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ears
are
pierced.
This
is
their
initiation
into
the
world
of
feminine
beautification
(Gottlieb
1998:124.)
The
way
that
Gottlieb
puts
this
makes
it
sound
like
western
cultures
do
nothing
that
early
on
to
indicate
sex
of
babies
and
teach
gender.
On
the
contrary,
we
do
much
worse
to
our
infants.
Pink
or
blue
everything,
piercing
ears,
adorning
girls
in
bows
and
sparkles,
dressing
babies
in
superhero
or
princess
costumes;
all
these
things
ways
that
we
initiate
them
into
the
world
of
feminine
and
masculine
binaries.
Divination
is
referred
to
many
times
in
Gottliebs
piece
when
she
talks
about
how
Beng
parents
are
meant
to
deal
with
unhappy
or
unhealthy
infants.
It
is
believed
that
they
are
trying
to
communicate
unhappiness
from
their
past
(wrugbe)
parents
to
their
new
parents.
This
is
taken
very
seriously
and
a
diviner
who
Gottlieb
quotes
often
in
her
writing,
Kouakou
Ba,
stresses
that
infants
should
be
taken
in
for
divination
immediately.
It
is
understood
in
the
Beng
culture
that
if
wrugbe
parents
are
unhappy
with
how
the
child
is
being
raised
by
their
earthly
parents
they
can
take
back
their
child.
There
is
speculation
that
it
acts
as
a
way
of
explaining
the
high
rate
of
child
mortality
in
their
culture
(Gottlieb
1998.)
Gottlieb
wonders
in
her
writing
if
its
possible
that
Kouakou
Bas
motivations
are
not
only
ideological
but
also
economically
motivated,
after
all
he
does
make
more
money
off
of
good
parents
who
call
him
right
away
when
there
is
a
problem
with
their
child.
Not
only
is
he
making
money
but
he
may
also
explain
to
them
that
their
child
needs
them
to
give
them
specific
presents
such
as
cowrie
shells
or
silver
bracelets
(Gottlieb
1998.)
When
Gottlieb
discussed
her
reaction
to
party
of
the
ritual
following
an
infants
umbilical
chord
falling
off
I
felt
that
she
was
being
ethnocentric.
Because
she
wouldnt
give
her
own
children
enemas
she
looked
down
on
this
part
of
the
Beng
peoples
ritual.
Its
not
only
something
that
they
do
to
babies;
the
Beng
people
practice
enemas
on
children
throughout
childhood
and
then
on
themselves
as
they
become
adults
(Gottlieb
1998.)
She
writes
that
it
is
clearly
causing
distress
to
the
crying
child
(124)
and
I
wondered:
does
the
western
world
not
knowingly
cause
distress
to
infants
as
well?
Do
they
not
cry
when
we
bathe
them,
take
them
to
get
routine
shots,
and
strap
them
into
car
seats?
What
makes
our
ways
of
upsetting
babies
more
appropriate
than
the
Beng
peoples?
Also
if
she
was
going
for
the
angle
that
it
is
not
the
best
medical
way
to
toilet
train
a
child
then
there
should
have
been
a
reference
to
a
source
that
says
that.
Instead
theres
nothing
to
back
the
feeling
up;
its
merely
an
opinion.
Overall
Alma
Gottlieb
explains
the
spiritual
life
of
Beng
infants
thoroughly.
She
addresses
why
they
are
considered
to
be
more
spiritual
that
adults
and
how
adults
recognize
it
in
the
way
that
they
raise
children.
It
seems
that
even
within
western
culture
parenting
styles
can
differ
from
household
to
household
and
some
are
quite
polarized
by
choices
that
other
parents
make.
Because
of
this
I
wasnt
surprised
when
Gottliebs
opinion
came
through
when
writing
about
the
ritual
of
giving
children
enemas
and
piercing
female
childrens
ears.
References
Cited
Gottlieb,
A.
1998
Do
infants
have
religion?:
The
Spiritual
Lives
of
Beng
Babies.
American
Anthropologist.
100(1):122-135.