America come the general election. We will turn the calendar page from December 2015 to January 2016. There are a lot of changes going on in the world. Whether they are for the better or for the worse remains to be seen. To me, airports do not bring a sense of farewell. Instead, they instil in me a sense of hope, of new beginnings and the thrill of the unknown. Because to go to an airport means your life is changing. To board that plane, to hand the air steward your boarding pass, to touch down in somewhere totally unfamiliar to you is the point where your life takes a path not yet charted or confined by the obligations of your life back home. Why am I spouting so much about airports? I hope to be at one by next year, thats why. Im 17 this year and in my country, this means having to take the SPM or O-Levels. And the results of this potentially life-altering examination could either have me on an airplane to somewhere new and exciting or land me in a local college. I dont mean to imply that local colleges in Malaysia are bad. Far from it, actually. Its just that I have been dreaming of going to the UK ever since I was six. My family isnt very rich and with my sick grandmother to take care of, funds arent generally sufficient to send me abroad. Plus, theres also my younger sister. If we used every cent to fly me to the UK, where would she be? Basically, what Id really like to achieve this year, is to get 9A+ for my SPM, the best results one can get. Another thing I want to achieve is to help bring about social equality for women. If there is anything Ive seen of the world in my 17 years on Earth, it is that it is capable of change. Why is it that society finds it easy to accept a phone that responds to your fingers tapping on its screen but shuns women having equal rights? Because it doesnt affect them, thats why. A phone that is sensitive to touch is something wholly new and considered a technological miracle but women having equal rights? Thats none of our business. Besides, our ancestors laid down the rules, not us. Why should we bother, right? Wrong. I see women toiling every day to feed their families and yet, at the end of the day, they receive less pay than their male counterparts who did the exact same work. Did you know that African-American women earn 64 cents and Latina women 56 cents for every dollar earned by a Caucasian man? Women inequality and racial bias. Nice. Even more worryingly, a WHO (World Health Organisation) article has revealed that 1 out of 3 women worldwide have experienced either intimate partner violence or non-partner sexual violence in their lifetime. It could be your daughter or your sister. Would you take that risk? You see, people get nervous when I say Im a feminist. To them, being a feminist is synonymous with hating men and thinking women are the superior race. But being a feminist does not mean that. It means wanting equal rights for all, to be willing to fight for the equality that womankind deserve. I am a feminist because if a man is in a room full of women, he is ecstatic. But if a woman is in a room full of men, she is
terrified. I believe that as a society, we need to continue to encourage people to break
stereotypes and recognise the contributions each one of us, be it male or female can make to the workplace or even to our countries. I dont know if you know this but there is an unconscious bias against Asians in most pre-dominantly white countries. Even in movies or TV shows, Asians are usually portrayed as the bookish nerd who gets straight As and has really small eyes. News flash: not all Asians are like that. Not all of us can speak Mandarin. Not all of us have tiny beady eyes. And yes, most of us can speak English. I find it really infuriating when in movies, the white characters go Ching chang chong or whatever when they are trying to imitate Mandarin. Those words do not even exist in the Chinese language! Also, just because you dont understand a language, that doesnt mean it gives you the right to make fun of it. I mean, how would you like it if we Asians say our ABCs in an exaggerated fashion to imitate English? So, what I want to do is make people see that Asians are not something to make fun of. We are humans. We have feelings too. Open your large blue eyes and take in the world around you. The world doesnt just consist of one race. Recently, a survey sponsored by the Committee of 100 in the US revealed that 1 in 4 Americans has an Asian-American bias. And thats not all. People who look Middle Eastern are regarded with deep suspicion because it is a common misconception they are all suicide bombers or are members of ISIS. Ironically, these white people who are racist see the world in black and white but what really matters to them in terms of skin colour is not black and white but rather just white. Another thing I want to achieve in my lifetime is for the people of the world to accept the LBGTQ community. For the most part, I think the world has taken baby steps to accepting the love between two individuals regardless of gender. But for the homophobic people in this world, that acceptance is a long way off. This is something that will always baffle me. How can they look at gay couples and think that its unnatural? How can anyone look at the face of love and say Oh yes, thats disgusting? I believe we should be allowed to love who we want to. If we let our children watch a movie in which a mermaid princess trades her tail, the very essence of her magic to meet a human prince whom she has never spoken to but all will work out in the end because true love conquers all, how is letting them believe two men or two women can fall in love any less outrageous?