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Dr. Jones
Marriage, Sex, Family
28 March 2016
Marriage After the Fall
While I cannot be certain of the exact effects that the Fall had on Gods
distorted everything. Specifically, for this papers purpose, the fall distorted
Gods original intention for marriage. Under the condition of sin, marriage is
active in redeeming all things today. Revelation 21:5 says, And he who was
seated on the throne said, Behold, I am making all things new. We can still
see the Lords goodness in marriage, because the Lord is at work making all
things new. This is the lens through which we must see marriage in our world
today. We must realize that all aspects of Gods creation have been distorted
by sin, but that the Lord is at work to make his creation new. Therefore, we
must seek wisdom from His word in order to know how to engage with and
flesh union between a male and a female. Marriage was meant to be this
sacred bond entered into by a man and a woman before God. However,
while divorce is not a part of Gods original intention for marriage, under the
and Gods purposes can still be worked even through a broken marriage that
living under the condition of sin, but even through divorce, The Lord is still
working to redeem and make all things new. We can still see his goodness
The fall also ruined Gods original intention for marriage in that it
Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you. We see here
in Genesis that the Lord is telling man and woman something new after the
fall, meaning that this was different than how he originally intended it to be.
There is now much dispute about what male-female relationships should look
like, and specifically, what the husband-wife relationship should look like.
the church and gave himself up for her. Snodgrass and Stott both have
interpreted this passage similarly, yet with some significant differences. Both
agree about the significance of the first verse of this passage, Ephesians
the equality before God of all human beings. They both agree that we must
read this text with the overarching goal and truths of Ephesians in mind,
which includes: Christian mutual submission, oneness with Christ, deep unity
of all Christian believers, and equality before God of all human beings. They
also both interpret male as head to mean similar things. In summary, they
see male as head meaning a responsibility of the husband to care for, love,
nurture, and give oneself up for his wife. This love is motivated by Christs
love and headship, which represents care not control, and responsibility not
of that care. Snodgrass and Stott differ in their views of this passage,
which is, Are the differences between male and female innate from creation,
or a result of the fall? I go back and forth on this issue, because I personally
see the differences between men and women as beautiful and magnificent,
pointing us more to who God is. However, did God intend for these
differences in his original creation, or did they form as a result of living under
the condition of sin? Did God make men with more instincts to protect, to
fight, and to be a hero? Did God make women with more of a desire to be
fought for, to be pursued, to draw others in with her beauty, and be swept
Heart by John and Stasi Eldredge. I found that these books, specifically
feel God has given me. Captivating opened my eyes to the ways that Jesus is
truly all my heart as a woman longs for. From reading these books, I was able
to see the beauty in the differences of males and females, and how these
more about myself and about the Lord after embracing and celebrating the
ways he has made my heart feminine, and the ways that he has made my
deny that the trend we see in little girls and boys tends to be little girls
playing dress up, asking the question, Do you find me lovely? Do you delight
in me? And little boys engaging in some sort of battle (whether it be with
light sabers or nerf guns) asking the question, Do I have what it takes? So,
the question I am left with now is, Were we created with these differences or
I still have doubts and questions, but where I currently stand is leaning
towards the side of these differences being innate, something God created
us with for his good purposes. I believe that when God created male and
female in the garden, the differences went further than biology. I believe that
he created men with a masculine heart, and women with a feminine heart,
for the purpose of these differences bringing glory to Him; showing his
nature of both strength and beauty. These differences were meant to glorify
another, possibly having their differences show each other more fully who
God is. However, as a result of the fall, masculinity and femininity have been
distorted in many ways and have led to a distortion of this one-flesh union,
adultery, divorce, etc. As we recall once again Genesis 3:15, we see that God
gives a new command to women: Your desire will be for your husband, and
he will rule over you. Is it possible that before the fall, men and women
were created both in the image of God equally and equal in worth, yet
different from one another, in a way that brought glory to God and fulfilled
his purposes perfectly? I dare to think so. Therefore, I believe somewhat with
both Snodgrass and Stott. I believe that the differences between men and
women are rooted in creation and are apart of Gods goodness in creation,
but I believe the ways these differences have played out, as well as the
male-female roles they have resulted in, are a consequence of living under a
sinful condition. Before the fall, there were no need for given roles in
marriage, because male and female could rule alongside each other, equally
together out of their natural, different strengths the Lord gave them, without
being inhibited by anything. However, the fall came with consequences such
between what males and females were able to do. Carrie Miles writes about
this, explaining the economics of the fall, and how this has naturally affected
the roles of men and women. Throughout history, the trend is that women
had to stay home and raise children while men were out working. I agree
with Miles theory, and I believe that the issues people raise pertaining to
this separation of men and women are not a result of men and women being
made different from one another, but as in everything else, a result of the
fall, of living under the condition of sin. However, we know that the Lord is
relationship between husbands and wives, as well as the roles of males and
females, to what they should be. Therefore, I believe that we can see Gods
seeking to honor and serve Him in their equal, yet different roles.