Relationships and Harmony

(Version 2.0)

What we feel, that is our emotions, are a key factor in relationships. Let us say
something about them.
Human emotions by their positivity:
1. A lower emotional spectrum (love and pleasure of weak intensity)
2. A mean emotional spectrum (love and pleasure of medium intensity)
3. The highest emotional spectrum (love and pleasure of strong intensity)
Human emotions by their negativity:
1. A lower emotional spectrum (hate and displeasure of weak intensity)
2. A mean emotional spectrum (hate and displeasure of medium intensity)
3. The highest emotional spectrum (hate and displeasure of strong intensity)
Experiencing of the mean ones only: (= the way without extremes)
The first and the third emotional spectrums are removed and what remains is the
second one. I hope that you can imagine how it would look like without all the most
extreme passions, but also without all the weakest ones.
Experiencing of all emotions except for the most intensive ones:
The third emotional spectrum is removed and the first and the second one remain.
I hope that you can imagine how it would look like without all the most extreme
passions.
There are two ways of the distribution of the love (and of the other potential) that
we need:
Either we have all the pieces of love and support in the other people, who are
available to us any time we need them, or we are complete and all the potential we
need is included in our personality, being its part. However, such a "complete
condition" is typical of Gods, but not of us people who can never reach it fully, of
course.
The old "Lukewarm Harmony" from my book "Amen"
Whereas the "Extreme Harmony" includes excessive good and excessive evil, its
lukewarm form is characterized by averagely intensive feelings without maximal good
and maximal evil. Not a single human being suffers too intensely, which is the main
thing that matters.

At the time of the creation of my "Lukewarm Harmony", I was even considering the
idea of taking beings existing in the other universes for neighbors in the meaning,
that when we won't be too happy in our universe, we won't be the cause of their
possible excessive unhappiness (now I am referring to the balance of opposites,
which was my main criterion then).
The new "Lukewarm Harmony"
Similarly to the old version of this harmony, described above, every human being
has the average amount of personal happiness. The entire amount of happiness of
the whole society is divided by the number of its members and every single one of
them has the resulting amount at his disposal (and the balance of opposites already
is not the main criterion here).
Considering the total sum of everything what all the human souls are supposed to
experience during one cycle of events in our Ball and now I am referring to "the
Picture of Human Souls", the opinion of my young age was more or less correct. But
if we consider the value of the society we live in or in which we will live in the future, it
is already a bit wrong, since every society has a different amount of happiness at its
disposal.
In our "Hellish third" (the left one, quite dark, about 35% big) is the average
amount of happiness of normal people quite low. But in the "Miscellaneous third" (the
right one, half light, about 30% big) is the average amount of human happiness much
bigger. Because the "Heavenly third" looks like the opposite of the "Hellish third", and
the "Miscellaneous third" is half light with one problematic place, the entire sum of the
light (= happiness) and the dark (= unhappiness) of the whole Picture of Human
Souls should be very slightly under zero (at least 2%; recently I have mentioned the
range of - 4 and - 8 %, which was maybe too negative; the truth is that I am not fully
sure about the value of the problematic place of the right third that decides the final
result).
Generally, to avoid the biggest extremes in good and evil is advisable as well as to
reach the average amount of happiness in every human being. But it is impossible to
be put in practice in the "Hellish third" of the Picture of Human Souls. It is only
realizable without Hellish people.
However, in the "Heavenly third" and partly also in the best places of the
"Miscellaneous one", you cannot avoid the biggest good. Both "Heavenly" and
"Hellish third" exclude the establishment of my "Lukewarm Harmony". The "Heavenly
one" for being too good and the "Hellish one" for being too evil.
Benefit of avoiding the extremes
If we remove all the extremes and utilize well what has remained, we can get to
very interesting results. Some examples:
1. Large Shepherd Dogs
80% power of the strongest, 80% quickness of the most quick, 80% will of those
who have the highest one and similarly. Although in one discipline they can be
overcame (for instance a Greyhound will run even faster than they do or a
Bloodhound will track the game better than they do), in the overall performance
where everything is needed (resistance against colds, ability to fight beasts, ability to

fight human enemies, long walks, good social feeling to approach the other dogs in
the pack etc.), they will turn to be the best ones.
2. Relationships
By potential: (= by intensity)
No human being is loved by the entire potential of one's love, but at the same time
no human being is not-loved at all (= to love neither too much nor too little). One part
of love is given to a girl/boy friend or a wife/husband, other to (grand)parents, other to
own children, other to the other relatives, other to friends, other to beloved pieces of
land and similarly. Every human being must be loved by the ideal part & amount of
one's potential of love.
By place:
Best is when our love is not fragmentized by such a way that is not suitable for us.
For example, when all our close people are located in the same apartment together
with us, we can become "overeaten" by their ever-lasting closeness. And contrariwise
when they are located too distant from us, e.g. in a different country, it can be too
difficult for us to meet them when we need their closeness.
I guess that in the majority of cases it would function this way and the most
suitable thing is the harmonic fragmentation of our relationships, meaning not too
close and at the same time not too distant. All our beloved people and favorite places
should be reachable any time, when we really need (to be in touch with) them.
By time:
It often happens that the pieces of love located in others are not at hand when we
need them, being unreachable for us not because of some large distance, but
because of the time. They are not founding themselves in the present, but in the past
or in the future.
Most of the time, when people are still little kids, they have grandparents. But as
they grow older, they lose them and later they lose also their parents.
On the other hand, by becoming older, together with losing firstly grandparents
and then parents, they are getting their own children and later also grandchildren.
Part of their life they are kids, part adults and part old people. And each of these
periods of life has its benefits that all are needed by the human soul somehow.
You know, everything is needed. Part of the potential that our soul needs is
located in our childhood, part in our adulthood and part in our old age.
We need the pieces of love experienced both with our parents & grandparents and
with our children & grandchildren. We need the pieces of love experienced with the
other relatives, friends and peer group, domestic animal etc. We need all the love
that we need. And we need it :-)
3. Martial arts
It is not enough to be only the best kicker and striker, or the best wrestler, or a
perfect psychologist who knows how to treat the other people, or a splendid lawyer
who knows the law. But he who knows the essentials of all that, knowing both how to

kick and strike, and how to use the body in combative situations that require wrestling
techniques, at the same time how to approach people and how to do all that in the
frame of the law, he, as a whole, is more efficient than any of those one-sided
professionals separated and alone.
4. Foreign language
He who knows all the existing words from one letter is not able to make himself
understood in that language, because he does not know words from all the other
letters. But he who knows the essential words from every letter, he will already be
able to make himself understood in that language.
5. Supergod
None of the pieces of his body excels another, yet all of them are in ideal condition
(which does not mean 'maximal') and co-operate perfectly.
Lesson: Do not reach the maximum level in one spectrum. Instead, use perfectly
co-operating essentials of all the needed spectrums.

Bonus (genders and Heaven)

When we are in the Heaven, there we do not have our physical bodies and our
soul does not express sexuality, that is one-sidedness, as much as during its physical
life on Earth. The principle of how intensely it experiences relationships can be
illustrated by the model of a person, the emotional spectrum of which includes both
female and male feelings, being a perfect merge of the both.
Women have got a vagina and men a penis, despite it every one of them is
different than others who have got the same gender. Whereas the essence of each
of the two genders is compatible with a different range of feelings.
Let us remember the origin of male and female gender (excerpt from my book
"Supergod"): "It is a so-called "root diversion from the original center", which is a
modification of the model of the original androgynous & sexless human by the
magnification of a part of the traits of his root and at the same time by the weakening
of the remaining. The result is a "root surplus" on the one hand, on the other hand a
"root deficit" (= a man or a woman - comment)."
More complex feelings can only be reached by the merge of the capabilities of the
both genders. However, because in every opposite there is the element of its own
opposite, every gender contains a very little bit of the traits & capabilities of the other
one. But if these traits & capabilities are about being equal, which suggests "half a
man half a woman", only then it reaches the more complex spectrum of the feelings.
The way such a person would experience "his or her" or if you like "its"
relationships, is unusual to us. Because none of the two genders is in dominance,
there would be no extremely-intensive love like a sexual intercourse with orgasm, but
on the other hand there would not be any too cold relationships either.
If we added up the intensity of love between two lovers and between two
acquaintances or friends and divided it by two, the resulting amount would be the
value of the intensity of love, by means of which that "androgynous" person
experiences its relationship to close people. It would be something between a normal
relationship and a sexual one with orgasm, which means a warmer hearted friendship
(in the meaning of improved or even "upgraded").
The same "improved relationship" would be valid for that to own self, too. Such an
individual would like its body (above all, we speak about the spiritual one that is in the
Heaven), having such a relationship to it that borders on erotic attraction.
However, do not try to be like such a person! It is a theory that was explained here
to make you understand the essence of genders and of love experienced by our
souls in the Heaven, where they feel the streams of loving warmth between them and
Heavenly plants & spiritual creatures.
By their intensity, these feelings can be compared to that on the border between a
normal mood and an orgasm. And, by their "sexuality", to that in the range between
the original physical gender and the androgynous & sexless model.
Anyway, here on Earth everybody should follow the traits of his or her physical
gender without any attempts to change anything about it. Shortly, be the man or the
woman like the God has created you.
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