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1. Definition
Parent is defined as a person whom had a child or children either through biology or
mating process or through adoption (cite the source). A parent could be a mother in the female
figure or a father in a male figure and secondary parents could be the grandmother or
grandfather. In these modern days, parent could be in the form of male and female figure, male
and male figure or female and female figure especially in the country that legalize same sex
marriage or it could be represented by just one entity of the partner-hood, either a male figure or
female figure, which commonly known as single parent (no need). Everybody can be a parent
and it is, as a matter of fact, a natural phase or process of the birth-dead cycle. However, not
everybody knows what does it takes to be a good parent.
1. Cite sources from relevant parenting sites about good parenthood.
2. Responsibility of parents
3. commitments
Moral awareness, nevertheless, only comes to set when the mind is ready and set to the
specific track. In this case, a person must be ready in term of his or her mind in becoming a
parent. When the mind is ready, everything could be possible to achieve. This is one of the key
points to be a good parent. Being ready mentally is very crucial for a person to become a parent
simply because parenting or parenthood comes a lifetime. There is no turning back or
postponing the whole scenario. The old proverb says; when theres a will, theres a way. But
how can someone have the will when he or she is not ready? The increasing numbers of cases
where babies are being dumped in the toilet, mosques and churches and even in garbage bins
are the good examples to see when someone is ready to become a parent or not. This is what
is going to happen when the readiness of becoming a parent in someone is and can be
questionable.
Another factor that is important to become a good parent is the economy. The stability of
the household economy may directly acting in the outcome of the parenting. But it doesnt mean
that a person has to be rich to become a good parent and neither does the poor parent.
Being a rich parent may give some advantages to become a good parent. With the
wealth, every wish of the children may be fulfilled and the children may not want for more. Rich
parent is more than could afford to provide with luxury house, good quality of clothing, good
meals every day and expensive toys and gadgets. With the advantage of having the money, rich
parent could give the best education that there is to offer. However, if the rich parent does not
play smart with their wealth on their children, they might go very wrong in parenting by
pampering too much the children until it spoils them.
While the poor parent could lack in most of everyday supplies and not having all the
luxury, they still could be a good parent by giving what they think is enough for the children. The
poor parent may not have the advantage of fulfilling every wish of their children, but they have
the edge of teaching the children the meaning of value of money and the true meaning of
hardship.
name-calling problem, they stay detached from making it their own problem but not from the
child. Parent may feel upset about the situation but more importantly is about connecting with
the children and expressing their understanding for their childrens emotion. Empathy lets the
children knows that their parents know and understand and the children can name their feeling,
so that they feel normal and accepted.
When empathize, parent know what is their childrens problem, and when parent stay
detached not taking responsibility over the problem faced by their children to fix it, parent will be
much better able to help their children with their problem. Once parent is connected on the
emotional level with their children and gaining trust from their children that they know what the
problem was, parent can then ask questions or give some suggestion pertaining to solving the
problem in the best way that the children can. But when parent is taking responsibility for the
problem, it is more about the parent projecting themselves into the situation and telling the
children to fix the problem the way they would. Children most probably becoming dependant
towards their parent to fix their problem every time they face problem in later life.
Having good boundaries with children means allowing them to take responsibility for
their own problem and working towards finding good solutions that work for both parent and
children.
parent know how to manage the stress that come with parenting. Whenever possible, good
parent relax. They let go of anger as quickly as possible. Good parent forgive the children while
holding the children accountable for their actions.
up when caught up in the traffic jam. Some parents telling their children not to gossiping or badmouthing about other people but turned up to be just like that when meeting their friends.
That is not to say that parent has to be perfect. But when fall down from the job, parent
need the children to learn from their mistakes. If a parent has lashed out to their children when
theyre feeling stressed out, parent need to come back to their children admitting their fault and
gave the children their reassurance. By doing so, a parent is teaching their children the
importance of respect and forgiveness. When facing a challenging situation, a parent needs
their children to see that they are doing the best they could cope up with. Some time, difficult
situations need to be acknowledged and by doing this, a parent is actually showing the children
that they can manage tough times and that will help the children to learn to do the same.
11. Conclusions
http://www.webmd.com/parenting/features/10-commandments-good-parenting
http://www.parents.com/parenting/better-parenting/advice/ways-to-be-fantastic-parent/