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I've now updated the concept for 2015 - and it's now a totally different report.
I think you're going to enjoy it and I believe if you take the time to read every
word in this report, it will definitely help you tremendously!
And once this concept is firmly ingrained into your mind, it creates a very
obvious formula for fast success with just about any goal.
And the best part...
It especially works great for having success with women!!
...whether
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attracting women.
meeting new women.
re-attracting a particular woman.
getting women aroused.
At any rate, he tries this approach 12 more times on different women and it
never works.
Finally, the light bulb goes off...
He says to himself, "Let me try something new."
With his new strategy, he now walks up to a woman and starts the conversation
by saying:
"Hello. My name is Sam."
It's not too creative. But it's sensible. It's much better than his 'old way'. And
now some women are responding to him better.
(Result: He has improved his strategy.)
He's now able to talk to women longer without them walking away. And
occasionally he'll get the woman's phone number.
But there's still one more problem.
He hasn't changed his beliefs.
Basically, he's still the same guy with the same outlook.
In terms of his PROFILE of beliefs. Even though he has changed his strategy:
He still believes (deep down inside) that ALL women instantly see him as
being weird.
He still believes that he has to 'overwhelm a woman' with a bunch of
flowers/gifts. Because according to him, this is what EVERY woman expects.
He still believes that ALL women are looking for a guy who is tall and ripped.
And because that doesn't describe him, he projects an 'inferior'
persona/energy.
He still believes that just because 'he hasn't had too much success with
women in the past' that automatically means he will never have success.
(The list goes on.)
Strategies
Bad Strategies (F -)
Beliefs
Good Beliefs (A)
Type 2
Bad Beliefs (F -)
Type 3
Type 4
Bad Strategies (F -)
Bad Beliefs (F -)
Result/Pattern
At times women will
be into him (maybe
even in love) but the
attraction/love and
chemistry is very likely
to fade after awhile.
At times women will
be into him (maybe
even in love) but the
attraction/love and
chemistry is very likely
to fade after awhile.
A much higher chance
of meeting the right
woman + keeping the
fire burning for a long
time.
He has a hard time
meeting women.
At times, he will have
a woman become
attracted to him and
even fall in love, but
then they end up
quickly losing
interesting.
And of course there are guys who are average (C), below average (D) or
exceptional (A+) in those two categories.
It's important to know that you can always shift from Bad Strategies/Bad Beliefs
Great Strategies/Great Beliefs
lol.
I wasn't saying anything about 'car fun'. I can't
remember exactly what I said, but I think I slowed down
for some reason and somehow a TRIGGER must have went off
in her brain (probably based on her past experiences with
guys + her beliefs about guys + her beliefs about guys'
expectations)...
She said something to the effect of "You guys are all the
same. You really think you're the first to try THAT move
on me... (She was smiling like she was on to me. But I
was super confused...at first.) She continued, "I know
what's about to happen next. Here's the part where you
ask for a blow job. I'm not dumb. (Still smiling as if
she was on to me.) I know you're about to ask. But you
can't park here though. You have to find a better spot
blah blah blah."
I just looked at her - smiled - and said something like:
"Of course. Yeah... Let's find a better spot blah blah
blah." :)
And by the way, there was another report (I forget which
one) where I talked about hooking up with a super crazy
girl who flipped out on my in the hotel room...
Well. Same girl. Different day.
So that's an example of 'my words/actions' getting twisted in a way that
benefitted me.
I just basically said something random and then slowed the car down ...and
somehow that MORPHED into the 'blow job equivalent' to the corny teenager
yawning and putting his arm around his date in the movie theater.
At any rate, this 'BJ that fell in my lap' experience (corny pun intended)
illustrates how a woman could ASSUME a guy means X when he really means
Y...purely based on her set of (orange) beliefs about guys...
A person's beliefs determines how they interpret their experiences.
A person's beliefs determines how they interpret their experiences.
A person's beliefs determines how they interpret their experiences.
You see, here's the break down.
Above Average Guys might complain a little bit - but after the 'complaining
Super Desirable Guys (us) understand the importance of upgrading and applying
a new strategy + upgrading our beliefs.
So what we're getting at is the more we are able to decrease these orange
beliefs, the more success we'll have with women (...and with life/goals/other
areas/etc.)
And here's the pattern that I noticed - specifically.
In reality: He should be saying: "Recently. She hasn't been in the mood as much
as in the past."
They say things like:
"I don't know what it is, but [ALL] women don't like me."
In reality: He should be saying: Some women like me. Some women don't.
OR...
Some women are attracted to me at first glance. Some (for some unknown
reasons) are attracted to me at first glance.
Let's dig deeper!
Let's look at Sam's PROFILE of beliefs.
Let's convert them into clear/sensible beliefs.
He still believe (deep down inside) that ALL women instantly see him as being
weird (even though his strategy has improved).
The reality:
Some women make initial judgments based on a little bit of information.
Some women do not make initial judgments based on a little bit of
information. And they are interested in meeting new guys and getting to know
them.
He still believes that he has to 'overwhelm a woman' with a bunch of
flowers/gifts. Because this is what EVERY woman expects.
The reality:
Some women expect a guy to go above in beyond early on.
Some women do not expect a guy to go above in beyond early on.
He still believes that ALL women are looking for a guy who is tall and ripped.
The reality:
Some very attractive women are only interested in a guy's physical
appearance.
Some average-looking women are only interested in a guy's physical
appearance.
Some unattractive women are only interested in a guy's physical
appearance.
Some very attractive women value a guy's personality (and how he
treats her) much more than how he looks.
Some average-looking women value a guy's personality (and how he
treats her) much more than how he looks.
Some unattractive women value a guy's personality (and how he treats
her) much more than how he looks.
NOTE: As you can see, you can flesh it out to multiple levels if you wanted to.
He still believes that just because 'he hasn't had too much success with women
in the past' that automatically means he will NEVER have success.
The reality:
Some guys who haven't had too much success with women (or their wives
over the course of a few years) will continue this pattern for the next 10+
years.
Some guys who haven't had too much success with women (or their wives
over the course of a few years) will BREAK this pattern and start having a
strong impact on women for the next 10+ years.
Some guys who have had a lot of success with women in the past will
BREAK this pattern and end up falling off track.
Some guys who have had a lot of success with women in the past will
continue to have success (or end up improving some more).
I refer to this process/tactic/exercise as: "The Power of Some."
Some people will see the brilliance of this simple tactic.
Some people will not.
One of my favorite quotes is: "The past does not equal the future!"
A 500lb man who has never been in shape in his life (can change his strategy +
beliefs) about fitness. And if he makes the right decisions in the future. He will
eventually get in shape.
And that's because: "The past does not equal the future!"
Every person's future is determined by their decisions.
And if you have the right beliefs + the right strategy, you stand a pretty chance
of making Great Decisions that will lead to Great Results (A Better Future).
A guy who has never had success with women ==> Changes his strategies and
beliefs ==> Success with women.
It's amazing how simple it is.
It increases your clarity - instantly!
You see, it may seem subtle, but the moment (the second) you start thinking like
this - more often - you will wipe out a lot of orange beliefs that are in your brain
instantly.
I was talking to buddy years ago (very smart)(and has had lots of success with
women in the past) who was in a dating slump. Long story short, he ended up
saying that he needs to move to another state because it seems like ALL of the
women are in relationships.
Keep in mind, he didn't actually say:
ALL women here are in relationships... but it was worded in a way where it
created the feeling (to him) that all women are in relationships.
Can you see how he ended up expanding the orange in his brain?
Now let's talk about the Logical 2 Prong.
The weird thing about this whole thing is the epiphany of this very simple system
happened in two pieces. The last piece happened in June 2012.
The first piece (the biggest piece) happened some time back in 2011.
Basically, I had this huge epiphany about how having success with anything
(i.e. women, goals, etc.) all comes down to knowing The Logical 2 Prong and
then putting all of your energy into it.
I dont know about your epiphanies, but when I have them, they generally have
the same structure.
For the most part, its something very simple that I kinda already know, but I
now see the power of it on a deeper level...if that makes sense.
How did this epiphany originate?
Well, it wasn't just from thinking on my own...
It all started (and I referenced this a few times in other reports) when I saw an
actor (Seth Rogen) on TV mention in an interview how he lost a bunch of weight.
I think it was for a new role in a movie. If I remember correctly, he said
something like people kept asking him how did you lose the weight? Whats your
secret? What system did you use? And he said something like:
Youre going to think this is lame, but all I did was work
out and reduce my calorie intake.
I busted out laughing in admiration of the simplicity.
Thats basically what I call a Logical 2 Prong - which is a simple 2-prong
formula in the midst of a lot of confusion.
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Level 1 (2 Prong)
Level 2 (2 Prong)
In the case with success with women, lets break that down for a second. And
by success with women, Im talking about the stuff that applies to all
guyswhether youre trying to constantly improve
Building attraction/chemistry with your partner (wife, fiance, girlfriend)
Building attraction/chemistry with a new woman (women online, women you
meet, etc.)
Building attraction/chemistry with current women you know (an ex, female
friend, co-worker, etc.)
When it comes to having success with anything, a great 2 Prong Formula to use
would be:
Belief in yourself
As we mentioned earlier...
In order to get better at anything you need to focus on 2 simple things:
Upgrading Your Strategy (Your Decisions) + Changing Your Beliefs (Your
Mindset).
So you can adjust your 2 prong (mind map structure) based on what you need
to focus on more.
For example, let's say you don't need to spend too much time on the Changing
Your Beliefs (Your Mindset).
And you wanted to ZOOM OUT and look at the big picture, then you can always
focus on 3 Prongs/Layers.
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Regards,
CR James
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