0

Utterly no desire to do that activity and dont like doing it (in fact, may
loath it) and ordinarily would object to doing it, but you would permit the
Dominant to do it if they really wanted it (sometimes called a soft limit)

Dont want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldnt object it if was

asked of you

Willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you

Usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis

You like doing this activity and would like to experience it on a regular basis

Is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible

Willingness

Experience

Activity

Rate according to scale

described above

Respond YES/NO

Abrasion

Yes

Age Play

Yes

Anal Sex

Yes

Anal Plugs (small)

Yes

Anal Plugs (large)

Yes

Anal Plug (public

under clothes)

Yes

Animal Roles

Yes

Arm & leg sleeves

(armbinders)

Yes

Aromas

No

Asphyxiation

Yes

Auctioned for
charity

Yes

Ball Stretching

No

Bathroom use
control

No

Beastiality

Yes

Comments

Love older guys

daddy stuff

Beating (soft)

Yes

Beating (hard)

Yes

Blindfolding

Yes

Being bitten

Yes

Breast/chest
bondage

Yes

Breath control

Yes

Branding

Yes

Boot Worship

No

Bondage (light)

Yes

Bondage (heavy)

Yes

Bondage (multiday)

Maybe

Bondage (public
under clothing)

Yes

Breast whipping

Yes

Brown showers
(scat)

No

Cages (locked
inside)

Yes

Caning

Yes

Castration fantasy

No

Catheterization

No

Cattle prod
(electrical toy)

No

Cells/Closets
(locked inside of)

Yes

Chains

Yes

Being Serviced
(sexual)

Chamber pot use

No

Chastity belts

Yes

Chauffeuring

No

Choking

Yes

Chores (domestic
service)

Yes

Clothespins

Yes

Cock rings/straps

Yes

Cock worship

Yes

Collars (worn in
private)

Yes

Collars (worn in
public)

Yes

Competitions
(with other subs)

Yes

Corsets (wearing
casually)

Yes

Corsets (trained
waist reduction)

Yes

Cuffs (leather)

Yes

Cuffs (metal)

Yes

Cutting

No

Diapers (wearing)

No

Diapers (wetting)

No

Diapers (soiling)

No

Dilation

No

Dildos

Yes

Double
Penetration

Yes,

Electricity

No

Enemas (for
cleansing)

Yes

Enemas
( retention/punish
ment)

No

Enforced chastity

Yes

Erotic Dance (for

audience)

No

Examinations
(physical)

No

Exercise
(forced/required)

Yes

Exhibitionism
(friends)

Yes

Exhibitionism
(strangers)

Yes

Eye contact
restrictions

Yes

Face Slapping

Yes

Fantasy
Abandonment

Yes

Fantasy rape

Yes

Fantasy gang rape

Yes

Fear (being
scared)

No

Fisting (anal)

No

Fisting (vaginal)

No

Flame play

No

Following orders

Yes

Foot worship

No

Forced bedwetting

No

forced dressing

Yes

Forced eating

No

Forced
homosexuality

No

Forced
heterosexuality

Yes

Forced
masturbation

Yes

Forced nudity
(private)

Yes

Forced nudity
(around others)

Yes

Forced Servitude

Yes

Forced smoking

No

Full head hoods

Yes

Gags (cloth)

Yes

Gags (inflatable)

Yes

Gags (phallic)

Yes

Gags (rubber)

Yes

Gags (tape)

Yes

Gas masks

No

Gates of Hell
(male)

No

Genital sex

Yes

Given away to
another Dom
(temp)

Yes

Given away to
another Dom
(perm)

Maybe

Golden Showers

No

Gun play

No

Hair brush
spankings

Yes

Hair pulling

Yes

Hand Jobs (giving)

Yes

Hand Jobs
(receiving)

Yes

Harems (serving
w/other subs)

Yes

Harnessing
(leather)

Yes

Harnessing (rope)

Yes

Having food
chosen for you

Yes

Having clothing
chosen for you

Yes

(head (give
fellatio/cunnilingu
s)

Yes

Head (rcv
fellation/cunniling
us)

Yes

High Heel Wearing

Yes

High Heel Worship

Yes

Homage with
tongue (nonsexual)

No

Hoods

Yes

Hot oils (on

genitals)

Yes

Hot waxing

Yes

Housework
(doing)

Yes

Human puppy dog

Yes

Humiliation
(private)

Yes

Humiliation
(public)

Yes

Hypnotism

Yes

Ice cubes

Yes

Immobilization

No

Infantilism

No

Initiation rites

Yes

Injections

No

Intricate
(Japanese) rope
bondage

No

Interrogations

No

Kidnapping

Yes

Kneeling

Yes

Knife play

No

Leather Clothing

Yes

Leather restraints

Yes

Lectures for
misbehavior

Yes

Licking (nonsexual)

Yes

Lingerie (wearing)

Yes

Manacles and
Irons

Yes

Manicures (giving)

No

Massage (giving)

Yes

Massage
(receiving)

Yes

Medical scenes

No

Modeling for erotic

photos

Yes

Mouth bits

Yes

Mummification

No

Name change (for

scene)

Yes

Nipple clamps

Yes

Nipple rings
(piercing)

Yes

Nipple weights

No

Oral/anal play
(rimming)

Yes

Over the knee

spanking

Yes

Orgasm denial

Yes

Orgasm control

Yes

Outdoor scenes

Yes

Pain (severe)

No

Pain (mild)

Yes

Persona training
(in scene)

Personal
modification (rl)

Yes

Phone sex
(serving Dom)

Yes

Phone sex
(serving Doms
friends)

Yes

Phone sex
(commercial
provider)

No

Piercing
(temporary, playpierce)

Yes

Piercing
(permanent)

Yes

Plastic surgery

Yes

Prison scenes

Yes

Prostitution
(public pretense)

YEs

Prostitution
(actual)

Yes

Pony slave

No

Public exposure

Yes

Punishment scene

No

Pussy/cock
whipping

Yes

Pussy worship

Yes

Riding crops

Yes

Riding the "horse"

(crotch tort)

Yes

Rituals

Yes

Religious scenes

Yes

Restrictive rules
on behavior

Yes

Rubber/latex
clothing

Yes

Rope body harness

Yes

Saran wrap

No

Scarification

No

Scratching getting

Yes

Scratching - giving

No

Sensory
deprivation

Yes

Serving

Yes

Serving as art

Yes

Serving as ashtray

No

Serving as
furniture

Yes

Serving as a maid

Yes

Serving as a toilet
(urine)

No

Serving as a toilet
(feces)

No

Serving as
waitress/waiter

Yes

Serving orally
(sexual)

Yes

Serving other
Doms (supervised)

Yes

Serving other
Doms
(unsupervised)

Yes

Sexual deprivation
(short term)

Yes

Sexual deprivation
(long term)

No

Shaving (body

Yes

hair)
Having (head hair)

No

Skinny dipping

Yes

Sleep deprivation

No

Sleep sacks

No

Slutty clothing
(private)

Yes

Slutty clothing
(public)

Yes

Spandex clothing

Yes

Spanking

Yes

Speech
restrictions
(when/what)

Yes

Speculums (anal)

Yes

Speculums
(vaginal)

No

Spitting

Yes

Spreader bars

Yes

Standing in corner

No

Stocks

Yes

Straight jackets

Yes

Strap-on-dildos
(sucking on)

Yes

Strap-on-dildos
(penetrated by)

Yes

Strap-on-dildos
(wearing)

No

Strapping (full
body beating)

No

Suspension
(upright)

No

Suspension
(inverted)

No

Supplying new
partners for Dom

Yes

Swallowing feces

No

Swallowing semen

Yes

Swallowing urine

No

Swapping (with
one other couple)

Yes

Swinging (multiple
couples)

Yes

Tampon training
(in ass)

No

Tattooing

Yes

Teasing

Yes

TENS unit
(electrical toy)

No

Thumb cuffs
(metal)

No

Tickling

Yes

Triple Penetration

Yes

Urethral Sounds
(metal rods)

No

Uniforms

Yes

Including others

Yes

Vaginal dildo

No

Verbal humiliation

Yes

Vibrator on
genitals

Yes

Violet wand
(electrical toy)

No

Voyeurism
(watching others)

Yes

Voyeurism (your
Dom w/others)

Yes

Video (watching
others)

Yes

Video (recordings
of you)

Yes

Water torture

No

Waxing (hair
removal)

Yes

Wearing symbolic
jewelry

Yes

Weight gain
(forced)

Yes

Weight loss
(forced)

Yes

Whipping

Yes

Wooden paddles

No

Wrestling

No