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Cousin-----muzukuru
A nephew is a son of a person's sibling, and a niece is a daughter of a person's sibling. Conversely,
that person is the aunt or uncle of their niece or nephew.
1. Father 1. Baba
2. Mother 2. Amai
3. Grandfather 3. Sekuru
4. Grandmother 4. Ambuya/Gogo
5. Uncle (fathers older brother) 5. Babamukuru
6. Uncle (fathers younger brother) 6. Babamunini/Babamud
7. Uncle (mothers brother) 7. Sekuru
8. Aunt (fathers sister) 8. Tete
9. Aunt (mothers older sister) 9. Amaiguru
10. Aunt (mothers younger sister) 10. Amainini
11. Mother in-law 11. Ambuya/Amai
12. Father-in-law 12. Tezvara/Baba
13. Brother (older) 13. Mukoma/Bhudhi
14. Sister (older) 14. Sisi
15. Brother or sister (younger) 15. Muninina/Mupfanha
16. Husband/man 16. Murume
17. Wife/woman 17. Mukadzi
18. Baby 18. Mwana
19. Daughter 19. Mukunda
20. Son 20. Mwanakomana
21. Girl 21. Musikana
22. Boy 22. Mukomana
Chiramu is a custom that allows brothers in-law and uncles to play the role of husband
in a young girls life under the guise of teaching the young girl how to handle proposals
from boys.
According to the Shona culture, my mothers brothers are considered my husbands,
but they can also stand in as my mothers.Their children are considered my husbands
too. I can be their mother since their father is my husband. I know its confusing but try
to keep up. All these relations are based on roles assumed through cultural beliefs. In
the event that I were to even marry or date, my little sister would take my husband or
boyfriend as her own. Some little sisters act coy for the in-law and ask for material
things, it is all part of the play acting.
This is what local artist, Winky D brings out in his song Chiramu where his wifes
younger sister makes advances towards him in the name of chiramu and goes as far
as dressing to seduce him when the wife goes away on a trip. In the beginning, he is
complaining about such an arrangement but then he ends up playing along until they
are both caught red handed in a compromising position when the wife walks in to collect
her forgotten passport.The rest of the song is predictable.
Scene from Winky Ds video for the song Chiramu Image taken from
www.youtube.com
Now this is a perfect example of Chiramu gone terribly wrong but the younger sister in
the song is accused of taking it too far, or did she? Chiramu is a practice that puts
women in vulnerable positions as it was in my experience. Younger sisters or nieces are
expected to play the role of wife to their brother in laws and uncles and take on
traditionally assigned duties in another case of blatant patriarchal expectations of
women and girls.
Roora (Lobola/Dowry)
A man marrying a woman from the Shona culture has to observe the roora. This is a sign or show of
love and affection when a man saves up and marries his beloved. There are many ways this can be
done but I will dwell on the general procedures followed on the following condition The man has
done all the other necessities e.g. proposing (not musengabere, kutizisa), formal Introductions
(dated for over 6 months) and more importantly girl is not pregnant (damage) or previously been
married (virgin?). In Zimbabwe, roora takes place in a number of stages and each stage has its own
traditions and small amounts to pay. The process can differ from place to place due to the fact that in
the Shona culture there are 12 different ethnic groups.
Stage FourPayments
The process of Roora negotiations can be long and complex, and involves many members from both
the brides and the grooms extended families so these days due to our busy nature in some parts it
being shortened and made less complex. The payment stage has quite a many stages which can even
take days to complete. These are now grouped in two main sub processes which are:-
The gifts for the mother of the bride in the old days included things like mbereko, for carrying the
bride in a pouch or sling when she was a baby, and mafukidzadumbu for covering of the belly;
this is alternately translated as carrying the baby in the womb or tucking the baby in with a
blanket (when she wakes in the night). These are now charged under this blanket term due to the
complexity of the past processes as well as the fact that people may have even forgotten exactly the
names of the processes. The amount paid for the mother is non-negotiable.