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We are the family of Mary Zarawinkski. When Mary was murdered, we lost a loving
mother, grandmother, great grandmother and great great grandmother. Our family
has be struggling with pain, anger and grief, since learning of how Marys life really
ended. Five and a half years after her passing in 2011, we had to begin the grieving
process all over again when our family was told that Mary did not die in her sleep
from a heart attack as we were originally told, but that, a nurse, who was caring for
Mary at Caressant Care decided to play God and end Marys Life.
We, the entire family, have all suffered emotionally, mentally, socially and physically
as a result of this crime. Some of us are suffering from chronic pain, fibromyalgia,
sleeplessness and other ailments brought on by, and intensified, as a result of having
to deal with the stress and emotional strain this is causing us. Those of us who work,
find it difficult to concentrate and be productive and our quality and quantity of
work has and continues to suffer. We have had financial loss due to medical expenses
for professional therapy and counselling, as well as lost wages for missed time from
work.
We suffer from depression and anxiety and no longer find the joy we once had from
our social activities with family, friends or the clubs and organizations we belong
to. That joy was taken from us when Mary was deliberately taken from us.
We worry and are fearful now as our family members continue to grow older.
This criminal has weakened trust in the professionals that we put our faith in to look
after our aging family members. We fear, that had she not confessed,
the power that this nurse had and her ability to execute her plans, killing and hurting
many vulnerable people without being caught, has weakened our faith in the
We find it difficult to maintain an overall happy and fulfilling family life anymore
because this murderer so callously dismissed and placed such little value on, Marys
life.
This horrendous crime now consumes our thoughts and fills us all with hatred and
rage. These feelings are very foreign to most of our family members, especially given
our strong faith in God. This same faith was used as an excuse and reason to kill. This
is shattering to us.
Marys killer described her as feisty and fun. Yes, that was our mom and grandma.
She was also a meek and gentle woman. A lady, who at 96 years of age, still enjoyed
looking her best; complete with lipstick, jewelry and nail polish.
She was a compassionate, caring and loving woman. She loved her family and always
took pride in them and how she raised them. Mary looked good and felt good for her
age and was so looking forward to celebrating her 100th year birthday. She was
adamant that she would live to see that day and we would all be celebrating with a big
She was robbed of that. We were robbed of that. Mary was made to die alone without