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As soon as you physically escalate, you ll get a momentum going that will make fut
ure escalations seem natural and effortless.
Keep your momentum going by keeping your touches overt and frequent.
Once you begin working your way up the ladder and building momentum, don t stop to
uching her or take a break!
When you slow down physically, your momentum slows down as well.
If you stop for too long, you ll lose your place on the ladder and have to start a
t the bottom again.
Once you start, don t stop and you ll be getting sexual with each other in no time.
Act Natural
Your physical escalations will happen simultaneously with the rest of your inter
action.
Most of the time you will be in deep conversation with her, working your way up
the ladder as you go.
Don t pause the conversation to touch her, just do it while talking.
Don t make it apparent that you re making a physical move. Act natural and continue
on as if nothing is happening.
Physical Rejection
If you move too quickly up the ladder, you may get a physical rejection.
For example, if you try to place your hand on her leg but you haven t built enough
physical momentum yet, she may move her leg away from your hand as soon as you
touch it.
This is completely involuntary on her part. She s not consciously thinking that sh
e doesn t want you to touch her, her body has just not warmed up to you in that wa
y yet and she subconsciously moves it away.
DO NOT make the rejection apparent!
Like I said, she s not even thinking about it, it s just natural.
If you pull your hand back quickly after this, it will show that you regret touc
hing her in that way and went back to defense mode. If you verbalize it or say, S
orry it will make the rejection apparent and now she s really feeling like she reje
cted you. If you make an embarrassed facial expression, it will show that you re e
motionally invested in the outcome.
If you get a physical rejection, just act like nothing happened.
You moved too fast, that s all.
Slow down, take a step back and work your way up again.
Go one step down the ladder and use those physical advances again until she s warm
ed up to you more.
When you think you re ready, make the physical advance again 10 minutes later and
Level 3:
7.Ass
8.Breasts
9.Inner Thighs and Vagina
In order to reach the next step or level of the ladder, you must first complete
the previous steps.
If you try to touch her legs in step 4 before you ve completed a prolonged touch t
o her upper back in step 3, you re likely to get a physical rejection.
Try to utilize the three methods of touch in each step in order to build enough
physical momentum to successfully move to the next step.
Be careful with the caressing though, make sure you have enough momentum built b
efore you start overtly caressing her or she may get a little bit nervous.
If you manage to skip a step and successfully pull off a physical escalation in
a later step, then all of the previous steps become unlocked for you.
She will be receptive to your touches from lower steps if you ve passed them alrea
dy.
For example, if you reach step 8, her whole body is pretty much fair game for yo
u except that listed in step 9.
So without further ado, I will now explain each level and each step in-depth and
tell you how to pull it off.
I ll start with mentioning eye contact and the hand shake and how it leads into le
vel 1, step 1.
with a woman, no
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meet eyes and b
a single word
I know that eye contact is not really a form of physical contact as there is no di
rect skin-to-skin contact going on, but it is very important and worth mentionin
g.
You will hold strong eye contact with her throughout the whole interaction.
This will make the rest of your physical escalations more effective and give her
a deep sense of having an emotional connection with you.
Hand Shake The hand shake is the first form of physical contact you will make. I
t is the easiest move to achieve and is even expected in pretty much all social
situations. You probably shake the hands of just about everybody you meet. If yo
u don t, you should.
When you shake a women s hand, reach out your right hand first. She will meet her
hand with yours, clasp her hand softly and pump two times.
The first step on the ladder involves touching her hands and arms.
You ve already started this step by giving her a handshake, now it s time to escalat
e.
Below I have listed examples of the touches involved in step one. Use these move
s to breeze through step one and build some physical momentum.
Remember to start with momentary touches before employing more prolonged touches
.
Step 1 Examples:
Brief touch on her forearm while making a point.
Lightly brushing her arm.
Sitting or standing close in a way that causes your arms to touch.
Pulling her into you by her arm to say something into her ear.
High fives.
Spinning her by her hand.
Feeling her bicep.
Reading her palms.
Asking her about a ring or bracelet, while holding her hand up to get a better v
iew.
Anchoring her arm around yours as you walk.
Holding hands.
Step 2 Shoulders
The second step involves touching her shoulders.
I feel that step 1 and 2 go hand in hand. Usually if she allows you access to he
r arms, she ll allow it to her shoulders as well.
they are likely to be in this level. That is what the physical momentum we buil
t in level 1 is for, allowing her to be more receptive to these more personal to
uches.
Try to employ the 3 methods of touch in each of the steps in this level.
When the mutual caressing is successfully taking place in one step, you know you r
e ready for the next step.
Move through this level slowly, work your way through each step and pull it off
smoothly in order to get to the third and final level.
Step 4
The fourth step involves touching her legs and feet. Her legs are much more pers
onal than her arms. You re more likely to get a physical rejection in this step.
Don t worry or even think about that and escalate anyway.
Remember, if you get a physical rejection in this step, just take a step back an
d employ the moves from steps 1-3, build more physical momentum and come back to
step 4 to try again.
While her legs are fair game in this step, her ass in not. Don t touch her butt ye
t unless you truly feel like you can playfully pull it off. Her ass will become
unlocked in a later step.
For now, here are a few moves below to begin using.
Step 4 Examples:
Sitting or standing very close with your legs touching hers.
Having your feet touch each other while sitting down.
Re-tieing or adjusting her shoe.
Briefly touching her upper leg while talking.
Placing your hand on her knee while teasing her.
Feeling her pants as if to compliment the material.
Resting your hand on her leg while sitting down.
Picking her up, which involves your arm around her legs.
Sitting with her legs over yours.
Giving a foot massage.
Playing footsie, an act of flirting where you caress her feet with your own.
Step 5 Torso and Lower Back
The fifth step involves touching her torso and lower back.
This step involves her whole upper body not including her head and breasts.
Don t touch her boobs yet, that will come in step 8. Be patient, we ll get there. Fe
el free to touch her stomach, upper chest, sides, and her lower back in the mean
time.
Step 5 Examples:
Lightly brushing her stomach with your hands while talking.
Lightly placing your hand on her lower back as if you re pulling her in to hear yo
u better.
Full frontal hugging.
Placing your hand on her back while introducing her to someone.
Placing your hand on her heart.
Ass
comes next.
Try not to jump straight to the vagina in this step. Start with her inner thighs
. Begin rubbing her around her pubic area, along her inner thighs and inch close
r and closer to her vagina as you go.
If she s going to give you a physical rejection, she ll do this while you re slowing m
oving your hand towards her vagina by pulling your arm away.
Once you touch her vagina once and she hasn t rejected you, it s fair game. From tha
t point on you can begin rubbing her crotch full on, massaging her vulva and fin
gering her.
This step is usually followed by sex.
Step 9 Examples:
Rubbing her inner thighs while working your way towards her vagina.
Massaging her vagina through her pants while sexually escalating or making out w
ith her.
Rubbing her vagina through her panties to get her turned on for sex.
Fingering her.
Stimulating her clitoris.
Going down on her.
Having sex with her.
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Conclusion
There you have it, the Physical Escalation Ladder.
If you follow it perfectly step by step, you should definitely be getting laid.
Read this ladder multiple times to truly internalize the steps.
Remember to be physical and go by the ladder when you re interacting with girls, e
specially on dates.
The man who can physically escalate in such a socially intelligent manner appear
s very confident and is very attractive to women.
I hope this system brings you success in all your future conquests as it has in
mine.
Sincerely,
Torrent