Soul Connection

When you feel a strong loving connection with a persons higher self or soul they
may not necessarily treat you the same in person. Please understand that a close
connection with a persons higher self or soul is not necessarily a prelude to what
is to come here in this reality. This is vital information for people who are sensitive
to connections with others at higher levels. The common misunderstanding is that
people think that if that love exists there, that surely it will be revealed eventually
here in this reality. This is a misnomer of great magnitude especially in the
lightworker and energy sensitive community. Many people have rearranged their
life because they share a loving connection with a person with whom there is no
romantic connection here in this reality. They may have a friendship with that
person or they might not. The connection is real, at the higher levels, but rarely
drops down to be the way the person at the personality level would interact with
you consciously. Please hear me on this. So many people are so sure that if that
they can feel the deeply loving connection between them that it is a message of
hope to wait for that person to feel it too.
I assure you that the connection you feel is real. The question is a matter of from
where to where. Think of the person, for simplicitys sake, as consisting of a level
here in this reality, the personality and conscious self, then higher self, then soul
levels. Of course there are a zillion more, but this might help us to diagram the
connection and answer the question as to why the other person acts incongruent to
the connection you experience with them.
You consciously feel a very real and interactive love with another person. For
example, let us say that person is just a friend. Youve had night dreams about
them, and even in your meditations, you felt them visit you in a very real way.
You begin to hope that eventually they will reveal their feelings for you, because
you are sure it IS that person. Since the connection is so active, it is difficult to
believe that they arent participating consciously. It is extremely likely that this
connection is from their higher self or soul, NOT happening consciously by this
person.

So you have a connection that is felt and known by you consciously, but if you
adjust your thinking to recognize that you are interacting with the persons higher
self and or soul, then your expectations can be adjusted accordingly.
If you think of the connection as lines of light, now you can think of connecting
with the person from you, here in this body up to their soul. That would be an
upwardly angled connection rather than horizontal from you here in a body to them
there in their body.
I have experienced three such soul connections that remain active to this day with
males while there is no such connection with them consciously at their personality
level. Ive even had opportunity at various times in my life to discuss these
connections with two of them. While a sexual attraction was there from them, there
was in no way the breadth and depth of full love that was experienced from their
soul level. Furthermore, neither of them were in any position in their life to engage
with me consciously at the level I experienced from their higher selves and souls.
These stories are common in our community of energy sensitive individuals and
the misunderstanding of such connections have ruined many marriages. People can
misinterpret a loving soul connection with someone to mean that since they can
experience more than what they have in their life right now with their spouse, that
they need to seek more. No! Those marriages often were healthy prior to one mate
feeling something more from a soul connection with someone else.
We are multidimensional beings. Please recognize that we can feel things with
more than one person, especially at the soul level which may be more blissful than
what we have in person with our spouse, but it does not give us direction to do
anything about it! Please do not go changing your life just because you feel a
connection with someone at their soul level. I beseech you also to give yourself
permission to feel that connection without guilt. You can visit that person at that
level if your inner guidance and angels give you permission. Sometimes there are
important energies and light codes that do need to be received. It is vital to keep
these connections in perspective. Such energetic visits are not to be entered into
just because you want to feel the person. They are not holidays from your everyday life nor are they to be used to fill an emotional gap that may exist in your
current romantic relationship.

Some people become dependent on feeling the presence of another person at their
soul level in order to get through the day. Remember that Eternal Sacred Source
is to be our source and well of energy to draw upon, not another person. People are
imperfect and even at their soul level, might not always leave the door open to us.
If we rely too heavily on the connection with another person, even at their soul
level, there could come a time when that door is no longer open to us. Remember
that their soul is wise and may determine that our reliance upon the connection is
not balanced. Our permit to enter and join with that person at their soul level could
be revoked. We must always make communion with Eternal Sacred Source our
first priority. That can encompass the various reiki or other divine energy streams
weve been attuned to as well as any traditional spiritual practices that are sacred to
us. Fostering a relationship with our Angels, guides and any Saints that appeal to
us is important as well as our connection with the nature and its sentience. All of
these manifestations of Divinity help us to receive what we need in order to be
healthy here in this reality.
There are several ways to sacredly interact with another person at their soul level.
I will likely provide an energy system in the near future. You may take cues from
the My Eternal Love energy system and Azure Shakti. However, the My Eternal
Love is designed to help the other person transcend their limitations. Ive since
realized that isnt always called for and so want to provide you each with a way to
interact with what is between the two of you without trying to accomplish anything
more.
Azure Shakti transports you to your soul. She helps you to bridge to your soul. I
find it easy to ask Azure Shakti to connect me with the part of that persons soul
that he and I share. That assumes that you and that person do share an area within
each of your souls. It also means that I choose to only connect from my soul level
not from my consciousness here in my body. The difference is a horizontal
connection from soul to soul that is more pure than if I was to reach with my own
mind and consciousness from my body up to their soul. You may notice that
although I mention connection with their higher self, I dont focus on it. That is
because I notice that many peoples higher self may have an agenda for them.

They may be reaching out to me at that level, hoping that Ill help the person by
becoming fond of them and making them a priority in my life.
That is not necessarily in my highest good, nor necessarily the most exalted
option. A persons soul is more exalted and a better place to connect with them in
my opinion. Connection with the higher self usually creates desire and a feeling of
loneliness when you disconnect from them, whereas the soul is a more balanced
joining that usually leaves you feeling happy and self-sufficient after the visit.
If you are going to try to connect with a person who you feel has reached for you
in some way energetically, please use the Azure Shakti. At the very least, do so
from your own soul level, seeking their soul connection. This lifts you above the
purely sexual pull as well as any agenda their personality or higher self might have.
People often speak of the higher self as so lofty and worthy to follow. Ive rarely
found this to be true. I am not in accord with other people in regards to the whole,
higher self is wise ideology. A persons higher self may indeed have a vaster
view than they do in the body consciously from the personality level, but in my
experience, they are still that person, and fully capable to be operating from their
own agenda rather than from the perspective of Eternal Sacred Source. Their soul
might not be entirely selfless or eternal thinking either, but it is as high as you are
going to get to interact with because of whatever evolution that person has already
accomplished.
Always consciously disconnect after any visits with a person from your soul to
theirs. If I feel drawn to channel an energy system to help you to connect with
people who you feel love with Ill do so in the near future. Some of this
information may be included in the manual, and as always a proper attunement and
call in statement for it would be provided.
Soul connection with a person can:
1) Be a good interaction to promote balance in you.
2) Assuage the loneliness of loving a person who, consciously does not return such
love.

3) Provide communication between the two of you for sacred code transmissions if
connection is necessary to receive such yet the person is not advanced enough
consciously to engage with you in that manner or simply not agreeable to do so.
4) Be a fantastic blissful experience that is likely to be more intense and fulfilling
than many in-person relationships unless both people in the in-person relationship
consciously draw on their souls to add to their interaction.

What such soul connection does not do:

1) It does not make it more likely for the person to feel love for you
consciously here at the personality level in their own body.
2) It does not make it more likely for a person who already professes love for
you here in this reality to consciously overcome their character defects and
bad habits to become a more loving spouse or prospective romantic partner.
3) Is not to be in place of an in-person relationship.
4) Is not to be used to distance yourself from being emotionally
present/available for an in-person relationship and not to be used as a reason
to end an in-person relationship.

~Mariah Windsong Couture

October 16th, 2013