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Charles Martin
6 August 6, 2016
I feel like there are areas in my life in which I have fulfilled some of the layers to
Maslows Hierarchy of needs. However, I think that I have always struggled in one category,
esteem. I think my struggles started in middle childhood and have followed me ever since. I grew
up playing sports, I was obsessed with puzzles, collecting items and I was also in many other
extracurricular activities. In school I was in advanced classes that paired for example a third and
fourth grade class and then a fifth and sixth grade class together. Even though I have always
seemed to adapt to my situations I feel like the stress that it placed on my lead to what I believe
is an undiagnosed case of attention-deficits, or at least some form of it that has followed with me.
Many times I would start on a project only to be side track by needing to her a song on the radio,
finish a puzzle I started, come up with different ideas for a project rather than just sitting down
and doing the original project in the first place. It was not until hours before a project is due that
I could finally pull all my faculties together and get things done. Maybe it is because I feel like I
can naturally learn quickly that it hasnt caused me academic problems. I know that it is still a
problem and can be more of a problem for others. According to Berger (2014), it is noted that
children, with ADHD, tend to have academic difficulties; they are less likely to graduate from
high school and college. I had two close friends who were diagnosed with ADHD. I feel like this
enabled them to have an excuse to fail. One dropped out of high school and became addicted to
drugs, the other graduated be the skin of his teeth and eventually by the age of 22 became an
alcoholic.
I think over all this has affected my life especially in my emerging adulthood. One of
which has to do with the layer of Maslows Hierarchy of needs that I brought up earlier. I always
felt insecure about my abilities. I had friends and they for the most part respected me and I
competed well enough at sports that I enjoyed to receive plenty of recognition, but something
was lacking. I seemed to always have a problem with my own self-respect and confidence. May
be that stemmed from never putting into anything all of my time and effort. Maybe I never truly
felt that I had something to shoot for and thats why I never had the confidence of taking my own
path and really excelling at it. In the Psychosocial development phase of emerging adulthood. On
of the ongoing processes is one of Eriksons stages of development, Identity versus role
confusion. Erikson believed that the outcome of earlier crises provides the foundation for each
new stage (Berger, 2014) Maybe that it where I fall. Now, as an emerging adult I can see where
this earlier conflict of my life of difficultly staying on task and appreciating my own work is why
I have problems with my vocational identity. Again, going back to Berger (2014), establishing a
vocational identity is considered part of growing up, not only by developmental psychologists
but also emerging adults themselves. I am still searching for this. I have graduated from the
University of Utah with a bachelors degree but I never truly gave myself to the profession I
wanted to go into. Maybe it was because I only crammed assignments and memorized well
enough to pass or I just didnt have the confidence that I do well at what I was planning to go in.
I think that I recognized this about a year or so ago. I was able to witnesses
someone doing their job and I had a serious conversation with them about it. They seemed
happy. They seemed to enjoy life and what they did and it is something that I had an interest in
many years ago. They held a career in something that I never had the confidence to go through
with. Once I heard that the program was hard to get into I looked at would be easier or less time
consuming. Now after that run in seeing someone who had that great sense of esteem and
identity it helped push me into finally pursuing what I wanted, one for myself and one for my
family. I can see that in my own development that it is helping my esteem. I am enjoying what I
am doing. Yes, it is hard with work, raising a family and trying to succeed. But, knowing that I
am succeeding it bodes well for my esteem.
The positive outcomes for me is that I get to learn from past mistakes. Maybe I do
have problems paying attention, maybe I do have some form of attention deficits but, Maybe I
just never believed in myself the way that I am now. The good thing is, personality is not static.
New characteristics may appear and negative traits diminish. Emerging adults can make choices
that break with the past (Berger, 2014)
References
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Berger, K. (2014). Invitation to The Life Span. New York: New York
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Yates, D. (2011, June 30). Researchers Look Around The World For Ingredients Of Happiness.
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http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/releases/230109.php