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The participants were also asked how much time they thought their
lovers wanted to spend in foreplay and intercourse. The men came
fairly close to estimating how long their wives hoped to spend in the
two activities. But the women significantly underestimated how long
their husbands wanted to spend.
What can we make of all this? Perhaps the men in this study
were lying. Maybe they didnt really value foreplay as much as they
said they did. However, this survey suggests that men are more
open to extended foreplay than most women and the conventional
wisdom give them credit for.
Meanwhile:
No doubt many women still wish that the men in their lives felt more
committed to sex based on leisurely, playful, whole-body mutual
massage that excites every square inch of the body before focusing
on the genitals.
But what do you think? Do you and your lover agree on the duration
of foreplay and intercourse? Or do you find yourself longing for
more extended lovemaking? And have you noticed any connection
between foreplay and sexual satisfaction?
Reference:
Lloyd. E.A. The Case of the Female Orgasm: Bias in the Science of
Evolution. Harvard University Press, Cambridge, MA, 2005.