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Married couples celebrate the anniversaries of their marriage as most people celebrate their birthdays:
but how many know that names have been assigned to the number of years married, and what these
names are? Here is a list of them:
1st year Paper
2nd year Cotton
3rd year Linen
4th year Silk
5th year Wood
6th year Iron
7th year Copper
8th year Bronze
9th year Pottery
10th year Tin
15th year Crystal
20th year China
25th year Silver
30th year Pearl
35th year Coral
40th year Ruby
45th year Sapphire
50th year Gold
55th year Emerald
60th year Diamond
The list of names does not seem to go beyond that.
True Sense of Values
A little girl had accidentally dropped a small silver coin into her mothers prized vase. Naturally she put her
little hand into recover it, but found, as she gripped the coin and held it tight, that she was unable to
withdraw her hand; so she screamed and struggled to get her hand out.
Her cries attracted the other members of the family who all advised and pleaded with her to open her
hand and then withdraw it with ease. But no! She would hold on to her precious little coin and continued
to struggle, squirm and scream.
Finally, the costly vase had to be broken and, with her fist tightly clenched, she exclaimed Ive still got it.
The far more costly vase was sacrificed for the sake of a paltry coin.
Many like the little girl in the incident have a false sense of values. We tend to cling with tightening grip to
trivial things and lose what is infinitely more precious and lasting.
Love of self, love of money, love of pleasure; hinder many from laying hold of eternal life and enjoying the
life that is life indeed.
Strength of Love
Rock is strong but iron cleaves it. Iron is strong but fire melts it. Fire is strong, but water quenches it.
Water is strong, but clouds carry it away. Clouds are strong, but wind drives them. Winds are strong, but
man can resist them. Man is strong, but fear casts him down. Fear is strong, but love casts out fear. Love
is stronger: love is eternal.
Love strong as death, nay, stronger; love, mightier than the grave;
Broad as the earth and longer than oceans wildest wave.
This is the love that sought us: this is the love that bought us:
This is the love that brought us
To gladdest day from saddest night,
From deepest shame to glory bright,
From depths of death to lifes fair height,
From darkness to the joys of light.
The Shepherds Provision
Since the Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want:
Rest He makes me to lie down
Refreshment He leads me beside the still waters
Restoration He restores my soul
Guidance He leads me in the paths of righteousness
Confidence I will fear no evil
Companionship Thou art with me
Comfort Thy rod and thy staff they comfort me
Provision Thou prepares a table
Unction Thou anoints my head
Satisfaction My cup runs over
Protection Goodness and mercy shall follow me
A home at last I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.
Riches Untaxable
A tax collector once came to a minister in order to value his property.
I am a rich man, said the minister. The official quickly sharpened his pencil and asked, Well, what do you
own?
The preacher replied, I am the possessor of a Saviour who earned for me everlasting life and who is
preparing for me a place in the eternal city.
What else?
I have a brave and pious wife, and, as Solomon says, Who can find a virtuous woman, for her price is far
above rubies.
What else?
Healthy,obedient children!
What else?
A merry heart which enables me to pass through life joyfully.
What else?
That is all, replied the preacher.
The official closed his book, rose, took his hat, and said, You are indeed a rich man, sir, but your property
is not subject to taxation.
Risk Worthwhile
One night when storms were beating in full fury, a wreck was firing the minute gun and the lifeboat was
manned and sent out. Relay after relay rescued the whole crew but one, and the lifeboat was being
manned for the last trip, one young fellow, John Holden, stepped in.
John, dont go, pleaded his mother. Your father is dead, your brother Williams is lost at sea, and I have
no one left but you. Surely you wont risk your life for only one.
But John went. Slowly the lifeboat disappeared amidst mountains of foam. After anxious suspense the
boat returned. Is the man saved? was shouted from the shore. Yes, rang back the voice of John, and
go and tell mother its Williams.
Rewards Unexpected
A schoolboy came home for the holidays after three months and showed his report to his father. His father
read it and said, splendid, my boy.
Yes! said the boy with pride, top of the class, Father, think of it. That is splendid, the father replied, I
expect they will give you a reward for that. No, father, they are not giving prizes this term. Oh, certainly
you will be given a reward for it! said his father.
Two or three days after the boy returned to school for the next term, the father received a letter full of
anguish. They have moved me up into a new form, father, where the work is too hard, and I am at the
bottom of the form, his son wrote. Please tell them to put me back in the form where I was top boy.
The father wrote back, saying, My boy, I told you they would reward you.
After two or three terms the boy came home and announced, Top of the form again, father. Well! said
the father, I expect they will reward you again.
Sure enough, he got his reward by removal to a higher and harder form.
Is the work too hard for you? If so, the Lord is advancing and rewarding you, trusting you with harder work
because He wants you to trust him more and to become more than conqueror.
Rescued by a Raven
In a little village near Warsaw lived a German peasant whose name was Dobry. Because of adverse
circumstances he had got behind in paying his rent and the landlord was threatening to evict him.
All his pleadings for an extension of time had been in vain, and the next day he and his family were to be
turned out into the snow.
Hearing the church bells chime for evening prayer, Dobry and his loved ones knelt to ask the Lord to
supply their needs, for they were at the end of all human resources.
After prayer they rose to their feet and sang the holy hymn, Commit thou all thy grief and ways into His
hands. As they finished singing, they heard a strange tapping at the window. Opening it, they found a
raven that Dobrys grandfather had tamed many years before. It held in its beak a ring of great value set
with many precious stones.
An investigation disclosed that it had been lost that day by the king who was traveling through the town.
When Dobry returned it, the king rewarded him with a large sum of money, sufficient to build a house of
his own.
To commemorate the wonderful events of that wintry night, a plaque was prepared on which was carved a
raven with a ring in its beak, and underneath a stanza of the hymn they had been singing when the bird
pecked at their window.
Dorby recognized that even as the prophet Elijah had been divinely fed by the fowls of the air, he too had
been rescued by a raven.
Lamb Unlit
A gateman saw a motor car approaching a railway crossing one dark night. He quickly caught his lamp,
and rushed out, swinging the lamp. The motorist came on and was killed by the oncoming train. The
gateman was charged and taken to court. He was asked, 'Did you, or did you not, swing the lamp to that
motorist?'
With trembling lips the gateman replied, 'Sir, before God, I declare I did swing the lamp.' He was
discharged.
The gateman's best friend said to him afterwards, 'George, when you were giving evidence, why did you
shake so?'
George answered, 'I did swing my lamp, but, may God forgive me, there was no light in the lamp.'
So today in many places of worship where the glad tidings and warning notes of the gospel should be
sounded out, there is no light in the lamp, and therefore no guiding ray, and multitudes of travellers to
eternity dash on to destruction.
Saved By a Lamb
A tourist visited a church in the town of Woeden in Germany and was surprised to see the carved figure of
a lamb near the top of the churchs tower.
He asked why it was there and was told that when the church was being built, a workman fell from the
high scaffolding.
His co-workers saw him fall and were transfixed with fear. When they rushed down the scaffolding to the
ground with the utmost haste, they were expecting to find him dead. But to their surprise and joy, he was
alive and only slightly injured.
How did he survive? At the moment of his fall a flock of sheep was being driven beneath the tower, and
he had fallen on one of the lambs. The lamb broke his fall and was crushed to death, but the man was
saved.
To commemorate the remarkable and miraculous escape from death of the workman, someone carved a
figure of the lamb on the tower at the exact height from which the workman fell. To also remind all who
came that way of the Lamb of God who died to save sinners.
That expresses a tiny bit of what it means when John says "Behold, the Lamb of God that takes away the
sin of the world" The sense indicated by Isaiah with his promise of One who will bring salvation to the
ends of the earth".
Alone yet Not Alone
About the year 1754, when war was raging between the French and the British in Canada, and when the
Indians took the part of the French, one day a party of Indians surrounded the house of a poor family from
Germany at a time when the mother and one of the sons were absent. The father, the eldest son, and two
little girls named Barbara and Regina, were at home.
The savages burst into the house, killed the men and carried off the little girls along with other children of
the same age, leading them by forced marches in order to escape pursuit.
At that time Barbara was ten years old, Regina nine. What became of Barbara was never known, but
Regina was given to an old widow who was very cruel to the little girl. Here she remained till she was
about nineteen years of age, but she did not forget her early home training.
She said her prayers night and morning, often repeated verses from the Bible, and sang little hymns
which she had learnt at home. One she often sang was:
Alone, yet not alone am I,
Though in this solitude so drear;
She constantly hoped and prayed that the Lord would in His own time restore her to her friends.
In 1764 the long deferred hope was realized. A British colonel discovered the Indian encampment,
attacked it, and took it by storm. A condition of peace was the surrender of the prisoners, and no less than
400 captives were handed over by the Indians to the British.
Many of them had quite forgotten their native language, and were so altered in appearance that their own
mothers could not recognize them. They were fed and clothed, and then taken to a town named Carlisle.
It was announced in the daily newspaper that all parents who had had children carried off by the Indians
might come and reclaim them. Amongst those who came to Carlisle was Reginas sorrowing mother. She
searched up and down the lines of captives but nowhere could she discover her daughters. So great was
her disappointment that she burst into tears.
The bystanders endeavoured to console her, and the colonel, in order to help her, asked the weeping
mother if she could recall anything by which her children might be discovered. She replied that there was
a hymn she used to sing to them, and at the colonels request she sang:
Alone, yet not alone, am I
Though in this solitude so drear;
I feel my Saviour always nigh.
He comes the weary hours to cheer.
I am with Him and He with me
Even here alone I cannot be.
She had only sung a few words when Regina rushed from the crowd and began to sing it too; then she
threw herself into her mothers arms. The early training in that Christian home thus brought about that
happy reunion.
Spiritual Beauty
You may not have beauty
On Saturday of that week a note from the president was laid on her desk. Opening it, expecting it was a
notice of discharge, she read, we have a place of greater responsibility than the one you now occupy,
with a larger salary. We consider you are the right person for that job, so we are offering it to you.
One who is loyal to her Lord is one who will be loyal to her boss, if he does not ask her to do anything of
which her Saviour would not approve.
The Man for Me
A Christian gentleman was travelling in an out-bound train from London and , when it stopped at one of
the stations, a mill-girl entered singing a pop song describing a man who must be kind, handsome, rich,
loving and clever, each verse ending with the words And thats the man for me!
Listening till she had finished, the Christian man asked, well, have you found that man yet? No! she
replied, Im afraid theyre few and far between. Then the Christian man said, I know a Man who answers
in every respect to what you have been singing. I was speaking to Him this morning, and I know He has
an interest in you. In fact, He loves you.
Her curiosity aroused, she asked, well whats His name? His name is Jesus, he replied. Nothing more
was said till the end of her journey, one stop before the Christian mans.
As she alighted and was closing the door, she said gently, And thats the Man for me.
Seed
If you plant for a year; plant grain.
If you plant for ten years; plant trees.
If you plant for 100 years; plant men.
If you plant for Eternity, plant the Word.
An old professor of Biology used to old a little brown seed in his hand. I know just exactly the composition
of this seed. It has in it nitrogen, hydrogen and carbon. I know the exact proportions. I can make a seed
that will look exactly like it. But if I plant my seed it will come to nought; its elements will be simply
absorbed in the soil. If I plant the seed God made, it will become a plant, because it contains the
mysterious principle which we call the life principle.
The Bible looks like other books. We cannot understand altogether its marvellous power. Planted in good
ground, it shows that it has the life principle in itself: it brings forth spiritual fruit.
Measurements
When God measures a man He puts the tape round his heart, not his head.
It isnt the size of your bank account and the people of wealth you have met.
The number of dresses and hats that you buy; The amount of regard you can get.
It isnt the size of the house that counts, and the crowds you entertain.
The number of cars that stand outside, and the servants you retain.
The value of jewels upon your hand and the silver that you possess;
The number of miles you have travelled abroad, the important folks you impress.
Its the size of your heart and the sympathy, the breadth of your mind and love.
The value and height of your loyalty that matters to Him Whos above.
Memory System
Forget each kindness that you do as soon as you have done it;
Forget the praise that falls to you as soon as you have won it.
Forget the slander that you hear before you can repeat it
Forget each slight, each spite, each sneer, wherever you may meet it.
Remember every kindness done to you, whatever its measure;
Remember praise by others won and pass it on with pleasure.
Remember every promise made and keep it to the letter;
Remember those who lend you aid and be a grateful debtor.
Remember good, remember truth, remember Heavens above you;
And you will find, through age and youth, that many hearts will love you.
Mercy
A mother sought from Napoleon the pardon of her son. The Emperor said it was the mans second
offence, and justice demanded his death.
I dont ask for justice, said the mother, I plead for mercy.
But, said the Emperor, he does not deserve mercy.
Sir, cried the mother, it would not be mercy if he deserved it, and mercy is all I ask.
Well, then, said the Emperor, I will have mercy. And her son was saved.
This little incident gives us a good idea of the meaning of mercy. We think of clemency as another word
for mercy, but mercy is the gracious attitude of one who sits in the seat of authority toward one who has
given offence by breaking of the law, or by some violation of those canons of conduct which constitute
offence. This is at least part of the meaning.
Grace is the unmerited favour of God toward the undeserving: mercy is His pitying kindness toward the
hell-deserving. Grace bestows what we do not deserve: mercy does not mete out to us what we deserve.
Transformation
There is a story told of an American who went over to Paris, and, wishing to buy his wife a little gift,
purchased a phosphorescent, a mother-of-pearl match-box container; and the beauty of it was that in the
dark it was said to radiate a wonderful light.
He packed it in his trunk, took it home to the U.S.A., and after the family welcome dinner asked for the
lights to be put out. In the dark he took the match-box container from his pocket to present it to his wife,
but, when he looked at it, it was as black as the darkness around. Then he said, That is just what they
palm off on foreigners. Ive been swindled.
Next day his wife, a bit curious, discovered on the box a few words in French. She took it down to some
friends who had a French maid and had it translated. That night, in the darkness, it was all aglow, for she
had followed the instructions written on the box, which said: If you keep me all day long in the sunlight, I
will shine for you all night long in the darkness.
Trials
A jeweller gives as one of the surest tests for diamonds the water test. He says: An imitation diamond is
never so brilliant as a genuine stone. If your eye is not experienced enough to detect the difference, a
simple test is to place the stone under water.
The imitation diamond is practically extinguished. A genuine diamond sparkles under water and is
distinctly visible. If you place a genuine stone beside an imitation under water, the contrast will be
apparent to the least experienced eye.
Many seem confident of their faith so long as they have no trials; but when the waters of sorrow and
affliction overflow them, their faith loses its brilliancy. It is under these circumstances that the true children
of God shine as genuine jewels.
Virgin Mary
A little lad in Central Africa had learned to read the New Testament in the mission school. Sometime later,
the Roman Catholic fathers persuaded him to be baptized into the Roman Catholic Church.
They gave him a medal to wear on which was a representation of the virgin. 'It will be easier for you to
pray when you look at that,' they said, 'and the mother of Jesus will pray to her Son for you.'
Several months passed, and the boy returned to the evangelical mission. Asked the reason why he did
not go to the Catholics, he said, 'I read in the Gospels that Mary lost Jesus when she was on a journey;
so I thought, if she forgot her own little boy, she will surely forget me: so I am going to pray straight to
Jesus.'
Worry
'Worry,' we are told, is from an Anglo-Saxon word which means 'harm' and is another form of the word
'wolf.' It is something harmful and bites and tears as a wolf which mangles a sheep.
There are times, no doubt, when we must feel anxious because of harm suffered or anticipated by
ourselves or others, and this may be beneficial because it rouses to necessary activity; but often worry
has the opposite effect, paralyses us and unfits us for duty, and also distracts our thoughts and obscures
our vision.
An old story tells of an angel who met a man carrying a heavy sack and enquired what was in it. 'My
worries,' said the man. 'Let me see them,' asked the angel. When the sack was opened, it was empty.
The man was astonished and said he had two great worries. One was of yesterday which he now saw
was past; the other of tomorrow which had not yet arrived. The angel told him he needed no sack, and the
man gladly threw it away.
How Much Worth?
Supposing today were your last day on earth,
The last mile of the journey you've trod,
After all your struggles, how much are you worth?
How much could you take home to God?
She went to her room with a heavy heart. It would mean loss of love, culture, money, prestige. On her
knees she fought it out. The next morning she packed her suitcase. Before leaving, she stepped over to
the piano and started to play and sing:
Jesus, I my cross have taken,
All to leave and follow Thee;
Destitute, despised, forsaken,
Thou, from hence, my all must be:
Perish every fond ambition,
All Ive sought and hoped and known;
Yet how rich is my condition,
God and Heaven are still my own!
She arose, and with tears streaming down her face, turned toward the door. Before she could open it, her
father stepped out from behind the curtain where he had been listening to her playing, and with emotion
said: Wait! I did not know that Jesus Christ meant as much to you as that. I did not know that you were
willing to give up father, mother, home and prestige just for Jesus. Daughter, forgive me. I must be beside
myself. If such a great love can take hold of your heart, there must be something in it. Sit down here and
tell me how I can be a Christian.
Redemptionby the Creator
A little boy worked very hard, and, with a fine piece of wood and some tools, made himself a fine little
yacht. He was very proud of it, and used to go to the lake with the other boys who had their yachts also,
and sail it on the tranquil waters of the lake near his home.
One day it drifted away out of sight, carried by a strong breeze and all the lads effort to reach it or even
follow it with his eye, were unsuccessful.
Some days later, as he was going through the busy street where most of the shops were, he saw the
yacht in a shop window. He went in and claimed it as his lost yacht. But in spite of all his claims, and his
repeated assertion that he had made it with his own hands, the shopkeeper said, if you want it, you must
pay for it.
He returned home, counted up his little savings in his money box and found he had just sufficient to meet
the cost of the yacht. So he went in and bought it back. Youre twice mine! he claimed, as he looked
thankfully and proudly at his little yacht: I made you and Ive purchased you.
Happiness
Where is happiness found? NOT IN WEALTH. John B. Rockefeller, a Christian millionaire, said, I have
made many millions, but they have brought me no happiness. I would barter them all for the days I sat on
an office stool in Cleveland and counted myself rich on three dollars a week. Broken in health, he
employed an armed guard.
W.H. Vanderbilt said The care of 200 million dollars is too great a load for any brain or back to bear. It is
enough to kill anyone. There is no pleasure in it.
John Jacob Astor left five million, but had been a martyr to dyspepsia and melancholy. He said, I am the
most miserable man on earth.
Henry Ford, the automobile king, said, Work is the only pleasure. It is only work that keeps me alive and
makes life worth living. I was happier when doing a mechanics job.
Andrew Carnegie, the multi-millionaire, said, Millionaires seldom smile.
Divisions
Aesop has a fable of three bulls that fed in a field together in the greatest peace and safety. A lion had
long watched them in the hope of making prey of them, but found little chance so long as they kept
together.
He therefore began secretly to spread evil and slanderous reports of one against another till he fomented
jealousy and distrust among them. Soon they began to avoid each other and each took to feeding alone.
This gave the lion the opportunity it had been wanting. He fell on them singly and made an easy prey of
them all.
It is true of Gods people thatunited, they stand; divided, they fall.
Forgiveness
The Duke of Wellington was about to pronounce the death sentence on a confirmed deserter. Deeply
moved, the great General said, I am extremely sorry to pass this severe sentence, but we have tried
everything, and all the discipline and penalties have failed to improve this man who is otherwise a brave
and good soldier.
Then he gave the mans comrades an opportunity to speak for him. Please, your Excellency, said one of
the men, there is one thing you have never tried. You have not tried forgiving him.
The General forgave him and it worked: the soldier never again deserted and ever after showed his
gratitude to the Iron Duke.
Forgivenessfor the Penitent
A Russian prince, through the prerogative of Napoleon, was permitted to bring pardon to one convict in a
French prison. Every person he interviewed professed innocence and said he was unjustly punished
At last he found one who with sorrow confessed his guilt and acknowledged himself deserving of the
punishment.
To him he said, I have brought you pardon. In the name of the Emperor I pronounce you a free man.