Swami Vivekananda said:

SBH WEALTH

When I asked god for strength , he gave one difficult situation to face

When I asked god for brain , he gave me puzzles to solve

When I asked god for happiness , he showed me un-happy people

When I asked god for wealth , he showed me to work hard

When I asked god for favours , he showed me oppurtunities to work hard.

When I asked god for peace , he showed how to help others.

God gave me nothing I wanted but he gave me everything I needed.

This one moment is enough of a blessing to live rest of the life.

Partner is not a bundle of nerves.

Want is a goal which you can clearly focus on and you are conscious why you
want it. Need is an un-conscious desire

With faith god gives everything that we need in life.

Do it now

If you have goals and procrastination you have nothing. If you have goals and
you take action , you will have anything you want.

Wheat field nest story:

Birds built a nest with in young wheat field. As field grows , birds also got
strength . one day farmer said son call all our neighbours & friends to help us
to harvest

Mother bird said: dont be fear .

Few days later wheat was so ripe and with the wind hail of wheat grain falling
down.

Farmer said: If this wheat is not harvested we shall loose half of the crop, we cant
wait any longer for help from others, Tomarrow we must set work to work our
selves.

Bird mother:

We must move
When the man decides to do his own work and not depending on anyone else ,
then defnetly he get success with out any delay.

The power doesnt take or give anything , pain / joy what you deserved he gives.

Strong to faith , dont succumb to fear.

Relationships:

1) Learn to calm down.

2) Learn to speak and listen non defensively
3) Validate your partner

For emotional expression there is no gender difference.

Love is blend of ingredients CARE , AFFECTION , RECOGNITION , RESPECT ,

COMMITMENT , TRUST , HONEST ,OPEN COMMUNICATION.

The great secret in sustaining high quality is to learn to work with love. You cant
get results from your work if you doesnt love it.

Golden days for every day life:

1) Dont see work as a way of earning a living , if so you can earn money but
gradually loose all your joy & enthusiasm which segregate poisions in your
body.
2) Past is past , but it has given birth to present and contain roots of the
future. So you must build your future by improving present.
3) Dont become a prisoner of few events in past which are in capable of
moving ahead.
4) Past must be a treasure house of experiences that can be used to live
better present
5) If you open the sluice gates , you will be power less to stop water from
pouring out, it is easy to set force and events in motion but it is easy very
difficult to ster them in right direction and keep control them. So before
saying a word , writing a letter , trigerring bullet , your power is absolute
but once event have been set in motion , you become spectator & victim.

Seek light before act:

Suppose you heard that something fallen down and broken sound at your
sleep. Will you rush off investigate in dark?
No because you know it is very dangerous before doing anything else switch
on the light. In life also turn on inside , concentrate inwards , if you dont have
light you need , you will waste time looking in different direction, knocking all
kinds of doors , trying all mind of methods , none of them is so effective. So
before undertaking anything important , you must concentrate for a few
minuites on the world of light and ask for guidance.

Be careful about first step:

When you are about to do something for first time , take care to be calm and
concentrate on accomplishing the very first action flaw less . Then do it
again , a little faster. Keep practicing repeating it again & again until you
reach the right rhythm and speed.

Still if you are making mistakes in certain areas means , you are not realizing
your mistakes , it is very difficult to repair errors engraved in us in past , so at
begening it self try to correct.

Become conscious of your mental habits:

Human are rarely conscious of their own mental habits when faced a new task
, the immediate reaction of a person will be able to become tense , irritable ,
pissimestic , discouraged . The first thing is to study yourself and learn how to
react . Once you see things clearly , you will get means to face everything.

When a disaster occurs in the ordinary way of life , we see how fireman
soldiers immediately come to rescue to put out fire , repair bridges , cleaning
roads , resued injured one..

People find it perfectly natural to repair physical damage immediately but

when it comes to inner world they dont know what to do , if they dont look
on inside , then destruction goes on. They must look inside and see what
needs to be repaired.

5 , 10 ,15 ,20 times a day and not leave it until later, otherwise at later stage
it will be too late you will have already fallen to pieces and been wiped off.

Practicee is more IMP than theory:

Theory: colour , shape , where it came , chemical health properties

Practical : you must learn how to taste and feel it.

In real life also dont store masses of theoretical information but eat & taste in
practical experience. It requires effort but it is the only way of transforming
self.
STICK TO ONE:

Spiritual path:

If you make it swallow different kind of food it leads indigestion and you fall ill

lYou your self must be a living expression through your actions but not with
words.

Do multiple functions

Sun does light , heat , warmth , vivifying

Spiritual work never wasted:

Never allow even a single day with out meditating , renew your contact with
inner core daily. Be in touch with your central core.

Daily work:

Everyday replace worn out particles with new heavenly radiant particles.
Every thought , feeling sentiment , action of us has the property of attracting
from space material elements that corresponds to it , therefore try to uplift
qualityluminous particles.

Look for spiritual food everyday:

In the morning when you are looking at sun ,be aware that the rays that reach
you are living beings that can help you to solve todays challenges but only
today not tomarrow.tomarrow you will have to go and ask for their help and
advide again. Tomarrow also only for one day like when you eat you dont try
to put enough food for a week into your stomach , only enough food for one
day.

Periodically review your life:

People begin to forget that you will not be on yhis earth for long time and that
you are going to have to leave behind all your material possessions , your
social rank , all those honoury titles.

Every one knows it but every one forgets it.

If a diamond is so extraordinarily pure , it is because there is no mixture in kit.

It is pure carbon. Add just one element to it , it would no longer be a diamond,
A true disciple must aim for one goal , one desire , one kind of food.

Correct your mistakes at once:

 Never let your inner feelings of negative for long periods otherwise you can
no longer remedybthem .

Ex:

Suppose your absent mindedly step in some wet concrete and lost in thought
thatb you neglect to step out of it again.

What will be the result? The concrete will get harden , it become so hard ,
someone will have to go and get tools to break it, before you can get. Your
feet free and you may get hurted in this process.

This is what happens in inner life, if you fail to remedy your mistakes and
faults very quickly , it will be too late , the remedy will be very costly and may
cause further damage.

Close your doors to lower entities:

Our weaknesses are like so many doors , and entities that have the intention
to harm us try to slip into us through them.

When we inclined towards certain weakness, we ourself giving tem right to

streak in and torture us.

If we stand up to them and refuse to give in they have no power over us ,

actually negative entities have only the power that your self given to them.

Dont open the doors , they never force you.

Negative thoughts are weaknesses only make suggestions and it is you who
accept make them strong by opening doors.

Most people imagine that their misfortunes happen all at once out of blue but
actually theybhave prepared that misfortune by giving enough time and cordially
opening doors to weakness , So firmly close the doors to get rid of demons.

Our ideas determines our actions:

You may feel that all the good resolutions do no good. Dont be discouraged a
profound transformation cant be achieved all at once. It takes time.

Ex: snake moving into hole:

The head goes first and however long its body may be the tail is bound to follow
in the end.But as a snake moves in sinusoidal curve the btail often seems to be
going in opposite direction to the head, in the long run it always goes exactly
where the head goes. Head & tail are not separated with each other , always tail
follows hed.

Head: thought , tail: practical application

So every day you must have close examination of thoughts you allow into your
head because everything follows head.
Your effort are important than results:;

No mone else can eat in your place , it is upto you to make efforts.

Our efforts contain their own reward.After every effort every excercis eof mind ,
life takes on a different colour and different flavour. Work with out trying to put a
dead line.

You must work towards perdecting yourself with out setting a time limit. Let your
self dwell only on the beauty of the work you have undertaken and tell yourself ,
kit is so beautiful that I dont care how many hundreds / thousands of years it
takes to complete it.

Accept failures:

One must be humble in face of failures. Failure should neither sadden or

discourage you. If it does , it simply shows that you are running behind a goal
that is out of reach. If you dont overcome your disappointment , you will end by
destroying yourself.

You are permitted to be sad but only because of lack of success , not because
you have failed to fulfil your desires. Remind your self that , in the past you did
not do your work properly , tell yourself this then get back to your work again.
Even you have only one year to live, you must keep working . you will see all
changes that come about it if you tried sincerely to perfect yourself.

Instead of dwelling on past fallings , tell your self Iam going to rebuild , repair ,
everything . every day with unshakabel faith work towards goal.

With positive thought s and affirmations , re create , remodel and rebuild yourself
into what you want to be.

Sooner or later your efforts will receive reward.

Every thought , action you recorded , one day they produce results. Your friends
may betray you , your family may forget you , but this law gives you exactly
what you are depending on how you worked.

Will god dont do it?

If you have not sown any seeds , however much you call on the lord to help you ,
you will not get anything it grow. Sow the seed then all laws of universe will
contribute to making it grow.

So you must relay firsr and foremost on your own work , then secondly on lord.
(i.e law of universe.)
Self knowledge is indispensible to success:

If you dont know your self well ,if you are not lucid about your strength &
weakness qualities & defects you will never be able to live harmoniously.

Most of our difficulties are because we dont know ourself.

Avoid expressing dissatisfaction:

Dissatisfaction is acceptable only if it is aimed at one self. Some one who never
stops complaining and expressing displeasure with family , life ,god, society must
be warned that this destructive attitude will lead him to make mistakes.

Never go empty handed to others:

People feel he always empty when comes and by the time he leaves he has
emptied too

Dont keep on talking about your illness:

Dont keep on talking about your illness , worries , sorrows. What a stupid
attitude it is ... other people are not capable of helping you