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To cite this article: Michael E. Bricker MS, PhD & Sharon G. Horne PhD (2007) Gay Men in
Long-Term Relationships, Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy, 6:4, 27-47, DOI: 10.1300/
J398v06n04_02
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INTRODUCTION
METHOD
Participants
This sample was comprised of 179 self-identified gay men, who were
currently involved in a same-sex relationship lasting for at least 6
months, in order to obtain a partnered sample. Although participants
were encouraged to have their partners participate, respondents were
compared based on their code names and relevant demographic infor-
mation so that completed couples were removed from the study (48 sub-
jects). Participants were required to be currently residing either in the
United States or Canada, gay-identified, and to be 18 years of age or
older. Since the survey was internet-based, participants were recruited
via LGBT and relationship-related websites (e.g., Gay.com, In the
Family Magazine, A Rainbow Place, etc.). Volunteers were also acquired
through postings/flyers at various LGBT community centers and PFLAG
support groups around the US and Canada, and through LGB e-mail
contact lists and listservs.
Procedure
Volunteers were given a web address that provided a direct link to an
online survey. Respondents were encouraged to complete the survey in-
dependently. The survey took approximately 30 minutes to complete.
No identifying information was gathered in order to ensure anonymity.
In order to obtain a larger and more geographically diverse sample, the
researchers chose to utilize an internet-based survey. Although web-
based collection has been questioned as a research tool, empirical evi-
dence has shown web-based research to be an equally valid and useful
way to collect data, especially from samples that are otherwise difficult
to access (Kraut et al., 2004).
Relationship Demographics
In order to ascertain monogamous/non-monogamous status, respon-
dents were asked to select categories that described their current rela-
tionship status, which included: monogamous relationship with same-sex
partner (132 participants), open relationship that includes non-rela-
tional sex only outside of the relationship (33 participants), and open
relationship that includes sexual and emotional relationships outside
this relationship (14 participants). Respondents who did not endorse
a monogamy/non-monogamy status, endorsed multiple monogamy/
non-monogamy statuses, and/or did not complete all of the instruments
were removed for the purpose of this analysis (206 subjects).
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Personal Variables
Participants were asked to provide their age (in years) and respon-
dents ages ranged from 18 to 79, with a mean age of 38.82 years. All
participants were male. When examining participants ethnic identifi-
cation, Caucasians represented the largest group (86.6%), followed by
African-Americans (3.9%), Jewish individuals (2.8%), Hispanic-Americans
(2.2%), and Bi-racial/Multi-racial individuals. The level of outness
(openness about ones sexual orientation) was assessed using a 10-point
Likert-type response. Individuals were asked to rate how open they
were about their sexual orientation, with a score of 0 representing not
at all open and 10 being completely open. Participants responses
ranged from 0 (0.6%) to 10 (37.4%), with a mean score of 8.31.
Sexual Practices
Relational Qualities
Relationship Satisfaction
Sexual Satisfaction
Dyadic Attachment
Attachment Style
RESULTS
DISCUSSION
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