves during the
in her studio
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Novak credits her team members with the companys success,
and she emphasizes the importance of their professional growth. Entrepreneurs Organization, she met an important mentor who
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#TweetsWeLike
@UberFacts
The average American 3-year-old
can recognize about 100 brand logos.

@danagould
One of those awkward mornings
where I had to explain to my child
that, despite what she heard at
school, Siri is real if you Believe.

@ch000ch
If youre feeling stressed out,
just relax, take a deep breath, and
exhale re over all of your enemies.
This is more for dragons btw.

Job-Hopping, 2015
Changing companies after short stints isnt the career sin it used to be.
Employees dont sweat the job-hopper label anymore. They even
cite advantages to relatively frequent job changes: increasing their
pay and skills, climbing the career ladder, soaking up a new company
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The lesson for employers? Those whose recession-era credo was be grateful you
have a job may now need to supply perks and polish management skills to retain
key workers.
Mary Vinnedge

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CreateAthon!
Teams around the country pull all-nighters for charity.

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TOP
of Mind
I owe all of our companys success
to asking hundreds of questions
good, bad, silly or
stupid. Back then,
Iwas frustrated with
the nut butter choices
and was curious why
there werent better
options. How do you
even make peanut butter? How do
you become a company? Whos the
FDA? Today, my curiosities focus
on sustainability and becoming a
better companyfrom a virtually
zero-waste office to co-creating
sustainable food packagingwhich
creates more questions than ever.
Justin Gold, founder
and CEO, Justins

I pull inspiration from everything in


my life. My travels; things that I read,
taste, see; even the
people I talk to. I love
meeting new people
and hearing their
stories. Learning
new things sparks
my curiosity and is
the sweet sugar in life. Life is about
learning every dayand from this we
can create.
Judy Joo, Iron Chef and owner, Jinjuu

I try to find some quietness and


reflect on the problem, like in a
hike or a run. The
combination of
endorphins and
stimulation let
me think deeply
about a problem.
This isnt to say
that Irelocate to a cave and dont
socialize ideas, but I think that if you
are trying to challenge orthodoxies
or really stretch thinking, I can most
successfully do this first by myself
and then with others.
Darren MacDonald, founder
and CEO, Ingress Capital

Choose Your Words Carefully


The right pleasantries may be key to job security.

TOP
of Mind

Want to keep your job? Then pay attention to what you chitchat about with colleagues.
No droning on about profit, revenue, sales and closing. Mention coffee, lunch, baseball and
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as indicators of employees retention, says Wharton School assistant
professor Lynn Wu, Ph.D., who studied the emails, instant messages
and calendar entries of more than 8,000 workers at a global
information technology consulting company for two years.
There is something intangible that the [sociable] employee
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company network means you probably receive and give help promptly
and that you share and learn about information quickly.
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M.V.

I find that my most creative thinking


is often born out of a problem. Its
through firsthand
experience or through
a customers pain
point, and working
to identify ways to
improve the system.
While I was a venture
investor, I would often come across
incredible fast-growing businesses
who, despite generating meaningful
revenue, were struggling to raise bank
financing. Bond Street was born to
tackle this problem and to leverage
technology to simplify financing for
small businesses.
David Haber, co-founder
and CEO, Bond Street

Hugs for
Health

Cant
Sleep?
Blame your tablet.

A study shows affection


wards off infection.

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of Sciences found that reading before bed on light-emitting
electronic devices extends the time it takes to fall asleep,
suppresses melatonin levels and even decreases alertness in
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days reading from electronic devices. Blood levels revealed that
melatoninthe sleep-promoting hormonewas lower in those
who read f rom
electronic devices.
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night rather than from our app.
Jesus Jimenez

It s l o n g b e e n k n o w n
t h at s t r e s s e d p e ople a r e
v u l ner a ble t o i n fe c t ion s
such as common colds and
f lu. But could hugs serve as
preventive medicine? Yes, as
it turns out.
When intentionally
exposed to the cold virus,
frequent huggers were less
likely to become ill, or if they
caught a cold (as 31 percent
did), they experienced less
s e ver e s y mp t om s . B ei ng
hugged by a trusted person
conveys the social support
that reduces susceptibility
to illness, concluded a
recent study of 404 healthy
adults by Carnegie Mellon
Universit y in Pit tsburgh.
The researchers R x: One
hug per day should do it, but
overdosing isnt dangerous.
M.V.

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I design clothes with multiple


functions so women can seamlessly
shift from work to
yoga to a night out.
So Im inspired by
classic, timeless
looks, such as a
little black dress
you can wear almost
anywhere. Products like the Swiss
Army knife also inspire me; theyre
multifunctional and provide you with
more space in your homes and bags,
while allowing greater peace of mind.
Allison Daroie, founder
and CEO, Paridaez

Its crucial to embrace mistakes.


Iconsider them hidden opportunities
because many times they lead you
down a path of
discovery. Dont let
failure get to you,
as fear of making
mistakes often stunts
creativity. Also key
to innovation is not
letting success get to your head. If
youre full of ego, there is little room
for inspiration. When you think youre
the best, youre reluctant to find areas
for improvement.
Lena Kwak, co-founder and
president, Cup4Cup

As told to Jennifer Chang

Strides

Positively Pointless
The joys of a seemingly trivial pursuit
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Melissa
Balmains work
has appeared
in The New
Yorker, The
New York
Times and
McSweeneys.
The author
of Walking
in on People,
an awardwinning poetry
collection,
she teaches
writing at the
University of
Rochester.

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Healthy You

Postmodern Medicine
A look at the presentand futureof health care
THE DOCS TACKLE your queries about the future
of medicine in their April column.

Q: I hear about many medical


breakthroughs. What illnesses might
be conquered in the next three to
veyears?

Mehmet
Oz,M.D., is the
director of the
Cardiovascular
Institute and
Integrative
Medicine
Center at
New Yorks
Presbyterian/
Columbia
University. He
hosts The Dr.
Oz Show.
Michael
Roizen,M.D.,
is the chief
wellness officer
and chair of
the Wellness
Institute at the
Cleveland Clinic.
His book This Is
Your Do-Over
hit bookstores
in February.

A: Two areas of medicine will probably see major


changes soon. First up: vaccines, which in widespread
use virtually wiped out polio and smallpox by 1980. Were
constantly working on new vaccine technology, and it
wouldnt be surprising if malaria, dengue fever and many
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years. Beyond that, scientists are working on vaccines to
protect against illnesses that arent traditionally thought
of as virally induced, such as breast and prostate cancer
and even addiction.
Second: diseases we already can prevent, but dont. You
can decrease your risk for heart disease, stroke, cancer and
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should: Eat a diet with less than 4 ounces of red meat per
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whole grains and no added sugars or syrups; do at least
30 minutes of physical activity daily (walking counts!);
have a body mass index (BMI) under 25; avoid all tobacco
products; and drink alcohol in moderation (less than two
drinks for men and one for women per day).
On The Daily Show last year, host Jon Stewart had
a wonderful segment describing how Congress will do
anything or pass any law to prevent even one American
from getting Ebola but wouldnt enact any ban on
sugary food or virtually any cause of heart disease. The
truth is, when you consider the most common illnessrelated causes of mortality, much of our fate rests in our
own hands. Focus on the actions you can take to live
healthier, and youll play an important role in eradicating
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20SUCCESSAPRIL2015

Q: I keep hearing about superbugs


and antibiotic resistance. Will this
problem be solved or is it only
going to worsen?
A : Yo u r e r i g h t t o b e
concerned. Many in medicine
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anything else. Why has this resistance mess occurred?
Well, the superbug epidemic was not caused by people
stopping short on their seven-day course of sinus infection
drugs (although we dont condone that!).
More than 80 percent of the antibiotics sold in the
U.S. are given to livestock and poultry, not humans.
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production. And the drugs dont just stay in the animal;
they run off into our water supplies and our environment. The Food and Drug Administration is phasing in
a policy that bans routine non-illness use of antibiotics
for livestock and poultry farming. One key way you can
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livestock products with: a USDA Organic seal, labeling
of no antibiotics added or no antibiotics administered
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Partnership or Whole Foods.
Scientists are working on alternatives to antibiotics,
but the going is slow. There are interesting studies
about using probiotics, or healthy bacteria, to fight
and prevent infections. Were also seeing promising
research about using liposomes to treat bacterial infections. (Liposomes are molecules made up of lipids that
mimic the appearance of host cell membranes, so when
bacteria come in and release toxins, they attack the liposomes instead of your cells.) Were not sure when drugs
like these might reach the market, but well stay tuned.

Q: Whats your opinion of


websites and apps that offer
e-consultations with
doctors and nurses?
A : A lthough you
shou ld nt r ely on
e-consults for
all of your

medical
need s, they c a n
help solve some important health quandaries. First and
foremost, theyre a highly efficient
way to get a second opinionan
underrated step in ensuring youre
receiving the best and most appropriate care. Get this: A second
opinion changes d iag nosis or
treatment a whopping 30 percent
of the time, according to research.
Telemedicine can give you access
to specialists for a second opinion
on anything that may involve an
invasive procedure or taking a
drug for longer than three weeks.
In addition, e-consults are great
for people who need nut r it ion
coaching with registered dietitians
but for some reason cant meet with
one regularly in person; theyre also
helpful for homebound patients or
those who live far from specialists.
To reduce red-tape headaches, its
smart to use a telemedicine program
thats either based in your state or
thats affiliated with a large healthcare organizationone big enough to
employ experts with licenses to practice
medicine across state lines. The rules
are a little complicated, so ask questions
and do research to determine who is able
to treat you. At the Cleveland Clinic,
our MyConsult program is available to

anyone in all 50 states and in many foreign


countries; similar programs exist at other
organizations.

Q: Ive been thinking about


getting a DNA analysis to
learn about my risk for various
diseases. Who is a good
candidate for these tests
andwhy?
A: Only a few years ago, you had
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of knowing your genome.
Nowa d ays, DNA k it s
can be ordered online
for less than the price
of a new iPhone.
Unfortunately, the FDA limits your ability
to receive genetic health information
without seeing a specialist. Currently,
DNA kit companies such as 23andMe
offer only ancestry-related DNA reports.
They will send you raw genetic data, but
youll need to take that data to a genetic
specialist to make sense of it. So how do
you determine whether thats a good idea?
If you have a family history of a certain
disease, it can be helpful to have a genetic
specialist assess your risk for that disease.
Its important to think about the two
outcomes of these screenings. Youll learn
either that you dont carry Uncle Joes risky
genes and get peace of mind, or that you do
carry them and may be able to do something
about it. You can change your gene expressionat least for certain diseasesby eating
well and exercising often. So will you?
Many of us wont: Research on men found
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attacks altered their heart-risk behaviors
for only two weeks afterward. So think
carefully about whether learning youre at
a higher risk for a certain illness will spark
you into action or if it will only add stress to
all of your other risk factors. S
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Just Add Hustle

Family Matters
Avoid guilt by involving kids and signicant others in your work.
ID FEEL LESS GUILTY about all the hours
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I started my first business in 1999 in my bedroom

Tory Johnsons
company, Spark
& Hustle, gives
conferences for
owners of small
businesses.
Shes also a
contributor on
Good Morning
America and
a best-selling
author.

with an AOL email address, dial-up Internet, and my


twin babies Emma and Jake at my feet. My kids and
husband have never been far from my work, literally and
figuratively: Owning a small business means the line
between work and life is thin, if present at all.
Since then, inviting my family into my work has
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Jill Donovan, a Tulsa, Okla.-based jewelry designer
whose Rustic Cuff pieces are carried by Nordstrom,
Dillards and hundreds of boutiques nationwide, says that
instead of choosing between time spent on work or with
family, she strives to make it all part of the same world.
She looks for ways to include her two daughters in all
aspects of her business.
As much as I can, I involve them in the design process
by asking their opinion from a young girls perspective,
Donovan says. I want them to feel that they are a part
of the ultimate design process so that when a product is
created, they have that proud feeling that they played a
role in it. As a result, her daughters have a vested interest
that leads them to love Moms business, Donovan says,
and they add a fresh new perspective that I may not
otherwise get. In addition, Donovan has named certain
products and designs after her daughters and their
friends. It gives them a sense of pride that they can share
with their friends.
Deborah Gilboa, M.D., an internationally known
parenting and youth development expert, says that workfamily balance often translates into trying to keep a
constant tally of minutes spent with one or the other.
The stress of trying to keep things equalin a world of

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urgent, unexpected deadlines on one side and last-minute


requests on the othercan leave us feeling unbalanced.
Instead of considering these to be two separate buckets
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three tips:

# FSbXS_[^kXadTdS[`efad_[`Y When a work conundrum stumps you, take it to your kitchen table for outof-the-box ideas. This lets your family know that you
value their ideas and opinions, and it models the resilience you bring to your work when challenges crop up.

$ >WhWdSYWfZWe][^^eSfZa_W Our kids and partners


are great at all kinds of things, from graphic design
ideas to tech solutions, proofreading and brainstorming. Explain that you need their particular help
with a work project and outsource at home.

% <a[`W_ Find something that takes more time than


experience to accomplish and pull it out with a younger
family member to have great conversation while they
help you work. Or just sit down [to do] your work at the
homework table.
By incorporating their families in their nonstop
work, neither Gilboa nor Donovan is burdened by the
overwhelming sense of guilt that working parents often
describe. As my twins graduate from high school this
May, I can proudly say that Ive always been among those
guilt-free moms, too. S

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Maximum Leadership

More Than Enough


A mindset of abundance will produce a greater outcome.
IMAGINE THAT you and I are walking down the street.

John C.
Maxwell is
a leadership
expert, speaker,
best-selling
author and
founder of
EQUIP and the
John Maxwell
Co., which have
trained more
than 5million
leaders
worldwide.

You breathe in. You breathe out. I breathe in.


I breathe out. We both need oxygen to survive. Would
you worry that there would not be enough oxygen for
both of us? Of course notair is abundant.
Now imagine we are scuba diving and my scuba
tank starts to malfunction. I signal that I need to share
the oxygen in your tank. Suddenly the air becomes a
precious commodity. Its scarcity makes us worry. What
if there isnt enough for both of us?
Our attitudes toward scarcity and abundance in
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He writes:
Most people are deeply scripted in what I call the
Scarcity Mentality. They see life as having only so
much, as though there were only one pie out there.
And if someone were to get a big piece of the pie, it
would mean less for everybody else.
The Scarcity Mentality is the zero-sum paradigm
of life. People with a Scarcity Mentality have a very
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making. It opens possibilities, options, alternatives
and creativity.
Covey tells us that when you live in a world of scarcity,
you compete for available resources, even when there is
an abundance of them.
When I speak to audiences across the country, I often
hear about the challenges people face in the workplace.

24SUCCESSAPRIL2015

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Leaders who allow a scarcity mindset to work its
way into their culture pay a high price. When resources
(money, opportunity, recognition) are perceived to be
limited, paranoia, fear and politics thrive. In this environment, people become nervous and afraid to make a
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As Stephen Covey said, there


is enough pie to go around.
Repeat after me: There is
plenty for everyone.
Effective leaders, on the other hand, develop and
model an abundance mindset. By doing so, they create
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teamand where their employees can thrive. Heres how
to spread this positive mentality through your team.
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much you value their contributions. People want to
know that their work matters. Your inf luence and
happiness will increase in direct proportion to the
appreciation that you show your team. I have found
this to be one of the fastest and simplest ways to build
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team is faced with an obstacle, f lip it around and
consider it an opportunity. Face the challenge with
optimism and make sure your team sees you modeling
that attitude. Youll be surprised at how quickly problems dissolve and how soon optimism becomes your
default mechanism.

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As Covey said, there is enough pie to go around,

so break that nasty habit of comparing yourself


to others. Repeat after me: There is plenty for
everyone. Say the sentence often enough,
and itll become second nature.

Carefully select the company you keep.


Mindsets are contagious. Limit your time
with the-glass-is-half- empty people.
Spend time in ref lection. L ear n to
acknowledge and appreciate all the positives in your life and work. Gratitude is a
powerful aspect of an abundant mindset. A
grateful heart is at the center of an abundant
life. In his book, Life, the Truth, and Being Free,
coach and speaker Steve Maraboli says, Those
with a grateful mindset tend to see the message in the
mess. And even though life may knock them down, the
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Give more of what you want. Although it may sound
counterintuitive, one of the best ways to increase your
abundance is to give. Dont feel like you have enough
time? Slip away from your obligations, even if just for
an hour, to help someone in need. Dont feel like you
have enough money? Give to someone less fortunate.
In other words, be a river, not a reservoir. Giving is
sure to put you in a more abundant and appreciative
frame of mind.
***
In The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, I wrote
about The Law of the Mirror. It states that people do
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your team. Which mindset do you model? Do you see
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leaders? Or are they pessimistic, stingy and competing
among themselves for your attention? Remember, you
set the tone for your organization.

I challenge you
to foster an abundanceminded culture this month. Encourage
people to see options and opportunity when they
face obstacles or challenges. Express appreciation
regularly, and recognize others who do the same.
Communicate and share your hopes for yourself and
your team.
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people around us wherever we are, whether its at
home, at work, on the highway or in the checkout
line. As you build an authentic and sincere abundance
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William James said, The greatest discovery of my
generation is that a human being can alter his life by
altering his attitudes of mind. Let your mindset be
your biggest asset! S
SUCCESSAPRIL201525

Maverick Minute

Dont Burn Your Boat!


Retreat to jump forward.
ONE LIKES TO RETREAT, especially
leaders like you and me. We want to push
forward and make every day count. This was
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as many copies as I could to my mom, I retreated to a
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Jason Dorsey
has received
over 1,000
standing
ovations as
a keynote
speaker. Known
as The Gen Y
Guy, hes been
on 60 Minutes,
20/20, The
Today Show
and more.

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he connected with
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free loans totaling
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to start his own business.
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from an all-volunteer team of friends and family to six choreographer while he strides across the Ritz-Carlton
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you imagine the stress if you have three kids and you in 2014, although she downplays the attention. Hundreds
dont have a place to sleep? she asks. Every time I think of organizations across the nation are working as hard as
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thinking you have too much to do.
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and her past experience as a commander of 250 soldiers. who need help with anything from housing to transporYou are in charge of everything about their livestheir tation. Were where the rubber meets the road, and were
making it happen, Snyder says. S
morale, their well-being.
SUCCESSAPRIL201529

How To

Go Solo
Is it time for you to quit your day job?
O N E

OF THE TOUGHEST
DECISIONS budding entrepreneurs face

Emma
Johnson is
a New Yorkbased business
and personal
nance writer.
She hosts
The Emma
Johnson Show,
syndicated
nationally on
AM radio.

is when to set out on their own, full time.


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experts dont agree on a magic formula
for this time line.
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consultant and author of Become Your
Own Boss in 12 Months, falls on the
conservative end of the startup spectrum.
At a minimum, she urges aspiring entrepreneurs to obliterate debt (including
credit cards and car loans) and save up
a years worth of living expenses before
forgoing a reliable paycheck. Emerson
says that a typical new business takes 12
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from her day job as a dental hygienist while
the company grew.
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between her professional passions and family life.

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How To

Ron Holt

Jason Parks

FOUNDER AND CEO

OWNER

Company: Two Maids & a Mop, an

Company: The Media Captain, a

Alabama-based cleaning service


franchisor with locations in seven states
Strategy: Holt saved for years to buy
a small business with cash while accumulating a sizable
emergency fund.
Result: In 2013 the company grossed $4 million and today
operates 14 locations.

digital media marketing rm based


in Columbus, Ohio
Strategy: While working full
time, Parks built a side business and then dove into it
headrst after reaching an established goal.
Result: Today the company has clients around the
country and a staff of four.

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by watching my father, a government employee. He always taught me
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sales job right out of college to pay the bills. I really disliked the
job, but mentally it was easier to build a business when I knew
money was coming in. Plus my job provided experience with
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full-time job. Id always had an entrepreneurial spirit. In high
school, I sold sports tickets on eBay, and in college, I gave
private tennis lessons. I had a lot of faith in my own ability.
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do client video shoots and search engine optimization (SEO)
campaigns. I knew that if I hit my three-client goal, I would be
on solid footing. My family and friends werent so sure. Nearly
everyone I consulted felt the risks outweighed the rewards and
that I should stick with the sure paycheck of a corporate job.
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with my gut. It was 2010, at the height of the recessionwhen
companies marketing budgets were tightwhen I quit.
Today the business is thriving, and it was actually a
blessing that we started when the economy was slow. We got
a foothold in the industry, and now that budgets are better,
companies are spending with more established businesses
like ours. There is no way I would be as successful as I am
today if I had not quit my job and committed to growing this
company full time. S

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a nation of walking zombies, says retired


Cornell psychology professor James Maas,
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daughters Isabella and Christina,
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relationships with the citys power brokers


people like Ann Getty, Barbara Walters and
Nora Ephron. Six years later, she married
oil tycoon Michael Huff ingtonwho
worked as an arms control negotiator in
the Reagan Administrationand quickly
conquered the West Coast, eventually
helping her husband win election to the
House of Representatives while giving
birth to two daughters. Before launching
HuffPo 2005, she took a stab at elected
office herself, running for governor of
California in the recall race that launched
Arnold Schwarzeneggers political career.
But blacking out in 2007 convinced
Huffington she had to make changes,

present. I dont ever want to be in that


other place again.
In time she arrived at a new set of priorities. These emphasized the importance of
well-being, wisdom, wonder and a healthy
work-life balance. She learned to disconnect from the bustle and to live more in the
moment. She had long been a proponent of
meditation, yoga and prayer. Now she made
it a point to banish her cellphone and laptop
from her bedroom well before she went to
sleep. She cuddled up with a book instead
one that had nothing to do with work.
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soup diet. We all talk about outer space
projectsgoing to the moon, going to
Mars, she says. Im much more interested
in the inner space projectexploring the
depths of who we are.
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chance to impress colleagues with devotion to work. I once had dinner with a
man who bragged to me hed only gotten
four hours of sleep the previous night, she
recalled in a 2012 blog post. It was not
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Inspiration and feel-good stories to celebrate


International Happiness Dayand you.
by Patty Onderko

appiness is not a
frivolity or a luxury,
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secretary-general for the United Nations.
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shown that happy people are healthier, live
longer, give back more to their communities, cultivate stronger family and social
ties, and even make more money. The very
stability and well-being of every family,
school, neighborhood, town, state and
countryindeed, nothing less than the
future of humankind and our planet
depends on the personal happiness of
each and every one of us. The pursuit of
happiness has been recognized as a right
in the United States since the countrys
inception, but in 2011, the United Nations
acknowledged happiness as a universal
goal and aspiration, one that should be
encouraged and supported by the highest
laws of every land. In 2012, all 193 member
states of the U.N. General Assembly
agreed to declare an International Day of
Happiness, to be celebrated annually on
March 20.
[Happiness] is a deep-seated yearning
shared by all members of the human family.
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It should be denied to no one and available to all, Ki-moon wrote last year in his
message for the day. The International Day
of Happiness is a chance to remind the
global community that the well-being of a
people does not depend solely on the gross
domestic product (GDP) of their nation
(in fact, the opposite is true: The GDP of
a nation is determined in large measures
by the well-being of its inhabitants, say
economic psychologists such as Daniel
Kahneman, Ph.D.).
In the West, we have more financial
security and many more creature comforts
than at any point in history, yet our overall
life satisfaction has not increased, and our
rates of depression continually rise, says
Vanessa King, a board member and organizational leader at ActionforHappiness.org,
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tive social change that partners with the
U.N. to spread the message of happiness
and its impact on society. We need to think
more broadly than materialistic growth
and think about growth in other areas,
she says. The field of positive psychology,
led by Martin Seligman, Ph.D., author of
Learned Optimism, Authentic Happiness
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with Seligman at the Positive Psychology
Center at the University of Pennsylvania
in Philadelphia, synthesized the data
into 10 simple stepsand a wonderful
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all take to create happiness in our lives
and the lives of others.
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annual International Day of Happiness, as
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Mood Makeovers

Ever thought of yourself as a gloomy or anxious person who can never change? Or have you been through a tough time that has made
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psychology research. See how they made the switch and use their strategies to lighten up your outlook, too.

PATRICK GARMOE, 38
Omaha, Neb.
Occupation:
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at Travelex Insurance
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CourseExplorations.com
(a site that helps match
people with the best online
courses for them)

Motivation:
Five years ago, weighed down by
disappointment and uncertainty after losing his post at the Duluth
News Tribune as a business reporter, Garmoe needed more than a
new job. In journalism, I felt like I was always surrounded by cynical
people, and I was naturally drawn to them. But they were making me
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more positive people. I liked how they were actually excited about the
future and how they could make it better, rather than focusing on
what was wrong. I wanted to be more like them.

Positive practices:
1. Journaling. I journal for about 10 minutes every day on an
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template for what I write about, but I usually think through the
day and realize all the things Im thankful for. It helps me stay
focused on what really matters in life and keeps me appreciative
of all the ways Im blessed.
2. Cutting back at work. I realized that the hours I spent at work
did not necessarily determine how successful I was. So I started
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emails at night and on weekends. That gave me more time for
exercise and sleep, both of which helped me feel more productive
and focused when I was working, and not nearly as stressed.
3. Dealing with anger issues. Losing my composure a few times
over trivial issues made me realize I needed to handle disappoint!
ment in a healthier way. The Anger Workbook by Les Carter and
Frank Minirth as well as the book Boundaries for Leaders by
Henry Cloud, Ph.D., gave me a mental tool chest for helping me
manage frustrations. Ive learned that a bad day or a failed project
does not in any way signal that I was a failure.

Inspiring reads:
Getting Things Done by David Allen
48 Days to the Work You Love by Dan Miller

Happy ending:
My life is far brighter than it used to be. I used to be so negative,
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KRISTA RAUSIN, 44
Cape Coral, Fla.
Occupation: Author

Motivation:
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the waist down in a car accident. I felt so lost. I didnt know
how to parent a child in a wheelchair, but I knew I had to be
positive for her. There had to be a change.

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dent, I would wake up every morning and say thank you and
then write down the things I was thankful for. It helped me
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nate writing in my gratitude journal with meditating.
2. Meditating. I have Deepak Chopra and Oprah medita!
tions on my computer. Afterward I write down the focus
of that days meditation on a notepad so that later in the
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the notes with all the positive phrases, like Change your
intention and you change your path, by Chopra.
3. Running as a family. My daughter discovered racing
wheelchairs when she was in middle
school and she has raced in 11
marathons so far, many with
my husband. Ive started
to train with her, too.
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and 20s, I used to worry
about my weight and was
always down on myself.
But now that I see the
connection between mind
and body, I feel stronger
and braver than ever.

Inspiring reads:
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
Firstlight and When the Heart Waits by Sue Monk Kidd
Fire in the Heart by Deepak Chopra
The Secret and The Magic by Rhonda Byrne
The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor

Happy ending:
Rausin has written the kids books Mystic and Elle & Buddy
under the name K.D. Rausin. They both feature strong female
protagonists who use wheelchairs. She speaks at schools about
racing wheelchairs and setting goals no matter what your
ability. Her daughter is on the wheelchair track team at the
University of Illinois.
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ANITA MAHAFFEY, 57
San Diego
Occupation: CEO of Cool-Jams.com, a manufacturer and
retailer of specialty sleep products

Motivation:
After her third tough battle with a recurring head cancer cost her her left eye
and eyelid, she needed to learn to
love myself again. About a year later,
I looked at myself in the mirror
and decided that if cancer didnt
beat me, how the heck could I let
the loss of my eye beat me down?
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happened, but I could change how
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the decision to move on, I felt lighter and
more free.

Positive practices:
1. Performing random acts of kindness. I start my day by
thinking about how I can make life good for those around me.
I try to commit at least 10 acts of kindness each day. I might
let someone go ahead of me in line at the grocery store or send
a complimentary product to someone who has written to my
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positive and happy, it comes back to me in a big way.
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feeling more energetic, I go on a long hike, run, or practice Pilates or yoga. The key point is that Ive committed
to exercising every day for the rest of my life.
3. Eating chocolate. I dont want another bout of cancer
in my lifetime, so I try to eat mostly unprocessed foods,
fruits and vegetables. I love chocolate, though, so
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afternoon, I have my chocolate, a latte, and I think about
all the things Im grateful for especially my health.

Inspiring reads:
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who I really was inside. I focused on my strengths instead of my
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younger I was looking. Its interesting what happens to your body
when your mind is not dragged down by inner turmoil!
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FATIMA SCIPIO, 41
Trenton, N.J.
Occupation: Social worker

Motivation:
Scipio got on the positive track early. I had just come home
from college and had no idea what I was going to do. I was a lost
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1. Creating vision boards. Ive always made vision boards
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Film Festival on it because Id like to write a screenplay. I put
it on my dresser so that I see it every morning when I get out
of bed. Looking at my dreams in the face on a vision board is
very motivating.
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enters my mind, I immediately think of something positive
to counteract it before it plants itself too deeply. For example,
I didnt speak to one of my closest friends for over a month.
I had been calling her, and she didnt return my calls. I could
have thought that the friendship was over and wondered what
I did wrong, but I knew there was probably a good reason.
Turns out, her phone was not working, and her work schedule
was hectic on top of being a mother. It
had nothing to do with me.
3. Praying. My friends
and I have a daily prayer
time with each other.
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have these women
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Inspiring read:
H\Y5`W\Ya]gh by
Paulo Coelho

Happy ending:
The dreams on her
vision board have led
Scipio to become an berentrepreneur: In addition
to her day job, she has founded a
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entrepreneurial program for girls aged 8 to 17); wrote two
books, including 6cgg@UXm.+@]ZYDf]bW]d`YghcFY][b]bh\Y
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her positivity practices armored her with a resilience and
appreciation that allowed Scipio to use her mothers memory
as motivation.

Leading

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Innovation
How to mine your teams
collective genius
for breakthrough work
by Patty Onderko
Historically, weve thought of leaders and innovators as
belonging in two distinct categories. George Washington,
Winston Churchill and Franklin Delano Roosevelt: Those
are leaders. And legends such as Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas
Edison and Albert Einstein go in the innovators group,
right? Well, maybe.
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says Linda Hill, a professor of business administration and
the faculty chair of the Leadership Initiative at Harvard
Business School. Building organizations that can innovate
is the critical leadership task for the foreseeable future, Hill
says. Leaders today have to enable, encourage and recognize
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thing new and useful. But how? That question is at the heart
of what leadership means in this new century.
To answer it, we must reexamine many of our beliefs about
what it means to be a good leader. Just as we imagine all
innovators as genius tinkerers who gaze at the stars, we
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Collective Genius: The Art and Practice of Leading Innovation.
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common keys that enabled each of those organizations
to consistently innovate and excel in rapidly changing
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Harvard Business Schools leadership expert

Linda Hill, Ph.D., on:


being a boss: One of the hardest parts about being a boss is getting the right balance
between being a friend, being friendly and caring, and making good business decisions. So
many people get it wrong. Many of the people I work with are my friends, but my ultimate
responsibility on the job is to the enterprise. If theres a conict between [Harvard Business
School] and a friend, I choose the school, and that can be painful. And yes, some of my
relationships have suffered because of decisions that I had to make on behalf of the school, but
most people would say Ive been honest about it. You always have to be caring, especially if you
have authority over someone.
women in leadership: As humans, were more likely to bet on the potential of the person who
is most like us. If its all men in leadership, you can guess who they bet on the most. The research
is clear that a woman needs to work a lot harder than her male peers to gain the trust [of her
male supervisors]. So what happens is that women arent getting access to the most important
assignments, and they become de-skilled and lose condence. We need to face up to the fact that
very few companies are meritocracies. We need to start being more formalized and honest about
who gets which assignments [and promotions] and why. Im very frustrated at this point that the
numbers [of women in leadership positions in business] are not more proportionate.

how powerlessness can corrupt: The reason I became a professor is because Im interested
in economic development. I wanted people to be able to give voice to their values and have
good lives. When people say they had no choice but to act a certain way that was inconsistent
with their values, its because they felt they had no power or agency. And I want everyone to
have the choice to lead their lives according to their values.

the similarities between business leadership and parenthood: I think to be a parent you need to
be empathic, and you need that in business, too. You try to understand the person who is sitting
in front of you and look at him as a separate being. And be present! Sometimes when Im with
my [12-year-old] son, I have to say to myself, Linda, youre not being fully present! He calls me
annoying, but he left me a voice message the other day saying that he was my biggest fan.
chance to integrate ideas and expand
peoples thinking if you dont collaborate.
When Luca de Meo joined the marketing
team at Volkswagen in 2009 (he would
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accept or agree with them.

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disagreements led to success.
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having to go through gatekeepers who
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dismiss each other more easily.

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you absolutely must. The ideas so far
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EIGHT
MISTAKES
MOST
ENTREPRENEURS
MAKE
SUCCESS Publisher Darren
Hardy explains why following
conventional wisdom when
starting a business is a
deadly trap and shares how
you can defy the odds.

by Darren Hardy

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EIGHT MISTAKES

EUREKA!

You have an idea for a new business. You are


sooo excited that you start telling your friends
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this product solves a big problem in the market
(mistake). You make a vision board and start
drafting your business plan (mistake). You recruit
some family members and an enthusiastic friend
to work with you on it (mistake). You know you
are ready and prepared (mistake) and willing to
do whatever it takes to make this work (mistake).
All the above may sound like good things, but
following the textbook approach to entrepreneurial success is your biggest mistake of all.
Guess what: 66 percent of businesses fail
within eight years. Why are the odds so long even
for people who go out of their way to do everything exactly right? Thats what I set out on a
mission to discover.
The answers were startling. All the assumptions for this high failure rate (capital, location,
credit, inventory management, and competition)
were wrong. Overwhelmingly, failure was not
due to outside factors, but to an internal one.
And it wasnt economicit was emotional. The
unexpected and terrifying havoc experienced in
an entrepreneurs life is the greatest factor in why
most new business owners give up or go belly-up.
But its not going to happen to you. Not now.
Read, study and implement these preventive
measures to ensure the full potential of your
eureka moment.

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MISTAKE NO. 1
BEING A BIG THINKER and
trying to dent the universe.
As renowned universe-denter Sir Richard Branson
has said, when the first Virgin business began 40
years ago, there was no grand planespecially not
for a behemoth that would eventually employ 50,000
people around the globe. Had we tried to plan for such
a future, Branson once told Entrepreneur, we would
certainly have messed it up.
If you begin with illusions of grandeur, youll probably never get started, or as Sir Richard said, you will
mess it up. You will overestimate your projected sales,
you will overbuild and overspend on the perfect scalable systems, and while you are dreaming of your
contribution to human progress, you will miss payroll.
And then its game over.
Instead, start small. Start where you are. Ship what
youve got. Sell something today. Then improve. Focus
on just getting better every day, rather than on some imagined, lofty goal.
Now, Im not telling you to never set goals. In fact, if you dont give
yourself some direction, youll wander aimlessly into bankruptcy. But on
a day-to-day, practical basis, thinking too big paralyzes you and keeps you
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tionary yet or youre not changing the world, you have a convenient excuse
to wait, delay and continue to aim, aim, aim rather than work, work, work.
Youve heard it before, The journey of
a thousand miles begins with a single
step. Think about todays step. Then
w ith each step you take, work on
growing and getting better. In due time,
you might travel so far in your constant
growth that the world feels your step and
is slightly dented by it. It can happen!

Look, if youre going to get better, you have to


push yourself. If you push yourself, youre going
to fall. If youre not falling, youre not pushing.
Falling is part of getting better.
MISTAKE NO. 2
BEING EXCITED...
and expecting those
around you to be
excited for you.
Someone once asked me, How
successful does a person need
to be? I replied, Ah, I guess, as
successful as you can be. He said,
No, just more successful than your
brother in-law. Meaning, your
wife will be happy with you and
her life as long as its better than
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Like it or not, people are constantly comparing themselves
to each other. We only know how good or bad something is by
contrastits good, compared to what? Its easy for people to
read about celebrities and other superstar achievers and see
their success as something out of reach. But if someone in their
immediate circle, someone just like them, breaks out of the herd
of mediocrity, it eliminates all excuses. And most people have
become quite attached to their excuses. When you overcome
similar obstacles and succeed, youre making them look bad and
feel bad. Your success disturbs their status quo, and their ego
becomes vengeful.
Oh, sure, theyll say theyre happy for you. Theyll say they
support you and your dreams. But secretly (maybe even unconsciously), they are hoping you will fail. They are hoping you will
prove them right, that the fears that are holding them back from
also becoming a successful entrepreneur are valid. They may even
engage in covert tactics to sabotage your ambitions with weapons
of doubt, teasing, mockery, sarcasm and innuendo to ensure they
are right and their ego is once again secure.
Its natural to feel excited about your possibilities and potential,
but dont get carried away. Prepare yourself for the emotional
turbulence ahead, including the negative voices of the people in
your life.

MISTAKE NO. 3
BEING IN LOVE WITH
YOUR PRODUCT and not
your client.
You are passionate about your
product. You have spent countless hours working on it to make
it excellentthe best there is.
Unfortunately, the No. 1 seller in
any category is probably not the
best product. Look around you.
Whats the No. 1-selling restaurant in
the world? How about the best-selling
automobile, wine, insurance or face
cream? The best-selling brand is rarely the one
with the very best product. Instead, the No. 1-selling product in
every category is owned by the person who is the best marketer.
Like it or not, your product accounts for only 10 percent of
your businesss success, with 90 percent coming down to sales
and marketing. I am hereby putting you on notice: You are not in
the dry cleaning business, the insurance business, the mobile app
business or whatever industry covers your awesome product. You
are in the sales and marketing business, period. So you need to
become an expert at sales and marketing.
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must learn how to get inside the head and heart of your prospective clientto feel his desires, hopes, fears and problems. Learn
how to transmit this love through your sales and marketing
communication, and connect with the client heart to heart.
Only when your sales and marketing are on board will your
clients get on board. Then they will beat a path to your revolutionary product and fund your big dreams.

MISTAKE NO. 4
BEING CHEAP and
not investing enough
in people, marketing
andlearning.
Adages become adages because
they are tr ue. It takes money to
make money, is a perfect example.
In grow ing your business, there are a
thousand ways to spend your money, but
there are three that matter most: people,
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EIGHT MISTAKES

marketing and personal growth (learning). Lets focus on


people here.
As Jack Welch, former CEO of GE, said to me during an interview, No matter the innovations and changes in the marketplace,
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best players wins. In todays dynamic and highly competitive
marketplace, the main battle is for talent.
Check out Darren Hardys free video
series @ 8TragicMistakes.com.

You cannot pay too much for the best. In fact, A-level talent is
very inexpensive: A players will always produce above the wholesale price you are paying. But B and C players are very costly in so
many ways.
Considering that the largest portion of your operating costs is
likely to be consumed in salaries and wages, it is critical that you
get team-building right. Just one bad hire can sink you and your
business. The cost of hiring a poor performer is not simply what
you paid them. Its much higher. When you consider the time and
resources youll spend to replace them, the value of lost opportunities, and the chemotherapy your organization must undergo to
stop the cancer they usually spread, the cost of a poor-performing
team member is up to 15 times their annualized salary. Invest
up-front in quality people.

MISTAKE NO. 5
BEING LIKE YOUR
FATHER... and repeating
the leadership sins
of the past.
If you havent looked around
recently, you might have
missed some fast, dramatic
change! Because technology
has reached several tipping
points, we are liv ing not
through a state of linear progress, but in a time when change
happens at an exponential pace.
Futurist Ray Kurzweil describes this
phenomenon in his essay The Law of Accelerating Returns.
He says, We wont experience 100 years of progress in the 21st
centuryit will be more like 20,000 years of progress (at todays
rate). Put it this way: Well be developing the skill set to captain
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the Starship Enterprise rather than holding the reins on a horse


and buggy.
The patriarchal, top-down, do-it-because-I-said-so leadership
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more women are working. Minorities will soon be the majority.
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[ifYgZfcah\Y&$h\WYbhifm"@YUX]b[VUgYXcbk\UhkYgUk 
experienced and learned in that era would be wrong.
In the old days, economic competence was an entrepreneurs
most important skill. Now emotional intelligence has replaced it.
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set organizational controls, now they must foster collaboration.
Once the goal of the leader was to develop followers. Now it should
be to make leaders out of everyone.

MISTAKE NO. 6
BEING AMAZING...
and trying to do
itall.
Our culture celebrates
those who check of f
sprawling lists of tasks
every day. We exclaim
how busy, stressed
and overwhelmed we
are as if it were some
badge of honor.
It s n o t . T h i s
approach will cost you
everything: your personal
life, your business and all of
your dreams. In order to grow a business, you have to allow it to grow beyond you.
Think of yourself as the head coach. Your job is to draft the
game plan, recruit the players, and get them trained and equipped
to perform at their best. Then watch from the sidelines. If you
jump in and start throwing, catching, blocking and tackling, your
business will never win the Super Bowl. Imagine Bill Belichick
running to catch a pass during a game!
When you try to do it all, you bottleneck your business and
you become the constraint to its growth. Think of yourself as the
great talent broker. You are paid to bring the right people together
and help them do the work. When you have set the stage for their
success, stay out of their way.

MISTAKE NO. 7
BEING
SUCCESSFUL... and
avoiding belly flops.
The entire universe is built on duality.
Just as you cannot have day without
night, up without down or good without evil,
you cannot have success without failure. Its
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As a matter of fact, the process of success is a
sequence of progressive failures.
If you are succeeding only moderately, its
because you arent doing enough to challenge your
limits. My father taught me this on the ski slopes when I was 8
years old. At the end of the day, I ran up to him, excited to report:
Dad, I skied by myself all day and didnt fall down once! He
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Sensing my disappointment, he explained, Look, if youre
going to get better, you have to push yourself. If you push yourself,
youre going to fall. If youre not falling, youre not pushing. Falling
is part of getting better.
The only way to accelerate your success is to speed up your
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celebrate it. Youve grown.
The only thing holding you back from realizing your potential and accomplishing any goal your mind can conceive is fear.
If you can learn to turn fear into funsomething you pursue
rather than avoidthe top to your potential will pop open and
out will pour your greatness.

MISTAKE NO. 8
BEING SMART... and
not seeking the help
you need.
M i c h a e l Jor d a n d i d nt
win a championship for his
f irst seven pro sea sons.
A nd t hen Ph i l Ja ck son
became the Chicago Bulls
head coach, and the teams
for t u nes soon cha nged.
Kobe Br ya nt spent fou r
years trying in vain to win a
title. Then Jackson went to the

Lakers. The difference in both instances wasnt the playerit


was the coach.
I bet you are already good. But in order to become great, you
need help, as every superstar does.
Invest in your learning and growth. If there is one common
trait among the superachievers Ive ever met or studied, its that all
are avid learners. They are constantly looking for the edge, seeking
the insight that will allow them to improve and break through
their current ceiling.
As my mentor Jim Rohn taught me, You cannot achieve
beyond your current level of personal development. You dont
achieve goals. You grow into your goals. Seek the books, videos,
audio programs and seminars that will help you grow beyond your
current level of success.
There are great ideas surrounding you every day. You dont have
to originate them. You just need to grab them and apply them to
your situations. Steve Jobs didnt invent the mouse, the graphical
user interface, the MP3 player or the smartphone. But he made
them all better.
For every problem you have, someone has dedicated his or
her life, time and passion to becoming an expert in that area.
The longer you spend trying to dream up a new solution to
your problem, the less time you have to solve others and grow
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cuts in life, they do exist for success in business. The shortcuts are
charted by those who have already been where you are going and
have returned to give you the map of the safest and most expeditious route. This guidance will save you time, energy, money, pain
and anguish. The ones who have gone before you can warn you
where theres treacherous terrain and great dangers so you can
avoid them entirely.
Their expert and experienced direction just might save the life
of your business. S
The publisher of SUCCESS since its relaunch in 2008, Darren Hardy
is the best-selling author of H\Y7cadcibX9YWh. His new book is The
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SUCCESSAPRIL201567

Getting
Personal
About
Finance
Money expert Nicole Lapin
offers six tips to help
you live the life you want.

Purchase that daily latte, advises financial


expert Nicole Lapin. Surprised? Thats not her only
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Its not your mommas finance lesson, Lapin
says in describing her new book, Rich Bitch: A
Simple 12-Step Plan for Getting Your Financial Life
Together Finally. Throughout the book, she shares
personal anecdotes and examples, such as how she
painlessly eliminated a $5,000 credit-card balance
(details in No. 6 on Page 69).
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She avoids off-putting conventional terms and
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books title shouldnt be considered bad and that it
really just means a woman who stands up for herself,
while RichU``iXYghcUZi```]b[`]ZY"5ZcfaYf7B67
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guru for millennials, Lapin, 31, reported at the forefront of the Great Recession.
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Dream anymore. This is your dream and your
destiny. Its about taking it into your own hands,
Lapin says. You dont need a man or the right
schooling or to be born with a silver spoon in your
mouth. You do need a plan, thoughand here are six
tips from her 12-step plan:
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LAURA NOVAK

by Sally Deneen

TURNING
P
OI

SUCCESS asked 24 leaders from


many walks of life to look back on
their epiphanies, especially when they
reached birthday milestones30, 40,
50, 60 and even beyondand pass along
the lessons theyve learned. Their insights from
achievements and setbacks provide takeaways
that can guide you in making a difficult decision or
avoiding a major misstep.
by Jim Motavalli

NT

GREG GAYNE/FOX

CHRISTINE HA, Season 3 winner on


Foxs MasterChef and author of Recipes from My
HomeKitchen
Im 35. I learned at 20 that life can be very unpredictable,
and to survive, you have to learn to adapt.
The world doesnt stop for our mishaps, and we must
move on with fortitude. I was in college and doing well.
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symptoms, and years later I would be correctly diagnosed
with neuromyelitis optica [an autoimmune disease that
causes blindness].
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learning which friends were true and which were fairweatherwere dissipating. I was becoming more and
more comfortable in my own skin.

SUSAN BEVERLY,

HAROLD R. CALDWELL

director, global citizenship and


policy, Abbott Laboratories

BLAKE SHELTON, country singer and


judge/coach on The Voice

One thing that Ive discovered in my 30s is


that

I might not know everything.

I know thats hard to believe. I rushed


through my 20s working to establish
my career and was pretty damn sure
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30s, Ive learned to slow down a
bit and take in the moments and
listen. I make better decisions in
my 30s.

When I turned 30, there was a


noticeable shift. I had this aching
feeling that all of the passion and zeal
I had in my 20s to change the world
needed something more. I finally
realized I had to define my
purpose in life and then pursue
that purpose with intentionality.
Its my purpose that sets me
apart, not my passion. The world is
a complex place, with many moving
parts and characters. True change
in any society, by any player, is made
at a systemic, sustainable level.
As I rooted my purpose in this
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ship and my interaction with our
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have a role to play, and if we each do
our part, with passion, purpose and
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WILL.I.AM,

singer andproducer

[By age 40, I learned]

ART STREIBER/AUGUST

ED RODE/CBS

succe s s i s not
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Success is the
fuel to do bigger
things.

SUCCESSAPRIL201571

TURNING POINTS
JIM CALHOUN, president and CEO, Converse

I went through a number of jobs early in my career, working at Edelman public relations, Wilson Sporting Goods
and Nike. In the late 1990s, Nike was growing like a weed. It was easy to confuse the companys growth with your
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sportswear company Nautica in New York for the vice president title Id been pursuing. At the age of 32, I jumped at the
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U[ccXhk]h\h\Y]fWi`hifY"
I realized that getting the job youre not ready for can be just the worst experience. That was
a great lesson: A relentless climb up the corporate ladder, going after titles rather than a job in which you can contribute
and learn, can really get you into trouble. I wont make that mistake again.
A funny story from my time at Wilson: I was in charge of the volleyball program there when we got a request for
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but the ball became one of the stars of the 2000 movie Cast Away with Tom Hanks, and it turned out to be one of the
greatest product placements ever.

WAYNE PACELLE,

LISA FLETCHER

president and CEO,


The Humane Society of
theUnitedStates

As I head toward my 50th


birthday [in 2015], I am reminded
that success and accomplishment
require focus and concentration.
With so many portals to access
information, it is so easy to be
distracted and to forage for information endlesslyaccumulating
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a great deal of time and spinning your wheels. Tang ible
accomplishment takes discipline.
Identify major goals in your life,
concentrate on them and work
to achieve them. Those are the
elements of your life that youll
remember and that will last.

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hedge funds, analysts and brokers. And it soon became clear to me that there
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for two years while I gathered information on what was going on.
Finally, I talked to my yoga teacher, and he said, Usually the right thing
is to be loving and gentle, but very occasionally theres a student who

is a bully, hurting other people, and you have to wake them up


with a hard slap. It was a decisive moment. I decided that night to pull

the trigger on my campaign [telling everyone I could about what I uncovered].


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was right.
Id do it again, because thats the way Im wired: Im a bit of an Irish
hothead, and when I see an old lady getting mugged in
an alley, I cant just walk past.

MICHAEL HORN, president and CEO


of Volkswagen Group of America
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is everything. I was grateful for
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they helped me to really
understand the market and be
a leader. Ive learned [you
must] concentrate 200

percent on the job you


have rather than the one
you want to get.

I also learned to balance


life and home, because I had a
cerebral hemorrhage in 2002 and
was among the 10 percent who
didnt die. I went through a very
serious three-month crisis and
learned that working like crazy is
not everything.

PATRICK MCLEOD/GUEST OF A GUEST

COURTESY OF CONVERSE

COURTESY OF OVERSTOCK.COM

PATRICK BYRNE, CEO and founder of Overstock.com

LESLEY JANE SEYMOUR,

editor in chief of More magazine


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learned in business since turning
50 is patience. When you work for

COURTESY OF DAVERAMSEY.COM

large corporations, often things move


more slowly than you would like. [In]
quick-moving smaller private companies,
sometimes all you need is the approval of
the person at the top to move forward.
In larger companies, you need to build
consensus; if you are a smaller brand,
operate like an intrapreneur. No
one tells you this; you just have
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deliberate nature of larger corporations, you sometimes lose the
opportunity to move quickly on some things.

DAVE RAMSEY, best-selling personal-finance author and


host of radios The Dave Ramsey Show

Around the time I turned 30, I realized that results are generated
If my sales team makes more calls, has a better product
and serves customers better, the natural result is increased revenues.
Ever since I was a teenager, I have written out prioritized to-do lists. Now
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activities, recognize the steak-sauce priorities, accomplish goals and get the
results that are best for everyone in the organization.

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RICK CARUSO, CEO of Caruso Affiliated, a


real estate company that owns major shopping centers
inCalifornia

DOUG SHARP, president of global learning-services


provider GP Strategies Corp.

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large account. A few months in, we came across a technically
challenging problem, the outcome of which had cost, schedule
and political ramifications well beyond our scope of work.
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we should do?
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some thoughts, but Im not paying you for my thoughts. With
millions of dollars and professional
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learned to do my homework,
think before speaking and back
my recommendations with solid
rationale. As a leader, your input
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and maybe even your industry
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COURTESY OF GP STRATEGIES

JOHN RUSSO

At 25, I was a commissioner at a very big public utility. Some


of the engineers were casting shadows over certain facts to have
their projects accepted by the communities they served. Seeing
that helped me understand the importance of honor and integrity
in how you conduct yourself, and making sure its part of the
culture at the business youre running.
In the long run, being honest pays off in spades, and it has
in my organization for 20
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development projects through
governments is support from
the community, and it helps
immensely if you have a reputation for being honest and doing
what we say were going to do.

SUCCESSAPRIL201573

TURNING POINTS

JIM OLSEN, president of the

independent record label Signature Sounds

PHILIP PRICE

I would say turning 40 in 1998 was the turning


point when I realized something that still
holds true today: Our [Massachusetts-based]
company could be successful carving
out a particular niche rather than
just looking for ar tists who might
have commercial appeal. So we began
to work with a sustainable musical
community of Americana artists local
to the Northeast. They helped us
grow organically and have turned out
to be very good talent scouts for us.
We didnt have to go far for our A&R
[artists and repertoire] because our
family brought people in.

TOM SULLIVAN,

BADER HOWAR

I founded a successful construction company


when I was around 16, but I was always going out
and blowing the money by starting other crazy businesses [such as a travel-based TV show and a home
refurbishment company]. When I opened the first
Lumber Liquidators store in Massachusetts in 1996,
I could tell it was going to do well. I was 35 or 36 and
decided I wasnt going to do anything else unless it
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ideas could enter my head. And it turned out to be a
much better way to run a business.

COURTESY OF VELOCITY

founder and board chairman, LumberLiquidators

BRIAN D. KESSLER,

PROTON ONSITE-SUNHYDRO

CEO of Maui Toys

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I was 30 in 1988, when I started


Maui Inc. My dad invented a hula
hoop in 1950, but it hadnt been
updated in a long time. In the 1980s,
around the time of the hoops 30th
anniversary, I saw an opportunity for
outdoor summer toys, which at the
time were unimaginative. I never
expected to invent toys or consumer
products, [but] now I have developed
more than 2,600 new toys and hold
many patents. The lesson is you
have to always anticipate the

unexpected.

RAY EVERNHAM,

former crew chief for Jeff


Gordons NASCAR team and
ESPN analyst, host of the Velocity
Channels Americarna
From my 30s and heading into my
60sIm 57 nowIve moved along
a sliding scale of risk versus reward.
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know [and] was willing to take a lot
of risks. These days I take the time
to evaluate the risks and decide if
theyre actually worth taking. Im
still competitive and have that entrepreneurial drive, but now its based
on 30 more years of experience.

JOSEPH JANISHESKI/LIGHTROOM STUDIOS

When I was 24, my son was born, and I realized


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just being happy in the moment. I started negotiating my
contracts with consideration for the longer term, how the
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the game [only about half earn degrees, and 78 percent face
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retirement]. I went back to college and got the degree that
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retire because I wanted a more normal life.

JOE MANTEGNA,

LISA OCONNOR/ZUMA WIRE

actor, producer anddirector

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see the audience, but I heard the applause. In that instant, an
electric jolt went through me, and I knew I wanted to be an
actor more than I wanted anything else in my life.
I didnt get the part, but a week later I heard one of the
actors had sprained his ankle, so I sought out the drama
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p e ople dont end
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really care about.

SUZE ORMAN,

personal-finance author and


host of televisions The Suze
OrmanShow
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BRIAN BOWEN SMITH

GEORGE MARTIN,

PETER MAX, artist

BRAD TRENT

My biggest influence was my father, an amazing businessman who, by being creative and
innovative, inspired me to become an artist. But when I was in my early 20s, I met a yogi in Paris,
Swami Satchidananda, and was immediately captivated. I asked him if I could bring him to
America, he said yes, and soon after that he was talking to 70 people in my living room. Right there,
people volunteered $8,000 to $9,000, a lot of money in 1966, to get him established. I helped him
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consider them all as your friends. His message has served me well in business and in life.

MARTHA STEWART, founder/chief creative officer of Martha Stewart Living


Omnimedia and author (Clean Slate: A Cookbook and Guide, December 2014)
Stewarts lessons include:

NANCY KASZERMAN/ZUMA WIRE

Learn something new every day. This has always been my motto.
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Its only been in the past decade, after turning 70, that its dawned on me that every
great manager Ive known has shared one distinct, immutable trait that
really galvanizes people and organizations. I call it the generosity gene.

KAREEM ASSASSA

Being generous does not mean being soft or without


rigor. It means big in spirit. Generosity-gene managers give

GILL CHAMPION,

president and CEO of comic


book pioneer Stan Lees POW!
Entertainment
By the time I turned 50, I learned
an invaluable lesson: Never talk
until you listen . You have to
know when to stop selling. Its
been key to POW! coming up with
myriad new stories over the years
that tra nscend generat ions of
superhero fans.
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frequent, thoughtful feedback and coaching. They eagerly and openly give
credit where credit is due. They love to see people grow and get promoted.
They get a massive kick out of rewarding people in the soul with praise
and in the pocketbook with cash. And when the news is not good,
they do not sugarcoat hard messages; they understand people
prefer candor, and they deserve it.
Weve all had good bosses and bad along the way. The bad
ones were stingy, right? They played their emotions close to
their chest. They counted pennies. Usually such Scrooge`]_YVY\Uj]cfkUgbchUVcihgWU`fYgdcbg]V]`]hm"=hkUg^igh
about being tight.
Managers with the generosity gene are exactly the opposite of that; their instinct is always to go big with candor,
support, involvement, praise and, when appropriate, rewards.
The generosity gene has always been around. But in the last
decade, identifying it and giving it a name has been a heck of an
aha moment for me.
Contributing editor Jim Motavalli also wrote All-You-Can-EatMarketing for the March issue.

DAMON HIGGINS

Institute at Strayer University; chairman/CEO of GE 19812001

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These tools will make you a star photographer in your own right.
by Alyson Sheppard

Nikon D750
(NikonUSA.com)
Nikon and Canon are the Ford and Chevy of the camera world: Their specs and performance are usually
about the same, so deciding which to buy comes down to personal brand loyalty. The Nikon D750 is a great
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Canyon and the look of amazement on your face in a
single image. Place the Theta ($300) in the middle of
your kitchen table and nab a photo of your whole family
enjoying dinner. Upload the images and video to your
computer and zoom into every corner, exploring each
lifelike detail of your experience. The only real challenge
is creating a photo without your thumb in it.

Isnt My Phone Good Enough?


Anyone who has ever tried to print a photo taken on a smartphone knows that when quality matters,
you cant beat actual cameras. Yes, smartphone cameras are getting better, but one of their fatal aws is
that they lack optical zoom. That is, when you zoom on a smartphone, the lens does not actually seem
to move closer to the subjectit just lets you focus on a portion of an image, making it bigger but not
clearer. So while smartphone cameras are still ne for seles, they will probably never be good enough to
document your daughters wedding.
Many camera companies are trying to appeal to amateur smartphone
photographers by bulking up their highly portable, point-and-shoot camera
lines. Canon, for example, released ve new PowerShot cameras this year,
many of which are slim enough to t in your back pocket. And now most
digital cameras come with built-in Wi-Fi. That means they can instantly
connect and share high-quality images to your computer, tablet or even
phone. (Thats how pro photogs get such beautiful images in their Instagram
accountsthey transfer the shots straight from their real cameras.) But in the
end, if cost is your primary concern and you have no intention of ever working
for National Geographic, you can just stick with your iPhone. Because Canons
cant make phone callsyet.

A.S.

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BOOKS

Reading List
by Margaret Jaworski

Rejection Proof
How I Beat Fear and Became
Invincible, One Rejection at a Time
by Jia Jiang
When an investor rejected his pitch,
fledgling entrepreneur and app developer
Jia Jiang had a crisis of self-confidence.
To conquer his fear of rejection, Jiang
decided that every day for 100 days, he
would challenge his fear of no by asking
a stranger to say yes to a spur-of-themoment request.
He came up with an array of amusing,
creative and sometimes silly appeals
asking a random homeowner if he could
play soccer in his yard (yes), pleading for
a haircut at Petco (no), asking a Krispy
Kreme employee to customize doughnuts in the colors and shape
of Olympic rings (yes). Posted on YouTube, his doughnut adventure

went viral, and the ensuing publicity for his


experiment succeeded in helping him overcome
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During those 100 days, Jiang gained a new
understanding of what rejection means (one
person doesnt like or agree with an idea, or is
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it doesnt mean (that all your ideas or requests
will be denied). As Jiang points out, its easy to
forget that one no isnt the end of the story.
The author describes his thoughts and
feelings throughout the process, delves into
the psychology of rejection, and shares the
feedback he received. He closes each chapter
with a summation of the critical takeaways and
ends with a Rejection Toolbox, including advice
for readers to review when they need courage
or inspiration. Thankfully Jiang doesnt try to
aggrandize or oversell what hes done. He keeps
the tone lively and fun. Rejection Proof turns out to be an easy,
likable and instructive read. (April; Harmony Books; $25)

Stand Out
How to Find Your Breakthrough Idea and Build a Following Around It
by Dorie Clark
Early in her consulting career, Dorie Clark tried to get booked as a speaker at a local chamber of
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thought leader. So she spent the past decade sharpening her ideas and broadening her reach. Now
a sought-after speaker and consultant who counts Yale University, the World Bank and Google
among her audiences, she also teaches at business schools around the world. Stand Out is Clarks
way of sharing her experiences along with the advice of top experts to help readers identify, develop
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ideas into a sustainable moneymaking pursuit.
Clark pleads for readers to ask themselves about their goals and to look at their talents in
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convincing instructor of how to be seen and heard above the crowd. (April; Portfolio/Penguin; $27)

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Work Rules!
Insights from Inside Google
That Will Transform How You Live and Lead

In S imple Rules: How to Thrive in a


Complex World, authors Donald Sull and

by Laszlo Bock

K at h le en M. E i s en h a r dt
illustrate the value of
streamlining complex tasks
by breaking them down into
manageable bites. The authors
present research show ing
simple rules not only trigger
people to act, they also keep
them f rom aba ndoning a
decision once its been made.
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It seems theres no end to our fascination with


Googles corporate workings and zeitgeist. In this
latest addition to the genre, the companys head
of people operations proves that, for all we know,
theres much more to learn about Google.
Laszlo Bock, the man tasked with recruiting,
hiring and nurturing Googles workforce, reveals
the reasoning behind his approach to people
management, which often runs counter to typical
business norms. Among Bocks work rules: Take power away from your managers and
trust your people to run things; dont trust your gut; nudge a lot (small signals can lead
to large changes in behavior); pay commensurate with contribution, not seniority or
position; and always hire people who are smarter than you.
Bock presents an authoritative and compelling case, supporting it withwhat
else?Google metrics. He also shows how these work rules can be adapted to any
business. (April; Twelve; $30)

LINKS

to SUCCESS

In Brief

Find great reads

@ store.SUCCESS.com.

Four Seconds
All the Time You Need to Stop
Counter-Productive Habits
and Get the Results You Want
by Peter Bregman
A four-second time-outthe duration of a deep
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up and being successful on any given day, says bestselling author and consultant Peter Bregman.
This quick pause can be powerful enough
to subvert a poor decision and replace it with a
smarter one, writes Bregman, a Harvard Business
Review columnist who scored big with his last book, 2011s 18 Minutes: Find Your
Focus, Master Distraction, and Get the Right Things Done.
The time frame matters less than the objective. Bregmans point is that a quick
time-out is all you need to take a step back, override knee-jerk responses, reassess
your behavior and adjust your reactions. He aims to help readers improve personal
and professional interactions and optimize their work habits through incremental
changesditching the urge to be perfect, making time for rituals, being helpful instead
of nice, accepting criticism and establishing boundaries with others. While the ideas
arent revolutionary, Bregmans amiable style, positivity and encouraging advice are
enough to keep the readers attention. (February; HarperOne; $26)

Former George W. Bush White House press


secretary Dana Perino opens up about her life
before, during and after her
tenure at 1600 Pennsylvania
Ave. in And the Good News
Is: Lessons and Advice
from the Bright Side. Perino
explains why optimism is
cr itical in high-pressure
positions as well as how to
disagree without offending,
stay centered and be true to
yourself, plus other life lessons. There are no
headline-making revelations, but her personal
story and insider experiences add up to an
edifying read. (April; Twelve; $26)
In Strategy Rules: Five Timeless Lessons
from Bill Gates, Andy Grove, and Steve
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a nd M ic h a el C u s u m a no,
professors at Harvard and
MIT respectively, examine
this trinitys shared ideas and
strategies. The authors distill
their subjects approaches
into these principles: Look
forward, but use reason when
thinking of the past; make
big bets w ithout betting the company;
build platforms and ecosystems, not just
products; exploit leverage and power; and
shape the organization around your personal
strengths. Their studies prove useful to
entrepreneurs and managers alike. (April;
Harper Business; $30)

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Intense
Intention
Living deliberately is the key to a results-lled life.

THE

RESULTS

GUY

TONY JEARY
The RESULTS
Guyis a strategist
and author
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built-in voice-recorder app?
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to improve productivity by 1 percent.
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and see how much more quickly
they come.

3. Consider all ideas carefully.


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how would we perfect it?
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NUTS & BOLTS

Email Marketing Done Right


Everyone has a personal pet peeve when it
comes to email marketing correspondence.
Maybe you hate seeing emails riddled with
typos, or being bombarded by too many
messages from the same
company.
If you dont like
such junk filling up
your inbox, you can
bet that your customers
dont want it from you either.
Thats why you should be doing
everything you can to keep your
company off the block list.
Here are a few basic
rules to follow when
planning your email
marketing campaign:

1. Get permission. Theres nothing more annoying than


receiving unwanted email. Ask for permission to add
customers to your mailing list, and also ask how
often they want to hear from you. Make it
easy for recipients to adjust frequency or
unsubscribe.

2. Dont barrage customers


with email. Yes, you might be having
a sale, and thats exciting, but your customers
dont need to get an email about it more than once a
day (and even that might be too much).

3. Be honest in your subject line. What is your email


really about? Deliver what you promise. Make sure the links
in the email go to a specic landing page for the oer, not your
general home page.

4. Keep your contact list updated. If customers opted in,


they want to hear from you regularly. If certain addresses havent
opened or clicked on anything in a long time, you might need to
reach out for permission again.
Rieva Lesonsky, CEO of GrowBiz Media

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Kids will spend 26 minutes


texting really important
messages.
How about two
minutes to brush
their teeth?
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Leading Innovation
(Continued from Page 61)

striving to create something new and useful.


Innovation comes only from lots of trial and
errorand those errors can be costly, in time
and money.
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says. So while its commonly expected that
leaders be decisivewe present a boss
with several ideas, for example, and count
on her to choose one winning concept
innovative leaders let multiple ideas play
out simultaneously. An animator on the
Pixar movie Toy Story 2 gave a character
a slightly arched eyebrow in one scene
that the director, upon review during the
dailies, felt was too sly for the innocent,

critically acclaimed and earned more than


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When Bill Coughran joined Google as
senior vice president of engineering in
2003 (he left in 2011), he was tasked with
developing a comprehensive data storage
system. Two big ideas emerged as possible
solutions: One group wanted to build a
whole new system from scratch, and the
other wanted to build storage layers on top
of their current system.
No one in the organization could
know for sure which system would be best
in the future, Coughran told the Collective
Genius authors. I did not want to be top-

While its commonly expected that leaders


be decisivewe present a boss with several
ideas, and she chooses one winning concept
innovative leaders let multiple ideas play out.
straightforward fellow. So the animator
drew the eyebrow to be less mischievous.
But weeks later the director, Lasseter,
returned to the animator and told him
how that half-second of raised eyebrow
had made him rethink the character and,
in fact, the whole story. Not only was
the subtle ironic gesture restored, but
other scenes in various stages of production were revised in consideration of this
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table, if the director hadnt been able to
hold opposing views of the character in
his mind until they could merge, none of
that could have happened, and the story
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in part because Lasseter allowed changes
to the story until the very end. But the
director defended his often frustrating
method: We need to focus on quality,
and that only happens by iterating. If
we lock in the story, we will be disappointed. I know it would save us pain,
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that refused to change. Toy Story 2 was
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down about this. So he let both teams


build their prototypesfor two yearsto
the point where both could be rigorously
tested. The result: Neither solution was
per fect, but the layering approach
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build-from-scratch team would continue
its work on the next-generation system,
which would help Google become one of
the worlds most valuable brands.
E xperiment loc ally. If youre
already part of a national or global brand,
you know that maintaining cohesive
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markets leaves little energy for creating
new initiatives. Its easy for far-f lung
employees to defer to headquarters stanXUfXg UbX]hgYUgmZcf<EZc`_hc]bg]gh
they follow them. But that means you
lose the creativity, local knowledge and
innovation that the smaller outposts can
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When eBay acquired the G er man
auction website Alando in 1999, that site
was moved from the local servers to the
parent companys global platform. But
Alando had been known in Germany for
creating quirky, successful promotions
and for quick responsiveness to local

trends. Now all site changes had to go


through corporate, a process that could
take months.
Philipp Justus, eBay Germanys new
leader, considered Alandos promotions
and frequent user-experience changes too
valuable to let go, so he made the risky
move to switch back to local servers for
some of their micro-projects, as he called
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and passion.
The micro-projects were so successful
that eBays corporate leaders encouraged
other international sites to adopt them.
Not only that, eBays leaders recognized
the power that local sites had to try out
and test new ideas. Instead of changes
coming from top-down, they started at the
bottom and grew upward.
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members to devise and test new ideas on a
smaller scale.

Believe in everyones genius.


If you dont believe everyone has a slice
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tells SUCCESS. The role of a leader is to
get the best out of everyone. While she
admits that not everyones slice is the
same size, she says innovation happens
when everyone contributes. And no team
members will contribute if they feel that
their ideas arent taken seriously.
She was particularly impressed when,
at a Pixar meeting, one animator acted
out a scene, comically prancing around
the room to show how he thought it should
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shouted feedback, as if it were an improv
show. In the end, the group rejected his
version of the scene, but the whole room
gave him a round of applause, and he
grinned as he sat down.
That was a perfect example of valuing
the contributor even if you dont always
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Reward people for taking the risk of
sharing, she recommends, or you risk
missing out on a truly innovative idea. S
Contributing editor Patty Onderko also wrote
the Positivity article in this issue.

ACTION PLAN
TURN YOUR KNOWLEDGE INTO POWER
10 Actions You Can Take Right Now

LEND A HAND

EVERYTHINGS
NEGOTIABLE

Within the next


24hours, slip
away from your
responsibilities to
assist someone in
need. Giving puts
you in an abundant
mindset that will open
you to opportunities.

If youre contemplating
a major purchase,
resolve this instant to
negotiate for a better
price. Then do it!
(PAGE 68)

R&R PRIORITY
Allot time to recharge
so you can perform at
your best today and
every day. Take breaks
(to stroll, fetch water or
greet a colleague, for
example) at work and
dont skimp on sleep.

PERSPECTIVE
CHECK

JOY BREAK,
ANYONE?

When weighing an
action, pause to
analyze your ultimate
intention. Then act in
a way that aligns with
your intention. Begin
this habit right away.

At some point during


the day, do something
that makes you happy
for its own sake
something absolutely
aimless. Itll brighten
your mood!

(PAGE 45)

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9 10

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GET MOVING

REV UP YOUR
SOCIAL LIFE

BREW
INNOVATION

MAKE LIKE
ABEAR

EMAIL
ETIQUETTE

Feeling glum? Rather


than staying in and
having a junk-food
binge, call a friend
ASAP and schedule an
appointment for a fun
get-together.

Before punching out


tonight, encourage
everyone on a current
project to provide
input and contribute
to the vision. If
youre a solopreneur,
solicit ideas from a
trustedadviser.

A supportive squeeze
has proved to prevent
illness, so be sure
that you hug at least
one person before the
dayends.

Set aside a half-hour


early tomorrow to
assess your marketing
contacts. If they
havent opened your
emails or clicked inside
them in a long time,
ask permission to
keepsending.

Program at least 30
minutes of physical
activity into each day
from now on. This
practice will boost
your energy and
long-termhealth.
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