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Earnest Christians can disagree about the meaning and application of Bible
passages without dismissing the opposition as not believing in God's word.
Gay-rights advocates speak passionately about their own belief that Jesus
would reach out to gays and lesbians today just as he showed love to lepers and
other outcasts 2,000 years ago. They almost reflexively dismiss their opposition
as showing hate.
Indeed, some opponents of gay rights are hateful. Fred Phelps, a Kansas
minister, has demonstrated that extreme in his repeated demonstrations in Iowa
and around the nation. I listened for more than an hour this week as an
unabashedly hateful man shouted vulgarities at gay rights demonstrators, telling
them again and again that the Bible says they should be killed. My voice mail
and e-mail after this week's series was published confirmed that some Iowans
share this hatred.
However, it is as unfair and inaccurate to brand all opponents of gay rights
with this hatred as it is to brand all gays as promiscuous based on the behavior
of another extreme.
In most of my interviews with opponents of gay rights, they voiced strong and
disgusted disapproval of these voices of hatred. With evident sincerity, they
expressed love for gays and lesbians.
Gay-rights activists thwart their own efforts to achieve understanding when
they equate disagreement with hate.
Since the series ran, some readers have written to me, asking what I think
about this issue. I could not offer any wisdom more valuable than Nerdig's plea:
Listen and seek to understand.
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This is my final column for the Register. I have accepted a job with the
Omaha World-Herald and begin work there next week.
In leaving, I thank my editors for the opportunity to write about faith and
values for Iowa readers. I especially thank the many readers who have
encouraged, criticized and invigorated me with calls, letters, e-mails, personal
comments and prayers.