Family life is distrupted by the effects of technology.

It is shocking fact that 2 over 3 Malaysians are using mobile phone

and Malaysia are in number 1 ranking using the highset internet usage in

the world. This encompasses nearly all of the people in the Malaysia are

using the technology. The technology such as handphone, internet be like

live sarver to certain people in the Malaysia. Some people said that

without internet, people are dying in the bored. Althought there are a few

place in the Malaysia that not exposed to the technology such as outside

the country of Borneo, but majority of the Malaysian use technology in

their daily life.

In contrast to my stand, some have argued that family life is

distrupted by the effects of technology. They reasoned that technology are

needed in development of the country. Minister of Education also advice

the usage of technology in education. Technology aslo giving many benefit

in many term. In term of education, technology can give teacher

advantages in delivering the knowledges to the student. For example,

teacher can use internet for their teaching such as asking their student to

search imformation from the website. In term of family, technology can

also giving many benefit. By using technology such as handphone, family

members can communicate each other everywhere.

Due to the opposing point of views do make sense, but for me the

technology can give bad affect in the family in many ways. Technology

can make people obsessed. We can see nowadays, people can be

obsessed to the website such as Instagram and Facebook. Those can

affect the social of the family members. Everybody in the family are busy

with their phone, their online social but in the real life, nobody care each

other. From what I see every day, a family members can sit together at

the dinning table but everybody was busy with their phone. Sometimes

with the phone, people can be antisocial. Thats why technology can give

the big impact to the family form the social aspect.

In the Berita Harian article of 2015, a young mother who is a

student quit her PHD research because her beloved son was diagnosed

having the speech delay . This caused by the effect of obsessed to the

technology of Android Tablet. When the mother is busy with the research

work, she has no time for her son. From that she started giving her son a

tablet and expose him to the technology so that her can can keep quit

playing with that Thing. She thing that it is better choice because his son

can learn by using the tablet according to the tablet that was filled with

many educational game. But thing getting bad when her son never speak

and tantrum when she take the tablet. From that, she brought his son to

the pediatric and doctor verified that her son was suffering with symptom

of Autism. So, this prove that technology can negatively affect the

members of the family.

From the website, social media such as Facebook, Twitter,

Instagram, and also Blog, we also can see that the main point of the

divorced family is starting from the mobile phone. The wrong used of the

social network caused the wife or husband cheated with their partner and
divorced. Many blog posted the story about a wife that cheated his

husband via Wechat and so on. The famous cases in the Malaysia is cases

about Alongs Raja Lawak wife that caught cheated his husband and get

caught by JAIS. It gave big impact to the Malaysian because both of the

partners are celebrity from Raja Lawak Astro and Akademi Fantasi Astro

that is very famous variety show in Malaysia. The starting point of the

story is when his wife Ziela AF was using Smule application on mobile

phone. She started cheated her husband Along Raja Lawak with someone

that she know from Smule app. From this story, we can see that

technology can be the main point of the family divorced.

In conclusion, I would like to restate my stand family life is

distrupted by the effects of the technology. My first reason is because it

can lack the social of the family. Secondly, it can harm the health of the

family especially children that need more attention from the parents.

Lastly, it can be the main point of divorced family. Therefore it is better to

limit the usage of technology in the family. It is ridiculous that we cant

expose our self to the technology because it is 20th century but if we use

the technology, we must use in the right way so that the negative effect

will not harm our family.