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Domination/Submission Checklist

G = Give & R = Receive


Done it Y = yes; N = no

RATING
0 = Hard limit, will NEVER do it;
1 = Extremely unwilling (will do it under stern orders);
2 = Unwilling (will do it under orders);
3 = Willing (will do it with a suggestion);
4 = Wants to (will do it without prompting);
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A zero (0) rating means this activity will be OFF LIMITS.


A 1 - 3 rating implies that it will be done for the pleasure of the other as for a benefit
A 4 - 5 rating implies that the person filling the checklist will derive some direct sense of satisfaction from this activity.

Please specify are Y/you filling this out as Master, Dom/Me, slave, sub

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SEX

Sexual intercourse involving a penis


Anal Sex entering your anus.

The use of the ass crack for male genital


Ass Cheek Sex stimulation.

The use of the armpit for male genital


Armpit Sex stimulation.
Animal Sex Sex with an animal (dog, cat, horse etc.)

The use of the cleavage for male genital


Breast Sex stimulation

Sexually stimulating the vagina with a


Cunnilingus mouth/tongue.

Going without sex often at another


Denial person's command.

Sexual intercourse in which two orifices


Double Penetration - Dildo are filled.
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SEX CONTD/

Double Penetration -Multiple Sexual intercourse in which two orifices


Partners are filled.
Dildo - Anal A non-vibrating artificial phallus in anus.

A non-vibrating artificial phallus in


Dildo - Oral mouth.

A non-vibrating artificial phallus in


Dildo - Vaginal vagina.

Sexually stimulating the penis with


Fillatio mouth/tongue.

Using a finger or multiple fingers for


Finger Sex sexual stimulation
Genital Intercourse Sexual intercourse

Sexual intercourse with more than one


Group Sex partner.
Hand Job Stimulating a penis with your hand

Including others in the


Including Others physical/emotional aspects.

Using your tongue on another person's


Licking body

Rubbing another person's body for their


Massage relaxation.

Having sexually explicit phone


Phone Sex conversations.

Sexually stimulating the anus with a


Rimming mouth/tongue.

Secretly having sexual intercourse in a


Secret Sex (Public area) public area

Secret Sex (Semi-public Secretly having sexual intercourse in a


area) semi-public area
Secret Intimacy (Public area) Secretly being intimate in a public area
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SEX CONTD/

Secret Intimacy (Semi-public Secretly being intimate in a semi-public


area) area

Trading your partner/s with other


Swinging partner/s for sex
Sex Outdoors Having sex outdoors

Going out in public with a sex toy (such


Sex Toys under clothes in as a butt plug) in your body, under your
public clothing.

Sexual intercourse in which three orifices


Triple Penetration - Dildo are filled.

Triple Penetration - Multiple Sexual intercourse in which three orifices


Partners are filled.

Acts involving the sensations and


apprehensions caused by teasing the
Teasing body.

Vanilla Traditional intercourse without any kinks.


SEX TOYS

Having a string of connected beads (or


balls) inserted in to your anus or vagina
Beads and then pulled out.

Butt Plugs Wearing a "plug" inserted in to your anus.

Using and/or being penetrated with a


Dildos non-vibrating artificial phallus.

Variously known as Ben-Wa Balls,


Oriental Love Eggs, etc. Two connected
balls that are placed inside the body
and either vibrate when you move or
are battery powered to vibrate.
Love Eggs

Suction devices used on specific parts of


Suction Toys body, namely breasts/nipples//pussy
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SEX TOYS CONTD/

Insertable, battery operated that create


vibrations for external & internal
Vibrators stimulation
BONDAGE

Lightly binding or restricting the body.


Usually more symbolic than actually
Bondage Light restrictive.

Heavily binding or restricting the body,


usually to the point where no, or next-to
Bondage Heavy no, movement is possible.

Being placed in or placing someone in a


Boxing / Closeting box or closet.

Breast Binding or restricting the breasts.

Being placed in or placing someone in a


Caging cage

Affixed or fixing someone to a cross or


Crucifixion crucifix-shaped structure.

Full Body Binding or restricting the whole body.

Genital Binding or restricting the genitals.

Intricately binding or restricting some or


Intricate all of the body.

Mental Normally done by Hypnotism.

Being wrapped or wrapping someone -


often in cotton, leather, PVC or plastic
Mummification wrap- from head to toe.

Outdoors Restraint Outdoors

Restraint Privately with no other people


Private to see

Public Restraint in view of others


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BONDAGE CONTD/

Restraint in public under Restraint in public, but under clothes


clothes

Restraint Duration: 0-1hr Restraint duration less than an hour


Restraint Duration: 1-3hrs Restraint duration up to 3 hours
Restraint duration for more than 3 hours
Restraint Duration: 3+hrs at a time

Restraint Duration: Restraint duration overnight or full day


Overnight/Full Day

Restraint Duration: Multiple Restraint duration for multiple days, more


Days than 1 day

Binding or restricting someone so they


are suspended above the ground,
Suspension - Vertical vertically.

Binding or restricting someone so they


are suspended above the ground,
Suspension - Horizontal horizontally.

Binding or restricting someone so they


are suspended above the ground,
Suspension - Inverted upside-down.
BONDAGE TOYS

Acts in which blindfolds are placed over


one partner's eyes to remove that sense
Blindfolds (and often heighten others).

Restricting the entire body by placing


Body Bags them in a body bag

Binding or restricting the body, or parts


Duct Tape of, with duct tape.

Wearing hoods that cover the entire


head, leaving only small holes for vision,
Full Head Hoods breathing, etc. (if even them).

A type of gag that uses a ball to


effectively block any verbal
Gags - ball type communication.
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BONDAGE TOYS CONTD/

A type of gag that uses a bar that goes


across the mouth, much like a horse's
Gags - bits "bit".

Using Cloth as a gag to block any verbal


Gags - cloth communication

Using an inflatable devise to block


Gags - inflatable verbal communication

Using a phallic(penis)shape to block


Gags - phallic verbal communication

A type of gag that uses a ring to force


the mouth open while providing access
Gags - ring to the, now undefendable, mouth.

Using adhesive tape across the mouth to


Gags - tape create a gag.

Wearing clothing that harnesses the


Harnessing - leather body without necessarily covering it.

Wearing clothing that harnesses the


Harnessing - rope body without necessarily covering it.

Wearing of headphones/earplugs
depriving the subject of their hearing
(often to heighten the remaining
Headphone/Earplugs senses).

Manacles Metal bondage equipment

Masks Wearing masks that cover the face.

Padlocks Bondage that involves locks and keys.

Binding or restricting the body, or parts


Plastic Wrap of, with plastic wrap (Clingfilm).

Restraints - Ankle Binding or restricting the ankles.


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BONDAGE TOYS CONTD/

Restricting the movement of the arms


and legs by placing them in a confining
Restraints - Arm & leg sleeves sleeve.

Binding or restricting the body (usually


Restraints - Hand Cuffs the wrists) with [hand]cuffs.

Binding or restricting the body, or parts


Restraints - Leather of, with leather.

Binding or restricting the body, or parts


Restraints - Metal of, with metal.

Binding or restricting the body, or parts


Restraints - Rope of, with rope.

Using thumb cuffs to restrict a persons


Restraints - Thumb Cuffs hand movements

Binding or restricting the wrists of a


Restraints - Wrist person

Restraints - Wrist to Binding or restricting from wrists to neck


ankle/neck/waist ankle and waist

Binding or restricting the body, or parts


Silk Scarves of, with silk scarves.

Being placed in or placing someone in a


bondage device, often made of nylon
or other stretchable fabric, used to
Sleep sacks
completely immobilize the entire body.

Restricting movement by putting them in


Slings/Swings sling/swing

Restricting the movement of the legs by


connecting them to either end of a bar,
Spreader bars usually forcing them open.

Restricting movement by placing the


wrists and neck (though may involve
Stocks ankles) through a set of stocks.
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BONDAGE TOYS CONTD/

Binding or restricting the torso and arms


Strait Jackets by placing them inside a strait jacket.
S&M

Skin scratched, scraped, or abraded by


Abrasion a partner

Anal Dilation Deliberately stretching the anus open.

Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is


Anal Fisting often an exaggeration) inside the anus.

Temporarily preventing the flow of


Asphyxiation oxygen to the lungs

Bastinado Torturing the soles of your feet.

Beating (General) Acts in which one partner is beaten.

Acts in which one partner is beaten


Beating - hard hard.

Acts in which one partner is beaten


Beating - soft softly.

Beating based acts that focus on the


Beating - Back back as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the


Beating - Bottom bottom as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the


Beating - Chest chest or breasts as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the


Beating - Feet feet (usually the soles) as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the


Beating - Genitals genitals as a target.

Beating based acts that focus on the


Beating - Genitals genitals as a target.
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S & M CONTD/

Beating based acts that focus on the


Beating - Legs legs as a target.

Acts involving biting one partner with the


Biting teeth of the other.

Breast Milking Acts by milking the partner

Breast Stretching Acts by stretching the partners breasts

Breast Torture Acts of torture targeting the breasts

Breast Whipping Whipping of breasts

Acts involving restricting or cutting off


Choking the supply of oxygen.

Electricity Using electricity for sensation or pain.

Slapping the face, usually with an open


Face Slapping hand, to cause pain or denote position.

Acts involving the sensations and


Fire play apprehensions caused by fire and heat.

Acts involving the sensations and


apprehensions caused by having hair
Hair pulling pulled.

Nipple Torture Acts by torturing the nipples

Acts involving the sensations and


apprehensions caused by being
Pinching pinched.

Being punched or punching your


Punching partner

Deliberately causing scars, often through


Scarification cutting the skin, for adornment.

Acts involving the sensations and


apprehensions caused by being
Scratching scratched.
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S & M CONTD/
Beaten with a hand standing on hands
& knees
Spanking - on all fours

Beaten with a hand over other partners


Spanking - over knee knee

Acts in which one partner is beaten hard


Spanking hard with a hand

Acts in which one partner is beaten


Spanking soft softly with a hand.

Vaginal Dilation Deliberately stretching the vagina open.

Placing an entire hand (the term "fist" is


often an exaggeration) inside the
Vaginal Fisting vagina.
S & M TOYS

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Belt/Strap a belt/strap

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Caning a cane.

Clothespins Clothespins applied to body

Acts involving the sensations and


apprehensions caused by having
Cupping/Suction suction applied to the body.

Acts involving the sensations and


Cutting apprehensions caused by being cut.

Electrosex is a sexual practice involving


the application of electrical stimulation
to the nerves of the body, with particular
emphasis on the genitals, using a power
source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet
wand, or made-for-play units) for
Electricity - Tens Unit purposes of sexual stimulation.
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S & M TOYS CONTD/

Electrosex is a sexual practice involving


the application of electrical stimulation
to the nerves of the body, with particular
emphasis on the genitals, using a power
source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet
wand, or made-for-play units) for
Electricity - Violet Wand purposes of sexual stimulation.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Flogging a flogger.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Hairbrushes a hairbrush.

Acts involving the sensations and


apprehensions caused by having hot oil
Hot Oils dripped on to or applied to the body.

Acts involving the sensations and


apprehensions caused by using ice or
Ice Cubes (bottom) other cold items on the body.

Injecting (normally saline) in to a part of


Injections the body to temporarily engorge it.

Figging Use of ginger in cunt/ass

Labial Clip Applying a clip/clamp to labial/clit

Placing clamps on the nipples to cause


Nipple Clamps pain.

Applying weights to the nipples, or


usually to clamps on the nipples, to
Nipple Weights stretch them, generally to cause pain.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Paddling a paddle.

Exploring the concept of body piercing


Piercing - temp but in a manner that is temporary.
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S & M TOYS CONTD/

Putting an object through a part of the


Piercing - Permanent body for permanent adornment.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Riding Crops a riding crop.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Strapping - Full Body a strap, full body.

"Sounds" are elongated instruments


intended for exploring or "sounding"
body cavities. "Urethral Sounds" are
inserted into the urethra, often for the
purposes of stimulation and dilation.
Urethral Sounds

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Whipping - bullwhip a bullwhip.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Whipping - Cat a cat whip.

Acts in which one partner is beaten on


Whipping - genitals genitals with a whip.

Acts in which one partner is beaten with


Whipping - knotted whip a knotted whip.

Acts in which both partners are beaten


Whipping - switch with a whip by taking turns.
FETISH

Being aroused by the idea and/or act of


being left behind, abandoned,
Abandonment forgotten, or thrown away.

Being aroused from heights, in and of


themselves, and/or being aroused by
sexual or sensual activities at unusual
Acrophilia heights.
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FETISH CONTD/

Being aroused by amputees. This fetish


may or may not involve sexual or sensual
activity specifically related to the
Acrotomophilia amputated area.

Adult Movies (watching) Watching of adult movies

Being aroused by statues. This fetish may


or may not involve actual sexual acts
Agalmatophilia with statues.

Barosmia Being aroused from smells

Having photographs taken of you, either


Being Recorded naked or indulging in a sexual act.
Bestiality
Sex with animals.

Boot Worship Worshiping the boots of another person.

Burning the body, often with a specific


design, to leave a permanent mark or
Branding scar.

Being defecated upon by another


Brown Showers person.

Inserting a tube in to the urethra to


Catheterization collect urine.

Receptacles used for the collection of


urine and faecal matter. (Similar to a
"Bed Pan," these pots were used
historically in place of indoor plumbing.)
Chamber Pots

Putting a ring or having a ring put,


usually made of metal or rubber, around
the base of a partner's cock. "Cock
Rings" are often used for increased
sensation and erection-duration during
sex. This results from the blocking of
Cock Rings blood flow to the cock.
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FETISH CONTD/

Wearing corsets which control the shape


Corsets of the waist and hips.

Dressing yourself, dressing a partner or


being dressed in a fashion usually
Cross-Dressing symbolic of the opposite gender.

Diapers Wearing of diapers.

Sexual activity in and around dirt, mud,


Dirty Sex or oil.

Using a "Douche," which is a device


inserted into the vagina or anus that
squirts a liquid, often saline, for the
purposes of cleansing.
Douching

Being given or giving an "Enema" -- an


apparatus used for injecting liquid into
the intestine by way of the anus, often
for the purposes of cleansing.
Enemas

Erotic Dancing Erotic Dancing for Dom

Having your body physically examined


and, often, appraised. Sometimes this
includes medical examination role-plays
though, here, that is listed as Role-play -
Medical.
Examination (Physical)

Enjoying the idea and/or act of being


seen in a sexual or sensual context.
Opinions vary on this activity. Some
exhibitionists wish to be seen by non-
consensual viewers, and some prefer
Exhibitionism only consensual viewers.

Fear Fear for You/ Fearing someone

Being aroused by someone wearing


Feathers/Fur feathers/fur
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FETISH CONTD/

Food Play Using food like cucumbers in play

Foot Worship Worshiping the feet of another person.

Golden Showers Being urinated upon by another person.

Scenes that involve the use of guns as


Gun Play props.

Worshiping the high-heeled shoes of


High Heel Worship another person.

Treating a partner as an infant or being


treated as an infant. "Infantilism" is an
extreme form of "Age Play" and can
include anything from role playing and
dress-up to diaper wearing and usage.
Infantilism

A form of consensual BDSM edge play


involving knives, daggers, and swords as
a source of physical and mental
Knife play stimulation.

Clothing made out of, or involving,


Latex rubber or latex.

Clothing made out of, or involving,


Leather leather.

Lingerie Wearing women's lingerie.

Medical Instruments Using medical instruments in play

Acts involving the sensations and


apprehensions caused by using needles
on the body, either scratching with
them, or poking them.
Needles

Engaging in sexual activity in which a


partner uses his/her mouth or vice versa
to stimulate and arouses your anus
and/or surrounding areas.
Oral/Anal Play
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FETISH CONTD/

Pain Acts involving physical pain.

Having photographs taken of you, either


Posing for Erotic Photos naked or indulging in a sexual act.

The subject takes on and acts out a role


based on being a male or female
prostitute, selling themselves to another
person for sex.
Prostitution (real)

Public Exposure Exposing yourself in public

Clothing made out of, or involving, PVC


PVC (the shiny plasticy material).

Acts that explore being sexually used,


nominally against your will, by another
Rape Fantasy person.

Acts that explore being sexually used,


nominally against your will, by more than
Rape Fantasy Gang one other person.

Having video taken of you, either naked


Recording Scenes or indulging in a sexual act.

Having the amount of sensory input


you're exposed to blocked or limited.
This often includes segregation from
other people and activities, and may
utilize blindfolds, earplugs, etc.
Sensory Deprivation

Shaving Removing all traces of hair bodily hair

Skinny-Dipping Swimming in public naked

Enjoying the feel and look of spandex on


others or yourself. "Spandex" is often
used for active wear and conforms to
the body when worn.
Spandex
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FETISH CONTD/

A medical device used to spread and


dilate the anus. These are often used in
Speculums (anal) role playing scenes.

A medical device used to spread and


dilate the vagina. These are often used
Speculums (vaginal) in role playing scenes.

Spitting Being spit on or spitting on someone

Providing subs for your Dom/me for a


variety of purposes. This activity may
result in group play or simply the use of
an additional sub by a Dom/me.
Supplying partners

Swallowing Semen Swallowing the semen.

Taking photographs of you or someone


else, either naked or indulging in a
Taking Erotic Photos sexual act.

Sampling your own flavour -- most often


this refers to either your own vaginal
Tasting Yourself juices or semen.

Adorning the body by permanently


Tattoos applying ink under the skin.

Acts involving the sensations and


apprehensions caused by tickling the
Tickling body.

Wearing uniforms that have a given


Uniforms significance.

Watching someone, often without their


knowledge, in a situation with sexual
connotations. For example, watching
someone undressing or having sex.
Voyeurism
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POWER PLAY

Have to beg before something is


Begging allowed

Having rules imposed that govern


behaviour in general, and prevent some
specific behaviours. This is often coupled
with a "Contract," which details the rules
and is agreed on and signed by all
parties involved.
Behaviour Restrictive Rules

In BDSM, any type of "Worship" implies


directed affection and emotional and
physical attention. "Breast Worship"
means taking this special care of the
breasts of a Dom/me's choosing.
Breast Worship

Also called Asphyxiation. Acts involving


restricting or cutting off the supply of
Breath Play oxygen.

Using an apparatus to prevent access to


the genitals and to promote chastity.
(Also known as "Chastity Devices,"
because of the wide selection of
chastity implements now available that
Chastity Belts do not include a belt.)

Either choosing for or having your


clothes chosen for you by a partner. This
can occur in conjunction with "Forced
Clothing choice Dressing."

In BDSM, any type of "Worship" implies


directed affection and emotional and
physical attention. "Cock Worship"
means taking this special care of the
cock of a Dom/me's choosing.
Cock Worship
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POWER PLAY

Making someone or being made to


wear a collar. For many, "being collared"
is representative of a long-term
committed relationship.
Collars

Collar and Leash Wearing a leash, attached to a collar.

Competing with one or more sub or


making a sub compete with other subs
Competition for the pleasure of a Dom/me.

The act of crawling on all fours to


Crawling denote submission.

Having to whom, when, how, and for


what reason a sub is allowed to make
Eye Contact Restriction eye contact controlled and restricted.

Serving another person, putting their


pleasure ahead of your own, as they
Following Orders give you specific formal orders to follow.

Having your food choices made for you,


Food Choice/Directed Eating usually without the ability to appeal.

Sexual acts with members of the both


Forced Bisexuality sexes, nominally against your will.

Being forced or forcing someone to


Forced Dressing dress in a certain way.

Being forced or forcing someone to


exercise. This practice can be for fun, for
punishment, or in conjunction with other
forced behaviour and D/s practices
such as forced weight loss or other
forced physical changes.
Forced Exercise

Sexual acts with members of the


Forced Heterosexuality opposite sex, nominally against your will.
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POWER PLAY

Sexual acts with members of the same


Forced Homosexuality sex, nominally against your will.

Pleasuring your own genitals, with your


Forced Masturbation hand, nominally against your will.

Periods of time spent without clothing,


Forced Nudity (Private) nominally against you will.

Periods of time spent without clothing,


Forced Nudity (Around nominally against you will with other
Others) people present

Serving another person in specific ways,


putting their pleasure ahead of your
own, nominally forced to do so against
Forced Servitude your will.

Being given, at a partner's whim, to


Given Away (Temp) another person, usually temporarily.

Being given away, at a partner's whim,


Given Away (Perm) to another person, permanently.

Also known as "Wax Play," this practice


involves pouring or dripping hot wax on
your sub for a mixture of pleasure and
pain. (Remember, coloured wax is
hotter!) "Waxing" may also imply the
removal of hair when removing the
Hot Waxing cooled wax.

Making someone do or being made to


do housework. This can either be done in
a sexual, sensual way or in a more
straight-forward way.
Housework

Acts in which you are humiliated,


degraded, or shamed, in a private
Humiliation - Private setting.

Acts in which you are humiliated,


Humiliation - Public degraded, or shamed, in front of others.
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Acts in which you are humiliated,


degraded, or shamed, through either
the words of someone else (such as
name calling) or your own words.
Humiliation - Verbal

The act of kneeling to denote


Kneeling submission.

An exposition of a given subject for the


Lecturing purpose of instruction or reprimand.

Giving another person a manicure or


Manicures receiving one

Renaming your sub or being re-named


by a Dom/me either temporarily or
Name Change permanently.

Having a partner control if and when


climaxing is allowed. This control can be
practiced for short term or extended
periods of time.
Orgasm Control

Being prevented from or preventing


someone from climaxing. "Orgasm
Denial" can refer to the denial of climax
in the short term as well as for extended
periods of time.
Orgasm Denial

Having to orgasm on the command of


Orgasm on Command another person.

Forcing or being forced or encouraged


to change aspects of your personality by
a Dom/me. This is often accomplished
through tactics such as punishment and
reward.
Personality Modification

Pussy Worship Worshiping the pussy of another person.


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POWER PLAY

Acts involving depriving the subject of


their senses (often to heighten the
Sensation Deprivation remaining ones).

Serving Orally Stimulating a partner with your mouth.

Preventing someone or being prevented


from having sexual interactions. This is
often done in conjunction with "Chastity
Devices" and "Orgasm Control
Sexual Deprivation

Not being allowed to sleep. "Sleep


Deprivation" can result in altered states
of mind and may impair decision
Sleep Deprivation making.

Restrictions as to what you're allowed to


Speech Restrictions say
Standing in Corner Have to stand in corner
Struggling Being made to struggle against Dom/me

Being given jewellery by a Dom/me or


giving a sub jewellery that represents
something special, such as your
relationship, your expectations,
behaviour modification, etc.
Symbolic Jewellery

A form of torture in which water is


poured over the face of an immobilized
captive, thus causing the individual to
Waterboarding experience the sensation of drowning.

Forcing someone to or being forced to


either gain or lose weight by a Dom/me.
This may be coupled with "Forced
Weight Gain/Loss Exercise."
ROLE PLAY

Scenes in which the participants take on


Role Play (General) and act out roles.
MASTER/ MISTRESS SUBMISSIVE
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ROLE PLAY CONTD/

Scenes in which the participants take on


and act out roles based on being a
different age (such as babies or naughty
young girls).
Age Play

Scenes in which the subject takes on


and acts out a role based on being a
Animal Play - Cat cat.

Scenes in which the subject takes on


and acts out a role based on being a
Animal Play - Pig pig.

Scenes in which the subject takes on


and acts out a role based on being a
Animal Play - Pony pony

Scenes in which the subject takes on


and acts out a role based on being a
Animal Play - Puppy puppy.

Scenes in which the subject takes on


Animal Play - Other (Pls and acts out a role based on being any
specify) other animal.

Serving another person, putting their


pleasure ahead of your own, as their
Chauffeuring formal driver.

Scenes in which the participants take on


and act out roles based on a scholastic
Education teacher/student setting.

Being made to (or asked to) or making


someone perform some sort of task or
ritual, pass some sort of test or
challenge, or do some other symbolic
act in order to gain acceptance,
approval, or access to something
Initiation Rites coveted.
MASTER/ MISTRESS SUBMISSIVE
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G/ Y/ Notes/comments/ideas/suggestions / Y/ Notes/comments/ideas/suggestions
ACTIVITY DESCRIPTION R N RATING or thoughts on this topic R N RATING or thoughts on this topic
ROLE PLAY CONTD/

Scenes in which the participants take on


and act out roles based on
interrogations where one person is the
interrogator and the other the subject.
Interrogation

Scenes in which the participants take on


and act out roles based on one partner
Kidnapping being kidnapped.

Scenes in which the participants take on


and act out roles based on the medical
Medical Scenes world such as Doctor/Patient.

Having your body physically examined


and, often, appraised. Sometimes this
includes medical examination role-plays
though, here, that is listed as Role-play
Physical Examinations

Scenes in which the participants take on


and act out roles based on the prison
world such as Sadistic Jailer/Vulnerable
Inmate
Prison Scenes

Scenes in which the subject takes on


and acts out a role based on being a
male or female prostitute, selling
themselves to another person for sex.
Prostitution (pretend)

Engaging in a scene that bases around


Punishment Scene the act of punishment.

Scenes in which the participants take on


and act out roles based on the religious
world such as confessionals or
Religious Scenes Bishop/Nun.

Serving another person, putting their


pleasure ahead of your own, as a
[usually immobile] piece of artwork such
as a statue.
Serving as Art
MASTER/ MISTRESS SUBMISSIVE
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ACTIVITY DESCRIPTION R N RATING or thoughts on this topic R N RATING or thoughts on this topic
ROLE PLAY CONTD/

Serving another person, putting their


pleasure ahead of your own, using a
part of your body as a receptacle for
their cigarette or cigar ash.
Serving as Ashtray

Serving another person, putting their


pleasure ahead of your own, as an
immobile piece of furniture. For
example, on all fours as a table or a
Serving as Furniture footstool.

Serving another person, putting their


pleasure ahead of your own, as a maid.
For example, serving tea while wearing a
uniform.
Serving as Maid

Serving another person, putting their


Serving as Toilet pleasure ahead of your own, as toilet.

Serving Other Dom/Me Serving other Dom/Me's with your Dom


(supervised) present

Serving Other Dom/Me Serving other Dom/Me's without your


(unsupervised) Dom
Serving - Sexually
Serving another person, putting their
pleasure ahead of your own, in
whatever sexual way pleases them.

Using and/or being penetrated with an


artificial phallus that fastens about a
Strap on Dildos female partner's waist.

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