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In my opinion, I would say that Peruvian men do make good husbands IF there is good communication
between both partners! This is essential as the machismo in Peru can lead to misunderstandings and
resentment if women begin to feel a lack of respect or consideration from their partner.
If the man is willing to communicate and truly consider his wifes opinions, that is a good man!
Controllers
by: Anonymous
I'm married to a Peruvian man with whom we have a son. He is generally a very good person and eager to
please our family. But!!!!!!!
He is controlling beyond what is normal for any controlling person.
He does not believe that he is. He truly believes he is helping us. Our son and myself.
He is not abusive though. Constantly in my head weighing out his good intentions and his control issues.
He tries to make changes but it is instilled in him to be in charge. I am Americanizing him little by little! I
hope.
We have been married four years and as for what I can tell you, they are wonderful lovers. Ready for sex
constantly. Bring on the ice and put in ear plugs.
issues.
"How, then, can you bridge these differences and communicate with your husband or wife?"
Read more: Treating Your Mate with Respect
Observations
by: Anonymous
Like in all countries, Peruvian men are diverse and
differences can even vary by region. However, I have
found some idiosyncrasies that I have gathered from
observation and experience.
1. Peruvian men are cheap, they tend to be very
overprotective over their money.
2. They have a lot of internalized racism. Which is why a
lot of them worship whatever is white and blonde.
3. They have a great sense of humor and usually have
solid group of friends.
4. They are very loyal and loving towards their families
5. Many of them have a lot of interests outside work and
Disappointing
by: Anonymous
I was reading a lot of what other people were writing
about their experiences with Peruvian guys so I thought I
would also share mine. First I want to start off by saying
that I don't want to make any broad generalizations about
an entire culture. I am solely sharing my personal
experience and I'm not saying that all Peruvian men are
the same.
I would describe him as being quite cultural although he
no longer lives in Peru and hasn't for some time. therefore
I do believe that he is more progressive than what some of
the other commenters have described their
boyfriends/husbands to be, especially in regards to the role
of women in the household, as he always encouraged me
to get my education and also have a high-powered career
instead of solely taking on the traditional role of a
housewife.
Unfortunately, as I've been reading through many of these
comments, I can find myself relating to a lot of these
women. I have had issues with my ex Peruvian boyfriend
lying to me repeatedly and cheating on me at parties. I
wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt because he
always came off as being the ideal guy who wouldn't ever
lie or cheat on me, turns out that was just a facade.
I must say, my ex in particular was quite good at
convincing me he wasn't what my vibe was telling me he
was. Overall, he really hurt me emotionally, because I
trusted him when he never deserved trust, and I was really
patient with him too, always in the hopes that he would
Recommended reading
by: David
Emotional Abuse actually happens more often than
physical abuse and can be more crippling. Here is the
definition given in this book. "Emotional Abuse is any
form of abuse that is non-physical and is intended to
control or manipulate the victim through overt and subtle
tactics, such as insults, criticisms, denial, suggestive
behavior, berating, belittling, or anything else that impacts
the victims sense of self-worth negatively." Emotional
Abuse leaves one psychologically devastated due to the
very personal nature. Most victims believe that they are
somehow the source of the problem or that the abuse is
Peruvian men:
by: Anonymous
I'm an American, married to a Peruvian man for 20 years,
lived in Peru for 10. They are very affectionate, wonderful
fathers and hard workers. They aren't as machista or proud
as carribean hispanics, but need to feel admired and
respected as much as men from anywhere else. Most
women in Peru view the home and kitchen as their domain
and are proud of it. The men make most of the big
decisions for the family but I found that the wife has alot
of influence over him and uses it when she needs to.
Peruvian women have very strong personalities without
causing conflicts. Men seem to respect women as
intelligent. Beware, though, of the son who has been
babied and worshipped by his mother - the youngest or
only boy. They become Narcissists.
Peruvian men
by: Anonymous
Peruvian men suck. They mess up, make mistakes and yet,
the ones that suck still don't learn from their mistakes.
know thyself
by: mind over matter
im a guy from peru not anymore, i live in canada anyways
i see that some women are compleining how their
your fault
by: Anonymous
I've read most of the comments and all, all I can say is that
you meet people according to your own social circle.
I know a lot of peruvians who are cheaters, chauvinists
and so, it's easy to detect it, however most of them will
show their best face in order to take you to bed.
I am a guy from peru yeah, however I do come from a
family open in culture, of course there are some things I
have from peru, in general the classy you are pretty you
are the only is not only from Peru.
Peruvian
by: Artch
I'm peruvian and i m not machist, we are super frendly,
funny and likes dances.
hey
by: Anonymous hehe
what the ----? im a peruvian guy, of Lima, and you people
are generalizing,
i have never cheated in my life, i hate the "machismo", my
family is not a traditional family, we are free and open, i
get to talk and hang out a lot with my dad and my mom
and you guys are just messing with low class peruvians,
i know it sounds bad, but if you really knew a wealthy
class peruvian you would change your mind
OBVIOUSLY, peru is divided in two cultures, the
indigenous culture, wich is the culture that has those close
minded and cheaters men and the european or modern
culture which has men like in any other country of the
world,
physically there is a lot of diversity here, we are all not the
same, im not a short guy, not indigenous or brown skinned
and i respect all women and i know there is a lot of
peruvians that doesnt respect them, but please dont put all
the peruvians in one bag, we are not all the same, we dont
have just one culture or one way to live, we have diferent
cultures, diferent ways to talk, to be, you can find white
peruvians, black, asian, indigenous (the majority),
mestizos (the other majority) and they are all diferent,
the majority of indigenous people are like that, cheaters
and all that, thats part of his culture and his ignorance,
cause most of them are not well educated, but if you try to
go to upper classes you will find non racist respectful man,
dont put us all in the same bag please
Recommended Reading
by: David
Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating
Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You
Different Peruvian
by: Anonymous
I am peruvian and i have dated 1 european girl, french
who only played with me,by the way, i won`t generalize.
It is true that there are many bad peruvians, but come on
we also have good ones as every country.
You can`t start a relationship with a person you just met
and then blame his country. in my case, i am so
hardworking,have good values,faithful, it is annoying to
see how many girls write that peruvian s are garbage, I am
sorry if you met just a peruvian player, be more careful
next time.
About our appareance, yeah we are short,tan skinned, but i
don`t think appareance matter to be a good man. Despite
of that, many foreign girls say i look so good, also many
tourist girls jut come to hook up with peruvian males.
Actually, I am so interested in an estern european girl, I do
my best and i would love that you ask her how is my
behavior? Maybe you don`t believe me, but i just can say
that she is always happy with me, she was the person who
proposed me sex, we discuss topics together. finally, I just
@Still Laughing
by: Anonymous
I'm still laughing at the fact you quoted Taylor Swift to
defend a country of jerks.
I think you just confirmed what everyone here has been
saying. Peruvian men believe in blaming the woman for
their infidelity and character flaws.
If "he isn't in love" (which for a Peruvian, isn't long) then
all bets are off and it's your fault for not knowing that
ahead of time. Spoken like a true Peruvian, lol!
But, I'm sure all of that is above your educational level, so
I will speak in a language you will understand:
"Bandaids don't fix bullet holes, you say sorry just for
show,
If you live like that, you live with ghosts.....
Surprised by comments
by: Anonymous
I'm sure there are good Peruvian men, but where are they?
I seem to see there is a high percentage of, "No good"
Peruvian men. I also agree the way a Peruvian is all
depends on how he was raised by his parents & also the
values he is taught.
The father of my daughter is nothing good. I would think
he would learn from his mistakes and stop screwing
around, but yet he still goes back to the other he got
pregnant & decided to stay with & yet he still asks me to b
his lover.
Smh, I don't personally know his mother who lives in
Peru, but I see that as a, "no good mother" who taught him
no values. I feel bad for him due to the fact that in time he
will regret the wrong decisions he made for himself.
surprised by comments
by: Anonymous
agree that it is like a time warp down there. Men will still
tell women to "get back in the kitchen", and say things like
"he looks gay". They call out people by race and size. My
jaw dropped my first visit down there because I could not
believe my ears. And again, this is "educated" men in
Lima (not the villages).
What they want this puritan type wife to parade around in
front of their families, and then they want a girl (or many
girls most often) to satisfy their needs at night while the
wives/girlfriends pretend it isn't happening. Don't confuse
"amiga" with friend who happens to be female. Platonic
relationships between men and women in Peru are slim to
none. If he has an "amiga", he's sleeping with her (and
this, was confirmed by several Peruvian men I talked
to....after the fact of course).
As for my story? This guy turned mean. Really mean. Said
some of the most insulting things I've had said to me ever
and accused me of things likely to justify his own
behavior. This was a man who just weeks prior had treated
me like a queen. I felt verbally assaulted and depressed
almost daily towards the end. I'm embarrassed I tolerated
it but that is what happens with emotional abuse. You
become so beat down. The women will pretend to be
happy and lie about their home life.
So, I'm not stupid, or slutty, or any of the other words
you'd like to throw my way. I have a doctorate degree,
work for a successful company and own my own business
making more in a year than most Peruvian guys will make
in their lifetime. I was lied to and I was deceived. In
talking with more of my friends who have dated these
guys, my story is not unique. They are well known for this
behavior.
I can handle bad people. Bad people who pretend to be
good people are horrible and a new experience for me.
But thanks to him, I'm that much smarter. And I laugh
when I see what a sad little life he has. I'm glad for him
that he's never left Peru because he'd know how bad he
really has it.
He went back to being poor in one of those little half
finished houses in Lima. You know? The ones with bars
on the front door, a broken toilet on the roof, powerlines in
the back yard and some mangy dog running around? He
made another kid he can't afford, while I just booked
tickets to Australia. Sometimes I have a toast in his honor
and thank God it didn't work out.
I believe things happen for a reason. He came into my life
to teach me to be more careful whom I trust. I'm sad the
new guy I'm with has had to pay the price, but he is 100x
the man of any Peruvian man I've met. After that
experience, I appreciate this guy even more.
So ladies, there is happiness after these guys, I assure you.
Just find a different country in which to shop.
to Archaeic Beliefs
by: Anonymous
Just one Question : Who taught you to speak that way?
Your mother?
You are just a person full of anger .
Archaeic Beliefs
by: Anonymous
I would not even say that the Peruvian society is so
elevated to understand the freedom of woman.
Their believes are very simple, if their mother likes their
future wife then nothing else matters, they will just
procreate for a while and after that they will search in the
same time for a slutty woman who can satisfy their needs.
Of course their wife is going to ignore the reality thinking
they are blessed to have such a macho man next to them.
And that's how their society and families are build on: on
lying, cheating, pretending, anything to made their mom
proud of them.
Response
by: Anonymous
Archaic beliefs ... I don't know what you heard or seem to
know about Peruvians.
However, I'd like to tell you what many Peruvian men
think about foreign girls ... they are just sluts who are
really easy to take to bed ....
See, Prejudice and Misjudging is everywhere.
If you had a relationship with a Peruvian asshole .. it was
your fault cause u did not see clearly who you were dating
with .. but it doesn't mean we are all the same.
Archaeic Beliefs
by: Anonymous
In response to "Not Fair, you are all just generalizing"...
She states that women who "give themselves like they are
nothing are easy, slutty girls" and that "what's the freakin
problem with the guy wanting to be the macho alpha in a
relationship, i mean it's totally normal for a guy to act like
it and you know that it's supposed to be like that in a
"normal" relationship.
I think that sums it up folks. You heard it straight from a
Peruvian girl herself.
In the US, women don't need to "withhold sex" to trick
men into sticking around. Women are allowed to enjoy sex
just as much as men and not labeled as "sluts" for it.
Also in the US, men don't need to be A-holes to prove that
they are men. We actually call those guys douchebags.
In Peru, it is like the 1950's (which wasn't a fabulous era
for women). So she is telling you straight up, women are
second class citizens in Peru who need to withhold sex and
try very hard to get pregnant early in a relationship to get
their men to stay. And if the guy treats you like garbage
that is normal.
Need any further evidence?
person is.
I love my Peruvian husband. He is kind and loving and
respectful.
However, I would never assume that he represents all men
from an entire country. This topic is ridiculous.
22 man
by: Freddy
Hi, I'm 22 college guy, hard worker , and of course
Peruvian guy. Just wanna say that im cool , I don't
controll, not jealous just the normal lol... And wanna meet
ppl around the world, no kidding if u r reading this dont
think im desesperate, cause im not. I like dance, movie,
Netflix... I
have a good day.
Betrayed me
by: Kiana
So I met this Peruvian guy at my school. We're both in
high school. I'm half mexican and italian.
So at first, he treats me all nice and a sweetheart person.
He was so over protective and jealous everytime a guy
used to flirt at me.
So then he asks me to be his gf and I said yea. Bc I love
Peruvian guys I think their bowl haircut style is cute. So
while we dated, we made out and then we had sex.
BUT......he broke my heart and it hurted so bad ;(
He cheated on me with this other Peruvian girl.
I still love him. But he don't love me. We went out for 2
months only. But I fell in love with him.
comment below
by: marie
Just got engaged to a Peruvian and found this site...must
say you are wayyy off base. No, I'm not a slut, and I did
not "give myself easily" or I doubt my fianc would have
asked me to marry him...but who are you to judge other
people's experiences?
I don't think they are being racist, I'm not sure if it's a
racial thing so much as a cultural shock they are
expressing. And really, Peruvian men are soo macho and
that's normal?
Some of the comments stated they were physically
abused...that's where the line on "macho" needs to be
drawn. Wasn't even going to leave a comment, but your
particularly bitchy attitude and comments toward
American women....whom you don't even know...kinda
rubbed me the wrong way. So aren't YOU being just as
racist and generalizing in that case as you claim the
women below are?
Anyhow, also don't get how Peruvian men are so "macho"
Peruvian men
by: Anonymous
Oh my god... is all this true...?
I am considering dating a peruvian man but after all I have
read here I am actually thinking about turning him down..
B*
by: Anonymous
Lol!!! I agree with the, "B*," comment. This comment is,
"B*" comment #2!!!!
B*
by: Anonymous
Bahhh!
These guys are *.
*, will they romance you, but they're just selfish *. Plain
and simple.
They ALL cheat. (yes, All)
No girl is "the one" and Peruvians will talk * about
American girls because they know only what they see in
movies (most of them have never left their own city much
less their country).
So, they're really just a bunch of ignorant little rats who
will make you think (for a short while) that you've found
FYI
by: Anonymous
Well firstly... I am a Peruvian man.
That doesnt mean i have to behave as a Macho but it
doesnt mean i have to repres my gender.
Firstly guys are possessive like women are. And that's
everywhere. That is an individual characteristic. If we
were not posesive no one will practice monogamy...
Secondly crazy bastards are everywhere i have Peruvian
girlfriends that were in relationships with Europeans, north
Americans and other south Americans that were overcontrolling, freaks inventing lies the whole time and even
"pegalones" that means they were hitting them.
Somehow "western" people do believe they are more
civilized just because they belong to a society where there
is much more money but they don't realize that they have
their own problems...
Peruvians are not perfect like any other nationality but if
you can pick something from all Peruvians in general is
that they are quite passionate about everything!
So if you can not handle it, just dont take it! PEACE AND
LOVE to you all!
They will charm the pants off you lol but it's all lies.
Even the Peruvian women who defend them & make
excuses that "gringos" can't handle them are full of s*it!!!
I've seen many Peruvian men from Lima, the mountains,
America, you name it there all the same & yeah I'm sure
there has to be some that are good but the odds (as you can
see by the similar statements on this thread) are so low
why would you even risk it.
There mostly not attractive at all & that charm is all just a
ploy. They are narcissistic, racist, abusive, cheaters that
have to make up for the fact that they are so short,
unattractive & come from a poor country.
All they care about are themselves they don't love there
wife's & it's not because you weren't "good enough"or the
one.
If you got out of a relationship with a Peruvian it's only
because your not a pathetic, weak, submissive, delusional,
insecure pathetic female.
So in other words your too good for them.
Don't be to hard on yourselves ladies & try to remember
the initial feeling you had when you first met them.
I'm guessing they weren't good until they used there fake
charm because let's face it those looks aren't getting them
very far.
Machismo
by: Anonymous
Im ending a 7 year relationship with a Peruvian man.
The first two years were good though he was pretty
jelious. After that everything went down hill.
When he didn't get his way he would verbally abuse me or
give me the silent treatment whenever I'd try to
communicate with him (I didn't realize until later that it's
because he was raised that women are inferior)
He manipulated me into quitting my job & looking for one
he was happy with but I wasn't.
He proposed marriage & his parents accompanied him (he
was 27). A year after he proposed (& his family hadn't
mentions the wedding once)
Hurt
by: Jessica R.
I honestly had never really paid attention to Peruvian men I
didnt even know they existed. I met one and he changed
my whole life I met him here in America and he was so
sweat at first but then he changed he became more jealous
didnt want to let me out he hurt me with words made me
feel worthless like I was the wrong one when I just tried to
please him sadly whatever he wanted I did. Still wasn't
good enough.
He always found ways to hurt me he had started asking me
questions like what would I do if he hit me always brought
up the fact that I was Mexican and said that it shouldnt
matter Mexican woman like getting hit.
He was so mean he told me the only reason he liked me
was because I looked white. He said he hated Mexicans. If
we went to Peru I was to say I was Peruvian or just white. I
was always judged by what I did he started telling me I was
and a bitch he is from Lima.
Hes not your average Peruvian he is really tall but yes he
is a mommas boy. Its only been a week since we havent
been together but he is so dangerous finding this made me
not run back Ill just have to live without him why did he
lie!!!
Fake promises. He cried for me .He was great an awesome
friend but Peruvians in a relationships are DANGEROUS
will miss him :( but let the guy go who ever reads this he
was a liar and moved on real quick and the worst part of it
all is the sick fact that he thinks he is gods son and Im the
devil like wtf are you smoking you an abusive bastard he is
very internet famous the ladies love him the handsome
Peruvians are the worst he had so many girls like him think
hes cute it makes you wonder why they never ,messed
with him....because they already know but no one bothered
to tell me.
@Blatant racism
by: Nicole
I am a good person. I only just came across this website,
but reading the comments is an exact descritption of how
my Peruvian ex was.
Considering I was only 19 when we met (he was 26), and
we spent several years together, that's very judgemental of
you to say.
Are you Peruvian?
Honestly, it's not a racial thing. Racism is saying "white
people can't dance" or "black people love watermelon."
Those comments are racist and untrue.
This is more of a cultural issue. It's not because Peruvians
are of a different race, but of a different culture, where,
yes, it is more acceptable for men to be abusive.
It is not part of the Western way of thinking.
I am a good person, as I said, and I didn't deserve to be
abused physically and mentally by a man who I was
faithful to and did everything for.
I honestly thought the person who said "be a good person
to get a good person" was kind of mean and judgemental.
You don't even know the women on here. How can you
say they are good people?
If I was so racist, how did I fall in love with a native
looking Peruvian man to begin with?
Hispanic men treat women worse, on average, it's not
about race, it's culture just like a red neck white man finds
it more acceptable to beat his wife more so than his
educated counterparts.
Blatant Racism
by: Anonymous
Wow, the racism here is disgusting. I wish the moderator
would take down this whole thread. There are so many
things wrong with this I don't even know where to start.
One sane comment said you can only find a good person if
you are a good person yourself. Three cheers for that.
People who have had one bad experience and then stomp
around spewing their hurt and anger about that experience
over an entire people, stereotyping in the most viscous
way possible, are not being particularly good people.
Peruvian men are just men, like you find anywhere else.
And men are human, believe it or not, so yes, you find the
bad ones and the good ones and the everywhere inbetween ones, just like you do if you step outside your
own front door and take a good long look at your
neighbors. Or yourself.
@Adelina
by: Anonymous
I hope you did really find a nice guy in Peru, even if that's
like finding gold in a bunch of crap.
If you would have looked closely to the below posts you
would have noticed that most of those guys who were
mentioned here were "educated" guys.
Unfortunately when it comes to Peruvian men, education
is not what defines them. Being garbage it's just in their
DNA.
It's what their slutty mother and their society teach them.
If you could take your time and do some research you will
find some really interesting facts about Peruvian people.
The first thing that struck me is that about 60-70% of
the mothers are raising their kids alone . And no matter
how old the mothers are you will still see them getting
involved in silly relationship just because they still search
for the "prince charming".
I don't even know how to consider that, obviously is not
just being "naive", you cannot expect to find a good man
BE CAREFUL!
by: Adelina
Hi!
I've been living in Peru for almost 2 years now, coming
and going from Italy.
I've dated the only two male possibilities in Peru.
First I was with a guy who people here consider as 'holo'
described by you all as the macho, abusive, poor, gringahunter type.
This lying gross cheating bastard gave
me CHLAMYDIA!! and HPV !!
He was always asking when 'we'would go to Italy and
stuff like that...turns out he only wanted me to get out of
his shitty situation.. SO LADIES, ALWAYS ALWAYs
ALWAYS have SAFE SEX!!
And now I am currently dating another guy, who is
completely different, not physically but at least he has a
career and knows how to treat a woman with respect, I
think it's because he is educated, but who knows maybe
you weren't lucky enough...
Take note, Peruvian men are not a good match for those in
the western world. They don't appreciate strong women
and prefer docile, weak women who put up with their
garbage.
If you like a guy who lies to your face and treats you like
trash when he's cheating on you, then head on down to
Lima and pick up one of these losers.
Gross
by: Anonymous
Short, cheaters, liars, selfish, immature mamas-boys
Disgusting subhumans
by: Anonymous
Short, liars, unfaithful, short, controlling, bipolar, selfish,
cowards.
Wolves in sheeps clothing.
Ladies, keep your legs and your hearts closed.
Peruvian boy
by: Anonymous
I met Peruvian boy, and strangely i fell for him. He is not
my type of man, it wasn't love on first look or so, he is
quite short (1,70), dark skinned and so, but it all didn't
matter after i got to know him.
He asked me to be officially his grfr after maybe one week
of dating, and it was funny for me, but he didn't change his
behavior when i said yes, he is so funny, and makes me
smile all the time, he is kind and nice really, he absolutely
adores my blue eyes and hair, and i really didn't notice that
he is flirting or having affections towards any other girls.
But, yes, sometimes he becomes 'macho', all about his
pride and man talks and jealousy and then we can not
speak normally, but i try not to listen seriously to his
blabla talks and is OK.
I really don't speak latinoamerican language, as i told him
more than once hah ;) but, i really didn't get the feeling
that Peruvians are that bad, i mean, 'my' Peruvian boy is
more careful to me than my ex (European). So, i think that
u cannot say 'Peruvians are bad or good'. They are just a
guys, some of them good, some of them bad :)
Statistics
by: Anonymous
If you examine the statistics on this country (I have done a
ton of research on this) they come in #1 or #2 in the world
for both infidelity and lying. It is simply a part of the
culture. So despite education level, area of origin, etc., the
odds are against a faithful and honest partnership.
I have many male Peruvian friends who chuckle at this
fact and admit "yeah, you have to lie". Lying is just a part
of the culture, even if it is inconsequential or something
ridiculous to lie about.
So, CAN you find an honest man in Peru? Possibly. But
your chances are much higher if you look elsewhere.
To date, I have not met a single honest Peruvian man and I
know some with PhD's, successful businesses, educated,
etc.
I'm sure they exist, but I think if you find one, you should
purchase a lottery ticket and thank The Lord for your good
fortune.
So if you like, date them, sleep with them, have fun with
Wow!
by: Liliam
Hey guys, I am from Germany and I have lived in Peru
long enough to give a detailed descriptions of Peruvian
guys.
1)Peru is a culturally diverse country, but here are 3 types
of man, the man from the Andes, the man from the Jungle
and the man from the coast.
The man from the coast that is not from Lima are "Lima
wannabe's", the Andeans that live in the Andes will not be
with people from other countries since they are very
traditional, but there are lots of people from the highlands
coming to Lima and those are the worse, not only because
they are very ignorant but also because they are aggressive
and like alcohol like crazy.
Guys from the jungle in the other hand and very sweet
BUT get ready to be their housewife.
According to your descriptions, you have been mostly
with guys from the highlands, those are the ones that are
Peruvian Man
by: Trust Me
I can save you some time here by summarizing a Peruvian
Man in 2 words: Absolutely Worthless
Save yourself some problems and keep looking. You won't
find Mr. Right in that country no matter how hard you
look. It's like trying to find gold in a pile of garbage.
Heartbreaking
by: Anonymous
First of all, hello, I am currently in a rollercoaster
"relationship" with a Peruvian man for the last year and a
half, and I have to say I agree with many of the women
here.
It is nice to see that I am not alone, and not the only
female who has been hurt and deceived by them.
When I met my boyfriend, I was easily fooled. He is only
the second boyfriend I ever had in my life, as I wasn't
Europe
by: Anonymous
The more I read these posts the more I learn how to
appreciate "my people".
Every man that I had in my life had some purpose. I have
always felt that no matter how good or bad a relationship
has been for me, I still had something to learn from it.
But not when it came to my Peruvian fiasco.
I wish I could still see a reason of why I have felt in love
of this fake cheating midget.
After months of suffering I can only say that I thank God
for keeping me out of this jerk, I thank him for not
allowing me to marry this snake and for not getting
pregnant to this garbage.
For women who found themselves in a worst situation, I
can only say to them to raise their child with dignity and to
keep them away from this garbage.
I found it strange how so many, many women in Peru are
raising these future men all by them self. But what they
are raising are a future generation of garbage.
Abusive
by: Lucy
My man is physically abusive when he is drunk and when
he is sober he is emotionally abusive.
His values change and he is controlling but at least he is a
good lover but he is also a liar and his name is Joshualdo.
sons so much.
There was that one time, a Peruvian mum kissed her adult
son (35 year old+) and squeezed her son's cheek like the
way you would do with a baby and called him "mi
bebe"(my baby in Spanish) in a gathering.
I found it really strange for an adult, but it looked like it
was so natural to everyone (all Peruvians except me), so I
didn't say anything either.
Besides, they are real natural liars. They are very smooth
about it that looks like a second nature, but of course
women can still feel something not quite right, but it looks
so believable.
Girl, you are not crazy or too sensitive. I have been there
and done that. I am totally with you. I can always find
something.
So, if you feel something weird with any conversations
with your man, girl, I suggest you to trust yourself, get to
the bottom about the conversation, of course behind his
back. And of course, maybe it is just me and several other
friends.
They can be great lovers too, but only if they are
determined. PS - they are not considered as determined
even if they are marry you. But once they decided to love
you, they are exceptional lovers that care about you in all
aspects.
that one person. When they meet that one person they can
transform into real respectful men.
One thing I did notice is Peruvian men make great fathers.
One thing I forgot to mention is the Latin temper. You will
never win in a fight with a Peruvian (male or female).
The most important thing is they are incredibly loving.
I personally prefer an Americanized Peruvian. They are
very loving and also respectful to women. They have
modern viewpoints and value family.
I would never date a traditional Peruvian man because it
would never work.
I concur
by: Anonymous
Wow I relate to so many of these posts.
I'm half Peruvian and my father, who is Peruvian, is very
chauvinistic, controlling, extremely stingy, notoriously
unfaithful (yet thinks he's secretive) & even has Peruvian
friends with all these traits.
What someone said about the mothers possibly being more
chauvinistic I agree with to an extent because they
basically nurture and reinforce that mindset.
I also have a cousin whose Peruvian husband is very
controlling towards her and even says demeaning things to
her as though she isn't intelligent...when she's an engineer.
Told my mother a long time ago that I'd never marry a
Peruvian because I cannot tolerate that machismo attitude
for anything.
Good luck everyone.
huge liers
by: Europe
Where should I even start? I've been dealing with a
peruvian guy for more than one year and i regret each
day.
At first all was great. I am a smart woman and i knew
Controllers
by: Anonymous
I am an American woman who has been in a 6 year going
onto a 7 year relationship with a Peruvian man.
Trust me
by: I'm Peruvian
I'm Peruvian. I'm a girl.
There are obviously some good guys here in my country,
but most of them are not, so please listen to me and go to
Australia o some other country where men are not
chauvinist.
Here even your mother-in-law will be the most chauvinist
person, maybe even more then the guy.
I know all of this since Ive been through it with my family
(Dad and grandmother). Usually they are controlling.
I'm not saying all guys are like that but I'm still trying to
help you to understand my point.
My guy friend
by: Anonymous
My guy friend is very respectful, can act macho at times,
but also listens when I have something to say.
He's acclimating to my culture, and I am doing the same
for him.
I'm African American and sometimes we have that
bantering debate about me being too "rebellious".
But, it seems like he is surrounded by successful and
strong Peruvian women, so it's not too difficult for him to
handle me.
But, I know he likes the strong side of me, otherwise, why
stick around?
Ah Peruvians.
by: Anonymous
Ive been dating a Peruvian man for close to a year now.
I also have a friend who's dated a Peruvian man,and our
experiences are quite similar.
Peruvian men in my experience are hard working, VERY
affectionate, and funny.
Yes, they can be pretty macho (to varying degrees). And
yes, to a great many of them, Peru and its inhabitants are
the most amazing things existing on this planet.
And I'm an African American woman who's dating a
Peruvian born man, so sometimes the Peruvians vs.
Americans or Peruvians vs. African Americans debates
rear their annoying (but always in good fun) heads lol.
But they are all around great guys.....just a little big
headed but hey, that's most men;)
Peruvian guy
by: Cynthia Farfan
Well, Peruvian guys, (for me) they are
"male chauvinist" ,
they like to work,
yes, they like to have fun,
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