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What does Scotts Peck meant when he says: falling in love is not real love?
Peck distinguishes between true love, as defined above, and "falling in love". Our
tendency to confuse the two, says Peck, is one of the most powerful and pervasive
misconceptions about love. Peck asserts that falling in love is specifically a "sexlinked erotic experience"
True love - the will to extend ones self for the purpose of nurturing ones own or
anothers spiritual growth.
Falling in love is not an act of will. It is not a conscious choice.
No matter how open to or eager for it we may be, the experience may still elude
(escape) us.
falling in love is not an extension of ones limits or boundaries; it is partial and
temporary collapse of them
The extension of ones limits requires effort; falling in love is effortless
3. Falling in love has little to do with purposively nurturing ones spiritual
development
Purpose of falling in love-terminate our loneliness and perhaps insure this result
through marriage
Why is there a need to learn each ones love languages?
The idea is: we all express and feel love differently, and understanding those
differences can seriously help your relationship. In fact, its one of the simplest ways
to improve it.
Its obvious that we all show affection in different ways. These languages simply
label those ways so you can understand people a little better.
How do we solve such persistent gender injustice being one of humanitys
structural sin?
Why is sexual intercourse the primary symbol of a sacramental marriage, just as
washing with water is the primary symbol of baptism?