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Inthisreport,we'lltalkabout:
15ComplimentTactics
ThedifferencebetweenthetwoCsignals
Twogameplansformoresex(todobothatthesametime)
Enjoy!
WarmestRegards,
CRJames
HelloCR,
Onpage87ofSSUx(http://superpowermedia.com/ssuv2.html)you
mentionedaconceptcalled"buildinghersexualidentity".Whatexactlydo
youmeanbythat?
Thanks
Hey
Asfarasbuildinghersexualidentity,interestinglyenoughthisgoesbacktoaconvowe
hadbeforeabouthowaperson'sidentitydirectimpactsthatperson'sbehavior/action...
It'skindoflikewhensomeonehearsfrommultiplepeoplethatthey'refunny,wildand
crazyprettysoontheyendupbehavinglikethatevenmore.
Ifachildhearsmultipletimesthathe'ssmart,organized,"gettingbetteratXYZ"over
timeitpositivelyeffectshisbehavior.
Thereverseappliesaswell,likewiththeMonsterStudy(apsychologicalexperiment
donein1939)wherestutteringkidsendedupgettingmuchworse(anditdirectly
affectedtheirbehavior)asaresultofnegativereinforcement.
Withthatinmind,basicpositivereinforcementworkswondersinrelationshipsasaway
ofimprovinghersexualidentity.It'slikethereverseofthemonsterstudy,exceptyou're
graduallybringingoutasexualbeast(oraslightimprovementbareminimum).
Ithelpstoapproachitfromtwoangles:
A)Constantlysaythingstogethertofeelgoodaboutwhatsheiscapableof(asit
relatestosomesortofsexualimpactonyou).
Forexample:
Gettinghertobelieve(feel)likeshehastheabilitytoturnyouonprettyfast
Gettinghertobelieve(feel)likeshehastheabilitytoturnyouoninauniqueway
Gettinghertobelieve(feel)likeshehastheabilitytodriveyouwildduringsex
etc
B)Constantlysaythingstoimproveheridentity(howsheseesherself)
GettinghertobelievethatYOUBELIEVEthatsheissexualfun(thisisoneofthemain
reasonswhyyouwanttoavoid(1)complainingaboutsex(2)pressuringherintodoing
somethingsexuallythatshedoesn'twanttodoand(3)implyingthatsomethingis
wrongwithherlibido.Thingslikethismakeherfeellikeasexualfailure.
Tobringouthersexualbeast,dothetotalopposite(andcombineitwithother
strategies).
Ifyoucanpullitoff(ittakessomeskillandpatience)gethertobelievethatshehasa
"nymphoside"thatemerges.
Noteveryguycanconvinceawomanthatshe'sanymphoformanyreasons,butit's
muchmoreachievable(formostguys)toconvinceher(withskillandpatience)thatshe
hasa"nymphoside"thatwillcomeouteverynowandthen.
Intermsofexecution,thebesttimeto'makethesecomments'is(1)whensheisreally
turnedon,(2)duringsexor(3)immediatelyaftersex...
Thissameprocessworkswithnonsexualbeliefs.Forexample,ifyouwanthertohave
moreconfidenceinaparticulararea,youcanuse:
Positivereinforcement/Differenttypesofcompliments
Quotesfrombooks
Motivationalquotes
NotsureifImentionedthisinSSUx,butonceawoman'ssexualidentityisimproved(as
wellasheroverallconfidenceandsenseofwellbeing),you'llnoticeadramatic
increaseinsexualtensionsensitivity(meaningitdoesn'ttakeasmuchsexualtension
tacticstogetheraroused)...
CRJames
15SimpleComplimentTactics
Thebasicstructurecanbeusedtobuildtheconfidenceofyourchildren,afriend,family
member,etc.
Youcanusethese:
Forpositivereinforcement(ThereverseoftheMonsterStudy)
Tomakeyourladyforspecial/sexy/unique
Asatemplatesothatyou'reslightlybetteratacknowledgingthelittlethings
As"part"ofyoursexualtensionbuildinggameplan
Tobeabetterfriend/person(Inaworldfilledwith
haters/complainers/pessimists,italwaysfeelsgoodtoreceiveanice/real
complimentfromsomeone)
Toincreaseyourcharismapower(Putmore'good'intheuniverse.Getmore
back.)
#1:Thedirectcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.
#2:Thethirdpartycompliment
IwastalkingtoBob.Hesaidyourhairlooksnice.
#3:Thecomplimentmentionedtosomeoneelse
IwastalkingtoBobabouthowniceyourhairlooks.
#4:Thedeepstackingcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.Ilikethenewcolor,howshinyitisandthestyle.
#5:Theperceptionimpactcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.Itmakesyoulooksexy,confidentandclassy.
#6:Theimpactonyoucompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.It'ssosexy.Itmakesmewanttodonaughtythingstoyou.
#7:Thepastcompliment.
Ilikehowyourhairlookedlastmonth.
#8:Thedecisioncompliment.
Yourhairlooksnice.Itwassmarttogobacktoyouroldhairstylist.
#9:Thefuturevirtualcompliment.
Ifyougotyourhairdonelikethat,youwouldlooksmokinghotbecauseblahblahblah.
#10:Theobservationimpactcompliment
Therewerethreeguysatthetablebehinduscheckingoutyourhair.
#11:Thevalue(time/money/etc)compliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.Ican'tbelieveitonlycostyou$XXX.XXanditonlytookXhours
togetdone.
#12:Thescientificfactcompliment.
AccordingtoDr.Smartguy,90%ofmenpreferwomenwhosehaircolorisX.
#13:Thesuperiorpreferencecompliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.I'vealwayslovedwomenwhohairisX.Insteadofwomenwhose
hairisY.
#14:Thesuperioradvantagecompliment.
Yourhairlooksamazing.It'sgoingtohelpyouwithX.
#15:Thecomplementcompliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.Itgoesperfectlywithyoureyes.
HiCR
IfuckedupbybeingtheONEMOVEGUYandlaterrealizedthatIwaswrong.
SolastnightIwentbacktoreadyourreportsjusttoretracemystepsand
startalloveragain:
Gettingherhorny,55desires,3waystoincreasehersexdrive,the16anti
seductivetraits,7seductionmistakes.
IrealizedalsothatIamfrustratedalotthatIamnotgettingenoughsex
(LOL),thinkthatherlibido'sdeclining,amfrustratedandirritated....basically
IrealizethatIamdoingallthewrongthings...doingthestuffthatmostguys
do(7mistakes).
CR,couldyoupleaseshowmethefirststeporthingtodotoputmeonthe
rightpath.IknowI'vereadsomeofyourstuffbutattimesgetconfusedon
wheretostartofforwhattodoexactly.
IlovemywifeandwanttomakethingsrightandalsotochangehowIview
herandsex.
Iamnotgivingup....Iwillchangeandthingswillgetbetter
Stayamazing!
Hey"Jeff"
Ithappens.Atleastyou'reawarethatyouhadyour"onemoveguy"haton.lol.
Althoughsometimes'onemove'isallittakes
Intermsofa'better,higherlikelihoodmove'asyouprobablyrealize,it'sbettertodo
the'completeopposite'astheonemoveapproach
Inotherwords,insteadofdoing'onemove'withtheobjectiveofhavingsex
Doa'multistepsequence'withtheobjectiveofjustgettingherabitaffectionate(or
slightlymoreaffectionate).
Allsuccessisbasedontwosimplefactors:Yourmindset+Yourskills/strategies/tactics.
Dogreatatbothparts=Moresuccess(betterresults)
inalogicalway.
Sotheideaofdoingamultistepsequencewiththeobjectiveofjustgettingherabit
affectionateisanexampleof'mindsetadjustment'.
Ithelpsbigtime.
Butitdoesn'tmeanyourbrainisautomaticallyfloodedwithknowledgeandtacticsfor
beingeffectiveatgettingheraffectionate.
Withthatinmind....afteryou'vedonethat,youwouldthendoanother'multistep
sequence'togethermoreaffectionateandsoon...andtheninitiateinavery
strategicway.
Withthatinmind,especiallyinarelationshipsituation,youwanttodothingsthat
makeitEASIERforhertogetturnedon.
Soit'salwaysbesttooperatewithtwogameplansatthesametime.
Here'saminichecklistforbothgameplans.
GamePlan#1:Sendingongoingsignals:
(Thesearethingsthatdon'talwaysincreaseaffection/sexualtensioninthe
moment,butastimegoeson,theysoftenherupandmakeiteasiertotrigger
arousal.)
(1)Makeherfeelgood(i.e.sexy/beautiful/confident/amazing/happy)+(2)Buildthe
valueofsex+(3)Buildyoursexualvalue+(4)RemoveAntiSeductiveBehaviors(if
necc.)
Theideaistostartwithdoingthingsinthosefourareasonanongoingbasis.
GamePlan#2:Gettingherinthemood
(5)Buildsexualtension(ST+ST+ST+ST+etc)+(6)InitiateSex
Gettingbacktodoinga'multistepsequence'withtheobjectiveofgettingher
affectionate(orslightlymoreaffectionate),each'ST'represents'onemove'.sothe
combinationofST'sisthe'multistepsequence'afteryou'vedonethatforawhile,you
wouldinitiatesexinastrategicway.
SoinyourcopyofSuperSeductionPower,therearealistof20STtactics.Youcoulddo
acombinationofthreeorfourofthosetactics(i.e.ST#1+ST#4+ST#7)justforthe
purposeoftryingtogetherabitmoreexcited&affectionate.
Note:ThereareotherreportsthatIcreatedthatarejustlistsofSTtactics.These
reportssupportthemindsetofnotbeingaonemoveguy.Ifyouputittothetest,the
multistepapproachalwayswins.It'slogic.It'ssimple.It'sbeyondwhat99.9%ofguys
aredoing.
http://superpowermedia.com/154ways.html
http://superpowermedia.com/53newways2015.html
WithGamePlan#2,thereisasecondpart(initiatingsex).Asfarashowtodothat,
here'sareportonmyblog(I'veneversentanemailoutforit.It'safreereportcalled
theScrewDriverMethodforinitiatingsexhttp://superpowermedia.com/blog/the
psychologicalscrewdriverinitiationmethod).
Thereareactuallymorefactorsthatimproveaguy'simpactonawoman,butthosesix
factorsshouldbetheFIRSTthingtofocuson,especiallyinrelationship.
Hopethathelps.
CRJames
CR,IhaveAttentiondeficithyperactivitydisorderorADD(ADHD).AsIgot
olderthinggotworseforme.
AnywaymywifeleftmejustasI'mworkingonabettertreatmentkeepme
morestable.WhatIwasdoingwasmakingmeBipolar.AnywaysIneedhelp
withtextingonlycontact.
WeareMormonandIalwayshadhardtimewithcommunicating.Ifyoucould
savethisfamilyIwouldbegratefulforalltime.
Hey"Kevin"
Thefirstthingthatyouneedtodoisthinkaboutyoursituation.Improvingyour
relationshipwithyourwifeisnodifferentthanaguywhogetsbackwithhergirlfriend
thatdumpedhimtwoweeksago.
Theonlywaytobesuccessfulistofocusontwobasicthings.
#1.Communicatethatyouhavechangedinsomeway.
#2.Makeaplan(toyourself)onhowyou'regoingtocreatebetterimpactonher.
Doingbothisveryimportant.
Andjustlikewithanything,itcomesdowntomindsetandskills.
I'veknownguyswerewillhellbentonlearningskillstogettheirwivestodesiresex
morefrequentlyanditwasn'ta"skilladjustment"thatendedupbeingthethingthat
workedforthem.Itwasa"mindsetadjustment"whichisashiftinthinking.
Forexample,readthisblogpost:
http://superpowermedia.com/blog/distinction1averageguysarequicktogiveup
whilesgguysare
That'sapostthatjusttalksabouthowaverageguysthinkonewaywhilesuccessbased
guysthinkanotherway.
Thepointis,ashiftinmindsetisoftenthereasonforachangeinawoman'sbehavior.
Andthat'sbecausewhenyoushiftyourmindset,youautomaticallymakedifferent
decisions.
Therearehundredsoflittle(andbig)shiftsinmindsetaguycanmake.
Forexample,aguycouldstartwitharulewherehefocusesmoreongivingheragood
experienceintherelationship.
It'sseemssimpleandbasiconthesurface,butastimegoeson,he'sgoingtobeless
likelytomakeherfeelobligatedtoputupwithhisstuff.
Mostpeoplearenotmotivatedwith'puttingupwithotherpeople's
stuff/issues/problems'.
Ibrokeupwithagirlyearsago(thatIcaredabout)becauseshejustassumedthatI
wouldbeokaywith"puttingupwithcertainissues"thatIdidn'tlike.
It'soneofthosethingsweremanypeopleunderstandthathumanslovepleasure&
humansdon'tlikepain/stress,yettheytrytojustifyorfind'reallygoodreasons'why
someoneelseshould"putupwithcertainissues".
Inmanycases,themanandwomanarecompromising.Nooneisperfect.Youcan't
changethepast.Youcan'tinstantlyfixmistakes.However,youcanalwaysdecideto
notletpastdecisionshauntyouandmakebetterdecisionsforyourselfandothersin
thefuture.
Basedonyouranswers(andprobablyafewthingsyoudidn'tgetachancetomention)
(A)I'msureshefellinlovewithyoubasedon"pleasurebased"thingsi.e.spoilingher
andhavinggoodtimestogether.
and(B)I'msureshedecidedtomoveonbasedon"notwantingtoputupwithcertain
thingsanymore"
Soanytimeyou'reattemptingtogetawomanbackand/or"revivethepassion",it's
importanttoknowtherearetwolayersofmessagesthatareALWAYSbeingsentatthe
sametime.
MessageLayer#1:TheContentLayerThisistheactualmessage.
MessageLayer#2:TheContextLayerThisisthetheme.
Soforexampleifaguyistryingtogetbackwithawoman.Andshelefthimbecausehe
drinkstoomuchhecouldcallher10timesperdaysaying,"Idon'tthinkmydrinkingis
thatbigofadeal"
ThisisaclassicexampleofaguytryingtogetthewomantoACCEPTPAIN.
WhichisnotthesameasgettingthewomantoseethatfuturebeingfilledWITH
PLEASURE.
Gettingbacktoaparticularexgirlfriend.Thiswoman(whilewewereongreatterms
andmadlyinlove)toldmeonedaythatshe'sthinkingaboutmovinginwithher
"brother"(whoactuallywasn'tabloodrelative.Hewasactuallyagoodfriendwho
happenedtobeanexboyfriendthatshewasonceinlovewithandhadsexwith).
Longstoryshort,Ikindatoldher,I'mnotexcitedabouthermovinginwithherquote
unquote"brother".Shesaidyoudon'tunderstandit'snotlikethatblahblahblahwe're
justgoingtoberoommates.Youcanmeethim.Ithinkyou'lllikehimblahblahblah.
Andinsomanywords,Isaidifyoumoveinwithyourquoteunquote"brother",it's
over.Sheendedupmovinginanywayanditwasover.Shecalledaweeklaterandher
"salespitch"(togetmeback)hadthestructureof"tryingtogetmetoacceptthepain"
insteadofafuturefilledwithpleasure.
Inotherwords,shewastryingtogetmetobeOKwiththesituation.Insteadof
understandmypreferences(whichImadecrystalclear).Whatwouldhavebeencloser
toa"pleasurestructure"wouldbesomesortof"pitchtogetmeback"involvingher
movingout,apologizingandsoon.
Soanytimesomeoneismakingadirectpitchtogetawomanback(orevenasilent
commitmenttohimselftobeabetterlover,betterpartner,etc)he'seither(#1)
makingitaruletoprovidemorepleasure(makeherhappy,makeherfeelsexy,make
herfeelmoreconfident,makeherfeelmoreinspiredaboutfollowingadream,etc)or
(#2)tryingtogethertoacceptbullshit/pain/stress.
It'sbetterifhe'sdoingmoreof#1than#2.
Thentherearetwolayersofcommunicationthatshouldbeconsidered.
Layer#1:Thecontentlayer.
Layer#2:Thecontextlayer
Intermsofthecontentlayer(Layer#1),gettingbacktomyexample,therereallyisa
differencebetweenashittywayofconvincingyourboyfriendthatyoumovinginwith
yourexisn'tabigdeal.
IfIreallythoughtaboutit.
MessageA:"ListenCR,youdon'thaveanythingtoworryaboutHoney!Iknowyoutold
menottomoveinwithmybrother.Imadehimpromisetotrytohavesexwithme
becauseheknowshowtogetmewetandhorny.Andalthoughhelaughedandrefused
toagree,I'msureherespectsthefactthatIcareaboutyou."
MessageB:"ListenCR,youdon'thaveanythingtoworryaboutHoney!He'sina
relationship.I'mnotattractedtohim.Weonlyhadsexonceanditwashorrible.Just
recentlyhecameoutoftheclosetandhe'sactuallyinarelationshipwithareallynice
guyblahblahblah."
WecanagreethatMessageBismoreeffective,butwhocares?Thatdoesn'tmeanit
changesthecontext.
Whenguysstruggletogetbackwithawoman,it'softenbecausethereare710things
thatheneedstodo,buthecan'tevengetpastthedifferencebetween"content
message"and"contextmessage".
Someguys(andwomen)actuallyconvincethemselvesthatiftheycansomehowbeA+
perfectlyeffectiveatacontentmessage,thentheotherpersonwillchangetheirmind.
Itdoesn'tworklikethatinmostcases.
Iknowaguywhowentonadate(dinner)withhisexgirlfriendandthenwentbackto
herplaceandspentthenight.Heneverhadsexwithher.Hebackedout.Thenwent
backtohisgirlfriendandtoldhereverything.Idon'tknowifheexpectedhertogive
himagoldstarfornotscrewingtheex,butshebrokeupwithhim.
Basedonthesituation,Istronglybelievedthathehadachanceatgettingherback.But
insteadofagameplanthatstartedwitha"Igetit.Ishouldn'thavewentonadate"
approach,hespentalotofenergyon"what'sthebigdealwithgoingoverherhouse"
whilegettingupsetwithherforassumingthattheyhadsexwhentheydidn't.
It'sanothercaseofnotknowingthedifferencebetweencontentbasedargumentanda
contextualbasedargument.
It'sanothercaseofnotknowingthedifferencebetweentryingtoconvinceawomanto
putupwithsomethingandunderstandingthatawomanlikespleasure(i.e.thepleasure
associatedwithknowingthatherboyfriendisloyalorthepleasurewithknowingthat
herboyfriendcanfullyunderstandwhenhisactionsupsether).
InyourotheremailyousaidshehasbeenverypatientwithyourADHDissues,butshe
doesn'tlikeyourangerandputtingdownherfamilyandgettingupsetwithherfornot
keepingacleanhouse.
Inmanyrelationships,themanandwomanare(onsomelevel)puttingupwith
something.
Andsincethere'snotasuchthingasaperfectrelationship,that'snotalwaysabigdeal.
Butitbecomesabigdealwhenthereisn'tenough'momentsofpleasures'.
Withallofthatinmind,onceyoustartwiththeassumptionthatthere'snoguarantee
thatshe'lltakeyouback,itforcesyoutomakesureyoustacktheoddsinyourfavorin
termsofpleasure.
Themindsetof:
WhatcanIdoforher(thatprovidespleasure)thatnootherguycando?
WhatcombinationoftraitsdoIhave(thatprovidesherwithpleasure)thatisrarein
mostguys?
WhataresomethingsIcandothatwillreducethepain/stressthatI'mcurrently
causingher?
Whataresomewaysofimpactingher(i.e.makinghermoreattractedtome,
triggeringsexualdesire,otherformsofimpact)thatwilloutweighthecurrentshort
term(orlongterm)stressI'vebeengivingher?
WhatcanIsay(ordoforher)thatwillgethertoseehowtakingmebackisthesame
as"enteringintoarelationship"withanewandamazingguy?
Themaintheme(contextlayer)shouldbe:"I'vechangedinsomeway"or"Ihadan
epiphanyandInowapproachlifedifferentlyblahblahblah"orsomethinglikethat
Onabasiclevel,youwanthertofeelasthoughifshetakesyouback,thingswillbe
betterinmanyways(andthenmakingastrongcommitmenttoyourselftoliveuptoit).
Mostpeoplerarelydothis,butithelps(intermsofincreasingyourchances)tospenda
lotoftimethinkingabouthowyouwillbebetter+howyouwillactuallychange.
Becauseyoudon'tjustwanthertotakeyouback,youwantherto"takeyouback+feel
asthoughshemadeagreatdecisionlateron".
Andbytheway,don'tappealtoherbasedoncommonfactors.
Someguyswanttogetbacktogetherwomanpurelyforthekids,butthat'snotHER
REASONforwantingtostayinarelationship.
It'sawasteoftimetosaythingslike"letsbeafamilyagain"blahblahblah."letsget
togetherforthekids"
Eventhoughitcouldbeastrongreasonwhenshefeelsgoodabouttherelationship.For
example,she'smentionedonseveraloccasionshowshegrewupwithoutafatherinthe
houseandit'simportantforhertostaytogetherforthesakeofthekids,ifshe'sata
pointwhereshe'sendedtherelationshiporsheisconsideringit,thereasonsarealready
outweighingthat.
That'swhyit'spointless.
Andnotonlythat,wheneveraguymakesreasonstogetbacktogetherthatarebased
onthingsthataretotallydifferentfromherreasonforsplittingup,itmakesthings100x
worse.
It'skindofliketheguywhospentthenightoverhisexgirlfriend'shouse.Ifhespends
allofhisenergyconvincingherthathedidn'thavesex(eventhoughit'sveryimportant
forhertohaveaboyfriendwhodoesn'tsleepwithotherwomen),makingTHATCASE
whenshe'ssplittingforatotallydifferentreasonmakesthings100xworse.
Soevenifshecaresaboutstayingtogetherforthekids,orhavingaloyalpartner,if
somethingelseistheCOREREASON,theargumenthastobestrongonaContextual
Level+ContentLevel.
Screwoneofthemup(alongwitheverythingelsethatImentioned)andtheoddsof
gettingbackgodowntremendously!
SoIwanttomentionthat(eventhoughyoudidn'tsayyou'vesaidthattoher),because
it'soneofthecommonmistakesthatmakethingsworse.
Soasarule,youALWAYSwanttostartwith(#1)acommentaboutchangethat(#2)
setsthestageinastrongway.
Forexample:"I'vebeendoingalotofthinkingandithitme.Youare100%rightwith
everythingyou'vesaid.I'vebeenreplayingwhatyou'vesaidoverandoveragaininmy
mind.AndIhadahugeawakeningblahblahblahIspentsomuchtimetryingtogetyou
back,Ididn'tspendenoughtimethinkingabouthowIcanbeabetterpartnertoyou.
I'vebeendoingalotofreadingandthinking.AndIrealizejusthowvaluableyouare.I'm
notsureifyou'llevertakemebackblahblahblahIreallyhopethatyou'llconsiderit.
Eitherway,you'vemademeabetterperson."
Youtechnicallydon'tknowwhatyou'renextmoveshouldbeuntilyou'vesetthefirst
setofmessages(viatextorwhatever)basedonthesituationandsoon.
Youwanttostartwithmessagesthathavethattheme.
It'sabetter"pitch/message"tosaysomethingthatimplies:lifewillbemorepleasurable
withmeinyourlifethantosaysomethingthatimplies:
"Takemeback.Andkeepputtingupwithmyissues"
"Takemeback.Wehavekids.Keepputtingupwithmyissues"
"Takemeback.KeepputtingupwithmyissuesbecauseadoctorjustrevealedwhyI'm
angrywithyouallofthetime"
"Takemeback.Keepputtingupwithmyissues.Idon'tplantodoanything
new/differenttodramaticallyoutweighthings.
"Takemeback.KeepputtingupwithmyissuesbecauseIputupwithyourissues,too.
Thisishowthetypical95%ofguysthink.
Thisishowaverageguysthink.
Ihopethathelps
Forthemostpart,youwanttogethertofocusontheideathatyou'vechanged.
Youmightnotneedtodoanythingfancyorpsychologicallyadvanced.
Focusondoingthatmoresothattryingtoconvincehertotakeyouback.itmayeven
helptorefertoyouroldselfas"OldKevin"andtalkaboutyournewselfasbeing"New
Kevin"asawayofcreatingapsychologicalseparationbetweenhowyouwillbehavein
thefutureandhowyou'lltreatherdifferentlyinthefuture.
MuchSuccess!
CRJames
Linksmentionedinthisreport
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monster_Study
http://superpowermedia.com/ssuv2.html
http://superseductionpower.com/
http://superpowermedia.com/blog/distinction1averageguysarequicktogiveup
whilesgguysare
http://superpowermedia.com/blog/thepsychologicalscrewdriverinitiationmethod
http://superpowermedia.com/154ways.html
http://superpowermedia.com/53newways2015.html
Mostrecentreports
http://superpowermedia.com/The33Strategies.html
http://superpowermedia.com/subvoid.html
http://superpowermedia.com/supersuppliments100.html
KeyPointsinreport
15SimpleComplimentTactics
#1:Thedirectcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.
#2:Thethirdpartycompliment
IwastalkingtoBob.Hesaidyourhairlooksnice.
#3:Thecomplimentmentionedtosomeoneelse
IwastalkingtoBobabouthowniceyourhairlooks.
#4:Thedeepstackingcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.Ilikethenewcolor,howshinyitisandthestyle.
#5:Theperceptionimpactcompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.Itmakesyoulooksexy,confidentandclassy.
#6:Theimpactonyoucompliment
Yourhairlooksnice.It'ssosexy.Itmakesmewanttodonaughtythingstoyou.
#7:Thepastcompliment.
Ilikehowyourhairlookedlastmonth.
#8:Thedecisioncompliment.
Yourhairlooksnice.Itwassmarttogobacktoyouroldhairstylist.
#9:Thefuturevirtualcompliment.
Ifyougotyourhairdonelikethat,youwouldlooksmokinghotbecauseblahblah
blah.
#10:Theobservationimpactcompliment
Therewerethreeguysatthetablebehinduscheckingoutyourhair.
#11:Thevalue(time/money/etc)compliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.Ican'tbelieveitonlycostyou$XXX.XXanditonlytookX
hourstogetdone.
#12:Thescientificfactcompliment.
AccordingtoDr.Smartguy,90%ofmenpreferwomenwhosehaircolorisX.
#13:Thesuperiorpreferencecompliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.I'vealwayslovedwomenwhohairisX.Insteadofwomen
whosehairisY.
#14:Thesuperioradvantagecompliment.
Yourhairlooksamazing.It'sgoingtohelpyouwithX.
#15:Thecomplementcompliment
Yourhairlooksamazing.Itgoesperfectlywithyoureyes.
Twogameplansallguysshouldapply
GamePlan#1:Sendingongoingsignals:
(1)Makeherfeelgood(i.e.sexy/beautiful/confident/amazing/happy)+(2)Buildthe
valueofsex+(3)Buildyoursexualvalue+(4)RemoveAntiSeductiveBehaviors(if
necc.)
GamePlan#2:Gettingherinthemood
(5)Buildsexualtension(ST+ST+ST+ST+etc)+(6)InitiateSex
Thetwolayersofcommunication
Layer#1:Thecontentlayer(theactualmessage)
Layer#2:Thecontextlayer(howitrelatestothesituation)
Examples:
Thesituation:Lisawasnervousaboutgoingtoanewhairstylist.(Bobisherboyfriend.)
Bob:"Yourhairlooksnice.Ilikethenewcolor,howshinyitisandthestyle."
Contentscore:A+
Contextscore:A+
Overall:A+
Result:Shehugshimandsays"Thanks!!"
Thesituation:Karenwasnervousaboutgoingtoanewhairstylist.(Craigisacreepy
dudeshenevermetbefore.)
Craigjumpsoutofthebushesandsays
Craig:"Yourhairlooksnice.Ilikethenewcolor,howshinyitisandthestyle."
Contentscore:A+
Contextscore:F
Overall:F
Result:Sheflashesanervoussmilewhilegrippingontohertaserguninherpurse.