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pervasive
hornopl-robic argument is that gays and lesbians, on the whole, want to be part of a
family as much as any straight person. Gays
and lesbians don't get married, because
Canadian law refuses to recognize marriages
between same sex couples; if the law was to
change, hordes o' homos would rush to the
chapel tomorrow. After all, gay and Iesbian
relationships are just Iike straight relationships; the only difference is the stigma attached to gay relationships. Moreover, many
gays and lesbians want to adopt children,
and many lesbians find ways, like artificial
insemination, to have their own children
within their lesbian relationships. Basically,
this response stresses the similarities between gay life and straight life, asserting that
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sexuals have, and most desire stable, longterm relationships, just like shaights. The
strength of the "feminist" argument is its
nuclear family itself cannot be salvaged? recognition of the oppressive character of the
What if the ideas at the heart of those archaic heterosexual family. Perhaps by putting a
laws are neiessarily a part of any society spin on these two approaches, we can put
which revolves around nuclear families?
them together and unite the fight against
Heterosexual relationships are necessarily patriarchy with the fight against homophobia
between men and women, and, because of at the same time.
By integrating these two approaches, we
the imbalance of power between men and
women in our culture, these relationships can fashion a unified response to the
generally embody the domination and sub- homophobicassertion that gays and lesbians
ordination of women. Many believe that the threaten "Canadian family values". Moreheterosexual family actually maintains the over, we can also provide a potential source
To Birth or Not
to Birth:
A Lesbion'Ootio