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Making hummus treif again
Who owns the chickpea paste
known as hummus? Is it an Israeli

dish? A Lebanese specialty?
It turns out that while advocates
of Middle Eastern countries were
distracted by
Not for male Vulcans only:

Spock (Leonard Nimoy)
exchanges the Vulcan
salute with TPau (Betty
Matsushita) in a 1967
episode of Star Trek.
Spock blesses Women of the

Wall from beyond the grave
Fans of science fiction know that
death had no dominion over Mr. Spock,

the child of human-Vulcan intermarriage who died in Star Trek II and returned in Star Trek III. It turns out that
Leonard Nimoy, the Jewish actor who
portrayed Mr. Spock for nearly 50 years
and died last February, lives on or at
least his influence does.
The Women of the Wall have
announced that they will hold a
womens priestly blessing at the
Kotel on Pesach with support for
marketing from Mr. Nimoys estate and
from his widow, Susan Bay Nimoy.
The priestly blessing is the formula
that God, in the Book of Numbers,
commanded Aarons descendants to
bestow on the people. In traditional
Ashkenazi synagogues, kohanim men
who are descendants of the priestly
caste go to the bimah, hold their
hands out, fingers paired and split
down the middle, and recite the threepart liturgy, which begins May God
bless and keep you.
In 1970, a Jerusalem rabbi began
to make it a public event at the Kotel;
last Pesach, the rite attracted tens of
thousands of men.
But the ritual, and in particular its
distinctive hand gesture, has Mr. Nimoy
to thank for its fame. He had seen the
ceremony as a child in his synagogue.
And on a June day in 1967, either during
or immediately following the Six Day
War, he realized that the Star Trek

episode he was working on then would
benefit from some distinctive gesture
of greeting. And thus was born the
Vulcan salute, which accompanied the
greeting reminiscent of the blessing
from Numbers: Live long and prosper.
And as Star Trek went on to live long
and prosper, the priestly hand gesture
entered popular culture. (Now its
available as an emoji character on your
cell phone.)
So perhaps its only logical that the
first public grant from the Nimoy estate
would come to a priestly blessing
even if a rather un-Orthodox one. The
Women of the Wall are inviting women
from the priestly caste to bless the
audience and other women to receive
the blessing. The grant will enable the
group to publicize the event.
The road from press release to
priestly ritual is likely to be a rocky one,
given the ongoing controversy over
non-Orthodox rituals at the Western
Wall. (The rabbi of the Kotel has
backed away from his approval of a
compromise on the issue agreed upon
by Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu
and the Reform and Conservative
movements.)
At least the Kotel conflict, unlike the
one featured on the planet Vulcan in
that 1967 episode, will not be resolved
with a battle to the death.
LARRY YUDELSON
squabbling for the right to hummus,

Americans stepped up to the plate
with their can-do attitude and took
it over for themselves.
Sorry, Muslims and Jews.
Meet your bastardized American
offspring, bacon hummus.
More precisely, Smoky flavored
Bacon hummus, a delicious
blend of smoky hummus
topped with real bacon
brought to us by Stopand-Shops Simply
Enjoy brand.
We have no idea
how it tastes
though as fans of
Sabras jalapenoflavored hummus
(that one is kosher),
we probably have
no standing to
complain about
cross-cultural chickpea
contamination.
But as you can see
from the photograph, our
friend who discovered the
bacon hummus pronounced it
good to the last dip.
LARRY YUDELSON
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Noshes
One day, Hillarys Jewish grandchild will marry Trumps

Jewish grandchild at an AIPAC conference.
A tweet from Jeffrey Goldberg of the Atlantic. (About Hillarys grandchild being
Jewish, yeah, yeah, we know, but whatever)
ITS SHOWDOWN TIME:
Two kosher
superheroes;
two kosher
supervillians
The blockbuster action film, Batman
v. Superman: Dawn
of Justice, is opening on
Friday, March 25. Undoubtedly the late BOB
KANE, who created
Batman, and the late
JERRY SIEGEL and JOE
SCHUSTER, who created
Superman, would be
surprised to see the duo
at odds. But an iconic
superhero showdown is a
novel twist, and well see
how well its done. The
film opens with Batman/
Bruce Wayne (Ben
Affleck) and Superman/
Clark Kent (Henry Cavill)
both in a funk, as they
ponder the casualties of
crime fighting and the
proper use of super
powers. Enter Lex Luthor
(JESSE EISENBERG, 32),
a billionaire sociopath
who plays on their
anxieties and then
orchestrates a mass
murder aimed at turning
the superhero duo
against each other.
Batman v. Superman features the first
appearance of superhero Wonder Woman
in a major movie. The
Jewish press has long
kvelled about the casting of Israeli actress GAL
GADOT, 30 (Fast and
Furious) as Wonder
Woman. The news gets
better: Wonder Woman
is, indeed, a major character in the film, and she
will re-appear in future
DC Extended Universe
films. EZRA MILLER, 23,

as the Flash, also appears in a brief scene. It
seems likely that Miller
(as the Flash) will have
a much bigger role in
the Extended Universe
films to come.
Luthor, by the way,
has another weapon up
his sleeve: He uses some
Kryptonian relics (including body parts from
a Kryptonian villain) to
cook up a giant mutant Frankenstein-type
monster, called Doomsday. There is no clear
evidence that Mary Shelley, who wrote the 1818
novel Frankenstein,
was inspired by the Jewish legend of the golem
a soulless but powerful artificial creature
brought to life though
magic (in some versions, by invoking Gods
name). However, there
is another direct line
from the golem legend
to Doomsday. The most
famous golem was the
one supposedly created
by Rabbi JUDAH LOEW
(1513-1609) of Prague. He
did so to protect Jews
from attacks by nonJews. In all versions of
the Lowe/ golem story,
Rabbi Loew disables the
golem after he protects
Jews but kills innocents
in doing so. Moving
ahead in time, theres
the classic silent German film The Golem
(1915), about the modern
rediscovery of a golem
Jesse Eisenberg
Gal Gadot
Paul Rubens
Coming straight
into your home
Ezra Miller
Merrick Garland
created by a rabbi (modeled on Loew) some four

centuries before. (This
film was co-written and
co-directed by its star
actors, HENRIK GALEEN
and Paul Wegener.) The
Golem clearly influenced the classic 1930s
Frankenstein films directed by James Whale,
and Whales films, much
more than the Shelley
novel, have inspired and
informed later Frankenstein-like film creatures, including, I expect,
Doomsday.
The fact that that
long-serving Iowa
governor Terry
Branstad, a Republican,
and a very big Israel
supporter, is the son of a
Jewish mother (who
became a Lutheran) and
a Lutheran father is not
well known. (Branstad
later converted to
Catholicism.) The fact
that hes a second cousin
of Supreme Court
nominee MERRICK
GARLAND, 63, is even
less well known. Garlands late father, an Iowa
native, and Branstads
late mother were
cousins. Branstad did
support Garlands
appointment to the
federal bench in 1997.
However, he is now
deferring to the decision
of Iowa Republican Senator Charles Grassley, the
head of the Judiciary
Committee, not to hold
confirmation hearings.
This must be a bit
awkward for Branstad,
who met Judge Garland
for the first time about a
month ago, when they
had breakfast together in
N.B.
Washington.
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On March 18, Netflix began streaming a new PeeWee Herman film, Pee-Wees Big Holiday. Herman, of
course, is the famous character created and played by
PAUL REUBENS, 63 (who was born Paul Rubenfeld).
A big star in the 80s, Reubens career was derailed by a
1991 sex scandal that seems almost quaint today in light
of much more serious celeb scandals, like Bill Cosbys.
He revived the Pee Wee Herman character in 2009 and
his stage appearances as Pee Wee have been popular and
acclaimed. Holiday, produced by JUDD APATOW, 48,
has good advance buzz and it works because Reubens
has aged well, and Pee Wees age never was specified
so even at 63, you can accept Reubens in his signature
role. The plot has Herman leaving his hometown of Fairville and going on the first vacation of his life. Hes traveling to New York to celebrate his friend Joes birthday
party. Along the way, he gets caught up in wacky hijinks.
By the way, Reubens late father served in the British
and American air forces during WWII and was one of
the courageous diaspora Jews who flew rickety planes
during Israels War of Independence and were critical to
Israels survival.
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Benjamin Feintuch guides the puck.
The frozen chosen

Frisch hockey team gains glory for Jews on skates
LARRY YUDELSON
wo moments stand out when Joe

Tropp thinks about his recently
concluded high school ice
hockey season. Joe, a Teaneck
sophomore at the Frisch School in Paramus, was assistant captain of his schools
team, the Cougars.
The first moment came on January 31.
Frisch was playing Old Tappan. The score
was 6 to 5. Frisch was behind.
And then, with 13 seconds left, the Cougars scored a goal and tied the game.
We went up against a very good team
we were not supposed to win against, he
said. We managed to not give up even
when we were down, and we tied it up.
The second moment took place off the
ice, when the team learned that it had
made it into the finals of the non-public
division of the NJ State Interscholastic Athletic Association on the strength of its seasons record of 6 wins, 4 losses, and 2 ties.
Not bad for a team in its first year.
All season we tried to prove ourselves
and the fact we actually got some recognition from the public really felt good, Joe
said.
Hearing that news was just awesome,
Evan Fromen of Englewood said. We
were a yeshiva with a team put together
from scratch.
Ice hockey is not the first sport that
comes to mind when you think of yeshiva
teams. Its not that Jews and ice are inherent enemies didnt the lakes and rivers
freeze back in Anatevka? but basketball
and wrestling are much more suited for a
high school gymnasium.
The boys ice hockey team put the roster
of Frischs sports teams, for both boys and
girls, at 26, and it is one of the schools few

teams that competes outside of the yeshiva
league that pits the Jewish high schools of
the metropolitan New York region against
each other in regular matches and annual
tournaments. A couple of other local
yeshiva high schools have hockey clubs
among them, the Torah Academy of Bergen County in Teaneck but they dont
field competitive teams.
It all came about because of the dedication of four parents, said Aron Coren,
Frischs athletic director. They saw a
need. We didnt have an ice hockey program and they really wanted to start one
for their kids.
It began last year as a club before
becoming a team this year.
Its amazing what the ice hockey program does, because its so hard to find ice
time, he said.
The team mostly practices at the rink

in Englewoods MacKay park. It meets up
to three times a week once during the
week, and on Saturday and Sunday nights
when there are no games on the schedule.
They really are dedicated and put in so
much effort, Mr. Coren said. Theyre
playing against kids who practice five
times a week.
The impetus for the team really came
from the players, according to the teams
coach, Ralph Abecassis of Englewood. His
son, Aaron, a junior, is one of the teams
captains. The kids wanted to do it. We
kind of took it from there, he said.
The seeds of the team were planted five
or six years ago, he said, when Aaron and
several of his friends played at the Englewood Field Club. There were so many
Jewish kids signing up that they switched
the Saturday games to Saturday night,
Maury Bauer, Benjamin Feintuch, Sammy Wietschner, and Aaron Abecassis
after Shabbat ended, he said.

These kids have been playing for so
many years, the question was, why does it
have to go to waste after eighth grade? We
parents looked at each other and said, why
dont we try doing something?
From there to a first-year tournament
pretty impressive, even if Frisch lost in the
first round to Saint Joseph Regional High
School in Montvale with a non-competitive
score of 11 to 1.
What you have to realize is since were
a non-public school we have to play in
a non-public division, Mr. Abecassis
said. Youre playing against the powerhouses, schools that recruit based on
their athletic programs.
Frisch, too, now is recruiting students
on the strength of its hockey team, at least
in a small way. For hockey players, Frisch,
as the only yeshiva high school with a
team, has become the school of choice.
But what makes ice hockey so compelling that teenagers are willing to practice
late at night, whenever the team can get
precious access to the ice?
The sport itself is awesome, Evan said.

It takes so much out of you. After a 45-second shift already youre out of breath. You
have to constantly rotate players. Its a
very fast pace. Everyone gets more time
in the game because players are so tired.
The rotation means that even those of
the 28 members of the team who were
new to the sport got a chance to compete.
Every moment counts, Evan said.
Our shifts are a lot faster than in other
sports. Even professionals have short
shifts.
Why is playing on ice more tiring than
playing on a wooden gymnasium floor?
Ive never really understood that
myself, Evan said.
Joe said he was thrilled with the opportunity Frisch gave him to play ice hockey
in a Jewish environment.
I started playing hockey when I was
four years old. I played hockey for a few
years in the Ice House in Hackensack.
Then I was told that I couldnt play on
the good team because I was Jewish and
couldnt play on Saturday. I had to go
Evan Fromen
Charlie Frielich guards the goal.
around from league to league and find the

teams that accept me and let me play on
Sundays but not Saturday. Its been hard.
Frisch gave me the opportunity.
But despite its relative success, the
Frisch ice hockey team hasnt made a
true believer of Mr. Coren, the athletic

director.
I tried it once, he said. It took me
too long to get dressed. Theres a tremendous amount of equipment you have to
put on.
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Take me out to the fair

Franklin Lakes shul to host contemporary film on 1939 Worlds Fair
JOANNE PALMER
es, this is a little bit of Queens

geography.
But Bergen Countys not so
far from Long Island, and you
have to go through Queens to get there,
so its not likely to be foreign to our
readers.
You know how you see the old Worlds
Fair grounds Flushing MeadowsCorona Park, to be technical when you
take the Grand Central Parkway or the
Van Wyck Expressway? You cant really
tell from the road, but those once-glorious monuments to the future are crumbling. Theyre the remnants of the 1964
Worlds Fair, the postwar ode to progress
that introduced some of us of a certain
age, wide-eyed children then, to such
wonders as picturephones (not nearly
as good as FaceTime or Skype but purely
miraculous then), moving sidewalks (an
idea whose time has not yet come and
most likely never will), and a stunning
showcase for DuPonts immortal slogan
Better Living Through Chemistry.
Not to mention Belgian waffles.
Before the 1964 Worlds Fair, though,
that same park hosted the 1939 Worlds
Fair, also a paean to the future but this
one built during the Great Depression,
with World War II looming. For our readers parents, grandparents, or maybe
even great-grandparents, were they lucky
enough to have made it to this country
by then, and have gotten to the fair, it
represented hope, progress, and a better
life. We remember the 64 Worlds Fair in
Technicolor and the 1939 one in moody
period black-and-white, but really the 39
fair blazed with color and life.

Charles Sokol of Wayne is a semiretired chemist (and a Ph.D. who chooses
not to use that title outside his professional life) who describes himself as a
collector of various things, among them
probably the worlds largest collection
of early English-language comedy recordings and by early Im talking from 1897
to the early 1950s, he said. He also collects other early audio and visual recordings. Among those treasures is a six-hour
silent film of the 1939 Worlds Fair.
There was a gentleman I assume he
was a man, but I just know his last name,
Medicus, Mr. Sokol said. This person
Medicus had a 16 millimeter silent
movie camera. It wasnt just 8 millimeter, so that it was decent quality. It was
also in color.
Mr. Sokol often creates programs based
on his collection and shows them at his
synagogue, Temple Emanuel of North
Jersey in Franklin Lakes.
He has divided the Medicus film into
four segments. On Sunday, April 3, he
will show the last, hour-long section,
backed by period British dance band
music totally silent films can be very
boring, he said, and the music is British because with British copyright laws,
anything recorded before 1950 is in the
public domain, and I didnt violate any
copyright laws. (Nothing is simple.)
See the box for more information on
this weeks program.
The film shows everything at the fair
and I do mean everything, Mr. Sokol
said. This guy or gal or whatever went to
the entire fair and filmed it. There were
all sorts of things that surprised me.
Westinghouse featured the Middleton family in an ad; the family, played by actors,
this time, features in the film that will be screened at Emanuel.
DON OBRIEN/FLCKR
The facade of the Jewish Palestine Pavilion showed a copper relief sculpture,
Maurice Ascalons The Scholar, The Laborer, and The Toiler of the Soil. WIKIPEDIA
Among those surprises, there was a

fair amount of nudity, he said. And this
guy captured it. The French pavilion had
an outdoor garden, and there were topless female models, just walking around
talking to people, having what looked like
normal conversations.
Along those lines, one of the most
surprising things I found is that in 1939,
the surrealist painter Salvador Dali had
designed a topless bathing suit, and he
had the women swimming in tanks.
They were in a pavilion called Dreams
of Venus, which looks jaw-droppingly
avant-garde in the film.
Next Sunday, Mr. Sokol will pair that
last segment of the Medicus documentary with an incredible film, a docudrama, put together by the Westinghouse Corporation, he said. The film,
called The Middleton Family at the New
York Worlds Fair, also in color, and with
sound, is more or less about the triumph
of the American Way.
Mr. Sokols oldest Jewish recordings
were not made by Jewish performers,
he said. Jewish vaudevillians, like many

of their non-Jewish peers, were leery
about recordings at first, fearing that
they would cut into profits. Why would
audiences venture out to theaters when
they could listen to records at home?
At that time, royalties were pitiful, he
said. They were afraid of losing their
income. So the records were made by
non-Jews who heard the Jewish routines,
saw how popular they are, recorded
what they heard (particularly if it was in
English; they tended to omit the Yiddish
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still were coming to their shows, Mr.
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raising awareness among their potential
audiences. In about 1902, you started
to see Jewish performers making recordings, he added.
Most of the early recordings were made
in Edison, and sold in record stores.
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At Rutgers talk, Israeli academic discusses the ties between early Christians and Jews
JOANNE PALMER
ften, we all can feel a strong

attraction to and sometimes also repulsion toward
someone or something
that feels both entirely foreign and
oddly familiar at the same time.
Dr. Ishay Rosen-Zvi is an associate professor and the head of the Talmud and
late antiquities section in the Hebrew
culture studies department at Tel-Aviv
University. His publications look at the
intersection between the cultures vying
for breathing space during the few centuries that began the Common Era; hes
focused on midrashic hermeneutics, the
Mishna itself, Temple rituals in rabbinic
literature, and gender and sexuality
during that time.
Now, he is exploring that very polarizing Christian figure, the apostle Paul,
n Saul, the very Jewish Christian whose
writing about the Jews has had such a
devastating impact on so many Jews,
tragically culminating, in a logical progression, he said, in the Shoah.
Ive always been fascinated with
Paul, as a scholar, as a Jew, as someone
who works with rabbinic literature,
Dr. Rosen-Zvi said. Its the push-pull of
the familiar and the foreign. On the
one hand, he is an anti-Jewish, maybe
even anti-Semitic thinker, and on the
other hand, he is so similar in the way
he works with the Bible to create a kind
of holy community.
Ive always been interested in Paul,
but only recently Ive tried to think
more systematically in this area, he
said.
Academic thinking about Paul has
changed a great deal since World War
II. It was the area in which scholarship
was most affected by the Holocaust,
Dr. Rosen-Zvi said. It was acknowledged that the Protestant interpretation of Paul actually contributed to the
caricature of Judaism as a kind of godless, spirit-less religion that had to be
replaced. Throughout the 1950s, 60s,
and 70s, we find this really very thorough attempt to separate Paul from
later developments in Christianity.
It was an attempt to make Paul not
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guilty for the horrors that seemed to

stem from his worldview.
In the beginning, Paul was a committed Jew, a Pharisee, someone who
bragged about his knowledge of the law,
his conception of Judaism and of Torah,
and of his mission as a Jew, Dr. RosenZvi said, explaining that scholarly view.
That is radical and different from the
way the second-century church fathers
saw him.
It is an attempt to read Paul as Jewish, and his critique as an inner Jewish
critique, aimed at his own world.
Those historians and theologians
were Protestant. Jewish scholars enter
the game very late, only in the last 15
or 20 years, Dr. Rosen-Zvi said. Protestant scholars were creating a mixture
of very sensitive historical scholarship,
that says that we have to read Paul in the
context of first-century Judaism, on the
one hand, and on the other there was
a lot of apologetics. They were saying
that they had to save Paul. They had to
reclaim his reputation.
And if you have to save Paul, that limits your ability to read the text clearly.
From there, the effect of the trend
was a really big investment in reading
Paul inside Judaism. Thats when scholars began comparing his writing to rabbinic literature.
Comparing Paul to the rabbinic literature is problematic because the rabbis are later the second century of the
Common Era and the first documents
Who: Dr. Ishay Rosen-Zvi of Tel Aviv University

What: Will talk about The Apostle Paul and the Rabbis at Rutgers University
Where: At Brower Commons, 145 College Avenue in New Brunswick
When: On Monday, April 4, at 7:30 p.m.
Co-sponsored by: The Allen and Joan Bildner Center for the Study of Jewish Life
Cost and how to register: Free; free parking is available. Advance registration is
requested; email csjlrsvp@rutgers.edu or call 848-932-2033.
More information: Go to BildnerCenter.rutgers.edu
Apostle Paul in a mosaic in St. Sophia in Kiev, from around 1000 C.E.

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that we have are from the beginning of

the third century. Paul is in the middle
of the first century. So its problematic.
But it is really tempting, because
they thats the rabbis and Paul are
doing very similar things.
They are both based in biblical interpretation, and from a kind of relevanticization of the Bible they are attempting
to create what I call holy communities
under Rome.
They had very developed eschatology on one hand, and on the other they
accepted reality. They did not attempt
to leave the city or urban life; both the
first Christian communities and the rabbis lived in the city, part of secular life
under Rome. And in this realm, they
tried to create a holy community, with

a new conception of what being Gods
people means.
To me, this means that the comparison is unavoidable. The question is how
to do it, Dr. Rosen-Zvi said. And here
we get to the question of methodology.
Dismissing the crude assumption that
every time the rabbis talk about how
great the Torah is, or how great Israel is,
we should read it as a kind of anti-Paul
polemic, that means that we have to
find more sensitive tools, he said.
There are two main streams in scholarship. One sees Paul as the receiver of
Jewish traditions, and that those traditions also are preserved in rabbinic
literature. That means that Paul takes
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ancient Jewish traditions and adds his Christological flavor to them, so when we find similar stories
in Paul and the rabbis we should assume that they
are preserving the right tradition.
The other stream says no. The rabbis are later
than Paul, and Paul is a very influential figure in the
second century. Its not that they would have read
him but his ideas would have penetrated in the
culture. They would have known his ideas.
For example, he said, the rabbis say that Abraham inherited the land of Israel not because of his
faith or his beliefs, but because he preserved the
commandments. This seems to be the exact opposite of what Paul says that Abraham inherited
the land not only because he was a believer, not
because he kept the commandments. Thats in
keeping with Christian theology, which says that
the mitzvot ceased to be necessary once their messiah lived and died.
The rabbis, in other words, offered a direct
refutation of Paul, these scholars believe. They
emphasize the rabbinical statements as polemical.
Dr. Rosen-Zvi believes that the truth about
whether Paul and the rabbis inherited the same traditions separately or that the rabbis were responding to Paul is that they are both right part of the
time. Sometimes its one, sometimes its the other.
It depends.
My modest contribution is to help identify when
we should talk about ancient traditions shared
by Paul and the rabbis, and when we should talk
about the rabbis being aware of Pauline ideas and
reacting to them, he said.
My criterion is a simple question mark.
Sometimes, traditions that seem to have been
unquestioned all of a sudden come with an explanation. Why? The simple fact that the rabbis add
that question mark, making it a question to ask, a
problem to solve, I suggest is the Pauline effect.
An example the term Abrahams seed, zera
Avraham in Hebrew is a biblical term, and it
is used by many biblical and post-biblical writers
before Paul, Dr. Rosen-Zvi said. But the rabbis
suddenly, out of the blue, made it into a huge issue.
The Mishna says that only Israelites are the sons of
Abraham.
This term was used for hundreds of years, and
nobody thought that it had to be clarified. Suddenly
the rabbis go out of their way. Since we have Paul
say explicitly, in many places, that Christ-believers
among the nations become the seeds of Abraham,
it seems very hard to detach these things.
So sometimes the rabbis and Paul are drawing from the same story-well, and sometimes the
rabbis react to Paul. These perspectives are not
mutually exclusive, Dr. Rosen-Zvi said. The trick,
however, is to figure out what is going on with any
one issue. These traditions can get new perspectives when the rabbis relate to their new use from
their perspective, their misuse as seen through
the Pauline lens.
That means that both sides are right in the
academic dispute. They are old traditions, but
old traditions do not stay the same, Dr. Rosen-Zvi
said. They get new twists, and new uses. And that
way, they stay alive.
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Local actors put on nine 10-minute plays at the Kaplen JCC in Tenafly
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an a play be too short?

Not according to many theater goers. A good writer can
say a lot in 10 minutes, and for
its second production, the Kaplen JCC on
the Palisades community theater group
Palisades Players is presenting a collection
of comedic and dramatic shorts to prove
the point. Drawn mostly from Voices
from Ariel: Ten Minute Plays Reflecting
the Jewish Experience, the show will premiere in the JCC Eric Brown Theater on
Saturday, April 2, at 8:45 pm, and it will
play again on Sunday, April 3, at 6 pm.
Originally commissioned by Theater
Ariel, a Philadelphia-based nonprofit organization that specializes in Jewish works,
the one-act plays deal with relationships,
conversion, memory, and identity, using
humor to explore these issues. The experienced playwrights, including Michael
Elkin and Julianne Bernstein, have had
their work produced on regional stages
and in New York. Deborah Roberts, performing arts director at the JCC, wrote an
additional play called Boxed In, specifically for the teens and children who take
acting classes at the JCC. She wanted something that her young actors could participate in, she said, and the cast for the play
about youngsters who encounter a refugee
boy running from the police range from
teenagers to younger children.
At an early rehearsal of A Festival of 10
Minute Plays, as the show is called, director Deborah Dine led actors Julian Millstein of Teaneck and Sarah Feinmark of
Haworth through Interview with a Scapegoat, a funny riff on the cultural collision
of the biblical animal and the modern
media. Ms. Dine, who lives in Glen Ridge,
From left, AJ Horowitz, Ariel Abergel, Kimmy Norrell, Shayne Barrett, Adiel Coren, and Tomer Ophir in Deborah Roberts
Boxed In.
teaches teen comedy and drama as well as

advanced scene study at the Tenafly JCC
to people she described as semi and fully
professional. Ms. Feinmark has many
credits in local productions, and Mr. Millstein studied at the Academy of Dramatic
Arts before he pursued a business career.
Her adult actors can commit pages of
dialogue to memory just as easily as the
younger ones can, Ms. Dine said. They
astound me. Her students have a mix of
experience; some are former professionals while others now are working actors.
People are auditioning out here [in New
Jersey] and its just as competitive as New
York, she said. Its really interesting to
me to discover that and its exciting.
Mr. Millstein played a critical role in
launching the company, working with Ms.
Rebecca Lopkin and Dan Nemzer in the Palisades Players premiere of Broadway,
a Jewish Experience last year. Both actors are in the company this year too.
Roberts to produce their first successful

production, Broadway: A Jewish Experience. I am very happy with what we
have going, Mr. Millstein said, adding that
Voices from Ariel will tell them whether
straight plays are as appealing to their
audience as musicals. Thanks to an anonymous benefactors matching grant, the
Palisades Players are secure for the time
being, according to Mr. Millstein.
I think theyre doing a wonderful
thing, Ms. Dine said of Palisades Players,
noting that this was her first experience
with community theater. They are using
the professional actors as well as training
new actors. Theres a lot to be learned
from people who are just beginning. They
dont have any bad habits.
Ms. Dine has been acting and teaching for 40 years, so when she passes on
advice to her actors, she explained, its
really Sandy Meisner giving you that nugget. (Sanford Meisner was a famous acting
teacher.) New actors benefit from a long
tradition of acting coaches and teachers
as they learn their craft from more experienced performers. Its exciting to see I
remember what its like to really want to
be an actor and not know how to start,
Ms. Dine said.
The show includes the following plays:
Til Death Do Us Plots, by Julianne
Bernstein, zeroes in on the arguments
of a newly divorced couple over their
double coffin; Boxed In, by Deborah
Roberts, is about a group of young people deciding what to do about a runaway
refugee; Interview with a Scapegoat, by
Louis Greenstein, imagines the ancient
biblical scapegoats encounter with
an ambitious reporter; Single Jewish
Female, by Julianne Bernstein, tackles
From left, Ariel Abergel and Tomer

Ophir in Deborah Roberts Boxed In.
the weird world of online dating ; The

Ger (The Convert), by Leslie B. Gold
and Louis Greenstein, explores the emotional issues confronted by a new convert
and her mother; Class Act, by Michael
Elkin, is a comic monologue by an older
woman who is addicted to self-improvement classes; In Spite of Everything, by
Hindi Brooks, spends time in a Tel Aviv
apartment with a mother and daughter
during an Iraqi Scud attack; Smoke, by
Louis Greenstein, examines the nature of
memory and how certain objects, such
as cigars, help preserve it; Wheres Your
Stuff? by Daniel Brenner, follows a soonto-be father who has grown distant from
Judaism as he encounters the ghost of his
talkative and hungry former cantor.
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Lavish Lunches which raises money
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for senior adults in the community.
This years program began with breakfast at the home of Stephanie and Daniel
Cohn, where Chef Seamus Mullen spoke
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YUHS dinner set for April 6

Yeshiva University High Schools
holds its annual dinner on Wednesday, April 6, at 6 p.m., at Marina
del Rey in the Bronx.
Abby Lerner of Great Neck, N.Y.,
and Rabbi Mark and Jill Wildes of
Manhattan are the guests of honor.
Rafael and Shifra Yehoshua of
Great Neck are the schools Parents
of the Year and Megan HLZacks of
Manhattan will be given the Faculty Recognition award.
Ms. Lerner is the admissions
director at Yeshiva Universitys
Samuel H. Wang High School for
Girls (Central) and has taught there
for 28 years. The Wildes, founders
of the Manhattan Jewish Experience, work together to connect
unaffiliated Jews in their 20s and
30s with Judaism and the Jewish

community. Rabbi Wildes is the
brother of the former mayor of
Englewood, Michael Wildes. The
Yehoshuas are dedicated to Central and to their local community.
Ms. HLZacks chairs MTAs science
department.
In addition, due to a gift, the
YUHS board of trustees announced
a $1 Million Challenge: every donation towards this years dinner will
be matched dollar for dollar with
the goal of raising $1 million to help
strengthen the future of YU High
Schools.
For information, go to www.
yu.edu/hsdinner, call Elissa
Schertz at (212) 960-5223, or email
her at elissa.schertz@yu.edu.
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was the only prisoner of war from that conflict to reach the four-star rank. Mr. McCain, a
former presidential candidate, is the chair of

the Senate Armed Services Committee.
In Teaneck, Drs. Mort and Esther Fridman
hosted Congressman Kevin McCarthy, who
was elected House Majority Leader in 2014.
Among the first bills Mr. McCarthy shepherded through the House in his new position
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Yeshiva Universitys milestone 25th
annual Red Sarachek Invitational Basketball Tournament finished with the
Davis Renov Stahler Yeshiva High School
of Woodmere, N.Y.s team, the Wildcats,

beating the Shalhevet High School of Los
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On Shabbat, April 2, at 3:45 p.m., Congregations Rinat Yisrael and Beth Sholom in Teaneck will hold a pre-Pesach
joint learning program at Beth Sholom,
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The partnership program, which
attracted 200 participants last year,
offers participants small groups where
they can study Jewish texts. This year,
the theme will be Lefichach Anachnu
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Study of Gratitude in the Jewish Tradition. Texts will include the Haggadah,
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will be available in the original language
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Call (201) 833-2620 or email office@
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The 20 yeshiva high schools represented in the tournament included

teams from the Frisch School in Paramus and the Torah Academy of Bergen
County in Teaneck. The annual tournament is named for the legendary Bernard Red Sarachek, YUs former longtime mens basketball coach.
Speaker on caregiving in Wyckoff

Randi Kaplan, director of the
to Montefiore, Ms. Kaplan
Caregiver Support Center at
worked at the Jewish Board
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of Family and Childrens
will discuss Caregiving: a
Services.
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Responsibility and a PriviSupport Center, established
lege, to benefit the Jewish
in 2012 and supervised by
Family Service of North JerMelanie Lester, provides
seys Sam and Nina Wolff
needed services, resources,
Caregiver Support Center.
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The talk, set for Thursthose caring for loved ones
day, April 7, at 7 p.m., will
Randi Kaplan
with Alzheimers disease or
be at Temple Beth Rishon
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erosity of the Wolff family,
answer session and dessert
100 percent of the proceeds from the evereception will follow.
Ms. Kaplan established the first and
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munity in coping with lifes challenges. For
in 2011, Montefiore has served more than
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Jeffrey Schwartz
demonstrates technique.
Playing lacrosse in Israel

Mens national teams coach is from New City
Abigail Klein Leichman
he head coach of the Israel Mens National

Lacrosse Team is from New City.
Jeffrey Schwartz will lead the 23-man team to
the European Lacrosse Federations Championships in Budapest, Hungary, from July 27 to August 7.
Lacrosse is not a well-known team sport in Israel,
where soccer and basketball reign supreme. But interest
is picking up because of the efforts of the New York-based
Israel Lacrosse Association, the Amazing Israel Lacrosse
Birthright program, and Masa Israel Journeys new Israel
Lacrosse Internship.
Mr. Schwartz, 28, recently on a five-month Masa internship, along with five other participants. He began playing
lacrosse in high school and went on to captain Lynchburg Colleges mens lacrosse team during his junior and
senior years.
I graduated in 2012 and stayed at Lynchburg for a year
as a graduate assistant, then moved to the DC area to work
in IT staffing, and then had the epiphany that I wanted to
get back into the sport of lacrosse, he said.
A good friend from high school had played on the
Israel National Team in 2014 and he put me in touch with
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Schwartz savors a victory.
a bunch of guys, and through them I learned of the Masa

Israel internship. I had been on Birthright in February
2014, and though I hadnt thought about living in Israel I
did want to come back.
The Israel Lacrosse interns, of whom Mr. Schwartz is
the oldest, live together in Ashkelon, one of several cities
where the Israel Lacrosse Association has been developing
under-19 and under-15 teams. In addition to helping with

local and national recruiting and coaching, they participate in cultural experiences, Hebrew classes and touring
offered by Masa during the five months.
The language classes are critical. Its been a huge challenge, and I knew it would be, Mr. Schwartz said. The
language barrier has gotten easier as the months have
gone by; I learned to coach in Hebrew before I learned to
converse in Hebrew. Masa provides 64 hours of Hebrew
lessons, but most of the learning comes from when you
are forced to try to communicate with the kids.
Working alongside Israel Lacrosse employees, the
interns start by visiting schools and guest-hosting a couple of phys-ed periods to introduce the sport and let the
kids try playing it. There are separate school-based and
national teams for men and women.
Hopefully they take a liking to it and turn into kids who
love lacrosse and want to register and play in our league,
Mr. Schwartz said. In each city there may be four school
teams that can play against each other. Weve had some
pretty good success and I think well continue to get better
at the recruiting process.
His work with youth development and his success as
associate head coach of the Haifa Lacrosse Club which
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Explaining his love of the sport, Mr.
Schwartz describes lacrosse as a pure
game in which players are challenged
not only physically. Its a momentumbased sport, he said. You start your
day with a full tank and then, whether
playing or coaching, your tank is emptied. Ive never experienced anything
else that empties my tank that way.
In addition, he adds, lacrosse is big
enough so that its popular in the U.S.
but its still a tight-knit community, and
I like that. The opportunities youre
afforded in lacrosse you might not have
in baseball or basketball, including the
opportunity to go abroad to teach it.
Because no Israeli sports store carries
lacrosse equipment, American donors
send over gear that is used but in excellent condition. Participants in the high
school clinics use those donated sticks,
helmets, gloves, shoulder pads, and
lacrosse balls for free. Those who register for league and youth programs can
buy their own set. We sell the equipment to the kids at a very low price so
it becomes a very affordable sport, Mr.

Schwartz said. If they want upgrades,
they can trade in and spend a bit more.
After the summer championship in
Budapest, Mr. Schwartz plans to continue growing and developing the Israel
national team.
The experience has been fun, he said,
though it has not been easy to acclimate
to a different country and culture. Its
an adjustment, but were attracted to the
opportunity to challenge ourselves from
a lacrosse perspective and a life perspective, he said. Thats been the hard part
and the cool part all at the same time.
Mr. Schwartzs mother, Lois, now
lives in Nyack while his father, Steven,
recently moved to Dallas from Montvale, N.J. Aside from congregational
Hebrew school, Mr. Schwartzs only previous communal Jewish experience was
a few summers at Camp Kinder Ring,
a program of the Workmens Circle/
Arbeter Ring, an activist-based national
organization promoting secular Jewish
heritage, Yiddishkeit, and social and
economic justice.
Jewish athletes from 18 to 30 who
are interested in participating in Israel
Lacrosses Masa Israel Journey program for next September should email
Amanda Tuck at amanda@lacrosse.co.il.
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Bris Avrohom
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Exhibit features
Holocaust survivors
and descendants
Bris Avrohom hosted Rabbi Boruch Lesches

of Khal Tzemach Tzedek, Chabad of Greater
Monsey. He spoke about shalom bayit (peace
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A community-wide Yom HaShoah commemoration

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Debrah Dwork, an internationally recognized Holocaust historian, will be the keynote speaker. For more
information, call (845) 574-4099 or go to www.holocaust
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The Fountainview at College Road in Monsey offers

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package or can of kosher-for-Passover food to donate to
the needy. For information, go to ncjwrockland.org.
Members of Montebello Jewish Center opened their

synagogue this month to feed and shelter homeless
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Editorial
Remembering
Dr. Zvi Szubin
abbi Dr. Zvi Henri Szubin, of

Englewood, who died on Sunday, was an extraordinary man.
Dr. Szubin was professor
emeritus of classical languages and comparative legal studies at CCNY of the City
University of New York.
Thats a mouthful, and although it is
accurate it is just part of who and what
he was.
Dr. Szubin, a courtly, charming,
socially adept man who was gifted both
at talking and at listening, was born in
Poland in 1933. That was not a good time
or place for a Jewish boy. His childhood
and adolescence were spent on the run;
he spent some time in Palestine and
eventually made it over to this country.
As a scholar, Dr. Szubin was academically rigorous. As an Orthodox Jew, he
was somewhat un-Orthodox; he spent
many summer working at the Conservative movements Camp Ramah in Wisconsin, and he taught at the Jewish Theological Seminary.
He was a friend of the Jewish Standard.
Years ago unfortunately, before we
started posting the paper online I
wrote a profile of Dr. Szubin, who then
lived in Teaneck. I was awed by his
accomplishments, including the aplomb
with which he discussed his surely traumatic childhood, his passionate attention to every nuance of the ancient
texts he studied, and his own lack of
awe toward himself. He talked about his
decision to keep a relatively low profile,
which awarded him greater freedom to
research, think, and act as he chose.
I was also moved by his kindness, his
warmth, and his extraordinary intellect.
Dr. Szubin adored his family. Last year,
I wrote a story about his son, Adam Szubin, a Harvard-trained lawyer who is
now the acting undersecretary for terrorism and financial crimes at the U. S.
Treasury Department. (President Obama
has nominated Mr. Szubin to that position, so he could drop the acting from
his job title; although he continues to
carry out all the jobs responsibilities,
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even worse than ever during this election season, has kept his nomination
from a vote.)
As he talked to me about his son, Dr.
Szubin had two main worries about the
story. Although I wanted to include him
in it, he worried that he would deflect
some attention from his son. (He didnt.)
He also worried that because the story
was about his son, his daughter, Lisa,
who lives in Englewood, would be
ignored, her accomplishments remaining unmentioned. (They didnt. Lisa and
her husband both are doctors, as our
readers learned in that story.)
The story also included Dr. Szubins
wife, Laurie Goldstein Szubin, who
went to law school when her son, the
younger of her two children, was in
high school; she became an administrative court judge before she decided to
manage her daughter and son-in-laws
medical practice.
Weve gotten to hear a bit more about
Dr. Szubin over the years because his
nephew, Jerry Szubin, whose father
was Dr. Szubins older brother, is our
art director. (Our immensely talented
art director, I feel compelled by basic
justice to add.) We would have admired
Dr. Szubin as much as we do now had
that not been the case, and we still
would have noticed his warmth as
well as his wisdom. But knowing that
the two Szubins, Dr. Zvi and our Jerry,
each so gifted in a radically different
field, leading entirely different lives,
sharing the same unusual name (to
pronounce it, just remember that the
S is silent) were so closely and clearly
related taught us all a great deal about
family bonds.
Dr. Szubins survivors include his
wife, their son and daughter, their
daughter-in-law, Miriam Weiner, their
son-in-law, Jay Katzman, and their six
grandchildren, Leora, Jonathan, William, Nathan, Micah, and Josiah.
We at the Standard will miss him very
-JP
much.
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Janice Rosen
Eyes, ears, Jewish law,

and Election 2016
ith the appearance of

the bailout.
most of the presidential
Sanders, meanwhile, is trying to
hopefuls at the AIPAC
make inroads with black voters. He
conference this week, it
keeps saying that 51 percent of Afriis time to explore the halachic quag- can American kids today are unemmire known as election season.
ployed, whereas the latest figures put
Jewish law has very strict guidelines
it at 25.2 percent. That still is too high,
when it comes to bad speech, lashon
but it is still less than half what Sanders claims.
hara. Political candidates, on the other
If you listen to Donald Trump (and,
hand, appear to have no guidelines at
all. They tell half-truths and no-truths, halachically, you probably should not
do so; see further on), were going
they disparage their opponents and
to lose $505 billion in terms of trades
others directly or by innuendo, and
with China alone. In Trump fact, he
too often they engage in misdirection
adds, we lose money
and misinformation the two
with every trading
go hand in hand.
partner. In real fact,
The candidates also violate a law found in Leviticus
the entire U.S. net
19:14, which prohibits placing
trade deficit comes
a stumbling block before the
to around $530 million, of which China
blind. Halachah treats this as
accounts for a hefty
a law against both misdirection and misinformation.
$366 billion. And in at
A recent commercial for
least six casesBrazil,
Gov. John Kasich, for example, Rabbi
Netherlands, Belgium,
promised, Hell do for Michi- Shammai
Argentina, Singapore,
Engelmayer
gan what hes done for Ohio
and Aust raliathe
create jobs. Pity Michigan
United States had positive trade balances in
if that happens. Yes, Ohio has
2014, the last full year
seen a 7.6 percent rise in all
for which statistics are available.
jobs since Kasich became governor (it
Then there is Sen. Ted Cruz. The
is 9.3 percent for the private sector
Texan to whom some Jewish organizaalone). Michigan, however, added 10
tions are flocking keeps talking about
percent more jobs in that period (13
percent in the private sector alone). Judeo-Christian ethics when what he
really means is that the United States
Ohios job growth rate is also below
was founded as a Christian country
the national average 9.5 percent
and must be run as a Christian country.
overall and 11.7 percent in the private
Thats Christian, not Judeo-Christian.
sector.
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Hillary Clinton attacked Bernie
at Messiah College in Mechanicsburg,
Sanders for voting against the auto
Pa., which tells you something about
industry bailout. This was not a lie, but
him knowing whereof he speaks. He is
it also was not the truth. Sanders voted
the author of Was America Founded
against a bill that was unclear as to
as a Christian Nation? A Historical
how much would actually be spent on
Introduction.
the auto industry, but he did support
Warns Fea, When Cruz says he
Shammai Engelmayer is the rabbi of
wants to reclaim or restore America, [he] wants to restore the
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Ancient Shushan: A modern model for

successful communal relations
original identity: a Christian nation.
Consider some of what Cruz himself says.
In a book written by his father, Cruz is quoted as
saying, If our nations leaders are elected by unbelievers, is it any wonder that they do not reflect our
values?
All of us who go to the polls elect our leaders. If
the leaders we elect do not reflect Cruzs Christian
values, and we voted for them, we are the unbelievers. The inference is that in a Christian country,
only believing Christians should have the right to
vote. Whether Cruz understands the import of his
statement is an unanswered question at this point
Cruz also has said, on the campaign stump: If
the body of Christ arises, if Christians simply show
up and vote biblical values, we can restore our
nation.
This is lashon hara because it disparages the
morality and ethics of anyone who is not a Christian, and also the morality and ethics of those
Christians who do not adhere to Cruzs radically
fundamentalist version of Christianity.
Lashon hara is a broad category. It includes telling deliberate lies, but it also includes telling truths
without a need to know on the part of a listener
(need to know is a narrowly constructed exception to lashon hara). It also includes a special subcategory known as motzei shem ra, in essence a
disparaging of someone else. The current presidential campaign, which can only be categorized
as disgusting, has become a paradigm for all categories of lashon hara.
There is an aspect of the laws of bad speech, however, that makes this the halachic quagmire it is:
Lashon hara also includes a prohibition against listening to, or even reading, the bad speech emanating from the candidates. It also includes a prohibition against passing on these statements. In other
words, if we watch a debate, or listen to a speech,
or read about either in a newspaper, we, too, are
violating lashon hara. Worse, there is little we can
do to avoid breaking the law, because the media
are having a field day covering this election.
That brings us to another conundrum, deciding
whom to vote for from among the bad speech candidate crowd, who sadly are the only choices we
have.
Consider this excerpt from the Takkanot of the
Council of Cracow, which ruled Jewish life there in
the Middle Ages. It sums up the guidelines for voters very well. It also leaves no doubt about who is
at fault when our leaders fail us:
...that no one of them [meaning us, the voters]
has made any deal or deals with any other individuals or groups regarding the election. Also, each
[voter] must promise to act for the sake of heaven
and the common good, as he [or she] is instructed
from on high, and not out of favoritism or selfinterest or personal grudge....
These electors [meaning us] should not act
hurriedly, but should think carefully..., for once
they have signed their opinions..., nothing can be
changed.
ho doesnt love Queen Esther?

Gorgeous, powerful, strategic, and if
not quite fearless, at least able to turn her
fear to fury, delivering one of the most
dramatic upheavals in all of Tanach. What better role
model for any modern Jewish woman seeking to make a
mark in the world?
The Purim story, always one of my favorites, seems
especially relevant to my new role as the director of the
Jewish Federation of Northern New Jerseys Jewish Community Relations Council. Our JCRCs mission is to promote strong government relations, fight anti-Semitism and
BDS, and advocate for Israel. Lessons from the Megillah
make the perfect primer for developing community relations that forward these goals.
Lesson #1: Build relationships. Mordechai sits in the
gates of the city day after day, meeting and building
trust with the ordinary citizens of Shushan as well as
with high officials. Because of his constant
day-in day-out presence, he overhears the
plot against the king, stands up to Haman,
and gains the notice of the entire population when he protests the deadly decree.
The lesson here is that regular, consistent
interaction builds relationships that will be
critical in times of need.
This work is the core of our JCRC activity.
Many programs support ongoing interaction
Laura
with a wide range of perspectives within the
Fein
Jewish community and with other faith and
ethnic groups, to build mutual understanding
and bonds of trust. Moreover, regular meetings with local, state, and federal elected officials ensure
that the relationships are strong when we need their support. When our community advocates for funding for the
many social service programs the federation provides to
our needy seniors, survivors, and the disabled, promotes
funding for nonprofit security grants and day school students, and advocates for anti-BDS legislation and support
for Israel, these relationships make all the difference.
Lesson #2: Unify for strength. In the Megillah, Esther
must risk her life to approach the king in order to save her
people. Before she takes that risk, she unifies the people
by asking all to join her in fasting and prayer. From this we
can learn that our collective power must be harnessed to
reach the desired results.
In a Jewish community as diverse as ours, unity can be
elusive. Yet in dozens of meetings I have had this month,
the desire for collective action is felt profoundly. Moreover,
there are a few specific concerns that cross all boundaries
of politics and religious streams. One is the campus, and
the need for a unified community effort to educate our
teens about Israel before they face the tremendous hostility too many Jewish students must confront. Another is
the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions movement, which
extends beyond campus to certain Protestant streams and
into our own communities. A disturbing third pervasive
concern is the need for a collective response to the rise
in anti-Semitism. In its latest audit, the ADL reported a 27
percent increase in the number of anti-Semitic incidents
in New Jersey, with increased numbers of assaults, vandalism, and harassment. The same report lists New Jersey as
third in the nation for number of incidents, behind only
We also must never be

afraid to stand up to
those who encourage
toleration of these
lies in the name of
free speech.
New York and California. We must work as one to combat
these disturbing trends.
Lesson #3: Have courage. As we see clearly in the Megillah, speaking out requires strength of character, and often
the encouragement of those around us. Esther initially
hesitates, afraid to go to the king lest she
fail to find his favor and receive the death
sentence such a failure would entail. Mordechais unforgettable counsel that she can
use her position and power to help her people, or let them be saved by another while
she fades to oblivion inspires Esther and
every Jewish leader since.
Today, we must strengthen our resolve
to advocate for a strong, secure Israel.
Decades of media portrayals paint Israel
as the aggressor, and each day we are
bombarded with ever more strident accusations of Israel abusing human rights,
embracing apartheid, and worse (including revivals of
ancient blood libels in new forms, e.g. the Wall Street
Journal report that a Rutgers professor lectured that
Israel mined [dead Palestinians] for organs for scientific research). Often these hateful lies are spread even
within our own communities. It takes true courage to
speak up to our family, friends, and neighbors, who may
take the false portrayals as truth.
We also must never be afraid to stand up to those who
encourage toleration of these lies in the name of free
speech. While the Constitution prevents the government
from silencing political speech, it creates no obligation
that the rest of us give a platform to offensive propaganda.
Just as civil discourse has come to exclude racism and sexism, so too must it become unacceptable to call for the
demise of the Jewish state. We must be fearlessly insistent
that university administrators, public officials, clergy, and
other leaders not only encourage tolerance, but loudly
condemn hateful speech against Israel.
As we read the news every day, we are reminded of
the many challenging issues we face as Americans and
as Jews. But every challenge also is an opportunity, and
by following the lessons of the Megillah, our JCRC surely
will continue to be a strong and united advocate for our
vibrant and diverse Jewish community.
Now lets all eat some leftover hamentaschen and brace
ourselves for the work that lies ahead!
Lori Fein is the director of the Jewish Community Relations
Council of the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey.
She welcomes your comments at lorif@jfnnj.org.
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Living inside a bad man

Local author ponders implications of understanding all her characters
he elevator pitch for my story In

and he doesnt see himself as a bad man. But
the Land of Armadillos was this:
since it was me telling the story, me who was
a bad man who feels nothing meetbuilding his system of logic, it also was me creating a good man who feels too much.
ing excuses for him. A weird place to go, when
Taking place in World War II, the plot follows a
youre the child of Holocaust survivors.
brutal SS man who, to his own astonishment,
To some extent, you have to love every one
finds himself protecting a Jew. Max, my Nazi,
of your characters to make them come to life.
was inspired by Felix Landau, a vicious SS man
Living inside Maxs head, I saw events from his
who first worked in the Einsatzgruppen, Gerpoint of view, making his worst actions expliHelen
manys mobile killing squads, and later was the
cable. Several times a day I had to get away from
Maryles
Reich Chief of Labor in Drohobych, Poland.
him, had to physically lift myself up from the
Shankman
Max sees himself as reasonable, even symdesk and walk away, wash the dishes, pet the
pathetic. While hes working, hes an unfeeling
dog, listen to music or the news, in order to put
killer; but he adores his wife, loves his son, and
distance between us, to remember that however Max saw himself, he was still a killer with
feels very protective of Toby Rey, a Jewish artist
an untroubled conscience.
painting murals in his villa.
From the beginning, I felt queasy
Every morning, after putting my kids on the school bus, I
humanizing him. In his diary, he
had to get into this mans body and walk around in him. He
describes watching a group of Jewwrote gooey love letters to his wife. He mailed home stamps
ish women digging their own graves,
for his sons collection. He grumbled about his bosses
wondering in a worried way why he
demands, like any other midlevel manager.
doesnt feel anything. He shoots the
The research was emotionally exhausting. I read testimony
patients at a hospital and eliminates
from former Einsatzgruppen shooters, men from a Hamburg
an orphanage, but frets that Toby
police squad, where they described their first day on the job,
isnt eating. He massacres the ghettos
how they learned to break through their moral objections,
Judenrat because they havent carand the lies they told themselves to justify their crimes. I
ried out one of his demands, but gleeintroduced Maxs brutality as casually as I would introduce
fully fixes Toby up with a pretty girl,
the tasks in any other jobin one instance, Max resolves a
hoping it will cheer the artist up. By
labor dispute by whipping and shooting the workers, and in
the time the reader meets him, Max
another, he shows his displeasure with the Jewish Council by
has participated in the worst crimes
executing themto show that atrocities were just as much
that World War II had to offer. Max is
a part of his average working day as filling out paperwork.
irredeemable.
I gave him thoroughly ordinary thoughts, an ordinary routine, ordinary emotions. The story is seen through his eyes,
There were many men like Max,
capable of dashing off letters to their mothers or girlfriends or children or wives a few minutes before marching off into the forest to execute civilians. What did they
think about, as they stood in front of toddlers, with their
fingers on the trigger? Did they know what they were
doing was wrong? That they had left the boundaries of
civilization far, far behind? Are they deserving of redemption? Of forgiveness? Of understanding? And why do I feel
the need to humanize them?
The Nazis are gone. Todays extremists blow themselves up in cafes and airports, open fire in concert halls
or movie theaters, ram their cars into crowds at bus stops,
stab mothers in their own kitchens or old men at prayer.
Its too easy to excuse people who commit these atrocities by calling them monsters. Once we label someone
a monster, we let him off the hook for
the evil he commits. After all, monsters have no control over themselves.
We dont expect them to act responsibly. But if theyre human if they
have wives, children, jobs, hobbies,
indigestion, ordinary workplace gripes
then they are just like us.
And if they are just like us, they are
accountable.
Helen Maryles Shankman of Teaneck is
an artist and writer. Her work appears
in many fine journals, including
The Kenyon Review, Gargoyle,
Jewishfiction.net, and Cream City
Review. Her second novel, In The Land
of Armadillos, was just published by
Scribner.
The rhetoric before the storm
hen Hitler was appointed

Hitler set his aims higher than simply exterpresident of Germany in
minating the Jewish race, at least then. His
1934 he never was elected
goal was world dominance. Hence the invasion of Poland on September 1, 1939, which
his platform was to channel German anger and point Germans problaunched Europe into a continental war.
lems in a particular direction. When Hitler
One year after the war began, Hitler built
wrote Mein Kampf his distaste for the Jews
a wall in Poland. It went around a small portion of Warsaw. He made all the citys Jews
was evident, although his goal mass murder
live there, in the ghetto. Warsaw once was a
was not.
Rabbi
vibrant city, home to about 3 million Jews
I have learned from many people who lived
David-Seth
roughly 25 percent of the citys population.
in Germany between 1935 and 1938 that there
Kirshner
Now all those Jews were forced into an area
were basically two schools of thought. The
less than two square miles. Hitler replicated
first was the idea that the situation cannot get
this in many cities across Europe where many
any worse, so lets stick it out. The other was
Jews lived. The purpose of the ghetto and its
that it cannot get any better, so lets leave now.
wall was to separate the Jews from German society.
Many German Jews felt a kind of tribal memory, thinking back to the pogroms and expulsions their ancestors had
The final solution was conceived in Wannsee in 1942.
faced, which had become as much a part of their Jewish
Then Hitler implemented his plan which some say he
DNA as gefilte fish. Other Germans Jews had no inkling that
had in mind from the onset to murder all the European
their fate could be so horrible until Kristallnacht, which
Jews he could. He also murdered the few blacks in Europe,
occurred on November 9-11, 1938.
Gypsies, homosexuals, and political prisoners. He killed 11
During those three days, 91 Jewish souls were murdered
million people in total; six million of them were Jews. Lucy
and thousands were put into work camps. During the years
Dawidowicz points out in her book, The War Against the
leading up to Kristallnacht, Jews could not hold good jobs,
Jews, that in 1944, Hitler sent more trains to round up the
were educated separately from Gentiles, were denied basic
Jews of Budapest and Prague than he sent to rearm the
rights, and were not treated as German citizens.
troops fighting on the front lines. This proved that he was a
genocidal monster, more focused on the annihilation of the

Jewish people than on winning the war.
Where I quibble with people who say that Donald Trump
is not like Hitler is on the question of exactly what would
trigger our internal alarms. Can someone not be categorized
as a Hitler until hes already killed six million Jews?
Hitler did not lay out his elaborate plans to exterminate
non-Aryans before 1942. However, he did refuse to shake a
black athletes hand, he did separate Jews and blamed them
for the problems in Germany and around the world, and he
blamed Germanys porous borders for allowing too many
Jews in. In fact, it was that very issue Jews entering Germany that was the catalyst for Kristallnacht.
Hitler might have been the worst person the human race
has ever known. At the very least, he is one of the worlds
very worst.
If any of us could turn back time, we would have stopped
Hitler before it was too late. We wish we could have read the
tea leaves and known our collective fate. Today, we ask ourselves how we could have been blind to the danger. How did
so many people march to their deaths? Were they weak? Did
they not love life? Of course not. They just never thought
nor imagined that the unthinkable or the unimaginable
would happen to them.
History demands us to remember and learn.
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A cop is a cop
Many of us were delighted to read about our local law enforcement leaders visiting Israel recently to exchange ideas and
experiences with their counterparts in the Jewish homeland
(A cop is a cop is a cop, March 11). We are very proud of the
team that protects us from those wishing us harm, as was the
case several years ago when two Paramus Jewish institutions
were threatened.
To be sure, our officials benefitted from the unique training
and experience of the police in Jerusalem. However, it is just
as certain that Israel has been enriched by the expertise of
some of the top law enforcement professionals in the United
States.
So kol hakavod to Paramus Police Chief Kenneth Ehrenburg
and Detective John Devine. Neither of them will know what
that means, so tribesmen, please pass along the message if
Martin H. Basner, Paramus
you see them!
Learning from history
As usual, in his effort to promote or defend his friends, Shmuley Boteach gets hopelessly confused (Comparing Trump to
Hitler trivializes the Holocaust, March 18). In his argument
against comparing Donald Trump to Adolph Hitler, first he
explains his motive by revealing his connection to the accused
(Being friendly with Trumps son-in-law, Jared Kushner).
Then he makes a completely bizarre argument, saying that the
comparison trivializes the Holocaust. If anything, the opposite
is true.
Trivializing the Holocaust is when your favorite team gets
blown out and you call it a holocaust. Or when your boss
forces you to work late, and you call him Hitler. Thats not
whats going on here, not in the slightest. Instead, those making the comparison are wondering whether, in light of many
disturbing aspects of Trumps campaign, we might be seeing the beginnings of what, in Nazi Germany, became the
Holocaust. And I can think of no greater way of honoring the
memory of the six million who Hitler killed than by learning
the lesson of their murders and making sure history does not
repeat itself. Isnt that what Elie Wiesels entire career has
been about?
Of course Trump hasnt killed anyone, and no one is accusing him of it. The point is to learn from history and detect
the signs of trouble that Germany missed, and not wait until
people have been killed. So are Trumps statements, the volume, the aggressive tone, the violence at his rallies, the angry
populism, a worrisome reminder of the 1930s? Yes. Does it
mean that a Trump presidency will lead to genocide? No one
knows the future. But we do know the past, and when the
present evokes a dark and frightening past, we would do well
to stop and consider it.
Thats why we learn history. Not to put the six million on a
pedestal and to suggest that their experience is so unique as to
be irrelevant. No. Rather, when we say never again, we vow
to remain alert to signs that aspects of Nazism still threaten the
world, and we commit ourselves to doing what we can to keep
it from attaining the power to do evil.
We all pray that the comparisons are false, that the disturbing aspects of Trumps campaign are not leading indicators.
But we cannot afford to be dismissive. That truly would trivialize the Holocaust.
Murray Sragow, Teaneck
Elderly survivors remember
I read Rabbi Boteachs column with some concern (Comparing Trump to Hitler trivializes the Holocaust, March 18). Then
I reread it. I understand Rabbi Boteachs concern about comparing Trump with Hitler and trivialization of the Holocaust.
I believe Rabbi Boteach misses the point entirely. What
the comparison was meant to highlight was Trumps tactics
in addressing his followers and stirring them up. These are
clearly the tactics of all demagogues, Hitler being the most
glaring example. No one thinks for a second that Donald
Trump wishes to kill Jews, Muslims, or anyone else, for that
matter. However, his tactics in pushing the fear buttons and

emphasizing his toughness are classically what the Nazis did
to achieve power. How many other candidates talk about
wanting to punch him in the face, or roughing up a protester
so they would carry him out on a stretcher?
Arent these the tactics the Nazis used to stir up violence
against the Jews? Not to mention the lies and the outrageous
ideas about what he would do to immigrants and anyone who
doesnt agree with him.
As the son of an Auschwitz survivor, I am particularly troubled by Trumps attitudes and statements.
As a local physician, I have several Holocaust survivors as
patients. I listen carefully to their stories, as they are now in
their last days. One of my patients is in her 90s, and has a
particularly sharp mind and memory. She remembers when
the Nazis in Vienna made her teachers, who were Jewish, get
down on their hands and knees to scrub the streets. It was she
who made the comparison between Trump and his supporters, and the Nazis.
She had seen it first hand and remembered it vividly.
Regardless of your political persuasion, left, right, or whatever, we should be mindful of those who use the fear of the
other and hate speech to achieve their goal. Hitler did it, and
so did every other dictator.
I hope we Jews particularly remember that lesson.
Harry Katz, M.D., Wyckoff
A quote out of context
I am certainly not learned enough to debate Biblical verses

with Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, nor do I disagree with his
basic premise in his editorial (Comparing Trump to Hitler trivializes the Holocaust, March 18). But I do protest his
exploiting a quote from Ezekiel, that a son shall not bear
the iniquity of the father, and a father shall not bear the iniquity of the son, to justify his condemnation of Trumps call
for collective punishment of families of terrorists.
There are many biblical sources where this specific familial burden of punishment is addressed, including some that
would fully justify the collective punishment Trump is calling for. For instance, we can look at Exodus 20:5: You shall
not bow down to them or serve them, for I the Lord your
God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on
the children to the third and the fourth generation of those
who hate me. Or Exodus 34:6-7: The Lord passed before
him and proclaimed, The Lord, the Lord, a God merciful
and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love
for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin,
but who will by no means clear the guilty, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children and the childrens children, to the third and the fourth generation.
Aside from merely refuting that particular quote that
Rabbi Boteach simplistically employed to justify his stance,
I also would suggest that the Talmud supports punishing the
families of terrorists via the laws applicable to a rodef, or
the right of self-defense with respect to a pursuer. As articulated by Maimonides, these rules proscribe that: Every
Jew is obligated to save a pursued person from his pursuer,
even if this means killing the pursuer. A pursuer, in the
rabbinic context, is someone who is a threat to someones
life. As per the rabbis, the rodef does not have to be immediately threatening your life (holding a knife to your throat),
but merely endangering you (a burglar entering your home).
Accordingly, it is most justifiable, under the laws pertaining
to the rodef, for Trump to suggest that terrorists families
be punished and thus prevented from doing further harm.
For Rabbi Boteach to use one biblical quote but ignore
the many others that refute his opinion is disingenuous and
Professor Leonard Fuld, Teaneck
disappointing.
No Cruz, Jews!
I read with interest Michael Eidmans thoughtful March

18 letter, Jews shouldnt be for Cruz. I am writing to
express my support for his position, my utter contempt

for Ted Cruz, and my frank disappointment with any Jewish leader who finds Cruz worthy of informed support.
My father, Leo, of blessed memory, endured five years
in various Nazi labor camps, then lived in Germany, Israel,
and Germany again in order to join surviving family here
in the United States. His initial litmus test for all American politicians was whether they were unwaveringly supportive of Israel. Politicians who passed that test, however,
did not automatically get his vote. The final, more critical test, was whether the person running for high office
was a mensch, a man of integrity and honor, a man you
could trust. Cruz is no mensch. My father would have
rejected attempts to portray Cruz as a man of integrity
or honor and would have viewed him (and his nemesis Donald Trump) as transparently motivated only by
self-aggrandizement.
My father, rest his soul, would have been appalled that
Jewish leaders supported a man so full of hate and so
venal as to be proud about being universally (and deservedly) despised. My father would not have felt that support
for Israel trumps all other humane considerations. Why
Sam Rosmarin, Tenafly
cant our leaders see this?
No Cruz again
I too was appalled by Jews for Cruz (March 4), and

applaud Michael K. Eidmans letter and analysis. Senator
Cruz does not deserve our support and does not advance
Michael D. Weinstein, Tarrytown, N.Y.
our values.
Double standard on Israel
The spokesmen for the extreme left Ameinu and Meretz

groups are at it again. In their article about Israeli
democracy (Will Israeli democracy be the next victim
of violence? March 18), they decry Israels attempt to
remove the vile anti-Semitic Israeli Arab representatives
in the Knesset.
These animals have called Israel soldiers terrorists
and actively side with the enemies of the state. How long
would a U.S. congressman last if he supported ISIS? An
amazing double standard. Democracy and free speech
do not allow someone to yell fire in a crowded theater
and there are reasonable limits to freedoms everywhere
else in the world. Rabbi Meir Kahanes party was prohibited from running for the Knesset as his ideology was
labeled racist. There were no tears shed by the rabid
left over this destruction of democracy, but allowing the
Arab members of Knesset to support the eradication of
the state is allowable as per Meretz and Ameinu.
Gold and Simons acceptance of Arab violence as a
result of the long-carried weight of the West Bank occupation, increased settlement activity, political brinksmanship, and growing frustration, which have led to
lone wolf terror attacks, was even more noxious. This
assertion is ridiculous and emboldens the enemies of
the Jewish people. The activity is coordinated by official
incitement and the murderers are either given a stipend
if jailed, or a street named after them if killed. The kleptomaniac Arab leaders reward their families with stipends and their actions are extolled. That is clear coordination. Their activities are promoted by our U.S. ally,
Abbas, a notorious Holocaust denier.
To explain away or accept with resignation the slaughter
of Jews is simplistic and foolish at best. And they propose
expression, communication, and dialogue as a solution.
How does one negotiate with Arabs who demand that all
Jews leave Israel? How does one negotiate with murderers
who kill women, children, and infants? Should the Jews
wring their hands and beg when confronted by knifewielding monsters? Once again, I must ask, whose side
are Gold and Simon on?
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hite hot. Fringe. Colors from orange to

pink. And lots and
lots of fun.
That is the story of
spring as the color
comes out of the ground in a spray
comes
of flowers and blossoms, and the
color comes out of the closets in
an array of togs and clothes that
are fun and rainbow ready.
Color is the big story,
said Sara, owner of Mishelynes Fashions in Teaneck.
Everything is bright and
bold. We are talking about
the fuchsias, the oranges,
the greens, chartreuse. Lots
of bright colors from pastels
to jewel tones. Its every
color under the rainbow.
Royal blue is also king
or, if you will, queen this
season.
Also very big and carrying over from the last few
seasons with a nod to the
boho look, are fringes.
Fringe is absolutely
everywhere, said Sara.
We are seeing fringe in
every fabrication from
casual wear to gowns.
Delicate fringe in a fine
silk on dresses and fabric or suede fringe is
all over the place.
Lace is still going
strong with the black
lace over nude
look, but lace is also
playing big in a variety of the spring colors.
But if you must have one
new spring item, said Sara, it is
fringe. Fringe is a must-have. You
can go for a vest over a t-shirt and
pair it with jeans, or for the dressy
look a gown completely fringe or has

some element of fringe.
And while spring may herald
warmer temperatures and climbing mercury, whats big this season,
said Lucy Gentile, the owner of Engle
Shop Too in Cresskill, is the cold
shoulder.
Very, very big this season is the
off-the-shoulder look, said Ms.
Gentile.
The peek-a-boo shoulder can be a
more modest cut-out or a look that is
off the shoulder completely.
Its really an easy look for most
people because most people have
good shoulders, said Ms. Gentile.
Also big are wide-legged pants
paired with ruffled blouses. The colorful, embroidered look of peasant
shirts similar to Mexican embroidery in an array of hues is also very
popular.
And of course, there is white.
White jeans, white t-shirts, white
dresses.
The new color, so to speak, is
white. If you want a bit of actual
color, the softer hues are also being
shown for spring, including pinks
and powder blues. For the white
look, suggested Ms. Gentile, putting
on a crisp, white shirt and pairing it
with what you may usually wear, gets
you on trend.
If you are tanned during the
spring and summer, the all-white look
is really great, said Ms. Gentile. But
it may not be for everyone. We would
like to follow the trend, but you need
to know what looks good on you.
For a sneak peek at fall, a little bit

of a preview happens this spring, said
Ms. Gentile, with a bit of khaki green
and military camouflage, which can
be worn this spring as well.
Paula Parlato, owner of the Engle
Shop in Englewood, said that black
and white also rocks the look in
spring.
We do very well in black and
white, always, especially in daytime
dresses, said Ms. Parlato.
Lace remains very big, including
lace in spring colors such as green.
Prints are very popular in watercolor and dresses and shirts in off
the shoulder styles are also very on
trend, said Ms. Parlato.
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At Ambience at City Place in Edgewater, owner Grace Guido said that

this spring gives a little something to
everyone.
This spring has got something to
make everyone happy, said Ms. Guido.
Its a little girly, a little boho, a little fitand-flare, a look that anyone can wear
because its very body friendly and you
cant make mistakes.
Hemlines are longer, too, if you so
choose. The midi and, of course, the
summer maxi are popular.
You can get anything that fits your
lifestyle, said Ms. Guido, who co-owns
the store with Dorothy Regan.
Last years jumpsuit has now become
this years romper, a smaller, shorter look
that is fun for spring, Ms. Guido said.
As for pants, they are more generous
in the cut. They are higher waisted
gone are the low-rise pants, and legs are
either full or boot cut.
At Past and Present, a consignment
shop in Closter, owner Pamela DeBlasio said that the store has clothing ontrend, including white jeans and white
shirts, florals in bohemian styles and
other prints as well as denim and leather
jackets.
We are not into vintage and old and

we dont take things that are older than
five years old, said Ms. DeBlasio. Some
of our girls clean out their closets every
year, so we get what is still fresh and
still hot and still very happening in the
market.
Randi Morein, owner of Savvy Chic in
Ridgewood, said that to help accessorize
this seasons spring fashions, camel and
stone-colored handbags are very popular as are light colored leather accessories, including leather motorcycle jackets in such feminine colors as lilac, ivory
and light gray.
From bathing suits

to dressy dresses,
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recent photograph on the front

page of a major newspaper featured Ivanka Trump at an event
with her presidential candidate
father, Donald Trump. The former model,
businesswoman, wife, and Jewish mother
was dressed, as expected, very stylishly in
what appeared to be a black shell beneath
a v-neck dress.
Whether in fact it was a shell, which
many women wear as a first layer to cover
up a lower neckline or short sleeves and
achieve a more modest look, or whether
it was part of the dress design itself, is
unconfirmed. But what is confirmed is that
as pictured, the dress worn by the iconic
daughter of the flamboyant real estate
magnate appeared both modest and chic.
From Hollywood think actress and
observant Jew Mayim Bialik to the halls
of high schools think the modest-inclothing teen movement and the 15-yearold who started a campaign on change.
org pleading with retailers to offer more
modest fashions covering up is gaining
ground not only as a statement of female
empowerment (no skin; no objectification!) but as a fashion statement as well.
Years ago, modest was really not a
good word, said Daniella Teutsch, who
founded HydroChic, a popular line of
modest swimwear, with her friend, Sara
Wolf, in May 2008.
It was associated with the idea of being
dowdy and of being unfashionable, said
Ms. Teutsch, who talked to the Jewish
Standard from her home in Israel.
These days its completely different.
Now you hear that companies like Victorias Secret are into modest chic, she said.
In fact, HydroChic, which not only
serves a more religious segment of women
who dress modestly for religious reasons,
but women of all stripes and ages, was
born out of an Ah, ha! moment several
years ago when visiting the Jersey Shore.
They watched women of all ages slather
themselves with sunscreen and don sloppy
HydroChic
mens t-shirts over their traditional bathing

suits to protect their skin from sun damage.
Thats when it struck them that fashionable
coverage options were lacking in large segments of the swimwear market. After much
research, they become aware of just how
many other women were searching for the
very same swimwear solutions.
Based in New York, HydroChic has
become a leader in modest and sun protective swimwear, offering swimsuits in flattering fabrics and clever cuts that are suited
for real bodies and plus sizes, as well.
Every year we are growing and more
and more people are looking for more
options, said Ms. Teutsch. I think that
we are answering a need that women have
been looking for. They want to be active and
they want to have a modest bathing suit.
Another modest chic design duo, sistersin-law Mimi Hecht and Mushky Notik, who
are Lubavitch chasidim, run their clothing
line, Mimu Maxi, from Crown Heights,
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HydroChic
Brooklyn. Fashionistas both, they wanted

good quality and affordable, but stylish
options, and they created their line and
business in 2012. The line reportedly
reflects a religious yet worldly sensibility.
Mimu Maxi sells simple frocks and billowy dresses in muted colors. Their web
page describes themselves as Jewish
sisters-in-law making oversized dresses
with oversized love Building on the
spiritual depth of their ancestry as well as
the requirements of Jewish law, Mimi and
Mushkys pieces are dramatic yet down to
earth. And although they always feature
higher necklines, longer hemlines and
fuller sleeves to accommodate their dresscode, they view their limitations as an
opportunity: to communicate who they
are, to break boundaries, and to create
more interesting designs.
Closer to home, Alene Brodsky and
Carlyz Craze
Wendy Borodkin, co-owners of Carlyz
Craze, in Teaneck follow the current fashEveryones manner of dressing is perion trends with merchandise that is mod
sonal. Carlyz Craze is constantly adding to
and modest.
our selection to allow our customers many
That means it is hip, trendy, and fashiondesirable choices for each individual. If you
able while not showing too much of a persons
like a certain fashion but think that it is not
body. We strive to provide a fun and successavailable in a wearable way, think again. We
ful shopping experience for girls, teens, and
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Sara, owner of the casual to dressy
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women.
Its just a myth that its for Jewish
Orthodox women, said Sara.
Women are looking for styles
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that may have yielded to gravity or
weight changes or even not.
I had a young beautiful girl in and she
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was her preference. You can be very attractive, even sexy, without showing all that skin.
Sometimes the allure is when you are even
more covered up, said Sara.
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Tips to buying the right swimsuit
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hoosing a bathing suit

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But the swimwear fit and style
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features, like high necklines, full coverage at the armholes, or halters with wide
bands under the breasts, also help. In
many cases a two-piece is actually better,
because you have a band of support all the
way around the back. Avoid skimpy styles
that gape open or lack structure, like triangle tops.
Full Hips and Thighs
A suit with eye-catching details above the

waist a pop of color or hardware will
lure attention to your upper half. Down
below, opt for an arched leg line that hits
about an inch south of the hipbone. A
skirted bottom also hides hips. An A-line
cut, a slit, or ruched sides help keep the
look modern. Avoid boy shorts, onepieces with side cutouts, and bottoms with
embellishments.
Straight/Athletic Figure
Three-dimensional details ruffles, rings,

shirring, padding and bold prints can
make a straight body look more curvaceous. Bottoms with embellishments bring
attention to the hips and create a waistline.
Avoid designs that reinforce straight lines
with vertical stripes or harsh square necklines, or anything completely solid and
shorts. Bottoms should fall

just below the largest part
of the thigh.
free of texture or
accents.
Inverted
Triangle
Choose suits that

slim the shoulder
line and draw attention to the legs or the
curve of the hips. Twopiece suits work well. Tankinis
and swim dresses are also good options.
Tops halter or scoop neck tops in dark,
solid colors are best. Wide straps make
shoulders appear smaller. To show off
shapely shoulders, a bandeau or strapless
top works. Bottoms boy shorts are one
option to create more curve at the hips.
Light colors are also good for playing up
curves. Details such as ruffles, belts, ties,
or print patterns like polka dots or horizontal stripes are also a good choice.
Pear Shape
The key here is proportion. Draw the eye

up with colors, patterns and eye-catching
embellishments on the top half of the suit.
On bottom, keep it simple no gathers,
ruches, or ruffles. Conceal hips and thighs
in full-coverage briefs, hipsters or boy
Hourglass Shape
Many consider the hourglass the ideal body shape.

Swimwear for hourglass figures
should emphasize the bodys natural curves and accentuate the waist.
Two-piece swimsuits are generally best for
this, though one-piece suits with details at
the waistline also work well. Choose tops
with dramatic prints or ruffles, which are
good for playing up curves. Horizontal
stripes widen the shoulders and, if paired
with matching bottoms, draw emphasis
to the waist. For bottoms, choose details
around the waistline to bring out the most
slender part of the torso, or a waistline
with a different color trim or band. Highwaisted bottoms also slim at the center.
As with tops, details emphasize curves,
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Bottoms that cut off at mid-hip should be
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to look for tankinis since they provide

ample wiggle room, sun protection, and
easy access to your growing belly. Make
sure the tankini gives you good breast support as well. And, of course, a two-piece
makes going to the bathroom a breeze.
Burn Easily
Sun-sensitive ladies have it tough. You

want to catch some rays, but you dont
want to look or feel like a boiled lobster
afterwards. Your swimsuit can provide
protection while being stylish too. Modest
swimwear from HydroChic offers many
mix and match styling options for coverage, featuring comfortable fabrics that are
chlorine resistant and provide UPF 50+
sun protection.
Plus Sizes
Forget the plus-size swimwear of old:

shapeless, dowdy, and inevitably black.
Todays suits for full-figured women are
made to flatter in stylish cuts and highoctane colors and prints. As for the basic
black suit? Its still out there: in designs
that are sleek and chic. Choose styles that
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The peacocks plume

The story of mens fashion this spring is color galore
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olor, color, and more color.

Thats the story of the male peacock
resplendent with its multi-hued plume,
and thats the story of this springs look
for men, say local fashionistas who are counting
the colors of the rainbow as men suit up and suit
down for the new season.
Its lots and lots of color, said Diana Yomtobian, owner of Monte Carlo in Westwood.
And all colors, too. From fuchsia to yellow, to bright yellow to bright blues.
In fact, the brighter the color, the
better.
Ari Elbaum, a salesman at
the four-month-old Emporio of
Teaneck, agrees.
What theyre showing is blue, from a lighter
blue to a royal blue in all kinds of clothing suits,
slacks and sports jackets, said Mr. Elbaum, who
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White pants, in more dressy styles and white
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lean look that will be big for the season, he said.
And whats old is new again.
Vintage-inspired fashion is a strong look for
the season, too, noted Mr. Elbaum
The nostalgic look is making a comeback and
can be evidenced in such patterns as plaid and
windowpane that are featured in suits. The vintage look in footwear for men includes styles of
shoes with cap toes or tassels. The three-piece
suit, in which the vest is a very prominent feature,
is another look that hearkens back to the past.
In formal and casual wear we are seeing
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Because of this, consumers are enjoying the versatility and
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said Mr. Elbaum.

In addition, bowties are a choice accessory
in a variety of colors and patterns, such as
paisley and for a real pop of color, hankies in
myriad shades is a look that helps give an otherwise conservative suit a blast of personality.
As for the silhouette, the suits are cut on the
more tapered side. They are clean lines and
trimmer. Jackets either feature one or two
vents. Pants are flat front, and if there is a cuff
at all, the trendy look is for the cuff to be quite
a large one, at least two-inches.
At Mercat Boutique, a ready-to-wear boutique with looks from contemporary to luxury
that is located in City Place in Edgewater, customers are sporting a very tailored look, said
Jinney Jeong, a buyer for the boutique.
It is a clean yet easy look, said Ms. Jeong.
The colors run from navy to military
green, to deep gray to red. Likewise, said
Ms. Jeong, white is very popular as a spring
look for men.
Mario Roselli, who as the owner of Vero
Uomo in Englewood has been dressing the
fashion forward man in Bergen County, said
that everything is getting a little slimmer.
Men are wearing their clothes a little too baggy,
he said. They have to get slimmed down. They dont
have to wear the clothes as tight as they do in Europe, but
it has to be trimmer. A man looks about 10 to 15 pounds
lighter in the new slim look.
Mr. Roselli said that it is not only the suits jackets and
trousers that are slimmer, but European-made jeans are
leaner.
Men are taking care of themselves, going to the gym
and working out, said Mr. Roselli. They should dress to
show that off with clothes that flatter and make one look
younger.
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which are incredibly complementary with deep navies

and pops of bright colors. The white denim and chino
trend is worn best with accessories like dusty brown boots
and belts. Style the white pants with traditional cable
knits and patterned sweaters for preppy takes on vintage
cricket attire, or combine white denim with washed out
chambray button down shirts for a classic weekend look.
To top it off, bomber jackets are versatile for casual days
and keep looks cool and comfortable. Channel features
this trend with the variety of new colors and materials
available to keep things more contemporary.
Keep things relaxed with oversized polos and textured
50s shirts. Balance out this trend with a tailored pant and
accessorize with darker wayfarers for a true vintage look.
This silhouette works perfectly in darker tones as well as
powder hues, but contrast is key when combining colors,
to sustain a more polished look.
Speaking of personality, one doesnt have to go too
far to see that the big rage these days and a big way for
men to express their sense of whimsy and fun is found
in their hosiery.
Call them crazy socks. The socks come in super bright
colors and are being seen in patterns that pop. There are
striped colors, designs in classic patterns such as paisley
or polka dots and designs with whimsy, such as golf clubs,
martini glasses, tennis rackets, boats, or medical symbols
to suit a mans interest, hobbies or profession, said Ms.
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And everyone is buying them.
I have sold these socks to young men and to men who
are 70 years old, said Ms. Yomtobian.
The big spring story of color is being played out in dress
shirts that come in a variety of hues and patterns that peek
under the cuffs and colors. Even tuxedoes are being featured in colors, such as a navy blue tuxedo with black lapels.
David Rappaport, the owner of Emporio, which just
opened its fifth store in Teaneck, said that one thing never
would go out of style. The store, which sells high-end menswear with names like Jack Victor, Ted Baker, Canelli, and
more, has always and will always put its customers first.
I want our customers to come in and to be able to find
better mens clothing, to find great quality at a value, said
Mr. Rappaport. But the first thing is for the customer to be
able to connect with our sales staff, and to know that they
are buying the right thing. They should walk out happy and
know what they got is a quality product.
Customer service, he said, that is something that never
goes out of style.
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hen the time comes to

remodel a room, few
projects will have the
impact that replacing
the floor can achieve.
By changing the color,
pattern, or material,
the room transforms into something completely new and fresh. Youll fall in love
with your house all over again if you do
it right.
Some rooms need thoughtful
consideration before you replace any
surfaces. We commonly subject our
kitchen floors to quite a beating. Not only
is it a high-traffic area, but it also has to
endure the occasional glass, plate, knife,
or even frying pan being dropped on it, not
to mention various food and drink raining
down. A busy kitchen will take its toll on a
floor over the years. In many homes its a
main focal point, so having a tired-looking
surface can detract from a homes beauty,
not to mention its value.
When the time comes for your

replacement, youll have a lot of innovative
new materials to choose from. Stone will
have an upscale flair, but its not the ideal
choice for the kitchen. Any dropped plate
or glass will shatter to every corner of
the room. Its also hard on the feet and
unforgiving when a child takes a spill.
Chris Davis, president and chief
executive of the World Floor Covering
Association, said eye-pleasing alternatives
with a little spring to their step include
bamboo, cork, and a material called
corboo, a mixture of cork and bamboo
unveiled by US Floors a few years back.
He added that vinyl has come a long way.
It has a light bounce to it, yet it has
the look of tile, and if you get down on
the floor it has the feel of the real thing,
he said. And its a floatable-type floor,
meaning it doesnt require a glue down.
It can be clicked in place. It even has the
appearance of grout lines without really
having grout.
Hard surfaces arent only found in
the kitchen they can be just about
anywhere. An eco-friendly material

suitable for a family room, exercise room,
or finished basement is leather, recycled
from things like old car seats, wallets, and
purses. Theyre ground up and applied
to a backing material, usually cork,
according to Davis.
It has a pattern to it that looks like real
leather. Its relatively durable and cleans
with a damp cloth. Its bizarre, he said.
Overharvesting of exotic hardwood
from tropical rainforests has made certain
types of wood unavailable. The race is on
among companies developing methods
to make sustainable wood from North
America look like it came from trees like
Brazilian cherry. Anderson Hardwood
Floors has developed a line called Exotic
Impressions that uses a natural process
that mimics endangered hardwood with
impressive results, Davis said.
The carpet industry has also gotten
into the green game, rolling out new lines
that are made from recycled plastic water
bottles and even corn. SmartStrand by
Mohawk Flooring is made from liquefied
corn that is hardened into carpet fibers,

instead of the traditional nylon fiber.
Whether or not youre into going green,
Davis recommended that homeowners
take the time to consider their lifestyle
before they make any flooring decisions.
A family with young children and pets
living in a house with a gravel driveway
tucked into the woods will track in dirt
and other things no matter how hard they
try not to. They should look into flooring,
whether its carpet or a hard surface, that
is more durable and comes with a strong,
20-year warranty. Choosing a pattern
instead of a solid color will help make
tracked-in dirt less noticeable. After all,
who wants to clean the floor 10 times a day?
On the flip side, an empty-nester couple
that sees much lighter traffic in their home
can look for something more ornamental
rather than a bullet-proof material with a
warranty that will outlive them.
Those are the kind of issues that are
really important to talk about when youre
buying flooring so somebody can steer you
in the right direction, Davis said.
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ver since the first caveman figured out the need

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we have learned that in prehistoric times, the skins
and furs of animals were used to cover bare earth floors
for warmth and comfort. Since then, there has been no
doubt that these patterned skins would become a classic
in interior design all the way through today.
Of course, using skins immediately brings to mind safarilike interiors. From very literal African style interiors to the
uber-popular British colonial decor incorporate skins and
animal patterns as a motif. Animal prints are used because
of their exotic patterns and because they are good durable
fabrics that can conceal most stains. Just open any design
magazine today, and you will find leopard spots, zebra or
tiger stripes, and even giraffe-esque squares.
You have to know how to incorporate animal prints
in the space. Take caution because there is a fine line
between trendy and tacky. For a subtle touch, you can
make an animal print an accent piece in the room. This
means it can be shown in a pillow, a lampshade, or perhaps on the pad of a chair. Alternatively, it can be a bold
and aggressive move, becoming the focal point of your
room. In the latter, you might choose to incorporate these
patterns of nature in a wall-to-wall carpet, to cover a large
sofa, a pair of chairs, or even wallpaper an entire room.
This can be a playful and dramatic effect all in one. Animal
prints are wonderful to use if you want to create a room
that stands out from the crowd due to its bold appearance
yet is inviting and comforting at the same time.
As with many elements in interior design, animal prints
were used in fashion first from loincloths of prehistoric
men to fur trimmed royal garments for Empress Josephine
and the fashion forward designs of Roberto Cavalli. While
it remains an unknown which interior designer used animal prints first, there are a long list of designers including Elsie de Wolf, Madeleine Castaing, Billy Baldwin, and
Albert Hadley.
There is a great variety of patterns from antelope, cheetah, heifer, leopard, panther, tiger, or zebra just to name a
few. Animal prints are very adaptable. You can incorporate
these prints in most decor, from traditional interiors paired
with red lacquered walls a la Diana Vreeland to just a splash
here and there in a minimalist interior with white walls.
It takes a certain confidence to decorate with animal
prints. It is not for the faint of heart. Nonetheless, today,
animal prints are mainstream in decor. I suggest sticking
to one type of pattern per room. I find rooms that have
multiple patterns can be loud and confusing. Use animal
prints in unexpected places for that surprise element that
most great interiors have. Finally, be specific where you are
using the animal pattern so it doesnt become ubiquitous,
or it will feel like animal prints gone wild.
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ho says your house has to look a

certain way? Your home isnt a
movie set, it also isnt museum.
Your home is your home, and
it should speak volumes about you. It
should say welcome; I like the colors blue
and orange, or brown and pink. There are
no wrong or right color combinations, it
is all in how they are used and juxtaposed
together. Ultimately, your homes interiors should be a reflection of your taste. No
apologies, no excuses.
Your home is also much more than just
the architecture or the walls that enclose
your space. It is both an intimate and
public expression of your life, your likes
and passions. This is why I always advocate
that homeowners do a bit of homework
before undertaking the sometimes
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design magazine or book. What the reader
sees generally consists of images of work
that has already been completed, and
although a very current publication may
be featuring someones home, it may have
been done a long time ago.
Following the trends in furniture shops
closely can also be a dangerous path.
While we like an accessory or color that
we are seeing everywhere, it may be too
popular, and then your home will look
like everyone elses ... or you just might
get tired of the very popular design trick
quickly. This is why I repeat: It is your
home, let it reflect you.
The best place to start is by focusing
on what is important to you. Are you
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dislike it. So, everyone does know.
It is true that some homeowners can
vocalize or visualize easier than others,
however, everyone does have a basic
knowledge or pre-conceived idea of what
they like or can live with. Being extremely
sincere with your designer should make
the design process run more smoothly. A
good designer should be able to channel
your design criteria into a cohesive interior
design scheme.
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wners of older
homes often are
drawn to them by
their stately charm
and historical significance.
Without modern materials
and techniques, builders
had to rely more on craftsmanship and carpentry
in the days before houses
were mass-produced.
That historical charm
does not come cheap,
however. As a house ages,
it requires more work and,
of course, money. Ancient
water heaters will fail;
paint will peel; roofs will
leak. Time also takes its
toll on carpet, especially
if there are kids or pets in
the family. A good carpet
can last for years, but even
the best eventually will
succumb to the rigors of
being walked upon all
A floor to restore.
day.
Homeowners would
be wise to be careful
when removing carpet, especially
many others had floors that were
in an older home, as there may be a
cobbled together using softwood
treasure that has been hiding under
boards of random sizes. Refinishing
the carpet for years: a hardwood
a floor that was hastily built may
floor worthy of refinishing. Even a
result in simply the highlighting of its
long-neglected hardwood floor can
flaws, and new carpet may be a better
be made to look like new, and in
option.
many cases its a one-day job.
If a floor has been deemed worthy
If theres a possibility that a wellof refinishing, the next step is to start
built hardwood floor is under the
sanding. As the case is with many
carpet, care should be taken during
other procedures, prep and cleanup
removal so the floor underneath isnt
can take as much time and work as
damaged. Pull up a corner of the
the actual sanding, if not more. Even
carpet with a pair of pliers, tearing it
though newer sanders have vacuum
away from the tack strip on the floor.
attachments that can capture most
Continue around the room until all of
of the dust, the job site still will get
the carpet is free. Removing the tack
covered in dust and needs to be
strips requires more care. A small pry
sealed from the rest of the house with
bar can be used to pull out the tack
plastic sheets.
strips, and wedging a drywall taping
When were sure the dust wont
knife between the floor and pry bar
get to the rest of the house, we
will protect the floor from scratches.
start our sanding process with the
Once the carpet and tack strips
big machines and edgers, says
are gone, the floor can be examined
Rusty Swindoll, assistant director of
to determine whether its worth
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After the floor has been
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Swindoll recommends
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higher grit number.
Lets say 60-80-100,
basically, he says. You
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Once the floor is flat and
the old finish has been
sanded off, its time to
apply the stain using rags
or a chamois, depending
on the product. After the
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about two hours the
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The finish could be
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An oil-based finish takes eight to 10
hours to dry, whereas a water-based
one takes two to four hours. And
with an oil-based (finish), you have
to move out because of the fumes.
With water-based (finish), you can
stay in the house because itll dry
out quickly. Unless youre doing the
whole house, he says.
Fumes arent the only concern.
Tearing up old carpet and sanding
release dust and contaminants
into the air that can be hazardous.
A government-certified respirator
should be worn at all times rather
than a flimsy dust mask that doesnt
create a proper seal. Accumulated
sand dust can become combustible,
so sanders should be cleaned after
each day. Stain rags are notorious fire
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Each piece should be positioned so that it
feels natural to the room. Move the work
around until you find the perfect place.
Things to consider: the themes, colors,
and the amount and quality of light. All of

these components affect how a work of art
is perceived in a particular space.
Finally, in order to keep your rooms
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xactly how does one buy art? Is

there any right or wrong way to
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is no one correct way, but there are
certain steps to take to ensure the things
you buy are meaningful to you and your
family.
What drives every collection and
collector is different. Some collectors
buy the works of local artists, others may
collect the work of Old Masters. Some may
find street art appealing, and more risktaking collectors may buy the works of yetto-be-recognized artists and even artwork
that for one reason or another was made
by anonymous artists. Defining what your
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It is important to focus on what is really
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Some may consider art something to fill
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SPRING 2016
SPRING STYLE
Real estate
Can your lawn and shrubs improve the value of your home?
SHARON NAYLOR
our homes landscaping can be a big

selling point for your on-the-market
home, and even if youre not selling
right away, the trees, bushes, and
bulbs you plant now can make your home
more valuable months or years from now.
According to the Appraisal Institute,
attractive landscaping all around a home
can increase curb appeal and entice buyers
to attend your open house or schedule
a tour of your home. (Buyers mindsets
may be that if you, as the homeowner,
take such great care of the outside of your
home, you may be likelier to do upkeep
and design the inside of your home, as
well.) The Appraisal Institute also found
that proper landscaping will make your
home stand out among other homes in
your neighborhood, and low-maintenance
plants are also desirable among buyers.
Lovely landscaping in your backyard lets
buyers envision the entertaining theyll do
in that space, a big selling point as well.
A study from Virginia Tech found that
home landscaping is valued at about 15
percent of your homes value, and that
landscape aspects can add even more
value to your home. This study breaks
down the particular home value boosts
at 42 percent for your landscape design,
36 percent for plant size, and 22 percent
for diversity of plants. This last statistic
is an important one to build into your
landscape plans; if you plant only vincas
or impatiens all around your landscaping
for curb appeal, thats not going to impress

buyers as much as if you planted a halfdozen or more different kinds of flowers or
plants, such as would be seen in an English
garden, with lots of colors, textures, and
flower types.
What buyers like to see

in your landscaping
In addition to plant diversity, as well as a

range of plant and flower sizes, here are
some particularly appealing aspects of
landscape design you could incorporate
into your yard:
Landscaping all around your home.
If your front yard is bursting with plants
and a bright green manicured lawn, but
your side and backyards are unfinished
or even devoid of plantings, the effect
is less impressive. Plant all around your
property, including the front corners of
your property, to add extra pops of color
and texture there.
A variety of healthy trees. A halfdead tree will hurt your homes value
when potential buyers predict pricy treetrimming service work ahead. Healthy
trees boost home value, and you can add
more value to your home by having your
real estate agent attach a description of
your trees and their values to your
home listing. Did you know that the
different trees on your property create
increased value for your home? Use
the National Tree Benefit Calculator to
assess your tree types benefits to carbon
reduction, energy savings, storm water
runoff and property values. A list of these

benefits on your home listing can impress
potential buyers tremendously. And just
three properly placed trees could save you
between $100 and $250 a year in energy
costs, says the U.S. Department of Energy.
Planting windbreaks and shade trees can
reduce winter heating bills by 15 percent
and air conditioning bills by 75 percent.
Plants that provide foliage and color
in all seasons. Those spring flowers have
an expiration date, but evergreens will
provide beauty all year long. A smart mix
of trees, bushes, and flowers creates an
attractive overlapping of landscape effects
throughout all seasons.
Well-maintained gardens. Trim trees
and shape bushes. Deadhead roses and
pull weeds to enhance your curb appeal.
Modern hardscaping. Your plants will
look even better with a modern stone or
paver terrace and walkways throughout
your property. Old, cracked
stones from decades ago will
hurt the look of your pretty
plants. Rock walls, retaining
walls, stone garden benches,
and well-placed lighting effects
in your landscaping add even
more beauty and value to your
homes appearance.
While it is possible to do your
own landscaping to improve
the value of your home, hiring a
professional landscaper is most advised,
since an expert will be able to advise you
on the best tree and plant choices for your
homes layout and potential energy

savings, native plants that bring the
most value to your home, proper
pruning of your existing trees and
bushes to make them look newer
and more valuable, lawn seeding
and weed treatment, and more.
An expert brings great advantage
to your landscaping investment,
and isnt it better to have their team
climb trees to prune and do all the
heavy lifting of new trees and rock
wall materials than to do it yourself?
What should you spend? The
American Society of Landscape
A rc h i t e c t s re c o m m e n d s t h a t
homeowners invest 10 percent of
the homes value in landscaping,
including hardscaping, lighting, fire
pits, ponds, and even swimming
pools, all to boost their homes
appearance and value.
David Beaulieu, About.
coms landscaping expert,
a d v i s e s s i f t i n g t h ro u g h
landscaping ideas online to
find inspiration on current and
emerging trends, since You
are essentially landscaping
for other peoples tastes, not
your own. Still, landscaping
looks that call to you will often
match the style and feel of your
home, so do trust your instincts as
you design a landscaping plan that can
help sell your home more quickly and for
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SPRING 2016
SPRING STYLE
873 Teaneck Road Teaneck, NJ

(201) 837-8800 (201) 385-2882
www.russorealestate.com
Lydia Russo Robert Russo Rhoda Russo

Broker-Owner
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TEANECK
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Spacious S/L. C
Club Area. 4 BRs,
3 Full Baths. H/W
Flrs, C/A/C. LR, FDR,
Granite Countered Eat
In Kit. Fin Bsmt. Lots
of Closets. $464,900.
TEANECK
Colonial. W Eglwd
Area. EZ to NYC
Buses. Brick/
Aluminum Colonial.
Oak Floors. Living
Room with Stone
Fireplace, Dining
Room, Den, 3
Bedrooms, 1.5 Baths. Finished Basement. Garage.
$359,000.
Presented by:
Rhoda Russo, Sales Associate
(201) 321-5691
rhoda@russorealestate.com
Presented by:
Johnnie Moore-Pierson, Sales Associate
(201) 982-3900
Johnnie@russorealestate.com
Charming New
England Colonial.
Gracious Ent Hall,
Large Liv Rm/Fplc,
Formal Din Rm,
Vaulted Ceil Fam Rm
off Large Mod Island
Kit. 3 Bedrooms, 2
Bath. 155 Deep Prop. C/A/C. Country Club Area.
$499,000.
Presented by:
Shirley Sosland, Broker-Sales Associate
(201) 394-5614
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TEANECK
Updated S/L. 5 BR, 3

Bath S/L. C Club Area.
Mod Eat In Kit/Granite
Cntrs, LR/Fplc, Fam
Rm/Acoustically
Designed Theatre,
Intercom System/
Child Monitor. Gar,
C/A/C, Oak Flrs. Deck/Built-in Grill, U/G Sprinks.
$575,000 OR $3,200/month.
Presented by:
Benjamin Cripps, Sales Associate
(201) 951-6057
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TEANECK
Charming English
Tudor. Beautifully
updated. Oak Floors.
Ent Foyer, Liv Rm/
Fplc, Music Rm, Din
Rm, Den, Updated
Mod Eat In Kit/Sldg
Drs to Deck . 2nd
Floor : Master BR/Bath, 2 more BRs, Updated
Mod Bath. Full, Fin 3rd Floor/BR. Ceramic Tiled
Bsmt. 2 Zone C/A, 2 Car Gar. $670s.
Presented by:
Robert Russo, Broker-Owner
(201) 803-3585, rrusso@russorealestate.com
TEANECK
TEANECK
TEANECK
TEANECK
Expanded &
Remodeled. CH
Colonial/272 Deep
Prop. 6 BRs, 5.5 Baths.
Oak Flrs. LR/Fplc, Lib,
Banq DR, Designer Isle
Kit open to Fam Rm &
Deck. Recroom, Bsmt.
$850,000.
Presented by:
Eric Wein, Broker-Sales Associate
(201) 410-1556, esw81@aol.com &
Naamah Bateman, Sales Associate
(908) 247-4636,
naamahbateman@gmail.com
Stunning Contemp
Colonial. 5 BRs, 4.5
Baths. Porcelain Flr
Form Din Rm, Sunken
Fam Rm/Custom
Built-ins, Gorgeous
Eat In Kit/Atrium
Windows. Fin Recrm
Bsmt. Deck, C/A/C. $879,000.
Presented by:
Edyie Rosenfeld, Sales Associate,
(201) 647-9716
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Beautiful English
Tudor. 70 X 100
Prop. Gracious Liv
Rm/Fplc,
Banquet Din Rm,
French Doors to
Deck, Ultra Gourmet,
Granite Kit/Bkfst
Rm, Den. 4 Generous Brms, 3.5 Baths + 2 more
Ground Lev Brms. 2 Zone C/A/C. $765,000.
Presented by:
Shirley Sosland, Broker-Sales Associate
(201) 394-5614
sosland2ds@aol.com
Prime W Englewood.
Room For All.
Contemp S/L.
75'X120' Prop.
Grand, Vaulted Liv
Rm, Formal Din Rm,
Sunlit Isle Kit, Huge
Fam Rm/Sliders to
Yard, Den/Office, 6 BRs, 6.5 Baths. H/W Flrs, 7
Zone Heat, C/A/C. Gar. $999,900.
Presented by:
Annekee Brahver-Keely, Broker-Sales Associate
(201) 314-2125
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For Our Full Inventory & Directions, Visit our Website www.RussoRealEstate.com
SPRING 2016
SPRING STYLE
What can I afford?

How finances affect housing choices
CHELLE CORDERO
f you are like most of us, you drool during episodes

of Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous huge mansions with more bathrooms and bedrooms than you
can count, indoor pools, home gyms, master suites,
and enough land to stable and ride a horse. However, if
you are like most of us, a home like this is beyond your
financial reality.
When you begin your house hunt, be realistic about
your needs and desires. Understand that a homes actual
cost is more than the selling price. You will have to add
those numbers in when you are determining affordability.
Basic expenses include closing costs to cover loan
setup fees, property inspections and escrow or title
companys fees. The interest rate on your loan and the
length of the loan will add to the final purchase price; if
your mortgage has an adjustable rate, then your monthly
payment may change periodically. Make sure you know
exactly how much this amount can fluctuate. There are
property and school taxes, utility fees, and, depending
on local regulations, there may be occupancy certificates,
hookups, warranties and more. If using a lawyer to help
guide you through the process, tack on legal fees.
Dont forget moving costs, furniture and appliance
purchases, and home insurance. Figure in commuting

costs. If you are buying a co-op or condo, or a home in
a community overseen by a homeowners association,
there will be additional monthly fees and improvement
assessments. Depending on how long you plan to stay in the
house, consider adding in the cost of modifications for any
big life changes, such as child safety or senior accessibility.
Its a wise idea to tuck away money, and replenish it as
necessary, to help cover routine and emergency home
repairs. While home insurance will cover most incidents
and damages, there will be a deductible.
Common, but not ironclad, formulas a lender will use
before granting you a home mortgage include:
-Wanting a 40 percent down payment on the purchase
price of the house.
-Knowing how much of your gross income is necessary
to cover your total debt. Banks generally prefer less than
40 percent.
-Knowing whether a maximum of 30 percent would
cover your total monthly mortgage payment, including
principal, interest and taxes.
Getting a loan prequalification will give you an
approximation of what you may be allowed to borrow, but
the house condition, location and selling price may
vary the approved amount. Examine your own finances
and future plans. Are you applying for the mortgage

based on two full-time incomes? If planning to have a
family, will there continue to be two full-time incomes?
Are you or your spouse nearing retirement or planning a
career change? Allow for other lifestyle changes such as
education, family milestones, illness, new cars, and even
vacations and travel. If you are not planning to remain in
this home for more than a few years, your up-front costs
might not be recovered.
Circumstances can change unexpectedly, and if you
are just able to make it with your current finances, the
house may become unmanageable quickly. Because your
home is collateral for a loan, your lender may look to
foreclose if you cant keep up with payments.
So leave tennis courts and horse stables to celebrities,
and focus on building the best home for your budget.
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Come to Florida
If you are looking to purchase a property in Florida
now is the time, according to Ed Lepselter of Remax
Advantage Plus in Boca Raton, who notes that prices
rose about 11 percent last year. Another strong year
is forecast for real estate in the Palm Beach County
area.
Many new developments are underway, such as
Valencia Bay in Boynton Beach and Villaggio Reserve
in Delray Beach, both of which are 55-plus active
adult communities. The northern part of the county
is seeing an explosion of new construction in the Jupiter/Palm Beach Gardens area, says Lepselter.
He adds: Everything you could want is here. We
have world class restaurants, shopping, golf courses,
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If you are considering making the move, you can
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The Colony in Fort Lee
Small Bank, Big Service
Welcome to The Colony, a luxury Fort Lee high-rise

building overlooking the George Washington Bridge
and Manhattan.
On-site management, 24-hour doorman, state-of-theart fitness center with indoor and outdoor pools, mens
and womens locker rooms, 100-seat movie theater,
valet parking, social room with library, valet cleaner.
All this within walking distance of downtown Fort Lee.
The Colony also has street-level commercial space.
Dentist, oral surgeon, physical therapy, full service
beauty salon, and more to come.
For more information call Allan Dorfman, broker
associate of Prominent Properties, Sothebys International Realty, 201-970-4118, realtorallan@yahoo.com.
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CONQUERING CHAOS
Cant have anyone over syndrome
CATHERINE MCNULTY
ou only have to watch five minutes

of HGTV to know that how your
house looks has a major impact on
whether it will sell and how much
you will get for it. Save a lucky few who
have homes in markets so desirable they
will sell no matter what, the rest of us have
to make sure our homes have every advantage to ensure they sell quickly and for a
good price. An entire industry has sprung
up around making sure homes on the
market have curb appeal to get prospective buyers in the door they are staged
to make sure those potential buyers make
an offer.
If your house suffers from CHAOS
(cant have anyone over syndrome),
then it is not ready to sell. What can you
do to cut through the clutter and get your
house sales ready?
The first thing most experts recommend
is to get rid of everything you no longer
need or use. Its easy to get used to having

junk around, which is what something
you no longer need or use is: junk. After a
while, you dont even see it; its just part of
the landscape. But think of it this way if
youre selling your house, eventually you
will need to pack and move everything. Do
you really want to have to move stuff you
no longer use or need?
Of course not! Time to sell and sell
you can because your junk may be exactly
what someone else is looking (and willing
to pay) for. Ebay, garage sales, estate sales
and consignment shops there are so
many options. If you cant sell something
but its still in good condition, consider
donating to charity or dropping it off at
Goodwill Industries. That said, if you
have a laundry bag full of stained T-shirts,
just throw them out. No one wants that
(including you).
Even if you need and use everything in
your house, it may still appear to be too
cluttered for potential buyers. If you have
a lot of bulky furniture or overstuffed

closets and you cant part with any of it,
its time to get a storage unit. Having less
stuff can give a house the appearance that
it has more space (including the coveted
closet space), which is very appealing to
potential buyers.
Its also time to put away any
personal mementos: family photos and
memorabilia, any specific collections
and any fixtures you wont be selling
with the house. Remember, youre selling
a house, not your life you want it to
be impersonal so that potential buyers
picture themselves living in it. And if
there are fixtures youre taking with you
(antique doorknobs, drawer pulls, etc.),
make sure those are gone, too. Otherwise,
a potential buyer might assume those
come with the house.
Assume that anyone coming to see the
house will snoop, so if theres something
you dont want to be seen, dont have
it in the house. Plus, the devil is in the
details. It may seem like overkill to sort
your Tupperware and make sure all of
your dishes are clean and stacked neatly,
but a potential buyer (who is going to go
through your cabinets) will see someone
SPRING STYLE
who is organized and on top of things.

That means the house was well-cared-for.
One of the quickest ways give the rooms
of your house a clean, uncluttered feel is
a fresh coat of paint and clean windows.
Its easy to overlook how dirty walls and
windows can become. Even if theyre not
streaked with dirt, accumulated dust and
grime can dull both. Fresh paint and clean
windows will brighten any room and make
it feel cleaner and more spacious.
A lot of the time, small fixes such as
that can really help sell a house. Bleach
the grout and the tub in the bathroom.
Completely wipe out any kitchen cabinets,
drawers and shelves. If a door squeaks
when it closes, make sure it doesnt when
you put your house on the market.
Speaking of the kitchen, it is by far the
most important room in the house. Major
repairs and updates dont always pay off in
other rooms, but almost always do in the
kitchen. So if you only have the budget to
fix one room, make it the kitchen.
Remember, only you can prevent
CHAOS in your own house. If youre
feeling overwhelmed, start small: Clean
out a drawer; put away all the dishes.
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2016 Mercedes-Benz GLC SUV
enzel-Busch has distinguished itself for nearly half

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The GLC isnt just beautiful on the outside, howeveron
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M
y Aunt Shirley shes actually my Cousin

Shirley; actually, shes my fathers Cousin
Shirley recently downsized from her threebedroom split-level house to a two-bedroom condo.
As she confronted her closets, her basement, and
her attic to winnow and purge a lifetime of possessions, she found a photograph and gave it to me the
last time we met.
The snapshot showed a hair-bow-topped me,
at about 4 years old, my older brother, and a table
full of my young cousins, who today are parents and
grandparents themselves. It was taken at the childrens table at Aunt Pessys Passover seder. (Aunt
Pessy, Shirleys mother, was actually my fathers
first cousin, but because we were a small family, everyone got bumped up a few notches on the relative
scale.)
Those Passover seders were the first of my
Pesach memories. We would venture to Aunt Pessy
and Uncle Joes, all decked out and ready for a long
night of hagaddah, matzah, and mishpacha. From
the red Manischewitz Malaga wine to the Maxwell
House well-worn haggadah books that we used, to
the generously peppered homemade gefilte fish that
was Aunt Pessys specialty, to the protracted afikomen negotiations these memories are part of the
Passover lore that I
will always remember.
There is even some
precious film footage
that was taken of the
seder table, everyone waving as they sat cheek-tojowl on the railroad of tables that ran from the dining room into the living room.
They were wonderful seders. They were full of
laughter, special Passover food, and good feeling.
Eventually, Aunt Pessy gave up presiding over
these seders and her daughter, Ruthie, Shirleys sister, took up the mantle. We would gather at Ruthies
house for a similar version of the Pessy Passover.
I am reminded of these wonderful family holiday gatherings not only because of the season,
as we approach Pesach, but because Shirley was
someone to whom my daughter Shaina turned recently for a school project. Shaina was asked to interview someone of an older generation, and in the
absence of others, Shirley was a willing participant.
While seemingly ageless or at least not nearly her
age she wears her 83 years with vigor, optimism,
and enthusiasm.
And in the course of that project, I, too, learned
a thing or two about Aunt Shirley and her family. Her family left Rovno, Poland, my fathers birth
city, and followed their Zionist dream to what was
then Palestine. Shirley was born in Tel Aviv in 1933,
and then her family left, and traveled to the United
States in 1939, the year that Hitler invaded Poland.
They lived in Washington, D.C. something I never
knew and then moved to Brooklyn in 1947, the
year that my mother, who also was born in Poland
and who survived the Shoah, came to the United
States. Shirley married her childhood sweetheart
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Dr. Annette Berger, Psy.D.
when she was two weeks shy of her 17th birthday

(at 16!) and celebrates 66 years with her husband
Irving. When she was a youngster, her family had
one of the first televisions on their block, and their
home no surprise was social central. Everyone
came to their home to gather around the latest,
greatest invention TV.
Shirley lived through it all. The Shoah. The birth
of the State of Israel (which she calls the greatest)
the Korean conflict, the Vietnam War, the Cold War,
and the ups and downs of more than eight decades.
She is the mother of three grown children and grandmother to five.
She is a living memory. A treasure of the past
and the link to the future. I am so happy to be able
to wish her a sweet holiday.
As we sit and gather with our own families this
Passover, may we remember our personal pasts and
our collective pasts, as a people and as a nation. And
may we celebrate with the hopes of a future that will
be sweeter than any red Malaga wine.
Director of Adult Programs and Cultural Arts

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GENERATION G
The Greatest Show on Earth

Is a Passover Activity
E D S I L B E R FA R B
he Feld family may not realize it,

but the Ringling Brothers and Barnum & Bailey Circus, over which
they preside, holds for me a spiritual
connection to Passover. How else explain why 75 or 80 years ago, at my
grandfathers seder, the prize I demanded each year for redeeming the afikomen was a ticket to the circus, which
happened to be in town around the time
of the holiday.
In later years, my own children and
grandchildren bargained for more sophisticated afikomen rewards, but the
circus for me is still a rite of spring, inexorably linked to Passover. Indeed, on
one occasion several years ago it was
a true Passover happening, one of the
most extraordinary circus productions
ever.
On a chol hamoed day of Passover
a group of Brooklyn yeshivas took over
Madison Square Garden for a strictly
kosher circus. Since very observant
Jewish men do not attend performances by women, especially if not modestly dressed, the yeshivas arranged
for this to be an all-male production.
There would be no scantily clad women perched on elephants, nor swinging
from the trapeze, nor daredevil riding on
horses. In fact all the female roles were
taken by men. Of course all food sold by
the vendors was kosher. It was a huge
success. The Garden was a near sellout.
This year Ringling Brothers and Barnum & Bailey arrives two months before Passover and leaves before the
holiday, so theres no afikomen incentive, but there is, nevertheless,
powerful motivation to revisit the
Big Show. The Feld family has
decided to discontinue the
performing elephants; perhaps the most dramatic
change in the 145-year history of the circus.
According to the Feld
announcement, the Asian
elephants that travel with
the circus will be relocated
to the Ringling Brothers Center for Elephant Conservation in Florida. There

they will join the rest of the Ringling
Brothers elephant herd. The Elephant
Conservation Center conducts a breeding program for this endangered species and supports research that seeks
a cure for diseases that impact juvenile
elephants.
This then is the last year for the
performing pachyderms, so I take my
8 -year-old granddaughter, Alina, to the
historic event. She recalls her last circus
visit. I saw a lady hang by her hair, is
the vivid memory.
The circus has changed venues.
Instead of Madison Square Garden in
Manhattan, the big show has moved to
the new glittering Barclays Center in
Brooklyn.
We arrive amidst a swarm of vendors hawking souvenirs and toys on
the street and inside
the Center. Noisemakers that flash colored
lights, balloons of all
shapes and ringmaster style
hats, all of
which the
street vendors claim
would cost double inside the building.

As we make our way to our seats,
children who arrived earlier were in the
arena being entertained by clowns. Then
the show began with the traditional cry
of the ringmaster summoning Children of all ages! Alina was transfixed
as the parade began. Eight motorcycles
roared in and circled the arena. There
were horses and dogs, clowns and animal trainers, tumblers and trapeze flyers. Hanging from the ceiling were four
globes, each containing a contortionist.
Now here they come, making their
farewell appearance, ending a circus
tradition that probably dates to P.T. Barnum himself the performing elephants,
stepping as daintily as their five tons
would allow, sporting a colorful headband on their broad foreheads, and with
a lissome young lady settled confidently behind the ears of the leader. They
march with the trunk of each grasping
the tail of the one in front. A procession
of five, they circle the arena with the dignity that befits loyal retirees. In the center ring, the worlds largest land mammals cap their performance by standing
on their hind legs.
But what are those motorcyclists
doing here? We soon find out. The Torres family, all eight of them, enter the
Globe of Steel, a 16-foot cage-like
sphere within which they spin around
and around on their fearsome motorcycles on speeds that can reach 65
miles an hour.
Gymnasts flip over
barriers and through
hoops that are raised
higher and higher. Not
to be outdone, out
come the dogs of
all sizes, jumping
and
climbing. They are accompanied by

a massive pig, which maneuvers itself
down a sliding pond.
And the horses arrive with men and

women defying gravity as they slide
under and swing over their galloping
steeds.
In one ring a troop of clowns cavort
doing back flips and pratfalls, and bop
each other with plastic mallets.
In another ring the lights have
dimmed, and we see the shadows of
animals.
Lions? I ask, and Alina nods expectantly. The lights come up and inside a
cage some 30 feet across are not only lions, including one kingly male, but also
tigers, eight big cats in all, and a trim
young man in a glittering circus vest, Alexander Lacey.
He shouts commands as the big cats
sit up, roll over and climb onto stools
of various heights. He talks to them,
pets them, calls them by name, and in a
heart-stopping climax hugs the male lion
with the big mane. The two even appear
to be exchanging kisses.
Which animal act did you like the
best, we ask Alina, who has been taking
horseback-riding lessons herself. We assume it would be the horses, or perhaps
lions or maybe elephants. The kangaroos, she says.
Kangaroos? Yes, there were two
kangaroos that leaped over barriers. We
realized that despite multiple visits to
various zoos, none of us had ever before
seen a live kangaroo.
If lion taming is a death-defying act,
one that surely rivals it is the high-flying
trapeze. One forgets that theres a net
beneath as the fliers flip through the
air and are unerringly grabbed by the
swinging catcher, all in beautiful rhythm
and perfect timing. The result is a series
of triple somersaults just seconds apart.
All performers, animals
and humans, join the farewell
parade. Alina waves goodbye to the
elephants.
Ed Silberfarb was a reporter for the Bergen
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Chef Extraordinaire
Levana Kirschenbaum
Cooks Pesach
L E VA N A K I R S C H E N B A U M
grew up in a modest household,

but I remember fabulous food at every meal at my home, especially on
Pesach, so much so that I actually wait
for that time of year to showcase my cu-
linary stars. So, whats wrong with me?

Waiting for Pesach to be over, we are all
familiar with, but actually waiting for it
to come around?
On Pesach we naturally turn to all
fresh seasonal produce and fresh herbs.
Many desserts hardly suffer from not
Lamb Shank Tajine with Mushrooms and Artichokes

Lamb shanks are one of
the most ideal cuts of
the lamb: Lean, tender,
low maintenance, and
best of all, very well
priced. And I love their
rustic, unpretentious
look making your
homemade dish look
homemade. The bones in the
Ingredients:
lamb shanks contribute a suc8 lamb shanks, or 3 1/2 pounds
culent gelatinous texture. In
lean lamb or beef, cut in 2-inch
the event you are serving this
cubes
dish at a buffet, and would
2 good pinches saffron
rather use boned meat, no
1 tablespoon turmeric
problem using boned lamb. I
1 sprig rosemary, optional, leaves
am making this dish the Tajine
only (skip if you are using beef)
way: All in one pot, adding
Ground pepper to taste (no salt
the ingredients to the pot
anywhere please: The lamb
according to their cooking
shanks have enough salt to
time. See what I mean, when I
season the whole dish, and
say low maintenance? And the
then some)
shidduch of flavors just cant
2 pounds button mushrooms
be beat: Lamb, artichokes,
2 10-ounce boxes frozen artimushrooms! Yum! All these
choke hearts, or frozen artiSephardi stove-top preparachoke bottoms
tions are delightful: Just get
Instructions:
yourself a wide stainless steel
heavy pot, and you are all set.
Put the lamb shanks or cubes
I am adding the rosemary
in a heavy pot with water to
not because it is indigenous
cover. Bring to a boil. Reduce
to the original recipe (its not,
to medium, cover and cook 2
and I dont use it in this dish),
hours. Add the saffron, turmeric,
but because rosemary is such rosemary and mushrooms and
a wonderful crowd pleaser
cook another 45 minutes. Add
with lamb.
artichoke hearts and cook
The exact same dish is
another 15 minutes. Make sure
delicious made with beef. I
you dont bruise the artichokes.
love beef cheeks for stew, I
The liquid in the pot should look
wish there was a way to make
thick and creamy. If it is too thin,
them sound as delicious as
transfer the meat and vegetables
they taste! Remember to wash to a serving platter with a slotted
them thoroughly to rid them
spoon, and reduce the sauce on
of any excess salt, and dont
a high flame until is reaches the
add salt anywhere in the dish, consistency of maple syrup. Pour
just as I instruct you to add
the sauce over all. Serve hot
no salt in any meat or poulalone or with roasted potatoes.
try dish, since the Kashering
Serve hot. 8 servings.
provides plenty of salt.
Levana Kirschenbaum was co-owner of

the acclaimed Levana Restaurant on
Manhattans Upper West Side and pioneered
being made with flour, if at all. I totally

ignore all those dreadful mixes manufactured for our convenience. In short, I
am stuck with only the best. Now that
quinoa has been approved for Pesach,
I make tabouleh and pilaf with it, which
liberates me from the compulsory po-
Endive, Pear, Avocado

and Walnut Salad
Endives
are wonderful in
this salad.
The dish is
very easily
adapted
for Pesach,
and is
equally at
home as a
salad or a side dish with grilled
fish or chicken.
We all notice walnut oil,
which is an expensive treat yearround, is plentiful and reasonably priced during Pesach: Go
for it!
Ingredients:
1 Anjou pear, unpeeled, cored, cut
in quarters and sliced
3 endives, cut in thin wedges (make
sure they stay attached at the top)
2 ribs celery, peeled and sliced very
thin
1 avocado, cut in thin wedges
Dressing:
1 medium shallot, minced
1/3 cup extra virgin olive oil, or walnut oil
3 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
2 tablespoons Dijon style mustard
(omit on Passover)
2 tablespoons wasabi powder, or
prepared horseradish
1 teaspoon sugar
Salt and pepper to taste
1/3 cup chopped toasted walnuts
(300 degree oven, about 15 minutes)
Instructions:
Place the apple or pear, endives,
celery and avocado in a shallow
salad bowl or platter. Mix the dressing ingredients in a small bowl, and
pour evenly over the salad. Just
before serving, sprinkle the walnuts
over the salad.
kosher upscale dining. Cooking teacher

and cookbook author, she has been affectionately nicknamed the Jewish Julia Child.
tato dish at every meal.

Here are three of my favorite Pesach
dishes. This Sephardi cook just cant resist including a Moroccan Tajine; lamb is
a huge favorite in our cuisine, and lamb
shanks are festive and, as I like to call
them, reasonably expensive.
Almond Olive Oil Wine Cake

This fantastic almond
olive oil cake is one
of my favorite cakes,
and works perfectly on
Passover. As much as I
would like to make my
life easier by minimizing
Passover preparations, I
have never had the heart
to buy pre-made desserts.
Those of you craving a glutenfree cake anytime of the year,
this olive oil cake is perfect.
The ingredients in this olive
oil cake olive oil, whole
ground almonds, red wine,
are assertive and deliciously
fragrant. You will want to
make it olive oil cake round.
Huh? Cake made with
olive oil? You bet! Please
dont use the light olive oil
variety, we really want the
full-bodied olive oil in this
olive oil cake, thats what its
all about!
I rarely make a cake that
requires whipping egg whites,
but when I do as in this
almond olive oil cake, heres
my simple secret to insure
the egg whites dont flatten
out on me. Instead of folding the egg whites into the
finished cake batter, I whip
them, then add the sugar
to the whipped egg whites
(now they are on solid, and
the good volume of my
cake and yours is guaranteed!), then add all other
ingredients one by one.
When the price is
right for almond flour in
a price club or online,
its alright to buy the almonds ground, just make
sure they are whole not
blanched almonds
She is he author of Levanas Table: Kosher

Cooking for Everyone, Levana Cooks
Dairy-Free, In Short Order and The Whole
Ingredients:
6 egg whites
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 1/2 cups sugar
6 egg yolks
1/2 cup extra-virgin olive oil
2 cups flour (all purpose, whole
wheat pastry or white spelt.
Passover: substitute 1 1/2 cups
potato starch)
1 tablespoon baking powder
3/4 cup dry red wine
2 tablespoons orange zest
3 tablespoons unflavored brandy
or rum
1 1/4 cups finely ground
unblanched ground almonds
(you can substitute hazelnuts,
walnuts or pecans)
Instructions:
Preheat the oven to 350F.
Whip the egg whites with the
salt at high speed, until soft
peaks form. Add the sugar gradually, beating after each addition,
until the mixture is very stiff
and glossy. Switch to low speed.
Add the yolks and beat until just
incorporated, then add the oil
and beat until just incorporated,
and so on, one ingredient at a
time, until all ingredients are
incorporated.
Pour the batter into a greased
10-inch springform pan or tube
pan, and bake for 1 hour or a little
longer, until a knife inserted in the
center comes out clean. Unmold
and invert onto a cooling rack.
Foods Kosher Kitchen: Glorious Meals Pure

and Simple. Visit her at www.levanacooks.
com.
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How to Instill Jewish Values in Teenagers

A D I N A S O C LO F
Instilling Jewish values is something that
many parents of teenagers would like to
do. Here are several ways.
Find ways to connect with your

Judaism
Teens can smell hypocrisy a mile away. If
you are not excited and devoted to your
Judaism your kids will know it. So you
need to find ways to live and love your
Jewish values and make your Jewish traditions fun and memorable.
Find a mentor
Everyone needs a role model. Develop a
relationship with a rabbi that you like and
respect. Let your child see that you make
time for this relationship. Encourage your
teen to find Jewish mentors that he can
connect with.
Create positive relationships

The most powerful tool in parenting is
developing a positive relationship. If
you want your children to embrace your
Jewish values you need to have a good
relationship with them.
Set limits and rules
Unplug
Teens need and want limits and rules.

They also want to be a part of that rule
making. What rules do you want to make
about Judaism?
What is your dress code? What
about attending services? Sit down and
discuss what your expectations are.
Hear your childs side of the story
and work out your guidelines with
them.
The Jewish calendar has a built-in day

once a week to unplug, refresh and unwind: Shabbos. It is the best time to connect with your family, especially teens,
whose schedules can get very busy
during the week. Shabbos meals are the
ultimate bonding time. Making favorite
foods, laughing with your family and
sharing words of Torah can make
the day extra special.
Respecting parents starts

with you
There are different ways to

connect to Judaism
The Torah is very clear that

children need to respect
their parents, Honor your
father and mother. And
you can model respect by
showing respect to them.
Try to keep yelling, blaming and accusing at a
minimum. If you do lose
it, (we all do), apologize
for your outburst. It helps
to mend the bad feelings and makes parents
look human and more
approachable.
There are so many ways

to connect to Jewish life.
Some people are attracted
to the intellectual aspect of
Judaism. Others connect
on a more emotional level
or spiritual level, through
song and prayer. There are
others who commit themselves to a life of doing
chesed, loving kindness
and there are many acts of
kindnesses that teens can
commit to doing, working with kids with special
GRAND
needs, visiting the sick, volunteering to

tutor in Hebrew. Guide your teen and
help them find the best way for them to
connect to their Jewish heritage that fits
their personality.
Love your teen for who they are

This is not specific to raising a child with
Jewish values, however your teen is going through a difficult time, where their
hormones are raging and they are trying to find themselves. There are times
where it will be hard to get along. Always
try to focus and hold on to the reason
why you love your teen. It will help you
get through these tough years until you
come out the other side.
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who ran a parenting panel Raising Teens and
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his is the time of year that many

families spend time together. College students trek home, couples
return with their children, single adults
walk through the door again and grandparents often travel to spend time with
children and grandchildren they havent
seen for a while. Whether its an extended family holiday vacation or parents and their children getting together,
these times often breed conflict.
There are always those who anticipate great family time but come away
feeling disappointment. Some nurse
emotional wounds and hurtful exchanges. Others feel overlooked and misunderstood. Many scratch their heads and
wonder, Is this really my family? Some
vow not return next year, feeling as if
they simply dont belong.
You can be accomplished, talented
and respected but then you sit at this
gathering feeling belittled and misjudged, as if youre back in high school.
Here are some empowering tips that
can help you get through the most difficult family get together.
Prepare for a Spiritual Workout

Come into the situation knowing its
time to grow. Think to yourself: I can do
this by being brave and accepting certain family realities and dynamics. I cannot change people. I can only change my
reaction to those who continue to aggravate and annoy me. Once I accept this,
my next step is to move on.
Ask: what is my spiritual goal here?
If Id be in the gym, Id be sweating and
exerting myself even if it means feeling
discomfort or pain. The same goes for
my internal self. If I want to reach a place
of compassion, patience, forgiveness,
and not reacting to every slight then I
must step out of my comfort zone. For
the first time I will finally reach serenity.
Of course its easy to feel good with
easygoing people whom I like and get
along with. But what happens when I
am together with those who push my
buttons?
See irritating people as opportunities to lose those pesky extra spiritual
pounds youve been lugging around.
Ridding yourself of angry reactions, being snappy, and freezing yourself out of
the conversation will strengthen your
internal character muscles. Instead of
falling prey to your negative emotions,
rise above them and stand on the legs of
dignity and self-respect.
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You know that you wont be changing
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and your world. So why get into heated
conversations or retreat to stony silence?

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H E I D I M A E B RAT T
he family who plays together stays together?

The family who plays together in an exercise kind of way definitely stays fit together. Why not make family time a time to sweat and
work up a little heartbeat? Those exercise-induced
endorphins can help build happy memories. And
now that the weather is getting better and there
are more outdoor fitness options, here are a few
family fitness suggestions that you can fold into
family time together.
One good way to make family fitness a workable idea, is to grab the little moments and transform
them into activity. Streamline things so that you may be
able to move quickly from actual planning to actual doing. And all you need are a few good ideas to get you going. It need not be fancy, nor expensive although that
would be nice if you can but fitness can be weaved
into myriad everyday activities.
Got a dog? Get Rover ready. What better way to
multitask than to take the dog for a walk and schlep
the children along? If you dont have your own dog,
you can go looking for one. Make it a game. Go look for
neighborhood dogs. Its a good exercise walking around
looking for dogs.
Make it a habit to take a walk after dinner. Postdinnertime strolls are good opportunity for bonding
with your spouse and your youngsters. If your child is
still in a stroller, push along. If your child can walk, but
needs the stroller somewhat, you can bring it along and
have him or her walk outside the stroller every now
and again.
Make a play or a game out of doing household
chores. You can give points to the winner who can find
the most dust bunnies, or just make sure that little
prizes are given after picking up toys, sweeping up, or
tossing things away in the garbage. You can make a trip
out of throwing the garbage outside, making the bed or
putting dishes in the dishwasher. There are plenty of
physical opportunities in tidying up the house, juniors
room or the family playroom.

If your child is watching television, you can take
the commercial breaks as a time to work in some workouts. You can do some jumping jacks, sit-ups, push-ups,
squats or any other calisthenics exercise. Stop when
the show comes back on and plan for the next commercial break. With so many television commercials
per 30-minute show, you can get in a good amount of
exercise.
Backyards could be a great makeshift gym. From
gardening to setting up games in the backyard, the
space can be a great boom to fitness. Digging up dirt,
weeding, planting or just watering the plants or vegetables is a good way to get exercise going and to experience the wonder of nature. Raking leaves or tidying the
backyard is also a good way to get moving. Setting up
a sprinkler to water the lawn, and of course, running in
and out of the sprinkler is a great sport as well.
Be a role model. Let your children see how you incorporate activity into your every day. Park the car far
from your destination and walk. Take the stairs instead
of the elevator. Sign up for charity walks and raise money for a good cause. Have the children join in on short
walks or bike rides for charity. It not only gets you moving with them, but they also learn the value of doing a
good deed.
Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of About Our Children.
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When looking for family fitness opportunities in
Bergen County spots, there are plenty of options.
Santomauro, owner of The Santomauro Group,

which manages the Glenpointe Spa & Fitness.
One such spot is the Glenpointe Spa & Fitness in

Teaneck, which boasts a pool that accommodates
families that want to swim and spend fun water time
together. The 40-foot by 90-foot pool accommodates family swim times daily on Monday through
Friday from 3 to 5 p.m., and on Saturday and
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Fitness helps you enjoy life to the fullest, said Mr.

Santomauro, a more than 30-year-fitness industry
veteran. It helps you have energy to enjoy your life.
At our club we have 3-year-olds and people who are
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With everyones busy schedule, its a great thing if

a family could spend time together doing something
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In addition to the family swim hour, the pool can be

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With Prevention and Education
H E I D I M A E B RAT T
ports injuries are no joke. While playing

sports leads to a host of wonderful experiences and growth opportunities for youngsters, there are times when youngsters can get
injured. And injured seriously.
The experts and the staff at the Concussion
Management Program at The Valley Hospital
take sports injuries very seriously. About Our
Children consulted with Don Tomaszewski, MS,
ATC/L, director of The Sports Institute/Medical
Fitness and Outpatient Rehabilitation, to find out
more about prevention of sports injuries, treatment and how to best protect our youngsters.
About Our Children: Please describe the
Concussion Management Program at Valley.
Don Tomaszewski: The Valley Hospitals
Sports Institutes Concussion Management program serves as a resource to patients, parents,
and physicians in the care of concussion injury.
The program does not have physicians or neuropychologists on staff, our staff of Licensed/Certified
Athletic Trainers provide an assessment of symptoms,
interpret the neuro-cognitive post-injury test (ImPACT)
and balance test, and provide parents with resources
for cognitive rest, school day modifications, progressive return to play process, and communicate findings
to the patients physician.
About Our Children: At what age should youngsters register?
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Don Tomaszewski: The baseline ImPACT test is designed for ages 10 years old and up. The baseline test is
recommended to be retaken every two years to insure
an accurate baseline of basic neuro-cognitive function.
About Our Children: What exactly does this program entail?
Don Tomaszewski: We provide for baseline testing
of non-injured athletes/students over the age of 10. The
two areas tested are neuro-cognitive function (ImPACT)
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and balance (BioSway). These tests are securely

stored on computer and are available for comparison post-injury. The test results help us identify
neuro-cognitive and/or physical balance deficits
versus baseline results. In addition, we provide a
full symptom assessment and resources for the
care of the injury thru return to play.
About Our Children: Which sports pose the
greatest risks to youngsters?
Don Tomaszewski: Contact sports, in particular, collision sports such as football and ice
hockey typically pose the greatest injury risk to
athletes. However, even non-contact sport athletes may experience concussion injury due to
falls and rapid deceleration mechanisms. Our
program focuses primarily on youth sports due
to the lack of on-site health care, such as a licensed Athletic Trainer at practices and games
and team physician that are typically found at
high school and college settings.
About Our Children: What more can be done
to prevent sports injuries?
Don Tomaszewski: Proper technique training and
rule changes have shown to provide the best protection against concussion injury rates. But, there is no
way to completely eliminate the risk of injury from
sports. Helmets, mouthpieces, and headbands offer
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Discipline without Punishment

Effective Ways to Help Children Improve their Behavior
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ost parents are bewildered by their childrens

misbehavior, the adorable angelic baby has entered
the terrible 2s, where every request is met by adamant no.
Their engaging school-age child
has entered their teens with a
vengeance. But mostly its the
everyday stuff that keeps us on
our toes, the whining, not putting their laundry away, leaving
their room a mess, not coming
when they are called, abusing
their computer privileges, missing homework assignments,
leaving their bike outside when
you have told them not to.
It is at those times that out
of sheer frustration we resort to
the many forms of punishment.
We take away their computer
and video game time, and we
send them to their room. We
yell, chastise, lecture and tell

our children that they better
behave, or else.
Punishment is a popular
method with parents but it is
generally ineffective. When we
make our children feel bad for
what they have done and we
punish them, they dont usually
feel sorry for what they did, nor
do they think about how to do
better the next time. They usually feel angry, defensive and
vengeful. Punishment is known
to makes them lie more and devise sneakier ways to do what
they want to do.
As parents we need to find
non-punitive ways to help our
children improve their behavior. We need to push them to
examine their conscience and
recalibrate their moral compass so that when we are not
with them, they will do the right
thing. We want them to look in-
side themselves and come up

with ways to improve their own
behavior.
This sounds like a tall order but it can be done. Here are
things to keep in mind when our
children misbehave so that we
can help them look within themselves and work on improving
their own behavior.
Let go of anger
According to Maimonides,
when our child does misbehaves we need to admonish
them privately and in a gentle
manner. That means that you
cannot discipline a child when
you are mad. Disciplining your
child also requires the right
motivation. You need to believe
that you are reproaching your
child solely because it is for
their benefit.
When we yell at our children and discipline when we
are angry, we drown out that inner voice that should be telling
them, I have done something
wrong. How can I make this
better?
Instead they are thinking,
Why is she yelling at me?
Whats the fastest way to
make him stop? What is wrong
with her? What is wrong with
me?
When we are calm, our
children can hear what we are
telling them and our words
have a better chance of getting through. They will not be
expending their energies in
protecting and defending themselves. You might even see that
they are beginning to reflect
on their actions and do a bit of
soul-searching.
Serenity is key
It is not easy to stay calm in the
face of misbehavior. It is helpful
though to remember that children usually dont misbehave

on purpose, or just to bother
you, or because they are truly
bad. Its possible that they
are just usually not aware of
the rules, overwhelmed, tired,
hungry or frustrated. If you assume that your child is basically
good, but just having some bad
moments you will find yourself
less prone to getting angry and
resorting to punishment as a
disciplinary tool.
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Now that we are calm and have
our childs best interest in
mind, and we have noted that
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they still misbehave?
We can and should admonish our children. However, we
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in their basic goodness. We also want to

leave them room to save face. This allows
them to face their own misbehavior and
listen to their moral conscience.
You might start off by saying:

I know you didnt mean toyour bike
was left outside in the rain last night.
You usually dont behave in this
wayI saw that you pushed Noah off of
the swing
You probably didnt know this was
a problemtaking toys from your class
without letting your teacher know is not
allowed.
I know this was probably a one time
thinghowever the rules of curfew need
to be kept.
Then we need gently direct them to
find ways to make amends. We can say:
Your bike needs to be toweled down
and put away. While your doing that, try
to think of a few ways to help you remember to put your bike away next time.
Noah looks pretty upset. Can you
think of anything that would make him
feel better?
Lets make sure to return this toy to
Mrs. G. tomorrow. Can we tell her that
we understand the rules now? School
toys stay in school.
I need to know that curfew will be
adhered to. Any ideas on how you this
can be avoided in the future?
This gentle approach helps them think

about what they have done wrong, does
not push them to defend their actions
while letting them know that we believe
they are capable of setting things right.
Give lots of attention to their

positive behavior
Children need attention. Ironically, the
more attention we give to their bad behavior, even negative attention, like punishing or yelling, the more we reinforce
that behavior. So if your young child
squeezes her baby brother just a little

bit too tightly we usually spend a lot of
time admonishing them:
Stop squeezing your baby brother
so tight. It is not nice! It hurts him!
This just lets them know that if they
need attention they just need to squeeze
their baby brother hard.
Its better teach her how to touch
the baby appropriately and make a big
deal of that:
Look, you know how to touch the
baby gently. You put your hand on her
Discipline Firmly and Kindly
Parenting gurus Adele

Faber and Elaine Mazlish
in their book, How To
Talk So Kids Will Listen,
outlines simple steps
that parents can take to

discipline their children.
The key here is to remain
calm, neutral and nonconfrontational.
EXPRESS STRONG DISSAPROVAL

I get frustrated when children do not get
off the computer when they are asked.
STATE YOUR EXPECTATIONS
I expect that children follow the rules that
we made for computer use in this house.
SHOW THE CHILD HOW
TO MAKE AMENDS
You can come off the computer now and
let me know what your plans are for the
next time you are on the computer. Let me
When you have asked your

child for the 10th time to
get off of the computer
and he has not complied
you can:
know how what will help you adhere to the

rules.
OFFER A CHOICE
Would you like to turn off the computer or
would you just like to close the lid?
LET THE CHILD EXPERIENCE THE
CONSEQUENCES OF HIS BEHAVIOR
I am putting away the laptop for a few days
now. When you have time we will talk about
some ideas that you may have so that the
rules can be followed.
arm and her leg. That is where you can

touch the baby.
This works for older children, too. If
your child didnt want to come to dinner
but came and grumbled the whole time,
we might expend a lot of energy pointing
out their inappropriate behavior:
You are such a grump! You need to
stop complaining! This is not the way
you behave at the dinner table!
This inadvertently lets them know
that grumpiness gets them the attention
they need.
Instead we can focus on the fact that
he came anyway, despite his resistance:
I know you didnt want to come to
dinner. We really appreciate that you
made the effort to join us. We are really
glad you are here. When you are ready,
I would love to hear about your school
trip.
Disciplining children without punishment can be done. Keeping calm,
helping kids think they are capable and
that we have faith in them, and letting
them feel the consequences of their behavior are all ways that can work.
Adina Soclof, is the Director of Parent
Outreach for A+ Solutions, facilitating How
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to avoid lethal air. Take their lead. Decide
on your best response before the exchange happens and stick with it. But be
sure to lose the sarcasm or biting defensive replies. Avoid toxic exchanges. You
only end up hurting yourself. If you need
to, take a breath and collect yourself.
You can use humor or manipulate
the conversation to another direction.
Prepare yourself and think of how youd
like to reply with grace. Saying things
like: I know my kids are lively, they keep
me going or When I find my soul mate
Ill be giving you a call for sure. Thanks
for always caring are alternatives to
heated exchanges. Try to give a smile.
Replace Anger with Pity

Instead of filling your heart with rage, try
a new emotion: pity.
Feel sorry for this person who
causes pain and distance from others.
Feel sad for this individual who cannot
allow himself to enjoy the blessing of
family. This person is either insecure or
hardened, so they push others down to
feel better about themselves. Perhaps
they went through pain or difficulty,
which caused them to grow a hardened

shell. No matter the reason, bottom line
is they are the ones losing out on the
joy. Walking around always ready to
do battle is an awful way to live. Fighting gear is heavy and cumbersome. It
weighs you down. Who wants to be
that person? Change your lens. See this
irksome individual through eyes of pity
and be grateful that this is not the way
you live.
Be a Peace Leader
Become a force for change. Ask yourself:
How can I inject warmth and love into
this situation?
If there is someone who feels as you
do, engage them. This is one whom is
easy to speak with, you feel comfortable
with, and you dont feel apprehensive of.
Try to place yourself near this person.
Remove yourself from gossip and
malicious talk.
Steer the conversation away from
judgmental and heated discussions.
Lighten the mood by putting together cherished family memories in an
album or think of a family game that can
fill the room with activity and laughter
instead of hurtful conversation.

Pay attention to others who may be
feeling badly or out of the family circle.
Give them extra attention.
If you are willing to forgive you will

not feel regret when this person passes
away. Let me be very clear: this is not
a license to accept abuse. Rather, allow
yourself to move on by letting go of the
past and tapping into the generosity of
spirit that lies within your soul. Use this
time together to shed the battle gear
and at the very least stop the antagonism. Find a smile or good word to offer,
be kind, and become the better person
youve always strived to be. Respond
with integrity, not weakness. Dont live
life carrying the weight of bearing a
grudge.
When family is fractured, warmth
and peace are replaced with sadness and
bitterness. Seize the moment to teach
your children the definition of loyalty,
laughter, bonding time and cherished
memories. The longer you hold onto old
hurts and cycles of pain, the longer it
will take to heal. This year build bridges
with your family. Its time.
Forgive
Perhaps the past may have brought
harsh encounters with parents or fights
with siblings. Listen carefully. Years
have passed. People go through unexpected challenges never believing that
this is where life has taken them. The
difficult road was not in the plans and
we are not always proud of the way we
have journeyed or handled the pressures of dark times. Looking back, parents and children may feel ashamed of
acrid words spit out or thoughtless actions done. Pushed to rage by stress is
of course no excuse but there comes a
moment in time where we must decide
to move on.
We will not have our family forever. Open your heart to a parent who
has aged, a sibling whose life has been
shamed, and a child who has dealt with
unexpected blows. Struggles and disappointments take us down an unexpected
path. No one is immune.
Slovie Jungreis-Wolff is the daughter of

Hineni founder Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis
and a parenting and relationship coach. She
is the author of Raising a Child With Soul.
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DAY CAMPS
Camp Veritans
225 Pompton Road

Haledon, NJ
Phone: 973-956-1220
Fax: 973-956-5751
www.campveritans.com
Ages/Grade: 4 Years 10th grade
Dates: June 27 August 19
Counselor to Camper Ratio: 1:5
Camp Veritans, a Jewish day camp located in Haledon, is a camp for children
entering pre-K through 10th grade. We offer a variety of fantastic activities on our
beautiful 64 acre campus including Red
Cross swim instruction, amazing sports,
creative arts, ropes/challenge course,
in addition to daily hot kosher catered
lunches, transportation and so much
more. Specialized Trip & Travel program
for 8th and 9th graders and a comprehensive CIT program for our 10th graders.
Please see our ad on page 15.
OVERNIGHT CAMPS
Jewish Camp Initiative of Jewish
Federation of Northern New Jersey
50 Eisenhower Drive
Paramus, NJ
Phone: 201-820-3978
Fax: 201-820-3900
www.jfnnj.org/jewishcamp
Grades/Ages: 7 18 years old,
entering 3rd 12th grade
Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey is proud to partner with the Foundation for Jewish Camp in providing One
Happy Camper grants of up to $1,000 to
first-time campers who will be attending non-profit Jewish overnight camp.
Your child may be one of this summers
happy campers. Eligibility criteria and information on how to apply can be found
at www.jfnnj.org/jewishcamp. Please see
our ad on page 15.
ENRICHMENT CAMPS
The Camp at Teaneck Creek Puffin
20 Pufn Way
Teaneck, NJ
Phone: 201-836-0142
Grades: 1 7
Dates: Aug. 8 12, 15 19, 22 26/
3 weeks
Approx cost per child: $135
Counselor to camper ration: 2 3 staff/
max 15 students
Deadline for registration: June
Children enjoy arts and science programs which include Aviation/Fabulous
Flying Machines, Making Magic, Fairy
Tale Trials Out of the Woods and Into
the Courtroom, and Nature and Discovery at the Puffin and the Teaneck Creek.
Professional teachers and istructors provide wonderfully creative summer experiences, thanks to a generous grant from
the Puffin Foundation. For information
contact Karen Yucht, 201-836-0142. See
our ad on page 11.
International Ivy
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Paramus, Oakland, Ringwood
Phone: 855-678-6335
www.iisummer.com
Weekly sessions: full day or half day
Ages: 5 14
Summer Enrichment Program. International Ivy offers creative, hands-on and
intellectually stimulating learning experiences during the summer. Summer is
a great time to explore, meander, stretch
the imagination and lose oneself in doing something fun. Our ultimate goal is
to help our students find their passion.
Once they find it, they are self-motivated
to learn and explore further. We offer
classes across many disciplines to satisfy the diverse interests and talents of the
children we serve. There are more than
fifty classes to choose from in technology, science, performing arts, visual arts,
math, business, sports, recreation and
even construction. Please see our ad on
page 11.
Ramapo Explorers Theater Camp
Ramapo College
505 Ramapo Valley Road
Mahwah, NJ 07430
Phone: 201-684-7370
Fax: 201-684-7277
www.ramapo.edu/cipl/theatercamp
Grades: 7 12
Ramapo Explorers Theater Camp offers
students in 7th 12th grades beginning
to advanced acting courses and courses
in set design, costume, makeup and lighting in Ramapo Colleges exquisite performing facilities as they explore and develop skills involved in producing a work
for stage. Please see our ad on page 16.
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Ramapo Explorers STEM Camp
Ramapo College
Mahwah, NJ 07430
Phone: 201-684-7370
Fax: 201-684-7277
www.ramapo.edu/cipl/academic-camp
Grades: Entering 7th and 8th
Counselor to camper ratio: 10 to 1
The Ramapo Explorers-STEM Middle
School Academic Camp focuses on
STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering,
Mathematics) learning activities such as
digital song creation, robotics, forensics,
and 3D-drafting. For 7th and 8th graders,
STEM topics advance problem-solving,
critical thinking and teamwork abilities.
Please see our ad on page 16.
Ramapo College Summer Camps for

H.S. Students
Ramapo College
Mahwah, NJ 07430
Phone: 201-684-7370
Fax: 201-684-7277
www.ramapo.edu/ramapocamps
Ramapo College Summer Camps for H.S.
Students entering grades 9-12 offers:
Comp TIA A+/Computers, Financial Liter-
Tuition Includes:
Wide Variety of Programs:
Daily Catered Hot Kosher Lunches

Daily Transportation
Low Camper to Counselor Ratio
Red Cross Instructional Swim
Extended Day Option Available
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Lessons
acy/Stock Market Trading/Game Design, Theater Camp.

Plus Princeton Review SAT Prep Plus College Immersion
for entering 11th and 12th graders. Please see our ad on
page 16.
Art of Excellence Studio
ARTS, PERFORMANCE AND MUSIC CAMPS
Classes in Drawing and Watercolor Structured Lessons
Summer Specials
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Sign up for 4 beginner drawing lessons

and get 1 additional lesson free!
Oceans Alive and Native American themed art camps in August!

Artist, Rina Goldhagen 201-248-4779
www.artofexcellencestudio.com
Choose one of Ramapo Colleges
Summer Youth Programs

RAMAPO EXPLORERS-STEM MIDDLE SCHOOL ACADEMIC CAMP
3 Sessions: July 515 July 1829 Aug 112
3-D Drafting Design
Forensic Intelligence
Digital Song Creation
Robotics Rumble
Engineering a NASA Outpost
Science Meets Art and more!
RAMAPO EXPLORERS-THEATER CAMP

Choose from 1 week sessions: June 22- Aug 19
Acting I and II
Improv Workshop
Costume Design
Voice and Movement

Lighting and Sound
Set Design and more!
FOR HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS

Game Design for Teens
July 515 or July 1819
SAT Prep
July 1828
Programming/Data Science Stock Market Trading

July 1115 or Aug 15
August 812
Register Online for Upcoming Information Sessions!

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Dates: July and August
Ages 7 Adult
201-248-4779
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Themed Arts and Craft camps available in July and August. You can email inquiries to artofexcellencestudio@
gmail.com. Ongoing lessons and portfolio classes available. Unlock your creative with classes in drawing and
watercolor. Please see our ad on page 16.
Bounce U
70 Eisenhower Drive
Paramus, NJ
201-992-8152
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Create and Bounce Art Camp
Dates: July 11 Sept. 1, 2016
Time: 9 a.m. 3 p.m.
A little bit of exercise goes a long way toward inspiring your artists minds. BounceUs Create and Bounce
program gives kids a chance to enjoy physical activity
and creative time in equal doses, offering an experience
thats healthy, mentally engaging and seriously fun.
Complete with lunch, snacks, and games, its a one-ofa-kind camp experience theyll never forget. Please see
our ad on page 14.
Cresskill Performing Arts
300 Knickerbocker Road, Suite 1100

Cresskill, NJ
Phone: 201-390-7513 and 201-266-8830
www.cresskillperformingarts.com
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DANCE CAMPS
Summer 2016
Professional instructors with extensive training,

performance and teaching backgrounds
I. Ages 4, 5, 6, & 7/8
Weeks of July 11 and/or July 18 Mon-Fri 9:30-12:30
Wonderful quality instruction in ballet, jazz and tap
applicable to each age group. Includes other fun-filled
activities such as crafts, tumbling, hip hop, dance videos
and an endearing end-of-camp week performance.
II. Ballet Intensive with Esteemed Instructors

Two weeks July 25 August 5
Professional training in classical ballet technique and
performing skills. (also includes contemporary, musical
theater, character, ballroom dance instruction )
Camp performance: Friday, Aug 5.
NYC trip (Broadway) on Thursday, July 28 to include bus
reservations, dinner and the new Broadway musical. Tuck
Everlasting The Musical.
NYC trip on Sunday, July 31 (Lincoln Center) to see the
National Ballet of Canada performance, The Winters Tale.
Ages: Toddlers-adults (studio)

Ages: 3 teens (camp programs)
Born to Perform April Break Camp, April 11 15. Half
and full day camp available. Dancing, acting, singing,
arts & crafts, gymnastics, fencing, creative Legos, and
more. Be productive, busy, happy and challenged during the school break. Born to Perform Summer Camp: 3
programs, 9 weeks, ages 3 teens, Preschool Performers, Creative Children, Preteen/Teen Exploring Artists
come for one or two weeks or all summer, June 27 August 26. Two weeks of Fencing Camp, age 7 teens: June
27 and August 22. For intermediate/advanced dancers:
Modern/Ballet Intensive, weeks of July 18 and August 15.
Early drop-off/late pick-ups helps working parents, too.
Early registration discount: call 201-390-7513 for details.
Please see our ad on page 10
Miss Pattis School of Dance
85 Godwin Ave.
Midland Park, NJ
Rear of Midland Park Shopping Center
201-670-4422
www.misspatti.com
For all children to experience the wonder and joy of
dance in an environment that nurtures their individual
creativity and personal growth. To create a school that
enhances childrens sense of confidence and self-esteen,
a place that would assist them in developing a discipline,
which applies to other areas of their lives. For the summer, the school is running several programs including: I.
Ages 4,5,6 & 7/8, July11 and or July 18, Mon Fri 9:30
12:30. II. Ballet Intensive with Esteemed Instructors, July
25 Aug 5. Please see our ad on page 16.
The Performing Arts School

Musical Theater Summer Camp
1 Depot Square
Englewood, NJ
Phone: 201-482-8194
Fax: 201-482-8391
bergenPAC.org/summer
Ages: 5 12
Session dates: 7/5 7/22 & 8/1 8/19
Deadline for registration: 6/1/16
Counselor to camper ratio: 3:15
Approx. cost per child: $850
bergenPACs Summer Camp in the Performing Arts
School provides our youth ages 5 12, an experience in
the performing arts that they will never forget. We will
build confidence, understanding and a sense of appreciation for the arts while giving campers the opportunity to explore and develop their talents. $100 discount
if registered and paid in full by March 1. Tuition includes
lunch and snacks. After-camp care available for additional fee. Please see our ad on page 14.
Music, Music and More Music

Come to the JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly on Sunday,
April 3 for a day of music. Be inspired by the Thurnauer
schools young musicians performing as soloists, and
with piano accompaniment. Recitals, free for members,
are at 9:30 and 10:45 a.m. From noon to 1:15 p.m. the
Piano Family Concert will feature Thurnauer pianists
performing with siblings, parents, and other family
members. Free for members.
And later that day, there is a Saxophone Blowout:
Build-Your-Own Instrument Kids Concert. Join the
New Thread Saxophone Quartet for a fun-filled, familyfriendly afternoon. Enjoy great music, build your own
instruments, and join in the Grand Finale. Materials are
provided and participants can keep their creations. $10
for members; $12 for non-members.
For more information, jccotp.org/Thurnauer, 201408-1461. JCC on the Palisades, 411 E. Clinton Ave.,
Tenafly.
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Fascinating Dinosaurs
at the Museum of Natural History
The evolution of life on Earth is full of
amazing episodes. But one story that really
captures the imagination is the transition
from the familiar, charismatic dinosaurs
that dominated the planet for around 170
million years into a new, small, airborne
form: birds. The fossil record of this story
grows richer by the day. So rich,
in fact, that the
boundary
between the
animals we call birds and the animals we
traditionally called dinosaurs is now practically obsolete. In this new exhibition at
the American Museum of Natural History
visitors will discover how the dino-
saurs extraordinary story continues today.

Highlights include, dinosaur nests, eggs and
babies; dinosaur feathers, dinosaur brains
and lungs and more. American Museum
of Natural History, Central
Park West & 79th Street,
Manhattan. 212-769-5100,
www.amnh.org
Clifford the Big Red

Dog Comes to bergenPAC
Artists rendering of the troodontid
dinosaur Byronosaurus.
ZHAO CHUANG; COURTESY OF PEKING NATURAL

SCIENCE ORGANIZATION
Camping Gear and More

in New Hackensack Store
After more than two decades filling the needs of campers through their mail order business, Gilbins has opened a new bricks and mortar store in Hackensack, just in time for
the camping season. All kinds of camping gear from trunks and duffle bags, to toiletries
and pillows, to bedding to labels, to journals and other camping ephemera, are now
available at the store. New this year, said owner Martin Gelb, are stick-on labels that will
last at least two summer seasons and that can be ordered and picked up on the same
day. Its really a good item for the mom because with these she doesnt have to sew or
iron on the labels for the clothing. Gilbins Campers Collection, 274 Washington Ave.,
Hackensack, NJ 07601, 201-644-1010, www.gilbin.com.
Clifford The Big Red Dog comes to life on stage in the family musical Clifford
The Big Red Dog LIVE! on April 10 at bergenPAC in Englewood. In this musical adventure, Clifford and Emily Elizabeth will take audiences on a journey
to Birdwell Island with their friends Cleo, T-Bone, Charley, Jetta, and Mac.
They will learn about Cliffords Be Big Ideas to share, play fair, have respect,
work together, be responsible, be truthful, be kind, help others, believe in
yourself and be a good friend. Cliffords Big Ideas came out of the curriculum
developed for the award-winning animated PBS television series Clifford the
Big Red Dog, based on the books by Norman Bridwell. April 10, 1 and 4:30
p.m. bergenPAC, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood. 201-227-1030, www.
bergenpac.org.
Passover
Freedom Art Jam and
Dance Party at Jewish Museum
Its a Passover Palooza with a host of fun family activities at The Jewish Museum.
Come join the Passover extravaganza with art, music, and dancing on Sunday, April
17. Set yourself free to the catchy pop rock of The Macaroons, create a painted
banner with holiday motifs, add to a giant matzah masterpiece, explore the galleries, and more. The Art Jam and Dance Party is great for family bonding time and
is free with admission to the museum. Sunday, April 17, noon to 4 p.m. Scheuer
Auditorium, The Jewish Museum,1109 Fifth Ave. at 92 St., Manhattan. 212423-3200, www.thejewishmuseum.org.
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To Our Readers: This calendar is a day-by-day schedule of events. Although all information is as timely as we can make it, its a good idea to call to
verify details before you go.
Monday, March 28
Lego Club at Teaneck Library: Lego Club for
youngsters age 6 and up. Meet at 4 p.m. for
story time and then build based on the story time
theme. Children should bring their own Legos to
the meeting. Teaneck Library, 840 Teaneck Road,
201-837-4171.
Wednesday March 30
Preschool Story Time at Teaneck Library:
Preschoolers, age 3 and up, are invited to join at
2 p.m. for this fun and engaging time of reading.
Teaneck Library, 840 Teaneck Road, 201-8374171.
Friday, April 1
Temple Emeth Family Workshop: Family
Shabbat Services at Temple Emeth, 1666
Windsor Road in Teaneck will be held at 7:30 p.m.
Please call 201-833-1322 or visit www.emeth.org
for further information.
Saturday, April 2
Palisades Players at JCC: Presenting nine
10-minute, one-act comedic and dramatic shorts.
These entertaining vignettes deal with themes
from love and loss, fear and guilt, memory and
humor and more. 8:25 p.m. JCC on the Palisades,
411 E. Clinton Ave., Tenafly. 201-408-1409 www.
jccotp.org
Sunday, April 3
Palisades Players at JCC: Presenting nine
10-minute, one-act comedic and dramatic shorts.
These entertaining vignettes deal with themes
from love and loss, fear and guilt, memory and
humor and more. 6 p.m. JCC on the Palisades,
411 E. Clinton Ave., Tenafly. 201-408-1409 www.
jccotp.org.
Family Art Project: Earth Day Eco Fair. In this
fun fair, well upcycle everyday found materials
like egg cartons, bottle caps, plastic mesh, colored plastic bags and CDs, into hats, pins, flags
and instruments. Create an Earth Day wish on a
banner to display your passions for conservation,
then parade your wearable art. Wave Hill, 675 W.
252nd Street, The Bronx. 718-549-3200, www.
wavehill.org.
Monday, April 4
Seder Suprises: Cong. Shaare Tefillah, Yavneh
Academy-YPAA and Congregation Rinat Yisrael
invite the community to Seder Surprises, handson ways to make your seders engaging and exciting. 7:45 at Congregation Rinat Yisrael, 389 W.
Englewood Ave., Teaneck. 201-837-2795.
Thursday, April 7
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Deadline for May issue (published April 15):
Tuesday, April 12
Secrets to Slumber: A full nights

sleep can be the key to slaying
healthy and having more energy.
The Valley Hospital will host
Secrets to Slumber from 8 to
9:30 a.m. at Lord & Taylor Caf,
2nd floor, Fashion Center, 17 W.
Ridgewood Ave., Paramus, featuring Dr. Rahat Salamat. 201-2916118, thrive@valleyhealth.com.
Maniusias Promise: The Yavneh
Academy Graduating Class
of 2016 presents Maniusias
Promise, a play about the life of
Miriam Adler-Stock, a child who
through her faith and determination, survived the Holocaust. 7:30
p.m., Paramus High School, 99 E.
Century Road, Paramus. Reserved
seating available. 201-262-8494,
ext. 307 or ext. 309.
from noon to 4 p.m. at the Jewish Museum. Join

the fun. Join us for our Passover extravaganza
with art, music, and dancing. Set yourself free to
the catchy pop rock of The Macaroons, create
a painted banner with holiday motifs, add to a
giant matzah masterpiece, explore the The Jewish
Museum, 1109 Fifth Ave. at 92 St., Manhattan.
www.thejewishmuseum.org.
Tuesday, April 19
Holistic Birthing Options: Join Valley Hospital in
an evening of education led by Heidi Brenner, a
Valley Certified Nurse Midwife, who will discuss
issues around a holistic birth plan. 6:30 to 8
p.m. at The Unitarian Society of Ridgewood, 113
Cottage Place, Ridgewood. 201-447-8488.
Thursday, April 21
Fantasy at Barnes & Noble: Join the Young
Fantasy Reads Book Group (Science Fiction and
Fantasy) at 7:30 p.m. as the group discusses Gina
Damicos Hellhole. Barnes & Noble, 765 Route
17 South, Paramus, 201-445-4589
Sunday, April 10
Opening Day for Baseball: The
Teaneck Baseball Organization
(TBO) is having its opening day
event from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., with
a small ceremony at 1 p.m. at
Votee Park. Free carnival for all
youngsters of all ages. Youngsters
between 7 and 14 can participate
See Maniusias Promise, April 7
in the pitch, hit and run competitions.
The Queens Tea: Join in for a benefit for The
Tot Shabbat in Franklin Lakes: Join the youngest
Friendship Circle of Passaic County. The tea
ones (pre-readers) for a family-friendly service
will take place at noon at the Packanack Lake
at Barnert Temple starting at 5 p.m. 747 Route
Clubhouse, 52 Lake Drive West, Wayne. Guest
208 South, Franklin Lakes. 201-848-1027, www.
speaker will be author of bestselling Small
barnerttemple.org.
Miracles series, Yitta Halberstam. To RSVP, 973Shabbat Yachad at Temple Emanuel: Join
694-6274 or Jewishwayne.com.
Cantor Emeritus Mark Biddelman for a special
Open House for Camp Veritans: Come and
service starting at 8 p.m. at Temple Emanuel of
check out the camp and take a tour and meet
the Pascack Valley. The service is fresh, engaging
the administration. The event from 1 to 4 p.m.
and completely participatory. Temple Emanuel of
will take place at 225 Pompton Road in North
the Pascack Valley, 87 Overlook Drive, Woodcliff
Haledon. A family friendly show, Mad Science, will
Lake. 201-391-0801.
take place at 2:30 p.m. To RSVP, 973-956-1220,
Friday, April 15
Carla@campveritans.com.
Folk Rock Concert for Families: Elizabeth
Mitchell and You Are My Flower will regale
families at a concert at 11:30 a.m. at The Jewish
Museum. Mitchell, a singer and guitarist known
for reinterpreting classic folk songs, will be
joined by her 14-year-old daughter, Storey, and
husband, Daniel Littleton. The Jewish Museum,
1109 Fifth Ave., Manhattan. 212-423-3337, www.
thejewishmuseum.org.
Clifford the Big Red Dog: Join PBSs favorite red
canine and his many friends for this live show at
bergenPAC in Englewood. Clifford, Emily Elizabeth,
and friends, Cleo, T-Bone, Charley, Jetta and Mac
will learn many lessons as they entertain families.
1 p.m. and 4:30 p.m. bergenPAC, 30 N. Van
Brunt St., Englewood, 201-227-1030.
Wednesday, April 13
See Folk Rock Concert for Families, April 10
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My First Book Club at Teaneck Library: My First

Book Club is a book club for kindergartners and
first graders. It will meet at 4 p.m. for stories, discussion and crafts.
Library Hour in Wayne: Join in for quality reading
and story time and creative craft making and an
afternoon of fun. From 4:30 to 5:30 p.m. Hosted
by Chabad of Passaic County, Wayne Public
Library, 461 Valley Road, Wayne.
Sunday, April 17
Open House for Camp Veritans: Come and

check out the camp and take a tour and meet
the administration. The event from 1 to 4 p.m.
will take place at 225 Pompton Road in North
Haledon. A family friendly show, Unique Creatures,
will take place at 2:30 p.m. To RSVP, 973-9561220, Carla@campveritans.com.
Freedom Art Jam: Freedom Art Jam and Art
and Dance party for Passover will take place
Sunday, April 24
Star Wars Fun at the Library: You are invited
to learn the ways of the Jedi with Panniken
Moonjumper, a true Master of Intergalactic fun
and adventure from 2 to 3 p.m. Family audiences
will be wowed by comic antics, exciting physical
challenges, magical mayhem, light saber lessons and a visit from our space heros furry alien
sidekick. For ages 4 and up. Come dressed in
Star Wars apparel. Teaneck Library, 840 Teaneck
Road, 201-837-4171.
Tuesday, April 26
Little Bookworms in Paramus: Little ones birth
to 18 months come with their parent, grandparent or caregiver to the story time from 9:45 to
10:15 a.m. at the Reid Branch Library, 239 West
Midland Ave., Paramus. 201-599-1309.
Thursday, April 28
Arts & Crafts Thursday: Make creative art projects for grades kindergarten to grade 4. 3:30
to 5 p.m. No registration necessary. At the Reid
Branch Library, 239 West Midland Ave., Paramus.
201-599-1309.
Friday, April 29
Picture Book Parade: Bring your 3 to 5 year
olds for a good time with picture books from 10 to
10:45 a.m. at the Reid Branch Library, 239 West
Midland Ave., Paramus. 201-599-1309.
Orangetown Jewish Center

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The Orangetown Jewish Center,
located at 8 Independence Ave. in
Orangeburg, N.Y., and serving the
Rockland and Bergen communities,
is now offering free kindergarten enrollment in their Religious School.
Kindergarten classes meet Tuesday

afternoons. Please contact Sandy
Borowsky, Educational Director at
845-359-5920 for further information
and to schedule a tour of the Religious School.
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SYDNEY GOLD
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Sydney Gold, daughter of

Rina and Adam Gold, celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on March 12 at the
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JACOB KURTZ
Jacob Kurtz, son of Tanya
and Stuart Kurtz of Wyckoff,
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Eliana Loffman, daughter of
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Teaneck, and sister of Sara,
Marni, and Hannah, celebrated becoming a bat mitzvah
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Hunter Mendel, son of
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Samuel Sackstein, son of
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son of Nancy and Norris
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the Ramaz School in New
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Choosing to be Jewish
West New York
woman looks at her
life before and after
it was transformed
JOANNE PALMER
heres a concept called pintele

Yid it loosely translates into
a spark of Jewishness Yiddish
for that feeling that some people
cant escape, that unshakable feeling of
being a Jew, that invisible cord that binds
them to the Jewish people.
Some people can nurture that spark,
keep it cradled for a span of a lifetime. If
they are lucky, they are born Jewish, so
they always know about that spark, grow
up with it, are heated by it always.
And some people are not born to it but
find it deep within themselves, and when
they acknowledge it, when the world
acknowledges it, they find joy, comfort,
belonging, and family.
Thats what happened to Siobhan BarryBratcher of West New York.
Yes, she was born in Crown Heights,
Brooklyn, then as now very Jewish, but
then as now there were many non-Jews
there as well. Like the Bratcher family.
Siobhans father, James Bratcher, is
mainly Irish that explains her first
name, which more or less is pronounced
Sha-van but his family had lived in Florida for generations, and there are some
Seminole Indians on his family tree. Her
mother, Rosa Iacobuzio, was Italian. (Yes,
there seems to be Jacob in that name; its
certainly not impossible that there were
some Jews in the family, their stories lost
to time.)
In 1954, when Siobhan was born, the
Holocaust was still a vivid scar, not a terrifying but dimming memory, outside the
Jewish world as well as inside it, at least in
Brooklyn. Our fathers and grandfathers
had fought in World War II, she said. And
we saw many people with tattoos on their
arms. We heard the whispers. Even as a
little girl, I knew that something really terrible had happened to those people. Whisper whisper whisper.
And people always thought I was a Jew.
She wasnt sure why people thought
that, but she knew that she was attracted
to Jews, even that far back. Some of it was
Siobhan Barry-Bratcher and her granddaughter, Alice, in Batgirl face paint at the United Synagogue of Hobokens centennial celebration block party last May.
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the kind of bagels-and-lox Judaism that
we identify as fading, content-free, just
feel-good, non-sustainable, but for some
reason little Siobhan loved lox and fresh
cream cheese in Jewish appetizing stores.
One time I was at

a Moshav show
and they were
singing Eliyahu
Hanavi. I realize
that its not just
the music Im
in love with.
People always assumed that my father was
Jewish because he was there all the time,
buying it for me.
Once he asked for gefilte fish, and
he didnt know what it was called, just
pointed. No one knew why he was doing

that, and he had to say I dont know what
its called. Im not Jewish!
He looked Jewish, his daughter reported
it was the Seminole cast to his features,
which say native American to her now, but
who knew from Indians then and there?
And although he held a number of jobs,
many of them simultaneously, to make
ends meet, one of the jobs was as a bartender at catered parties at the Midwood
Jewish Center. He had quite a collection
of yarmulkes, his daughter said.
Rosa and James Bratcher were Catholic, but religion didnt come up at home,
Siobhan said. They sent their daughter to
Catholic school. She hated it.
My mother insisted that I would get a
better education and be safer there, she
said. Wrong.
Her mother had gone to public schools,
so she didnt know. Her father, though,
had gone to Catholic schools. He knew it
was physically abusive, she said. Everybody was hit, the nuns sometimes would
break their pointers on some boys.
She felt deeply alienated. Church was

an hour-long service. You had to go; you
went and sat with your class. You sat there
and didnt even take your coat off. And the
God I heard about in school and in church
wasnt a happy one.
Until she was 10 years old, the Mass was
said in Latin, and she couldnt understand
any of it. How is that unlike a synagogue
service, in Hebrew? In many ways, she
answers. First, because this time I made
the choice, and I know most of whats
being said. But also because the missal
had only the Gospel and epistle readings.
It did not include any translations of the
liturgy, and the priests had their backs
turned to the congregation.
She had to learn the Baltimore Catechism, something else she hated. You
have to memorize a question every week,
she said. It started off simple Who
made you? God made me. You had to
rattle off these answers every week, and
you could never deviate. You were not to
change anything.
Siobhan never was big on not deviating
Rabbi Glazer took a

Torah scroll out of the ark,
put it in my arms, and said
This is yours now. I held it
until I couldnt any more.
Thats when I lost it.
ever, on doing exactly as she was told, and
in believing on demand.
It wasnt an environment for learning, Siobhan continued. Part of it was the
place, and part of it was the time. It was
during the Cold War; children were taught
that the godless Soviet Union could bomb
them at any time, and the only way to protect themselves was to duck and cover.
During alarms, they had us run down to
the basement in the dark, line up against
the wall, with our faces against the wall,
praying. Pray for us now in the hour of
our death, we had to say.
I said please if it happens, let it happen
when Im home. I didnt want to die there.
I wanted to die at home, with my family.
They told us how those Godless communists treated children, she added.
Castro burns little kids like you. It scared
the you-know-what out of me. Is there any
wonder that there was a cultural revolution? This is what we grew up with. We
were lied to about everything imaginable.
Siobhan always was drawn to music,
and she wanted to study guitar. No, her
parents said. They

didnt have the money,
and the arts werent
important to them. And
no, she couldnt go to public school. So she applied to
a few Catholic schools, was
accepted, and chose one of
them. St. Josephs Commercial
High School. One school was as
good as another, she said. Her school
turned out secretaries and teachers.
In fact, St. Josephs did encourage her
to go to college, but by that point Siobhan could see no point to it. If only I had
known, she said. If only I had known
that there really was something there for
me. But I didnt go to college.
Instead, she got married. I met my
sons father the summer before my senior
year, and I got married a few months after
I graduated from high school, she said. I
was 18 when I got married, and 19 when I
had my son, Clarence Ferrari.
If I had any question about the Catholic religion, I was done with it after the
Siobhan, her son, Clarence, her

daughter-in-law, Kimberlee, and her
granddaughter, Alice Rose.
experience of being in hospital when I had

my son.
They gave you a form to fill out, and
it asked my religion. I said Catholic. The
day my son was born a priest came into
my room, for a normal chaplain visit, and I
said that I didnt really want to talk to him.
I said that I didnt know why I put Catholic
on the form, that I really didnt believe in

it. I know I put it down on the form, but
Im not into it any more, I told him.
The priest was apoplectic. He said
that I had no right bringing my son
into the world. No right to bring my
son into the world.
Thats when I turned away.
Siobhan and her husband
moved to Nashville only about
900 miles but a huge culture gap
away. In the 1970s, it wasnt so
good in Brooklyn, she said. But
she got divorced, and she and her
son, then 6, returned to Brooklyn
and lived with her parents as she figured out her next move.
I ended up working in a fast-food
joint, she said; it was in Bensonhurst,
which then was so dangerous that people would chain down the plants in the
window, so no one would steal them. She
got a job by dressing as she had in Nashville, playing up the Southern accent shed
learned, and in general acting the rube.
When the manager asked me if Id ever
worked in New York, I said no, she said,
and she got the job. Some batting of innocent big eyes may have helped
I was going nowhere, and I had a friend
in Nashville who was a practical nurse and
doing very well for herself, Siobhan said.
She started night courses to be a practical nurse, but soon, at the prodding of a
teacher who told her that she was smart
enough for regular nursing school, at 26,
she went to Kingsborough Community
College. The two-year associates degree
she earned was enough to allow her to
From left, Siobhans parents on their wedding day; Siobhan, the smallest child, on Easter
(I didnt look happy - maybe even then I wished it was Pesach); playing guitar in 1971.
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Siobhans son Clarence at the South Street Seaport sometime in the mid 1980s.
pass the boards and to get steady work as

a nurse.
I always wanted to be a musician, and I
loved to write but I had a child, she said.
Siobhan did not love nursing, but she
loved the freedom and stability it gave her.
There was a nursing shortage then, so if
you would leave one job one day youd get
another one the next day, she said. She
worked at St. Vincents in Greenwich Village, in lower Manhattan, from 1986 until
it closed in 2010.
Now, Siobhan is getting the other half
of her degree. This time, she is doing it
online. I want to concentrate in medical
writing or community health, she said.
The trend is going out of hospital into the
community anyway.
Shes always had other interests shes
a poet, a good one (see box), a prose
writer, and a musician. Her son, Clarence,
though, is the artist in the family, she
said. He started playing the fiddle when
he was 5, won a contest with it when he
was 6. When he was a little boy he said he
wanted a fiddle, and I didnt know if he
really meant it, but I gave it to him because
I wasnt allowed it and he meant it.
He is now a professional musician and

a music teacher.
Its because her son is a musician that
Siobhan is now a Jew.
Clarence Ferrari has his own bluegrass
group, Blue Harvest, and through it he met
Noah Solomon, who is half of the popular Jewish duo called Soulfarm. Siobhan
always is interested in what Clarence is up
to; I asked about Soulfarm, and thought it
sounded interesting, she said.
In 2010, after St. Vincents closed, she
still worked, but through an agency, so her
work was not as steady and she had more
time to pursue other interests. Including music. Including Soulfarm. And then
Moshav, another Jewish band; both incorporate broad musical influences but are
specifically Jewish in their words, their
music, and their souls.
When she heard the music, something
shifted inside her.
Oh, she said. I listened, and I cried,
listening to them. I go see Moshav a number of times, and when I stand in line people always ask if Im Jewish, and it breaks
my heart to say no. And I look into this religion, and there is nothing I see that I dont
Alice Rose Ferrari plays Candyland with her great grandparents, Rose and
Jim Bratcher, in 2014. Rose died last year; the Bratchers had been married
for 64 years.
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Clarence playing with Soulfarm.
agree with.
One time I was at a
Moshav show and they were
singing Eliyahu Hanavi a
song about the prophet Elijah, who appears at liminal
times and gestures toward
salvation. I realize that its
not just the music Im in
love with, she said.
Now, she had to decide
what to do.
Siobhans grandfather worked at Palisades AmuseIts like loving somement Park, so the family always got a free pass.
one who doesnt love you
back, Siobhan said. I
dangling from its arms for a long time
heard that theyd reject me she was
now. You can look at both rides during
talking about the approach to potential
the boring parts of the Cyclones minor
converts that mandates that a rabbi turn
league baseball games.)
them away three times before allowing a
My grandfather was at Palisades until it
course of study and behavior that might
closed, Siobhan said. We would always
lead to conversion eventually. I have had
go, every summer, and whenever we went
a enough of rejection in my life. It took me
wed go to the Cyclone to get my grandfaa long time to get enough guts to do it.
ther, and then wed go to the office and get
By then, Siobhan had moved from
a pink pass from Uncle Irv thats what we
Brooklyn to West New York. Shed learned
always called Irving Rosenthal. Mr. Rosenfrom musicians who came to New York to
thal owned the park. All the nice things
make their fortunes but couldnt afford to
you ever hear about Uncle Irv are true,
live there until they succeeded that New
she added. He was a lovely man.
Jersey is far more affordable. She owns a
Back in West New York, Siobhan
house for less than she could have spent
embarked on the journey toward Judaism.
for a fashionable Manhattan studio.
This was not her first experience with
First, she bought a Jewish star. The
New Jersey. Her grandfather, another
first one I bought, I thought I had no right
James Bratcher, lived in Florida but travto wear it, she said. I thought that bells
eled up north as a carnival worker. He ran
would go off if I would try to buy it. But the
the bobsled ride in the 1939 Worlds Fair
man in the store asked me if I wanted to
in Queens, and later he ran the Cyclone
put it on now or put it in the box.
Giddily, she wore it out of the store.
at Palisades Amusement Park. When
I was wearing it outside, where anyone
the park closed, the Cyclone moved to
could see it, she said. Still, she was well
Steeplechase Park in Coney Island, and
aware that she was not Jewish. She felt
he also ran the parachute jump there.
as if she were masquerading, and could
(Both rides are still standing, although
get caught.
the parachute jump hasnt had punters
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And then these two young men in
Hoboken, from Chabad, look at me, and
one says, Are you Jewish? I say no. Then
he says Was your mother Jewish? It was
a code; I had the accent, I looked Jewish.
One of them looked at the other one like I
was an experiment gone wrong.
But then they encouraged her to go to
a shul.
I was thinking that I really had to do
this, she said. And I also thought that
there were all sorts of reasons why I
couldnt. She knew a good deal about the
Jewish world already, and she was pretty
sure that she wanted a Conservative synagogue. She went to Google. For the heck
of it, I just starting to type in Introduction
to Judaism classes Hudson County, and
what comes up was a class that was starting at Temple Beth El in North Bergen the
next week.
The rabbi was Ilan Glazer. I looked at
a picture of him, and he didnt look scary
and I emailed him, and he was friendly. I
decided to go.
The first night I walked into the synagogue, I was crying. I studied with him for
nine months, and it became official on Bob
Dylans birthday. May 24, 2004.
As for the conversion itself, there were
no words for it, Siobhan said. At the
mikvah, when it was official, I burst out
laughing. Rabbi Glazer and his wife took
me to lunch, and I didnt lose it until we
went back to the shul, and Rabbi Glazer
took a Torah scroll out of the ark, put it
in my arms, and said This is yours now. I
held it until I couldnt any more.
Thats when I lost it.
Because she was past childbearing age
when she converted, the rabbis almost
didnt ask me the question about whether,
if I would have children, I would raise
them as Jews. I said Ask that question!
Because I hope my being Jewish helps
other people.
Since then, Siobhan has become a dedicated shul-goer. Rabbi Glazer, to whom
she remains close, soon moved to a shul
in Memphis, Tenn., and Siobhan loved the
rabbi who replaced him. Rabbi Sruli Dresdner and his wife, Lisa Mayer, are musicians, joyous, warm, and committed to
creating family. Did we have wonderful
times! Siobhan said.
We had dinner there, we danced, we
sang, we chanted, we sang until all hours
of the night, Siobhan said.
She had a very powerful feeling of
being part of a community, and she
embraced it with gusto, Lisa said. The
Jewish part is very deep. She is unbelievably generous, and she wants to create a
Jewish family. We were her Jewish family.
You know how sometimes Jewish families get together only on Friday nights? We
would cook together, and we would sing,
and we would talk.
She would volunteer to make the
seder; she would shlep the chairs and the
tables and set the tables. She would do
everything. She would work like crazy. She
loved the ritual, and everything that had to
do with the holiday service, with making
people happy.
We would sing Return Again, and we
would both cry.
And then there was being in shul with
Siobhan.
I have never seen anyone thrill to be
called up to the Torah like Shulamit bat
Avraham vSarah, Lisa said about Siobhan. Her whole self would float up to
the bima, she would touch the parchment
with her little tallis fringe, kiss it, and then
pause for just a moment before she
recited the brachot.
Siobhan is a brilliant, literary, spiritual,
and spiritually hungry Jew-by-choice with
a truly authentic chasidic soul, Lisas husband, Rabbi Sruli Dresdner, said. She has
an extreme passion for Jewish prayer, Jewish study, and Jewish song and also a love
for community, helping to turn our small
but vibrant shul into a real family. Mostly,
Siobhan is a natural giver, selflessly giving
of her time, of her talents and of her love.
She made all of us jaded Jews by birth
pause too, because she reminded us of the
value of what we had, Lisa added.
Siobhan signing copies of her young-adult novel Golden.
This is written in the past tense, though,

because Sruli and Lisa stayed at Beth El
for only two years. Theyre now in Maine,
at Temple Sholom Synagogue Center in
Auburn, ecstatically happy, but they miss
Siobhan.
As for Siobhan to this day, I walk
by that place and I cry. The shul itself
merged with Temple Israel Community
Center of Cliffside Park and now, as Congregation Beth Israel of the Palisades, meet
in Cliffside Park.
Siobhan had to find a new spiritual
home. Luckily, that wasnt hard. United
Synagogue of Hoboken beckoned. The
first night, I went to Friday night services
there, and I knew that that place was it,
she said.
Siobhan adds a gentle vibrancy to our
congregational life, United Synagogue
of Hobokens rabbi, Robert Scheinberg,
said. In general, people who are Jews
by choice often play a vital role in Jewish communities by reminding the rest of
us of the spiritual depth we have. Many
people in the Jewish community can fall
back on the ethnic and peoplehood connection, which of course is important, but
it is not all there is.

Jews by choice remind us of how Jewish tradition has a powerful lens for experiencing the totality of life.
Siobhan is devoted to her family her
son, his wife, Kimberlee Piper, who is a
photographer, and their daughter, Alice
Rose. My family is cool with my conversion, and my son played at the Chanukah
carnival, she said. Alice has quite the life.
On that Saturday night she was at shul,
shooting craps with Jews. The next day she
was at a nativity scene.
Once she finishes her degree and has
more time and even more after her
eventual retirement, which she thinks is
not decades away, Siobhan will have more
time. She wants to use it to make music,
to learn Hebrew, to learn to lead services,
and in general to give more time to the
synagogue, she said.
When she thinks about her conversion,
Siobhan said, sometimes I ask myself
why did I wait so long? Shed been interested in Judaism for as far back as she
could remember. But then I look at people who are Jewish and jaded, and I say
that maybe Im the lucky one.
BENDING THE BARS
ALICE IN WASHINGTON SQUARE

On an autumn day, hugged by humid air
And framed in gray clouds
Impatient with the music, the playground, and
the other babies
You found the fountain
And when you tried to climb the shoulder-high
stone rim
To see what was inside
I lifted you
And thats where the day painted us,
Granddaughter almost two, body perfect
Soft feet bursting out of
Worn down pink leather sandals
Grandmother born in a cold war,
My first breath taken during a revolution
My arm around your chest
Was the only thing holding you back
And I felt your heart in my hand
Pounding against my palm
At twice the speed of my own
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Then after I had lifted you and invited you to see

You demanded not to be kept from
Stomping and running
Through the two inches of filthy murk green water
Stagnant and growing with God knows what
And I said no
Lowering you back onto the pavement
Countenance screaming, body writhing, and legs kicking
You tried to climb back up into the fountain on your own
And screamed louder when I wouldnt lift you again
But know, just for that instant
When I felt your excited heart at the ready
Waiting
As if everything that came after today
Was dangling on the edge
Of what happened at this exact moment
I understood
And I almost let you go
When I was a little girl

I climbed the monkey bars
in a city playground
Weaving in and out of metal mazes
Two hands swinging
Grabbing
Reaching for a higher bar
Until I made it to the top
Where I could distance myself from gravity
For a moment or two
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Trump undoes AIPACs

plans to come together
RON KAMPEAS
WASHINGTON Hear out Donald Trump. Ignore Donald
Trump.
There were two distinct approaches to the Trump moment
this week at AIPACs annual conference here, and there were
mutual warnings that one side or the other would get burned.
The burn came fast, and it came to those who said that listening to the front-runner in the race for the Republican presidential nod was the right thing to do.
After days of repeated warnings to its activists not to disrupt Trump, and to treat speakers with respect, the American
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Israel Public Affairs Committee leadership issued an

extraordinary apology on Tuesday morning but not
to Trump.
Instead, AIPAC said it was sorry about its members
who had applauded Trumps insulting remarks about
President Obama during the candidates Monday night
speech at the Verizon Center. Many members roared
and leapt to their feet when Trump suggested Obama
was the worst thing to ever happen to Israel.
While we may have policy differences, we deeply
respect the office of the president of the United States
and our President Barack Obama, Lillian Pinkus, the
lobbys newly installed president, said from the AIPAC
stage, where she was joined by other AIPAC lay and professional leaders.
There are people in our AIPAC family who were
deeply hurt last night, and for that we are deeply sorry,
Pinkus said, her voice choking. We are deeply disappointed that so many people applauded a sentiment that
we neither agree with or condone.
The evident anguish in the aftermath of Trumps
remarks undid the hopes that his speech would not mar
the prominent Israel lobbys careful claims to bipartisanship, even as its Iran policy is more or less aligned
wholly with Republicans. The Trump moment came in
the middle of the conference whose slogan was Come
Together. AIPAC had hoped that the slogan would signal
a new day of bipartisanship.
Complaints that the lobby had given Trump a platform at its largest annual assembly without expressing
official displeasure at his most controversial remarks
about immigrants and Muslims led many to wonder how
AIPAC would function in an election in which the likely
GOP nominee has alienated much of the organized Jewish community.
AIPAC officials said before the conference that his
talk would be an opportunity for Trump, derided by

his rivals for his tendency to speak in vague generalities
rather than offer specifics, finally to attach substance to
his ideas. Trumps prepared remarks included substantive and critical assessments of Obamas Middle East
policies, which AIPAC expected and indeed would have
welcomed.
He also softened two positions that have created
unease among pro-Israel activists. Until his talk, he had
insisted that he would remain neutral in brokering peace
between Israel and the Palestinians, arguing that his skill
as a negotiator would be key to reaching a deal, and he
had refused to commit to recognizing Jerusalem as Israels capital.
At the AIPAC conference, Trump vowed to move
the American embassy to Jerusalem, the eternal capital of the Jewish people. And he said the Palestinians
must accept as a given the closeness of the U.S.-Israel
relationship.
His extemporized flourishes, however, typified the red
meat he likes to throw out at his rallies, and many in the
massive Verizon Center hall, chosen to accommodate a
record-breaking 18,000 activists this year, gobbled it up.
Launching a critique of Obamas U.N. policy, Trump
started a sentence Monday evening by saying, With
President Obama in his final year then stopped himself and said Yay!
Cheers, laughter and applause arose from the crowd,
and not just from isolated pockets.
He may be the worst thing to ever happen to Israel,
believe me, believe me, said Trump, a billionaire real
estate magnate. And you know it and you know it better than anybody.
The largest group advocating some form of protest
ahead of Trumps appearance, the Reform movement,
sounded a note of vindication the day after his speech.
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We were disappointed but not surprised that Mr. Trump did nothing tonight
to allay our deep concerns about his campaign, Rabbi Rick Jacobs, the president
of the Union of Reform Judaism, said in a
statement. It still seems that he does not
share our values of equality, pluralism,
and humility.
Trumps laceration of Obama is the
last thing AIPAC needed at a time when
the lobby is endeavoring to show that it
remains a bipartisan enterprise.
Howard Kohr, the one-time Republican
operative who has led the organization for
decades, alluded in his opening remarks
to pressure from the right to simply give
up on Democrats in the wake of the partys almost wholesale embrace of an Iran
nuclear deal that AIPAC continues to insist
endangers Israel.
There are those who question our
bipartisan approach to political advocacy,
Kohr said. Unless one party controls all
branches of government forever, bipartisanship remains the only way.
Trump spoke on a night that also
included live addresses from his Republican presidential rivals, Gov. John Kasich
of Ohio and Sen. Ted Cruz of Texas.
House Speaker Paul Ryan, (R-Wis.), also
addressed the throng.
There were warm welcomes for Democrats at the conference, particularly Vice
President Joe Biden, the administration
member closest to AIPAC, who spoke of
his decades of attachment to Israel in emotional terms.
Hillary Clinton, the Democratic frontrunner, also spoke earlier in the day
than Trump pitching herself to his right
on Israel.
America cant ever be neutral when it
comes to Israels security and survival,
Clinton said to repeated cheers and
applause. Some things arent negotiable,
and anyone who doesnt understand that
has no business in being our president.
Yet it was clear the lobby still had difficulties in reconciling with Democrats,
especially the progressives among them.
Only one Democrat from the vast majority in Congress who voted in favor of the
Iran deal last year Maryland Rep. Steny
Hoyer, the minority whip addressed the
conference.
Hoyers appearance together with Rep.
Kevin McCarthy, (R-Calif.), the majority
leader, was designed to show bipartisan
support for Israel, yet tension crept into
the buddy show. When McCarthy suggested that the Obama administration
had sowed doubt about the U.S.-Israel
Lillian Pinkus, AIPACs first female

president in a decade, speaks at the
organizations conference in
Washington.
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relationship, Hoyer countered that the

two nations security establishments are
cooperating as closely today as they have
in the past.
AIPACs activists, lobbying on Tuesday,
were unable to recommend any specific
legislation on Iran; there is none suitable
that is backed by both parties.
Bernie Sanders, the Independent from
Vermont who is challenging Clinton for
the Democratic nod, did not attend. Thats
because he was out west, campaigning
for the three primaries in the region the
next day. He offered to deliver remarks
via video link but was rejected by AIPAC.

Sanders did deliver the remarks at a
Utah rally with his consistent message
of support for Israel tempered by criticism
of its actions on settlements and in waging war.
Aiming to appeal to progressives, the
lobby screened a video presentation Tuesday morning on Menachem Creditor, a
rabbi from Berkeley, California, who is
a progressive leader and supporter of
AIPAC.
Such profiles of AIPAC members usually
are followed by short live appearances by
their subjects, who usually deliver a few
inspiring words of thanks.
Creditor, who spoke immediately after
Pinkus apology, presented his prepared
remarks and added an indirect swipe at
Trump, saying that he was prompted to
the changes not just by Trumps speech
but by the applause it earned.
We must not embrace the politics of
hate, he told the AIPAC crowd.
AIPACs commitment to bipartisanship isnt just about being mensches in the
world. The only way to keep Israel strong
and to build a beloved community here
in the United States is to regard the multiplicity of voices here and in our nation as
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BEN SALES
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Left and right, religious and secular, Arab and Jew, Israelis
dont have many kind words for Donald Trump, the Republican presidential front-runner.
In interviews this week, several prominent Israelis
described Trump as an opportunist and a demagogue whose
political convictions are hard to make out.
As Israelis, we look at him and laugh a little, said Ronen
Shoval, founder of the hardline right-wing Zionist organization Im Tirtzu. He looks inauthentic. Men in Israel dont color
their hair like that. He looks like hes had plastic surgery.
Trump has upset many in the pro-Israel community with
his promise to be neutral on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict
and his questioning of Israels commitment to peace.
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evidence of his pro-Israel bona fides.
In his talk at the AIPAC conference
earlier in the week, he rejected his earlier position, saying, without offering
specifics, that he was not neutral but
strongly pro-Israel.
According to a February poll by the
Israel Democracy Institute, three-fifths
of Israeli Jews said a Trump administration would be friendly to Israel. A
survey by the Israeli news website
Walla found that Israelis preferred
Democratic front-runner Hillary Clinton to Trump by a margin of 38 to 23
percent. Clinton challenger Bernie
Sanders, who is Jewish, received 7 percent support, while Republicans Ted
Cruz and Marco Rubio received 5 and
4 percent, respectively. Twenty-three
percent did not choose a candidate.
Like many Americans concerned by
In 2004, Donald Trump was the grand marshal of Manhattans
Trumps apparent encouragement of
Salute to Israel Parade.
violence at his rallies and his support

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among white supremacists, Israelis
who spoke to JTA focused more on the
their ideologues and suggested that Likud voters would
candidates character than his specific policies.
prefer Ted Cruz, the arch-conservative Texas senator
Some Israelis praised Trumps willingness to speak
who is Trumps closest competitor for the Republican
bluntly, no matter the consequences. Shoval said Trump
nomination.
reminds him of former Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor
Israeli society is very ideological, and Trump is
Liberman, another plain-talking politician who has
viewed in Israel as an opportunist and not ideological,
drawn accusations of racism for his call to have Israeli
Shoval said.
Arabs live in a Palestinian state under a future peace
Israeli Arabs appear to be less engaged with the Trump
deal.
phenomenon than their Jewish neighbors. Nearly half
But others worried that Trumps seemingly off-thetold the Israel Democracy Institute they didnt know
cuff convictions could change once hes in office.
whether Trump would be friendly to Israel. Among the
Theres a feeling of finally, enough with political correctness, enough with the establishment, prominent
some 100 Israeli Arabs polled by Walla in March, a mere
religious Zionist Rabbi Yuval Cherlow said. But the
7 percent supported Trump.
problem is that there isnt a feeling you can trust him.
From the perspective of Palestinian citizens who live
You cant know if hes going to do what he says. Hes not
in Israel, hell just make the situation more extreme,
obligated to anything.
said journalist Ghada Zoabi, who runs the Arab-Israeli
On the left, Israelis are just as mistrustful and less
news website Bokra. He wont take a positive role in
enamored of Trumps frankness. Columnist Nahum
leading to peace. Hes not a man of peace. He wants to
Barnea has written that Trump is a threat to Americas
celebrate the existing conflict.
democratic values and compared him to Oren Hazan,
Yisrael Friedman, editor of Yated Neeman, a leading
a scandal-plagued Likud lawmaker accused of bringing
charedi publication, said charedi Israelis have mostly
clients prostitutes and drugs when he managed a casino
been ignoring the Trump campaign out of a belief that
in Bulgaria.
God not the president controls matters of state.
Barnea said that Trump could be dangerous to the
America seems to have gone crazy, Friedman said,
U.S.-Israel relationship because hes a less-well-known
adding that Trumps popularity deserves psychiatric
quantity than Clinton and has weaker ties to Americas
examination. But he said only God knows which candidate would be best for the Jews.
pro-Israel community.
God will play with him like a marionette if hes
I think Trump is unpredictable and unobligated,
elected, Friedman said. At this point Im praying for
Barnea told JTA. Hillary Clinton is predictable and obligated. The prime minister of Israel will feel comfortable
whatevers best for the Jewish people. Whats right and
with a president whose actions he can expect.
good, I dont know.

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More than 300 agents and officers
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authorities said, adding that no arrests
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In a potentially related development,
the Journal News reported on Wednesday that the FBI had used an Orthodox
Jewish radio program and a charedi
Orthodox informant in a sting operation that led to the conviction of several
Rockland County officials in a corruption scandal.
The 2013 Jewish Week report found
that charedi Orthodox schools that publicly eschew the Internet were awarded
millions of dollars for tech equipment
and Internet wiring.
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exclusively in charedi schools. In 2013,
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largest E-rate service providers in the
Jewish community. In 2011 Hashomer
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Israeli cyclists Idit Shub and Gal Tsachor rode to an
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President Barack Obama nominated him to fill the vacant seat
on the Supreme Court.
But theres a lot we still dont know.
What are his views on abortion? Will the
Republican leadership give him a hearing
in the Senate? What was his bar mitzvah
Torah portion?
Garland may have an extensive judicial
record he has more federal judicial experience (19 years) than any other Supreme
Court nominee in history, according to the
White House but far less is known about
his Jewish bona fides.
Heres what we do know.
He is proud of his familys Jewish immigrant story so proud that he talked about
it in his speech when his nomination was
announced in the White House Rose
Garden.
My family deserves much of the credit
for the path that led me here, Garland
said. My grandparents left the Pale of
Settlement at the border of western Russia and Eastern Europe in the early 1900s,
fleeing anti-Semitism and hoping to make
a better life for their children in America.
His father, Cyril Garland, was born in
Omaha, Nebraska, but hailed from a Latvian Jewish immigrant family. He ran an
advertising business out of the family
home and died in 2000. Garlands mother,
Shirley Garland, still lives in the Chicago
area and at one point was the director of
volunteer services at the Council for Jewish Elderly in Chicago.
Garland was raised in Lincolnwood, a
heavily Jewish suburb of Chicago, and had
his bar mitzvah at a Conservative synagogue. Garland has credited his parents
with instilling the desire for public service
in him.
His Jewish tradition is one of service,
Jamie Gorelick, who went to college with
Garland and worked closely with him in
the Justice Department, told the New York
Times. Gorelick was the U.S. deputy attorney general from 1994 to 1997.
At Niles West High School in Skokie, Illinois, Garland served as student council
president, acted in theatrical plays, and
was voted most intelligent boy in the
class of 1970, the Times reported.
When Garland started as an undergraduate at Harvard University, where he was
on scholarship, he thought he wanted to
be a doctor and initially entered a premed track. But he quickly changed focus
and settled on another respectable Jewish path: the law. After graduating Harvard College, he went on to Harvard Law
School.
Judge Merrick Garland stands in the White House Rose Garden, listening as
President Barack Obama announces his nomination to the Supreme Court.

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Garlands wife, Lynn Rosenman, is a fellow Jewish Harvard graduate who comes
from a distinguished family. Her grandfather, Samuel Rosenman of New York, was
a state Supreme Court justice and a special
counsel to two presidents, Franklin Roosevelt and Harry Truman.
Garland and his wife met at a rehearsal
dinner where they were seated together.
They married in 1987 in a Jewish ceremony
at the Harvard Club in New York. A Reform
rabbi, Charles Lippman, presided.
The couple settled in the Washington,
D.C., area and raised two daughters, both
now in their 20s. Garland and his wife live
in Bethesda, Maryland, and are members
of Temple Sinai, a 1,100-member Reform
congregation in Washington led by Rabbi
Jonathan Roos. Both the Garland daughters, Rebecca and Jessica, reportedly had
their bat mitzvahs there.
The Garlands have hosted some distinguished guests at their Passover seders.
In 1996, then-U.S. Attorney General Janet
Reno was a seder guest. She and Garland
had to step away from the table at one
point to take a phone call about the investigation into Ted Kaczynski, the so-called
Unabomber, who was arrested on Passover eve. Garland oversaw Kaczynskis
prosecution.
Garland also has hosted Easter egg
hunts part of an annual potluck breakfast he holds for his former clerks and
their spouses and children, according to
the Washington Post.
The judge has worked in a variety of
roles since moving to Washington in the
1970s. He started as a court clerk at the
U.S. Court of Appeals and the Supreme
Court before joining the law firm Arnold
& Porter. After just a few years, Garland

gravitated toward government work, first
working as an assistant U.S. attorney and
later as a deputy assistant attorney general
in the criminal division of the U.S. Department of Justice.
President Bill Clinton nominated Garland to be a U.S. circuit court judge in
1995, but the Republican-controlled Senate dragged its feet on confirming him.
After Clinton won reelection in 1996 he
renominated Garland, and the judge was
confirmed by a 76-23 vote in the Senate in
March 1997.
Jay Michaelson, a rabbi and columnist
for the Daily Beast and the Jewish Daily
Forward who clerked for Garland on the
Appeals Court in the late 1990s, said that
Garlands Jewish identity is typical of that
of many American Jews.
My sense is he wasnt super religious
or observant but very culturally Jewish
like a lot of American Jews, Michaelson
said. I think the immigrant experience
and Jewish ethical values would be the
two most important aspects of his Jewish
identity.
Michaelson remembered talking with
the judge about needing to take off four
days for Sukkot and Simchat Torah. The
two had a joking exchange about it, and
Garland of course gave him the days off,
Michaelson said.
My experience clerking for him is
that he was very methodical, detailed
and sharp, Michaelson said. He was
extremely detail-oriented, determined,
nerdy in a good way and quite meticulous.
The White House released a three-minute biographical video on Garland this
week.
I think the rule of law is what distinguishes our country from most other
countries, Garland says in the video.
Its peoples willingness to trust that they
dont have to take justice into their own
hands, that law will treat people fairly and
impartially, and without regard to politics
or religion or race or anything else.
The two elements of Garlands biography that have generated the most attention since Obama nominated him to the
Supreme Court have nothing to do with
his Jewishness.
One is that hes a relative moderate compared to other potential jurists a Democratic president could have nominated.
The other is that he is 63, relatively old by
Supreme Court nominee standards. That
makes it less likely he will serve a long
term on the court.
Both elements are being seen as concessions to make Obamas pick more palatable to Senate Republicans or at least
make it harder for them to refuse him a
hearing. So far, the Republican leadership
has vowed not to bring Garlands nomination to a vote before the November presidential election.
The fact that Garland is a Jewish, male,
white Harvard graduate is tertiary. The
court already is stacked with those: Of the
eight sitting justices, five are men, six are
white, three are Jews, and all eight went to
I think the
rule of law
is what
distinguishes
our country
from most
other
countries.
JUDGE MERRICK GARLAND
law school either at Harvard or Yale. (Ruth

Bader Ginsburg graduated from Columbia
University after transferring there from
Harvard.)
If confirmed, Garland would be the
ninth Jew to sit on the court.
Were on the one hand super proud
that we have a Reform Jew who is being
nominated to the Supreme Court, said
Rabbi Jonah Pesner, director of the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism.
Its a wonderful affirmation of this jurist.
His friends at Temple Sinai are ecstatic
about one of their own being nominated
to the highest court in the land.
On the other hand, Pesner said, we
believe of course that faith should never
be a litmus test for office. JTA WIRE SERVICE
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Six Israeli universities were ranked among the worlds
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Parashat Tzav / Purim
heres my hat?
Albert Einstein said:
The more I learn, the
more I realize how much I
dont know. Mark Twain said: My father
was an amazing man. The older I got, the
smarter he got.
Absolute knowledge seems to elude us.
No matter how much we learn and experience, it seems an ever growing quantity
of information remains beyond our reach.
This brings us to the Torah portion of
Tzav (and the holiday of Purim). The word
tzav is found at the root of the word
mitzvah which means commandment.
The dictionary defines the word command as to direct authoritatively. At
times, we may fully or partially comprehend a commandments rationale while at
times we may have no inkling whatsoever.
Yet the very nature of a commandment is
that it must be followed regardless of personal preference.
Why is this?
Among the topsy-turvy type features
of the Purim holiday are dressing in costume and drinking schnapps ad dlo
yada until one cannot distinguish
between blessed is Mordechai and
cursed is Haman. But an alternative and
perhaps deeper rendering of the words
ad dlo yada is to know that you do not
know.
Storm
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Some people claim that to compare anyone to the monster dishonors the memory
of six million.
I disagree.
Those of us who call Trump and his
antics Hitler-like do so out of respect for
the victims of the Holocaust.
I have stood on the black grass at Birkenau ten times. Each time I vowed to the
souls I memorialized and to humanity
worldwide, Never Again. If we take that
oath seriously, we must call out those who
act in a demagogic, elitist, and separatist manner. We must not allow it to take
us to a place where the very morals this
country was founded upon, and the JudeoChristian values that all the presidential
Seven hundreds years ago,

threaten the very heart of
Rabbi Yediah Hapnini wrote:
the mission which depended
The ultimate purpose of
on finding favor in the eyes
knowledge is to know that
of the king. Now, why would
we dont know. While techshe undertake such a counnically, knowledge means to
terintuitive course of action?
know something, it comes
It was because she underwith a contradictory qualstood that no matter how
ity; the more we know the
much you plan, the outcome
Rabbi
more we come to realize how
is never exactly as you imagChanoch
much more there is that we
ined it would be. If history
Kaplan
dont yet know.
teaches us anything, it is that
Chabad of North
In the past century there
you can shoot an arrow but
West Bergen
has been a veritable explocannot determine where it
County, Franklin
sion of scientific knowledge.
lands. Indeed, Esther conLakes, Orthodox
Millions of scientists across
cocted a plan to thwart the
the globe study ever narrowwicked plans of Haman.
ing fields of research. And yet, the greater
But this plan was secondary to the more
and broader their discoveries become,
important matter of finding favor in the
the more they realize how much remains
eyes of God. So she, along with the entire
unknown. In effect, the relative unknown
Jewish nation, prayed and fasted for a full
keeps increasing!
three days. Sure, it weakened her and
This knowing that we dont really
took a toll on her beauty, but she knew
know is a fundamental lesson of Purim
that the best of plans could not succeed
which is reflected in the tradition of ad
without Gods help. And it was this which
dlo yada.
ultimately led to the salvation of the JewThe Megillah tells us that the Purim herish people.
I came face to face with the limitations
oine, Esther, fasted for three days before
of knowledge recently in an unusual
approaching the Persian King Achashvaiway when I walked home from shul on
rosh to request his intervention on behalf
Shabbos with my younger son. When
of her people. This, despite the fact that
we arrived at home, my son proceeded
she knew with certainty that it would
to place his hat on a table. Later, when
diminish her physical attraction and
he couldnt find it where he left it, my

older son suggested to him that he might
have forgotten it in shul, but he was adamant that he had not a fact to which I
attested. He knew that he had worn the
hat home; he knew that he had put it on
the table; he knew that he had not moved
it since; hence someone else must have.
He continued searching but became very
agitated since no one would admit to the
obvious, that they had touched it.
Later that evening, I walked into the shul
and noticed the impossible: His hat was
resting peacefully on a chair. What had
happened? It turns out that he was correct about every detail of the story without exception. But and theres always a
but he had mistakenly worn someone
elses hat home and thats why he could
not find his hat!
We read in Psalms that it is better to
rely on the One above than in nobles. We
may think that we know it all. But even
when we plan and execute to perfection,
it may turn out that we were wearing the
wrong hat.
Like Esther, lets keep thinking and
never stop believing. Embrace mitzvot
and allow for the guiding hand from on
High to direct us toward the realization
of individual and global purpose, leading to the coming of Moshiach speedily
in our time.
candidates cling to like a safety harness,

are turned upside down.
Donald Trump says that immigrants are
the cause of crime in our country and that
we will deport all of them. He claims he
will build a wall to keep Mexicans out. He
suggests that women who are testy must be
menstruating. He infers that captured soldiers are not good war heroes. He declares
that many Muslims hate America and says
that we should separate all of them from
entering or moving freely within our country. Mr. Trump advocates for the murder
of innocent family members of terrorists
which is a blatant war crime. He plays
fast and loose with the KKK and regularly
advocates violence at his rallies. And there
is too much more
When all that happens, it does not mean
that Trump killed 11 million people, or even
familiar tune with different lyrics. To advocate for his asylum is to abet his lawless
and amoral aspirations, which could lead
us down a path where humanity, again, is
the greatest loser.
If and when historians will ask where
were you and where was your voice when
this man with these dreadful intentions,
who made these despicable statements,
rose to power, I want to be noted on the
record with other leaders who aggressively
rang alarm bells of warning.
We are still paying for the apathy of
yesteryear.
that he will. But it doesnt pass the sniff

test for me and countless others. It stinks
the way the history books of 1933-1938
Germany did. And for those who naively
and passively sit idly by without condemnation, perhaps they should be called into
question too. Could you imagine if instead
of Muslim he (or any other candidate)
had said Jew? If instead of Mexican he
said Israeli? And the absurd notion that
because Trumps daughter Ivanka is Jewish that excuses her fathers xenophobia is
tantamount to claiming that vegetarianism
makes people skinny.
Simply stated, Hitler was mostly a criminal who committed crimes against the Jewish people. But he was a criminal against
humanity, first. Trump targeting Mexicans
and Muslims and being coy on his affiliation with the KKK is a person chanting a
David-Seth Kirshner is senior rabbi at

Temple Emanu-El of Closter, president of
the New York Board of Rabbis, and vice
president of the North Jersey Board of
Rabbis.
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Istanbul suicide bomber

reportedly trailed Israeli
tourists
Several Turkish media outlets reported that contrary to initial assessments by Turkish authorities, a group of Israeli tourists in fact were the
specific target of a suicide bombing on Istanbuls
busy Istiklal Street on Saturday.
Three Israelis were killed in the suicide bombing on Saturday, which happened on a long
pedestrian avenue lined with stores and foreign
consulates. An Iranian man also was killed.
According to the latest Turkish reports, the
terrorist, whose identity has since been confirmed, had waited outside the restaurant
19 Jews from Yemen

smuggled to Israel
The Jewish Agency for Israel undertook what it
called a complex, covert operation to smuggle
out 19 Yemenite Jews and bring them to Israel.
Nineteen individuals arrived in Israel in
recent days, including 14 from the town of Raydah and a family of five from Sanaa, the Jewish Agency said in a statement, adding, The
group from Raydah included the communitys
rabbi, who brought a Torah scroll believed to be
between 500 and 600 years old.
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where the group of Israelis had dined on Saturday morning, detonating himself moments after
they left.
Turkeys Haberturk newspaper reported
that police were examining closed-circuit
TV footage from the scene, which appeared
to corroborate the report that the suicide
bomber had followed the group of Israeli tourists for several miles from their hotel and then
waited outside the restaurant where they ate
breakfast.
The report suggested that the suicide
bomber, identified as Islamic State member
Mehmet Ozturk, recognized the Israelis were
speaking Hebrew and decided to target them
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Yemenite Jews are considered to be part of the
worlds oldest Jewish communities. According to
the Jewish Agency, there are 50 more Jews who
have chosen not to immigrate to Israel and remain in Yemen, despite the fact that Jews have
become increasingly targets of harassment and
violence by Muslims in the country.
In 2008, Jewish teacher Moshe Yaish alNahari was murdered in Raydeh because he was
Jewish. His widow and children moved to Israel
four years later. In 2012, another Jewish leader
in Raydeh, Aaron Joseph Zindani, also was murdered. The Jewish Agency later brought his coffin to Israel.
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14. Where Samson used a jawbone
15. Many a minor character on Simons
The Wire
16. Do hagbah
17. Part of an El Al plane
18. Rabbi Moshe Isserles (with The)
19. Places to wrap tefillin straps
20. 7
23. Wood for The Ark
24. Uncle of Dan
25. Org. in David Silvermans The
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quiet?
40. James portrayed in Cadillac
Records with Adrien Brody
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46. ___ it can be... (Lyrics from a
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47. Like a soup made in Genesis
48. Asimovs Murder at the ___
51. Gene Simmons speaks it: Abbr.
52. Chalav option
55. Like the Torah
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62. Rock for Reed
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64. Western Wall crowd, on many holidays
65. Pharaoh who may have enslaved the
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66. Moshe or Yirmiyahu
67. Davids oldest
68. Make like frogs, as a plague
69. Sterns opposite end?
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Questions, contact Geri Lipschitz at gerilipschitz@hotmail.com
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2. High (kosher) grade
3. End of the new year?
4. It gets the attention of some congressmen
5. Shtreimels
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7. ___ fatale (Delilah, for one)
8. Jericho residents
9. Karpas option
10. Great Baba
11. Tiberias neighbor
12. Einai preceder
13. Wallace in Spielbergs E.T.
21. Shalom, to Vito
22. Seven of ___ (kosher species on the
Ark)
26. He liked killing Nazis in a 2009 film
27. Famous dog in Edward G. Robinsons
I Am The Law
30. Israeli dough, familiarly
32. Six Days of War writer
33. Locale in Kubricks The Shining
34. Be a klutz
35. What we do to a shankbone on
Passover
36. A midrash might be one
37. Suffix for Zuckerberg and Bloomberg
38. Like Pharaoh during the plagues
42. Mel Gibson, e.g.
43. Bartenura ___ Spumante
44. Weekly noseful
45. Raichel of song
48. Famous resting spot
49. Be good in gan
50. Maale follower
53. Common feeling for Woody Allen
54. Paul Rudd is part of one in
Anchorman (and its sequel)
56. Blueish shades around the Dead Sea
58. ___-Hittite (language family)
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Film festival in Manhattan looks at new Israeli work
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or the very first time, the New

Directors New Films series,
sponsored jointly by the Film
Society of Lincoln Center and
the Museum of Modern Art, selected three
Israeli films to be screened as part of its
annual spring series. Two of the three
films take place within Jerusalems Orthodox world and the third is set in todays
Poland. The series runs through the end
of this week, but these Israeli films should
be in theaters later this year.
The question of why recent Israeli cinema has focused so intensely on charedim
and eastern Europe is well worth considering. It certainly is appropriate to reflect
on the political climate and developments
within a society that might affect the kind
of topics covered on screen. A scholar or
keen observer may look at events and societal changes and find clear reasons that
may have influenced the movies. What is
harder to explain is the incredible recent
growth of the Israeli film industry, short of
the fact that there is more government and
foundation money available today to make
movies. For decades, Israeli filmmakers
found it exceptionally hard to find funding to make movies, but in the last 15 years
that has changed radically.
In a most curious way, the kind of funding that has become available has had a
deep impact on the subjects that Israeli
filmmakers now tackle. With major funding from the city of Jerusalem, meant to
encourage movie-making there, along with
monies from such foundations as Gesher
and Avi Chai, life within the ultra-Orthodox Jerusalem world is fast becoming a
new genre of Israeli cinema. Gesher and
Avi Chai are promoting a greater understanding between Jewish subcultures, and
they have been funding very successful
television programming and a few movies on related subjects for more than a
decade. That, combined with incentives
the municipality offers, has resulted in a
proliferation of films about ultra-Orthodox Jews in Israel. This, coupled with a
cinematic revolution within the ultraOrthodox community, has put chasidim
on screen more than ever before
Nearly 40 years ago, when one of Israels greatest film directors and actors, Uri
Zohar, become a baal teshuvah, a bornagain Jew, he totally rejected the notion
that he would continue making movies
as sacrilege. But much has changed in
the last 15 years, and the charedi world,
which continues to shun television and
traditional movie houses, has permitted
Scene from Mountain
Scene from Demon
filmmaking within its midst. In 2004,

baal teshuvah Shuli Rand turned to Gidi
Dar, a friend from his earlier life, and
made Ushpizin, a film about how, just
before and during the festival of Sukkot, a married couples faith is tested.
The films worldwide success surprised
most Israelis. Another recent development is the cultivation of a charedi
women as film audiences. These women
have found comfort in a select group of
films made specifically for them by ultraOrthodox women filmmakers, some of
whom trained in Israels best film schools
before becoming observant. Three years
ago, one of these filmmakers, Americanborn Rama Burshtein, had her film Fill
the Void play at the New York Film Festival. Now it seems that everyone wants to
make movies about charedim!
Mountain, Yaelle Kayams debut feature film, uses the Mount of Olives, overlooking the Old City of Jerusalem, as its
primary setting. Zvia (Shani Klein), her
husband Reuven (Avshalom Polak) and
their four children live on the edge of the
cemetery. Director Kayam develops a fascinating story about this frum womans
growing connection to the cemetery, setting it in total opposite to her relationship
with her husband. As Zvia and Reuven
grow apart, the landscape of the mountain
Scene from Tikkun
and the secrets held within its stones

become more and more alluring. Shani
Klein (Zero Motivation) gives us a powerful performance.
The second Jerusalem film, Tikkun,
revolves around Haim-Aaron (Aharon
Traitel), a Meah Shearim yeshiva student
who is struggling as he paves new talmudic inroads. Recognized by his teachers and peers as an illui, a prodigy, his
intense study leads him through a variety of intense physical struggles until he
finally passes out, leading him on a journey that alternates between the world of
the yeshiva and the forbidden. Director
Avishai Sivan does not hold back on his
choice of expressive and often inelegant
visuals, sometimes going beyond the limits
of what we might consider R-rated cinema,
as he takes us back and forth between
these worlds and between the dominion
of the living and dead. This is a film about
a shochet father who ritually slaughters
meat for a living and the son who literally sacrifices himself in his search for
meaning. A little bit of the talmudic Elisha
Ben-Abuyah?
Demon is a Polish-Israeli coproduction that touches on what is becoming a
popular film form in Poland the ongoing
presence of the Jewish past in that country today. In the last several years, more
funding has become available to explore

such topics; in this instance, support came
from the Polish government. Jews lived in
Poland for a millennium; during the Shoah
90 percent of the three million strong Jewish community was murdered, some by
Poles. Those facts, and lack of Jewish presence in Poland today, has been a controversial part of Polish filmmaking these last
many years. Now, Polish director Marcin
Wrona digs in to continue the exploration. When Peter (Israeli actor Itay Tiran)
arrives from England to marry Zaneta
(Agnieszka Zulewska) at the country estate
that Zanetas father is bequeathing them
in rural Poland, he finds human skeletal
remains on the property. That discovery
will haunt him throughout his Polish Catholic wedding, which begins the next day, as
he is joined by an uninvited and very dead
Jewish guest from the past. Wronas film is
truly superb, highlighted by an extraordinary performance by Tiran, whose body
becomes possessed by a dybbuk.
New Directors New Films is taking place
at both Lincoln Center and the Museum of
Modern Art through March 27. For more
information, go to newdirectors.org.
Eric Goldman is founder of Ergo Media,
a distributor of Jewish film. He is adjunct
professor of cinema at Yeshiva University.
Calendar
Sunday
MARCH 27
newborns to 3-yearolds, accompanied by

family members and
other caregivers, at
Congregation Bnai Israel,
9:3010:45 a.m. 53 Palisade
Ave. (201) 820-3902,
www.jfnnj.org/
shalombaby, or SarahD@
jfnnj.org.
Brigadier Enoch Poor:
Rabbi Dr. Meir Yaakov

Soloveichik
Lecture in Monsey:
Rabbi Dr. Meir Yaakov
Soloveichik discusses
The True Miracle of
Israel: Lessons From the
Zionism of Benachem
Begin at the annual
Israel and Pearl Stern
Memorial Lecture
at the Community
Synagogue of Monsey,
10:15 a.m. 89 W. Maple
Ave. (845) 356-2720 or
comsyn.org.
Internationally acclaimed comedian Jay

Leno will headline An Evening of Laughter
and Song, a benefit for United Hatzalah,
at the Rose Theater at Lincoln Center in
Manhattan on Sunday, April 10, at 7:30 p.m. JM-in-theAM radio host Nachum Segal will host the concert,
which is produced by Suki and Ding Productions. Eli
Beer, United Hatzalahs founder, will honor United
Hatzalah volunteers. Concert proceeds will be used to
purchase medical equipment for the United Hatzalah
volunteers in Israel. For tickets, call (646) 833-7108 or
go to www.jazz.org/events/t-5560.
MAR.
25
Friday
Saturday
MARCH 25
MARCH 26
Shabbat in Emerson:
Congregation Bnai
Israel offers an Esther
Extravaganza to
continue the Purim
celebration, 6:45 p.m.
Attendeeswill go to
interactive booths to
experience what Esther
was doing in body,
mind, and spirit as she
hid her identity and
then saved the Jewish
people. Services at
7:30. 53 Palisade Ave.
(201) 265-2272 or www.
bisrael.com.
Shabbat in Teaneck:
Temple Emeth offers
services, followed by a
Billy Joel Purim shpiel,
8 p.m. 1666 Windsor
Road. (201) 833-1322 or
www.emeth.org.
Avi Melamed
Shabbat in Closter:
Temple Emanu-El of
Closter welcomes Avi
Melamed, a Middle East
strategic intelligence
analyst, as scholarin-residence. His talk,
during services that
begin at 9 a.m., will be
Emerging Challenges
and Opportunities
in the Middle East.
180 Piermont Road.
(201) 750-9997 or www.
templeemanu-el.com.
Purim ball in Oakland:

Fourth-to eighth-graders
are invited to a Purim
ball at the Academies
at Gerrard Berman Day
School with dancing,
volleyball, games, prizes,
and refreshments,
8-10:30 p.m. Participants
should bring a nonperishable food item
to donate. 45 Spruce
St. Registration,
(201) 337-1111 or www.
ssnj.org.
Music in Fair Lawn: The

Fair Lawn Jewish Center/
CBI holds its Broadway
cabaret, with Donna
Vivino, star of Les
Miserables, Wicked,
and Hairspray. Doors
open at 8 p.m.; show at
8:30. Dessert reception.
10-10 Norma Ave.
(201) 796-5040 or
BroadwayCabaretNight@
fljc.com.
Dumont historian Dick

Burnon talks about
an Army Cover-Up:
The Mysterious Death
of a Revolutionary
War Hero, Brigadier
General Enoch Poor,
at a meeting of REAP
(Retired Executives and
Active Professionals)
at the Kaplen JCC on
the Palisades in Tenafly,
10:30 a.m. Hell also show
a film, The Battle of
Monmouth. 411 E. Clinton
Ave. (201) 569-7900 or
www.jccotp.org.
Nutrition myths: Jenna

Amos, a registered
dietitian at the ShopRite
of Northvale, discusses
Nutrition Myth
Busting at the Jewish
Home Assisted Living
in River Vale, 2 p.m.
685 Westwood Ave.
(201) 666-2370.
led by Rabbi Nathaniel

Helfgot, 8:15 p.m. 950
Queen Anne Road. www.
lamdeinu.org.
Wednesday
MARCH 30
Blood drive in Teaneck:
Torah Academy of
Bergen County holds
a blood drive with
New Jersey Blood
Services, a division of
New York Blood Center,
10 a.m.-4 p.m. 1600
Queen Anne Road.
(800) 933-2566 or www.
nybloodcenter.org.
Pocketbook bingo
in Montebello: The
Montebello Jewish
Center hosts Designer
Pocketbook Bingo.
Doors open at 6:30 p.m.;
bingo at 7. Designer
pocketbook prizes.
Tickets available in
advance. 34 Montebello
Road. (845) 357-2430 or
office@montebellojc.org.
Karyn Gershon
Book discussion in
Teaneck: As part of
the One Book One
Community project
sponsored by the
Jewish Federation
of Northern New
Jersey, Congregation
Beth Sholom offers a
discussion with Project
Keshers executive
director, Karyn Gershon,
on Jewish Life Today
in Belarus, Russia, and
Ukraine, 7 p.m. 354
Maitland Ave. www.
cbsteaneck.org or
(201) 833-2620.
Monday
MARCH 28
Cooking with eggs in
Tenafly: Chef Michael
Wolf offers a cooking
demo, The Incredible,
Edible Egg! at the
Kaplen JCC on the
Palisades, 7 p.m. 411
E. Clinton Ave. Judy,
(201) 408-1457.
Tuesday
MARCH 29
Play group in Emerson:
Shalom Baby of Jewish
Federation of Northern
New Jersey offers
a Mommy-and-Mestyle playgroup for
Yehuda Kurtzer
Scholar in Closter:
Book talk in Closter:

As part of the One
Book One Community
project sponsored by
the Jewish Federation
of Northern New Jersey,
Temple Beth El hosts
a discussion led by
congregants Julia Nock
and Susan Schwinger on
this years selection, A
Backpack, A Bear and
8 Crates of Vodka, a
memoir by Lev Golinkin,
at the shul, 7:30 p.m. 221
Schraalenburgh Road.
(201) 768-5112 or www.
tbenv.org.
Jewish genealogy in
River Edge: Barbara
Ellman, an expert on
Jewish genealogy,
speaks at Temple Avodat
Shalom, 7:30 p.m.
385 Howland Ave.
(201) 489-2463 or www.
avodatshalom.net.
Jewish learning in
Teaneck: Lamdeinu,
a center for Jewish
learning that meets
at Congregation Beth
Aaron, offers Insights
Into Shir HaShirim,
Temple Emanu-El
welcomes scholarin-residence Yehuda
Kurtzer, president of the
Shalom Hartman Institute
of North America, who
will discuss 21st Century
Judaism: Leadership
and Change in American
Jewish Life, 7:30 p.m.
180 Piermont Road.
(201) 750-9997 or www.
templeemanu-el.com.
Thursday
MARCH 31
Holy Name Medical
Center holds a blood
drive with New Jersey
Blood Services, a
division of New York
Blood Center, 1-7 p.m.
718 Teaneck Road.
(800) 933-2566 or www.
nybloodcenter.org.

Maayanot Yeshiva High
School for Girls holds a
blood drive and bone
marrow drive with New
Jersey Blood Services,
a division of New York
Blood Center, 4:309 p.m. 1650 Palisade Ave.
(800) 933-2566 or www.
nybloodcenter.org.
Calendar
Book talk in Fair Lawn:
As part of the One Book
One Community project
sponsored by the Jewish
Federation of Northern
New Jersey, Margie
Gelbwasser leads a
discussion on this years
selection, A Backpack,
A Bear and 8 Crates of
Vodka, a memoir by Lev
Golinkin, at the Maurice
M. Pine Free Public
Library, 7 p.m. Donations
of teddy bears or
backpacks welcome. 1001 Fair Lawn Ave. www.
FairLawnLibrary.org.
Reconstructionist
Judaism: Get an insiders
look at Reconstructionist
Judaism at a Recon
Salon led by Rabbi
Jacob Lieberman of
Reconstructionist
Congregation Beth Israel
in Ridgewood, 7 p.m.
Attendees will find out
what the movement
is about, why it was
founded, and how it has
evolved in congregations
today. The meeting, to
include a light dinner,
will be in a private home.
Reservations: office@
synagogue.org.
Friday
Sunday
APRIL 1
APRIL 3
Shabbat in Emerson:
Community breakfast
in Teaneck: Project
Congregation Bnai Israel

offers Town Hall, a
service with a discussion
on contemporary
issues, led by Rabbi
Debra Orenstein,
8 p.m. 53 Palisade Ave.
(201) 265-2272.
Saturday
APRIL 2
Casino/tricky tray
in Ridgewood: The
Academies at Gerrard
Berman Day School hold
a casino night/tricky tray
event at Temple Israel,
8:30-11:30 p.m. Roaring
20s-themed attire
encouraged. Admission
includes desserts,
coffee/tea bar, wine,
and one sheet of tickets.
BYO kosher beer. 475
Grove St. www.ssnj.org/
trickytray.
Sarah (Stop Abusive

Relationships At Home)
holds its 10th annual
community breakfast
at Congregation Keter
Torah, 9:30 a.m. Judy
Brown, author of Hush,
is the speaker. Childcare
available with preregistration. 600 Roemer
Ave. (973) 777-7638 or
www.projectsarah.org.
JNF breakfast in
Park Ridge: Jewish
National Fund holds a
community breakfast at
Temple Beth Sholom,
9:30 a.m. Rebecca
Shimoni-Stoil, the Times
of Israels Washington
correspondent, is the
speaker. 32 Park Ave.
(973) 593-0095, ext. 823
or JNF.org/community
breakfast.
Shulem Deen in
Hoboken: Memoirist
and Jewish Book
Council award-winner
Shulem Deen will talk
about All Who Go Do
Not Return, his book

about life and struggles
as a Skverer chasid, at
brunch at the United
Synagogue of Hoboken,
10:30 a.m. 115 Park Ave.
(201) 659-4000 or office@
hobokensynagogue.org.
Charity vendor/craft
show in Tenafly:
558 High Mountain Road.

(201) 560-0200 or www.
tenjfl.org.
In New York
Monday
MARCH 28
An indoor/outdoor
vendor show to benefit
Alzheimers New Jersey,
is at the Tenafly Elks
Club, 11 a.m.-4 p.m. 20
Franklin St.
Party showcase in Park

Ridge: Celebrate! Party
Showcases holds a bar/
bat mitzvah planning
event, presented by
Mitzvah Market, at the
Park Ridge Marriott,
noon-4 p.m. 300 Brae
Boulevard. Sign up in at
CelebrateShowcase.com.
Film in Franklin Lakes:

Temple Emanuel of
North Jersey offers
The Middleton Family
at The New York
Worlds Fair, a 1939
docudrama produced
by the Westinghouse
Corporation, 2 p.m.
Popcorn and ice cream.
Frederick M. Lawrence
Free speech discussed:
Legal scholar Frederick
M. Lawrence of Yale Law
School discusses the
Changing Boundaries
of Free Speech for
the Bernard G. Segal
Memorial Lecture at
the Jewish Theological
Seminary, 7:30 p.m.
Lawrence also is a past
president of Brandeis
University and an
expert on civil rights,
free expression, and
bias crimes. Marc Gary,

executive vice chancellor
and chief operating
officer of JTS and former
general counsel of
Fidelity Investments and
BellSouth Corporation,
will moderate. JTS, 3080
Broadway (at 122nd
Street) in Manhattan.
Reservations and photo
ID required. Email
heguzman@jtsa.edu to
register. www.jtsa.edu/
freespeech. The lecture
will also be livestreamed
at www.jtsa.edu/live
(registration not required
for the livestream).
Singles
Sunday
APRIL 3
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Nyack: Singles 65+
meets for a social bagels
and lox brunch at the
JCC Rockland, 11 a.m. All
are welcome, particularly
those from Hudson,
Passaic, Bergen, or
Rockland counties. 450
West Nyack Road. Gene
Arkin, (845) 356-5525.
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Womens spring concert
Dinner and cabaret in

Clifton: North Jersey
Jewish Singles 40s-60s,
a group sponsored by
the Clifton Jewish Center,
hosts a spring dance
and buffet dinner with
cabaret entertainment
by Nate Tiffe, 5:30 p.m.
A Boomers Dance will
follow with favorite
party music by a
DJ. 18 Delaware St.
(973) 772-3131 or www.
meetup.com.
Welcoming Spring, a concert for girls and

women, is on Sunday, March 27 at YBH of
Passaic. Doors will open at 1:45 p.m.
Featured performances include
Ashira, the schools middle school
girls choir; Nashira, the Passaic womens choir; choreographer/dancer Etti
Rosenblum; dancer Rena Stern; singer/
songwriter Elana Greenspan; the Tribe
Youth Dancers; harpist Chayala Hauptman; soloists, and accompanists, including Sandy Sudberg, director osf music/
performing arts at North Shore Hebrew
Academy.
The school is at 270 Passaic Ave. A portion of the proceeds will benefit security
enhancement at YBH. For information,
call or text (201) 213-1426.
Discussion centers on ending poverty

World Bank president Dr.
as by UTS.
Jim Yong Kim will speak
In 2014, Dr. Kim invited
at the at Union Theologifaith-based organizations
cal Seminary in Manhatand religious leaders to
tan on Wednesday, April
discuss ways to work
6, at 7 p.m. Dr. Kim will
together to end extreme
discuss the moral imperpoverty worldwide by
ative to end extreme
2030. In 2015, the United
poverty and the role that
Nations member states
religious communities
voted to include ending
Dr. Jim Yong Kim
can play in achieving that
extreme poverty as its
goal.
sustainable development
The talk is co-sponsored by the
goal for the next 15 years.
Jewish Theological Seminarys MilKarenna Gore, director of the Censtein Center for Interreligious Diater for Earth Ethics at UTS, will modlogue and Riverside Church, as well
erate. The respondents are Sarah
Sayeed, senior advisor in the Community Affairs Unit of the Mayors

Office of New York City, and Ruth W.
Messinger, president of American
Jewish World Service, the worlds
leading Jewish organization working
to end poverty and realize human
rights in the developing world.
This panel will be live streamed,
at no charge, beginning at 7 p.m. JTS
invites synagogues and other Jewish communal organizations to hold
a public screening of the program.
Admission is free, but reservations
are required. Arrive 15 minutes early
and bring photo ID.
Closter shuls
host film screening
Temple Beth El
of Northern Valley of Closter will
show the film
I Shall Not Be
Silent on Thursday, April 7, at
10 a.m. Temple
Emanu-El, also
of Closter, will
screen the film at
7:30 p.m.
Joachim Prinz was a young rabbi in 1930s Berlin,
as the Hitler regime was rising to power and stripping Jews of their civil rights. Rabbi Prinz urged Jews
to leave Germany. Although the Nazis monitored his
sermons and repeatedly arrested him, Rabbi Prinz
continued to preach and did not modify his message.
Expelled from Germany in 1937, Rabbi Prinz arrived
in the United States and was horrified to witness racism against African Americans. He became a leader
of the civil rights movement and spoke at the March
on Washington for Jobs and Freedom in 1963, which
marked its 50th anniversary this year. He also was the
rabbi at Temple Bnai Abraham in Newark which
later moved to Livingston for 38 years.
Light refreshments will be served at both synagogues, and Beth El will sell lunch at 11:30. For program information or reservations at Beth El, call (201)
768-5112 or go to www.tbenv.org. For program information at Temple Emanu-El, call (201) 750-9997 or go
to www.templeemanu-el.com.
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The mens club of Teanecks Congregation Beth Aaron

is selling wine for Pesach. This year, it is partnering
with Yehoshua Werth and Grapevine Wine & Spirits of
Wesley Hills for a wine-tasting on March 27. Mr. Werth
hosts a popular YouTube channel, the GrapeVineWines, where he reviews kosher wines and spirits.
For those looking to enhance their knowledge of
wine, there will be a wine-tasting class with Yehoshua
at 6:30 p.m., before the wine-tasting. Admission
includes a range of wines not available at the tasting, food, history, and a Torah talk. A free tasting will
be from 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. A wine list is available on
the shul website at www.bethaaron.org/winesale. All
orders must be received by 10 a.m. on Tuesday, April
5. There is free delivery in Teaneck and Bergenfield
with orders of $150 or more or if you attend the winetasting class. Orders under $150 can be picked up in
Teaneck on April 10 or 17.
The event is at the shul, 950 Queen Anne Road in
Teaneck. Email mensclub@bethaaron.org.
Temple Emanuel of the Pascack Valley in Woodcliff

Lake hosts its annual kosher wine-tasting on Saturday,
April 2, at 8:15 p.m. Orders placed will be available in
time for Passover. Admission includes homemade
hors doeuvres and catered desserts.
The wine-tasting is at the shul, 87 Overlook Drive.
Call (201) 391-0801 or go to www.tepv.org.
Gallery
1
n 1 Jersey Citys Mayor Steven Fulop, Bris Avrohom

rabbis, and Yellowstone Capitals CEO, Isaac Stern,
put up mezuzahs at the opening of Yellowstones
offices in Jersey City. The office has a kosher cafeteria and a daily minyan. From left, Bris Avrohoms
Torah education and youth director, Rabbi Avremy
Kanelsky; Yellowstones senior underwriter, Steve
Davis; Capitols president, Jeff Reece; Mayor Fulop; Mr. Stern; BAs executive director, Rabbi Mordechai Kanelsky, and BAs Jersey City director,
Rabbi Baruch Lepkivker. COURTESY BRIS AVROHOM
n 2 Valley Chabad Friendship Circle held its annual
Sports League trophy presentation at Dorchester
Gym in Woodcliff Lake. From left, Woodcliff Lake
officer Keith Kalmbach; Congressman Scott Garretts
community relations director, Christina Garfinkle;
Woodcliff Lake officer James Foley; Friendship Circle Director Rabbi Yosef Orenstein; participant Jordan Grabow; volunteer Zech Dittleman, and Woodcliff Lake Mayor Carlos Rendo. COURTESY CHABAD
n 3 More than 40 students worked with Broadway
star Andrew Chappelle at the Rosen Performing Arts
Center at the Wayne YMCA for a musical theater
workshop based on the Broadway show Hamilton.
Afterward, 24 students worked with a talent manager from Shirley Grant Management to hone their
musical theater audition skills. The workshop is part
7
of an ongoing partnership between the Rosen PAC and A Class
Act NY, a NYC based, award-winning acting studio. A CLASS ACT NY
n 4 The Peninote Choir of Teaneck, led by Batya Harris, sang songs, including Purim tunes, with residents of CareOne at Teaneck. PHOTO PROVIDED
n 5 Lubavitch on the Palisadess Hebrew school and
its TLZ Club welcomed two IDF soldiers for a Round
Table Talk on their army experiences. The talk was in appreciation of the FIDF Food Drive, which TLZ held
this year to raise funds for the IDF. COURTESY LOTP
n 6 The Jewish Home at Rockleigh hosted a celebration for

resident Evelyn Laubs 100th birthday. Her guests, shown
here, include her daughter, Michelle Gately, 79; granddaughter, Lori Fotovich, 58; great-grandson, Jason Fotovich, 34; and
great-great-grandson, Brandon Fotovich, 6. COURTESY JHR
n 7 Students at the Bergen County High School of Jewish Studies had a Shabbaton weekend at Surprise Lake
Camp in Cold Spring, N.Y. Along with study sessions,
there were card game challenges led by Fred Nagler,
smore making, and celebrations. COURTESY BCHSJS
Jewish World
A year after Nismans death,

signs of progress in Argentina probe
NOGA TARNOPOLSKY
BUENOS AIRES, ARGENTINA An extraordinary series of developments are bringing
new hope and new heartbreak to the
family and colleagues of Alberto Nisman, the
Argentine federal prosecutor who was found
dead last year just days after accusing thenPresident Cristina Fernandez de Kirchner of
covering up Irans role in the 1994 bombing
of this citys AMIA Jewish center.
Fourteen months after Nisman was found
dead in his apartment with a single bullet
in the head, no autopsy results have been
released and no official cause of death has
been determined.
But on February 29, Antonio Jaime Stiuso, Argentinas former head of intelligence
operations, who has been living in exile in
the United States for the past year, delivered
bombshell testimony here, accusing Kirchner of ordering a hit on Nisman and seeking
to portray his death as a suicide.
They killed Nisman because of the work
he was doing, Stiuso said in testimony lasting 17 uninterrupted hours, according to
many media reports.
The author of all this madness was that
woman, Cristina Fernandez de Kirchner,
he said. When the madness of the former
president became explicit, I had to take my
family and move.
Stiuso wasnt done. Referring to Iran,
he said, When you have these people as
your enemy, theres no point in having
bodyguards.
At the time of his death, Nisman, 51, had
been under guard by a contingent of officers
from the Argentine Federal Police. Their
absence from his residence on the night of
January 18, 2015, has yet to be explained.
Hours after Stiuso finished testifying,
the presiding judge, Fabiana Palmaghini,
who took charge of the probe in December,
excused herself from handling the case. In
a document over 30 pages long that she
managed to produce in a matter of hours,
Palmaghini charged Viviana Fein, the investigator of Nismans death, with ignoring testimony Stiuso provided in 2015 in which he
allegedly said Nisman was killed. Hours after
Nismans death was discovered, and for no
known reasons, Fein announced she was
investigating it as a suicide.
The developments come exactly 100 days
into Mauricio Macris term as president, and
some see them as part of his campaign to
convince world leaders that he can restore
Argentinas global standing. Since he took
office in December, he has been visited in
Buenos Aires by the leaders of France and
Italy. And on Wednesday President Obama
arrived, accompanied by 400 American
business leaders, on the first state visit to
Argentina by a U.S. president in 27 years.
On Monday, at a news conference held
in anticipation of Obamas visit, Foreign
In Buenos Aires, a vigil was held on the first anniversary of AMIA prosecutor Alberto Nismans death.

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I couldnt keep
this evidence to
myself either for
me or for the
country. And well,
Ill end up as I
end up.
ALBERTO NISMAN
Minister Susana Malcorra described the governments task as inserting Argentina in the
world as if the Kirchner years had caused
it to fall off the planet.
Macris presidency began with a flourish,
annulling what was left of Kirchners pact to
investigate the AMIA bombing jointly with
Iran. Nisman had accused Tehran of masterminding the attack and produced evidence
that led Interpol to issue extradition requests
against senior Iranian officials, including a
former foreign minister.
Last week, appearing before the first
meeting of the World Jewish Congress to
be held in Latin America, Macri promised
to advance the investigation and lamented
the harm done to Argentinas international
reputation by the lack of progress in the
AMIA probe and the scandal surrounding
Nismans death.
But now we are determined to bring
what happened to light, Macri told The
Associated Press.
Nisman had devoted the last decade of
his life to investigating the AMIA bombing, which left 85 dead and hundreds
wounded. Four days before his death, he
charged Kirchner with attempting to cover
up Tehrans role.
Last week, Daniel Berliner, the director of Argentinas Jewish news service,
Agencia Juda de Noticias, released what
he claims is the last recording of Nismans
voice. In a telephone call conducted two
days before he was found dead, Nisman
spoke with eerie clarity.
I knew that no matter what, I had to
do this, Nisman said. I couldnt keep this
evidence to myself either for me or for the
country. And well, Ill end up as I end up.
As long as the truth is known.
Formally, Nismans death is still considered a suspicious death and is being
handled by a lower court. On Friday, in
small, stuffy chambers on the fifth floor
of the Criminal Court building in downtown Buenos Aires, a panel of three judges
heard arguments about the future handling of the case.
The state, which under Kirchner wanted
the investigation kept in lower court,
under Macri has joined Nismans family in
requesting its reclassification as a possible
homicide and federal crime.

Federal Prosecutor Natalio Alberto Nisman was assassinated so as to impede the
progress of his work on behalf of the state!
thundered Pablo Lanusse, a towering legal
figure in Argentina who is representing Nismans mother, Sara Garfunkel.
The intense, soft-spoken attorney Manuel
Romero Victorica, acting on behalf of Nismans former wife and his daughters, quietly
read aloud one of the many threats emailed
to Nisman in his last frenzied months of
work: We will make true our promise to kill
you and your family, but before that, we will
make you look like shit in public and in the
media. Weve already managed to separate
you from the AMIA case and weve gotten
Argentina a deal with Iran without you.
Sandra Arroyo Salgado, Nismans former
wife and herself a judge, broke down in
tears as she described her dual role as the
mother of her daughters and as a judicial figure in her own right.
We have been through a very complicated
year of malevolence and fear, she declared,
describing how she and her daughters have
been publicly smeared. When they talk
about Nismans little ex-wifey, thats me. How
can I tell my daughter that when she hears
threats she shouldnt be afraid?
The panel is scheduled to decide whether
the Nisman case will be transferred to a
federal court on Wednesday, the day of
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of New York; a sister, Norma Wagner (Hyman) of
Hackensack; and six grandchildren.
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and Silvie Pick of Mexico City, and their
children. Above all Larry loved his family,
magic, traveling, and was involved with
many Jewish causes. He spoke to the
students at New Milford High School about
the Holocaust. He was a past president of
the New Milford Jewish Center. He worked
as a steel salesman for American Strip
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Teens cook up tomorrows startups in Tech Lounge clubs

Participants in the teen-founded program get the tools, contacts
and experience they need to get started in the Israeli innovation world
ISRAEL21C STAFF
Amit Kochavi, an 18-year-old entrepreneur
from Tel Aviv, did not want to wait until after
his military service to get a foothold in Israels startup ecosystem. And he doesnt think
other teenagers with high-tech ambitions
should have to wait, either.
Two years ago, he created a four-month
startup accelerator called Tech Lounge at his
high school, Gymnasia Herzliya.
Now with more than 40 mentors on
board, Tech Lounge expanded last year to
Ironi Tet High School in Tel Aviv, the Hebrew
Reali School in Haifa and a high school in
Los Angeles, the city where Kochavi just
completed a five-month internship at FastPay as a software engineer before going into
the IDF.
About 120 students signed up this year,
and he predicts 80 will complete the accelerator a respectable percentage considering the heavy demands of high school.
Students who participate in these accelerators get the tools, knowledge and experience
that are needed to get started on their way in
the Israeli innovation world, Kochavi says.
During the four months they meet twice
a week with mentors from the high-tech
world investors, engineers, marketing
and design people, the whole spectrum
and slowly develop themselves to the point
where they have a business presentation
and whatever they need to pursue it on their

own.
By getting exposure to people who have
done it before, they build great connections
and have a lot of opportunities for access to
professionals.
Bat Sheva Markovich, a teacher at Ironi
Tet, and students Shay Dahan of Tel Aviv
and Itay Forlit of Haifa have helped Kochavi
develop and run Tech Lounges weekly
meetings and periodic hackathons.
On March 3, Tech Lounge
launched a four-month pilot
program that will give about
50 chosen participants
hands-on mentoring in programing, marketing, design,
and entrepreneurship from
alumni of Israel Defense
Forces technology units.
Kochavi designed this new
program with Sharin Fisher,
cofounder and former CEO
of Gvahim-Israel Formal
Cyber Education Program
Amit Kochavi, founder of
for gifted science and techTech Lounge.
nology high school students.
Ambitious plans
Though Israeli teens must serve in the military or national service between high school
and college, Kochavi believes his accelerators can make a big difference to those who
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decide to enter hightech entrepreneurship several years

down the road.
I think its important because if you
dont start before the
army you lose some
traction. This gives
them an extra three
years of experience and helps them
focus on what they can and want to do
later in life, he says.
Amit Ilan, a Gymnasia Herzliya senior,
says he learned about Tech Lounge from
his computer science teacher and joined
with two friends in order to advance
their idea for an app to help solve parking problems in Tel Aviv.
Every week we had meetings with
people from the high-tech industry and
they told us how to build an idea and
how to talk with investors, says Ilan.
We had one meeting with [Tel Aviv]
Mayor [Ron] Huldai and discussed our
idea with him. He said it is not such a
good solution because the technology
would be too expensive. Still, my group
Itay Forlit from Haifa and Shay

Dahan of Tel Aviv at a Tech Lounge
Hanukkah hackathon held at Wix
in Tel Aviv.
learned a lot from this project for the

future. I hope to do something with computers in the army and then get into a big
company or a startup.
No such thing as impossible

Kochavi, a startup entrepreneur since the
age of 14, graduated from Gymnasia Herzliya with a concentration in physics, computer science, and computational science.
He took university extension courses
throughout high school and took part in
the Tech Loft Incubator in Tel Aviv.
He was one of 120 students chosen
for Israels LEAD Ambassadors two-year
leadership-training program, and it was in
this context that he started Tech Lounge.
In the future, he wants to take it off campus into one or several central Israeli locations, and establish Tech Lounge in the US
and other countries. He is working on a
mobile platform to connect young entrepreneurs to mentors all around the world.
Kochavi also hopes to create a venture
capital fund to invest in startups founded
by high school students.
One of the Tech Lounge mentors,
Nathan Intrator currently on leave from
a professorship in computer science and
neuroscience at Tel Aviv University to
nurture his brain-health startup, Neurosteer says Tech Lounge participants are
of an age where they arent yet aware of
limitations.
I love talking with very young, enthusiastic, serious, unbiased bright kids. Sometimes they dont know there are things
that are considered impossible to be done
and they just do them, he marvels.
These kids are mastering the wave of
new technology and simply utilizing it.
Its fun and exciting, Intrator continues.
The goal is to drive their curiosity and
enable them not to be afraid, to really
explore new directions even if it looks
very hard and at the same time not make
novices mistakes in the business aspects
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