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Assignment
Word Count: 1650
The interaction (150 Words)
The following is an interaction with myself referred to as
Malek or M and my cousin Danya (D) one afternoon at the
gym.
Danya 1: Hey, whats going on? (Walks into change room)
Malek 1: Nothing much, how was work today? (Eye Contact, smiling)
D2: Work was shit, my manager wanted to see me today to talk
about my shifts. (Walks in maintains eye contact and throws bag
down)
M2: Oh, did she say something to you? (Looking down at phone)
D3: It doesnt matter (Sighs, Arms crossed, lower voice tone)
M3: (Puts phone down and maintains eye contact) You seem
frustrated, you can tell me. Whats wrong?
D4: Shes trying to make me work on Saturdays when Ive told her
before that I cant work on weekends. (Eye contact, straight posture,
Hands on temples)
M4: Youre upset because youve told her before that you cant work
on weekends and shes still trying to make you work then.
(Maintained eye contact)
D5: EXACTLY its so annoying! I dont know what to say to her (Hand
on hip, appropriate proximity, steady eye contact)
M5: Yeah I dont know, oh my god look behind you isnt that the
lady from the party? (Distracted, Leaning back)
D6: I dont know, I think so. (Dull, rolls eyes)
M6: I didnt know she comes to this gym (Interested, no eye contact)
Effective communication skills are essential as part of the
communication process. Individuals gain comfort, support, and
recognition from this two way process. Usually a lack of response
and understanding. Combined with this I could have changed the way I responded by
staying on topic and being assertive to express my opinion on the situation for
example I could have said; I believe the best way to go about this is to speak to your
manager and make it clear to her that you are not available on weekends in order for
her to stop asking you to work then. Assertiveness will improve the interaction by
Pearson (2013) acknowledges that by taking an assertive approach leads to a
successful outcome of communication to maintain balance of my needs and the needs
of others, in this case my needs are maintaining my close relationship that I have with
my cousin.
Contextual factors (5 Marks)
Did historical context make it easier for me to use effective.
My previous interaction with this person.
One of the contextual factors that impacted negatively on the
interaction process was external noise. External noise includes
sights or sounds that distract from the communication channel and
interfere with the listeners clear reception of the message (Person,
2015). The constraint was that we were in a public place at the gym
with people walking in and out, which subsequently distracted my
attention from the message during the interaction (M5).
The social context is the type of relationship that already exists between individuals
(Person, 2015). This provided an opportunity to improve the interaction because my
cousin and I have an already established close relationship where we can disclose
personal information with each other.
APA QUALITY OF WRITING (2 Marks)