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1 Peter 3:7
May 9 & 10, 2009
Intro
In honor of Mothers Day, Im going to dissect a single
S cripture that describes how m en are to treat wom en. Then
Michelle Snook will speak on how women should treat
themselves. The principles in both halves of todays
message are applicable to ev eryon e and in every
relationship.
While preparing, I heard a song that provides a stark
contrast to how m en are to treat wom en. In fact, its called,
Things You Dont Say to Your Wife. The lyrics are from Tim
Hawkins and the tune is from Green Day. The song is
great, but greatly offensive - but that is the point. It paints a
picture of how we shouldnt act that will get us ready for
what the Bible says about how we should treat others. So,
here it is: SONG HERE (capo 4)
That pretty well illustrates how not to treat a woman.
Guys may talk to each other that way, but we cant get
away with assuming our mates are just like we are.
Many people have trouble seeing others as distinct from
themselves. Picture looking out a window at s om e on e and
s e eing your own reflection on the glas s. If youre lined up
just right, you can look through yours elf at others. We
actually view things that way all the time. We s e e our world
through our personal, subjective filters, expecting others to
operate as we would. We mak e judgm ents with ours elve s
in view.
Nowhere do we experience this more than in marriage.
Women might think, Why hasnt he c alled m e today? I
would nev er treat some on e I cared for that way! Men might
say, I ask ed a simple question; why do e s sh e insist on
b e ating all around the bush giving ev ery detail of the story
without simply getting to the point? We do differ in some
ways and yet we share the sam e value. Thats what well
see in 1 Peter 3:7, so lets get into it:
6. The consequence:
so that your prayers may not be hindered.
What is this saying? If we consistently fail to take into
account the ways in which we differ and the way in which
were the same, that sin will distance us from God. If your
prayer life is pitiful, ask yourself: Am I a jerk to my mate? If
you dont know, ask your wife. When we obey we have
unhindered acc e s s to God. But disregard Gods
instructions and youre on your own.
Conclusion: So, we need to see others as they are and
take into consideration how they differ from us, honoring
them as valuable. You know, this is how Jesus Christ
treated people. He took into consideration how people
differed from him and yet treated sinners like they had
value. His kind of love is what we need in our families and
that is the love that leads to new life in Jesus Christ.
Michelle will be talking more about that in a moment, but
lets bow now for