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N ever in the history of mankind had it been so difficult for us men. At
the dawn of humanity things were very clear: a man was strong and he
went hunting or fighting against adversaries. He did not have to educate
or bath children, sew in buttons nor draw hopscotch squares with his
daughters.
Afterwards, or so it seems, there was a time when women ruled. The era
of the Great Goddess, the Pacha Mama, Pangea. Apparently, in the
depth of our DNA, we keep a blurred memory of such an Era as a fairy
tale, where peace and concord ruled. Perhaps the last of those women
were the Amazons, warriors that would chop off one breast to improve
their aim when using a bow. If they ever existed, they are now extinct.
No reputed historian neither from ancient times nor contemporary of
ours has been able to place them in any specific time or place.
In 1973 in Mexico, based on the initiative of the then First Lady Esther
Zuno de Echeverra, women and men became equal in the eyes of the
law. Political participation of women was encouraged. That made me
very happy. I was optimistic about it; I thought that with women in
power there would be less violence, less wars, and a more humane
world. I did not imagine that with such liberation many women in
positions of power would behave like the wildest men.
What happened? Did they win the power and lose their souls? I thought
that they would bring to the Houses of Representatives, the Judicial
Courts, and the desks of the Ministers their honesty and tenderness,
their great understanding of human weakness, as well as their capacity
to forgive. Yet, I found that such qualities -that I associated with
femininity- were lost on the way. Maybe that is the price they had to pay
to access such positions previously exclusive to men. So, you want to be
in politics? Come on in, welcome, but leave such nonsense outside. It is
useless here.
In 1903, the Womens Social and Political Union (WSPUI) was created
in England, but it was brutally suppressed and it even cost the life of a
woman that threw herself under the horse of the King to call his
attention.
Good news! I am really very pleased that our female peers are more
and more by us, in an equalitarian plane. Well known cases are those of
Indira Gandhi, Golda Meier, Evita Pern, Margaret Tatcher and many
more. Right now, in the fight for the postulation of her party of Hillary
Rodham Clinton for the presidency of the United States of America.
I like to cook. I enjoy it very much when I have the time and the
intention to imagine a menu, go shopping for whatever is needed, cook
while having a good conversation and -why not?- being helped with
some of the tasks, and, finally, presenting an appetizing dish to enjoy it
with my friends or family and my partner. I dont dislike putting the
apron on when she is very tired or sick. But from that, to have to do it as
a daily obligation there is an abysmal difference.
When going out with them, I do not know whether I should open doors
or pull out chairs for them or not, anymore. Some like it. Others give
you a weird look.
What would you like to eat?, we men joyfully ask, only to find one or
two possible answers:
First answer: Whatever you like, my dear. And then I pick the meal
and the place, with the invariable consequence that the meal was so, so,
the place was very noisy and the waiters were very slow. Besides, I gave
that guy an undeserved tip.
Second answer: Lets have Sea Food, she says. So it happens that it is
Holy Friday, the place is packed and we have to stand in a long line for
hours to get in. All that just to get lousy service and a huge bill.
In other words, you are damned if you do and damned if you dont.