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What&humans&can&be,&they&must&be.&This&need&we&call&self7actualization.
&Abraham&Maslow&
What&humans&must&be,&they&can&be.&This&drive&I&call&self7actualization.&Jack&Carney&
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If$you$bring$forth$what$is$within$you,$what$you$bring$forth$will$
save$you.$If$you$do$not$bring$forth$what$is$within$you,$what$you$
do$not$bring$forth$will$destroy$you.$Gnostic$Gospel$of$Thomas$
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Our$chief$want$is$someone$who$will$inspire$us$to$be$
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what$we$know$we$could$be.$Ralph$Waldo$Emerson$
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SELF7ACTUALIZATION&COACHING&WITH&JACK!
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JACK&AS&EVERY&MAN&&&JACK&OF&ALL&TRADES&
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SELF7ACTUALIZATION&COACH&(Life!Coach!+!Counselor)&
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&SELF7ACTUALIZED&=&SECURITY&+&FREEDOM&+&LOVE&
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RESPONSIBLE&FREEDOM:&THE&WAY&TO&PEACE&and&PROSPERITY&
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! Jack,$a$generic$term$for$Man.$Jack$of$All$Trades$is$a$figure$of$speech.$A$Jack$of$All$$Trades$may$be$a$master$of$
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integration.$Such$an$individual$knows$enough$from$many$learned$trades$and$skills$to$be$able$to$bring$
his$disciplines$together$in$a$practical$manner.$This$person$is$a$generalist$rather$than$an$expert.$Wikipedia$
As!your!SELF7ACTUALIZATION&COACH,&I&help&you&UNCOVER,&DISCOVER,&RECOVER,&RENEW&and&TRANSFORM&
what& you& MUST& BE& into& what& you& CAN& BEwhich! I! term! RESPONSIBLE& FREEDOM.! My! overall! goal! is! to!
provide!you!with!Resources!of!Wisdom!that!when!SelfLActualized!will!gain!you!the!Security,!Freedom!and!Love!
that!will!lead!you!back!wiser!to!Wisdom!in!an!ever!up!and!outward,!enlarging!and!more!inclusive,!Spiritual!
Spiral!that!will!leave!you!and!the!planet!more!prosperous!and!peaceful.!
I! am! a! Self7Actualization& Coach& for& those& 35+different! from! a! Life! Coach! (to! be! explained! below).!
According!to!Abraham!Maslow,!the!creator!of!the!Hierarchy!of!Needs!model!with!its!5th!consummate!
level! of! SelfLActualization,! only! about! 1%! of! the! older! (note! emphasis)! adult! population! can! be!
considered!as!SelfLActualized.!!Do!YOU!want!to!be!among!that!1%&?!
I&am&a&Self7Actualized&Self7Actualization&Coach&and&one&of&the&1%.!I!demonstrate!the!SelfLActualization!of!Wisdom!
that!achieves!Security,!Freedom,!and!Love.!I!know!their!Who,!What,!How!and!Why!because!I!have!Actualized!them.!
What!and!How!we!Teach!is!Who!We!Are.!I!Teach!my!SelfLActualization!so!you!can!Learn!Yours.!I!hope!to!get!the!
opportunity!to!prove!this!to!you.!I!invite!you!to!compare!me!to!others!who!make!similar!claims!(read!below).!
There!are!two&conditions!that!will!most!likely!determine!who!of!you!will!be!attracted!to!and!make!best!use!
of!me!as!your!SelfLActualization!Coach.!The!first!is!age!and!the!second!is!how!successfully!you!have!met!the!
lower!4!D7eficiency!Needs!to!free!you!to!pursue!the!5th!highest!B7eing!Need!(see!above!left).!
First,& I& usually& only& coach& those& 35& years& and& older.! Why?! To! Actualize! a! Self! you! must! first! have! one.! The!
unpleasant!truth!for!youth!(of!any!ageyears!do!not!guarantee!maturity)!is!that!it!takes!time!to!grow!up!and!
know!your!Self.!Those!young!in!wisdom!tend!to!snow!and!showfake!and!shake!their!Self,!rather!then!know!
and!grow!their!Self.!They!are!still!seeking!to!answer!Lifes!Question,!Who!Am!I?!with!their!actualized!Lifes!
Answer,!Who!I!AM!.!Usually,!only!those!40+!are!likely!to!have!the!necessary!experience!to!gain!sufficient!SelfL
Knowledge!to!be!uncovered,!discovered,!recovered!and!renewed.!Maslow!explained!about!how!he!arrived!at!the!
concept! of! selfLactualization:! I$ confine$ the$ concept$ very$ definitely$ to$ older$ people.$ By$ the$ criteria$ I$ used,$ selfI
actualization$does$not$occur$in$young$people.$In$our$culture$at$least,$youngsters$have$not$yet$achieved$identity,$or$
autonomy,$nor$have$they$had$time$enough$to$experience$an$enduring,$loyal,$postIromantic$love$relationship,$nor$
have$they$generally$found$their$calling,$the$altar$upon$which$to$offer$themselves.!
Looking!back!on!my!life!with!72!years!perspective,!it!is!clear!to!me!that!I!was!only!beginning!to!truly!SelfL
Actualize,!that!is,!maturely!live!Responsible!Freedom,!around!45.!For!it!was!not!until!then,!when!I!met!
Katharine!my!Other!Half,!that!I!began!to!value!and!practice!the!Art!of!Loving!(Pairing,!my!website:!Pairing!
Today!http://www.pairingtoday.com)!which!transformed!my!Love!of!Wisdom!into!the!Wisdom!of!Love.!
Accomplishing!that!led!me!into!an!ever!increasing!Spiritual!Spiral!of!Wisdom!where!I!am!today.!I!understand!
the!Human!Condition.!I!have!Sourced!myself!and!am!able!to!be!a!Resource!for!you!to!do!the!same.!Hence!
the!name!of!my!website:!Resource!for!Your!Source!(http://www.resourceforyoursource.com)
The&only&person&you&are&destined&to&become&is&the&person&you&decide&to&be.!Ralph!Waldo!Emerson!
Email:!themesofjack@gmail.com;!Skype:!selfactualizingcoach@hotmail.com;!Website:!www.resourceforyoursource.com!
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What&humans&can&be,&they&must&be.&This&need&we&call&self7actualization.&Abraham&Maslow&
Second,&to&begin&Self7Actualizing&your&B7eing&Need&you&will&have&to&be&mainly:&
Free!of!constraints!imposed!by!society!and!by!yourself.!
Not!distracted!by!the!lowerLorder!DLefficiency!Needs.!!
Secure!in!your!selfLimage!and!in!your!relationships!with!other!people.!
Able!to!love!and!be!loved!in!return.!!
Objectively!aware!of!your!strengths!and!weaknesses,!virtues!and!vices.!
I! believe! we! can! only! teach! WHO! WE! AREevery! HOW! is! a! WHO.! I! find! very! few! who! accord! with! my!
understanding!of!SelfLActualization.!I!have!met!many!!soLcalled!enlightened!gurus!and!teachers!personally!
or!through!their!devotees!and!works!but!very!few!do!I!consider!truly!SelfLActualized!in!the!way!I!live!this!
concept!and!coach!it!with!others.!I!make!the!claim!that!I!am!Responsibly!Free!and!SelfLActualize!Wisdom.!
I!realize!I!must!prove!this!claim!and!I!am!quite!willing!to!do!so.!I!invite!you!to!test!my!understanding!
of!the!Human!Condition!and!my!attainment!of!SelfLActualizing!Responsible!Freedom!and!compare!it!
to!others!claiming!something!similar!or!more!advanced.!View!any!of!my!36!videos!on!Youtube!here!
http://bit.ly/2d4dg5q! ! critically! put! me! up! against! any! of! the! teachers! or! gurus! on! Youtube! who!
discuss! SelfLactualization,! SelfLrealization,! Enlightenment,! Peak! Experiences,! Transcendence,! God,!
Spirituality,! etc.! E.g.,! go! here! http://bit.ly/2fP0mXu! to! view! Leo$ Gura,! a! younger,! very! popular!
(millions! of! Youtube! views)! Advanced! SelfLdevelopment! teacher! for! his! A$ Vision$ For$ The$ Self$
Actualized$ Life$ I$ Get$ Yo$ Ass$ Inspired!.$ Now,! go! here! http://bit.ly/2faL1ie! and! here!
http://bit.ly/2fP8FCw!for!what!I!consider!the!real!thing!featuring!Abraham!Maslow!in!1968!(Note:!
hundreds!of!views!only).!I!invite!any!challenge.!I!am!certain!my!Who!AM!I?!is!Who!I!AM!.!You!decide.!
HOW&IS&SELF7ACTUALIZATION&COACHING&DIFFERENT&FROM&LIFE&COACHING?&
I! define! SelfLActualization! Coaching! as! a! combination! of! Life! Coaching! and! Counseling.! Here! are! very!
brief!definitions!of!Coaching!and!Counseling!both!of!which!I!do!with!you:!
!Coaching!helps!you!set!and!achieve!goals!that!bring!desired!change!through!using!skillful!questioning.!I!
work!with!your!strengths,!weaknesses,!challenges,!opportunities!and!crises!concerning!goals!and!change.!
Counseling!is!an!organic!process!that!helps!you!understand!your!mental!and!physical!suffering!so!as!to!
heal!yourself!while!gaining!relief!by!feeling!emotionally!secure!in!the!relationship.!Counselling!depends!on!
mutual!trust!and!openness.!I!work!with!you!intimately!to!help!you!prepare!for!and!adapt!to!loss!so!you!
can!not!only!survive!but!learn!to!thrive!by!linking!yourself!ever!more!liberatingly!and!lovingly!to!life.!
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HOW&DO&I&CARRY&OUT&SELF7ACTUALIZATION&COACHING?&
Most!Life!Coaching!is!done!over!the!phonesome!research!indicates!up!to!91%,!either!speaking!or!
texting!or!both.!I!differ!from!the!Herd!as!I!hope!you!do.!I!favor!and!recommend!visual!conversation!
on!Zoom!or!Skype.!Intimacy!is!necessary!and!it!can!only!come!through!Facing!our!SeIvesrisking!
showing!ALL!of!who!we!arethe!good!and!the!bad.!Seeing!each!others!face!as!we!talk!is!essential!in!
SelfLActualization!Coaching!that!combines!Life!Coaching!and!Counseling!(see!above).!!
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WHAT&IS&IT&WORTH&TO&YOU&TO&SELF7ACTUALIZE&WHAT&YOU&MUST&BE?&
The$cost$of$a$thing$is$the$amount$of$what$I$call$life$which$is$required$to$be$exchanged$for$it,$immediately$or$in$
the$long$run.$Henry$David$Thoreau$
My!cost!in!U.S.!dollars!per!hour!varies!according!to!your!ability!to!pay!and!is!between!$0!and!$100!(if!you!do!not!
have!money!I!will!take!your!service!as!trade).!The!rate!is!decided!when!we!first!meet!online!(preferably!Zoom!but!
also!Skype).!I!offer!a!noLcharge!30!to!60!minute!introductory!first!meeting!so!we!can!decide!if!I!am!right!for!you.!
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PAY&JACK&THROUGH&PAYPAL&
https://www.paypal.com/c@/webapps/mpp/sendLpaymentsLonline!
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ARE&YOU&SELF7ACTUALIZATION&COACHABLE?&
Please!answer!these!questions!together!with!me!in!our!first,!free,!no!obligation!meeting!to!
discover!if!we!are!rightly!aligned!to!continue!SelfLActualization!Coaching.!I!hope!you!will!feel!
secure!enough!with!me!to!do!this.!Please!feel!free!to!decline!to!respond!to!any!of!these!
questions!for!whatever!reasons!with!no!need!to!explain.!
ARE!YOU?:!
1. Committed!to!your!personal!and!professional!development?!
2. A!lifelong!learner?!
3. Willing!to!acknowledge!where!you!are!stuck!in!your!life?!
4. Open!to!other!ways!of!seeing!the!world?!
5. Able!to!accept!feedback?!
6. Willing!to!try!new!behaviors?!
7. Willing!to!reflect!on!your!experience!and!observe!yourself!in!action?!
8. Willing!to!develop!parts!of!yourself!that!may!have!been!neglected?!
9. Willing!to!challenge!your!present!beliefs?!
10. Willing!to!begin!a!relationship!with!the!source!of!your!dissatisfaction?!
11. Willing!to!consider!new!possibilities!for!yourself?!
12. Willing!to!ask!yourself!new!questions?!
13. Willing!to!take!risks!to!change?!
14. Willing!to!reinvent!yourself?!
15. Willing!to!not!know?!
16. Open!to!ideas!other!than!your!own?!
17. Willing!to!experience!more!purpose!and!fulfillment?!
18. Willing!to!let!go!of!behaviors!and!beliefs!that!no!longer!serve!you?!
19. Willing!to!live!with!uncertainty!and!ambiguity?!
20. Willing!to!engage!in!a!process!of!introspection?!
21. Willing!to!consider!new!strategies!for!success?!
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WHY&YOU&SHOULD&CHOOSE&ME&TO&COACH&YOUR&SELF7ACTUALIZATION&
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I!am!trustworthy!and!will!provide!CV!and!references!to!prove!so.!!
I!will!support!you!so!you!are!willing!to!share!your!vulnerability!with!me.!
I!will!challenge!you!sometimes!to!the!point!of!our!mutual!discomfort.!
I!will!listen!attentively,!reflectively,!with!focused,!heartfelt!care.!
I!think!different!from!you!and!99%!of!the!population.!
I!am!available!to!you!online!as!you!want!me!including!24/7!anytime!emergency!contact.!
I!have!a!huge!digital!library!of!books,!articles,!mp3s!and!mp4s!that!I!provide!for!no!cost!
beginning!with!the!book!the!above!questions!are!taken!from:!Be$Your$Own$Coach.!
8. If!we!align!rightly!I!will!be!not!only!your!coaching!partner!but!your!Free!Friend!forever.!
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ANY&QUESTIONS&TO&ASK&ME?&
Please!feel!free!to!ask!me!ANYTHING!AT!ANYTIME!!I!really!mean!it!when!I!say!I!am!
TRANSPARENT.!That!is,!I!have!nothing!to!hide!and!everything!to!show.!My!motto:!Nothing!to!
Conceal,!Nothing!to!Reveal,!Only!Reality!with!which!to!Deal.!
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Look!carefully!at!this!cartoon!of!Wisdom.!
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Note!the!KEYS!hanging!above!their!heads!
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and!the!hands!gripping!the!bars!which!are!
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!KEYS.!This!symbolizes!the!truth!that!you!
you!have!been!locked!into!a!Social!Control!
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Cell!from!birth!but!you!dont!yet!know!this.!
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Only!YOU!have!!the!KEY!that!can!free!YOULL!
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SELFLKNOWLEDGEbeginning!with!the!fact!
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CONTACT&JACK&CARNEY:&
Email:!themesofjack@gmail.com!
Websites:!www.resourceforyoursource.com;!www.pairingtoday.com!
Skype:!selfactualizingcoach@hotmail.com!
Cell!phone,!Chile,!until!November!25,!2016:!56!9!4929!6499!
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JACK&CARNEY&&CREDENTIALS&in&BUSINESS&&&HUMAN&SERVICES&
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Below!is!a!summary!of!Jack!Carneys!work!record!in!Canada,!Australia!and!the!United!States!from!1975!to!2003!in!
Business!and!Human!Services!arranged!in!4!Areas.!!
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I.&ENTREPRENEURSHIP&&&BUSINESS&MANAGEMENT!!
(Canada,!Australia!&!United!States!1975!to!2002)!
Started!up!and!managed!these!businesses:!
a.!Credible!ContractingGeneral!ContractorLBuilder,!SelfLtaught!Architect!1975L1981!(Canada)!
b.!International!Shell!&!MembranesHyperbolic!Paraboloid!Modular!Building!System!1981L1986!(Australia)!
c.!Kali!DesignWomens!Boutique!Clothing!Design!&!Manufacture!1989L1991!(Australia)!
d.!Inventor!and!Marketer!of!New!Household!ProductPotmate!1991L1992!(Australia!&!U.S.)!
e.!Clearly!YoursWindow!Washing!Company!1992L1993!(U.S.)!
f.!!Partners!for!LifeRelationships!Consultancy!Promoting!Permanent!Partnerships!for!Single!Men!&!Women!1996L
1998!(Australia)!
g.!Creative!Connections!for!LifeTraining!for!Health!Care!Workers!1999L2002!(Australia)!
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II.&LOSS&&&CARE&EDUCATION&(Australia!1996!to!2003)!
1.&Palliative&Care&(1996L2003)!
!a.!Member!of!the!Palliative!Care!Association!of!Queenslands!Upskilling!Course!for!General!Practice!Doctors!!
b.!Educator!for!Medical!Professionals!on!Personally!Caring!for!the!Terminally!Ill!!
c.!Advocate!for!Palliative!Home!Care!including!starting!The!SuncorpLMetway!Katharos!Palliative!Care!Project!
d.!Member!of!Blue!Nursing!Curriculum!Advisory!Committee!
e.!Public!talks!including!TV!and!Radio!on!the!Value!of!Palliative!Care!
f.!Member!of!Blue!Nursing!Curriculum!Advisory!Committee!
g.!Founding!member!Community!Loss!&!Grief!Committee!!
h.!Community!Activist!&!Advocate!started!up,!managed!Widowers!for!men!only!who!lost!their!wives!
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2.&Aged&Care&(2000L2003)&
a.!Older!Persons!Advocacy!ServiceCommunity!Advocate!
b.!Trainer!for!Certificate!III!Aged!Care!WorkersChallenge!Learning!Institute!&!East!Coast!Training!
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3.&Mental&Health&(2000L2003)&
a.!Research!Assistant!for!School!of!Population!Healths!and!Queensland!Healths!Queensland!Alcohol!and!Drug!
Research!and!Education!
b.!Research!Assistant!for!Queensland!Health!Supervision!Project!for!Allied!Health,!Nursing!&!Medical!Staff!!
c.!CoLFounder!&!CoLTrainer!for!Creative!Connections!for!Life!Creating!and!Delivering!Workshops!on!Stress!and!Burnout!
for!Mental!Health!Workers!
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III.&RELATIONSHIPS&EDUCATION&(Australia!1997!to!2003)&
1.!Started!up!and!managed!Partners!for!Life,!a!Permanent!Partnership!Singles!Introduction!and!Personal!Development!
Company!
2.!Chief!Educator!and!Public!Relations!Spokesman!for!Relationships!Australia!Queensland!
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IV.&ADULT&COMMUNITY&EDUCATION&(Australia!1993!to!1998)&
1.!Adult!Community!Education!at!Technical!And!Further!Education!(TAFE)!Institutes!creating!and!delivering!courses!on!
Personal!Development!
2.!Community!Activist!and!Advocate!started!up!and!managed!Community!Program!Mentors!for!older!persons!to!
connect!with!younger!as!Life!Coaches!and!Guides!
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