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DONT MAKE ANY WRONG DECISION, IT CAN RUIN YOUR WHOLE LIFE OR YOU WILL HAVE TO MAKE A
NEW START WHICH CAN COST YOU A LOT. READ AND LEARN.
First of all sorry if you will see any wrong English in this book. Might be the mistake has been made or
they are natural. Understand the reason and English both yourself.
Lets talk about that age of a boy or a girl when anybody is making his/her own thinking.
Its the teenage and the most most hard age to make any decision and much harder time to understand
what is going behind all the scenes which are happening.
These might be the question which may arise commonly when a child is in IX , X XI, or XII standard.
What the scenes are?
What my parents are talking about , in their language of mature person.
What is the perspective of that thing which I am observing or watching.
Am I right or wrong?
Are my parents selfish?
Do I have made a sin?
Am I innocent or fool, or the most intelligent person who thinks most differently.
And a lot more questions.
On an average a person who is getting mature has about 400 questions daily with himself or with friends
during conversation thats why teenagers talks the most even more then the teachers and ladies in the
India.
Lets see the reason behind this.
I will go short.
In India we dont make our thinking according to our needs and first of all we think of others that if we
will do this what others will think.
So we pressurise our child to do what other likes, not what is the need of his life and his own family
(Even the need of the family factor is also wrong here. Why a student should go on any wrong way just to
fulfil his parents demand or to upgrade their social status by choosing a unknown way for his whole life?
).
parents get to understand this fact only when there is too late.
parents dont see what our child is.
Does he has some other good calibre which others dont have.
Even now when a lot of student have made suicide due to the above reasons now parents have tried a
bit to understand that we should think of our child not others. Now you will get much closer to the above
points. They were not simple words. Actually they create history of life themselves.
If you want to see the suicide rate, read the article on our website. Here is the link.
http://gkchimp.com/parents-pleaz-dont-ignore/
Too late has at least four meanings here.
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See his efforts, love and knowledge because he knew he had enough confidence in himself that
till the last moment he can do something for me to make me able to earn some living for me.
Bullshit you all people are who pressurise your child on the name of economic status, future
status, career status and so many shit labels for your lie to yourself and your own child.
Many times people give excuse that they are very poor they cannot support his/her studies.
They want to make their child an engineer and it will make them a bright citizen and a rich person
in society. (they think so which is not true.)
What are you thinking?
Am I making jokes and bakwas at all?
What image of mine you are making?
Do you think I am from a very rich family,,,,,
no never.
I used to go by feet just to save just 5.
I have never taken lunch in school.
I never got conveyance from home to school.
I never bought new shoes or dress every time.
Now you can imagine what kind of person I had been.
No, I was not so poor but I belong to a community which believes in saving money and investing
at a right place.
All the thing which I have written in a way to scold you could only be written by a very privileged
child.
But not so true right now.
You wont believe how much my father used to earn, only 20 thousand per month!...
In that income he nourished three of us. Our grandmother and grandfather. My mother and my
father.
Total 7 persons in our family.
He gave us education in private school
We are two younger Brother with a single elder sister.
As I have mentioned how much love and affection I got form my father even when he was not in
condition to give me the extreme expenses to study.
Only because, he believed in me and his intelligence that, he can do something for me at the last
moment even if I got failed in my career start.
I did my inter from a government school in which there was no tradition to teach a student.
The school was full of goons by I never got involved with them.
I got 60% in my 12th class board exams..
Before going forward go back to history again.
Dont worry I will go short in points.
Now come back to scene after getting 60% in board exams in XII class.
I had studied only 15 hours a day for two months continuously. I completed all my 10 course
books in 2 months
Before the board exam would get over, I got a suggestion from my friend that I should do (BJMC)
Bachelors of journalism and mass communication from Guru Gobind Singh Indraprastha
University Delhi.(IP University)
Actually He had filled the form for BJMC but didnt got the selected only due to 0.01 percent
decrease in gross marks in
12th board exam.
He had got 49.9% but the criteria for getting admission in IP University was at least 50%
See the destiny, But he got a call when he had joined the germany language.
See his intelligence he didnt stopped there and got admission in German language in Max Muler
Bhavan in Connaught place.
See his guts, he was an orphan and he had an elder brother who was the only bread earner and
he had three sisters. All unmarried.
He lost his father in age of five.
Its fee was so high and increasing semester by semester.
His fee for first semester was 14,000 while his elder brother salary was only 17,000/What a great joke.!!
I got the advice from him in December and I was in daily touch with him.
But I followed his advice and filled a form for BJMC in march.
Now after filling a form I purchased a old book form Sunday flea market at daryaganj in new delhi
where people come to sell their old books and they purchase old book also .
New book was for 400 but the old one was for 150 only and it was an old edition.
But I had confidence on myself that I will prepare for it better then the new book holders.
I barely had read the 500 page book for 15 days. And I got the 1845 rank.
I used to sit at my stationery shop so I didnt had time to study. But still I got passed.
I had a belief read any little or too much but all with dedication. So I learnt the theory of BJMC
and I got passed with the best rank and got the admission.
I have never hold the tail of a single thing in my life where I see there is no chance I just leave it
and move forward.
I was weak in math so as in economics in twelfth and so as in reasoning portion of BJMC
preparation and I left all three thing and they could not stop me to get success.
I got pass in maths.
Fail in economics (only 13 Marks) but still 60% in 12th board.
Fail in reasoning still the best rank in BJMC exam.
So it gives us a lesson that a student life is like water and they should always keep on moving with
changing their ways.
May a lot of things and rocks comes in a way of river but it never stops itself and always make it
own way of moving.
Nobody was there to give me inspiration or advice but still I managed to do something in my life.
But I told him my trick of getting pass and gave him the trust and believe that he should not
worry everything will be okey and this time also will pass away.
He got pass in tenth and thanked me a lot.
But now he didnt got admission in XI class as it was too late to get admission as after the recompartment exam there are no seats left in schools to get the admission.
Even schools dont prefer to give admission to these kind of students as they waste time in class.
They ruins the career of self and others also.
They never study and dont others let study in the class room.
But not all the students are same. Some have good sense but due to nature choice they are week
in studies as I was I maths. But I never did cheating nor I disturbed the class thats why for
continues three years my teacher gave me marks for free and get me pass.
Now his whole year was wasted in he started doing some job. As in our families parents ask either
do study or do some job.
Co-Incidentally he was sitting to near me at my home when he had came to ask for something
and I got to know that this has happened to him. I had to get it revealed
From him as he was so lying person.
I suggested him that he already has wasted one year and doing some odd job why dont he tries
to get admission in some govt school.
But he refused and said now I will do work with my father what he does.
I told him to get admission in patrachar vidhyalya (a govt open school which conduct half classes
of the year) and conducts board exam for those like chetan.
He didnt believed that this so happens!
He talked to his parents and managed to get 5000 rupees to get the admission in patrachar
vidhyalya.
Now his next question was what he will do after 12th .
This was the question like give me tobacco and if I will suffer from cancer what you will say/do?
Now He had came to me at that time when my sister was running tuition at home.
All the student of tenth were listening carefully what bhaiya (I) wil answer to him.
I said, First of all you should get pass with atleast 50% marks in twelfth and then you can join any
language course like Germany, French, Spanish, Chinese, Japanese.
Q- what is the scope then?
Answer- Now a days our relation with these countries are going to be good and they all coming to do
business in our country so they will require the person kind of you who can make trust among the
masses.
Q- how much will it cost and from where I can do this?
Answer- youc anm do this from any college, institute, Delhi University, Jawaharlal Nehru University, Indira
Gandhi National Open Unversity. School Of Languages. Etc. and it not cost you more than one lakh for full
course. And you will get the startng salary of 25-30k per month.
He got happy with it and soon filled the form for 12th class and started preparing for germany classes so
that he will not face the same thing again in future of getting failed.
Will you believe he got pass with 70% and now he is assistant of a surgeon in one of the top five hospital
of Delhi.
He earn more than his father.
Now he never tells a lie to anybody not even to himself.
One of my friend was also in the same condition and he worked hard and filled the form of BJMC with me
and today he is a self writer and a news writer in one of the top three Hindi news channel of India.
You wont believe what his father use to do as occupation.
His father was an egg seller. Later on became a grocery saller.
Now their parents believe in study not in asking other what my child should do.
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MESSAGE OF THIS BOOKNEVER THINK OF WHAT OTHER WOULD SAY. ONLY IN THIS SAYING MORE THAN THE HALF TALENTS GETS
RUINED EACH YEAR.
PARENT FORCE THEIR CHILD THAT DONT QUIT THE ENGIEERING WHAT OTHER WOULD SAY THAT MAY BE
OUR CHILD IS NOT ABLE TO PERSUE ENGINEERING. WHAT OTHER HAVE TO DO WITH YOUR CHILD. WILL
THE BEY ALWAYS WITH HIM.
DO WHATEVER YOUR HEART SAYS STUDENTS.
TAPSEE PANNU- ACTRESS OF PINK MOVIE DID THE MUCH BETTER ACTING THEN MR. AMITABH
BACCHAN, DO YOU HAVE EVER TRIED TO KNOW WHO SHE IS. SHE IS FROM DELHI AND HOLDS A DEGREE
IN SOFTWARE ENGINEERING FORM ONE OF THE BEST COLLEGE OF DELHI. AND EXPERIENCE IN THE FIELD
ALSO.
SHE IS A MODEL ALSO WHO HAD WORKED WITH TOP MOST BRANDS.
ABHISHEK BACHCHAN HOLDS A DEGREE IN ECONOMICS
JOHN ABRAHAM IS TOPPER OF HIS COLLEGE IN MBA.
ALL THE BIG ACTORS ARE NOT QUALIFIED THEN 12TH PASS.
SHAHRUKH KHAN ALSO HOLDS A DEGREE IN BJMC FROM JAMIA UNIVERSITY.
Yes, If your child has something different , go with the policy of father of Sunder Pichai (CEO of Google) .
He has share also in google.inc.
His father was not able purchase a ticket of American flight to send him for study.
But he took a loan to send him to USA , now you can see the results.
He has worked on several applications like Google Chome, YouTube, Ad words, Ad Sense and many more.
The chief Minister of Delhi Arvind Kejriwal
He did top in his school form class one to class twelfth
Became an IRS officer in a single chance.
Became an IIT-ian in a single chance.
One of the best non-corrupt officer.
Hold no records of corruption.
Worked with the best engineering companies and govt of India.
In 2005 brought the Right To Information
Won the Ramon Magsesay Award
One of the biggest Anti -corruption movement after Independence to remove the corruption from India
was run by him.
He Become the first chief minister with 67/70 mandate.
ALWAYS TRY TO BE DOWN TO EARTH ONLY THEN YOU CAN KNOW WHATS THE RIGHT AND WHATS THE
WRONG.
I am telling you all these -BECAUSE THESE ARE THE BASIC POINTS FOR ANY SUCCESFUL PARENT OT THE
STUDENT
The most important thing is that if you are going to fight a war with the success just keep the two time
meal with you and then you are free for whole life. Fight with best of your energy..nobody will say that
what are you doing or where you are going.
Today I am also fighting a war with success but first of all I am preparing for my minimum survival and
then I will do anything in the ground.
Whatever you want to be you must fix where you have to go only then you should start the journey.
I have also some problems in my life I have a dream but it is taking time and my family cant wait they
says that first of all leave this digital marketing an get some job so that we can get you married.
And after marriage you all know what happens, nobody can do anything with the responsibility of family.
As per Indian mindsets.
In all this hustle student get pressurise and they are not able to focus in their studies.
many of them do make suicide,
some examples are here
in Kota (Rajasthan), there are coaching centre in which student go for coaching and about only a 30%
student get the admission in the college. While many of them who dont get admission they do suicide as
they think they dont have any AIM besides this.
I will not publish the long history of this as it hurts me also but whatever written is enough for making a
good decision
While I have shared some stories above just to tell you that we should not lose hope and if anybody says
anything just ignore them and go on your own way.
Actually those person who taunts you they have not done anything in their life.
Reasons behind the suicide: Social pressure on child to do something in life
Not delivering the best performance in a specific time.
Not having an up to the mark status in the friends, neighbours, society
Being more optimistic than the parents and then they taunt their child for not obeying them or follow
them on a wrong career path.
Anyway when about 70% engineers are jobless you should not go with anyone choice do something with
your choice.
OR ask me if required.
I cannot write anymore and its enough to be understand by a enough mature person.
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Anybody who has came reading till now always keep a slip written this with youWhen you are going to fight in a war of Mahabharata you must be aware of - whome you are taking
advice a shakuni OR Lord Krishna.
Our upcoming future result depends upon our todays selection of choices.