Remembering Lloyd

Remembering Lloyd

Remembering Lloyd

Foreword
Dr. Lloyd Arriola. What a guy. He was like a junior Lenny Bernstein. He was a conductor, a
pianist, an educator, even a composer at times. (So Ive been told!) He was a son, a brother,
an uncle, a nephew, a friend. He touched countless lives. He touched my life. One day while
sitting in my kitchen he blurted out to me, Diane, you are a doer. You make things happen.
I thought to myself, Well, I kind of have to, Im self employed. As fate would have it, Lloyd
made sure I was a doer for him. He seemed to have made a deal with God to put me where
I was needed. As a result, I write these words of the highest thanks for this incredibly beautiful
tribute album compiled by Jeanne Bowyer. I put out a call for help on Facebook and Jay said,
I can help! And help she did! What a lovely, lovely album. Thank you for your countless
hours in putting this together. Thank you to all of you that contributed. Lloyd is smiling.
Lloyd made a difference. His difference is here in these pages, and in our hearts. His book
of life is complete. He made beautiful music and he made beautiful smiles and laughter and
love. Thank you Lloyd for everything. You gave so much to all of us and we are ever so grateful.
Until we meet again my friend.
Diane Fox, July 2016

Universally beloved by his family, his friends, his students, and his fellow musicians, Lloyd
Arriola graced New Yorks melodious landscape with his presence for over two decades.
Lloyd inspired a generation of young musicians, whose talents he nurtured, allowing them to
unfurl, grow, and bloom. His legendary wit, warmth, creativity, and vivacity, which
accompanied his stellar performances, form the cornerstones of many a Lloyd-centric musical
memory. Lloyds compassion, listening skills, brilliance, sense of humor, hospitality, and
capacity for joy will never be forgotten by all who love him.
In the following pages, family members, friends, peers, and former students share their
tributes, photographs, and special memories of Lloyd.
Well remember you with affection forever, Maestro.
Jeanne Bowyer, July 2016
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Sigrid Aarons
I add myself to this beautiful chorus of tributes. Lloyd inspired us all with his immense talent,
passion and professionalism. He dedicated his time and musical gifts to so many endeavors.
I came to know him as the rehearsal director and "orchestra" for an annual community opera
production at Rutgers Presbyterian Church. Every year, Lloyd worked tirelessly to bring the
director R. Wellington Jones' vision to life, which always involved an unconventional take on
traditional operas. These productions included amateurs, professionals, and people of all
ages, some with disabilities.
Without Lloyd's dedication and patience, these annual productions, which brought joy to so
many and benefited the church's homeless shelter, would have been impossible to realize. I
also fondly remember Lloyd's Carnegie Hall concert featuring works by Liszt. His performance
was brilliant as were his program notes. He was truly one of a kind. Lloyd, you were a true
gem, gone WAY too soon. Our loss, but heaven's gain.

Ago Guiseppe Agostaro

On behalf of Leopoldo Mucci, myself, all the singers and patrons of Caffe Taci we extend our
deepest condolence to the family and friends of Lloyd Arriola. He was a great friend and an
amazing and talented musician.

Zhanna Alkhazova
Lloyd Arriola I knew you briefly but I know you were a beautiful musician. RIP.

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Rebecca Almirol
RIP my dear friend Lloyd Arriola. When we were nine, the love we shared for music and dance
sparked our friendship. I will always remember the many hours we spent talking about it. You
described every note like it was an exquisite wine to be savored with all the senses. The music
does not sound as sweet without you. I will miss you, my dear friend. My deepest condolences
to the Arriola Family. The world has lost a shining star.

Kathryn Ananda-Owens
Lloyd, this was way too soon. Thank you for being your wonderful vivacious inspiring self and
for touching all of us who knew and loved and worked with you. You made a difference. I wish
I had told you this while you were alive. RIP.

Martha Anderson
Heartbroken. I am just heartbroken.

Sophie Andersen
Beyond sad to hear this news! We have lost a great artist, colleague and friend with whom I
shared a passion for championing works by all-but-forgotten composers. Hope to one day
perform the Joseph Marx violin sonata in your honor! RIP.

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David Arend
I'll miss you, Lloyd! Thank you for generously sharing your wit, musicianship and tremendous
human integrity!

Emily Arlouin Thebaut

I have nothing but the fondest memories of Lloyd Arriola. He was truly a wonderful person, a
patient and knowledgeable educator and had a passion for music that was infectious. I was
going to pick him up tomorrow to play a gig for Opera on the Spot and am so sad that I won't
have another opportunity to perform and work with him.
It's people like Lloyd that knew the difference between playing notes on a page and creating
live and electric music that really reached his audiences. Thank you for everything you have
taught me. My thoughts go out to his family.

Pamela Armstrong
I am so saddened to hear of the death of Lloyd. All my support to those closest to him and my
deepest sorrow for his family.

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Lynn Arriola
Early today, I stepped outside to get some air. I found myself sobbing, for the umpteenth
time, and called out Lloyd's name. Almost immediately, this image popped in my head, and I
found myself laughing. Thanks for the chuckle, brother.
In case any of you have wondered where Lloydee got his warped sense of humor, the guy in
the middle is our dad. It was his idea to buy the shirts. He insisted that I take this photo in our
hotel room. Taken a day after Lloyd received his doctoral degree from Juilliard. Classy, no?

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Teresa Arriola Saucedo

Rest in paradise cousin. May your music continue to brighten the hearts and souls of all who
were dear to you. You can now conduct your orchestra in heaven for Uncle Pete and all our
loved ones who now rest in paradise.

Marcus Avila
It's simply amazing how someone enters your life and through that connection, a lasting
friendship is made, perspectives are changed. Our family met Lloyd Arriola a little over two
years ago. We are so grateful to have the opportunity to meet such talent, someone with
compassion and class. A man's man. From the moment we met Lloyd, he became a part of
our family, our brother. Until we cross paths again. Heaven just became more musical.

Anja Avsharian
Hate that this has to be written. Lloyd Arriola was such a tremendous inspiration and mentor
to me during high school. He always reassured me of his faith in my abilities and was a huge
help in getting me into college. The amount of one-on-one time he spent going over my
audition pieces with me unpaid by the way was truly unbelievable. This was a man that
went above and beyond his responsibilities to his students. He commanded the room with a
strong hand and disciplined us often, but he never let us forget how much we meant to him.
Rest in peace, Dr. Arriola. Thank you for everything.

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Kaori Azzi
I was saddened by the loss of our great friend, Lloyd He touched our lives in so many
positive ways. His generosity, kindness, and musicianship will be remembered in our hearts
forever. He was loved and will be missed by so many.

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Inge Bader
Peaceful slumber, my friend.
I first met Lloyd during my first week of orientation at Peabody. I remember wondering who
this jovial loud person next to me was; he was recounting stories about his apartment in
downtown Baltimore. We ended up in the same school again a few years later. I remembered
sharing meals with him, marveling at how many locks he had in his apartment door...his jokes
and backstage stories, infectious sense of humor. I can't help but notice that his health was at
risk, but he was always so full of life and wishes. Rest in peace, Lloydie.

Caroline Bailey
I'm so sincerely saddened by the passing of Lloyd Arriola. We met in high school and his
musical genius, infectious laugh and kindness left an impression on me I have never forgotten.
He had a light inside him that touched us all. He was an incredible teacher, a vibrant performer
and a truly lovely human being. You will be missed, my sweet, witty, silly, and gracious friend.
You left the world a better, more melodious place-we were all lucky for your time with us!
Peace be the journey and thank you for all you gave us.

Jamie Balter
RIP Lloyd Arriola. You were my vocal coach for my first full opera role. You hold a special place
in my heart and my performance tonight in Le Nozze di Figaro is for you.

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Judith Barnes
Dear sweet wonderful beautiful kind brilliant passionate incredibly gifted sublime musician
generous collaborator darling funny sensitive inspiring hilarious spirited quixotic warm
charming loyal and loving friend Lloyd Arriola. I wish you could read what everyone is saying
about you. How loved you are. How much you mattered to so very many people. I wish you
could come back for just a moment so you could know.
Our hearts are broken and we love you I love you. Can't even begin to say how much you
will be missed. Thank you Lloydee. You brought so much beauty and meaning to the world. I
thought I would see you again. Profound loss. Love to your family, may they find strength and
comfort.

Sean Alexander Bart

There are hundreds of us out there who loved Lloyd Arriola; who appreciated his artistry, his
generosity, his compassion, and his ribald sense of humor. For tonight, all I can do is let his
presence resonate in my heart, and give thanks that I had him in my life. We are blessed to
share our lives with such people. My condolences to his family in this sad time.

Maria Beery
Lloyd Arriola, I am heartbroken to see the news that you are gone. You were an amazing
musician and a friend to everyone you met. I will miss your liberal Facebook rants and your
infectious smile! I can't believe I've lost 2 wonderful people/musicians in my life this past week
to unexpected death.

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David Bell
I am heartbroken. One of my best friends, a musical brother from another mother, the pianist
Lloyd Arriola has passed away, suddenly, of causes unknown. Please pray for his family. He
made my life in New York special.

Reut Ben-Zeev
So saddened and shocked to hear about the passing of Lloyd Arriola ! What an amazing
colleague he was! Kind, generous musician and human. Though we haven't been in touch
recently, I always appreciated his support and what he stood for. So young! My condolences
to his family. Clearly he created such a loving a community around him! RIP.

Tom Berger
So shocked and saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Lloyd Arriola, an amazing
musician, collaborator, and friend. Lloyd was so giving, talented, and full of elan that it is hard
to believe that he is gone. My prayers are with his family and loved ones, and I grieve with
you. Rest in peace, sir, and I'm sure the good Lord in Heaven is getting a hell of a concert right
now.

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Michelle Berti
Words cannot express the shock I feel that Lloyd has passed. We met in 2001 teaching
students how to fall in love with musical theater. He is truly one of the kindest and most selfless
people I have had the joy to work with. My fondest memories of him are singing musical
theater purposely off key in bad harmony to drive our colleagues crazy, testing him to make
sure his brilliant mind could remember my birthday (which he never forgot), and watching
him in his element inspiring his students with his endless energy and love.
My biggest regret was losing touch with him over the past few years. I spoke with him on the
phone last week when I found out he was moving back to SF. He was so alive and ready to
make a change and still so willing to love me even though I had let him down as a friend. He
was ready to move home and be with his family. Sometimes life just isn't fair. I hate writing
this on Facebook. I wish I could tell you in person, Lloyd. Thank you for being a part of my
New York family.

Tracy Bidleman
More rehearsal silliness with me and Lloyd!!

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Stacie Blair
Some of my NYC colleagues have already heard, and others who have not, should know.
Lloyd Arriola, one of the most wonderful, fun, and talented people I have ever known, passed
away in his apartment in NYC.
I had the pleasure of working with Lloyd several times. Not only did I enjoy the time we
performed together, but I also enjoyed the conversations we would have before and after our
gigs.
He made me laugh, and some of what people wrote here on Facebook made me smile as I
would hear what they wrote and say "yup, that's Lloyd" and other times I cry.
He was taken from this world too soon, and everyone who has ever had the pleasure of
knowing and speaking with him... They too will miss him and his sense of humor, and his
talent, and his presence.
This is all I can write for now. As I continue to take this all in, and I take a few days... I hope to
write something more eloquent about how wonderful he was...
But for now, what I can say: "Lloyd, I will miss you. You and I only worked together a few times,
but I will cherish those moments we did and I will never forget you.

Warren Bloom
A terrible personal loss for me, a terrible loss for the Usdan Camp family, and a terrible loss
for New York music in general. His chops were undeniable, going from Rachmaninov to
Maltby & Shire with perfect authenticity, and he was a hilarious and generous colleague. Rest
in peace, Lloyd Arriola.

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Alison Bolshoi
Dear Lloyd, I will miss our 2:00 AM Facebook texts on politics and your sharp wit as you tore
apart the GOP, racism, or any group being marginalized. We had such a great connection
about all such topics, as well as when we worked on music together. Your playing was always
graceful and effortless, so beautiful. It seemed like your hands floated above the keys, instead
of touching them. And now I don't think I worked with you enough. Oh, to be able to go back!
In a business that can be so cut-throat, you were always positive, always supportive and
inspirational.
Seeing how many people love and care about you, and value your friendship and your
immense talent, I hope you are realizing what a Huge Success you are, Lloyd, and what a
fabulous success your life has been, my friend.

Julianne Borg
Here is a photo of when Lloyd and
I met up in Berlin. I was a student
at Peabody with Lloyd and have
stayed friends since.

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Jeremiah Bornfield
A great friend for many years and superb musician is gone tonight. Much love to the Arriola
family and all others blessed to know him. He taught me to never suggest to a singer that they
should do Strauss unless you want a 6 hour Strauss program. He also played close to 20 pieces
I wrote in at least 3 countries, and premiered a commission I wrote for him on his actual
birthday 8/6/72 at Carnegie Hall a few years back. I couldn't be more grateful to him for
playing. I always let him know that. I really loved his musicianship. Of course we had more
plans. Numbing. But just beautiful to see all of the people posting their love for Lloydee.

Nicola Bosco-Alvarez
This photo of Lloyd Arriola was taken Dec 27, 2008
at the Randall Museum for a YPTMTC Gala. This
was the first time I met him, and being new to the
Company and having heard so much about him, I
was nervous. I was still trying to find my bearings
and navigate being a new director - and mom.
Lloyd instantly made me feel a part of the
Company family, and as odd as it sounds, it felt like
we had been friends for years.
He was one of a kind. And his talent beyond this
earthly world. We have each been blessed to know
him, no matter for how long or how deeply. There
is a beautiful concert in the heavens now. God
Bless you, Lloyd.

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Jeanne Bowyer
I found out late last night that one of my dear friends, Lloyd Arriola, died. He'd been packing
his New York apartment and had been planning to move back to California this week to be
with his family, but in the end, he left the Earth instead. I have some things to say to Lloyd, and
since I can't ever say them to him directly, I will say them here.
Lloyd, I will miss your fierce and wonderfully outspoken left-wing activism and advocacy for
the arts, for the kids you taught so diligently, and for the neediest in our world.
I will miss our animated chats about old movies and the superiority of TCM over nearly any
other channel out there (it's still the best, isn't it).
I will miss talking with you about music of all types both the pieces you played so beautifully
and more unusual experimental works, which you also enjoyed.
I will miss your passionate and vibrant sense of humor. You had a talent for tickling people in
the ribs using only words. Thank you for bringing that joy into the world.
I will miss the way you spoke so affectionately about your family, whom you obviously adored.
You were clearly a wonderful and lovable uncle, brother, and son.
I will miss your humanity. You were such a cherished light in the lives of your pupils, your
family, and your friends.
Thank you for letting me work with you on the poster design for the Bayan Ko concert back in
2013, when you pulled together a heap of excellent musicians in a hurry to raise money for
Hurricane Yolanda victims. Your generosity of spirit epitomized your time here with us all.
I wish we'd actually capitalized on our shared "someday" plan to organize a Rautavaara recital
in which we'd involve real live waterfowl, but sadly, unless someone else is that crazy, it'll
never happen now...
We were friends for years, and I still can't really wrap my head around the fact that you can't
answer me any more. I guess I thought that perhaps you'd last forever: I was wrong. Rest
peacefully, Lloyd. You were and are loved by so very many people.

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Joseph Bray
I met Lloyd on my first day of high school. We were in the same homeroom for 4 years. I knew
he would go on to accomplish great things. Reconnecting after our 20-year high school
reunion allowed me to see just how accomplished and brilliant a musician he turned out to
be. I'm so proud of you Lloyd. What beautiful tributes from all of your loved ones, friends and
colleagues. I'll miss you, old buddy.

Leslie Briggs
Rest in Peace Kuya (cousin) Lloyd, talented musician and teacher, and the easiest going, nicest
fellow I've ever met.
Love, your family, the Lacopia's and James.

Jeffrey Budryk
Goodbye, old friend. You will be missed.

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Bruce Bush
Lloyd's musical energy electrified Cantabile Chamber Chorale for many years (early 2000s)
as our performance and rehearsal accompanist. Huge musical knowledge, fearless
interpretations and kind, always kind. Judy and I were lucky enough to attend his big Busoni
recital at Weill Hall and hear first-hand the immense energy he poured into realizing this
dream. I think that even then he felt he had accomplished all he could in New York, and had
turned his passions toward planning his next step. A life well lived, with courage all the way.

Sarah Butler
Dear Lloyd,
I met you in the winter of 2012 through one of my singer friends. We were in the city to
audition and needed to rehearse with a pianist. Little did I know how great we got along and
agreed on musical things, but more importantly interpretation of text.
Before we met I was no longer with my former coach and honestly didnt have any coach to
work with. From the first session I saw your passion for the music and you saw me. One of the
hardest things to deal with is losing someone who saw you for who you truly are As an artist
and a person.
In this business of music making its very difficult to find someone whos on your side, pushing
for you, and genuinely caring about your well-being in the business. Its insanely difficult and
we would talk a lot about that. You saw the things I had to overcome (which were all
mental). In the first coaching you saw me and saw the depth of emotion. The honesty in your
eyes made me comfortable enough to open up and tell you (a practical stranger at the time)
about my struggle with being bipolar and the crippling thought that the illness would keep
me from having the career I wanted.
We put on a recital in Chicago and I couldnt have done it without you. You were one of the
few people who saw what I had to offer in a world where many people gloss over you for
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various subjective reasons. You knew why I sing and I think we connected immediately
because thats how you felt about piano and vocal repertoire. I never had a coach who I could
talk with about interpretation of words as much as I could with you. It was fun, mostly because
you were deep and thoughtful. There are too many coaches, teachers, etc. who dont think
too much about the interpretation.
My favorite memory was singing This is Prophetic from Nixon in China. Where on EARTH
would I have found a pianist who was interested, capable, and PASSIONATE about that
music?!?
Youve touched me more than any of my words can express on this page. Youll always be in
my heart and I know from up above youre still rooting for me and everyone else you inspired
and believed in. Your passing happened way too soon and only now have I realized how much
I wish I couldve met you sooner.
Love You,
Sarah

Cantabile Chamber Chorale

Dear Friends,
We are deeply saddened to learn of the passing of our friend and former accompanist Lloyd
Arriola. Lloyd shared his pianistic and musical skills as accompanist for Cantabile Chamber
Chorale from 2001-2008. We remember him with love and affection and join with his family
and friends in mourning the loss of a wonderful soul.
We are very grateful for the time we had him and his music in our lives. Rest in peace Lloyd.

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Alexander Caraballo
"And if you see me losing faith in what it means to die, don't let me leave before I know what
lies behind the stained-glass doors. Lloyd Arriola

Kacey Cardin
Heavy hearts at rehearsal today as we mourn the loss of friend and collaborative artist Lloyd
Arriola. Take care of yourselves and those you love.

Calli Carvajal
This is a very sad day. We will all miss Lloyd very much.

Meredith Cecchin
Do you know something, Schroeder?
I think the way you play the piano is nice.

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Michael Celentano
Lloyd, I am going to miss you so much. I'll never forget how you called it from day 1 of meeting
me, around when I was 20, that I was a tenor. You're also one on a very short list of people I
will ever allow to call me Mikey. I had seen you so many times in passing, but we never seemed
to have the time to catch up between our work schedules.
I've been thinking a lot today about the meaning of being a performer and how many lives
we touch; not just our audiences, but our colleagues. We, as a loose family of New York opera
singers and musicians, lost one of our own and will be grieving together for such a great
musician, colleague and friend.

Nicole Cherry
My dear friend, the amazingly gifted Lloyd Arriola will be memorialized today and I am
saddened that I cannot be there.
We met in music conservatory, an environment not generally described as accepting. That
image was shattered by a wonderful man who passed me in the hallway of that music
conservatory, stopped me in my tracks and said with a smile, Hey, how are you!?! and he
really wanted to know.
23 years ago I met this wonderful man who would become a loyal friend, take the time to
reminisce and remind me often how we met, just because. Then hed laugh (with a profanity
attached) about the impromptu 7 AM lesson I pleaded him to accompany me for Erick
Friedman. Who else would I ask to sight read Brahms Sonata???
You accepted me at first glance with open arms, you continually helped me open the doors
of my life with your amazing talent and you opened your heart to everyone that crossed your
path. The next plane is so fortunate to know you now. We are all so fortunate to have known
you here. Peace and Love to the entire Arriola family.

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Kelvin Chan
Very saddened to learn of the passing of Lloyd Arriola. What a beautiful and generous
colleague. We will miss you, Lloyd.

Phillip Cheah
I am still in utter devastation over the unexpected and cruel loss of dear Lloyd Arriola. I had
the pleasure and privilege of working with him on Britten's "Canticle III" and the closing scene
of "A Midsummer Night's Dream" with Judith Barnes' terrific Vertical Player Repertory. He was
an absolutely phenomenal musician that was clear from the beginning but over and above
anything was his beautiful, compassionate, and ebullient soul. His laughter and joy were
boundless and infectious. When I attended his Carnegie Hall dbut solo recital a few years
ago, I was so proud of what he had accomplished.
Last night, I sang the Faur "Pie Jesu" for the first time in public and while I was singing, I
couldn't help but think of Lloyd. My heart goes out to his family. Here's to you, my friend! The
world is a much darker place without you in it

April Clayton
I am trying to take in the impossible information that my friend and Juilliard classmate Lloyd
Arriola has passed away. There were only nine in our class so we were all very close. I
remember hours laughing with Lloyd in the library (as a coping mechanism for getting
through our Research Methods homework, but also, it was Lloyd!!), exchanging mints and
gum during every meeting of a long afternoon lecture class (I was on mint-and-gum-providing
duty, because Lloyd was an insomniac), parties with our classmates, towards the end of which
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he would often improvise/transcribe/play on demand from a vast array of operas,

symphonies, musicals.... anything and everything, on his piano, until we pleaded on behalf of
his neighbors...
I hope he had any idea how much he added to my experience at Juilliard. I'm so very glad I
saw him a couple of years ago to relive those days just a little bit. I won't, and never could
forget you, my brilliant and incredibly gifted friend.

Grace E. Clerc
In the midst of tragedies happening around the world, early this morning I also learned of the
sudden death of a friend.
Everyday our life's path takes us to the least expected...most good, seldom bad and those
unforeseen circumstances in between.
Sequentially, wherever life takes us, we make the most of it. We make it count.
But foremost, we should find ways to make time out of our day to remember, or better yet, to
NOT forget those who have crossed our path along the way. For sometimes, it may just be
that one person who will make all the difference.
Life itself is more than the material goods we possess. More than the educational and
professional achievements we attain. Life is simply catching a breath of fresh air alongside
those we care about the most...
Dedicated to Lloyd Arriola. Although in no relation, other than knowing you as that young
boy diligently practicing on the piano at your parents home, and later reconnecting with you
here on Facebook many years later.
I simply wanted to say THANK YOU for the moments you took out of your time just to say
hello. I will miss you my friend. Rest in peace.

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Barrett Cobb
When people die, those left behind often exaggerate their good qualities. In Lloyd's case this
has not happened. He was truly one of the most wonderful people I have ever known.
Supremely talented himself, he never acted superior to anyone. He was made out of kindness
and generosity. His effervescent sense of humor was always present, sometimes in his unique,
braying laugh, sometimes lurking underneath the surface, waiting to pop out. (How I looked
forward to that moment!) I never saw him indulge in self-pity, even when he had every right
to. Yet he didn't judge others when they gave way to those feelings. His memory was
phenomenal. Children loved him. May his memory remain with and enrich the lives of those
of us who are left behind.

Sarai Elizabeth Cole

So shocked and saddened to hear this. Lloyd Arriola was a fantastic musician but an even
better friend. You're sorely missed, friend.

Charles Coleman
Just received the tragic news that my good friend Lloyd Arriola passed away. I am, needless
to say, shocked and heartbroken, as are all the rest of us who knew him and loved him. Lloyd
was one of the best musicians I've ever worked with. He had a knowledge and an affinity of
music that was unparalleled. And he was a great guy on top of all of that. R.I.P. ol' buddy.

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Amy Lillian Corder

Thinking of Lloyd Arriola and Michael McNally today and reminding myself to not take a single
breath for granted. Rest in peace.
Y'all are missed.

Lisa Cordova
Lloyd, you were always there with a smile and positive remark, pushing for excellence in music
making, but more importantly, bringing joy to those around with you with your witty,
humorous, and kind way of being. You will be greatly missed, dear friend!

George Cornelius
Was so terribly sad to hear the news today. Lloyd Arriola
was a joy to make music with and just a warm fun man to be
around. Hard not to love this guy. So many will miss him
and his smiling face. RIP.

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Emily Cox
After three days, I got back on FB to find out that Lloyd Arriola passed suddenly away...
Let us discuss this brilliant man.
I met Lloyd at an awkward point of my life and career. I had just given up on music as a viable
career path for me. Lloyd was the first coach I had had in quite a while, and his influence in
guiding me back into the music world cannot be underestimated.
He was gentle, yet firm. He was balanced in terms of artistry vs expectations, yet encouraged
bravery and individualism. He could be brutally honest (when asked), yet encouraged raw
artistry from his students. He was sincere, yet knew schmaltz.
In short, he was nothing but a positive, loving, enthusiastic and inspiring influence who truly
knew and loved his music and students alike.
Lloyd made me wonder why I had given up music in the first place and when I told him of
my personal struggles, he shrugged and said, "Every diva has her shit storm."
Lloyd, you will be so missed. Seriously. I hope Heaven's chorus is ready, because we all know
soprani prepare, the storm is coming. Mediocrity will not be tolerated. Only the inspired
shall prevail.

Oliver Cruz
Rest in Peace, Lloyd Arriola. Your music, your laugh, and your friendship will live on in our
hearts.

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Suzanne Culhane
Deeply saddened to learn of the sudden death of brilliant pianist Lloyd Arriola. Many of you
will remember Lloyd for he played at my ordination reception and added an extra layer of joy
and playfulness to the event. Please join me in praying for Lloyds family and friends at this
most devastating time. He was loved by so many. And he inspired so many with his teaching,
including the children of New York. Rest in peace, dear one. Make beautiful music in heaven!

Lisa Daehlin
I'm very sad to hear of the passing of Lloyd Arriola. This is tragic.
Lloyd and I were introduced by Raymond Donnell at Gryphon Record Shop. What a
crossroads of amazing artists that place was (and still is, under its new name of West Sider). It
was a joy to sing with Lloyd. RIP.

Peter Damour
Oh my gosh! My heart is in pieces right now. In my lifetime there has been very few people
who have pushed me and believed in my talent. Dr. Arriola was one of those people. He was
such a great musician and teacher! I drove him nuts in class and he would always tell me to
shut up. Unlike the other students, he never kicked me out when I was a distraction in class.
He believed in me and wanted to see me grow and for that I'm eternally grateful. I'll always
remember what we shared in common which was our faith in God and music. We have lost a
legend, but he would want the show to go on.
Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord.
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And let the perpetual light shine upon him.

And may the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.
Rest in peace, Dr. Lloyd Arriola.

Marcus Dargan
Dear Lloyd Arriola, I am saddened that our personal, professional, and creative relationships
didn't have the time to blossom fully; however, I am content in this divine chaos we call life
and the Universe we live in and grateful for the time I have shared with you. Thank you.

Jonathan Dauermann
I was terribly shocked yesterday morning when I read that Lloyd had passed away. I am so
deeply saddened, and I can only say that I knew Lloyd only in passing, chiefly from the waiting
rooms and foyers of many auditions, where he'd always be there waiting to go in to
accompany another singer. Inevitably, when it was his time to play, the music he'd produced
was technically perfect, vibrant, and always deserving of a wider audience than just the
audition committee of that day. He was clearly a master of his craft.
Moreover, Lloyd always, ALWAYS had a great smile on his face and radiated joy and warmth.
Every single time. We became Facebook friends just from our little conversations here and
there. I wish I'd made music with him, but I'm very grateful to have met him. This is a huge
loss for us all. As much as anyone I've ever met, Lloyd brought joy, laughter and music
everywhere he went. Beyond his spectacular abilities as a musician, Lloyd was an absolute
delight of a human being who could never fail to make you smile. My thoughts go out to his
family and loved ones today.

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Alison Davy
Has been a very difficult day knowing I will never see dear Lloyd Arriola again. He was my
musical brother. I feel a sweetness about him remembering how he was ALWAYS early for
gigs, auditions, rehearsals. Now I realize, in his passing away yesterday, he was continuing the
pattern. He arrived at the Pearly Gates early

Diane De Boer
I've been avoiding this all day because my heart hurts over this one, but I need to pay proper
tribute to the generous and talented and kindhearted Lloyd Arriola who left us too soon
yesterday. I woke to the shocking news and have been trying to process the whole day how
the world could lose such a person who was so clearly loved and needed. Life is precious,
and Lloyd your life was an example. Thank you for all the kindness you offered all of us,
sending love to the family and friends you left behind.

Sevan Dekmezian
Lloyd Arriola, you were taken from us too soon. You were an incredible musician, so devoted
to the art and enhancing the beauty of every piece that you encountered. Even hundreds of
miles away, you were always willing to aid me in whatever part of my artistic process I needed
help, whether it be song ideas or acting as a reference for a program application.
More importantly, you filled the world with so much laughter!!! I can't think of a single moment
when you weren't smiling or laughing while trying to make sure the rest of the occupants of
the room were doing the same. Also, thank you for all the silly cat pictures you made sure I
never missed - that's real friendship. You were truly loved. Rest in peace, my friend.

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Christine DeZinno Bruno

Deeply saddened to wake this morning to the news that my friend Lloyd Arriola is gone.
Suddenly. Unexpectedly. Too young. Too soon. Days away from beginning a new chapter in
his life.
A brilliant pianist, razor-sharp mind, sophisticated, bawdy wit and heart as warm and
expansive as the heavens, Lloyd was truly one of a kind. He lived and loved fully with passion
and abandon. Watching Lloyd play was exhilarating. Being accompanied by Lloyd was both
thrilling and intimidating, but if he ever felt coaching and accompanying an 'actor who sings'
was beneath someone of his virtuosity, he never let on.
Although we weren't the kind of friends who discussed our deepest dreams, fears, and
yearnings, I'll miss his consummate twinkle. I'll miss our Facebook rants about popular music,
(I was never well-versed enough to participate in his conversations about opera and classical
music) theatre and politics. I'll miss the transcendent music he made, both inside and out. I'll
miss my friend.
This one's for you, dear Lloyd. You know why. Rest in peace.
"But nowadays the world is lit by lightning. Blow out your candles, Laura and so goodbye.

Emma Divine
Sending my deepest condolences to the family and friends and my dear Rosemary George
on the passing of the incredible pianist Lloyd Arriola. I am so grateful I got to spend time with
him and Rosemary in London and incredibly grateful for Lloyd's advice and friendship. My
thoughts are with you all.

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Claire DiVizio
Woke to the shocking news that a great coach, conductor, and mentor had died. Lloyd Arriola
was a party to my first ever YouTube upload: he played for this recording of "I Want Magic,
made at BASOTI in 2012. Lloyd was the first person who ever believed me immediately when
I answered the question "what do you think your fach is" with "Lirico spinto". (I was 24, so he
would have been well within his rights not to...) When he found out that my partner Ezra
Donner was a composer, he contacted him for a commission. Obviously he was a great
pianist, but I think his most enduring legacy will be his unflinching support of countless young
artists like us.

Lisa Dondlinger
I am beyond grateful for all of the beautiful birthday wishes sent my way this year. I am sending
all of the love you have sent to me right back to all of you. But there was one birthday greeting
I did not receive this year and sadly never will again.
Lloyd Arriola and I met when he accompanied one of my recitals as Miss Iowa. He was a
Juilliard trained pianist whose musical soul was steeped in collaboration. He was an especially
gifted accompanist and this gift led him to great heights in his musical career. He also
possessed a joyful, kind and witty soul which touched so many of us. On the morning of my
birthday while reading so many lovely posts to me, I read tribute after tribute to my dear
friend.
I can't believe we won't have time to plan our next recital. I won't have another opportunity to
encourage him on his road to improved health. And he won't be able to tell me again that I
am too hot for pageants. I am envious of the heavens tonight who will be smiling and floating
on your beautiful music. Rest easy my friend, in the knowledge that you inspired so much
music, laughter and love.

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Linda Doria
Rest in Peace, Lloyd Arriola.

Lotte Joy Dover

Lloyd Arriola, when I listen very carefully, I hear the glorious music you're making in Heaven.
You showered this world with love, kindness and generosity and I am so fortunate to have
known you. Rest in Peace, dear friend.

Sarah Downs

I have just learned of the passing of a dear man, a sweet, brilliant friend, consummate
musician, Lloyd Arriola. I don't know how to process this loss. God bless you, Lloyd. I'll miss
you so much.

Kylee Doyle
Thinking of you today, Lloyd Arriola. Thank you for gracing us with your incredible gift and
helping contribute to my great love of music and theater throughout my adolescent years.
Rest in peace, friend.

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Cherry Duke
The last time I saw Lloyd was over 2 years ago. He was in his element, brilliantly accompanying
my dear friend Erika Person Werner in recital at the National Opera Center. He was always
kind, funny, talented and giving, among other things. RIP dear Lloyd, with love and hugs for
the journey. We miss you already.

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Ellie Dunn
Melanie and I were unbelievably lucky to have the accomplished and talented Lloyd Arriola
as our first Mel & El musical director and accompanist. We will always remember how
supportive, creative, patient, and fun he was. If we could have one more show at The Duplex
with a smiling and laughing Lloyd sitting behind us, we surely would.

Claudine Kee Dusablon

There's another angel around the throne tonight. Just learned of the sudden passing of Lloyd
Arriola, an old friend and amazing musical talent. Lloyd and I went to elementary school
together and reconnected a few years ago in NY. I thought there would be many more
moments to catch up. Now, my heart just aches. He was a gift. Peace and light to the Arriola
family and to his music family.

Les Dweir

Incredibly sad news for me today and for anyone who was lucky enough to call him friend...
Lloyd Arriola passed away suddenly on Sunday.
I had the joy of meeting and becoming friends with him when I first came to Usdan 13 years
ago.
He was incredibly kind, incredibly intelligent, incredibly funny incredibly talented and
supportive of us piano players who would just stand by jaws dropping while he played. He
was a successful concert pianist in the process of moving to California making the next step
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in his wonderful life. I remember when he music directed "The King And I" and performed the
show without music, even when doing transpositions for the kids. Lloyd was anyone's role
model who cared about people and music!Lloyd you were one of a mind-blowinglywonderful kind. My heart is broken over the worlds loss of one of its truly great human beings.
I had always hoped to see you again after you left Usdan. My heart is with your family!!

Daniel Dy-Liacco
I was sad to hear the news of Lloyd Arriola's passing. Here I am standing beside him in our
high school choir portrait at Lowell. I was a senior, he was a freshman. I was floored by the
talent of this young piano prodigy. Many years later, I was glad to connect with him through
Facebook. I wasn't surprised when I learned of his many accomplishments and accolades
through the years. I treasure the virtual interaction I had with him on FB. Lloyd, you will be
missed. Too soon. Too soon...

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Nina Edwards
Shocked and saddened to learn of this news. Lloyd always shared his light! The world has lost
a loving, caring, talented human being. May peace be with you, dearest Lloyd.

Adriana Elisa
Facebook is weird. It used to be a place where college kids who were tired of MySpace came
to post extended versions of AIM away messages.
Now, it's a place where you witness a community finding out about the passing of a dear
friend as it's happening. Watching dozens of friends of friends post to check on Lloyd Arriola
only to find out he had passed away was frightening and heartbreaking.
Lloyd was an amazing musician who was generous with his time and talents, having twice
volunteered to perform at my mom's charity concert for Do Wonders. My heart goes out to
his family and friends, and am grateful for the time that I had to know him and perform with
him.

Marcia Estipona Sample

To fellow Denman Middle School alumni, Lowell High alumni, Corpus Christi parishioners,
family and friends who knew the talented Dr. Lloyd Arriola May he continue to play sweet
music in heaven

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Allan Evans
Miss you. How cruel and unjust is fate.

Cara Evans
Heartbroken to hear about Lloyd Arriola's passing. I didn't know him long but he made a
strong impression on me. I met him when I was singing in New York. He was an amazing
musician and human being. I am going to miss his sharp wit and insight in politics, music and
just life in general. Rest in peace.

Samantha Farmilant

Absolutely devastated to hear about the passing of Lloyd Arriola. He was one of the most
beautiful pianists I've ever heard and a fount of wisdom, knowledge, and joy. I am so honored
to have been able to work with him.

Sarah Farrow
Rest in Peace, dear Dr. Lloyd Arriola. We will mourn and remember you. Your music, your
energy, and your love touched us all.

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Katrina Fasulo
I am so shocked that Lloyd Arriola is gone. He knew me since I was a little kid singing in the
children's chorus back in Dicapo when I was first introduced to the wonderful world of opera.
After La Boheme with Manhattan Opera, he pulled me and my mother aside and wanted to
make sure that I kept singing, and said that I clearly had a passion for opera and that I was a
great musician with a great voice and to take that and run with it. As a kid that was the best
thing in the world anyone could've ever told me.

I had worked with Lloyd again several times since that show, but that moment and those
words stuck with me, and will stick with me for a lifetime. It is so inspiring and wonderful to
discover how many of my colleagues and friends lives you had graced I had no clue how
many of my peers from across the country knew you and worked with you. Your larger than
life personality, musical contributions, and lovely spirit will be missed and will not be forgotten
soon. Rest in peace Lloyd and thank you for being one of my first supporters and an amazing
human being!

Chris Fecteau
Lloyd, so many people are devastated by your loss I'm so sad I did not get to know you
better. The gift that you seem to have given above all else is love and kindness. Your talent
was obviously masterful, but you inspired people with your passion, and your willingness to
share it. Godspeed, Lloyd. May your piano always been in tune and well regulated, and may
your colleagues who have gone before enjoy your music making and your humanity as much
as we all did.

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Jacob Feldman
I would like to add to the beautiful tributes to the depth and breadth of the musical prowess
of Lloyd Arriola.
I had the great pleasure of performing with him on numerous occasions. His musical
generosity overflowed just as his joyous personality.
You will be missed in so many ways.

Phoebe Fennell
Dear Lloyd,
My whole newsfeed is full of love for you. People talking about your musical talent, your ability
to whip a chorus into shape in a red-hot minute, your humor, your intelligence, your passion.
Each one has a funny story or an anecdote about how you inspired them. You are so loved,
friend.
Thank you for having graced us with your life. Thank you for pouring yourself out for each one
of us.
May flights of angels sing you to glory.
Rest in joy, friend.

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Nina Fine
My dear friend Lloyd, words cannot express my shock and sadness today realizing that you
have left this world. I am kicking myself for not making my way to see you as I had hoped to a
week and a half ago. You sounded sad on the telephone, wondering aloud why everyone all
of a sudden wanted to say goodbye now that you were leaving, alluding that you had been
lonely. You sounded ambivalent about a visit as you were in process of packing up your life
in New York.
I said we could FaceTime when you got to San Fran, but had no idea you wouldn't arrive. I
wanted to share your wisdom, talent and joy of music with my son, who was excited to play
the game "Try to Stump Lloyd" on the piano. I am devastated my son, who has such joy for
piano, will not get that opportunity and that I missed my last opportunity to tell you that you
were loved, admired and thought of constantly.

We met over 15 years ago in New York City, as part of an Off-Broadway musical "The Dressing
Room. Many auditions, performances, and rehearsals together, including when I was first
pregnant with my son. You were an important part of my life and I'm sorry I'm just telling you
now. So sad that the city took such a bright light and extinguished it. You will forever shine in
my memory of a warm and beautiful soul. You are missed.

Jessica Fisher
Mahal kita Lloyd Arriola. RIP.

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Lisa Flanagan
Lloyd Arriola was a wonderful, kind, talented and joyful man who I was privileged to know.
Just got to talk with him a bit a few days ago. He will be missed.
I was struck by a quote my friend, Paul Hecht shared:
"As one grows older one begins to feel victimized by dead friends. They become names in
which much of oneself is locked away and unusable.You dont blame them, but you blame
something of which they were; a deceptive part-mortality. You begin to look on mortality as
a practical joke which, with their aid, took you in for a long time.Whoever thought in these
sunny years that the table would be vacant, the room empty?"

Reynold Flores
Do you know who your first friend is?
Lloyd Arriola was my first friend. We met in 1977 in Kindergarten at San Miguel School in San
Francisco. He also was the first non-relative I would ever have phone calls with when we
exchanged phone numbers on construction paper. We learned that we liked watching
Wonderbug, The Flintstones... He introduced me to board games like The Game of Life, and
Chutes & Ladders... And he was the reason for the first time I got in trouble for playing out too
far from home (he was more than a block away)...
We went to the same schools up to high school. After San Miguel closed we were bussed to
Sheridan School. There, for the first time I would meet an older sister, his, who was Lynn.
During the years there we would swap lunches, fall for addictive video games like Pac-Man,
cultivate our digital watch collection, Members Only jackets... When I started playing piano in
3rd grade, I enticed him to learn too - and that really took him places as we would all see in
his years to come.
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He was my academic twin brother - people couldn't stop mistaking me for him and vice versa
as we were very competitive in class. From speed reading, math and popping off bad jokes
in class, we were too alike. So much so that we were to be "identified gifted students" in as
early as 3rd grade. He would eventually be school president, while I became school
newspaper editor.
This pattern followed us through James Denman Middle School. We corrected each other
we corrected teachers! We always enjoyed music together. We were in band those 3 years
too and as you can imagine, being able to play music through one of the best musical
decades, the 80s, was an amazing time! He played French horn, I played clarinet - we confided
in each other that we hated these instruments, but enjoyed that it took us out of class for
school events!
We were into watching pro wrestling, music videos, Knight Rider, That's Incredible, and
CHiPs... more video games (he had Intellivision while I had Atari), more tech (he had Betamax
while I had VHS), then there was comedies and the parodies made of songs and TV shows
oh, and all the bad words we learned that became everyday vocabulary! And yes, he too
became middle school president and I was middle school newspaper editor.
Come high school, he made it into Lowell, as I went to Balboa as they couldn't take me in that
year. I did rejoin him sophomore year. By then, in one year, he had been so involved with
playing in the school orchestra, furthering his classical training at the SF Conservatory of
Music, plus running track, (yes he ran track everyone) that he was finally coming into his
own, as was I as a mobile DJ and electronics.
We remained good friends and in touch throughout our lives. From afar, I followed his
successes in teaching, his performances around the world, on albums and even Carnegie
Hall, while I blogged tech news, wrote for magazines, and spoke on the radio. From our
annual meet-ups to reminisce, our phone calls, and sharing our hardships only we know we
would understand...
I was looking forward to him moving back here and helping him get acclimated to living in SF
again and him finally meeting my youngest daughter whom I named him as her Godfather
to.
I was having excitement in him maybe doing cameo performances at my DJ gigs.
His latest posts painted his preparations coming here: from his packing his NY life in boxes to
ship home, to his trying to find a buyer to off-load his baby-grand piano to these past few
days.
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His last post was a reply on July 14.

Just a few hours ago, I have learned of his passing.
I'm not ready to say goodbye, when I, Belinda, Alexis, Thetrumike, and so many were looking
forward to welcoming you back and support you in your new endeavors here.
I know I'll miss you, I'm not ready to miss you yet. An, "I'll see you later," or "I'll see you soon,"
is easier to do.
Maybe, just maybe, you woke up only
to see Oscar next to you and you
saying some explicative of having
wasted your time packing had you
known this was going to happen and
by now you are over it and getting
him up to speed on what has
happened since he left while having
some Little Joe's Pizza.
Either way, I'm am so very proud of
what you have accomplished in
yours. I'm am only lucky for having
you as part of my life.
You will be missed by so many. Until
we meet again my brother, do me a
favor and check on my Dad, sister,
and son. I can only look forward to
seeing you again and all of us
together enjoying your renditions of
80s hits turned classical.

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Patricia Forbes
I just found out that a very dear friend of a very dear friend of mine suddenly died in NYC. I
didn't know him personally but knew some people who knew him to be a first-class musician
with a heart of pure gold. Rest in peace, Lloyd.

Diane Fox
When I have down time, it forces me
to realize, no more Lloyd. Still can't
quite wrap my brain around that.
Right now it feels like we are
preparing to throw him a big party
but the reality is, the honored guest
won't be there. That's the surreal
part. Whenever we needed a friend,
Lloyd was there. He would listen. So
many performers have expressed
sentiments of how he was a
cheerleader to them. And he truly
was.
He wanted to make beautiful music and bring everyone along with him to make that music.
And he wanted to talk, talk about everything... but mostly politics. I loved talking about that
with him. (But alas, no matter how I tried to keep up with current events, he always knew more
and I was always in a bit of awe over him.) And he loved to laugh. And eat. A finer dinner guest
there wasn't to be found. When you were with Lloyd, you knew you would never get bored.
The world has lost a giant. I so wish this was just a dream and I'll eventually wake up and none
of "this" is real. If only.

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Alexander Frey
May you make music with the angels, dear Lloyd. Thank you for gracing our lives with your
beautiful spirit.

Claudia Friedlander
I am terribly aggrieved by the death of Lloyd Arriola, as I know are many of you. It feels utterly
senseless that someone so young, gifted, and generous would suddenly vanish from our
midst.
I last saw Lloyd a couple of weeks ago and could not fail to notice that he was in poor health.
I was relieved to learn from those who were closer to him than I was that he had a plan in place
to address things. So this loss is all the more devastating for having occurred when he was
right on the verge of putting this plan into action.
Tragedies sometimes inevitably occur, and I do not believe that there is anything that any one
of us could have done to avert this one. But now that I know I will never see or talk to Lloyd
again, Im regretting all the little things left undone and unsaid. Sometimes little things *do*
make a difference.
So in memory of Lloyd, here is what I am asking of myself and each of you today: Reach out
to someone you havent heard from in a while. Just say hello, and see how theyre doing. It
might mean a great deal to them. Im seeing so many people posting fond, loving and silly
memories that Lloyd would love to have read. I for one wish to get better about expressing
my enthusiasm for those I care about while they are still here.

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Ron Gache
I met Lloyd at James Denman middle school in the 6th grade. We didn't go to the same high
school and would just see him every now in then at Corpus Christi church. Then I got
connected with him through Facebook and saw that he became successful in his profession.
You will be missed, Lloyd. Rest in peace, buddy.

Katie Galetti
Very saddened to hear of the passing of a great musician and friend. Lloyd will be truly missed.

Laurakate Garner
Robert and I are shocked and saddened by the news that our friend, Lloyd Arriola, passed
away earlier today. Our thoughts and prayers of sympathy and condolences are with his family
and friends during this difficult time. Lloyd's immense talent both as a soloist and accompanist
were well known on both the east and west coasts. He had an amiable personality, was quick
to laugh at himself and others and had a keen sense of humor. Beloved by both the patrons
and fellow performers at Caffe Taci, he will be missed. Heaven gained an immense talent
today as his soul was filled with music.

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Kevin Genus
I first met Lloyd Arriola in the cafeteria at Peabody Conservatory of John Hopkins University.
It was Freshman orientation, we were both excited, enthusiastic young men. Looking back,
Im reminded of all the fun times we freshman shared. Our campus was boring by todays
standards we did not go on drinking binges, we would order food from anywhere that
delivered and have long discussions about everything.
The fact that Lloyd happened to be one of those rare individuals who actually listened, without
reading into what you were or were not saying or taking anything personal was universally
acknowledged as a true rarity. Unfortunately, just before we could discover another facet
within the secrets of the universe, some needy singer with a piano part tucked under her arm
would always interrupt our group discussions. We knew they were coming for Lloyd because
the echoing footsteps were quite deliberate. It is all so fitting.
Lloyd, I am honored to have known you in this world, and will pray for the ascension of your
soul in the next world of God. Thank you for the gift of friendship.

Jeremy Gerard
I am deeply saddened at the passing Lloyd Arriola. I had the pleasure of working with him on
countless recording sessions over the last 15 years. He was always so kind and
accommodating, doing whatever the singer wanted/needed so the session would run
smoothly. I enjoyed our many conversations about music and recording. I find it hard to
believe that I won't be seeing Lloyd this fall as audition season approaches. He will be greatly
missed around the Opera Center.

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Henry Geronimo
I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone so
far who has shown their love for our brother Lloyd
Arriola.
The sound of his baby grand playing in the house
at Oneida will be missed so dearly. The great trivia
questions that he would answer so quickly when I
would ask him to try and trip him up...? No chance!
He knew them answers! Such talent and wittiness,
or as I sometimes called him, smart ass. And I mean
SMART!
There are still so many stories to share about Lloyd.
It's great to read them. After 22 years away from
San Francisco it surely was time for him to come home. But no one would have ever imagined
that he would not be coming home to play that baby grand anymore.
Sitting with him almost every night at Christmas
season watching those operas or piano concerts,
or "Its a Wonderful Life" was all so special. And
with regards to watching the opera programs
with him, Not knowing what the heck they're
singing, or why the pianist or conductor reacts
the way they do, I would never understand yet I
knew it was Lloyd passion and comfort zone to
just sit there and enjoy that sound that he
appreciated so dearly.
This is a recent story I'd like to share...
When Lynn and I went to Japan he asked us to find a particular CD...and he added this note
which I copied and pasted:
"Aline van Baerentzen plays Beethoven. Betcha $10 you can't find that!"
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Well after only a few minutes at tower records in

Japan, low and behold there it was...
And what was his reaction?
"No fucking way.
That is it! I owe you $"
I loved Lloyd so much and how he appreciated
music, there's no place on earth I'd go out of my way
to find him a CD he wants. Yes, I'd do that for him
because he was my younger brother.
Thank you again to his colleagues, friends and students who have shared their beautiful
stories. Lloyds legacy will live forever in our hearts.

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June Gin
I can't believe my dear high school friend Dr. Lloyd Arriola passed away yesterday suddenly
in his apartment in New York City. He was just getting ready to return home to San Francisco
after 22 years of living on the East Coast. He was a really special person, a brilliant pianist who
had just played Carnegie Hall several months ago, a teacher and music coach, and a kind,
funny, silly, and generous soul. He would post every 5 minutes on Facebook about his
thoughts about music, the evils of Trump and the right-wing nut-jobs, Bay Area sports (his
prediction that the Giants would win the World Series in even-numbered years).
I first met Lloyd when we were 14 and in freshman year algebra at Lowell High School. He was
kind a child prodigy, performing his own piano compositions at lunchtime concerts, though
he would dispute the title "prodigy" years later on Facebook.
Years later, we reconnected in New York City after he posted in the Lowell Alumni Newsletter
about completing his doctorate at Julliard. We met at Starbucks and laughed at how silly we
were feeling like we wanted a sense of recognition for our academic accomplishments after
years of high school insecurity, anxiety, and imposter syndrome. On Facebook he always
addressed me as "Dr. Gin" to commemorate the fact that we met in 2007 when we both
finished our doctorates. We talked about how much running we could do in the career
ambition rat race before we finally had to stop and take a rest.
Later, as coffee turned into lunch at a Thai restaurant, he told me he was telling himself before
seeing me for the first time years later, "Okay, Lloyd, be nice..." but was relieved that the
conversation wasn't awkward and we had no shortage of things to gab about. "What I love
about you is your verbal diarrhea..." he said as we stopped off at his apartment in Hell's
Kitchen after lunch. I saw the grand piano that took up 70 percent of his living room and
commented on the fact that I could hear a trumpet playing scales during the whole time. "It's
not a dorm, you know, he responded.
A year later we reconnected with Othello Jefferson and Julia Rowling in San Francisco for a
meal at House of Prime Rib, a restaurant I would only dine at with someone like Lloyd. That
was followed by meals at Cafe Claude, Mission Chinese Food, Momo's, and other San
Francisco restaurants I will never eat at again without thinking of him. And he wrote me so
many supportive messages while I was caring for my parents during an illness and
hospitalization 2 years ago.
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His wonderful, spontaneous, witty, disarmingly-self-effacing nature was what made him so
amazing. My deepest condolences to his family and those who were fortunate enough to be
much closer to him than I was.

Laura Goldin
How does one say goodbye to someone I thought so very much of, shared so much with
(political musings, if you can call them that), cheered and grieved with (Giants baseball, in
particular) and whose abounding musical talent I so respected and loved? Lloyd and I never
met face to face. I had the pleasure of watching him live and in person one time only. Two
dear friend were astounded that, being we had so much in common, we never actually met.
Cabernet, Rachel, thank you both for what became a dear friend whose return to SF held do
much promise. Lloyd, there's a void which will never be filled. I will continue to think of you as
I fill my days with the wonderful Festival Mozaic music and try to ignore the RNC (all in your
honor).

Tina Gonzalez
Very sad news...I did not know Lloyd Arriola well, but I still remember when I met him MANY
years ago, giving him some good news and watching him do a little celebratory dance in my
office. Seeing Facebook flooded with his smiling face today is simultaneously heartwarming
and heartbreaking. I wish I had asked him whether he remembered that day at Juilliard, or
told him how his very sweet Facebook messages made my day more than once. But telling
him now so his family can see yet another person whose life he touched. Rest in peace.

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Jessica Gonzalez-Rodriguez
As excited as I am to begin rehearsals for "Hansel & Gretel," it's also bittersweet. I was
saddened by the news of the sudden passing of Lloyd Arriola, who was an amazing vocal
coach and pianist. I had the privilege of working with him last summer in Chicago and he gave
me some of the best advice I've ever received. He will be missed. RIP.

Isiah Green
I'm very heartbroken to hear that this wonderful musician, teacher, caring person and dear
friend has passed. He was a comedian in his own right; you couldn't help but have at least a
few good laughs with him. He was an inspiration to many children of New York City and I'm
sure all around the world.
I was at his apartment helping him pack last week, he seemed like his normal self. Being in
that space I got to get a glimpse into the realm of a true musician. In the middle of his living
room, pushed towards the window was his grand piano. I can't help but imagine the magic
that came from the romance between his fingertips and those keys. And all around this was a
beautiful 35-year collection of music scores, instructional music books (even for some crazy
one handed piano playing), CDs, opera DVDs, records, music magazines, playbills, and
presidential conspiracy books. He was super studious and his brain could have been my
entire life's music lesson. He spoke so much about his connection to his books, how they had
been his friends, and it hurt him so much to have to get rid of them.
As most of his collection sadly went out of the door (hopefully to people that will cherish it)
he encouraged me to grab as much of it as I could, and I did. I wish I could have gotten more,
but what I did get is special. I take it as a token of his mentorship, friendship, love, and
humanity. With it is a piece of him and I will make sure to keep that will me. R.I.P my dear
friend, Lloyd Arriola.

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Stefanie Greene
So devastated to hear of the unexpected passing of a dear friend, mentor, and talented pianist
& coach. Lloyd Arriola was relentlessly kind, genuine, and generous. He always had a smile
on his face and something to giggle about. His joie de vivre was infectious. I'm honored that
I was able to spend two summers learning from him and making music together. We often
had spirited discussions about singing, piano, music and art in general, and even doing a
recital tour together at some point. Sending so much love to the entire Arriola family and all
of his friends and colleagues. Rest in peace, Lloyd.

Denise Greene Barnes

It is with a heavy heart that I am posting of the sudden passing of Lloyd Arriola. He was a gifted
musician and a friend to many, including those of us at Lasker. Please keep his family and
friends in your prayers. Such an unbelievable loss to the music community. RIP Lloyd...you will
be missed terribly.

Rebecca Greenstein
We love you Lloyd Arriola.

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Tag Gross
Dr. Lloyd Arriola passed away suddenly yesterday. He was an outstanding musician and
pianist and a fabulous person with such a wonderful and positive energy. His real legacy for
us will be his work as an amazing teacher. He was Harrison's first mentor and was responsible
for encouraging his classical composition aspirations and introducing him to his first teacher
Dr. Philip Wharton (they are both pictured here with Lloyd after he had performed pieces by
both at Carnegie Hall). He was a beloved teacher at Riverdale Country School and
accompanied Victoria at many of her shows there. We saw Lloyd just a couple of weeks ago
and he was excited to be moving to San Francisco this week to help his parents. Lloyd, you
will be missed.

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Daniel Gundlach
I woke this morning to the devastating news that my beloved musical brother Lloyd Arriola
died sometime yesterday in his NYC apartment. He was moving back to SF this week to be
closer to his family. I am beside myself with grief. He was my favorite musical companion and
I'm finding it really hard to imagine my life without him. We were constantly trying to hatch
plans to take our show(s) on the road. Rest in peace, my dear friend.

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Andreas Hager
I was deeply sad today to hear of Lloyd Arriola's passing. Lloyd was an incredible colleague
who always brightened the room with his laugh, and made the world richer through his
musicianship. Lloyd, you will be sorely missed.

Ariel Halevy
I am shocked and saddened by the untimely passing of Lloyd Arriola. I only recently renewed
contact with him through FB. I met Lloyd at Santa Barbara's Music Academy of the West
festival in 1998 where we were both studying with Jerome Lowenthal. I remember how every
time Jerry started to cite a musical anecdote, Lloyd would interrupt, concluding the story, to
which Jerry, half amused and half annoyed, would say, Why do you know everything?
He had such vast knowledge in so many different fields it often seemed like nothing came as
news to him. He also had such a brilliant way of telling a story and making everybody laugh
their hearts out. His own laughter was so infectious that if you didn't laugh from the actual
story (which most likely you would have) you ended up laughing from his own giggle which
accompanied it.
Yesterday I was reading the FB feed of people naturally concerned by his absence from a
friendly gathering planned for him upon his departure from NYC to SF. Knowing the friendly
nature of this charming guy and his centralness in so many people's lives, this seemed indeed
unnatural. I feared the worst, and still was stunned to turn on my cellphone this morning and
read that the worst of nightmares came true.
How terribly sad and unfair... It is so touching to read so many people's emotional reactions,
people whose lives Lloyd had managed to touch in so many different ways. He was really such
a special and rare character, and will be missed by all who were lucky enough to know him.

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Lena Hall
You were an incredibly kind and sweet human being. You will be remembered and missed,
Lloyd Arriola.

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Angela Harrington
Lloyd I'm just so sad. What a beautiful man and musician. We're all a little better having
known and worked with you. I hope you and my Aunt Dot will sing "I left my heart" together.
I was so looking forward to our reunion soon, and I'll miss all of your hilarious comments in
real life and on Facebook.

Duncan Hartman
Just finding out the tragic news that Lloyd Arriola has passed away. I had the great fortune to
work with him on several projects and will always remember not only his astounding
technique, but his infectious love for making music, and his incredible generosity as a
colleague. RIP, dear Lloyd.

Tamara Haskin
I'm saddened and shocked to hear of the sudden and unexpected passing of a longtime
cherished friend and respected colleague, Lloyd Arriola. Lloyd was a remarkable pianist with
a love for people and a passion for music. We exchanged words of kindness on FB just last
week.
Lloyd took every opportunity to share his love for music, whether it was on the stage of
Carnegie Hall in NYC, or in the Public Schools, introducing young children to the beautiful
world of Classical Music. Lloyd was never pretentious, arrogant or exclusive about his art. He
loved the arts and he loved people. He took every opportunity to show this through his piano
playing. He had a true heart a servant, with his music.
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My heart and prayers go out to his family and friends. A precious soul has left us. I encourage
each of us to live life to the fullest, and to love and serve the Lord with your gifts, and to love
people and love music.
Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to the family
of faith. Galatians 6:10

Kofi Hayford
A great colleague and mentor Lloyd Arriola passed away last night. From the first time I met
him to this last beautiful concert we worked on together, I always admired Lloyd's demeanor,
passion for making fantastic music and his humility in spite of his numerous accolades and
accomplishments. His was such a rare combination and it is well-known.
The outpouring of love from all over the globe shows the far reach of his influence and the
sheer number of lives he touched. If the concert we put together signifying how music brings
us all together was your last, it was an even greater honor to have shared the stage with you
and hopefully, we brought additional joy to your time in this world. Rest well my friend. I'm
lucky to have known you.

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Annalisa Herbert
Farewell my friend! My memories of high school are filled with you at the piano leading our
high school choir! I guess the angels in heaven couldn't wait for you a moment longer! You
will be sorely missed!

Jose Heredia

Wow, so heartbroken and still in shock to learn of the passing of Lloyd Arriola. Such an
amazing musician, full of life and so passionate in his playing. I am blessed to have performed
alongside you, and will forever cherish those moments. Rest with the angels my friend, you
will be missed!

John Heyliger
I am truly sad to hear this news. I feel so honored to have been graced by your presence and
wisdom. May you play on!
Rest in peace and paradise, Lloyd Arriola.

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Jessica Hiltabidle
So incredibly sad to hear about the passing of Lloyd Arriola. He was such a pleasure to work
with and so wonderfully encouraging. Clearly he left such a cheerful and positive legacy, and
enriched the lives of so many of my peers. Thank you for all you gave to us.

Taryn Holback

Today I've been overwhelmed with sadness at the untimely loss of Lloyd Arriola. I only knew
him for a short time, but his passion for music made a strong impact on me. What a
tremendous loss.

Natalie Hopson
My heart is heavy over the loss of a brilliant artist and a generous, hilarious, and warm teacher
and friend. Lots of love to Lloyd Arriola and his family and friends. Lloyd, it seems that you
touched the hearts of everyone you met and lingered there. Some day I hope we'll make
music together again on the other side.

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Keith Howard
The warmth, brilliance, charm, diligence and megawatt positive energy that were my friend
and colleague Dr. Lloyd Arriola have suddenly and shockingly passed from this world. What
an immense loss to Lloyd's family, to his friends and to music. May all who loved and
respected him be consoled by happy memories of his unique spirit.

Elizabeth Huey-Levine

Lloyd Arriola was quiet and shy his freshman year in choir, (my Senior year with his big sister),
but he impressed us all as our choir piano accompanist. He is deeply loved and will be missed
by so many that have been touched by his presence while he was here.

David Noel Hughes

I am heartbroken over the sudden passing of my dear friend and favorite accompanist
(knowing he would want me to brag) Lloyd Arriola. I feel blessed to have known such a
talented, generous, kindhearted man.
Just last week we were talking and scheduling future plans. Now I am sitting here in disbelief
writing this. In his honor, please take a step back from what you're doing, look up from your
phone, and tell your loved ones how much you mean to them, because you're truly never
guaranteed tomorrow. I feel honored that I was able to talk and spend time with him these
past few weeks, and will never forget him.
Lloyd, I know in my heart that you are with God, playing your piano for him and his angels.

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Charles Hulin
As some point, I expect to write a
tribute to Lloyd Arriola on my blog,
but I'm not ready for that yet.
Tomorrow I head to Lasker for the
summer music festival of which
Lloyd was a charter member. We
will always remember him there.
For now, I am thinking many friends
might like to have these pictures.

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Othello Jefferson
My dear brother and friend of 30
years: Dr. Lloyd Arriola
I will miss your passion for life and
music and your great friendship. I will
miss our conversations ranging from
politics and Schenkerian analysis to
the SF Giants and the Flintstones.
I am so glad that you got a chance to
hold baby Olivia. I will make sure that
she knows your name and how much
you touched my life.
My prayers go out to the Arriola
family
and
all
others
who
experienced
your
warmth,
compassion, and musical expertise.
May God grant you the rest and
peace that only He can grant.

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Lauren Dariana Jelencovich

Completely shocked to hear of Lloyd Arriola's sudden death... He was such a ray of sunlight
and incredibly talented. I'm honored that I had the opportunity to work with him. Sending
love to his friends and family.

Darryl Jordan

Joy to sing with him at church. Sad to hear of his passing.

Andrew Joseph
I am positively in shock and heartbroken at the loss of my dear friend Lloyd Arriola. Lloyd and
I did our first Opera gig together in Sarasota, FL, in 2003. He was a gentle and kind soul on
top of being one of the best musicians and coaches I have ever known. I just saw Lloyd last
week and we were talking about life and the future. He was going to come coach musical
theatre at my new school. My students would have loved Lloyd, as I did. One of the best
people I've known. Life is short, in his case, way too short! Rest in peace my dear friend.

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Adam Juran
My heart is broken; a beautiful, musical soul, a fun colleague, a man both passionate and
compassionate has left us. Lloyd, you will be missed. My deepest condolences to all of his
family and friends.

Mariya Kaganskaya
Heartbroken at the loss of Lloyd Arriola, an extraordinary musician and human, who believed
in me when I had no idea what I was doing.

Judy Kemeny Applebaum

I only met Lloyd a few times, but a couple of things stand out in my mind. The first time I heard
him he was accompanying a chorus. I remember thinking, yeah, the chorus sounded great,
but who ON EARTH was that amazing pianist? At dinner after the concert, I was struck by his
brilliant intellect and his wicked sense of humor. We enjoyed some very spirited conversation!
RIP Lloyd... Gone MUCH too soon. You clearly touched many lives.

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Robert Kerr
Encouragement: The action of giving someone support, confidence, or hope. Persuasion to
do or continue something.
This morning, I read of the unexpected passing of a fine pianist, musician, and person, Lloyd
Arriola. I only had a single occasion to work with Lloyd at the Martina Arroyo Foundation Gala
in New York City a few years ago. He was nothing short of friendly, supportive, collaborative,
professional, and inspirational.
The thing that meant the most that I took away from our brief time together was his
encouraging words to me about my singing voice. In pursuing a career in opera and classical
music, we all encounter so many different people from all backgrounds and walks of life. The
encouragement when we get it is like gold or a fine diamond that we stick in our pockets and
carry with us, to recall when we need to lift ourselves up periodically in the toilsome pursuit
of this career and to be reminded that it is still worth our every effort.
Lloyd was one of the positive and endearing professionals I've crossed paths with and he
taught me to believe in myself more. He was a singer's coach, pianist, and accompanist who
really seemed to understand what this career means to aspiring singers. Other than a
handshake and some email correspondence here on Earth, I'd like to say thank you again for
sharing a few moments of your life with me to sing my first public performance of the Prologue
from Pagliacci. It was and will always be a profound honor and privilege.

Tom J Killhoury
Deeply saddened to hear that Lloyd Arriola has passed on. I was fortunate enough to work
with him a couple of times and even grab some good with him and Michael Celentano. The
music world will surely miss this brilliant musician. RIP Lloyd.

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Jackson King
Rest in peace, Lloyd. Memory eternal.
My thoughts and prayers go up for all his loved ones in this sad time.

Craig Kirkland
We found out last night that our friend Lloyd had unexpectedly passed away. He was one of
the greatest musicians I ever knew, and an even better person. Goodbye, buddy. You will be
missed so much.

Brandi Koonce
Jeff and I mourn the passing of a great man we met eight summers ago at Farberman's
conducting workshop at Bard College. He was one of the sweetest people I have ever met.
He kept up with us via Facebook and always had kind words to say. RIP Lloyd Arriola.

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Manuela Kriscak
I still find it difficult to think you are not with us anymore... I can't realize that...
I was organizing to come in New York in October and see you...
Dear Lloyd, I heartily thank you for the wonderful music we shared together ...
"A rain drop will be your sadness,
a sun shine will be your smile,
and when a rainbow will appear on the sky
I will know that you are still playing ..."
Ciao...Manuela

JoAnn Kulesza
Heavy heart today: it is the 25th anniversary of my father"s passing, a cousin's mother &
mother-in-law passed away suddenly this weekend and this morning, news of the passing of
Lloyd Arriola, a Peabody graduate based in NYC...a beautiful person, musician and soul. He
was all packed and ready to move back to his home town of San Francisco, when friends
found him in his apartment.
We who knew him are all in disbelief and devastated by the untimely death of this mensch.
Thoughts and prayers go to his close, close friends and family who are in shock. Just too heavy
a dose of mortality on this Monday morning. Carpe Diem, my friends...EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!!!

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Rachel Claire Labovitch

Deeply saddened by the passing of Lloyd Arriola. Lloyd you were a tremendous talent and
thank you for being such an excellent coach to me. I will miss you.

Wendy Landers-Lee
I am so sad to share this but I know there are so many folks on FB who knew Lloyd Arriola and
would want to send prayers out for Lloyd's family, his friend Daniel and those whose lives he
touched. I just learned Lloyd passed away. May his memory be a blessing.

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John Lane
Another funny memory of when my brother & I met with Lloyd Arriola at his parents' house in
'92:
I jokingly told him to play "Johnny B. Flat", and he gamely ripped into a righteous boogiewoogie while smiling that billion-watt grin.

Mathew Lane
An old classmate and Facebook friend, Lloyd Arriola, passed away suddenly last week. He
was my age. He, too, was a pianist, albeit one of much greater accomplishment than myself.
He lived and worked in NYC, living a musician's life that many of us only dream about. Since
I joined Facebook in 2009, I was regularly in touch with him. He was funny, witty, crazy smart,
highly opinionated, good hearted and a musician of the highest caliber.
I actually hadn't seen Lloyd since he graduated Peabody in 1994, but Facebook perpetuated
the illusion of being closer, as it so easily does. For years, I had vague plans to travel to NYC
and to, among other things, pay him a visit. Life moves along, people get busy, and those
plans never materialized. His passing is a reminder to me that tomorrow is not promised.
Whatever it is - if it's about love & friendship and connection with others - do it now. If you can
help it, don't postpone that driving trip to see an old friend who's only a couple hours away.
Do it today.

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Prince Lawas
Heaven definitely gained another Angel. RIP Kuya Lloyd Arriola. I still can't believe it, we're
going to miss you man.

Cabernet Lazarus-Gavin
Lloyd Arriola, no one has been more proper and improper! I feel so lucky to have shared
almost 30 years of the loveliest of friendships with this wildly talented, giant hearted, Filipino
George Castanza, loud, opinionated, thoughtful, compassionate, wonderful guy.
He made me feel like my singing was really stunning when he accompanied me.
We had so much fun together, so many supportive convos, interesting and enlightening
convos.
He knew how to say "thank you" in at least 25 different languages, which is so sweet and
typical of him. I will so miss you, Lloydie. My deepest condolences to his family, whom he
spoke of so often with so much fondness.RIP my dear Lloyd.

Christopher Leake
I first met Lloyd Arriola when I had a last-minute accompanist cancellation for an audition with
the Cleveland Orchestra for a Faure Requiem. Lloyd jumped in and played wonderfully and I
got the job. After playing, he pulled me aside and told me how much he enjoyed my singing
in French and wanted to connect me to someone looking for a baritone to perform the debut
of several French song cycles at the American Music School at Fontainebleau.
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Several weeks later I was in France enjoying the summer and having one of the most formative
music experiences in my young career. This introduction to Lloyd's goodness exemplifies the
type of friend and colleague he was. Over the years he always sent gigs my way and kept me
abreast on the news of friends and colleagues who were ill or needed prayer.
We always sought out opportunities to collaborate, even if it was just going through a score
of rep he wanted to accompany or I just wanted to sing. He lived an ethic of care and great
compassion. And I was so honored to celebrate his recent Carnegie Hall recital. Nobody
deserved it more.
I am devastated at his loss (like so many in the New York Classical Music community). We were
just in touch on Friday about his big move to SF and his sadness over having completely
packed up his NYC apartment. We were joking about how he could re-invent himself with a
California persona for his return home. He then said after being here so long, he didn't know
how to be a non-New Yorker.
I guess he gave his whole heart, love, passion and life to make all of us here in NYC better,
happier and more successful. Now our angel has gone off to greener pastures to bring the
magic and love he sprinkled on us to the next lucky recipients. So thankful to have so many
recorded cassettes from our old coachings!!!

Jacqueline Leary-Warsaw
We have lost a great one. I have a heavy heart this morning after learning yesterday of the
sudden death of my friend Lloyd Arriola. This amazing New York pianist, conductor, and vocal
coach had degrees from Peabody and Juilliard, and he was only 43 years old. I'll miss you
Lloyd.

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Taotao Ledbetter
I met Lloyd Arriola when I was just starting my music career, though he continues and will
continue to inspire to me even now that it's over. I was shocked to hear of his passing. The
world will certainly miss his tremendous personality and talent. He was so genuinely
encouraging to everyone around him, breathing life into music and musicians alike. Lloyd
could always turn frustration into fun.
I remember practicing a difficult Hansel and Gretel scene one summer evening. Apparently,
Lloyd was one floor below coaching a singer. It was hot, so all the windows were open. While
taking a break to make a few notes in my score, I heard the exact same passage played
virtuosically (must have been by ear or by memory or a combination) from below. I went down
to investigate, and Lloyd and his singer cheered when I found them. We chatted for a bit, and
my practice session went much better afterwards.
I never felt like Lloyd was being the least bit condescending, even though he could play all of
my scenes much better than I could. That's a pretty special quality in the small but high-strung
classical music world. We'll miss you, Lloyd. Rest in peace.

Anne Lewin

I just saw you my friend. We had dinner together and you met my daughter and her friend.
We talked about our theatre days and laughed about the past. It wasn't so long ago and now
you are gone. You taught so many to hear the music, feel the music and sing the songs. You
brought light and laughter into our hearts.
I see so many others on this forum pay tribute to you. I know you are watching all of this from
above and I hope you are smiling. Smiling that while on this great Earth for such a short time,
you made such a profound difference in so many people's lives. You will live on in our hearts
Lloyd. Rest my friend and bring music to those around you.

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Anderson Lim
Thankful for my childhood friends and praying for our dear Lloyd Arriola's peaceful rest in
God's hand, where heavenly music abounds. Along with Lawrence Rush and Spencer
Chandler, Lloyd was and will continue to be a part of our quorum, our support system, our
brotherhood ("barkada" as we would say in Tagalog), and our hearts.

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Philip Littell
You lovely man.

Julian Long
Remembering Lloyd Arriola. This is such a shock. RIP, dear man.

Timothy Long
I first met Lloyd when we worked together on The Music Teacher. Lloyd was a wonderful
pianist and musician who kept us all in stitches. My favorite times were when his pre-show and
intermission comments would be picked up by the microphones and sent into the house. Oy.
He will be missed. Rest in peace, Lloyd.

Frank Lopardo
Rest in peace Lloyd Arriola. Such a fine man and musician. You will be greatly missed by all
with whom you worked and guided through their musical journey.

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Beverly Love
Dear Lloydie. What a jolly,
generous, and gentle soul. I
cannot believe that I will never
hear your laugh again! Your
laugh was always genuine and
infectious although I know
there were plenty of struggles
along the way as well. I first met
Lloyd Arriola almost 14 years ago
through Lawrence Rush, and he
(most often alongside Gloria
Parker) became one of my
favorite and most frequent
collaborators over the next
decade plus. He had been a
constant in my life here, and it breaks my heart that we will never make music again or share
anecdotes and jokes over a good meal. My heart is with his family. He loved you dearly.
One of our more recent conversations was about Barbers Despite and Still, a piece Lloyd
was then enamored with. I think these lines by Robert Graves really get to the heart of his
character: Both of despair / Yet still might share / This happy will: To love despite and still.
Meanwhile, these have been on my heart the last couple of days:
I am not resigned to the shutting away of loving hearts in the hard ground. Edna St. Vincent
Millay
Though lovers be lost, love shall not. And death shall have no dominion. Dylan Thomas

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Chantel Cherisse Lucier

You were, and will continue to be, a wondrous, funny, wildly intelligent and talented man. We
love you Lloyd Arriola. Rest in peace, dear heart.

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Roy Lustbader
This incredible giant, musician, friend, passionate and full of life, has found rest.
Thank you Lloyd for filling our world with your passion and music. Thank you for inspiring me,
and believing in me. Thank you for long rides home in San Francisco, and relating to my crazy
island family.
Peace and love, you're with the stars now.

Sasha Madfes
My heart is broken about the passing of my dear friend of over 25 years, Lloyd Arriola.

Kristina Malinauskaite
Was worried when I heard the news about Lloyd Arriola missing yesterday and truly hoped
that it was nothing serious.
The news of him no longer being with us last night/this morning has truly shaken me. I didn't
know Lloyd that well, he had played in an opera I was in and in some masterclass a few years
ago, and I heard him accompany my friends in a concert.
Running into Lloyd at auditions/rehearsal spaces was always a pleasant surprise though. No
matter how long it has been since we last spoken, he always remembered me, said hello and
genuinely asked what I was up to. His happiness for life, music and ability to remember people
always amazed me.
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Lloyd touched many people, left us completely too soon and will be very missed. My deepest
condolences go out to his family and friends.

Ben Malkevitch

When someone like Lloyd Arriola dies, there is suddenly a big void in the world which we
need to fill. Here was a man who was not only immensely talented, bright, knowledgeable,
wise, and witty, but who consistently gave of himself and was a devoted son, sibling, friend,
colleague, and mentor to so many.
I got to work with him in San Francisco for several summers and not only was he very
supportive of me but I learned so much about making music and being a good person from
him. My thoughts and prayers are with all who knew and loved him; let's try to do our best to
fill that void with music and love. He would have wanted that.

Kristin Maloney
Lloyd Arriola, rest well, and you will be missed.

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Jennie Marcial
We just heard of the passing away
of Dr. Lloyd Arriola. He was a vocal
teacher to Ashlie and a special part
of the Professional Performing Arts
School family! He was a great artist
and such a force of nature to be
around! We loved you Lloyd, very
much, and you will be greatly
missed! Our condolences to his
family that loved him so much!
There is so much more I will say
about Lloyd but for now this is
all...too sad!

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Theresa Marie
I am so heartbroken by the sudden passing of my dear friend, Lloyd Arriola. Our families were
very close and I am grieving along with them. I still remember when he first started taking
piano as a child and was so amazed at what a talented and accomplished musician he had
become. Please keep his family in your prayers.

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Kate Maroney
Heavy-hearted to hear of the loss of both Lloyd Arriola and Greg DeTurck, both departed
much too soon, both amazing pianists and lights in our world. Rest in peace.

Shaina Martinez
I had the pleasure of a chance audition with Lloyd Arriola a bit over a year ago. I'm very
shocked and saddened by his sudden passing. But I do have a story to share. I was sent to
NYC for a private audition for Martina Arroyo and I was down on my luck. I did not get
accepted anywhere for grad school and I was questioning if singing was for me since I heard
so many no's and this was my one chance to figure out where to go from my low point.
Lloyd played that audition. From the very moment I met him, I knew I was in the right hands
and I knew that God had sent one of his angels to ensure everything would go right. He was
incredibly friendly, passed no judgement, and is one of the best pianists I have ever been
fortunate enough to collaborate with. I was amazed and humbled to have the honor of singing
with him since all of you who know him, know that he is a ridiculously amazing musician.
After the audition, we had a nice long conversation where he gave me all this hope, telling
me what to do next for my career, who to talk to, who to sing for, what to sing, telling me not
to give up hope. He didn't know anything about me, but his words not only gave me healing,
joy, and inspiration - they gave me determination to keep moving forward. Thank you Lloyd
for helping me turn my life around in that audition. And thank you believing in me at my lowest
moment, when I truly did not believe in myself.

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David Masucci
My heart is heavy with shock and sadness. Just got word of my friend's sudden passing...really
terrible news! Master pianist and educator Lloyd Arriola had just finished organizing (packing
up his possessions for shipment, cleaning out his apartment, etc.) a BIG move back to San
Francisco, CA, after living in NYC for 22 years.
His exodus back home was merely days away this big leap is something I've wanted to do
for quite some time in hopes of newfound joy & happiness, but mostly to reunite with friends
& family (permanently). Like Lloyd, I've spent most of my life in the Big Apple (pursuing music),
but like so many others, our hearts were left back home.
This guy was loved and appreciated by many including his musical peers and students. I can
only wonder what he would've accomplished in his golden years. It breaks my heart that his
life was cut so short.
Sending his family & friends my heartfelt condolences and support.

Ben Matis
My dear old friend, twenty-four years ago you dragged me kicking and screaming through
Seymour Barab. You were a tremendous teacher and friend, with a personality almost as big
as your kindhearted beautiful soul. We've made music many times since, and having you
behind me always meant I could give it my all, because you certainly did. I will miss you so,
and I already do. Thank you for everything you gave so much.

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Lily McCarthy Green

He brought so much beauty and joy to the PPAS vocal department. An amazing pianist, an
incredible teacher, one that truly cares about his kids. He has touched the lives of many, and
will be dearly missed. I am so thankful to him for always believing in me and encouraging me.
I will never forget his storkish conducting, his endless efforts to make us all laugh, the
illumination that his playing brought, and all of the advice he has given me over the past three
years. Lloyd Arriola, I love you, I miss you. May you rest in peace.

Everett McCorvey
Remembering Lloyd Arriola. Taken in October after a rehearsal of the Carmina Burana in New
York. With Michael Finnelly. Two extraordinary musicians!

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Mob McQueen
Now I really have nothing positive to say about my high school experience in my major.
However, in the vocal department there was a light. That light was the well known pianist Dr.
Arriola. Now to hear of his passing moves me to tears and shatters my heart. His love for music
and his passion as a teacher always inspired me. Having to have known someone with so
many talents I am honored to say I knew him. The way he played piano no one else can ever
replace him. God has earned another angel. I pray for you and I miss you Dr.
Even though I drove you crazy with my outgoing personality and my need to get up and roam
the halls, you were always there when I needed you. You watched me grow from a young
soprano and were the first teacher to compliment me instead of criticize. Thank you for your
gift Lloyd.
I never thought this day would come.
R.I.P Lloyd Arriola.

Chelsea Melamed
So incredibly sad and shocked to hear that Lloyd Arriola passed away yesterday. He was such
a talented musician, inspirational coach, and all-around infectiously positive person. Sending
all my love to his family and large network of friends and mentees.

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Mary Therese Meler

I've been trying to find the right words to express my grief over the loss of Lloyd Arriola, our
musical director from the Fordham University theater days. I'm still not sure I have them, but I
offer this as tribute to an immensely gifted man who was taken from us far too soon.
When I was cast in my first Fordham musical, Into the Woods, I struggled with an extreme
lack of confidence. Lloyd was patient with me and offered some of his free time to help me
gain my footing. He believed in me more than I believed in myself at the time, and his
encouragement and mentorship meant the world to me. On opening night, he slipped me a
card with an incredibly sweet and inspiring letter inside, which I still cherish 11 years later.
I also remember him accompanying me at an audition the following year. I tanked. Crashed
and burned. Lloyd actually stopped playing in the middle of the number, smashed the keys
and then asked me in front of the director, "Mary, what the hell happened?! Last time I saw
you, you could sing!" It took the seriousness right out of the situation and made everyone in
the room laugh. Then he gave me a second chance, telling me to name a song. Any song.
Turns out, via his vast musical knowledge and impeccable memory, he knew just the one I
named. Thanks for saving that audition for me, Lloyd!
Such was Lloyd's teaching style: from the heart. He was a massively talented Juilliard-trained
pianist with big jokes, big love, and the biggest smile. The world will forever be at a loss
without his energy, gentleness, kindness, and humor. To his friends and especially his family,
Lloyd touched so many with his gifts. He has left a beautiful, musical mark on this Earth. My
thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.

Karen Merzenich
Wishing the family and loved ones of the wonderful Lloyd Arriola peace and love tonight. So
sorry to hear of his passing he taught and inspired so many of us during his life. Truly a life
well-spent in service and sharing his talents and gifts in so many ways. The world has lost a
great musician, mentor, teacher, and friend.

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Terina Meyerwest
My dear sweet, funny, charmingly exuberant Lloyd, too too soon. We will miss you so
tremendously. Your banter, your in jokes. But mostly your jovial spirit and your passionate
playing. I am jealous of the heavenly chorus surely being raised at your welcome. Rest well,
steak knives.

Paige Elizabeth Michels

So saddened by the passing of such an incredible person, pianist and musician, Lloyd Arriola.
Though I didn't know him well, I had the pleasure of coaching with Lloyd last summer at
Chicago Summer Opera. In the four short weeks I worked with him, I noticed that he was
always ready to make you laugh hysterically while always impressing upon you his musical
genius. I will never forget the time he sat me down and rambled off about 15 arias that I should
take a look at. What an intellect. Rest in peace, Lloyd. Pray that you are playing Heaven's piano
to your heart's content.

Carina Mifuel
Thank you Lloyd:
For laughing at YouTube videos at 1AM.
For calamari and Moroccan chicken pies.

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For listening to me rant about religion and politics.

For praying for me and family during times of overwhelming grief and pain.
For helping me to remember how much I loved music and for helping me to make goals for
myself after I forgot how to dream.
You have helped me sing my song of life more freely and fully.
From one Liberal Mormon to one Liberal Catholic: God be with you, until we meet again.

Jennie Millsap Crutchlow

In thinking about the life and music-making of Lloyd Arriola today, and in listening to all of the
clips that people have been posting today, I'm reminded of what a breathtakingly beautiful
community we are all in. So much grace and so much talent everywhere, and all intersecting
with Lloyd.
Friends, I know the business is hard. I know there is anxiety and self-doubt, and harsh criticism,
and financial struggles, and waiting for the break," and long hours practicing which often
feel thankless, and I know there can be pettiness and cattiness in the industry. And everyone
spends long stretches away from loved ones.
But in what has often, especially lately, seemed like a dark, dark world, you all bring light and
beauty and love. Keep doing it. Don't quit. Your music heals.
Let that be Lloyd's legacy: all of you.

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Nicole Mitchell
Lloyd Arriola, I am HEARTBROKEN that you are no longer with us. I LOVED and RESPECTED
you with ALL MY HEART and will listen to some music by Leonard Bernstein in your honor.
You were such a FUNNY, LOVING, PASSIONATE soul and though tears sting my eyes this
morning, they will turn to tears of joy remembering your quick wit and hearty laughter. Play
on in the heavens my Friend. I LOVE YOU!!!!!

Francesca Mondanaro
I just have no words, except to alternate between sadness and absolute rage. We have not
spent time together for a while but I have known him for years and always considered him a
friend. Bumping into him at Shetler or some other studio and catching up and BSing, and
mostly nerding out over talking music always made my day. Lloyd was one of the most
sensitive, brilliant and deeply talented musicians I know and he was all heart. I have no words.

Elizabeth Mondragon-Groff
So sad to hear of the passing of a wonderful colleague and brilliant artist, Lloyd Arriola. You
will sorely be missed, my dear. You touched many lives, and your memory will always give me
joy.

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Duane Adolph Moody

One of my Peabody colleagues and friends, Lloyd Arriola suddenly passed away in his NYC
apartment!! He played with me at an audition some years ago: great piano musician. Another
TALENT gone too soon. I cant

Christine Moore
I'm so sad for the cruel, untimely loss of Lloyd Arriola. Although I only knew him a little bit,
those few instances of music-making and chatting were very rewarding. He was a wonderful
man and artist. After collaborating on the vocal end of his pianistic prowess, it was also so
much fun chatting with him afterwards- he had an amazing wit and so much charm, and was
passionate about so many things music of course as well as politics and any Bay Area
sports team. The world is much emptier without him. I hope he knows that he is loved and will
be sorely missed.

Julia Moorman
Lloyd will be missed. His kindness, musicality and humour touched so many lives. Words
won't do, but music will.

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Lucinda Mok
I knew Lloyd in high school (I was in the band), and we used to spend some of our free time
in the band/orchestra room taking turns on the piano, showcasing our skills. I was so
impressed by Lloyd's natural ability and skills, and was especially impressed that he
composed his own compositions. I always thought that when he grew up, he would attend
Juliard, and perform at Carnegie Hall...
With fond memories,
Lucinda Mok

Lizzie Moran
Lloyd was a wonderful man, a talented
musician and had the kind of spirit we
should all aspire to have. Lloyd, thank
you for your unwavering kindness and
encouragement. You will be greatly
missed.

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Gina Morgano
I am heartsick over the loss of a generous man, teacher, pianist and friend. Lloyd Arriola, your
talents and kindness will be deeply missed. You were always an advocate for me - in my corner
both in San Francisco and in New York. I was so proud of you for making this homecoming
leap, even though we were all going to miss you in NY. It is because of you that I got my first
singing job in New York - and at Lincoln Center, no less! Thank you for always being there for
me. May you now and forever make music with the angels. Rest in peace dear friend.

Ariela Morgenstern Wilson

So sad to hear of the sudden and tragic death of the incredibly gifted and warm Lloyd
Arriola My heart goes out to his family for such a monumental loss. Too soon is an
understatement.

Michael Morrow
I've been so heavy hearted today that I just couldn't be on Facebook. The world lost one of
the kindest souls (not to mention WILDLY talented) in Lloyd Arriola. He was always the first to
greet you with that huge, infectious smile. You are already dearly missed, my friend.

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Susan Morton
Lloyd Arriola? How can he be gone? Stops my breath just to think about it. So talented and
such a presence. Too young, too much to give and so generous a nature. It boggles me. RIP
and let us all dedicate our music making in the next days to his memory.

Jeannette Mulherin

"When some men die it is as if you had lost your pen-knife, and were subject to perpetual
inconvenience until you could get another. Other men's going is like the vanishing of a great
mountain from the landscape, and the outlook of life is changed forever." Phillips Brooks
Lloyd Arriola, when you left us, my landscape changed. Look out for your old friends below,
until we meet again. Love you, Lloyd.

Ruth Mullen
I am so sorry. Lloyd, may you rest in peace.

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Atsuko Murakami
Rest in piece, Lloyd.
You are kind, funny and a great pianist.
I liked your laugh.
I'll never forget you

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Peter Murphy
What a horrible loss! I knew Lloyd from our time together at Peabody, and while we were
never close friends, he was always so warm and friendly to me. It wasn't till years later that I
realized what a special musician and person Lloyd really was. We hadn't seen each other in
years, but ran into each other in of all places Deer Isle, Maine. He of course was performing
in a concert I just happened to be attending while on vacation. He immediately recognized
me and we talked for at least an hour about our days at Peabody and just music in general. It
was one of those moments in my life that has always stuck with me. He will be missed.

Sharmay Musacchio
Still in shock over the loss of yet another friend, Lloyd Arriola. I will miss our passionate
conservations about Opera and the love for our hometown Sports teams. Your amazing
talent, guidance, loving heart, unique wit, competitive spirit and loyal friendship will never be
forgotten. Heaven has gained another angel! I love you my friend, rest in peace.

Alisa N Noel
Rest in peace and love to our cousin, Kuya Lloyd Arriola. Your music and talent will live on...we
love and will miss you dearly

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Hiro Noguchi
I miss this dude dearly. 1994.

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Dario Nolfi
Lloyd, the world is a little less special without you in it. I'm grieving at work, thinking of you
and your family.

Jewel Notrahw

A very good friend who was like family to my brother Philip, so therefore family to me,
suddenly left this world. Too young. Too soon. But thank you Lloyd or Lloyddy as Philip always
referred to you, for the beautiful musical interpretations and joyful, insightful memories you
leave us with. I know my brother is hurting beyond words that you are gone. Rest assured
dear friend, he will channel his grief into a brilliant musical tribute, inspired by you. I loved
every moment we all spent together.

Sean OBoyle
Vale Lloyd Arriola Suzanne and I treasure the memory of you performing a salon in our
apartment with Claudia and friends. Your knowledge, witticisms and humor is sadly needed
in these troubled times. Rest well Lloyd.

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Michelle Oesterle
I felt a deep sense of urgency when
flying from New York to San
Francisco last Sunday to call Lloyd
Arriola the very next day. I wanted
to invite him to my children's home
in San Francisco for dinner. I
thought it would be great fun to see
him on the opposite coast, meet my
family and let him know we could
continue to see each other fairly
regularly as I am often in San Fran.
I am still in denial that Lloyd is
actually no longer with us
physically. Instead of having him as
a dinner guest I will be attending his
funeral services this weekend.
While I am completely devastated, I
am also extremely grateful I will be
able to be present at his funeral to
personally express my condolences
to his family

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Vago Ohanyan
RIP, dear friend Lloyd Arriola.

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Katie Olivencia
It is so tremendously heartbreaking to hear about the passing of one of the greatest musicians
and teachers I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Lloyd Arriola, thank you for all the time
you spent guiding me through some of my toughest pieces, and thank you for believing in
me when I didn't believe in myself. You have impacted so many peoples lives in such a
positive way, and you will never be forgotten. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

Eve Orenstein
We were so lucky to have known and made music with Lloyd Arriola.

Josh Page
Lloyd such wonderful memories working with you in Scrooge as a child. An incredible musical
director and a great friend. Will miss running into you at the MET. All my love. Thank you for
the music.

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Magrose Paguia
To our dearest nephew Lloyd Arriola. RIP. We miss you, Lloyd.

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Amy Palomo
I am so sad to learn of my friend and colleague's sudden passing yesterday. Lloyd Arriola
collaborated with me on a number of recordings and projects. He was my favorite
collaborative pianist for his vibrant spirit and intelligent conversation in breaks. But most
remarkable was his tremendous heart. The last time we worked together was on his Bernstein
Anniversary concert, in which he wept during the last address of the audience, because a
beautiful dream of his was coming true. Enjoy, my friend, the place now where all beautiful
dreams come true. We will miss you until we meet again.

Andrew Pardini
Dei pazzi l'amor tetro
che lacrime distilla.
Se non ride e sfavilla
l'amore fiacco e roco.
Maestro - Friend - "Wild and Crazy Guy.

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Yunnie Park
I will never forget you Lloyd Arriola.
Rest in peace.

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Almie Patricio
Oh Lloyd Arriola, you may have been taken from this
world too soon, but your legacy lives one all the aweinspiring stories that your friends and family have
shared over the last two days.
You have touched so many with your giant heart and
genuine personality. May you rest in eternal
paradise, Lloyd. I am still in shock and total disbelief.
And you know what? Every time I hear the sound of
a piano playing, I will think of you.

John Patricio

When I heard the news, I couldnt believe it. I was at a loss for words. You are a kind loving
person that made an impact on everyone you meet. You have a ready smile that lights up the
room with positive energy. It is a warm salutation that brings out the best in everyone. My
heart aches even though I know you are in a better place. Brother Lloyd, you will be missed.

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Jamie Patterson
Dearest Lloyd Arriola, my best performing memories in NYC are action packed with you, you
had my back, you were the best part of the act, you were the best Father to crazy old Rose,
you stole the show, you stole my heart. I will hold you in mine forever.

Max Perlman

Rest in peace, Lloyd. You were a very kind and talented man and will be missed.

Erika Person Werner

My heart is heavy tonight as we mourn the sudden passing of Lloyd Arriola. Lloyd was a great
musician, and one of the kindest souls in the business. I'm grateful to have been able to count
him among my friends. My prayers go out to his family tonight. And to Lloyd: I know you're
out there, and I'm sending you my love and gratitude for your friendship and the music we
made together. Thank you for always believing in me. I'm going to miss you, my friend.
The silver lining of Lloyd's passing, if there could ever be one, is that I'm seeing pictures &
performances of his that I've never seen before. I don't think that Facebook will ever fully
reveal the magnitude of Lloyd's reach into the lives of artists around the world, but there has
been such a fierce outpouring of love and especially gratitude for him that it's overwhelming.
Here's a performance that I'd never seen, but I was reminded immediately how Lloyd
managed to make a piano sound like a full orchestra. He was a brilliant and passionate soloist,
but also one of the most sensitive collaborators I've ever had the pleasure of working with.
I'm just stunned that he's gone. Oh, Lloyd. What will we do without you?
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Sarah Jane Pietlicki

I had a lot of feelings going on today. Unfortunately, my day started out rough I found out
that a vocal coach that I briefly worked with (at BASOTI), Lloyd Arriola, passed away yesterday.
I only had the opportunity to work with him for four weeks, but those four weeks working with
him and at BASOTI completely changed my life.
Lloyd, even years after the program, remained a constant source of positivity and motivation.
Working with him was a guiding light during a really dark time of my musical life. Years after
the program, the few times I caught a status on Facebook of him saying he was in Chicago,
we would try to set up a time to meet, but it never worked out. I always thought, even up to
today, that I would get to see him again and we would share in our love for obscure classical
music. Even if he wasn't in my life, he was always in my heart.
Today is also the first day of the CJP Jazz Academy camp an experience I care so deeply
for. Even amidst the loss I felt this morning, I felt light and positivity because of my love for
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this camp and its people. Thinking of Lloyd actually reminded me of why I do what I do. I had
such a life-changing experience working with him at my "adult camp." I strive everyday to give
these students even a fraction of the experience I had, because I still feel the magic from that
summer.
So this summer is for you, Lloyd. I'll help continue your work of educating people about the
beauty of music. I'll be forever grateful for your presence in my life.

Vanessa Polgar Sonner

Lloyd was a class act and I am stunned to hear of his sudden passing. We grew up together
and spent countless hours in the orchestra room of our high school talking about piano, music
and the future. Lloyd achieved what few only dream of accomplishing his Doctorate Degree
in Piano Performance from Julliard, numerous successful concerts at Carnegie Hall, a career
in New York, but he was ready to come back home in just days. I so looked forward to his
return. Lloyd was witty, funny, wickedly talented, a truly beautiful pianist, and an all-around
good guy. Just heartbroken... Sending so much love to his family and friends on this very sad
day.

Ryan Policarpio
Rest in peace Kuya Lloyd. God bless your soul. You will truly be missed.

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Jeff Prillaman
Oh Lloyd Arriola. I am stunned and so deeply saddened to hear of your passing. I love you...
You crazy liberal genius piano man. Rest in peace my friend. The world is a duller place
without you.

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Saisha Dior-Michele Pringle

Lloyd Arriola, Thank you.

Nikola Printz
Years are their love, and time's their thief.
Such an amazing artist, musician and person. He really allowed me to delve into this when I
coached it with him, so my Lucretia is dedicated to you. Rest in power, Lloyd.

Leonarda Priore

The music world here in NYC and beyond is so very sad today to learn of Lloyd Arriola's
passing. What a wonderful man and musician he was. I am so pleased that he got to present
his Bernstein extravaganza this last year and sorry I was not able to be a part of it. He always
remembered me auditioning for him years ago with HOW COULD I KNOW from the Secret
Garden and Hansel/Gretel's witch. He couldn't have been more complimentary and
supportive. Condolences to his family.

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Stephanie Rae
I know its been years but I was blessed and honored to have sung with you by my side. Truly
one of the best I've had the honor to work with. Rest in peace my friend. My thoughts are with
your family and friends. You are a gem.

Zarya Rathe
Im so sad to hear that my old friend and mentor Lloyd Arriola died suddenly this weekend. I
studied with him only briefly, and in that short space of time he changed me. My sense then,
which is underlined now by so many posts from people whose lives hes touched, was that he
had a special sensitivity, that could truly see me, and knew immediately exactly what I needed
as a student, and as a person. I was a shy, awkward teenager who was terrified of taking risks,
and especially musical ones. He pushed me kindly, humorously to let go, to give it
everything I had, and he gave me Brahms. Ive loved Brahms ever since. I will always miss him.

Thom Reese
RIP Lloyd Arriola. A very bright light has gone out.

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Troy Rinker
Lloyd, I always loved making music with you. You were such a vibrant force of music and
passion, life and love. A dedicated teacher, a consummate musician, and a great friend. I have
a heavy heart, and I'll miss you. I'm thankful for the times we played together, I'm sad that our
intended recital, and your orchestral projects, won't happen. RIP Lloyd

Barry Robinson

Deeply saddened to log into Facebook and read the news. You were an amazing, kind,
generous, funny guy. I will miss our conversations. RIP my friend.

Julia Rolwing
Lloyd Arriola was a very special friend to me the very best kind of friend and also to
countless others. His truly special gift was not musical, though he had oodles of gifts in this
arena. He knew that his true gift was to see the way in which each person with whom he came
in contact was gifted, and then.... name it for them! And if they wanted his help, he would
help them to claim it. This is what he did for me and it was beyond price. And mostly so much
fun, too! It was a far-seeing, insightful gift, supported by his musical love and knowledge, and
his big, giant heart for people.
It was a truly God-like gift, and for this I am most grateful to God for placing him in my path,
and for letting me enjoy his friendship and love as long as I did. Auf Wiedersehen, Lloydsie!
I will think of you always with tears and laughter, gratitude and love. May perpetual light shine
upon you!
With love, Julsie
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Bobby Rowe
I can't say that I knew Lloyd Arriola well he was musical director of a few shows I was involved
in at Fordham University and we lightly kept in touch via Facebook - but his superior
musicianship has lingered in my imagination since we met. With his sudden passing this
weekend, an incredible mind was lost to this world.
Most digital pianos have a transpose feature they let you press a button and change the key
of whatever you're playing. Lloyd didn't just hate that feature; he couldn't use it. If he was
playing a C, a C needed to come out or his brain would revolt. So if you showed up to an
audition and wanted a song played in a different key, he'd just look at the sheet music in one
key and play it in another.
Several times during a rehearsal, something would go right or spectacularly wrong or
someone would make a joke, and it felt like at the exact moment that it happened, Lloyd
would launch into a song on the piano. Besides the obvious talent of being able to play
whatever song pops into his head, the song choice would always be subversively perfect.
After whatever moment had happened subsided, there would be a second wave of laughter
as everyone realized exactly why he'd chosen that particular song. In other words, everyone
eventually caught up to Lloyd.
I've thought about both of these stories frequently over the years since I last saw Lloyd. How
beautiful is music when you can pull it apart and piece it back together the moment you hear
it? My heart goes out to his friends and family. Please know that to a bunch of kids in the Bronx,
he was respected and loved.

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Mary Joy Rubin

To add to the collection of happy memories, I will never forget meeting Lloyd Arriola in
Chicago and at our very first coaching, he told me all of the opera world scandals (affairs and
whatnot). And before our second one, I found him asleep in the church room we were
scheduled in. He was too funny! RIP, Maestro.

Kellie Rumba Rattay

The troubles of this world have ceased for you, Lloyd Arriola... Thank you for your generous
spirit, your wonderful personality, and your beautiful music. Rest in eternal peace.
Thoughts and prayers with Lloyd's family and friends.

Lawrence Rush
I am in shock and truly heartbroken. One of my dearest friends and partners in musical crime,
Lloyd Arriola passed away today. We spoke Friday evening and we were supposed to meet
today to say goodbye as he was moving to SF in just a couple of days. So talented and loved
by so many, and way too young for this to happen.
Now that I can think more clearly, I wanted to share a bit of the history that I shared with this
remarkable man and friend. I had heard about Lloyd before we met. We met officially close
to 20 yrs ago and hit it off immediately. He was funny, very honest and we shared a love of
much the same music...except he hated Prokofiev's 5th symphony, which I loved and he
preferred Elektra over Salome, and I preferred Salome. I was also floored by his talent,
musicianship and knowledge.
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We went to concerts, operas and movies together pretty regularly and became very close
friends. Soon, he was music directing two readings of my show, Winter of the Fall. We
continued to collaborate on many projects...recordings of my art songs, arias and musical
theater songs, my cabaret show at Don't Tell Mama. He conducted a small national tour of
Scrooge, in which I was Bob Cratchit/Fezziwig (he had recommended me). We roomed
together, and he would sing Elektra in his sleep. He commissioned me to write a piano work
for him which was played in one of his Carnegie Hall recitals. I will never forget that day.
Our final collaboration was his Bernstein concert. I hadn't sung in public in quite a while and
was a bit nervous, but he was as encouraging as could be. I heard Lloyd perform countless
times and was always amazed.
Amazed too, that he didn't
break the piano in one of his
quadruple fortes! Lloyd and I
could talk about anything, and
we shared all that the best of
friends share.
In a phone conversation Lloyd
and I had less than a week
before his untimely passing,
he wondered if anyone in NYC
would remember him or care
after he went back to SF. He
was freaking out a bit, seeing
the empty apartment and
feeling a lot of stress. I, of
course, yelled at him in my
loving, friendly yelling way
and told him how ridiculous a
statement that was and that
with more friends, colleagues,
etc. than probably anyone I
know and the insane amount
of people he's worked with
and made such a huge
impression on, it would be
impossible not to remember
him.
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I will miss his smile, his laugh, his playing, his friendship, our get-togethers with Anderson Lim
and Spencer Chandler. I will miss everything. He is gone way too soon. The one comfort is to
see just how many lives he touched. If he could see the countless beautiful tributes to him
here on Facebook alone and I hope somehow he can I know he would be incredibly
moved to see just how many people's lives he's touched in such a beautiful and lasting way,
mine included. You'll never be forgotten, my dear, dear friend. Love you, Lloydee.

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Yayra Sanchez
Just found out a great musician, teacher, coach and most importantly, a terrific person, passed
away. My heart is broken.
Thankful for your kindness, passion and encouragement, always. RIP querido amigo, Lloyd
Arriola

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Carlos R. Santini-Beidleman
I met Lloyd Arriola three summers ago while he was here working with aspiring opera talents.
Lloyd came into the restaurant to grab a bite and we just hit it off. He was warm and witty and
so down to earth. It's not till the second time he came in that I found what a huge talent he
was. Dr. Lloyd was a pianist and not just any pianist but a doctorate from Juilliard.
My daughter Asha is going to Millikan and I asked if he could evaluate her and help give her
some direction. He didn't hesitate though he did ask me to take him to my favorite all-youcan-eat sushi spot, lol. He loved to pass it forward and help other talents. I loved the time we
spent together eating, taking about anything and everything.
He was able to fulfill his dream of playing at Carnegie this past April. He was so looking
forward to moving back to San Fran from NY and I begged him to bring his talent to Chicago,
but he told me, No Carlos, going back home after 20-plus years. He died suddenly
yesterday in his NY apartment. I was blessed to have met you Lloyd, you will be sorely missed
and always loved. RIP buddy, I can still hear you play that piano.

Karen Savage
We grieve with the family of Lloyd Arriola, and with Kathy and Charles Hulin. Lloyd was one
of the first friends I made at Juilliard. He was a joyful, brilliant, witty, and raucous presence not
only in our many shared classes but also within our close circle of pianist friends.
Lloyd's incredible musicianship and knowledge were quickly evident; he glided effortlessly
through Brahms symphony open scores and embellished difficult sequences in Arnon's
keyboard skills class; he spoke with depth about Britten and Sondheim in Twentieth Century
Opera class, and he bantered with Dubal about great recordings (and obscure movies...)

If there was a table at the Juilliard cafeteria that was erupting in laughter, Lloyd was probably
at the center of it. He enjoyed teasing me and making me squirm. When Jeff and I studied for
a year at Peabody, we frequently spotted the many tiny plastic figurines which Lloyd and
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Charles had planted in obscure places around the conservatory several years earlier. There is
some comfort in considering how many other private jokes Lloyd probably planted in the
hearts of his many friends and colleagues.

Given his all-encompassing and deep musicianship, his passion for learning and sharing, his
great energy, and his effusive personality, it is no surprise that Lloyd became such a beloved
and effective coach and mentor to so many young musicians in New York. We keep his family
and Charles in our prayers.

Tomoyuki Sawado
I am surprised at this news. Lloyd Arriola contacted me over a year ago, wanting to make CD
albums featuring Ervin Nyiregyhzi's compositions with my company Sonetto Classics. I wrote
back saying that I couldn't promise anything at that point as my hands were pre-occupied by
other projects, but suggested to keep the option open as well as to seek the possibility to
start his own label (he was positive about the idea). He was 43, and was too young to leave.
Rest in peace.

Rachel Schneider

Today the world lost an amazing musical talent. RIP Lloyd Arriola. Thanks for the memories.
Thank you for being my friend.

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Kevin Scott
I just received word that Lloyd Arriola passed away yesterday. I didn't know him well, but in
the brief time I did get to know him here on Facebook, I can say that he was a kindred soul
who shared the same tastes in music as I did, and championed many good musical causes.
He will be deeply, deeply missed, especially as he was ready to move to San Francisco. RIP,
Maestro.

Ronen Segev
Stunned and without words as I hear of the sudden passing of Lloyd Arriola, an inspiring
musician with a huge heart; as authentic and genuine as they come.

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Kristina Semos
Lloyd, I am so shocked and saddened to hear about you being gone. You were an amazing
musician, a kind soul, and brought so much light and laughter to everyone. You are sorely
missed.

Randie Shane

I am so so sorry to hear of the death of Lloyd Arriola. I share with any of you who knew and/or
played with him in your shock and sorrow.

Lij Shangel
May you rest in peace Kua Lloyd Arriolayou are really talented. You are surely missed...we
love you, from your relatives here in Philippines.

Sean Shilinsky

I had the great honor and privilege to work with Lloyd Arriola as my accompanist in several
recitals. He was the consummate professional. He instantly broke down any barriers of anxiety
that I had, wrapping his vastly talented and kind wing around me, instilling confidence, and
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bringing out the best in my performing ability. Lloyd was a brilliant, talented pianist and
conductor. He was the first person of Filipino descent to graduate from Julliard with a
doctorate. Lloyd had a contagious personality and took a genuine interest in people. After 15
minutes, Lloyd became your friend. Yesterday the phenomenon of Lloyd Arriola suddenly and
sadly came to an end. Until we meet again, Maestro.

Rosa Shin
Life is beautiful and yet so fragile. What a memorable human being, Lloyd Arriola, thank you
for sharing your music, stories, humor and curse words! RIP

Ashlie Sicilia

After crying and trying to figure out what just happened and why it happened I can't... I just
don't understand and maybe I never will. But this man who touched me musically and taught
me day in and day out of my 4 years of high school; it saddens me to say that a man of such
talent and extraordinary experience that followed him has just passed away.
We had our rough moments and did not get along sometimes, but I respected him in ways I
never thought I could respect a person. If you look at his bio on his Facebook page you see
what he's done with his life and he has inspired me to do the same. He cared about everyone
at the end of the day and especially with my vocal program. He was my teacher and my friend.
I wish to share another laugh with him which is why I will never understand why I won't get
that laugh, that moment with such a great man ever again. I will always have him in my heart.
Thank you Lloyd Arriola for being who you are and all that came with you because you left a
mark on my life and I am truly grateful for you. RIP.

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Amy Siegler
You will be missed by so many

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Paul Sigrist
This morning so many of my friends and performing colleagues in NYC woke up to the
unbelievable news that Lloyd Arriola, a really great guy and supremely talented pianist with
whom so many of us had worked, died suddenly in his apartment at some point yesterday. I
can honestly say that Lloyd was a person who was genuinely loved by all who knew him. Life
is very, very random....

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Shoshana Silver
Last night I learned that a good friend from high school, Lloyd Arriola, had passed away
suddenly. My first memories of him was in freshman year when he played piano
accompanying our beginner choir. We were doing a silly ditty called "Baby Elephant Walk"
so while he played we did our silly dance behind his back. I remember thinking that it didn't
seem to faze him because he was a good sport and a consummate professional.
I had the honor of working with him several more times in high school before he went off to
become a talented and accomplished composer and performer. I'm proud to have known
him through the years to call him my friend. RIP.

Aaron Silverman
Terribly saddened by the news that Lloyd Arriola passed away over the weekend. Though I
hadn't seen him in ages, he was a tremendous musician and an even better friend. Just about
the nicest guy I knew in New York.

Rachel Skiffer
Lloyd, what I noticed first about you were your hands. They were magical. It's like they had a
mind of their own (a brilliant mind), which is saying something given just how brilliant you
were/are. Thank you for creating some of my most cherished memories from high school, and
I am sorry that I didn't get off my duff and make my way to NYC to see you play in April. I'm
going to miss your wit during this mess of an election. I'm going to miss your calling me Dr.
Skiffer. I'm just going to miss you, but you'll be in my thoughts forever, and not just when I
listen to Into the Woods.

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Benjamin Sloman
The sudden passing of my friend Lloyd Arriola has left me utterly heartbroken. One of the
very best human beings I ever knew.

Cathy C. Smith
I am in shock and deeply saddened by the sudden passing of my friend, vocal coach,
conductor, accompanist Lloyd Arriola. I can't begin to express how Lloyd has touched my life
musically as well as being an extraordinary musician. I met Lloyd several years ago thru the
Wellington Opera Company, where he was the conductor/pianist.
Since that time he has been so
very supportive to me on
auditions,
recordings,
and
coaching sessions. I could
always depend on him to play
the most beautiful music you
could ever hear. I'll never forget
during a rehearsal while singing
Summertime, I stopped to just
hear him play and he said what's
wrong, I said, Oh my God that
is awesome. He said, Im
playing beautifully because you
are singing beautifully. I'll never
forget that rehearsal moment.
Now who is going to play for me?

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Yvette Smith
I'm shocked and saddened by the loss of a friend and colleague, Lloyd Arriola. I first worked
with him at Sarasota Opera and had not seen him since he came to see me perform in Elektra,
which is one of his favorite operas. We shared lots of laughs and stayed in contact via
Facebook.
He was an amazing musician and a beautiful person whom you could always count on for
encouraging and kind words. I believe our last communication was him expressing
compassionate words and thoughts to me in the loss of my dog. Lloyd I really wish we had
the opportunity to perform that concert together that we always talked about. I know you have
been welcomed with open arms to a much better place and are up there making people
laugh and performing some beautiful music. Rest in peace.

Ulises Solano
Today I say goodbye to Lloyd Arriola. What a wonderful friend, artist and human being. I
cannot begin to express how much I'll miss this man. This is a person who called me at 3:00
a.m., just 2 hours after Mary Dee passed away to see how he could help. This is a man who
believed in my voice when many wouldn't give me the time of day. This is a person so
inspiring, so hard working, so talented and so much fun to be and make music with. I always
called him Maestro, and he would say, "Oh Uli, please" with a disapproving nod.
Saying I love you and I miss you doesn't begin to cut it. He treated me like a little brother, and
was always checking on me to see if I was doing ok. He created so many opportunities for me
professionally, many of which I couldn't take. He wanted me to quit teaching and just sing. I
guess you will get your wish now, Lloyd. Wherever you are you will always be an inspiration
to me. I salute you my friend, my brother and Bon Voyage!

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Julie Sperber
So awful. I knew he was stressing while packing all his music etc. I wish I'd offered to help him.
Damn. Sweetheart man. A valuable lesson: We should all look out for each other.

Seph Stanek
Lloyd Arriola, my dear sweet friend: thank you for your unique gifts to the world. I've never
met anyone like you; your presence, talent, humor, and heart inspire me to be a better man.
Rest in peace, dear friend.

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MaryAnne Stanislaw
RIP dear friend, colleague, fellow 49'ers Fan. We enjoyed working together and watching
49'ers games commenting and chatting he in NYC, me in SF. Heaven will be richer with your
presence and we'll keep you on earth in our hearts.

Julia Steiner

Lloyd Arriola was a bright light in what is for many such a foggy, uncertain industry. Working
with him was the highlight of my time at BASOTI, and I will never forget the capacity he had
to inspire others. Sending good thoughts to his family and his many, many, friends and
colleagues today.

Arcia M. Stokes
Lloyd Arriola played for me in the finals of the Leontyne Price competition. He was funny,
warm, and encouraging with a contagious spirit. It's sad to see that he has transitioned on.
May you forever rest in peace.

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Emilie Storrs
I am devastated to learn of Lloyd Arriola's passing. He was a brilliant pianist and musician and
the world is a better place for him being here. I feel like I should be being more eloquent, but
I'm pretty speechless at this. RIP

Courtenay Symonds Birchler

I want to say something lovely here, but all I can think is that this effing sucks. I, like so many
others, am profoundly grateful to have had the opportunity to make music with you and am
very sad I won't be able to again.

Peter Szep
Lloyd, so sad at all our loss. You brought great joy to my life, and I am honored to have had
the opportunity to make music with you. RIP.

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James Taylor
Missing you greatly Lloyd Arriola. Rest in peace.

Theresa Taylor

It is with a very heavy heart that I am informing my Chapel family Lloyd Arriola has passed
away. He was the Chapel music director when Chris went to graduate school. He was so
talented and full of life. He was planning on moving back to San Francisco to be near his family
this week. Please keep his family in your prayers as they go through this very difficult time.

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Lora Tchekoratova
Missing my friend and old Juilliard buddy Lloyd Arriola, a great pianist, a tremendous mind,
and a kind hearted person! My heart goes out to his family. I will never forget him and the
many special moments we shared in German Romanticism class with Dr. Bailey. Especially the
time we skipped class to watch "Smila's Sense of Snow" and then walk in the park arguing
about Wagner and drinking hot chocolate. Lloydie, I will miss you! So glad to have had the
chance to know you, and to hear you play over the years!

Ann Therese
The world lost an amazing musician, teacher, and source of joy. Thanks for being my friend,
Lloyd Arriola. You were an influential part of my college experience and you'll be missed.

Shari Renee Thomas

Dylan and I were lucky enough to coach with Lloyd Arriola numerous times when we lived in
Jersey and whenever we visited NYC. Not only was he a spectacular pianist and vocal coach,
he was also one of the kindest, most caring people I've ever known.
The world is less bright without you, Lloyd. I will always remember you and hold you in my
heart. My deepest condolences go out to his family, friends, colleagues, and anyone who was
fortunate enough to ever be in his presence.

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Edeliza Tibig
A Maestro. A Brilliant Pianist. A Master Educator. A Friend. A Son. A Brother. To my kids, you
were their beloved Uncle Lloyd Arriola. I cannot put a price on the times you walked around
the neighborhood so that they can see where their Dad spent his youth and hear their Dad as
a child through your endless colorful stories.
You accompanied so many amazing soloists, who knew how lucky they were to be along your
side. My little girl had no idea that so many soloists would have loved to have this moment
with you. To her, you were simply Uncle Lloyd. Fittingly, the piece is New York New York.
Requiesce in peace dear Lloyd Arriola.

Caitlin Timken
I am so saddened and devastated to have learned of the passing of one of my high school
vocal teachers, Dr. Arriola. I personally feel so blessed to have been a student of Dr. Arriola
in high school. I am in shock and cannot believe that I am writing this. I will always remember
Dr. Arriola for his passion as a pianist and his passion for teaching us. I remember being
constantly encouraged by Dr. Arriola, and he never once said that something was not possible
to accomplish.
He always gave us endless amounts of support and believed in us always. He was incredibly
kind, and would always make sure to hear everyone's voice and say. Again, I cannot believe
I'm writing this right now- you will be dearly dearly missed Dr. Arriola. Rest in peace, Lloyd
Arriola. The time you shared with us and music we made will forever be in our hearts. My
condolences and my heart go out to his family at this time.

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Lori Tishfield
RIP Lloyd Arriola. I can't believe I'm posting this... A light like yours is one that should never
leave this world.
My favorite memories of you were the master classes in high school hosted by Diane Fox. I
was a 17-year-old figuring out Bizet arias, and although it was slightly intimidating, you would
always be on the sidelines with that big smile of yours. Regardless of the song, you'd always
play the piano with that infectious smile... As if that song was your life long friend and you
were celebrating the best reunion ever. That is how I will always remember you.
Thank you for letting us all feel a glimpse of belonging, support, love, and joy in what we do.
Thank you Diane for introducing us (and many hugs to you). I feel so incredibly lucky to have
worked alongside such an incredible talent and person. Sending love to his family and
friends

Jessica Tivens Schneiderman

In shock at the loss of my friend, Lloyd Arriola. 18 years of friendship and music...I don't have
the words. Rest in peace, my friend.

Karen Tucker Patterson

I am shocked and filled with sadness... A wonderful human being has just passed away and
his loss will be felt in the greater musical world, as well as his family and friends... Lloyd was a
great guy; funny and sweet and so kind and supportive. He was a brilliant pianist and musician
and a phenomenal coach. I feel so lucky to have known him.
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He will be missed by many, many people from all over the USA and the world... My heart goes
out to his family and friends and I will pray for and send love to Lloyd and his family and
friends... Sending love and light and prayers for peace and comfort during this time of loss
and sorrow

Caroline Tye
Just heard about Lloyd Arriola. He was an amazing talent. I am SO saddened. My thoughts
are with his family and friends.

Marcos Vigil
Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord,
And let perpetual light shine upon him.

Vince B. Vincent
I am heart broken at yet another loss for 2016. Lloyd Arriola, as I began my work in education
you were encouraging and sharing insights. As I prepared my first Overall, you guided and
aided. You helped me grow as an educator, artist, and human being. I shall miss you, brother.
People: hug and cherish those you love and those friends you will "eventually make time to
see," if I have learned anything this year with so many important people in my life passing, I
have learned this, our next breath is not a guarantee and every exhale is a gift from God.

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Kyra Wagstaff
He was just such magic. So infectious and passionate. I still can't believe it. I keep wanting to
text him, expecting it to be some kind of ridiculous joke. I don't understand why this
happened.

Rory Ch-Marc Wallace

RIP Lloyd Arriola. I'm glad I met you, I'm glad
you got to experience the warmth and
beauty of Trinidad and Tobago, I'm glad we
shared music together, I'm glad your
positivity and bright outlook on life inspired
me. Thank you. Go on and play with the
angels and know that you have made a
significant impact on those who came into
your life. Cheers, Lloyd!

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Andrea Wallenberger
The relationship between an accompanist and a singer is at once professional, platonic and
intimate. Nowadays as the term "accompanist" is falling out of use, some prefer to be called
a "collaborative pianist", well good God, that was Lloyd Arriola.
A truly superb & intelligent solo pianist in his own right, with a very rare gift for collaboration
(especially with singers), a razor sharp wit, deep classical music knowledge, ready laugh, so
Lloyd.
Okay, I admit I had to temporarily unfollow his FB posts when the Giants were playing ("GO
GIGANTES!" every 3.5 minutes) oy!
BUT when it came to choosing an accomer, collaborative pianist for your Bach, Mozart,
Mahler, Schubert, Puccini, Verdi, Bernstein (in my case, some rad renegade rebellious
Rachmaninoff at Peabody in 1991 or a Korngold recital we were recently discussing) any art
songs or arias, chorus or duets, you name it: as a singer you knew yourself to be in the very
best of hands with dear Lloydee at the keyboard.
You could just dive in and he would size you right up, let you lead/express it and yet damn if
"that note" you needed in measure 37 wouldn't just pop up from the middle of some
sprawling giant Rachmaninoff near tone cluster avalanche of sound at full tempo the 2nd time
thru, with no discussion at all, then never again, because obviously you got it.
"I got you, you got this, let's go!" That was Lloyd.
P.S. yesterday I had a flash/picture of Lloyd high-fiving Prince on his way thru the Pearly Gates.
(Two men of music, music education and mentorship across the performing arts!) And I am,
now, content.
Rest in peace

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Dalit Warsaw
It was with shock and such a heavy heart that I learned this morning of the death of my friend,
colleague, former classmate and birthday sibling Lloyd Arriola. Always so jovial, witty and
thoughtful, filled with energy and integrity (aesthetic and otherwise), he and the impact he
had on his friends, fellow musicians and students will be sorely missed.
I have always enjoyed relating the following anecdote, from when I was in San Francisco
rehearsing for my performance as guest composer and theremin soloist with the San
Francisco Symphony in the orchestra's chamber series some years ago:
Over the course of that week, some radio interviews were scheduled for me, one of which was
supposed to include a live on-air performance. I did not have an accompanist, nor was I
acquainted with any in the area whom I could ask, and so was reconciled to playing sans
piano. Back in my hotel room, I logged onto Facebook (a most convenient companion when
in an unfamiliar city) only to be surprised by a random post from Lloyd that he was riding at
that moment in a bus up Van Ness, the street right outside my window. I thought, "No, it
couldn't be!" and wrote to him asking if he were in town and available to accompany me on
the radio the following evening. He was very enthusiastic, and we met the next afternoon at
Davies Hall for a brief rehearsal.
The interview itself was quite late, scheduled to air live at 11:00 PM. Prior to the broadcast, he
informed me that he felt it his job to "champion" my music and compositional achievements
during the interview, so that discussion of the theremin would not eclipse my primary role as
composer. After an impromptu theremin-piano recital (which he played almost completely by
ear, the accompaniments for the various arias ready at his fingertips), the three-way repartee
that ensued between him, the radio host and myself was lively and dynamic. I have always
remembered this story so fondly, as a happenstance, joyous musical adventure that I like to
think gave him some nice exposure too that evening. Our world has truly lost a vibrant,
brilliant musical spirit, not to mention a genuinely sweet and generous-hearted soul.

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Hilan Warshaw
Deeply saddened and shaken to hear that my former Usdan Center colleague Lloyd Arriola
suddenly passed away earlier today. Lloyd was such a warm, genuine, dedicated, erudite, and
witty person, and a superlative musician. My heart goes out to his family and the many people
who loved him. He will be greatly missed.

Lara Wasserman
Just heard the heartbreaking news that Lloyd Arriola is no longer with us. My time working
with him at BASOTI was some of the most productive, exciting, and appreciated musicmaking I have experienced in my career. He was intelligent and funny and made me feel like
what I was doing was important. I know he will be missed by so, so many. May you rest in
peace, Lloyd. You made a difference for many.

Mark Watson
Rest in peace my young, extremely talented and very eccentric friend, Lloyd Arriola. So many
wonderful memories of music-making and late-night chats. I founded a charity that
underwrote open-heart surgeries for poor children in India. Sometimes we did star-studded
concerts to raise money. Lloyd gave his time very generously and always for free.
Here are pics of just two of our concerts. Pretty impressive lineup of talents, if I must say so.

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Angela Watson-Modeste
The world has lost another great musician and person. Lloyd Arriola, you will be missed by all
who love and knew you.

Sarah-Jane van der Westhuizen

My heart aches, another friend has died. It has been an honour for me to know Lloyd Arriola
and experience some of his extraordinary musical passion. What a character he was. The
world will be a poorer place now.

Philip Wharton
So after the second sleepless night, I have to type it out loud:
Lloyd Arriola, you are dead.
You, the artist,the intellectual,the good friend,are gone.
And in addition to your great friendship was your endless support of me as a composer: you
performed my music often, repeated performances of the same pieces, as much as you could.
You advocated others to perform my work. All the while you would apologize for not doing
more or being able to pay me.
You had two great dream projects:
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First a piano concerto.

Then what you called "Sonata Americana" a sprawling work for solo piano that required a
BRAVURA ending which at its final chord you would throw yourself away from the piano in
great showman style.
You refused to let me just write them for you, insisting that I be paid for them, "Philip, I will not
have you write for free! And no bullshit-commissions either, REAL money!" (I wish you had let
me just write those two works for you rather than having to write them now "in memoriam")
And you were an intellectual, no matter how often you would protest that your smarts paled
in comparison to mine. I guess I now get the last word on that. (No matter our disagreement
on the respective value of French vs. German music. You can have Wagner, I'll take Ravel.)
There is a gaping wound in my heart that I hope, in time, memories I have of you will fill. RIP.

Destynee Williams

You will be missed, darling. Was great to meet and work with you and Daniel Gundlach in
Sally Bowles Berlin last year RIP sweetie.

Jorell Williams
I am still at a loss for words at the moment. The passing of another dear colleague that has
had a long lasting and life changing effect on many of us. Such a loving, youthful, humorous,
and supportive human being.
Rest in riposa, Lloyd Arriola.

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Michiko I. Wolcott
The passing of Lloyd Arriola has brought back to me a flood of little Peabody memories. Lloyd
crying his heart out at the passing of his grandfather. Hiro Noguchi sulking in solitude in the
dark courtyard with his Bronco's scarf on after a playoff loss. Craig Kirkland organizing
Amnesty charity quartet in the Harbor and his relationship with "the bag." Charles Hulin with
his dad's audio tapes and making a mockery of the Tchaikovsky b-minor concerto. Jeffrey
Budryk making fun of the word "y'all" and finding hair in his order at Tony Cheng's. Joshua
Whitaker playing foosball. Naoko Niinobe "".
The quirkiness of Hyung Joo Park. Comments made by various people that are perhaps best
not repeated. The Peabody dance party. Countless people playing Tetris in the break room.
Mikyung Joo who "crapped" a lot for good performances. The guy who spoke Greek and
therefore could not say "that's all Greek to me." The security guard who thought Lyndon
Johnson was the greatest president ever. Getting my ID checked at the Mews. The non-native
speakers of English writing "Peabody Institution" in their graduation cap-and-gown order.
Using the name "Brunhilde" to wait for a table at the Buttery just to make the life harder for
them. Ken Shelley and his Butt-Cakes. Kessa-massa-pico at Yung's Carry-Out.
The list goes on and on. Of all the things I experienced at Peabody, these are the things about
which I have the most fond memories. Perhaps it has to do with the fact that I haven't been a
practicing musician for a couple of decades. But it reminds me that at the end of the day, it's
much more about the people when you attend an institution of higher education--the
academic learning is just a "bonus." I am inclined to think there was a reason that I helped
reconnect Lloyd with an old studio mate of his from San Francisco on Facebook just a few
weeks ago, which seemed awfully coincidental at that time.

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Mary Workman
I am very sad to report the sudden passing of my dear friend Juilliard virtuoso Lloyd Arriola.
Life is so fragile. Be good and loving to each other - as Lloyd always was. Fill your lives with
joy and good humor. None of us is getting out of here alive. Every day is a precious gift.

Joyce Yin

This photo was taken after the

Bernstein Remembered concert. It was
the first performance I'd been a part of
after my dad passed in which I truly felt
joy in singing instead of guilt for
indulging in something so beautiful
when my dad was gone. Lloyd put his
heart into making that concert happen,
and I was so humbled to have been
included, especially after seeing how
much the project meant to him.
Lloyd was kind, outrageously funny,
unendingly passionate.

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Phil Zeligier
It almost brings me to tears. This man was full of passion, wisdom, laughter, joy, and a
beautiful way of making everyone in the room feel important and significant. He was a man
who created and played music with eloquence and color. Not only was he a great teacher, he
was a great person.
RIP Lloyd Arriola.

Anthony Zoeller
Just received news of the unexpected passing of my friend Lloyd Arriola. We met at Sarasota
Opera in 2003, where he would give me extra coaching sessions to work on art songs and
discuss religion, literature, films, art, whatever. We remained in contact through FB for the
past decade, where we would discuss those same topics with passionate opinions, and I
would see him when I visited NYC. I saw him just a year ago in the city, where we met for mass
at St Patrick's and went out for brunch.
Both of us talked about our new work in music education, and how fulfilling it was, and he was
just now in the final stages of moving home to San Francisco, just as I had moved home some
years ago. I counted Lloyd among my real friends, even though I got to see him so rarely. He
was one of those folks whose enthusiasm and love for life and people and music just
enveloped you when you were with him, and now he is gone.
Heaven just gained a wonderful musician and another beautiful soul to keep things lively up
there, and, occasionally, to say something inappropriate and hilarious. Thank you for your life,
my friend.

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