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Strong Frame Ingredients ...................................................................................................................... 38
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Biggest Obstacle to Positive Beliefs and Strong Frames .................................................................. 94
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Imagine what it will feel like when you have absolute frame
control in any and all situations.
Then you look at you friend, and simply say, "I think idea X
is a better choice. Why don't we do that?"
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"Well, I don't really have a lot of time. You seem like a very
interesting person, and I'd like to get to know you. Why
don't you give me your number so we can get together
later?"
They look at each other, and give you a smile like a little kid
on Christmas. Of course they'll buy it!
What will that do you for? How will your life be better? How
much better will your relationships be? How much better
will your finances be?
But with a strong enough frame, you will scarcely need any
other language technology. Naturally, having a strong
frame coupled with powerfully persuasive language
technology can make you one of the most sought after
people on Earth.
Pretty soon, after you've sold maybe ten times, you start
to recall those sales while pitching the next client. Pretty
soon your confidence is real. This helps you sell more.
Which further builds up your confidence.
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When politicians run into trouble, the first thing they ask is
"How are we going to frame this?"
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recover.
The guy holding the gun may think this event is him doing
his best to get money to feed his family, which has 24
hours to come up with the rent money before they all get
kicked out on the street.
Frame Definition
The person who got robbed will, of course, forever see this
in her own subjective terms, since she was at the center of
the action.
The first few weeks after the robbery, she'll define it like
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How about the reporter? Maybe she was right, and she got
the story of the year. Maybe it helped launch her career.
Burn this into your brain. If you choose the frame, you win,
no matter what happens. If you let somebody else choose
the frame, you are at their mercy.
The woman above didn't choose the event, but she chose
the frame.
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She had a preset filter, she had a strong goal in mind, and
she pounced on that opportunity before anybody else likely
noticed what was going on.
was looking for news. News that sells is almost always bad.
When bad things happen, there is invariably fallout. The
robbers family is now without a breadwinner. Many people
wouldn't have been able to recover from a robbery like our
fictional woman did. In a sense, a newspaper reporter, with
a strong outcome, and strong frame control, benefited at
the potential expense of others.
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Now we're getting into the good stuff. It's fine to walk the
Earth and turn mishaps into opportunities. But we don't
want to wait around for stuff to happen. We want to make
things happen. We want to make things happen that will
benefit us and ideally everybody else.
When you see some food, and you're hungry, the meaning
is clear; it is a tool to help you eliminate your hunger, as
well as feel the pleasure of eating.
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Ultimate Goal
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The robber was different. This was likely his first attempt.
He didn't have any experience. He had likely never shot
anybody either. He was desperate. He was hoping rather
than planning. Perhaps even, on a subconscious level, he
wanted to get caught. Once in prison, the burden of paying
rent would be lifted. Perhaps him being in prison would
make it easier on his family to receive living assistance.
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When you build your frame with the right high quality
ingredients, you'll have a pretty strong frame.
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What does this mean? It could mean that they hate your
guts and want to stick an ice pick in your eye socket at the
first opportunity. It could mean they are on their way to a
life or death meeting with a judge. It could mean they are
going to tell their husband or wife they want a divorce. It
could mean they have horrible diarrhea and they are on the
verge of losing it right there on the street. Or it could mean
you are the person of their dreams, and they are petrified
in fear.
One more. It's Friday, and you're at work. One hour before
quitting time. You hear your boss bellow at you from his
corner office. "Johnson! Get in my office at once!" Since
your name is Johnson, this means you. What does this
mean? You are about to get fired? Something horrible has
happened and your boss thinks you are the only one who
can fix it?
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That person you saw on the street doesn't want to kill you
or doesn't hate you.
When the boss calls you to his or her office, it's probably
not to fire you or reprimand you.
Plan the event or situation that you are giving meaning to.
No Experience
His frame was only true for that short time when he was in
the store, with the gun. Had he had a frame of "this
incident means I will pay the rent without going to jail," he
may have had a better chance.
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Social Proof
Experience
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Belief
Strong Goals
Weak Opposition
Resilience
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If those are the skills to hold a frame, what are the skills to
create a frame? Let's explore some of them. Before we do,
let's review that old story that's been told for my purposes.
Once there was a farmer, with two sons. One day, one of
his sons came back with a wild horse he'd found. "Wow,
you're so lucky!" Said his neighbors. "Maybe," Said the
farmer.
The next day, his son was taming and training the horse,
when he fell and broke his arm, which meant he wouldn't
be able to help with the farming. "Wow, that's unlucky!"
said the neighbors. "Maybe," said the farmer.
Then the next day the military came, because there was
war coming. They took his one son, but not the other,
because of his broken arm. Everybody died in the war.
"Wow, that's lucky for your son," said his neighbors.
"Maybe," said the farmer.
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But in reality, one person has held their frame, while the
other person has re-defined their frame in
acknowledgement of the frame "winner."
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and get clear on the goals you are creating, either in life or
in a situation, you'll likely resort to ego level frame setting.
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If you don't have any goals, then the world is seen through
your pre-programmed filters, which is only concerned with
safety, resources, and hopefully companionship and
hopefully sexual expression.
But when you program your mind with specific goals and
ideas of what you want out of life, you'll start seeing the
world in a different way. You'll start to see many situations
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Our first person goes and doesn't really have any idea of
what kind of business he'd like to start, only that he's tired
of his nine to five. So he goes to this networking meeting
hoping to get some ideas, maybe meet some people who'll
mentor him, and show him how to ease out of the nine to
five life. He saw this advertised in a local newspaper, and
he decided to go at the last minute.
Our second person also saw the ad in the local paper, and
also decided to go at the last minute. But she's been doing
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Operational Flexibility
phone number?"
It's easy to set off to meet new people, only to not meet
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Food
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Social Acceptance
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Self Actualization
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stamina as a tool.
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What Is A Frame?
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Congruence
Pre-Framing
Experience
Consciously Chosen
Life Goals
Belief
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Flexibility
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Social Proof
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Self Directed
Even if a situation doesn't pan out, you can still use that to
support your long term goals. If you don't get the sale, you
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If you release any need to "be right," and simply let them
decide on their own which frame they'd rather choose
(theirs or yours) you'll find simply by holding your frame,
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This may seem a little strange when you first try it out, but
it is very powerful. Most of us are conditioned to lose the
frame on purpose when somebody else contradicts us.
Let's say you're at a bar, and you see a pretty girl. You'd
like her number, so you can date her later on. You walk up
with the frame of "This conversation is going to facilitate
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Or, you could simply say something like, "Oh, cool. What's
his name?" She'll tell you, and then you simply keep on
talking like nothing ever happened.
Here's where the paradox comes in. Most people fear that
when they "overpower" somebody's frame, it's going to be
like some vicious mixed martial arts match. But in reality, it
feels really, really GOOD when we meet somebody with a
strong frame.
You notice that the action movie you'd like to see is starting
in ten minutes. You mention this, and your friend says,
"Yea, but that comedy with Mr. X is starting in twenty
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Or, you could pace their objection, agree that it's supposed
to be a good comedy, and proceed to buy your tickets.
Now, how you do this, the energy you speak with, your
facial expressions are crucial. You need to be careful not to
appear to "ignore" your friend. Take some time. Stop and
look at them. Believe it when you say that comedy is
probably a good movie. Then simply follow this up with, "I
really, REALLY want to see this action movie!"
And when they finally "give in," they will suddenly feel
relieved. Happy even. Often times people hold on to their
frame because they fear what happens if they lose it. By
repeating yourself calmly and politely, you'll simply give
them time to "warm up" to the idea that taking your frame
isn't so bad. You'll be happy, and they'll be relieved.
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You'll find that more often than not, simple patience will be
your strongest weapon in holding your frame.
Study after study has shown this to be true. They take ten
random strangers, and put them in a room. Invariably,
there's one person that emerges as the leader. That means
that nine people emerge as followers.
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To start off with, it's easier to hold a frame when you've got
your mind focused on a certain idea. A great way to
practice that is to simply think of an idea to hold in mind,
before going into a situation, and continue holding that
idea no matter what happens.
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Scavenger Hunting
Once you're ready for the next level, you can practice
scavenger hunting. Think of some particular response
you'd like to get from one or any number of people. This
can range from anything simple like a smile, or something
crazy like getting somebody to touch their left shoulder
with their right pinky.
Center of Attention
Often times we shy away from attention, and this can hurt
our frame control ability. Purposely calling attention to
yourself can help. One way is to go somewhere outdoors
like a public park. Then choose a spot, and choose to stand
there, for a certain number of minutes, with a smile on
your face.
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Specific Language
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On the other hand, if you felt deep down inside that you
had nothing to offer, and you had little faith in your
product, it would be difficult to hold that frame no matter
who you were speaking with, even an eager buyer with
cash in hand.
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The man said, "Well, what were they like in town X?"
"Well, that's what you'll find in Town Y," said the man.
Again, our hero said, "Well, what were they like in Town
X?"
Before you change your beliefs, you'll need to find out what
they are. Beliefs are situational, meaning you'll have to
define them to find them. For example, it's not really
possible to believe something like, "I'm confident," as
there are many different kinds of confidence, and they
situationally based.
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And then write down every answer that pops into your
head. Write down anything that comes up, regardless if it
makes sense or not. Keep writing. Write down ten, twenty,
or even thirty answers.
These are your negative beliefs that are holding you back.
In order to counter them, simply flip them around
grammatically. So these statements will change to:
Now that we've got the new belief statements, we're ready
to turn them into unconscious beliefs.
Affirmation Method
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This involves digging into your past, and finding proof that
these affirmations are true. For example, let's take the first
one, "People are interested in Network Marketing." Simply
find plenty of situations, as many as you can, where it was
undeniably true that people were interested in network
marketing.
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around us.
And as it happens, you can set the frame to set the belief.
You can go into a situation with a frame of creating a
certain belief. How do you do this?
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want!
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This is when future pacing comes into play. When you set a
frame, it can be very helpful to not only set the frame you'd
like, but the benefits you'll receive from it. This can help
you look to the future, and not only have an "in the
moment frame" but also a "big picture frame" at the same
time.
This ties in nicely with having frames that are set within the
context of larger goals. Whenever possible, both in "in the
moment" frame setting, and long term goal setting, always
build into them some element of social status, and social
proof.
Let's consider that he did some work on his beliefs, and has
a solid belief that "girls find him interesting."
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Remember the story of the farmer and his two sons. Every
time something happened, his neighbors were quick to
point out whether it was good or bad. The farmer, knowing
how quickly things change, simply held off any judgment.
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For example, let's say you're walking down the street, and
you see a hot dog vendor about twenty meters away. You
imagine how good a hot dog will taste. You walk up, reach
into your wallet, and the hot dog vendor looks at you and
days, "I'm sorry, no more hot dogs."
Does it mean that the hot dog vendor doesn't like you and
is lying to you?
After all, it's your mind. It's your decision on what ideas,
thoughts, and beliefs to hold. And when it comes down to
it, any meaning you give can only be a slight
approximation for what's really going on anyway. Who
knows why the hot dog vendor says he ran out? Who
knows what kind of person he is, or what movies he's
watched recently, or the attitude of his last ten customers.
Now let's say guy number two is walking down the street.
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For example, if you are walking down the street, and you
are about to step into a crosswalk when a driver suddenly
cuts in front of you, it's very easy to feel angry and
helpless.
It's also very hard to put a positive "spin" on this. It's hard
to think that somebody that just could have killed you has
your best interests in mind.
One of the biggest traps we can fall into, which can easily
lead to victim thinking, is assuming people will do certain
things, or worse, assuming that people should do certain
things.
both ways because the light is green and you assume that
people will look for pedestrians because they should, you
are actually giving up your power.
To the extent that you can avoid the trap of victim thinking,
you will develop an unshakeable frame that will mesmerize
and attract others.
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Daily Review
At the end of the day, look through the events and find any
that made you feel like a victim. Any event where
something "shouldn't" have gone the way it did. Any event
where somebody did something you think they shouldn't
have done, or didn't do something they should have done.
You can start off by saying, "They should have said thank
you, but they didn't."
The ones that may make you feel bad might be like this:
They wanted to say "thank you" but forgot, yet think about
me in positive terms.
What evidence can you find that proves they respect you,
even when they are busy?
What evidence can you find that proves they think about
you in positive terms?
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Now, this may sound like a lot of work. But consider these
two situations.
This exercise will take a little bit of time and mental effort.
But it won't take more than five or ten minutes. If you
make a commitment to do this once a day, soon you will
star to see random "events' in a much more positive light.
We love the guy or girl who rolls with the punches and
turns them into opportunities.
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They are both very similar, however they are best applied
to different situations. Naturally, there are no absolutes
here since we are dealing with human perception of a
reality that is always in flux, but there are some guidelines
that will help.
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"Well, you'll forget all those plans when you find out what a
wonderful person I am!"
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"Help!"
The cable going out isn't a terrible thing, it's a great way to
catch up on your reading.
So what is outframing?
Example One.
You could try reframing, and try and argue with them,
question their relationship, or try and demonstrate why
you're a better partner.
Example Two
You could argue with him, try and convince him that giving
you a raise will bring in more money, which will expand the
budget. Or, you could simply acknowledge the low budget,
and the no money situation. Then simply go on with your
presentation. You are basically saying, "Yes, I know there's
no money. Yes, I know you don't have the authority. And,
this is why it's in the companys best interest to give me a
raise."
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Example Three
Example Four
You and your date are going out to dinner. She wants
Chinese, you want Mexican. You sense a fight coming. She
makes her case about Chinese food. You could argue that
Mexican is better, it's cheaper, it's closer, which could
simply make her dig in more.
When you say "I know you want X," be as honest and open
and understanding as possible. When you transition with
the "and" (not "but"), be sure you are shifting to a
completely different thought. Then express "I want Y," with
total sincerity and congruence. When you express "You
want Y, and "I want X" as two totally equal and separate
thoughts, they will eventually "give in."
Why?
Y.
X1 + Y1 > X + Y
Let's put this another way. Even though they don't really
love Mexican food, they'll be eating with somebody with a
hugely strong frame when it comes to choosing Mexican
food for dinner. This will give them a more overall
rewarding experience than eating Chinese food with a
wishy-washy frame of choosing Chinese food.
But ask people waiting in line why they are buying that
phone, and few people will tell the truth.
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