It is not surprising that the theorist who gave use the concept of the identity crisis experienced several such crises of his own. Erikson was born in Frankfurt, Germany. His Danish mother, who was from a wealthy Jewish family, has married several years earlier but her husband disappeared within hours of the wedding. She became pregnant by another man, whose name she never revealed, and was sent by her family to Germany to give birth in order to avoid the social disgrace of a child out of wedlock. She remained in Germany after the baby was born and married Dr. Theodore Homburger, the infants pediatrician. Erik did not know for some years that Dr. Homburger was not his biological father, and claimed that he grew up unsure of his name and psychological identity. Despite his Danish parentage he considered himself German, but his German classmates rejected him because his mother and stepfather were Jewish. How Jewish peers rejected him because he was tall and blond and had Nordic facial features. In school, Erikson earned mediocre grades. He showed some talent for art, however, and after graduating from high school he used that ability to try to establish his identity. Erikson studied at two art schools and even had his work exhibited at a gallery in Munich, but ach time he left formal training to resume his wandering, his search for an identity. Later, discussing his proposed concept of the identity crisis No doubt, my best friends will insist that I needed to name this crisis and to see it in everybody else in order to really come to terms with it in myself Erikson, 1975 As with many of the personality theorists described in this textbook, we can find a correspondence between Eriksons life experiences, particularly in childhood and adolescence, and the personality theory thy developed as an adult. What Erikson saw and felt happening to himself became the research that enabled a flow of ideas, articles, books Friedman, 1999
Child Development Studies
At the age of 25, Erikson received an offer to teach at a small school in Vienna established for the children of Sigmund Freuds patients and friends. Erikson later confessed that he was drawn to Freud in part because of his search for a father. It was then that Eriksons professional career began and that he felt he has finally found an identity. He trained in psychoanalysis and was analyzed by Anna Freud. The analytic sessions were held most daily for 3 years. Anna Freuds interest was the psychoanalysis of children. Her influence, plus Eriksons own teaching experiences, made him aware of the importance of social influences on personality and led him to focus on child development. Family and Relationship In 1929, Erikson met Joan Serson in a masked ball. They fell in love, but when she became pregnant, Erikson refused to marry her. He explained that he was afraid to make a permanent commitment and he believed that his mother and stepfather would disapprove of a daughter-in-law who was not Jewish. Only the intercession of friends persuaded him that if he did not marry Joan, he would be repeating the behavior pattern of the man who had fathered him and condemning his child to the stigma of illegitimacy, which Erikson himself had felt so keenly. Joan abandoned her career interests to become Eriksons lifelong intellectual partner and editor. She provide a stable social and emotional foundation for his life and helped him develop his approach to personality. He would have been nothing without Joan Friedman, 1999 Work and accomplishments In 1933, recognizing the growing Nazi menace, the Eriksons immigrated to Denmark and then to the United States, settling in Boston. Erikson established a private psychoanalytic practice specializing in the treatment of children. He became affiliated with Henry Murrays Harvard Clinic serving on the Diagnostic Council. He also joined a guidance center for
emotionally disturbed delinquents and served on the staff of
Massachusetts General Hospital. Erikson began graduate work at Harvard, intending to obtain a Ph.D. in psychology, but he failed his first course and decided that a formal academic program was unsatisfying. In 1936, he was invited to the Institute of Human Relations at Yale University, where he taught in the medical school and continued his psychoanalytic work with children. Erikson continued to expand on his ideas at the Institute of Human Development of the University of California at Berkeley. In 1950, Erikson joined the Austen Riggs Center in Stockbridge, Massachusetts which was a treatment facility for emotionally disturbed adolescents. Ten years later he returned to Harvard to teach a graduate seminar and a popular undergraduate course on the human life cycle, retiring in 1970. At the age of 84, Erikson published a book about old age. Nevertheless, toward the end of a lifetime of accomplishments, honors, and accolades, he felt, according to his daughter, disappointed with what he had achieved. It was still a source of shame to this celebrated man that he had been an illegitimate child Bloland, 2005
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