My name is Marginean Ioana, I am 24 years old, I am student at Socilogy and Social Assistance faculty,

Social Assistance specialization.

Chose this faculty, because I like working with the peoples, cooperate with they and help them to
solve their problems.
In the future I wold like to work as social assitance in public institution or not-guvernamentalorganization, because I know there are a lot of peoples which need those services (social services, material,
financial aid, and so on).

Motivation for choosing the diploma work

I have chosen this subject for the diploma work because I consider that its very important the
development of self esteem, in the emotive welfare and the social operation.
For children is very important to feel well with themselves in most of the time. Self esteem starts
taking profile in the early childhood and it has a psychological major role during the entire life.
In 70s were developed few researches related to children needs which reveal that the family
should assure few of their needs (Goldestein, Freud, Solnit, 1979), Roth (1999, pp16) named most
important needs: need for food, a place for live, need of education, need to identify their selves , need for
be accepted and appreciated.
All forms of neglect or abuse of children have psychological components and consequences,
Garbarino, Guttman and Seeley (1986 ) had Identified few components like: the feeling of undesired,
unworthy, unloved, inferiority feeling and self esteem diminishing.
Most of emotional peoples problems issues from a not good self esteem.
But what means a bad self esteem? Yes its a good question?
Self esteem means that you permanently need the approval of the peoples around you, you need
support all the time (this approach is also known as the mirror effect I love what I see in your eyes.
But how many efforts mast be done for get the respect and approval sight from other peoples, that
sight that makes us to feel well and comfortable with ourselves, we have to find power to move on when
the others dont share the same opinion like we do, many times is hard and can be tiresome to get all this
together.
The outcome could be sometime catastrophic for us because making favors for other peoples all
the time we often forget ourselves priorities, desires, in this way we could wander our lifes paths,
Lets take a closer look inside of ourselves, lets see what bring us the real pleasure and which
things we like to do, lets be free and start with our acceptance first!
If we wait for others to satisfy our needs (love) well be disappointed and frustrated because is our
problem in fact and we have to make the first step, As Oscar Wilde said: To love yourself is the start of a
love story which will last the whole life.
In a world searches and efforts of better, concerning to a personality truly efficient, cease to be a
problem of ephemera and perishable conjuncture, becoming one with maximal interest.