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The
Following
Pages
are
Excerpts
of
the
Vocation
CARE
Leaders’
Manual:
Intergenerational
Model
for
the
Exploration
of
Call
and
Christian
Vocations
©
2010
by
The
Fund
for
Theological
Education
(FTE)
All
rights
reserved.
No
part
of
this
Manual
may
be
reproduced,
distributed
or
sold
in
any
manner
whatsoever
without
permission,
except
in
the
case
of
brief
quotations
embodied
in
critical
articles
or
reviews.
For
information,
contact
Calling
Congregations
The
Fund
for
Theological
Education
825
Houston
Mill
Road,
Suite
100
Atlanta,
Georgia
30329
FTE’s
website:
http://www.thefund.org
Subsequent
pages
on
organizing
and
public
narrative
for
this
curriculum
has
been
adapted
from
the
following
publications
by
Marshall
Ganz:
• “Organizing
Notes,”
(©
Marshall
Ganz,
Kennedy
School
of
Government,
2008);
• “Public
Narrative
Worksheet,”
(©
Marshall
Ganz,
Kennedy
School
of
Government,
2006);
and
• “Public
Narrative
Workshop
Guide,”
(©
Marshall
Ganz,
Kennedy
School
of
Government,
2008).
Unless
otherwise
indicated,
all
scripture
quotations
are
taken
from
the
New
Revised
Standard
Version
of
the
Bible,
©
1989
by
the
Division
of
Christian
Education
of
the
National
Council
of
the
Churches
of
Christ
in
the
U.S.A.
Used
by
permission.
All
rights
reserved.
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Table
of
Contents
Introduction ..................................................................................................................................................... 4
Why
This
Work
Matters.. ..................................................................................................................................5
Overview............................................................................................................................................................7
Why
Storytelling.................................................................................................................................. 8
Why
a
Particular
Story
Structure ........................................................................................................ 9
How
to
Use
this
Manual......................................................................................................................................
Season
of
CARE:
VoCARE
Curriculum................................................................................................................
The
Six-‐Week
VoCARE
Curriculum
at
a
Glance ................................................................................. 10
Week
2:
Create
a
Space
–
Language
of
Call
and
Story .........................................................................
Week
4:
Reflect
Theologically
on
Self
and
Community
–
Our
Stories .................................................
Week
6:
Establish
Ministry
Opportunities
to
Care
for
Vocation ..........................................................
Season
of
Preparation:
Leadership
Curriculum................................................................................................
The
Six-‐Week
Leadership
Curriculum
at
a
Glance ................................................................................
Resources ............................................................................................................................................................
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Introduction
On
behalf
of
The
Fund
for
Theological
Education
(FTE),
we
are
delighted
that
you
have
decided
to
use
this
curriculum
as
a
way
for
your
congregation
to
explore
its
role
over
the
next
six
weeks
in
cultivating
questions
of
vocation
in
the
hearts
and
minds
of
young
people.
FTE
seeks
to
enable
diverse
and
gifted
young
people
throughout
the
Christian
community
to
explore
and
respond
to
God’s
call
in
their
lives,
particularly
the
consideration
of
the
call
to
pastoral
ministry.
While
it
is
certainly
God
who
calls
us,
vocation
care
is
an
active
role
that
your
congregation
can
take
in
discerning
God’s
call.
Congregations
and
communities
need
gifted
leaders.
Congregations
can
work
together
to
help
identify
and
support
future
leaders
by
taking
action
to
“notice,
name
and
nurture”
young
members
in
their
calling
–
what
we
call
“vocation
care.”
It
consists
of
communal
practices
in
which
all
Christians
grow
together
into
a
life
“worthy
of
the
calling
to
which
we
have
been
called
together
with
one
another”
(Ephesians
4:2).
By
participating
in
these
practices,
you
are
joining
a
growing
network
of
local
churches
that
recognize
what
is
at
stake
in
developing
the
next
generation
of
leaders,
particularly
gifted
young
pastors
the
church
needs
now
and
will
need
in
the
future.
These
practices
are
unique
in
each
church,
tradition
and
context.
And
yet,
there
are
observable
disciplines
that
can
be
named
as
four
core
congregational
Vocation
CARE
practices.
The
acronym
CARE
stands
for:
Through
this
six-‐week
curriculum,
you
will
lead
your
congregation
to
explore
its
role
in
nurturing
vocation
and
call.
In
the
following
pages,
the
curriculum
provides
instructions
for
how
to
create
an
intergenerational
space
for
developing
leaders,
how
to
nurture
and
discern
vocation
through
certain
practices,
how
to
lead
a
small
group
each
week
through
the
curriculum,
and
how
to
lead
adults
in
their
own
discernment
regarding
a
commitment
to
vocation
care
with
young
people.
This
curriculum
is
not
a
complete
model,
but
it
is
a
work
in
progress.
Your
experimentation
and
adaptation
of
it
will
help
FTE
to
continue
learning
and
refining
this
model.
However,
we
think
you
will
find
what
you
need
to
get
started
in
your
journey
toward
vocation
care.
We
hope
that
you
will
find
this
curriculum
to
be
both
of
value
and
importance
for
guiding
your
next
faithful
steps.
Our
prayer
is
that
this
model
becomes
a
resource
for
your
congregation
to
reclaim
practices
of
vocation
care
and
teach
them
to
your
children
and
youth
so
that
they
may
make
choices
for
their
future
together
in
service
to
God’s
church
in
the
world.
Blessings,
The
Calling
Congregations
Staff
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Why
This
Work
Matters
The
strategy
we
are
contemplating
in
this
model
grows
out
of
a
certain
history
and
context.
Since
1954,
FTE
has
supported
the
development
of
the
next
generation
of
leaders
for
the
church.
Since
its
inception,
FTE
has
made
financial
awards
and
provided
a
network
of
support
to
young
people
who
sense
a
call
to
pastoral
ministry.
We
have
implemented
many
different
programs
to
encourage
and
support
young
people
for
church
leadership,
but
our
core
mission
remains
the
same:
to
identify,
nurture
and
support
the
next
generation
of
gifted
leaders.
Our
means
and
methods
are
different
and
appropriately
so.
Every
generation’s
needs
must
be
met
in
the
particularity
of
their
time
and
place.
And
the
world
today
is
not
quite
exactly
as
it
was
in
1954.
So
where
were
these
bright,
gifted,
faithful
young
people
–
people
who
want
to
serve
the
church
–
to
be
found?
In
the
late
1990s,
Lilly
Endowment
Inc.
(the
Endowment)
made
large
strategic
investments
in
places
where
they
believed
young
people
could
be
influenced
to
consider
ministry:
high
school
youth
programs
and
college
programs.
From
2002-‐2005,
FTE
broadened
its
focus
beyond
the
individual
to
include
communities
of
faith
in
which
young
people
formed
Christian
identity
and
learned
to
listen
for
God’s
call,
particularly
asking
how
to
put
the
question
of
calling
the
next
generation
of
leaders
before
congregations.
And
FTE
and
the
Endowment
began
to
explore
how
to
put
the
question
of
calling
the
next
generation
of
leaders
before
congregations.
(Watch
the
Why
Us,
Why
Now
video
and
other
videos
of
church
leaders
sharing
their
stories
about
this
important
work
at
http://vimeo.com/channels/vocationcare#6930423.)
One
of
our
underlying
assumptions
has
been
that
the
question
of
ministry
is
embedded
within
a
larger
question
of
vocation.
If
young
people
were
taught
to
ask
“What
am
I
to
do
with
my
life
–
my
whole
life
–
in
light
of
my
faith?”
or
“What
is
my
part
in
God’s
dream?”
the
question
of
whether
those
young
people
have
been
called
to
ministry
might
become
more
clear.
In
1969,
Frederick
Buechner,
one
of
the
very
first
FTE
Trial
Year
Fellows,
wrote
an
essay
entitled
“The
Calling
of
Voices.”
Buechner
writes
that
although
we
talk
about
choosing
a
vocation,
it
is
at
least
as
accurate
to
talk
about
a
vocation
choosing
us,
of
a
call
being
given
and
of
us
hearing
or
not
hearing,
listening
or
not
listening,
responding
or
not
responding.
We
think
of
our
work
–
your
work
–
as
creating
space
for
the
hearing
and
practices
of
listening
and
pathways
to
responding.
This
is
necessary
work
because
it
is
not
easy
to
hear
and
listen,
much
less
to
respond.
When
Buechner
wrote
this
essay
40
years
ago,
he
cautioned
us
that
the
call
is
hard
to
hear:
The
danger
is
that
there
are
so
many
voices,
and
all
in
their
ways
sound
so
promising.
The
danger
is
that
you
will
not
listen
to
the
voices
that
speak
to
you
through
the
seagull
mounting
the
gray
wind,
say,
or
the
vision
in
the
temple,
that
you
do
not
listen
to
the
voice
inside
you
or
to
the
voice
that
speaks
from
outside
but
specifically
to
you
out
of
the
specific
events
of
your
life,
but
that
instead
you
listen
to
the
great
blaring,
boring,
banal
voice
of
our
mass
culture,
which
threatens
to
deafen
us
all
by
blasting
forth
that
the
only
thing
that
really
matters
about
your
work
is
how
much
it
will
get
you
in
the
way
of
salary
and
status.1
1
Frederick
Buechner,
Secrets
in
the
Dark:
A
Life
in
Sermons,
(New
York:
Harpers
Collins,
2006),
p.
35.
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The
“great
blaring,
boring,
banal
voice
of
our
mass
culture”
is
loud.
When
Buechner
spoke
these
words,
there
were
only
three
networks
on
television
and
no
remote
control,
the
coolest
kids
had
transistor
radios
and
the
places
to
shop
were
closed
on
Sunday
–
before
the
Internet,
MTV,
24-‐hour
movies
on
demand,
i-‐everything
and
mass
merchandizing
to
teenagers.
How
much
harder
is
it
to
listen
now?
How
much
harder
is
it
to
hear
what
Howard
Thurman
calls
the
“sound
of
the
genuine?”
In
a
speech
by
that
name,
Thurman
says,
"There
is
something
in
every
one
of
you
that
waits
and
listens
for
the
sound
of
the
genuine
in
yourself.
It
is
the
only
true
guide
you
will
ever
have.
And
if
you
cannot
hear
it,
you
will
all
of
your
life
spend
your
days
on
the
ends
of
strings
that
somebody
else
pulls."2
Our
world
desperately
needs
people
who
don’t
spend
their
lives
on
the
ends
of
strings
somebody
else
pulls.
We
live
at
a
hinge
point
in
history.
Technology
challenges
what
it
means
to
be
human,
earth’s
survival
is
imperiled,
and
the
definition
and
structure
of
church
is
constantly
changing.
You
don’t
need
convincing
that
at
this
hinge
point
in
history
the
world
cries
out
for
good,
creative
faithful
and
smart
leaders
to
respond
to
its
needs,
and
the
young
people
in
our
care
are
at
risk
of
not
hearing,
not
listening
and
not
responding.
What
if
young
people
were
taught
to
ask
“What
am
I
to
do
with
my
life
–
my
whole
life
–
in
light
of
my
faith?”
or
“What
is
my
part
in
God’s
dream
of
Shalom?”
We
think
the
question
of
whether
I
am
called
to
ministry,
embedded
in
the
call
of
vocation
issued
to
all
the
baptized,
might
more
easily
be
heard.
We
think
of
our
work
–
your
work
in
this
six-‐week
curriculum
and
afterward
–
as
creating
space
for
hearing,
learning
the
practices
of
listening
and
opening
up
pathways
for
responding.
Therefore,
we
come
to
this
moment
in
time,
to
meet
this
call,
rejoicing
in
the
abundance
of
resources
we
have
and
the
blessedness
of
our
own
limitations.
We
don’t
have
time
to
waste.
Our
children
need
us.
The
church’s
future
and
the
needs
of
our
society
depend
on
us.
So
let
us
share
in
this
work
together
of
leading
new
generations,
and
those
yet
born,
to
respond
to
the
call
and
to
change
the
world.
2
Excerpt
from
Dr.
Howard
Thurman’s
Baccalaureate
Address
–
Spelman
College,
May
4,
1980.
Edited
by
Jo
Moore
Stewart,
Editor
of
the
Spelman
Messenger.
-6-‐
Overview
Purpose:
To
explore
why
we
care
about
Christian
vocation
and
the
call
to
ministry,
and
how
your
congregation
can
support
the
emerging
vocation
of
every
Christian
(young
people,
in
particular).
The
goal
of
this
work
is
to
create
a
“culture
of
call”
within
the
congregation
that
helps
notice,
name
and
nurture
the
next
generation
of
pastoral
leaders,
and
cultivate
a
growing
network
of
congregations
that
support
one
another
in
that
cause.
Method:
To
explore
why
you
should
care
about
vocation
by
practicing
Vocation
CARE
practices,
and
to
learn
how
to
prepare
a
congregation
to
practice.
1.
To
explore
why
you
care
about
vocation
by
engaging
the
following
VoCARE
practices:
C
-‐
create
a
space
to
explore
Christian
vocation;
A
-‐
ask
self-‐awakening
questions;
R
-‐
reflect
theologically
on
self
and
community;
and
E
-‐
establish
ways
to
Enact
support
for
vocation
with
young
people
in
our
congregation.
The
first
two
meetings
of
the
curriculum
are
devoted
to
the
practice
of
creating
an
intergenerational
space
to
explore
vocation
space
by
clarifying
what
we
mean
and
providing
steps
for
how
to
do
that.
In
the
next
meeting,
you
will
explore
what
the
words
“Christian
vocation”
and
“call”
mean
and,
with
some
common
understanding,
explore
what
they
mean
to
your
members
(personally
and
as
a
congregation).
Specifically,
why
you
should
care
about
call
and
vocation.
2.
How
to
prepare
a
congregation
to
practice
Vocation
CARE.
In
order
for
your
congregation
to
practice
VoCARE,
you
will
have
to
prepare.
Members,
young
and
old,
will
want
to
know
what
you
are
inviting
them
to
do,
why
you
are
personally
invested
in
vocation
care
and
why
they
should
also
be
invested.
(Consider
watching
the
Why
Us,
Why
Now
video
and
other
videos
of
church
leaders
sharing
their
stories
about
this
important
work
at
http://vimeo.com/channels/vocationcare#6930423.)
Many
congregations
will
support
young
people
in
the
church,
so
invite
young
church
leaders
to
be
on
your
intergenerational
VoCARE
leadership
team.
Your
team
must
utilize
their
leadership
and
voices
in
making
announcements
and
appeals
in
worship
services
and
having
one-‐on-‐one
conversations
with
people
to
invite
them
to
participate
in
the
six-‐week
VoCARE
curriculum.
We
know
it’s
a
challenge
to
convince
church
members
why
this
is
important
–
why
they
should
get
involved
in
yet
another
church
ministry.
We
are
suggesting
that
you
engage
a
particular
leadership
curriculum
that
builds
the
capacity
of
your
VoCARE
Leadership
Team
to
identify,
recruit
and
develop
leadership
through
the
art
of
storytelling.
It
is
a
practice
that
brings
people
together;
challenges
and
mobilizes
them
to
exercise
their
responsibility
to
act
on
behalf
of
their
shared
convictions
about
noticing,
naming
and
nurturing
vocation
and
call
with
young
people
in
congregations.
-7-‐
This
six-‐week
leadership
curriculum
will
serve
as
a
guide
for
you
to
find
shared
leadership
and
participation
in
this
ministry
by
helping
you
to
identify
other
members
who
are
motivated,
inspired
and
committed.
Why
Storytelling?
We
tell
stories
because
our
lives
are
inherently
storied.
Within
each
person
there
are
many
little
stories
longing
to
be
shared
as
expressions
of
our
own
meaning,
making
and
purpose
–
our
vocation
or
call
–
in
the
world.
We
narrate
our
lives
between
birth
and
death
through
stories.
We
retell
our
stories
as
a
means
of
making
sense
of
our
lives;
understanding
our
identity
and
values;
discovering
our
gifts
and
passions;
and
interpreting
our
lives
in
light
of
the
Christian
story
of
God’s
healing
work
in
the
world
through
the
life
and
teachings
of
Jesus.
Stories
invite
others
into
our
lives
to
learn
about
our
journeys
and
make
connections
that
resonate
with
their
own
stories.
They
also
are
a
means
for
building
relationships
and
solidarity
among
the
community
of
Christians
participating
in
this
curriculum.
Therefore,
we
tell
stories
throughout
this
curriculum
primarily
for
two
reasons:
1) Jesus
told
stories
as
a
means
to
teach,
to
communicate
what
he
valued
and
to
invite
others
who
shared
his
values
to
follow
him
as
disciples
and
leaders
of
a
movement
first
known
as
the
Way.
2) Our
Christian
and
congregational
identities
are
part
of
a
larger
Christian
story.
We
tell
and
enact
stories
through
denominational
and
church
traditions,
symbols,
rituals
and
liturgy
that
help
us
make
sense
of
our
Christian-‐ness—our
particular
way
of
being
Christ’s
body
in
the
world.
How
is
storytelling
used
differently
in
the
VoCARE
and
Leadership
Curriculums?
In
the
Six-‐Week
Vocation
CARE
Curriculum,
you
will
share
stories
as
a
means
for
making
sense
of
your
life,
understanding
your
identity,
and
interpreting
your
lives,
gifts
and
purpose
through
a
theological
lens.
Stories
are
used
to
build
relationships
and
solidarity
among
the
community
of
disciples
participating
in
the
curriculum.
Through
our
stories,
we
teach
what
we
value
in
hopes
that
others
will
identify
with
us
toward
a
committed
practice
of
vocation
care.
In
the
Leadership
Curriculum,
you
will
share
stories
in
purposeful
ways
in
hopes
of
recruiting
people
to
join
your
VoCARE
Leadership
Team
who
share
similar
convictions
about
the
care
of
vocation.
Your
leadership
teams
will
share
stories
in
hopes
of
identifying
congregational
members
who
share
similar
values
and
who
will
participate
in
the
six-‐week
VoCARE
curriculum.
We
assume
that
there
are
at
least
four
underlying
convictions
at
work
among
those
leading
and
participating
in
the
curriculum:
1. All
Christians
are
called
by
God
and
have
a
vocation;
that
is,
a
way
to
participate
in
God’s
saving
work
in
the
world
2. The
consistent
witness
of
Scripture
and
our
own
experiences
tell
us
that
discernment
of
call
and
vocation
(care
for
vocation)
is
done
in
the
company
of
others
-8-‐
3. God
calls
the
church
to
listen
together
for
God’s
call
and
to
support
one
another
in
faithful
action
and
response
4. Congregations
are
called
to
reclaim
practices
of
vocation
care
and
practice
them
with
their
young
people
Why
a
Particular
Story
Structure?
Stories
teach
our
hearts
and
offer
an
empathetic
appeal
among
listeners.
Through
our
stories,
we
teach
what
we
value—revealed
by
the
choices
we
have
made—and
hope
that
others
will
identify
with
those
values.
You
will
practice
structuring
the
“My/Your/Our
Story”
to
probe
for
a
deeper
and
shared
understanding.
The
self-‐awakening
questions
and
your
reflections
together
will
lead
to
a
fuller
understanding
of
why
your
congregation
cares
about
vocation.
When
your
congregation
understands
why
“my/your/our”
congregation
cares
about
vocation,
and
the
need
to
intentionally
cultivate
cultures
from
which
future
pastoral
leaders
will
emerge,
we
can
translate
why
into
what
–
into
action.
By
your
final
meeting,
when
you
understand
why
you
care
about
Christian
vocation
and
call,
then
your
congregation
can
take
the
next
steps
to
notice,
name
and
nurture
vocation
in
every
member
(and
emerging
vocations
or
pastoral
call
of
young
people,
in
particular).
That
is
one
purpose
of
the
congregational
retreat,
the
sixth
VoCARE
meeting.
The
other
is
to
celebrate
your
season
of
care
for
each
other
and
the
company
of
the
Holy
Spirit
on
your
exploration
of
God’s
call.
-9-‐
The
Six-‐Week
VoCARE
Curriculum
at
a
Glance
Week
1:
Create
a
Space
-‐
Vocation
Care
Practice
Objectives:
o What’s
at
stake
for
local
congregations
in
proactively
creating
a
“culture
of
call,”
and
the
need
to
cultivate
future
pastoral
leaders
in
particular
o Overview,
Purpose,
Goals,
People,
Timeline
and
Practices
o Touchstones
–
“a
different
quality
of
space
and
the
norms
within
it”
o Holy
Listening
–
“listening
in
a
posture
of
expectancy
and
honor”
o Testimony
–
“telling
the
truth
of
our
lives
out
loud”
o “My
Stories”
and
“Your
Stories”
Practice:
o A
conversation
about
vocation
care
and
beginning
to
tell
“My
Stories”
and
hear
“Your
Stories”
as
a
“story
space”
to
explore
vocation
Question:
Speak
of
a
time
when
someone
took
you
and
your
gifts
seriously
and
you
knew
they
did.
Week
2:
Create
a
Space
–
Language
of
Call
and
Story
Objectives:
o Understanding
Vocation
Care,
the
Season
of
Practice
and
our
conversations
o Understanding
the
Language
–
“call”
and
“vocation”
o “My/Your
Story”
with
language
of
call
and
vocation
o “My/Your
Story”
with
a
story
of
challenge,
choice
and
outcome
Practice:
o A
conversation
about
My
Story/Your
Story–the
name,
form
and
purpose
Question:
Share
a
moment
in
your
life
when
you
felt
“called”
by
God,
felt
you
knew
your
“purpose/passion
in
life”
or
a
time
when
you
felt
most
fully
alive
and
in
“full
bloom.”
Week
3:
Ask
Self-‐Awakening
Questions
–
Challenge,
Choice
and
Outcome
Objectives:
o Developing
the
“My
Story”
with
challenge,
choice
and
outcome
o Asking
“who,
what
and
why”
questions
at
choice
points
to
reveal
values
o Asking
self-‐awakening
questions
about
“Your
Story”
(companion
coaching)
Practice:
o A
conversation
about
“My
Story/Your
Story”—a
deeper
exploration
Questions:
Share
a
moment
in
your
life
when
you
felt
“called”
by
God
or
felt
you
knew
your
“purpose/passion
in
life,”
or
a
time
when
you
felt
“alive
and
in
full
bloom.”
Who
else
played
a
role?
What
challenge(s)
did
you
face?
What
did
you
do?
Why?
Where
did
you
find
support?
-10-‐
Week
4:
Reflect
Theologically
on
Self
and
Community
–
Our
Stories
Objectives:
o Reflecting
theologically
about
the
vocation
care
stories
in
our
congregation
o Making
commitments
to
have
conversations
“outside”
VoCARE
participants
o Practicing
for
the
“outside
conversations”
o Bridging
from
My
Stories
and
Your
Stories
to
“Our
Stories”
Practice:
o A
conversation
about
Our
Stories—vocation
care
stories
in
our
congregation
Questions:
Why
should
we
invite
others
to
tell
their
My
Story?
Who
will
we
invite
and
how
should
we
invite
them
into
this
conversation?
Week
5:
Reflect
Theologically
on
Self
and
Community
–
Vocation
Care
in
Our
Congregation’s
Story
Objectives:
o Debrief
the
“outside
conversations”
o Develop
the
“Our
Story”
o Reflect
theologically
on
our
stories
with
Looking
For
God
Always
o Look
toward
establishing
ministry
opportunities
to
care
for
vocation
o Continue
the
“outside
conversations”
to
expand
the
Our
Story,
listening
for
shared
experience
to
support
vocation
care
in
our
congregation
Practice:
o A
conversation
about
vocation
care
in
Our
Story—the
emerging
story
Questions:
What
are
we
learning
about
vocation
care
in
our
congregation
through
our
“outside
conversations?”
How
might
God
be
calling
us
through
our
stories
to
respond
in
action?
Week
6:
Establishing
Ministry
Opportunities
Care
for
Vocation:
Our
Congregation’s
Next
Steps
Objectives:
o Develop
the
Our
Story
of
vocation
care
through
an
Open
Space
action
retreat
o A
congregational
conversation
about
our
call
to
care
for
vocation
o How
might
God
be
calling
us
now
to
notice,
name
and
nurture
call
and
vocation
in
our
congregation
and
with
our
young
people?
-‐ Visit
www.callingcongregations.org
to
explore
practical
ways
congregations
can
support
ministry
engagement
with
young
people
Practice:
o A
conversation
about
Our
Story
of
vocation
care
now
and
next
faithful
steps
Questions:
What
are
we
called
now
to
do?
What
is
our
next
faithful
action
step
to
care
for
vocation
with
young
people
in
our
congregation?
-11-‐
Week
1:
Create
a
Space—
Vocation
Care
Practices
Suggestions
for
Week
1
Faith
Reflections:
Create
a
Space
to
Explore
Vocation
• Can’t
do
better
than
Mary
and
Martha
(Luke
10:38-‐42;
John
12:1-‐3)
Getting
Started
(17
min)
1. Introductions
-‐
Who
is
here?
What
calls
us
here?
a. Share
your
name
and
a
reflection
in
1-‐2
brief
sentences
on
this
question:
• What
is
your
hope
for
this
time
together
with
your
congregation?
b. Introduce
the
leadership
team
2. Purpose,
Goals,
Timeline
a. Name
the
process
moving
toward
faithful
response
to
this
question:
• What
are
we
called
now
to
do
to
notice,
name
and
nurture
vocation
in
every
Christian,
and
young
people,
in
particular?
Purpose:
To
explore
why
we
care
about
Christian
vocation
and
the
call
to
ministry
and
how
our
congregation
will
support
emerging
vocation
of
every
Christian,
and
young
people,
in
particular.
We
will
explore
vocation
by:
a) Taking
time
to
be
together
for
six
gatherings;
b) Developing
new
and
deeper
relationships
among
We
want
to
know
what
makes
us
members;
care
about
Christian
vocation
and
c) Telling
stories
that
use
the
language
of
vocation
the
call
to
ministry,
and
know
and
communicate
why
that
matters
to
us;
and
what
we
want
to
do
about
it
on
d) To
make
choices
about
how
we
may
be
called
to
faithful
response
in
action. behalf
of
the
next
generation
of
leaders
for
the
church.
-12-‐
The
assumption
is
that
every
Over
these
next
weeks,
we
will
explore
why
we
care
about
vocation
by
practicing
Vocation
CARE.
Christian
is
called
by
God
and
has
a
Christian
vocation—a
life
What
is
Vocation
CARE?
to
be
lived
in
faithful
response
Notice,
Name,
Nurture:
Vocation
CARE—or,
simply,
to
God’s
call
to
follow
Christ
VoCARE—is
a
series
of
six
gatherings
in
which
our
Jesus
and
join
his
redeeming
congregation
will
explore
Christian
vocation
and
call
and
work
in
the
world.
practice
caring
for
vocation
in
ourselves
and
each
other.
We
understand
that
while
it
is
God
who
calls
us,
there
is
an
important
role
for
others—the
congregation
of
God’s
people—in
how
we
hear
that
call
and
seek
faithful
response.
By
“Vocation
CARE,”
we
mean
how
congregations
notice,
name
and
nurture
vocation
together—
how
to
explore
and
support
vocation
in
every
Christian.
Vocation
CARE
means
caring
about
vocation—our
own
and
others.
At
every
stage
of
life’s
journey,
questions
of
meaning
and
purpose
in
life
are
important,
and
the
role
of
trustworthy
companions
on
this
journey
is
critical.
For
our
children,
youth
and
young
adults,
a
“companioned
walk”
supporting
emerging
vocation
at
a
time
when
it
is
tender,
tentative
and
under
attack
is
even
more
pressing.
How
do
congregations
care
well
for
vocation?
There
are
patterns
we
call
CARE
practices—that
is,
the
acronym
CARE
which
stands
for:
C
-‐
create
a
space
to
explore
Christian
vocation;
A
-‐
ask
self-‐awakening
questions;
R
-‐
reflect
theologically
on
self
and
community;
and
E
-‐
establish
ways
to
Enact
support
for
vocation
with
young
people
in
our
congregation.
At
the
heart
of
all
Vocation
CARE
practices
are
relationships
and
in
this
Season
of
CARE,
we
will
devote
a
lot
of
time
to
conversations
with
one
another
in
this
group.
We
will
explore
why
we
care
about
vocation
in
the
Vocation
CARE
practices.
The
“core
practice”
of
Vocation
CARE
is
a
conversation
or
what
we
will
call
“vocation
conversation.”
Like
all
spiritual
disciplines,
they
are
practiced
with
care
and
attention
to
one
another
and
the
Spirit
of
God
moving
in
our
midst.
(HANDOUT:
What
are
Vocation
Conversations)
Our
journey
together
“on
vocation”
may
remind
you
of
the
long
conversation
Jesus
had
with
the
disciples,
tending
vocation
together
as
they
learned
how
to
join
the
work
of
bringing
the
Kingdom
of
Heaven
near
in
faithful
action,
what
they
had
been
called
to
do.
Recognizing
and
Thanking
the
VoCARE
Leadership
Team
A
leadership
team
from
our
congregation
has
been
working
for
some
time
to
create
a
space
to
explore
vocation
care
together
in
our
congregation.
They
have
coordinated
all
arrangements
for
our
weekly
meetings.
They
have
also
recruited
and
trained
new
leadership
in
the
preceding
months
-13-‐
leading
up
to
our
weekly
gatherings.
They
each
felt
called
to
this
work
and
have
served
the
team
and
our
shared
call
wonderfully.
We
can
thank
God
for
them,
their
energy
and
their
gifts.
What,
When
and
Where
Over
the
Next
Six
Weeks
Between
now
and
the
congregational
retreat,
there
will
be
five
weekly
meetings
lasting
90
minutes
to
two
hours
to
be
held
on
____________________
(day
of
the
week)
at
_________
(time)
in
___________________________
(location).
The
sixth
and
final
meeting
will
be
a
congregational
retreat
on
___________________________
(date/time/location).
This
is
when
our
congregation
will
answer
the
following
question:
What
is
our
next
most
faithful
action
to
notice,
name
and
nurture
vocation
with
young
people?
Participants
in
VoCARE
will
have
three
conversations
with
a
VoCARE
Partner
during
the
first
three
meetings
and,
during
the
final
three
weeks
of
the
Season
of
Practice,
they
will
have
two
to
three
conversations
with
other
congregational
members.
The
Season
of
Practice
will
provide
weekly
leadership
opportunities
for
_________
(number
of)
people
not
part
of
the
leadership
team.
We
will
celebrate
the
end
of
our
journey
together
in
worship.
Overview
of
the
Six-‐Week
VoCARE
Curriculum
and
Timeline
The
first
two
weeks
are
devoted
to
the
practice
of
creating
a
space
to
explore
vocation
by
clarifying
what
vocation
care
means.
The
next
time
we
meet,
we
will
explore
what
the
words
“Christian
vocation”
and
“call”
mean
and,
with
some
common
understanding,
we
will
turn
to
exploring
what
they
mean
to
us
(personally
and
as
a
congregation);
specifically,
why
we
care
about
call
and
vocation.
In
the
remaining
weeks,
we
will
learn
to
tell
a
story
structured
to
reveal
what
vocation
CARE
means
to
us,
both
separately
and
as
a
whole
congregation.
The
story
that
tells
why
I/you/we
care
about
vocation
moves
like
conjugating
a
verb;
My
Story,
Your
Story,
Our
Story
about
why
it
matters.
We
practice
structuring
the
My/Your/Our
stories
many
times,
probing
for
deeper
understanding.
The
self-‐awakening
questions
and
our
reflections
together
on
My/Your/Our
stories
in
each
telling
of
the
stories
weave
together
and
lead
to
a
fuller
understanding
of
why
my/your/our
congregation
cares
about
vocation.
When
we
know
why
we
care,
we
can
translate
why
into
what—into
action.
By
our
final
meeting,
when
we
know
why
we
care
about
Christian
vocation
and
call,
then
we
can
establish
the
next
most
faithful
steps
to
notice,
name
and
nurture
vocation
in
every
member
and
the
emerging
vocations
of
young
people,
in
particular.
That
is
one
purpose
of
the
congregational
retreat,
the
sixth
VoCARE
meeting.
The
other
is
to
celebrate
our
Season
of
CARE
for
each
other
and
the
company
of
the
Holy
Spirit
on
our
exploration
of
God’s
call
and
Christian
vocations
together.
-14-‐
VoCARE
Timeline
Week
1:
Create
a
space
to
explore
Date
Week
2:
Create
space
in
language
and
story
Date
Week
3:
Create
space,
story,
ask
questions
Date
Week
4:
Create
space,
story,
ask
questions,
and
invite
Date
other
stories
Week
5:
Create
space,
story,
ask
questions,
and
reflect
Date
together
Week
6
Retreat:
Create
space,
ask
questions,
reflect
and
Date
establish/enact
The
small
intergenerational
groups
of
four
to
six
people
you
are
with
now
(you
will
be
assigned
after
today)
are
the
groups
you
will
remain
with
for
the
six
meetings.
Note:
Say
what
guided
your
groupings,
if
applicable.
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Introducing
the
Practice:
C
–
Create
a
space
of
being
and
doing
to
explore
(15
minutes)
“This
room
is
just
a
room
until
we
create
a
space
by
our
presence
and
practice
in
it.”
Touchstones,
Holy
Listening
and
Testimony
are
Vocation
CARE
practices
that
create
a
space
to
explore
vocation
by
creating
a
unique
quality
of
space
together.
We
create
the
“space”
itself
by
our
presence
and
these
practices.
Over
time,
the
practices
shape
our
openness
to
one
another
and
to
the
Holy
Spirit.
Touchstones
Touchstones
for
creating
hospitable
space
are
a
number
of
“agreements”
or
covenants
we
make
about
how
we
will
“show
up”—you
might
say—when
we
are
together;
they
are
inner
and
outer
disciplines
to
enact
welcome
and
honor
for
each
person
present.
QUOTE
FOR
THE
WEEK
When
we
“rehearse”
them
over
time,
Touchstones
prepare
us
for
We
cannot
change
the
the
role
of
trustworthy
companions
with
whom
to
wonder
together
world
by
a
new
plan,
about
who
we
are
created
by
God
to
be
and
what
we
are
called
to
project
or
idea.
We
cannot
do.
We
will
rehearse
these
Touchstones
each
time
we
meet—to
even
change
other
people
create
our
space.
by
our
convictions,
stories,
advice
and
proposals,
but
Holy
Listening
and
Testimony
we
can
offer
a
space
where
In
the
Season
of
Vocation
CARE,
Holy
Listening
and
Testimony
invite
people
are
encouraged
to
us
to
slow
down,
take
a
good
look
around,
tell
the
truth
of
our
lives
disarm
themselves,
lay
aside
their
occupations
and
out
loud
to
another
person
who
will
hear
and
honor
that
truth.
preoccupations
and
listen
with
attention
and
care
to
As
we
use
it
here,
“Testimony”
means
honest
talk
about
one’s
life
the
voices
speaking
at
their
experiences,
all
the
stories
that
give
meaning
to
our
lives.
own
center.
Holy
Listening
is
hearing
another’s
truth
with
an
attitude
of
care
and
Henri
Nouwen,
Quoted
in
the
expectation—leaning
in.
Exquisite
Risk
by
Mark
Nepo
The
two
practices
together
are
a
practice
of
Christian
hospitality,
a
mutual
invitation
to
slow
down,
to
be
both
hosted
and
host
to
our
emerging
vocations.
As
the
Quaker
Douglas
Steere
writes,
“To
listen
to
another’s
soul
into
a
condition
of
disclosure
and
discovery
may
be
the
greatest
service
that
any
human
being
ever
performs
for
another.”
Touchstones,
Holy
Listening
and
Testimony
create
a
space
to
explore
vocation,
or
a
space
of
being.
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Small
Group
Practice
(40
min)
1. Introduce
Touchstones
• Review
the
Touchstones
in
each
group
(HANDOUT:
Touchstones)
• Discuss
among
yourselves
- Which
of
the
touchstones
seems
most
obvious
or
natural?
- Which
is
most
difficult?
Why?
- What
would
it
take
to
overcome
the
difficulty?
• Large
Group
• Debrief
as
group
(5
min)
- Was
there
consensus
in
any
group?
- Ask
for
examples
from
a
few
people.
“It
will
be
our
practice
to
revisit
the
Touchstones
each
time
we
meet
to
create
our
space
to
be
together
to
explore
vocation.”
2. Small
Group
Practice
• Introduce
Holy
Listening
and
Testimony
(see
script
above
on
Holy
Listening)
- We
are
going
to
practice
Holy
Listening
and
Testimony
now.
• Turn
to
someone
in
your
group;
arrange
yourselves
in
pairs.
Let
me
know
if
anyone
does
not
have
a
partner.
• Decide
now
who
will
speak
first.
In
a
moment,
we
will
take
a
moment
of
silence
together,
and
then
one
of
you
will
take
a
deep
breath,
and
begin
to
speak
for
two
minutes.
I
will
keep
time
and
stop
you
at
two
minutes
• First
Speakers—Speak
about
a
time
when
someone
took
you
and
your
gifts
seriously.
A
time
when
someone
took
you
and
your
gifts
seriously,
and
you
knew
it.
Don’t
worry
about
the
perfect
story.
You
do
not
have
to
worry
about
sounding
smart
or
about
having
a
beginning,
middle
and
end.
Just
speak
the
words
that
come
from
your
soul.
Pretend
you
have
all
the
time
in
the
world.
I’ll
stop
you
after
two
minutes.
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• First
Listeners—you
will
only
listen.
You
don’t
have
to
think
about
what
you
are
going
to
say.
You
are
a
calm
presence,
waiting
expectantly
to
hear
what
emerges—leaning
in.
Pretend
you
have
all
the
time
in
the
world.
After
two
minutes
I
will
stop
you.
• Begin.
(Set
timer
for
2
minutes)
• What
did
it
feel
like
to
speak,
uninterrupted?
What
did
it
feel
like
to
listen?
Was
it
hard
to
find
something
to
say?
Was
it
hard
to
focus
on
the
speaker?
Did
two
minutes
feel
like
a
luxury?
Did
you
receive
one
small
whiff
of
what
it
would
be
like
to
have
someone
listen
as
if
they
had
all
the
time
in
the
world?
Switch
roles.
Now
we
give
the
other
person
a
turn—speakers
will
be
listeners.
• Repeat
instructions
for
both;
prepare
to
stop
them
at
2
minites.
Debrief
Practice
(15
min)
Did
it
feel
any
different?
Were
there
a
few
more
clues?
Could
you
imagine
yourself
listening
in
this
way
to
a
child?
Think
of
a
child,
a
teen
or
a
young
adult
you
know—a
real
person—and
imagine
for
a
minute,
a
time
and
a
place
where
this
kind
of
listening
might
happen.
Hard
to
imagine
or
easy?
“For
the
next
six
weeks
in
this
Season
of
Vocation
CARE,
we
will
practice
creating
this
kind
of
space—this
way
of
being
present
to
and
with
one
another
and
the
‘Eternal
Listener,’
as
we
explore
vocation
together.”
Closing
(5
min)
Next
Steps
(2
minutes)
1. Assign
participants
to
small
groups
of
four
to
six
(no
more;
a
smaller
group
is
better
than
a
larger
group).
2. Before
we
leave,
we
want
to
be
sure
that
everyone
has
a
clear
sense
of
what
the
four
Vocation
CARE
practices
are
and
what
to
expect
over
the
next
weeks
we
are
together.
3. Today
we
practiced:
a. Creating
a
space
to
be
with
each
other—Touchstones
b. Creating
a
space
to
explore
by
sharing
our
stories
c. Both
Testimony
and
Holy
Listening,
balancing
roles
d. Creating
a
different
quality
of
space
between
us
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Announcements
(1
minute)
1. Invite
volunteers
to
join
the
leader
Team-‐of-‐the-‐Week
for
next
time;
stay
for
reflection
and
evaluation
(10
min)
and
one
meeting
during
the
week
2. Reminder:
Evaluation
of
today's
meeting
after
3. Other
announcements
Closing
Prayer
(1
minute)
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Vocation
Conversation
–
What
it
Is
and
is
Not
HANDOUT
VoCARE
conversations
are
“a
space”
of
trusted
companionship
in
which
to
bring
the
other
CARE
practices—Ask
self-‐awakening
questions,
Reflect
theologically
on
self
and
community,
and
Establish
ministry,
the
movement
to
faithful
response
in
action.
The
questions
and
reflections
we
share
together
in
conversations
are
a
kind
of
mutual
“coaching”
for
purposes
of
clarity
and
deeper
meaning
in
our
My/Your/Our
Story.
As
practiced
in
VoCARE,
conversations
are
face-‐to-‐face
meetings
in
which
two
or
more
people
explore
call
and
Christian
vocations
in
the
stories
of
their
lives
and
experiences.
Our
spiritual
practices
are
VoCARE
conversations,
Touchstones,
Testimony
and
Holy
Listening.
In
a
relationship
of
mutual
mentoring—that
is,
as
companions
together
on
a
journey
to
understanding
and
meaning,
learning
together
what
cannot
be
known
alone—we
wonder
out
loud
together
and
in
the
presence
of
the
Holy
Listener.
What
a
Vocation
conversation
Is
-‐-‐
What
Vocation
Conversation
is
Not
-‐-‐
-‐ a meeting in public -‐ a private meeting, behind closed doors
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Touchstones
for
Creating
Hospitable
Space
HANDOUT
(Adapted
from
The
Center
for
Courage
and
Renewal)
Be
100
percent
present,
extending
and
presuming
welcome.
Set
aside
the
usual
distractions
of
things
undone
from
yesterday,
things
to
do
tomorrow.
Welcome
others
into
this
place
and
presume
you
are
welcome
as
well.
Listen
deeply.
Listen
intently
to
what
is
said,
listen
to
feelings
beneath
the
words.
As
Quaker
Douglas
Steere
writes,
“To
listen
another’s
soul
into
life,
into
a
condition
of
disclosure
and
discovery,
may
be
almost
the
greatest
service
that
any
human
being
ever
performs
for
another.”
It
is
never
“share
or
die.”
You
will
be
invited
to
share
in
pairs,
small
groups
and
in
a
large
circle.
The
invitation
is
exactly
that.
You
will
determine
the
extent
to
which
you
want
to
participate.
No
fixing.
We
are
not
here
to
set
someone
else
straight
or
to
help
right
another’s
wrong.
We
are
here
to
witness
to
God’s
movement
in
the
sacred
stories
we
share.
Suspend
judgment.
Set
aside
your
judgments.
By
creating
a
space
between
judgments
and
reactions,
we
can
listen
to
another
person,
and
to
ourselves,
more
fully.
Identify
assumptions.
By
identifying
our
assumptions,
which
are
usually
transparent,
we
can
set
them
aside
and
open
the
sharing
and
learning
to
greater
possibilities.
Speak
your
truth.
You
are
invited
to
say
what
is
in
your
heart,
trusting
that
your
voice
will
be
heard
and
your
contribution
respected.
A
helpful
practice
is
to
use
“I”
statements.
Practice
confidentiality
care.
We
create
a
safe
space
by
respecting
the
nature
and
content
of
stories
shared.
If
anyone
asks
that
a
story
shared
be
kept
in
confidence,
the
group
will
honor
that
request.
Turn
to
wonder.
If
you
find
yourself
disagreeing
with
another,
becoming
judgmental,
or
shutting
down
in
defense,
try
turning
to
wonder:
“I
wonder
what
brought
her
to
this
place?”
“I
wonder
what
my
reaction
teaches
me?”
“I
wonder
what
he’s
feeling
right
now?”
-21-‐
Our
Mission
The
Fund
for
Theological
Education
advocates
excellence
and
diversity
in
pastoral
ministry
and
theological
scholarship.
Through
our
initiatives,
we
enable
gifted
young
people
throughout
the
Christian
community
to
explore
and
respond
to
God’s
calling
in
their
lives.
We
seek
to
be
a
creative,
informed
catalyst
for
educational
and
faith
communities
in
developing
their
own
capacities
to
nurture
men
and
women
for
vocations
in
ministry
and
teaching.
We
also
aim
to
awaken
the
larger
community
to
the
contributions
of
pastoral
leaders
and
educators
who
act
with
faith,
imagination
and
courage
to
serve
the
common
good.
-22-‐