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Personally,
I experienced many great moments while teaching. These were days when I ended so
happy and enthusiastic that I knew I had selected the right profession. On the other
hand, I had days where I definitely questioned teaching as a career. These were days
where the students seemed uninterested, too talkative, or even worse a blow up
occurred and nothing got accomplished.
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Through my 14 years of teaching and working in education, one event stands above the
rest as my absolute best teaching experience. Through it I learned so much about
teaching and dealing with students. My hope is that the student involved was at least
partially changed for the better from the experience as I was.
I also hope that there is something in this story that can help inform and inspire you.
would ask questions of students, calling them by name. This helped me learn their
names while getting the kids involved. Unfortunately, every time I called on him he
would respond with a flip answer. He knew the answers when he listened but he didn't
want to be called on. If he got an answer wrong, he would get very angry.
About a month into the year, I was beating my head against the wall trying to connect
with Tyler. I could usually get these kids to be involved or at the very least to sit quietly.
However, he was just loud and obnoxious.
Tyler had been in so much trouble through the years that it had become his modus
operandi. He expected it and he expected his teachers to know about his referrals and
suspensions. For every new teacher, he'd push and push seeing what it would take to
get a referral. I tried to outlast him and work things out my way. I had rarely found
referrals to be effective because students would return worse than before.
One particular day, Tyler was talking while I was teaching. In the middle of teaching I
said in the same tone of voice, "Tyler why don't you join our discussion instead of having
one of your own." With that, he got up from his chair, pushed it over, and yelled
something I can't remember other than including the words, "You B----!" Well that was
definitelyreferral time. I sent him to the office with a discipline referral, and he received a
week's out of school suspension.
Now so far you might be asking how this could be my best teaching experience. So far it
was actually one of my worst. I dreaded that class every day. His anger and mumbled
words under my breath were almost too much for me. The week's out of school
suspension was a wonderful hiatus, and we got a lot accomplished that week. However,
the week soon came to an end, and I began dreading his return. I knew from talking with
his other teachers that he would be back angrier and with a chip on his shoulder.
I devised a plan. On the day of his return, I stood at the door waiting for him. As soon as
I saw him, I asked him to talk for a moment. He seemed unhappy to do it but agreed. I
basically told him that I wanted to start over with him. Further, I gave him permission that
if he felt like he was going to lose control in class he could step right outside the door for
a moment to collect himself.
From that point on, Tyler was a changed student in my classroom. He listened, he
participated. He was actually a smart child and I could finally get to see this in him. He
even stopped a fight between two other students one day. And you know the most ironic
part of it all? He never, ever used the privilege I had given him to leave the class for a
moment. I believe that just giving him the power to decide for himself made all the
difference.
At the end of the year, he wrote me a thank you note about how good the year had been
for him. I still have it today and find it very touching to reread when I get stressed about
teaching.
Conclusion
In the end, this experience changed me as a teacher. Students are people who have
feelings and who don't want to feel cornered. They want to learn but they also want to
feel as if they have some control over themselves. I never made assumptions again
about a student before they came into my class. Every student is different; no two
students react in the same way. It is our tasks as teachers to find not only what
motivates each student to learn but also what motivates them to misbehave. If we can
meet them at that point and take away that motivation, we can go a long way towards a
more effective classroom and learning experience.