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Parents experiences of living with an adolescent diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder
Watson, 2012), suggesting that parents of
children with ASD were more stressed than
other parents. A 10-year survey of parents of
older children and adults with autism by
Barker et al. (2011) found that although
parents anxiety levels fell over this period,
their levels of depressive symptoms
remained stable and at times when behaviour was more difficult, they worsened. Negative perceptions of the impact of having a
child with autism also increased during
adolescence (Carr & Lord, 2013). Further
sources of stress for these parents are lack of
professional support and social attitudes
resulting from a lack of understanding
(Glazzard & Overall, 2012), concerns about
the childs future (Faso et al., 2013), and
feeling isolated and stigmatised due to
peoples misjudgement of their child
(Wallace et al., 2013).
Effects on relationships
A UK study compared families with and
without children having any form of
disability and found that families with a
disabled child were significantly more likely
to be a single parent (Blackburn et al.,
2010). However, Freedman et al. (2012)
found, using American population data, that
divorce and separation were no higher in
families of a child with autism. Hartley et al.
(2011) found married partners were able to
support each other to cope with the challenges of parenting adolescents with autism,
although when fathers were distanced from
their child it could cause marital dissatisfaction. The equivocal nature of these findings
means it is important to explore in more
detail the impact on parental relationships
of raising a child with a diagnosis of ASD. It
is not just the effect on the parental relationship that is important, but also on other
family members, such as siblings. Research
has shown that parental time spent with a
disabled child is disproportionate, with
obvious implications for siblings (Welch et
al., 2012).
Methods
Participants
An opportunity sample was recruited from a
mainstream school-based support group for
parents of children with autism. A total of
nine parents participated (five mothers and
four fathers), with an average age of 41 years
(age range 30 to 50). Between them, they
were parents to six children with a formal
diagnosis of ASD (one girl and five boys),
who were aged between 11 and 16 (mean
13). All the children had attended mainstream educational settings throughout their
education and currently attended a mainstream secondary school (approximately
1400 students) in the East Midlands.
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Parents experiences of living with an adolescent diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder
An autism spectrum disorder had been diagnosed between the ages of 4 and 12 years
(median 10.5). The parents were biological
parents, apart from one set of adoptive
parents (child adopted <12 months) and
one stepfather, since the child was 3 years of
age. All families had two or more children
but only one child with autism. All participants were White British and in full- or parttime employment. Seven of the parents were
married and the remaining couple were in a
long term relationship.
Materials
The interview schedule was based on a questionnaire previously used by Ludlow et al.
(2011), to examine challenges faced by
parents of children with ASD. Additional
researcher designed questions were included
to explore the following areas: aspects of
school that contributed to the difficulties
faced; how parents perceived their partners
views compared with their own; and how the
advice they would give to someone whose
child had just received an ASD diagnosis.
A pilot interview was conducted to assess the
suitability of the additional questions; this was
not included in the analysis as the child
attended a different school.
Procedure
Individual interviews took place either in
school or at the participants home,
depending on the wishes of the parent. The
interviewer worked as a teaching assistant at
the school, having established and facilitated
the parents support group she was known to
all the parents and their children. Each
participant was provided with an information sheet and informed consent was
obtained. The interviews lasted up to 50
minutes. The interview schedule was
followed, with additional follow-up and
probing where appropriate. Interviews were
digitally recorded and transcribed verbatim.
Names and personal information were made
anonymous during transcription to maintain
confidentiality. The participants and their
families were assigned fictitious forenames.
Educational & Child Psychology Vol. 31 No. 4
Data analysis
The complete transcripts of all nine interviews were analysed following the methods of
thematic analysis described by Braun and
Clarke (2006); a six-stage data-driven
method. The researcher conducted the
interviews, transcription and thematic
analysis, allowing for full familiarisation and
reflection upon the data. The transcripts
were initially coded, an iterative process
leading to the development and review of
main themes and sub themes. Finally,
extracts were selected to demonstrate a
theme with subsequent analytic review. Prior
to inclusion in the results section some of
the data was minimally edited to remove
non-words, occurrences of partial sentence
repetition and superfluous information to
improve the readability of the extracts. Great
care was taken to preserve content accuracy.
This method was chosen as a means of
drawing themes from across the full set of
interviews and was one way to report on the
experiences of the participants.
Sub-themes
Difficulties faced
by parents
Effects on
relationships
Impact upon
self
Diagnosis and
support
Coping
strategies
School issues
The future
Preparation. Concerns.
Number of
participants
mentioning
theme (N=9)
Effects on relationships
The strength of the relationship between
mother and child was very clear in all interviews.
Its like she [daughter] can kind of only attach
to one person, if you like and that is Sarah and
not me, which can be seen as quite negative but
then it can be claustrophobic for Sarah because
she is always at Sarah. (Dave)
The father perceived his daughter has a
single focus with relationships: her mother.
He and his wife were at extremes in their
relationship with their daughter; neither was
seen as ideal. Four parents also spoke of
attempting to ensure siblings received
adequate parental involvement and the need
to justify the actions of their child with ASD
to siblings.
Parents experiences of living with an adolescent diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder
Impact upon self
A father explained how he felt his personality contributed towards the impact of
having a child with autism.
It [life with child] is difficult, you know all the
time really. But Im a different person really to
what Amanda is, yeah. Things affect me, Im
a worrier [laughs], you know and everybodys
different thats the thing. I worry about the
most littlest thing, which is probably why Ive
been, [pause] yeah, quite poorly with things.
(Richard)
Richard acknowledged his anxious personality meant the experiences of living with a
child with autism affected him to a greater
degree than his wife. He found the constant
stresses had taken their toll and resulted in
ill effects on his health.
Diagnosis and support
All participants referred to the process or
outcomes of having a diagnosis, suggesting
this was significant for parents. As a teacher
of children with autism Clare was well aware
of the autistic signs her son exhibited for
over five years.
When I first found out about Daniel, I knew
what hed got, I knew. But when they tell you
its a bit Oh you go through that kind of like
a grieving stage that you think Oh, whats
going to happen to him in the future? Whats
going to happen with things hes not going to
do? You go quite negative at first but then you
have to get round to the idea and you have to
be positive. You have to try and think of all the
things that they are good at, they can do. All
the good qualities about that child because
theyve not changed, thats who they are.
(Clare)
Diagnosis confirmed her instincts, yet an
emotional response to the confirmation was
still experienced, not unlike grief; initial
shock followed by a sense of loss. Without
the diagnosis she perceived her son might
grow out of this, diagnosis removed this
belief. Diagnosis brought more questions
than answers and left her with a negative
perspective which required a cognitive shift
to reframe her thoughts enabling her to
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Discussion
The main themes were broadly in line with
those of other studies (Bundy & Kunce,
2009; Fong et al., 1993; Ludlow et al., 2011).
Parents faced multiple daily struggles as a
result of the behaviours their child
displayed. The pervasive nature of autism
made constant demands on parents psychological and physical well-being, creating
imbalances within relationships and family
functioning. Receiving a diagnosis helped
these parents accept autism as a part of their
child, enabling them to work together and
support each other (Samios et al., 2012).
Limited support or advice around coping
strategies was offered at diagnosis. Families
were often dependent on individual family
circumstances. Given the well-being benefits
of the psychological coping strategies
described in the introduction, parents and
their children could potentially benefit from
education and psychological interventions
delivered by EPs post-diagnosis to promote
successful coping earlier. To enhance family
relationships Flippin and Crais (2011) advocated fathers involvement earlier in parent78
Parents experiences of living with an adolescent diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder
This study has highlighted the particular
importance that school issues and thinking
about the future have for parents, which has
important ramifications for the way that
those involved with the family work with
them. The equivocal nature of the findings
from previous studies regarding the impact
of raising a child with special educational
needs on the family unit is important to
explore. This study offers support to findings
from other UK based studies that parents of
children with ASD do struggle to maintain
personal relationships as a result of the time
and energy invested in supporting the child.
The inclusion of fathers here is also important as previous work has typically focused on
the views of the mother. Knowing that whilst
there are similar stresses experienced by both
parents, the fact that fathers articulate some
differences in their experiences is an important consideration for those working with the
family. These issues could be targeted
usefully, for example, by EPs to aid family
functioning and help plan for the future.
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