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Great lesbian group in SL since 2007, originally found at the L Word Sims. We have moved
to Rainbow beach located at Dynasty. Come by and enjoy a great group of people who love
to hangout and party together. We have daily and weekend events. Lesbian Mob is run by
Mob boss Tery Mackenzie and Mob boss Pinky Parks. If you would like more information IM
either one and they will be glad to help.
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The Realities
By Sheri Dryke
We all have fantasies. There are dreams, ideas, and images that swim around
in our heads. We see someone across a room and begin to give them our
version of a life, a personality, flaws or perfections on how we would like
them to be. And if there is an attraction, physical or emotional, the
fantasies multiply.
In SL our fantasies can often run rampant. While there is a real person
behind each and every avatar, we all share a shield of anonymity which
for some can let the fantasies pour out. Perhaps that is why so many
people in SL not only fantasize but take part in some of the “alternative”
lifestyle activities such as D/s, BDSM and S&M.
D/s, BDSM and S&M are often lumped together as one lifestyle. But
among RL kinksters there are often very heated debates about the
differences between them. While the differences between them may
be more a matter of semantics, at least having a basic understanding of
what all these letters mean can help. In every case though, the relationship is built
upon some form or degree of power exchange. One partner gives up power to the other,
generally to fulfill one or more fantasies and fetishes.
Fetishes? Absolutely. Fetish often gets a bad rap but in its most basic form it is a preference.
We all have preferences for things in life. Not everything, obviously, is a fetish. But when it
comes to a distinct emotional or sexual preference, just about everyone has some form of
fetish or another. Some people may like tall ladies while others like petite girls. Some prefer
blonde hair or green eyes the same way others are attracted to long legs or large breasts.
Think of it as how we’re wired. There are some people who are wired to want to be tied up and
spanked. That is their fetish. And if they’re lucky, they find a partner who enjoys tying them up
and spanking them.
In order to help narrow down the various people
with certain fetishes, we have created
these broader categories. Each of
these basically means what the
initials stand for. For example, D/s
stands for Dominance and
submission. As that implies, within the
relationship there is a Dominant and a submissive;
one who is the boss, who enjoys being in charge, and one who is
wants to serve and obey, who wants to please the other with her actions.
he Real World
of D/s In BDSM or Bondage Discipline Sadism and Masochism we add distinct
physical aspects. Bondage implies the desire by one partner to
somehow restrain the other. This is done with various types of
bonds and quite often, the type used is important to the
fantasy and fetish being experienced. Discipline refers to
some type of punishment in order to ensure a level of
obedience between the Dominant partner and her
submissive. For many, this is some form of spanking
but the punishment or discipline can take on as many
forms as there are people who have this fetish. There are people
who specifically enjoy only one form of spanking while others
are open and willing to explore a huge variety of punishments.
Again, it’s all about some form of emotional fulfillment.
The S & M or Sadism and Masochism aspects refer to the pleasure
that derives from giving and getting pain. While this is often a
large part of many BDSM relationships, those who classify
themselves as part of the S & M culture see it as the driving factor
in their relationship. While pain may be the basic centerpiece for S & M,
not all pain is created equal to everyone. Often there are limits to the amounts
of pain, the types of pain and the areas that get the pain. Some people can be wired in
such a way that the only way they get their fetish fulfilled, the only way they get off, is if a
certain body part takes pain from a certain type of implement within a certain setting. For
others, it doesn’t matter as long as the pain is there.
Remember, there is no right or wrong way to
deal with a fetish. It is ultimately about the fetish.
And nobody’s fetish is as important, erotic or
satisfying as your own fetish. In RL lifestyle
kinksters sometimes seem to understand this
better than some people in SL. The very nature of
this type of kinky lifestyle, which for simplicity sake
we’ll refer to as D/s from here on out, means that
you have to be open minded, especially about the
fact that we all don’t “get off” on the same thing.
This is where respect comes into play. It is important
to understand that respect is a two way street. A person
needs to respect the other as, well, a person. Sure, a
basic premise of the D/s dynamic states that the
submissive must respect her Domme. But if the Domme
doesn’t respect her subbie, then what they have isn’t really
a D/s relationship, it is abuse. Abuse has no place in any
type of relationship.
A huge part of the D/s dynamic revolves around the concept
of power exchange. Power exchange is the ultimate signal
that a couple is about to fully explore their kinks and fetishes.
What too many people don’t realize is that a subbie does
not have to submit to just any and every Domme. Respect
her, yes but not completely submit. That is until the
subbie has offered up her gift of submission. That means
that the subbie has the power, maintains control over
herself until she offers it to a Domme. Once the gift
of submission is given, and only once it is given,
can the Domme expect the subbie to obey.
Too often people who don’t understand this
most basic dynamic think that everyone
who is submissive must kneel down and
obey everything every Dominant says.
There are some sims in SL built on the
concepts of slavery (such as those
practicing GOR) where the very fact
that a submissive is there
designates the offering of the
gift of submission. But for a
Dominant to expect total
submission from someone
who hasn’t offered up that
gift is a complete and total
lack of respect.
This is a problem of two people whose
beliefs, whose fetishes, definitions and
desires just don’t mesh. Their fetishes are
out of synch. They are each wanting or
expecting something different from the
relationship. And with that the relationship
just won’t work. But when two people have
the same fantasies and are willing to explore
the same fetishes the resulting relationship can
be magical.
In the world of D/s the most basic kind of
relationship is called a scene. This is when two get
together and enjoy sharing their fetishes for a brief
encounter. A scene really isn’t a one night stand
though it does share a number of similarities. In a
scene, a couple agrees to explore shared fetishes with
each other. The goal, much like a one night stand, is to
find satisfaction and fulfillment. And that comes from
both partners sharing the same fetishes. It makes the
encounter that much more intense than the basic one
night stand.
For the true lifestyler, the person who wants to go beyond
the basic scene and find a life partner, the added layer of
D/s makes the connection deeper and way more intense
than a normal relationship, or as the lifestyle kinkster refers
to it, a vanilla relationship. The true D/s relationship has all
of the emotions and feelings of that vanilla relationship.
Yes, it caters to mutual fetishes that add a layer. But it
also requires a deep and abiding trust that goes beyond
what we normally see in a relationship.
Every relationship requires trust. In D/s not only is there
standard relationship trust but also a deeper trust.
The subbie has to trust the Domme not to physically
or emotionally hurt her. And the Domme has to
trust both herself not to push things too far but
also has to trust the subbie to not allow things
to go beyond those mutual fetishes & emotions.
D/s, BDSM and S & M can be an ocean in which
you can dive in or it can be a small pond to
step into and test the waters. Whatever level
you want to explore this lifestyle, it is
important to remember to respect
yourself and your partner.
Boi Oh Boi
Photographer -Honey Bender
Stylist - Peace Edenflower
Middle
Skin - ::eXceSs:: - ::XS:: &rogyne :: BOY :: Cream :: simple D
Shape - Shane Shape by NN Violet
Hair - .::MADesigns HAIR::. ~ CRUZ ~
Outfit - ::eXceSs:: -::XS::vergot :: shirt + pants :: white+black
Shoes - Urban Bomb Unit Porn Star Low Tops
Right
Skin - ‘Closer nude pale’ by &Bean
Shape - model’s own
Hair - ‘Rabi black’ by Little Heaven
Glasses - ‘Gudshu Pilot glasses’ by Submariner
Shirt & waistcoat - ‘Cambridge shirt & Liscio vest’ Armidi
Pants - black latex pants from Sn@tch
Shoes - black denim sneakers by sf Design
In The Office
Left
Skin - :eXceSs:: - ::XS:: &rogyne :: BOY :: Cream :: simple D
Shape - Terry Shape by *NN Violet*
Hair - .::MADesigns HAIR::. ~ CRUZ ~
Jacket - Delirium Style Too Fast Jacket
Tank - M*O*B*B* ~Wife Beater~ (White)
Belt - MayCreations belt with h&cuffs
Jeans - MayCreations leather jeans with rivets
Right
Skin - :eXceSs:: - ::XS:: &rogyne :: BOY :: Cream :: simple D
Shape - Shane Shape by *NN Violet*
Hair - W&Y HAIR New 87
Sweater - {Gisaci} Classic Cashmere Turtleneck - Chocolate
Pants - {Gisaci} Ruvido Slacks - Annerire
Boots - MayCreations biker boots with belts
In The Locker Room
Left
Skin - ‘Naomie 2’ by Redgrave
Shape - model’s own
Hair - ‘RockZ Oxygen’ by LollipopZ
Tattoo - ‘Henna 2 full body tattoo’ by HUZ TATS
Boxers - *Linc* boxer in white by Lucky Ink
Jewelry - ‘Barb Wire’ by C&y Floss
Right
Skin - ::eXceSs:: - ::XS:: &rogyne :: BOY :: Cream ::
simple D
Shape - Terry Shape by *NN Violet*
Tattoo - AITUI TATTOO - Aggression V.2
Boxers - < BD > Fashions Boxers basic white
Boots - <TheAbyss> NAU Combat Boots
In The Butch Strip Club
Left
Uniform - ‘BK Captain with long coat’ by Black Knight
Hat - ‘Peaked cap (German)’ by Latexia
Skin - ‘Closer nude pale’ by &Bean
Shape - model’s own
Right
Skin - ::eXceSs:: ::XS:: &rogyne :: BOY :: Mocha :: clean
Shape - Terry Shape by *NN Violet*
Hair - .::MADesigns HAIR::. ~ ALEX ~
Suit - Blaze* Wool Suit
In the Garage
Left
Skin - [RockBerry] Megan A Natural
Shape - Terry Shape by *NN Violet*
Hair - W&Y HAIR New 87 ‘TYPE’A
T-shirt - Howard Lindley Designs Heroes Super
Shirt - sf design flannel shirt
Jeans - Howard Lindley Designs Nemo Jeans
Right
Skin - ‘Closer nude pale’ by &Bean
Shape - model’s own
Hair - ‘Rabi black’ by Little Heaven
Glasses - ‘Gudshu Pilot glasses’ by Submariner
Shirt & waistcoat - ‘Cambridge shirt & Liscio vest’ Armidi
Pants - Black latex pants from Sn@tch
In The Tattoo Parlour
Skin - ‘Closer nude pale’ by &Bean
Shape - model’s own
Hat - ‘Unisex Beanie’ in black by Maitreya
Glasses - ‘Gudshu Pilot glasses’ by Submariner
Tattoo - ‘Swallows’ full body tattoo by addiXion
Jacket - ‘Rollup Riders with shirt’ from AOHARU
Shorts - Baggy shorts by WRONG
In The Butch Rockabilly Bar:
Left
Shape - Shane Shape by *NN Violet*
Hair - Action Mens Hair Zack
Shirt - Action Womens Layered Top
Pants - Action Womens Punk Zipz Red Tartan - Pants
Right
Skin - ‘Closer nude pale’ by &Bean
Shape - model’s own
Hair - ‘RockZ Oxygen’ by LollipopZ
Tattoo - ‘Maggie’ from artilleri
Tank - Beater tank by FORM
Shorts - Baggy shorts with matching suspenders by
WRONG
Butch Domme Sergeant:
Skin - ‘Closer nude pale’ by &Bean
Glasses - ‘Gudshu glasses’ by Submariner
Outfit - ‘BK Captain’ by Black Knight
Boots - ‘Gestapo boots’ by Luna’s
Graffiti Artist:
Skin - ::eXceSs:: - ::XS:: &rogyne :: BOY :: Cream :: simple D
Shape - Shane Shape by *NN Violet*
Hair - >TRUTH< Maddy
Necklace - The Golden Fleece Jewelry - Amethyst &
Obsidian
& Hematite & Bone Beads
Bracelet - Wicked Gear Stacked Bracelet
Tank - SG Fashion Classic Tank
Pants - Delirium Style - Velvet Pants/Blueish
Photographer - Mike Edmonds
Stylist - Peace Edenflower
By Indygo Criss
Purveyor of fine animated erotic furniture
to the GLBT community in SL
‘Its not just the furniture... its the service’
Out & About
Your gateway into the hot clubs & DJs
My Current Schedule:
Tue: 3-5pm slt @ Greek Gold
Wed: 8-10pm slt @ Greek Gold
Fri: 9-12pm slt @ Greek Gold
Sat: 3-5pm slt @ Greek Gold
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Rainbow Moon
Hawt Lesbian club located on Dynasty, home of the Lesbian Mob...
Come and dance to the hawtest DJ’s and great events, meet the
greatest lesbians in all of SL.
Rainbow Moon has been in SL since 2005 and is still going strong! We
have daily events and games. Come and visit us.
For more information IM Tery Mackenzie or Pinky Parks. Come and feel
the magic of the moon.
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On July the 27th after working
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If you would like to try Fly
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A Women Only Club. We are like a Sorority where women can relax and have fun together.
While here, make yourself at home. We try to keep all things free here but tips (above the
dance cage) are appreciated. Be sure to visit our new Tiki Bar and Dance club and the new
AWT Mall behind the main house. If you would like to join the AWT group, contact Ashra
Lang.
There are few rules here. Men will be asked to leave unless they are escorted. Please
respect the privacy of couples using animation balls. Couples using animation balls should
use IM for romantic cyber.
The finest women only club in SL. We welcome all women to the
TresQueens sim to enjoy everything we have to offer. Lesbian, bi,
straight, butch, femme, we include everyone. We provide a safe & secure
sim for all women.
We continue to grow, expand and evolve at Harlow’s, with the purpose of providing top
level entertainment to all women. You can come here and live, shop and play - you never
need to leave the sim! :-) We are even opening our wedding and reception area with two
honeymoon areas to be a full service female community.
Visit us for a safe and secure, entertaining experience. All women are welcome and many
say it’s like coming home to family. We want you as part of our family.
Created for Familys of all life forms and Preferences of SL. Be it GLBT,
Neko, Furry, Vampire, Goth. All are welcome to have fun in a Safe
PG Club Environment. Enjoy our 7 Seas Fishing, Games, Contests,
Sploder, Tiny Empires, Live DJ’s. and MUCH MUCH more!!
G REEK G old
l esbian R esort
Greek Gold Lesbian Resort
This is a place for all women - we are happy to have you in the family. We have extra
Groups Titles that are available for those who would like a Femme, Butch or Boi title.
The first time you visit, you will arrive at the front gate. This is also where friends you TP
over will arrive if they do not have a Group Title. Here we have a really nice area to sit and
visit with friends. Feel free to gather there and visit as we want everyone to feel at home.
The most popular place on GGLR is the dance pavilion. We have DJ’s from morning til night
with hostesses to answer your questions and who keep the party going and almost always
there is a contest. Its a place to socialize, dance and get to meet most of the members
of GGLR. We have Friday night theme dances from 4pm until 8pm where the dance floor
is transformed to match the theme. GGLR stage area is the place for live entertainment.
We have Clairede Dirval every Sun 3:00pm SL and Thurs 11am SL plus other musicians
scheduled randomly.
Feeling like a little romance, try the ballroom in the sky, a romantic dance floor set up for
formals. Every Saturday night we have a formal from 7pm SL - 9pm SL.
Like movies? We have them in our GGLR Movie Theatre. Catch a flick with your partner or
friend(s) and have some pop corn and some soda or slurpies.
We also have rentals here on GGLR and on our sister sims. There is a place for almost every
budget. Have a look around and find your perfect SL home.
Thank you again for joining GGLR and being part of our family.
If there is anything you can think of that might improve GGLR, there are two suggestion
boxes - one located at the front gate and the other located at the dance pavillion. Feel free
to make any suggestions.
GGLR Staff
What is the Dyke March?
The Dyke March is a global society of people who identify as; queer, genderqueer, lesbian, dyke, butch,
femme, MtF, FtM, transsexual, transgendered, and questioning, and who promote diversity and acceptance
within our communities. It is a global group of people who celebrate the uniqueness of each individual within
our community and support their changes and growth.
Who are we?
We understand DYKE IDENTITY to include those of us who are grass root lesbians and dykes, questioning
and challenging gender constructs and the social definitions of women, and who are gender fluid. We also
welcome all women who want to support dykes to march with us. We are femmes, butches, and otherwise-
identified; dykes-of-color, dykes of mixed race, Jewish dykes, and white dykes; dykes of varying ages and
classes. Some of us identify as queer, or as genderqueer. We are transgendered MtF and FtM, we are pre-op,
post-op, and transitioned, but most importantly, we ARE trans friendly!
Our Mission:
Our top priority is to provide a diverse and welcoming space for participants of all sexualities, genders, races,
ages, ethnicities, sizes, economic backgrounds, and physical abilities. We strive to create a place where
acceptance of all diversity within our community is accepted!