b. Enforced appropriately (i.e.,"I" messages, nonverbal, etc.) 2
c. Appropriate use of discipline (i.e., time-out, Glasser model) N/A
III. SMALL GROUP TECHNIQUES:
a. Effective modeling: 2
b. Open ended questions: 2
c. Counseling skills consistently utilized: 1. Reflection 2 2. Paraphrase 1 3. Nonverbal language 1 4. Eye contact 1 5. Positive reinforcement (equally distributed) 2 6. Minimized "teaching" 1 7. Summarization 2 IV. Self-Reflection: For this being my first small group ever, I thought it went very smoothly and my counseling skills were strong. One area to improve upon would be to form group rules more clearly at the very beginning and to always re-state them at the beginning of a new session. I felt like members of the group were so eager to share that introducing the topic was a little fumbled. If I could re-do the beginning of the group, I would think of a better way to have students introduce themselves because when I modeled this, I centered on my family which then made the students introduce their family structure, and that gave way to how/why the group was formed. My basic counseling skills remained strong throughout the group session. I did a very nice job of paraphrasing and reflecting. I kept “teaching” to a minimum and really let the students discuss the topic and share their experiences. My summary of the session could have been stronger, but I do think it was important to go over group expectations at the end before the students left the session. Since having the first small group session, each of the individuals have asked me when we get to meet again next, which has been a huge boost of confidence in having small groups. I plan to meet with this group every week until the end of the school year!
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