BO SANCHEZ

Loving yourself

Let me share with you four powerful ways of loving yourself that will change your life forever:
1. Forgive Yourself
- For I will forgive their iniquity, and I will remember their sin no more Jeremiah 31:34
I am he that blots out your transgressions for my own sake, and will not remember your sins. Isaiah 43:25

If we confess our sins, He is faithful to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9
Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Romans 8:1
-- Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful. Luke 6:36-38
- Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall. Proverbs 16:18
2. Accept Your Weaknesses
We only forgive ourselves for our sin. We dont forgive ourselves for being weak. Because being weak
isnt a sin. Its part of being a human being.
You Dont Have To Be Perfect To Love Yourself
First, my weaknesses humble me. It makes me depend on God even more.
Second, my weaknesses make me more merciful towards others.
Third, my weaknesses bond me with others in a way that nothing else can. When I share the story of my
past and my addiction to someone else, I disrobe my defences and become vulnerable to him. In this way,
I also give permission to that person to disrobe his defences as well.
3. Feel Your Feelings
Remember: Feelings are the windows of the soul.
Feel your feelings before the Presence of Gods love, in the end, you still do what God wants you
to do. But you allowed yourself to feel your painful feelings, to validate them, and to listen to its inner
messages.
This is a very important step of loving yourself.
Remember what I said about the immediate cause of our addictions? Because we want to escape
our painful emotions.
4. Trust Your Needs
Healthy Self-Love.
The difference is simple. Selfishness is meeting your own needs and your own needs only. Self-love
is meeting your needs so that you can meet the needs of others even more.
Love yourself by honoring your needs.

1.You Need Rest. Heres my recommendation:

Take mini-vacations.

2.You Need Dreams Keep dreaming. Dreams are your fuel.

3.You Need To Be You. Be you. The easiest way to live is to live authentically is to be Faithful To
Your Personality

4.You Need Money Earn money.

5.You Need Love Invest in relationships.

This is your greatest need. most important need
Intoduction:(Opening)

--Dont begin by selling your idea.

--Begin by emotionalising the problem.
--Once they are intellectually and emotionally invested in the seriousness of the problem, relieve the
tension by supplying your answer.

Body

(Make a point, tell a story; make another point, tell another story:)

(Objective-Story-Objective)

Very simple, but very effective. Deliver your idea, then tell a story to back it up. Deliver your next idea,
back it up with another story.
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Point, Story, Application:

Point, Story, Application. A variation on the structure above, this comprehensive approach will work in
almost any presenting scenario. I highly recommend it. You can also shake it up by changing the order.
Open with the Story that leads up to the Point, then provide the Application.