Secrets of Female Psychology

Love Her Vagina

by Lawrence Lanoff

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Love Her Vagina

If you want a woman to feel safe enough to really let go with you sexually,
you must understand just how important it is that she knows you love
everything about her vagina.
Vaginas are way more complicated than penises.
Its true. Penises are like the clashing cymbals in the orchestra. Thats the
note they play and they play it loudly. Vaginas are more like the entire
orchestra.
First of all, your penis is on the outside of your body. You can see and
familiarize yourself with all of its parts easily. Especially the ones youve
been rubbing since you were a kid.
Vaginas, on the other hand, are much more mysterious. Many women
dont even know what their vagina looks like. They havent held a mirror
up to their pussies to find out.
And if vaginas werent mysterious enough already, the confusion is
compounded by a misogynistic culture that teaches women that good girls
dont touch themselves. Women are shamed into believing that they have
no right to feel any pleasure, let alone sexual pleasure or self-induced
sexual pleasure.
Women often feel guilty for doing things for themselves.
With men, however, we are expected to explore our pleasure and jerk off
all the time.
So what we end up with are a lot of women embarking on sexual
relationships as vaginal novices completely unsure about what feels
good, how their anatomy works, and how to get themselves off.
And we embark on sexual relationships as total penis experts! For
instance, you know exactly how long it takes to get off, how much
pressure to use, and how fast or slow you like to stroke it. Plus, you know
what other types of porn you like, etc.

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The lack of competent sex education for women and the cultural attitude
against women pleasuring themselves in general leaves women with lots
of things to have anxiety about when it comes to their vaginas.
Women can feel doubtful or insecure about:

the size of their labia

the size of their vagina

their smell

the amount of wetness (not enough or too much lubrication)

the color

clitoris size

having a bush

scars from ingrown hairs caused by waxing

period-related issues (flow, cramps)

yeast infections, UTIs, or other non-sexual infections and

inconveniences

fear of childbirth-related tearing

shitty boyfriends saying something terrible and scarring about their

perfectly functional, healthy vagina

squirting or not squirting

queefing (passing air out the vagina) during sex

the taste of her vagina

Women will also have questions like:

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Is squirting really pee?

Whats a G-spot? Wheres the G-spot? Does every woman have a

G-spot?

Should I be able to have orgasms from G-spot stimulation alone? If

I cant, does that make me less of a woman?

Is something wrong with me if I cant orgasm during sex?

This is why it is important that your woman knows that you love
everything about her vagina!
I asked women if there was anything they wished more men knew about
the vagina . . .

I wish I didnt feel like if I want to use lube the guy might feel
insecure about whether or not Im really enjoying myself. I just
like using lube. Its not personal. It doesnt mean he doesnt make
me wet enough.

I wish they knew that I can handle rubbing my own clit during sex.
There is just too much going on for him to really be able to give
me the right amount of pressure and speed for the right amount of
time to get me off. Ill take care of it!

I wish guys with big dicks knew that my vagina is not ready for
deep pounding right off the bat! Give me some time to relax and
open up first. PLEASE!

I really hate it when a guy calls my vagina a yoni. I wish he would

just call it a pussy.

I dated a guy who would make a big show of spitting on my vagina

when he was going down on me. It always kind of grossed me out.
I figured it was just something he picked up from watching porn.

Im not really that into oral sex. It stresses me out because Im

afraid its taking me too long to cum and I worry that he might be

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getting tired. I always eventually just fake it, so he will stop and
we can move on to having actual sex.

I wish they knew vaginas and sugar do not mix! I had sex with a
guy who used cheap drugstore lube with glycerin/sugar as one of
the main ingredients. It put my vagina out of commission for two
weeks with a horrible yeast infection. This is not the kind of lasting
impression you want to make!

I wish they knew that I really dont want sex to last forever. It
usually takes me around 10 to 15 minutes to orgasm. After that, Id
like it to be done. I dont want multiple orgasms. Just cum when I
cum. Its cool.

Love her vagina and she will have mind-blowing orgasms with you.
The bottom line is: the more you tell her how much you love the taste,
smell, feel, and look of her vagina, the sexier and more confident she will
feel.
The more confident and sexy a woman feels, the more she can relax into
feeling good and then be able to openly express herself, which means the
orgasms will be that much deeper and more intense.
The more she is able to express her authentic sexual self with you, the
more she will see you as a sex god and be completely obsessed with you.
For women, the key to cracking their code and unleashing the sexual beast
that lives inside is all about creating a safe space for them to play. The
more they know you love their vagina and everything about it, the safer
they will feel with you, and the more fully expressive and adventurous
they will become.
Here is what I want you to do:

First, ask her what vagina name or names she thinks are really hot
to use during sex. Always use those or that name (if its not the
word you want to use, too bad. You must use her language not
yours.)

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If she isnt sure, offer her a menu and let her choose. Here are a
few names that women I polled like to use:
o

Vadge

Pie

Kitty

Vajayjay

Pussy

Muff

Cunt

Vulva

Yoni

Snatch

Vagina

Cum bucket

Once you have that information, heres what I want you to do. I want you
to get in the habit of saying things like:

I love your yoni.

Your vagina is incredible.

I cant believe how tight your pussy feels on my cock.

I love how your yoni is always so wet and ready for my dick.

Your vulva is beautiful.

I cant believe how good it feels to be inside you.

Your kitty gives me so much pleasure.

I love how your pussy tastes.

Your smell makes me crazy; I love your vajayjay so much!

Just looking at your vagina makes my dick hard.

I love how swollen your clit gets when youre turned on.

Yikes! I really dont feel comfortable talking during sex!

Dont worry if talking during sex makes you uncomfortable. Lots of
people feel that way.
However, I promise you women love to hear good things about their
vaginas! And knowing that they have your full approval can really help
them get over holding back during sex.

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If it helps, you can always take out the word vagina/pussy/yoni and
substitute the word you where appropriate.

You are so tight.

You feel so good.

Your smell drives me crazy.

You taste amazing.

You get the idea!

Vagina Cupping Technique:

I use this technique all the time. Dont be fooled. It sounds simple, but this
technique is really powerful. Ive had many a woman cry the first time I
used this on her because it feels so deeply comforting to have someone
touch her vagina this way. This technique will set you apart from the rest
because I can almost guarantee that you will be the first person ever to
touch her this way.
So lets get to it!
A womans vagina can feel physically sensitive after sex, and she may
also feel a little emotionally vulnerable. You can show her that you love
her vagina and use no words at all by cupping her vagina after she
orgasms or after sex. I call this kind of touch of the vagina comfort
touch. (And you can find out all about that in my program Tantra-X.)

A great way to convey safety and care is by cupping her vagina

with the palm of your hand after sex or after she orgasms.

You do this by placing the bottom palm of your hand over her
vaginal opening and allow the rest of your hand to curve over the
top part of her pubic bone and apply gentle pressure.

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Women who have experienced this kind of touch have reported to

me that it helps ground them after sex and also communicates a
level of appreciation and care that feels nice.

If you want to really take it up a notch you can put your other hand over
her heart. While touching this way, remain quiet and focus on taking deep,
relaxing breaths together.
This technique lets a woman know that what just happened was really
pleasurable and intense. You both deserve to take a minute to just bask in
that bliss. Notice her breathing. Usually, at some point, she will take a big
deep breath and that is your cue to pull your hands away.
If love and a long-term relationship are what you are after, use this
technique on her. She will be yours forever.