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Abstract
Despite this, many people have complicated feelings about women in the workplace, which can
ultimately hinder the ability of women to ascend to powerful roles. Qualifications, experience,
and actions aside, women are often subject to intense scrutiny in the workplace. Gendered
emotions and expectations are placed on both men and women, and the expectations of well-
liked leaders align more naturally with stereotypes that fit men. As a result, it seems that women
in the pursuit of power must make a choice: they can deviate from gender norms and risk being
liked, or struggle to command respect as they remain loyal to emotional gender norms. The aim
of this study is to understand the likeability of leaders who deviate from the emotion
performance associated with gender in the workplace and whether or not it is possible for a
woman who performs the emotions more readily associated with her gender to truly be seen as a
leader.
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Women in the workplace have long been subject to scrutiny and discrimination. The
mainstream prominence of powerful female figures like Sheryl Sandberg and Hillary Clinton
draws attention to the sometimes tumultuous journey women face in their paths to success. As a
result, scholars have become increasingly interested in the role of gender norms in the
workplace. Despite often equal qualifications and experience, women and men are typically
viewed differently in professional settings. Even when women and men act very similarly in the
Both men and women are subject to stereotypes about their emotions and behavior,
which carry into the workplace. In their quest to achieve power and prestige in the workplace,
women often are held back by outdated notions about a woman’s place in an organization, which
are underscored by gender norms that remain relevant in the modern era. As a result, women find
themselves stuck – they can ensure peer acceptance if they remain loyal to the confines of the
expectations of their gender, or they can risk the approval of their peers in the pursuit of power.
Should woman pursue professional success, she risks her ability to conform to gender norms of
emotion and therefore is exposed to rejection from her peers. It seems that coexisting power and
Literature Review
Men and women are often perceived differently in the workplace, and research suggests
that such perceptions are often based on general, inherent assumptions about gender. Madeline
Heilman’s research for the Journal of Social Issues found that generally, men are characterized
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as forceful, independent, and decisive. Alternatively, women are seen as kind, helpful,
sympathetic, and concerned about others. These associations are not merely different, they can
be seen as oppositional, “with members of one sex seen as lacking what is thought to be most
prevalent in members of the other sex” (Heilman, 2001, p. 658). According to “Sex Effects in
Evaluating Leaders” when workplace leaders deviate from the behaviors expected of their
gender, they experience disapproval and negative evaluations. Even when men and women
exhibit identical leader behavior, they are evaluated differently, suggesting that their actions as
leaders are evaluated based on their gender (Bartol & Butterfield, 1976).
In the spirit of being seen as more forceful and decisive, anger is an emotion that is
stereotypically associated with men according to research by Victoria Brescoll and Eric Uhlmann
(2008). When women deviate and express this male-typed emotion, it deeply upsets perceptions
about them. Both male and female observers view angry female professionals more negatively
than angry male professionals (Brescoll & Uhlmann, 2008). This evaluation exists no matter the
females’ rank in the company, “such that both a female trainee and a female CEO were given
lower status if they expressed anger than if they did not” (Brescoll & Uhlmann, 2008, p. 268).
While observers tend to attribute men’s emotional reactions to external factors, women’s
emotional reactions are more often attributed to internal factors, leading to questions of their
emotional stability. The gender bias regarding the implications of anger are eliminated only
Despite the accepted norms about emotions fitting genders, such stereotypes do not
actually account for the emotions that the sexes experience in the workplace. Research
emphasizes that men and women do not differ in their experiences of emotions in the workplace.
Instead, emotions are more often linked to status in the organization and factors like autonomy
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and peer interactions (Brescoll & Uhlmann, 2008). Gender does account for the expression of
emotions in the workplace. As Brescoll and Uhlmann’s (2008) research would suggest, men are
more likely to express their anger than women, as their anger is more readily accepted by
evaluators. Women in the workplace aim to control their anger more carefully. Women feel most
comfortable outwardly expressing their happiness in the workplace, which fits assumptions about
In addition to emotions, certain behaviors in the workplace are often associated with one
gender. Self-promotion is commonly accepted when exhibited by men, but it results in negative
evaluations when committed by women (Rudman, 1998). Particularly, women often perceive
self-promoting women as “less competent, less socially attractive, and subsequently less hirable
than the self-promoting man” (Rudman, 1998, p. 640). Negative perceptions about outspoken
women tend to exist no matter the content of conversation. Both men and women negatively
view women who speak more than others. Women seem to sense this potential for backlash, and
as a result they are less likely to be highly voluble in the workplace (Brescoll, 2011). Even in the
hiring process, following gender-specific speech style norms is extremely important for women.
Evaluations of speech style are most important to female observers, who tend to pay careful
attention for variations in speech style, as noted in research by Mary Glenn Wiley and Arlene
Eskilson (1985). Evaluations of the speech style of applicants, though, disappear when a group
of only male applicants are considered and evaluated (Wiley & Eskilson, 1985).
The discomfort associated with deviation from gender norms is heightened when such
deviations result in success (Heilman et al., 2004). Particularly, women who succeed in careers
that are associated with men often receive negative attention. “Penalties for Success: Reactions
to Women Who Succeed at Male-Typed Jobs” notes such women are less liked by work peers
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and are more vulnerable to personal attacks and insults than men in the same positions. These
negative perceptions can threaten the careers of successful women in male-typed jobs, impacting
their formal evaluations and recommendations (Heilman et al., 2004). Success is a factor that
deeply influences perceptions of women in the workplace, particularly when that success
when women are put in higher ranking roles; “when depicted as managers, and particularly as
attributes” (Heilman et al., 1995, p. 237). Studies suggest that this seemingly inherent dislike for
female authority figures may simply stem from the fact that people are accustomed to male
authority figures, and as a result, exposure to a powerful female makes them uncomfortable
(Rudman & Kilianski, 2000). This breach of expectations unfortunately often leads to negative
Women are well aware of the negative social and potentially career-altering
consequences that can happen as a result of success. The anticipation that achievements will
entice negative repercussions instills a fear in women that sometimes discourages their
performance and ambition (Horner, 1972). Clearly, committing behaviors that deviate from
gender norms can be detrimental to success and likeability in the workplace, but it seems that
acting in a way that fits gender stereotypes might not be good for women either. Both men and
women who are seen as communal (a traditionally feminine characteristic) receive lower hiring
rates (Rudman & Glick, 1999). Agentic candidates (a traditionally masculine characteristic) who
are perceived as more competitive and assertive are considered better management candidates,
but women who exhibit such behavior are seen as less socially skilled than men (Rudman &
Glick, 1999).
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While controlled studies account for the information about perceptions regarding male
and female supervisors who behave similarly, it seems that such models might not be far off.
Successful male and female managers report utilizing a mix of masculine and feminine
approaches in running their firms (Cliff et al., 2005). Though they mix their styles to suit the
need of their organizations, they tend to talk and act as though they run their organizations in
gender-stereotypic ways, even if they do not actually practice such management (Cliff et al.,
2005). Differences between the genders appear most notably in communication styles, but in
theory these differences would favor female managers. A study of managers engaged in
disciplinary discussions found that female managers take more time in discussions and are less
likely to interrupt the person they are talking to, factors which are positively correlated with
perceived fairness (Cole, 2004). These results suggest that “leadership and communication styles
commonly found in females may lead them to be better equipped than male managers to manage
One ingredient has the power to further disrupt and severely underscore biases about
women in the workplace: motherhood. When working women become mothers, their perceived
competence is almost always automatically traded for perceived warmth (Cuddy et al., 2004).
While new fathers also gain perceived warmth, it simply adds to their perceived competence, no
interest in hiring, promoting, and educating workers, their gained sense of warmth does not help
working mothers, but instead their loss in perceived competence can hinder them (Cuddy et al.,
2004, p. 711). Discrimination against mothers begins even before the child is born. Pregnant
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women are extremely susceptible to negative evaluations in the workplace, particularly when
evaluated by men (Halpert et al., 1993). Male supervisors and coworkers tend to view pregnant
women as “overly emotional, often irrational, physically limited, and less than committed to their
jobs. They are not seen as valued or dependable employees” (Halpert et al., 1993, p. 655).
Negative and warped evaluations of mothers are based not on actual substantive work, but
Men and women also differ in their perceptions of the world around them, which could be
related to the qualities that society associates with their gender. As detailed by Heilman’s (2004)
research, women are considered sympathetic and caring. This association seems to influence how
female leaders perceive their own power and goals. In a study of female politicians, Grant (1998)
found that while “politicians resembled their male colleagues in their willingness to fight for
their convictions, women saw power as an instrument for public purpose rather than as a tool for
personal ambition” (p. 60-61). Though female politicians may have a more communal intent in
seeking power, many evaluators do not think that power-seeking looks good on women. Voting
preferences for female politicians are negatively influenced by her actual or perceived power-
seeking intentions (Okimoto & Brescoll, 2009). Such perceptions of intent for power-seeking
have no impact on male candidates. Ironically, voters place the reasoning for their negative
Complicated feelings about women and power are not all that surprising, considering that
women are not often on the receiving end of power. Male-typed emotions such as confidence and
anger are positively associated with interpersonal and organizational power, female-typed
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emotions such as worry, fear, and vulnerability are negatively associated with both interpersonal
and organizational power. Researchers argue that the emotions most commonly associated with
men can be leveraged into power, while the emotions more readily associated with women can
actually translate into powerlessness in the workplace (Ragins & Winkel, 2011). As a result,
women typically have a more difficult time exerting influence in the workplace. While men have
more legitimate and expert power, the power women are most likely to have is referent power, or
power associated with influence, loyalty, and friendship (Carli, 1999, p. 94). The power that
women are most likely to gain is relative to norms of their gender, often resulting in power that is
Evident by research which shows that female candidates can be as successful as male
candidates when they participate in state legislative, statewide, and congressional elections,
voters might not necessarily be entirely biased against female candidates (Burrell, 1994). Some
voters even have preferences to vote for women over men. It seems that this predisposition is
based on stereotypes about the genders. Voters tend to believe, based on stereotypes, that
candidates might possess certain traits, beliefs, or competencies based on their gender. As an
example, consider that “voters perceive male candidates as better at handling crime and foreign
affairs, and female candidates as better at helping the poor and protecting women's rights”
assumptions about party affiliation. For both Democrats and Republicans, “politicians are
believed to differ by gender in perceived issue competency and issue positions” (Sanbonmatsu,
2009, p. 490). For women especially, their gender has major influence on perceptions, which
politicians.
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The literature clearly indicates that power and likeability can only be married by men.
Loyalty to gender norms is vital to likeability for both genders. Unfortunately for women, that
means that they should not act assertively or independently if they want to be accepted by their
peers. Ultimately, women must make a sacrifice: they can accept that they will not achieve
power in the workplace if they want to be likeable, or they can abandon gender norms for the
sake of gaining power – which might compromise their ability to rise. This study aims to
understand the relationship between the independent variables - gender and emotion, and the
Hypotheses
An examination of the existing research raises the following hypothesis about gender,
H1: Leaders who defy gender norms by exhibiting emotions that are not readily
associated with their gender are perceived as less likeable than leaders who support
Methods
Participants
university. The goal to recruit at least one hundred students, with the hope of obtaining both male
and female respondents. Students with work experience will be recruited through university
courses and organizations. Considering the average age of students at the university, the mean
age of participants will likely be 20 years old. Subjects will be emailed a link to a survey, with
instructions guiding their participation. It is possible that some instructors would be willing to
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offer their students extra credit for participation in the study, in which case the professor would
email the survey link to students with specialized instructions for students to receive course
credit.
Procedure
The introduction to the survey will inform the subjects that the study concerns the
evaluation of an organization’s leader in terms of likeability. The introduction will explain that
the participant will be reading about and reacting to the behavior of a leader in an organization.
Upon reading the instructions and confirming their consent, subjects will be randomly redirected
to one of four potential scenarios of leaders interacting with a group of subordinates in the
workplace. Each vignette will expose subjects to manipulations of two different levels of
independent variables, sex of the subject of the story (male or female) and their emotion (anger
or no emotion), to understand the dependent variable, likeability. The four vignettes will be
randomly assigned to participants, with each story being equally distributed among participants.
With one hundred overall respondents, each vignette would have twenty-five reviewers.
Following review of vignette, participants will be asked to give their opinions of the subject of
the story in a brief questionnaire. The vignettes, shared in Appendix A, begin with an
introduction of the subject. The beginning will reveal their gender (indicated by their name,
either Jane or John) and their position in the company. In all scenarios, the subject will be
described as an Assistant Vice President of Sales for an office supply retailer. The vignette will
describe the subject’s interaction with a group of subordinates. Two of the scenarios (one
featuring Jane and the other featuring John) will describe a subdued and inoffensive conversation
with updates and a review of the past quarter. The other two scenarios (one featuring Jane and
the other featuring John) will relay a heated interaction, with the story’s subjects very apparently
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displaying signs of anger. The calm scenario and the angry scenario will each feature the exact
same interaction of Jane and John, with just the names and pronouns being adjusted accordingly.
Per review of the vignette, participants will be redirected to a survey about the story. The
survey, included in Appendix B, will ask questions about the leaders’ management style and
likeability. The respondents will be asked to indicate their agreement with a list of statements
using a 7-point Likert scale. The survey provided is the Reysen likeability scale (2005), first
introduced in the Journal of Social Behavior and Personality. Manipulation tests will also be
included to ensure that the participant grasped the independent variables – the gender of the
subject and their mood. If a participant’s survey results indicate that they did not note these
variables, they will not be included in the study. In addition to survey included in Appendix B,
some additional demographic questions will be included. Information about the gender and age
of the participant may later serve purpose in further analyzing the results of the study.
Completion of the survey will mark the end of the participants’ involvement in the study. All
participants will have the contact information of the experimenter. If they are inclined, they can
reach out to learn more about the purpose of the study and manipulations used. Additionally, any
interested participants will be given access to the results following the completion of the study.
Instruments
For each of the four situations investigated in the study, a short, one paragraph story
describes a particular situation, with a 2 (subject’s gender: male vs. female) x 2 (subject’s
emotion: anger vs. no emotion) subject design. Stories marked by the two emotions have two
versions, one in which the Assistant Vice President of Sales is male and one in which the
Assistant Vice President of Sales is female. In every other aspect, the versions for both emotions
are identical. The sex of the subordinates in each story is ambiguous to avoid further
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manipulation of the story. The stories will be presented to study participants randomly, with an
emphasis to ensure that each situation is reviewed equally. Participants will only be subject to
one scenario.
Statistic Test
This study will use an ANOVA to analyze the relationship between the independent
variables, gender and emotion, and the dependent variable, likeability. This is a reliable measure
of the relationship between the variables, because it is a two by two subject design with nominal
independent variables. This type of test will also allow analysis of the strength of the relationship
Conclusion
The existing research underscores a clear conundrum for women in the pursuit of power.
Frankly, power and the characteristics that warrant power are limited to men. Women cannot
realistically balance likeability and authority, as loyalty to gender norms (which do not promote
assertiveness of any kind) are vital to likeability. The aforementioned research provides a helpful
and interesting basis to understand gender norms and how they impact power and the workplace.
The present study will contribute to the body of literature on the topic of gender, power, and
likeability. The results would likely corroborate existing theories on the dynamic of gender and
power.
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Appendix A
Woman x Angry
Jane, the Assistant Vice President of Sales for an office supply retailer, held a meeting with a
group of twelve of her subordinates. The group had to meet to review sales of the last quarter.
After sharing general company updates, Jane began the discussion of sales from the last quarter.
She told the group, “look, I expected better from you. These numbers are just way too low.
Where was your focus? You are supposed to be veterans at this company.” She sighed and got up
from her seat. Before she left the room she told the team, “I expect to see better results next
Man x Angry
John, the Assistant Vice President of Sales for an office supply retailer, held a meeting with a
group of twelve of his subordinates. The group had to meet to review sales of the last quarter.
After sharing general company updates, John began the discussion of sales from the last quarter.
He told the group, “look, I expected better from you. These numbers are just way too low. Where
was your focus? You are supposed to be veterans at this company.” He sighed and got up from
his seat. Before he left the room he told the team, “I expect to see better results next quarter, or
Woman x No Emotion
Jane, the Assistant Vice President of Sales for an office supply retailer, held a meeting with a
group of twelve of her subordinates. The group had to meet to review sales of the last quarter.
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After sharing general company updates, Jane began the discussion of sales from the last quarter.
She told the group, “sales this quarter were a little low, but I am not too concerned. The winter is
always a tough season for our sales and I anticipate that we will see a natural increase in the
coming months.” She went on to discuss figures and explain some new tactics for the team.
Before she left the room she said, “thanks for your hard work this quarter, I look forward to
Man x No Emotion
John, the Assistant Vice President of Sales for an office supply retailer, held a meeting with a
group of twelve of his subordinates. The group had to meet to review sales of the last quarter.
After sharing general company updates, John began the discussion of sales from the last quarter.
He told the group, “sales this quarter were a little low, but I am not too concerned. The winter is
always a tough season for our sales and I anticipate that we will see a natural increase in the
coming months.” He went on to discuss figures and explain some new tactics for the team.
Before he left the room he said, “thanks for your hard work this quarter, I look forward to
Appendix B