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Instructions

This is your general guide to using a WWWChart effectively!


Step 1: Gather your materials! Youll need:

Paper
A Black Sharpie
Highlighters or Light Markers (Optional)
A Printer
A Pencil
Print out the WWWChart of your choice! I recommend printing them out on scratch paper (holler at
being eco-friendly).

Step 2: Prep Your Brain to Think About Sex

If Youre Filling This Out for Yourself


o As you go through each list, you can think about what activities youre down for in an overall
sense. Doing a WWWChart is a great way to get clear on your own desires AND might make for
excellent spank bank deposits (in other words, masturbation fantasies).
If Youre Filling This Out With A Partner
o As you go through the list, have your current partner in mind when you fill this out. This will be
a great way for the two of you to get real clear on allllll the sexy things you can do together! So
remember: be honest! Part of having great sex (and being in a great partnership, for that
matter) is being willing to accept our desires and ask for them!

Step 3: Get to Know the WWWChart

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Each chart has its own specific focus, so make sure you read the heading before you begin.
Some charts have two different levels of analysis:
Activity
Want!
Will
Wont.
Items In Bold Are The General Activity
Items below may be suggestions for body
location where the activity can happen.
Items below may also be suggestions for
how to accomplish the activity above.

Step 4: Fill Out The WWWChart

As you fill out the chart, you can think about the Want, Will and Wont as follows:
Want!
Will
Wont.
Yes! Yes! Yes! I sooooo want to
I could be convinced to do this.
Hell to the no. Not ever.
do this. Sounds incredibly hot! I
OR I wouldnt mind doing this.
definitely need to make this
OR I would do this if my partner
happen.
wants to.

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

You may have already noticed that there are a LOT of items on these charts. I recommend you tackle
filling out the charts at a pace that is comfortable for you. You can take this chart section-by-section,
page-by-page, or you can just marathon your way through it. If at any point youre feeling
overwhelmed it is A-OK to put the pencil down and hop back in at any time.

Either before OR during the filling-out process, you can take the black sharpie and cross out any fields
that dont apply to you or to your partner.
For example, if I were filling out a Beneficiary of Bliss WWWChart, it might look something like this:
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Being Kissed
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On Anus
3.
On Breasts
4.
On Penis
5.
On Testicles
6.
On Vulva
(I dont have a penis or testicles, so I cant be kissed on them. Hence crossing them off my chart.)

Pay attention to your response to the bolded activities. If you say Wont. to an entire category of
activity, then you dont have to fill out the suggestions that follow. You can just skip to the next bold
item.

Step 5: Do Some Data Processing

If you prepped with markers or highlighters, bust em out!


If you are flying solo:
o Go through your lists and highlight your Wants! in one color, your Wills in another, and
youre welcome to either cross out your Wonts. OR highlight your Wonts in another color.
Being Kissed
Want!
Will
Wont.
On Anus
x
On Breasts
x
On Vulva
x

If you are doing this with a partner:


o Match your Purveyor of Pleasure (PoP) WWWChart with your partners Beneficiary of Bliss
(BoB) WWWChart and vice versa. The numbers are in alignment!
o At the top of one Purveyor of Pleasure list, indicate who the PoP is and who is the BoB.
o Go through the lists and transfer the marks from the BoB Chart onto the PoP Chart.
o Grab a different color for each of the following possible outcomes: Activities you both Want!,
activities you both Wont. do, and Activities you need to talk about!
Being Kissed
Want!
Will
Wont
On Anus
XX
On Breasts
XX
On Penis
XX
On Testicles
X
X
On Vulva
X
X
On Mouth
X
X
o Grab your other Purveyor of Pleasure Sheet, mark names at the top, and repeat!

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2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Step 6: Analyze Your Data

If you are fabulously single!


o You just made yourself an easy to understand desire chart!

If you are rockin it in relationship town.


o Two Xs in your Want! column means that yall are in agreement! These are your shared
desires and things that youre totally good to do!
o Two Xs is your Wont. column means that yall are in agreement! You can totally never talk
about these activities again, as you know that youre both okay with never doing them.
o Any other combination of Xs means that you have a little more work to do because:
Youre both willing to do something, but not psyched about a particular activity (Two Xs
in the Will. Column)
One of you really wants something, and the other person isnt as excited. (One X in the
Want! Column; One X in the Will. Column).
One of you really wants something, and the other person is like, Uh uh, no way. (One
X in the Want! Column; One X in the Wont column).
One of you is willing to do something, and the other person is like No. Absolutely not.
(One X in the Will column; One X in the Wont Column.)

Step 7: Take Action

Single!
o Here are three fun suggestions for use of your Want!WillWontChart results:
1. Examine your preferences and start to think about why youve placed Xs where you
have. Doing this activity can help you to articulate to future partners why it is that you
just really really really Want! something, or why you absolutely Wont. do something.
2. Make a Want!WillWont poster. Show to potential sex partners for screening
purposes.
3. Use your Want! list to write some hot erotica.
4. Two words: Drinking Game.

Not Single!
o Here are four suggestions for use of your Want!WillWontChart results:
1. Take all of your mutual Wants! and write them on a sheet of paper (or put them in a
word document, or make a check-list using an app on your smartphone). Make sure
each person gets a copy. Start doing those activities!
2. Give each partner the list where they have been identified as the Purveyor of Pleasure.
Seperately, study the list and choose 1 or 2 things youll try out on your partner the next
time you have some great sex!
3. With anything that you dont agree on, start to chat about how you can move activities
to either the Lets do this end of things or the Lets not do this end of things. (Note:
This is another time when you may want to tackle things slowly.)
4. Get a twister spinner. Put some mutual Wants! over the dots. Let that spinner fly! Sex
it up!

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Important Notes

The WWWCharts do not have every single activity that a human could do sexually. If theres
something that you didnt find on a chart that you think should be on there e-mail Becca @
SmartHotFun.Com. (Please note that more WWWCharts are also on the way!!)

This activity is designed to help you clarify your desires, which is great! However, realize that in doing
this you may learn that you have desires or your partner has desires that are surprising to you.
Because some serious revelations may happen during this activity, I recommend you go in there with a
compassionate attitude.

When filling this out with a partner, I recommend doing the initial phases alone. Filling out the
WWWChart by yourself gives you:
A. The freedom to fill out the chart and think about things at your own pace.
B. Greater ability for honesty because there isnt anyone all up in your face waiting for answers.
C. The ability to have whatever reactions you need to have privately before sharing.
Because you may not know how your partner feels about some of these activities,
dancing with joy when your partner is grossed out OR making a gagging noise when your
partner is turned on by something may not help with the communication about that
activity. Being able to have your reaction alone can often help you to rock some sort of
poker face when youre sharing. This can be a huge boon to constructive
communication.

If youre not up for talking about what you want to do sexually, youre probably not ready for the
partnered WWWChart activity. It may be a good idea for you to do this on your own so that you can
work your way up to talking about this with someone else.

The WWWChart activity is not a one-time thing! Sexual tastes change throughout life because of
physical aging, partner changes, experience, and many other reasons. Revisiting your WWWChart is a
great idea!

Have Fun!
Seriously. Although doing this process takes some
time/work/energy, the trade-off is starting an epic
journey toward consistently great sex!
Are you a programmer looking to get into web-app/phone-app development? Maybe youre looking to
start or change your career? Please contact Becca@SmartHotFun.Com! She wants to chat you up.

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Beneficiary of Bliss
This chart is going to help you clarify the sexy things you want/will let a partner do to you during sex play!
When youre filling out this chart, think about whether the activity listed is something you want someone to
do you, something you will let someone do to you, or something you just wont do.
This WWWChart is designed to be used with the Purveyor of Pleasure WWWChart. Click here to get it!
For directions on how to use a WWWChart, Click Here!

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Activity
Having A Partner Anally Valprehend
Your Penis
Your Tongue
Your Fingers
Your Toes
Watching Your Partner
Have Sex With Another Person
Masturbate
Give A Strip-Tease
Undress
Massage/Touch Themselves
Finger Themselves
Pose
Being Bitten/Nibbled
Abdomen
Backs
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Clitoris
Ears
Labia
Inner Thighs
Necks
Nipples
Penis
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Having Your Blood Let
With Blades
With Fingernails
With Needles
With Teeth

Want!

Will

Wont.

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Activity
Being Blown/Breathed On
In Ear
In Mouth
On Abdomen
On Anus
On Back
On Breasts
On Butt Cheeks
On Fingers
On Inner Thighs
On Neck
On Nipples
On Penis
On Scalp
On Skin
On Testicles
On Toes
On Vulva
Bondage
Having Your Ankles Bound
Having Your Wrists Bound
Being Blindfolded
Being Constricted
Being Gagged
Being Pinned
Having Your Arms Pinned Above Your Head
Being Tied Up In Ropes
Being Suspended
Getting Choked
Having Your Gratification Delayed
Submitting
Allowing your partner to be in charge
Participating in a scene your partner created
Taking Orders
Playing A Submissive Character
Being Double Penetrated
Penis in Your Anus, Fingers in Your Vagina
Penis in Your Anus, Sex Toy in Your Vagina
Penis in Your Vagina, Sex Toy in Your Anus
Penis your Vagina, Fingers in Your Anus
Toys in Your Anus and Vagina
Having A Partner Eat/Ingest
Anal Secretions
Breast Milk

Want!

Will

Wont.

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Activity
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Want!

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Wont.

Feces
Female Ejaculate
Flavored Lubricants
Food
Menstrual Fluid
Saliva
Semen
Sweat
Urine
Vaginal Fluids
Vomit
Having A Partner Ejaculate
In your Mouth
In your Vagina
In your Anus
On your Back
On your Chest
On your Face
On your Neck
On your Penis
On your Vulva
On your Abdomen
On your Butt Cheeks
On your Skin
Erotica
Having a Partner Write Erotica For You
Listening To A Partner Read Aloud
Having X Expelled Onto You
X = Feces
X = Urine
X = Vomit
Being Fed
Being Fisted
In Your Vagina
In Your Anus/Rectum
Being Flicked
Ear Lobes
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Testicles
Vulva
Being Flogged
Back

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Want!

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Butt Cheeks
Calves
Thighs
Grooming Own Hair
Abdomen
Anal
Areola
Armpit
Back
Butt Cheek
Chest
Facial
Mons Pubis
Perineum
Scrotum
Vulva
Having Hair Groomed By A Partner
Abdomen
Anal
Areola
Armpit
Back
Butt Cheek
Chest
Facial
Mons Pubis
Perineum
Scrotum
Vulva
Being Groped/Cupped
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Calves
Inner Thighs
Scalp
Testicles
Vulva
Having Fingers Inserted
Into Your Mouth
Into Your Rectum
Into Your Vagina
Into Your Anus
Having A Penis Inserted
In your Armpit

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Activity
In between Your Breasts
In between Your Butt Cheeks
In between Your Labia (No Penetration)
In between Your Skin Folds
In between Your Thighs
Into Your Mouth
Into Your Vagina
Into Your Anus/Rectum
Having Toes Inserted
Into your Mouth
Into your Vagina
Into your Anus/Rectum
Having A Tongue Inserted
Into your Mouth
Into your Vagina
Into your Anus/Rectum
Being Kissed
Abdomen
Anus
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Scalp
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Receiving A Lap Dance
Naked
Through Clothes
Being Licked
Abdomen
Anus
Back
Breasts

Want!

Will

Wont.

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Scalp
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Massaging With Feet/Toes
Abdomen
Anus
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Scalp
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Being Massaged With Hands/Fingers
Abdomen
Anus
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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G-Spot
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Prostate (P-Spot)
Scalp
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vagina
Vulva
Using Massage Oils
Using Lotion
Using Lube
Being Pinched
Abdomen
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Being Scratched
Abdomen
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Neck
Nipples
Penis
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Side By Side Masturbation
Simultaneous Genital Massage
Simultaneous Oral Play (69, Dudes!)
Being Slapped
Abdomen
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Being Smelled
Anus
Armpits
Breath
Farts
Neck
Perineum
Testicles
Vulva
Being Spit On
In Your Mouth
On Your Face
On Your Penis
On Your Vulva
On Your Anus
On Your Breasts
On Your Skin

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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On Your Testicles
Dominating
Giving Orders
Playing a Dominant Character
Taking Charge
Having A Partner Suck
Your Clitoris
Your Penis
Your Vulva
Your Anus
Your Ears
Your Fingers
Your Lips
Your Neck
Your Nipples
Your Skin
Your Testicles
Your Toes
Your Tongue
Listening to Dirty Talk
Temperature Play
In Your Vagina
In Your Rectum
In Your Anus
On Your Penis
On Your Vulva
On Your Anus
On Your Skin
Being Tickled
Abdomen
Armpits
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Penis
Scalp
Skin
Testicles

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Wont.

Toes
Vulva
Being Tugged
Clitoris
Ear Lobes
Hair
Labia
Nipples
Penis
Testicles
Having A Partner Vaginally Valprehend
Your Penis
Your Tongue
Your Fingers
Your Toes
Being Watched
Fingering Yourself
Having Sex With Someone Else
Masturbating
Performing a Strip-Tease
Posing
Touch/Massage Yourself
Undressing

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Purveyor of Pleasure
This WWWChart is to help you think about the things you want to do to/for someone youre sexing up!
When youre filling out this chart, think about whether the activity listed is something you want to do
someone, something you will do for someone, or something you just wont do.
This WWWChart is designed to be used with the Beneficiary of Bliss WWWChart. Click here to get it!
For directions on how to use a WWWChart, Click Here!
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Activity
Anally Valprehend
A Penis
A Tongue
Fingers
Toes
Being Watched
Having Sex With Another Person
Masturbating
Strip-Tease
Undressing
Massaging/Touching Yourself
Fingering Yourself
Posing
Biting/Nibbling
Abdomen
Backs
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Clitoris
Ears
Labia
Inner Thighs
Necks
Nipples
Penis
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Bloodletting
With Blades
With Fingernails
With Needles
With Teeth

Want!

Will

Wont.

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Activity
Blowing/Breathing
In Ear
In Mouth
On Abdomen
On Anus
On Back
On Breasts
On Butt Cheeks
On Fingers
On Inner Thighs
On Neck
On Nipples
On Penis
On Scalp
On Skin
On Testicles
On Toes
On Vulva
Bondage
Binding a Partners Ankles
Binding a Partners Wrists
Blindfolding a Partner
Constricting a Partner
Gagging a Partner
Pinning a Partner
Pinning Arms Above a Partners Head
Tying A Partner Up With Rope
Suspending a Partner
Choking
Delaying Gratification
Dominating
Being In Charge
Creating a Scene
Giving Orders
Playing A Dominant Character
Double Penetration
Penis in Anus, Fingers in Vagina
Penis in Anus, Sex Toy In Vagina
Penis in Vagina, Fingers in Anus
Penis in Vagina, Sex Toy in Anus
Toys in Both Anus and Vagina
Eating/Ingesting
Anal Secretions
Breast Milk

Want!

Will

Wont.

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Feces
Female Ejaculate
Flavored Lubricants
Food
Menstrual Fluid
Saliva
Semen
Sweat
Urine
Vaginal Fluids
Vomit
Ejaculating
In a Mouth
In a Vagina
In an Anus
On a Back
On a Chest
On a Face
On a Neck
On a Penis
On a Vulva
On an Abdomen
On Butt Cheeks
On Skin
Erotica
Writing For A Partner
Reading To A Partner
Expelling X Onto A Partner
X = Feces
X = Urine
X = Vomit
Feeding Someone
Fisting
A Vagina
An Anus/Rectum
Flicking
Ear Lobes
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Testicles
Vulva
Flogging
Back

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Activity
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Butt Cheeks
Calves
Thighs
Grooming Own Hair
Abdomen
Anal
Areola
Armpit
Back
Butt Cheek
Chest
Facial
Mons Pubis
Perineum
Scrotum
Vulva
Grooming Partners Hair
Abdomen
Anal
Areola
Armpit
Back
Butt Cheek
Chest
Facial
Mons Pubis
Perineum
Scrotum
Vulva
Groping/Cupping
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Calves
Inner Thighs
Scalp
Testicles
Vulva
Inserting Fingers
Into a Mouth
Into a Rectum
Into a Vagina
Into an Anus
Inserting Penis
In an Armpit

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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In between Breasts
In between Butt Cheeks
In between Labia (No Penetration)
In between Skin Folds
In between Thighs
Into a Mouth
Into a Vagina
Into an Anus/Rectum
Inserting Toes
Into a Mouth
Into a Vagina
Into an Anus/Rectum
Inserting Your Tongue
Into a Mouth
Into a Vagina
Into an Anus/Rectum
Kissing
Abdomen
Anus
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Scalp
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Lap Dance
Naked
Through Clothes
Licking
Abdomen
Anus
Back
Breasts

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2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Activity
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Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Scalp
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Massaging With Feet/Toes
Abdomen
Anus
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Scalp
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Massaging With Hands/Fingers
Abdomen
Anus
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Activity
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G-Spot
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Perineum
Prostate (P-Spot)
Scalp
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vagina
Vulva
Using Massage Oils
Using Lotion
Using Lube
Pinching
Abdomen
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Scratching
Abdomen
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Activity
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Neck
Nipples
Penis
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Side By Side Masturbation
Simultaneous Genital Massage
Simultaneous Oral Play (69, Dudes!)
Slapping
Abdomen
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Nipples
Penis
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Vulva
Smelling
Anus
Armpits
Breath
Farts
Neck
Perineum
Testicles
Vulva
Spitting
In a Mouth
On a Face
On a Penis
On a Vulva
On an Anus
On Breasts
On Skin

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Activity
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On Testicles
Submission
Taking Orders
Playing a Submissive Character
Letting Someone Else Take Charge
Sucking
A Clitoris
A Penis
A Vulva
An Anus
Ears
Lips
Fingers
Necks
Nipples
Skin
Testicles
Toes
Tongue
Talking Dirty
Temperature Play
In a Vagina
In a Rectum
In an Anus
On A Penis
On a Vulva
On an Anus
On Skin
Tickling
Abdomen
Armpits
Back
Breasts
Butt Cheeks
Ears
Face
Fingers
Inner Thighs
Mouth
Neck
Penis
Scalp
Skin
Testicles

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

Activity
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Toes
Vulva
Tugging
Clitoris
Ear Lobes
Hair
Labia
Nipples
Penis
Testicles
Vaginally Valprehending
A Penis
A Tongue
Fingers
Toes
Watching A Partner
Finger Themselves
Have Sex With Someone Else
Masturbate
Perform a Strip-Tease
Pose
Touch/Massage Themselves
Undress

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Vibrators
Power Source
Battery Operated
Chorded/Electric
Rechargeable Battery
Material
Elastomer
Hard Plastic
Latex
Silicone
Design
External Only
Internal (Can be used externally)
Simultaneous Internal/External
G-Spot Curve
P-Spot Curve
Clitoral Vibration Focused
Full Vulva Vibration Focused
Penis Focused
Anus Focused
Looks Like A Penis
Doesnt Look Like A Penis
Discreet (I.e. Lipstick Vibes, Ducky Vibes)
Waterproof
Splash Proof
Wearable
Hands-Free
Ergonomic
Vibration
Constant
Pulsating
Programmed Patterns
Music Controlled
2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Butt Toys
Material
Glass
Hard Plastic
Silicone
Stainless Steel
Wood
Design
Beads
Dildo
Harnessable
P.C. (Kegel) Exerciser
Plug
P-Spot Curve
Self-Manipulating
Vibrating
Dildos
Material
Acrylic
Glass
Silicone
Stainless Steel
Wood
Design
Looks Like A Penis
Doesnt Look Like A Penis
No Testicles
With Testicles
Suction Cup Base
Flat Base (Harnessable, Anal Safe)
G-Spot Curve
P-Spot Curve
Vibrating
Double
Harness-Less Strap-On
P.C. (Kegel) Exerciser
Edibles
Body Dust (Flavored Corn-Starch)
Body Pens
Chocolate Stencils
Edible Bra
Edible Underwear
Flavored Lube
Edible Massage Oil
Paint-On Chocolate
2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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79. Harnesses
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Material
81. Cotton
82. Leather
83. Nylon
84. Spandex
85. Velvet
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Design (Youd Like To Wear)
87. Bike Shorts
88. Boy Shorts
89. Jock Strap
90. Thong (Strap In Between Butt Cheeks)
91. Two Strap (Straps Around Butt Cheeks)
92. Thigh Strap (Wraps around Thigh)
93. Vibrator Pocket
94. Space for Two Dildos
95. Static Dildo Opening
96. Flexible Dildo Opening
97. Changeable Ring-System Dildo Opening
98.
Use
99. Anal Penetration
100. Vaginal Penetration
101. Double Penetration
102.
Tightening System
103. Buckles
104. D-Rings
105. One Size Fits Many
106. Velcro
107. Lube
108.
Material
109. Water-Based
110. Silicone-Based
111. Oil-Based
112.
Consistency
113. Liquid (Thinner)
114. Cream (Mid-Range)
115. Gel (Thick)
116.
Lasting Power
117. Good for Short Durations
118. Good for Moderate Durations
119. Good for Long Durations
120.
Specialty
121. Hypoallergenic/Glycerin Free
122. Vegan
123. Warming
2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)

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Toy
Massage
Clitoral Creams
Massage Bars
Massage Candles
Massage Lotion
Massage Oil
Partner Toys
Vibrating Cock Rings
Intercourse Vibes
Furniture
Penis Toys
Ball-Spreader Cock Rings
Instantly Removable Cock Rings
O Cock Rings
Disposable Sleeves
Head Vibes
Penis Pump
Portable Disposable Sleeves
Prostate Massagers
Reusable Sleeves
Shaft Vibes
Sensation Toys
Ankle Restraints
Ball Gag
Blindfolds
Bondage Rope
Bondage Tape
Crops
Floggers
Nipple Clamps
Pinwheels
Slappers
Ticklers
Whips
Wrist Restraints

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Wont.

2011 Becca Brewer, M.Ed. (distributed with permission by Catherine Toyooka and Catherine Coaches)