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R E S O U R C E S , N E W S & I N F O R M AT I O N F O R A D O P T I V E FA M I L I E S I N T E H A M A C O U N T Y
The Tehama
County PAS
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Education:
Sierra Forever Families
An Alternatives to Violence
Project
possible
through
collaboration
with
the Tehama
County
Department
Social Services
An Alternatives
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Violence
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madeapossible
through
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CountyofPermanency
Team.
Ongoing Communication
Even if your child never shares details about
past abuse, keep lines of communication
open. No matter how much it goes against
your personality or philosophy, you must
tackle the topic of sexuality honestly,
repeatedly, and without flinching.
A sexually abused child must repeatedly be
taught and reminded about:
Boundaries. Sexually abused children
need to know right away that they can
set personal boundaries for touching that
other family members will respect. They
must also learn that they have no right
to invade other children's boundaries
with sexual touching, and that they have
no role in meeting their parents' or other
adults' sexual needs.
Sex. Though sexually abused children
may be all too well informed about
certain sexual activities, they may be
clueless about basic anatomy and sexual
functioning. Review the basics of male
and female anatomy, normal sexual
development, healthy sexual expression,
and how babies are conceived.
Ways to express affection. As suggested
above, sexually abused children must
learn non-sexual ways to show affection.
Parents can model various types of loving
contact such as side hugs, pats on the
shoulder, or hand holding.
Discussions in Adolescence
With the onset of puberty, children who were
sexually abused may find themselves reliving
emotions evoked by the original abuse. At
these times, foster and adoptive families
must be willing to talk openly and frequently
about developmental changes in puberty, the
impact of past trauma, and appropriate ways
An Alternatives to Violence
Project
possible
through
collaboration
with
the Tehama
County
Department
Social Services
An Alternatives
to made
Violence
project,
madeapossible
through
partnership
with
the Tehama
CountyofPermanency
Team.
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BOREDOM BUSTERS
FEEEEEELING FACES :)
It's
Autumn
Again!
How many FEELING FACES can you make? Think of some feelings
you've had before - or feelings that other people might have. Write
the feeling on the line, and see if you can make the face that goes
with it. If you get stuck, ask a friend or family member to help you
think of some feelings so you can draw the faces!
Together on Purpose September 2016
An Alternatives to Violence Project made possible through a collaboration with the Tehama County Department of Social Services
SEPT
2016
R E S O U R C E S , N E W S & I N F O R M AT I O N F O R A D O P T I V E FA M I L I E S I N T E H A M A C O U N T Y
Alternatives to Violence