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of Longing?
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Toward a Life
Just what is this sensation we call longing? And why do we experience longing at all? These
were the kinds of questions that interested PAUL BALTES and his project team ALEXANDRA
M. FREUND, SUSANNE SCHEIBE
MAX PLANCK INSTITUTE
FOR
HUMAN DEVELOPMENT.
was still able to see the first results of his project on life longings get accepted for publication.
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the typical what if thinking. Only when they reach late childhood and adolescence do they develop the necessary armamentarium to feel life longings: 15- to 16-year-olds can spell
out specific life longings. The ability to feel life longings then
unfolds fully in early to mid-adulthood.
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that many goals are completely unattainable, or are attainable only in part. The scientists took the findings from
lifespan psychology and the literary sources as their basis
in creating a theoretical concept of life longings as comprising six partially overlapping core characteristics:
Utopia: Life longings juxtapose the reality of ones
life, which is perceived as imperfect, against an imagined state in some cases a state that one has experienced in the past. This works best when the connection
with reality is minimal. (Example: I always wanted a
house by the sea.)
Feeling of incompleteness: The personal utopias almost inevitably involve feelings of the imperfection of
ones life. (The house by the sea is something thats
missing in my life.)
Tri-time focus: Certain memories may blend with
present wishes and insecurities, as well as with future
POSITIVE
LIFE STATES
ARE EPHEMERAL
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ccording to the definition of Baltes and his colInstitute of Technology (Atlanta, USA) and have obleagues, life longings are thoughts and feelings
tained the following results:
Many people do actually use their life longings to
about something that is missing in life something that,
cope with blocked goals or to give their life a new dion the imaginary level, makes life complete or perfect.
rection.
In this sense, life longings are personal utopias of the
Life longings are rarely centered on something tanperfect life, and are associated with ambivalent, bittergible, like money; rather, they tend to focus on larger,
sweet feelings. Life longings serve as a means of assessmore fundamental human issues.
ing ones own development; they are related to review Americans report similar life longings to those of
ing ones life. At the same time, longings provide people
Germans, even though they are not familiar with the
with a direction for their lives. Longings tell us where
concept in its full scope.
we believe we will find happiness and satisfaction.
Life longings can be described as
The psychologists at Berlins Max
having six components. These comPlanck Institute for Human Developponents are embedded in lifespan psyment asked their study participants
chology and German cultural history,
to tell them their greatest longing.
such as painting and literature.
One example is a 60-year-old man
Romantic literati of the early 19th
who immediately thought of his elcentury convey in their works the
dest son. Tragically, the son had died
concept of longing for abstract things.
some time ago, and the bereaved faIn Novalis Heinrich von Ofterdingen,
ther said he felt a powerful longing
for instance, a medieval poet longs
to be with him so that our family
for the mysterious blue flower the
can be happy again. He recalled the
Romantics symbol of the perfect and
trips they used to take together,
the unattainable. The young man lay
which, he said, denoted the good
restlessly on his bed and thought of
times. For many years, the man had
felt a deep-seated sorrow about his Theyre in every field, yet still unattainable: the stranger and his tales. It is not the
The blue flower, the subject of the Romantreasures, he said to himself, that have
loss, and now this sense of longing
tics life longing, may be the cornflower.
awakened in me so ineffable a longwas always with him.
ing; avarice is far from my thoughts; it is the blue flower
In an unofficial contest staged by the German magathat I long to see. Literary critics and cultural anthrozine SPIEGEL ONLINE to find the best German word, the
word Sehnsucht made the winners podium, coming in
pologists emphasize the fundamental role of life longings
third. Sehnsucht is difficult to translate into English, but
in the restless search for societal and individual developthe word expresses well the concept of life longings.
ment and perfection, particularly in the tradition of the
Theres no doubt about it: life longings definitely occuGerman Bildungsroman (novel of formation), Erziehpy us. The concept is a quintessentially German one
ungsroman (novel about upbringing) and Entwicklungsfound in literature, the arts and the humanities. In psyroman (novel about character development) of the 18th
chology, however, the concept of life longings has
and 19th centuries, as in the works in these genres by
received scarcely any attention. This complex and comGoethe and Gottfried Keller. In these biographical novels,
plicated feeling is hard to put into figures and to study.
Paul Baltes didnt let such skepticism bother him. He
THE ARMAMENTARIUM OF LONGING
had long suspected that there must be a reason behind
Longing is a complex feeling, says psychologist Alexandra
life longings and he turned it into his final scientific
Freund from the University of Zurich. In order for people to
project. His former team members, Susanne Scheibe
feel life longings, they need certain social-cognitive abilities.
(now at Stanford University), Alexandra M. Freund (now
Scandinavian studies have demonstrated that life longings are
lost on toddlers. Such young children have not yet developed
at the University of Zurich) and Dana Kotter-Grhn (now
the cognitive prerequisites to feel longing. Life longing is
at North Carolina State University), are continuing
linked to emotional intelligence and the self for instance,
Baltes study of life longings in their own projects, tobeing able to contemplate their own life, a necessary quantum
gether with Fredda Blanchard-Fields from the Georgia
of experience, and the capacity for counterfactual thinking
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Applying a method known as self-report, the new questionnaire asks about concrete life longings, defined as
desires for people, things, events or experiences from
your past, present or future that are intense, lasting and
currently difficult or impossible to fulfill. In the first
study, 299 test persons between 19 and 81 years of age
evaluated these personal life longings on the basis of
predefined statements that enabled conclusions to be
drawn on the characteristics of life longings.
In this and six subsequent studies, we were able to detect all six theoretical characteristics of life longings,
says Susanne Scheibe. In the view of the study participants, life longing is associated with being sensitive, creative, sad, helpless and reflective. On the one hand, this
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BITTERSWEET FEELING
THE
MYTH OF THE
IDEAL PARTNERSHIP
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tion for this is that younger people still see the ideal
partnership as a goal, and only later realize that it is difficult to achieve, leaving only the myth of true love between a man and a woman. Similarly, older people often
long for a specific partner who has died or with whom
they used to live in a partnership that has since failed.
Moreover, family becomes more of a focus in the life
longings of senior citizens, which seems understandable the upheaval of retirement almost inevitably
makes people ponder over a new purpose in life. To a
similar extent, older people long for health, while the
young and middle-aged see education and work as
their key life longings.
The first empirical results uphold an elementary hypothesis expressed by Paul Baltes: Life longings serve
as a means of reviewing ones life and assessing ones
own development, emphasizes Susanne Scheibe. At the
level of the imagination, they convey a sense of a different and better state, thereby giving life a new direction, sometimes with a very long-term orientation. A
life longing is a kind of meta-goal, explains Alexandra
Freund. It may indeed lead people to take action, thus
turning the longing into a goal. But it doesnt necessarily have to. Whether life longings mature into goals depends on numerous parameters: how insecure people
feel about realizing them, how hopeful they are, how
positively they view life, and whether they see their life
longings as controllable.
Apropos goals: The studies conducted to date show
that life longings can be measured as a separate psycho-
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