a a a el = enema esd me 6h AEE Eos te es memgtpei stint eter TRCN lg wg eect arenes se itges tet help an ie A cnr sre hes at os so oa ane py Eg ew We ‘och ne tent a ened eT eR Eee gn clam ES Se ne nd ey ay ae ah ae neenener ni Er en a ann Aig Sp a 8 Se S58 Sede hx manner wine EL Tt Sg ee ny ne ing cee aaj tae Ee Tn unease SIR ape nen cn Ey anata ade SAE ey ge SES testcase SES haters Sree apg ang Seater rsa pee inner i rae wo STE cuca et ese se Se gn me me Honor and Shame chapter of Wing Wormer’ Wo wrote aout a young woman wring her marge end the capes “Honora Stee ia share alae wel hough 1 ep erie Sociis—have een sien as a mechani forthe lof women. Arsccaing hor witha shane wth wren folks clr complex have gota tated womer leas ates pine Yr Kam, youne oman nhs hasbeen oso the boner hough modes) of slike el and gles his ody = pr er coll ey. Monn leu ers othe srmingy le es she ret mmo the ing args deed prado fon th her ligne the romantic mums xp opera ental Honor Sn Egypt he 1980 for» young Bedouin woman wa some fnonced by he es of ran Egyptians and se tothe of Inceasngly peru lami rou, tke o specie the very pou fan abrac ol dee “nr Ie thrown into queton by theres specty of Kars othe US. Egypt and ed ful 30,1989, Kamla wee to af Godt lle and Compson sme pemreto x a ste n,n lon hh teoaiatndancates etioned my brother anders aon of whore set) conveyer geting ad hw eyo and omy asthe one Americ fed fin they ba en years Av eveyone they knew about tn ty Hein Ameri 1 ad my sw that weal be ting mae ey She sed re sheseat thous congatulains al hope, Gok 3 odtnun who would unread me She hoped shat was nobleman, he Hs nl Aer, Uy alia telwould met hn soon. Ae wishing me many he scboys and xg) nd more resting, she gueeed fe pce of news om the oom the a Your ser Kans ts boo npg Enger an Stn, Ahi eee cold handy been. We hd teased Kamla bout him ever sine his mane eben foe ou ears ago a pospet. Ths wasthe match she scarey ‘red hopeeaherouldartage Not that sed ever mete young ma ‘hac macered was tha he was educated cae fom a fay tha eed chain galveston Shewoud cope heli Tera ved,« Me that annoyed here ony ope er aly male oe Sidr tan nies anna aise “ee lia as otto misthe scapopea, Whenshe nase, he sated i ecnusshe complained so muth, tha asked er athe summer ash to Eytan tne lkshon, andthe nes So tached painted to wate me a es on how young Bedouin women's Ines wee that alld her swear er mother rt fs aging and what of pst she hoped the Ald A commu to wh sole her and extend o ck wp a When aca ‘de belonged wold retunad whats wished they would abandon She ed phere re becoming lay sh, Kam, ke he ses prolyl me that her teacher had set for public an es on Aad “an wedds she ad wren n schoo! You can ace, nthe sed wor eres and the ands comments parentheses) she made as she read Adon, he utlines af te ne wold he hoped on by mang sof gine Iba Sl, nor and Ste a en eseing housework Now tht she had fined choat thehowse. With wo ster, he war espesible forthe coking, one day cut ofthe On another oft aye she ws in age ah them. She was oneal mcho the et othe tine etn, lle brother and ster were bathed. diesel, al out of oflundry colleen the back om tobe Sone whe there as Brfore she nd worn clean cathe or schol studied wth her rom ofherown, ndbeen gen fo sll des oom Spiess Her clans were vated wih dough and sono ot sd igh enough on he fia exams to secure place athe oe which hes highschool hd reoted er Shc had no pica and had gone to ths secondary scot only high chal was onthe lari of town, Her ules ha at schoo oro tbe nny age school. cha The Ect of Cts jon er mind Heresy conic weactsekolte eden Eee nd che ie dies ne tonto Te creme ofits ed ely ns Cage Delonge nto xt ampere say eh sere hatha i a a) Shes cen ard aio hth edo aes lowed The oes tole the bus enc ay ccomsanes kn aml web th es Se She cash sy, mo mater wat Even thy Sy se ww he ‘Whenstecame taps retry ate pan yuan earners ‘ead jor mara) se a Yodo usewe he ys Rome! ‘mpc, hing lah, nd pra eo ero a (ether eng au wang ond fer do hey gar pater li Sha ao do ce ke we ‘ete Nt ork wh ark Tiga ch were my a Frm rnd eg om) ssl tp and weve wh i wer kp and ston. When he na sua fre mater en ema Atco nat nl ahh ipo mee oh er ul ash ha age dt mae somthing ating TH ‘porta dg ashe tee oc ny ard fo ent) Shs ‘Teeter go ll tat hr res nud 2) myo aS ay ee ead of age at ar Ty example was, ofcourse, om her en experience. he econ he acooling guns the wahes oe es il er ot when sh ws no longer ie: Becase she ass ber patna pat up th the rcs nea suspon Aecisatons. She was Bre child wh ad ety on to gotoschool She warned inthe pbc tosh, sion he ce het herb neve rere her bn Janay avn rowng her brters boc. Aer et each aly eget eter ofl etlather mentand gotherpaes. Fromthenon, she came tthe top ther das og ot fer way jot. walk wh it. te wished to walk wth snl her brothers and mle cousins ul om. Thad recorded noes erate bore cutingoffw shout be was welcome Kasi from 167Dher bs rection when her ote old thr there ad be alo tol er ther ths cous had ined fm a he oy ‘pponted soo monitor. Kal ther hd en apn hs youngest, fot Karl a the school esto walk home wih Ret cvs day ‘henner tscool.proady predic hat son wuld come oy for Kamla, her cousin happened to pass by the hott ae soe the es, fatale his vero guestion hist nf of bet we The cho ha een win si othe carpal ts sues were oy vor tat he ad ever sald sch thing That ended relives and neighbors The seconds schol, thous, was about Uc "lamer vay Kamas ls fd only or Bedoula gaisthe esto the gs sere Eytan ro ove To gett ths doa she had wo walk ong od ARRANGED MARRIAGE Tsthowstpeopewho dot know be Sesaidak ated WA Berhad trap of Kank tok phe mitra marge: Cosme {own ooking nthe ight orl, Dts tl ad endure eal om Komi, “This was ope te Eada wal essing ‘oon dingy pes opposed to heating todo wh” Tier itive spon were href ape with. One at ha ome wie her moter arin Kara fling sens schosbook ogo ono apn ny mater, hove mth hee ph ‘hoy om a neighbor: Kamin bad dled. Tree hal bres he nln enn cheese See eae ee eee ae yh a nly woman hn (Grover the pcm yes Ar the bok soe hat eather had oop deletion This er nt oneshebad ake fom et cousin Fort, went ques cutie lays a wa ot nce er baer naioe alee ogame leds ws fap enone Schlsagee hse forall nay a om tf tnineniaadi esha i walls egy maaan) ‘he sts, he asked Ne Kama her mother wee ange when Kala uncle oder tater ted seen sec Kal walking home wh boy Her mother sid de shed been tin he stomach wh a fck She ad, ome, TH meet ‘ey i estopober and put er ihe ca? Why did the ton ae et Terri thee the cel uw be? beso aa frber, wy doen en da Kamla depicted women as powelesin decors about tlle to ve ero schol” adhere sme sis hast: ike et ante Katltod he ony sshe newt She sete problem bps of esiance o marlge arange for them by thes Laren She her sco yea of high school, Her nce a nt mane hero contin ofyoang women ke one who fad ben mated bro Kans her ter fad deed hedgers ght to may choc. Fos, ber Hore wth cmeone cle she had gone homeo er ae’ howe td did everthing he cool wo prevent he fom suing. for ex Provocation evra ocing er hs oven ber The fess came tothe owe he ac om er dort ad ero make th Hlored marae, espe pteral coins ay have lowed ot Shed eno escape, neatng oto ty outdoor under the es 90 ese erste Sabra, was wating Asker mth eke it aloe her nl exams hen, as we low, headed nerves ae 6 got her diploma. Now were ring to ge he he eet ‘Se was swalkinghome om achol Aro the rad oy seta own = fe wes mall ae ping the sme recon. Because she slvajs wale Wil ring atch ad ven Karla mora auton agent ber sd down, se noticed her el drive by aller he dpsed. He The Prophe, she would explain sy tai weg ‘tight o her fhe and ll hi, "Your dager was walling had ib ou have eve sen Second the i spe ber ona, ‘ebay "He ater had questioned fam eal then called in Kar sires ar supposed to ak her opnon, Kare sno soe ‘moter. he tum ha com o Kala And you kort how ups he be soueht.Aleady she las made it known throug oe ‘he dt me to asker abou Ka fet my "yes, no oF may ity hat she dos not wan to mary her cousin Sh the ‘ese nce came ane acted hero er ace ios fo her nape who tus heen lined yp wi hr at ene er thr, se si ving, Deven her He ake he hy she dil the caleslaions mace by his ate and uel sbow msn aj wlehone Pon hol wth heres an oe explained tha she chides - aaml ond of Sh the ike a rote” She ap er sterol ashi ot hem hing they went om wr They reach nto is poche {gute es caueter nba brogh ors Kamla smetine es Inn teteningtomake wash he hes and cept or le ais {Kal even jes with he meter 1 sen the woman gra Kal Sire he gd oe a cere or porcoreto enn ace {laa sake her gut schol Kamla roe fe easy hing she ‘howe defy, "Noun comet ie with you” ‘Worse i the cmp master that al ot it for Kama. ven er sanimother Mig hallsuppors her. Alough shes wo persade hit ‘Ganidughes the yrs of marrying cousin, Migs any th es SSastor waning what nothing ond will cme ofthis mathe thin ‘hefaalybeween children who ave own up other and sy they fe! ke sings Ths was oacy the kinda atch ste had sce eid + Joungbride She med Here wat Kamar Salar Kami ‘tnt mary him And Shas he wont amy Kans She ode ane Her unmared ganddsughier enjoy provoking igi byl: cousin marge They sy they want out marge omen who fray they can have ne les Theyre droog” ont aml cna ostt ‘Mig scolded et, "You slut What ti ug? You ype” Shader sien iy, "Dane he, cml Wha os ‘cousin agreed, “They eall uy. Nota handsome one among he. No ‘wellmary ower, Granda, phy or handsome ‘Kamla sok her ead “in marin an Egyptian Someone Her gndmerher one, “Yur ler wo ape tt ‘Kala gue her gandmother “Were jt lling eth you ose whit youll ys there ating nour hands, Grandin? Or my hers? Only ‘Goa knows what wil happen GENERATIONS Jn the ys, according to Kamla, 2 gl hd no sy he mater of wage bres a er sy comin, “hy tug egel shaa ecm with syhing bt hing and (Godan dro Inberknomensyess panacea To ‘eh i isha chal acetenda ar loc) Tey aot (Gow tte gsthadometing obeyed and neon thaw elgg me ono gl at so ad eg and ‘eto and ates uke ny ther psn ce th eth CM ne ‘Hoven pon al ed te ings) He aha onl cl etivies ltons.Ta y fat,r xane My fer acto nny Bt ont et hae oy ch ein) rice Wik it fd cg et engender weet constr seven the net seton al, he bred 4 per she ol nt show this ove, ower loge love Sh wa every ae hate ees Sar abot tect omc atop ora geliohve cen fin a Toy yt pen ee he igh youg wom os Tat ng lore espe wh ny man cepa beth eet ‘Af ar oer the Bede of ngs ne {Ihse Prampef hy meant he erin Bouter Ten aig fen here yt msi thn odie oy ang Bl fm Tae de wth 9) of ove and vocal of ings was ew. verse Had rm he aga wel oo, she ad been ough eg he roulay ober uncles new wie, "1do even kno what his Tow iti songs ad ss abot hi oe her necace ad that ot don kw wit they ae eng” Se sed tame het Nahe they gpd Ber and tae er about wich f her young ral grow up to mary by deta shouing Tm neve gang bene she wrote this essy se ha demande of her math, ae tomar? Does she ave owe someone tell her what her rune? remanbao may,her mathe had answered. “If se des. sy The poor hng™ Tad hanged Kamla nove gute rm ook she ha read at et raul a8 oo entered adolescence to begin thinking about ofthe oppose sex She amie tat such thigh never een mind vor Bat then had happened wasatbercosn selma tha sh a fit reveled ome te ew eerie she ad eg school Dung qui ped obey ble er cowed era ran the ld Sestered onthe re were Poups of 1 ws and es, ser who aly aw each ates, aunts ad her ends alo aking piel. at the dace sd 6rd ou, toward certain ease, sled te, "Wht do you think la? si wrong Or two people to cach teal ee ma pase, She tld dou Young,— hero agreto talk i, She had refused firs: Pally she greed ori Inetng ith ends present. He wanted to know she wo be wig > tray fim hep ahr to eqs her. Ste wonder here nas pe dat her father wold cep Rrowing the omy, xd I doubted ‘aly se war more relisie When wold who she wate 0 mary she wold ge rns anowere Se was adamaet bout bet cuss" they hk im ging oak any ofthese my oan, anyone Hor the aD, thee wong Then she woul deny that she eed wheter o a it wate tay eke rm echool. Te brother oe end Ash ald be jtetine Aslongastheman-wascdvested Barc he would) i801 {en porate well ede Bathe mate owed" The tas inert dirt ow anything thy wouldnt know now oon ther Dependent on ee atero ed, des, and mary he hs trot inapie of king ce of tems “Theyre men mae oly” she Sed She Blane her elder kis, especialy her lather, for her cous (atures. espe the dub sana in matersoltae hear, be acknomtedge that er cousins and her bres were Bag mos a ards ine dealing trier l-boned elders ae she wa ‘She hough the eles were mistaken to beso et withthe boy. They ‘wate the Bos to be aight bt all they wonld et ror appijing th Fresute was subbormese The premie, she wae, would produce the pose of wha they waoted She pve examples Then wort the boys ‘ly socer"Whatseongiwth ocr? Wrsexece" Ty won et ema "lev thy won et hem oto calen They sen permite oro ther Tair longo oo 0 the Ina elena where videos ae shown. The me" ‘ton event he bye os, making say on thelr ab nde ‘ew fig ces. Noting that her brothers and cousins hana esac) Kalo {ded "They ex them Uke gil only they would give the 2 Bo feed ‘THE DANGERS OF SCHOOLING ama think her elders are wrong ofr an abe of fedom. Her) desc what happened when bet generation began to got school: Mente aoa rege ar sree: pea ve lt mt [irs og udm cnc He nar ohh They et os ‘ha lear payor bec ees ‘omg anh Gere Tha) Nir a yoo pt ‘Sha ten fag end come en tee Aare ‘irom wn ct onl yw her “as

‘he Eiypan Gc Her Gv year-ago aod st Sted deny sth san Arab she spss Epa he ther por “You know: Aha say cao Kanla Egy ae i oll ono nd Shame EGYPTIANS, deity be mama afer schooling? Kana essy wok up press dos and cna sway. Poe ir won oo fash Uiporig own ce lant wav her er fend nadsy ten vhrfodaumy arg Flan foe Pace el poesia fee die finan crn phere set To nn rome hyena he tutor eran cde! od dono pric han og nd at 8 eld gr he banal iit rap ori Sc pote) So tempo ie ylang open nd css cou) an my ska The Beda fk fore oy nd reread ftp anna arom con Ca. hegnag nce Doo Hira bet a Weng te Spin eet Pnnhereng eu. yn ober ba commen boot her kth ges cue about what abate she moves bone home esate school un by Eaysan teachers ate enone the Aad Als lack oes naling equ Sat om the Sesh and chafe apne every goverment op his aces, Kamla pally defend Egypt sd speaks Present Mubarak Wheater confronted her or bog few rom ascool ise argued bac. He hen mlded hr for ang acd worn ber hace ssh spe. "Tht work Epi "hago fing es she answered Taman Egyptian. An heya pe and th he best cou ‘il cy go sofa inher deleose of Fyptins She on thet poorer taghboe who had heed smiang yin and had irene Aveidence oth immoraity sb close hat the women a togeer. Anwher ney teed Ged not much new no madesy she sid Aretdene he desided ow these Estes in tot fisher andthe young daughersn-tawether a wth ack header ade er athe In Be [ten more clei er commen, she underlined his die: Bedouin morality and Eayptan tmmory. tl weting boatstar ote hdr ge he per orc shea pt tele deo et fr mus hn aes her ma her ster dyer and et nr Ba Be Bin woman et ‘eth late thes on anda Nhe saa hese dte nh “dha hd arg het ey lain ho ‘arian ein oo ced edie ds ast crs road he prs Serer ah ean dong he ed cy egy mare forme I me, he he gh Ths iho od Ta igh Take a ated een pie ma fe eu Iver may on dtd on an ee nn Wy ger {sn hws bean ware at srs gs hls Ne ‘feu hat arog We mathe ade won Be nl we me ‘epost Yow nd lor teed ‘mang dager oo gh hele shew eon ‘rma eh pens pr et hen wl doe Nhe ‘oh wrong ebul vornateeon aly i eae Aeeghe Tey at et an pian Rash ein wm wat ar “Ahr Very ar doy pian har do ue Been ‘ean f dnd tg ory mast Mer ce Je et Joan Semashko rade ov de ar ion a ‘povrentbeen The yan dt dt and gion esto oat ve long reed onthe dllvences etweta Bedouin and ther pest vighns Onl ment ie the ins fa love sory aout awe Dasani and beni Bedoun ge named Khaw at smceieed, Drove had driven er fam iro his els a search of pasture for te herds. allowed them o yas ter sumal whe he sw Krad When hi blo ‘ne diy announced that he amy had died et ote dese, she {she ote with them, n dep he young man ansueed © Rhoda ces at hel yon dts "he ating but lesan owe wa wd mo ses et you ala: Dhaba had oes rected sho poem ona irs ‘masher conmen: when declined her pe sigan hat nay ete thal cool come ie wh her Thesorgcame, best, oma Zoya bl whol inlove wa carel and ed folate desert he ware Fhmthathe would east hms het ance ead nea ond dikersy dayand he dank ney ve days eid for here hd oly ‘ote day br She knew e couldn keep up wth er She tl Bi Kambtand Sabah younger esierwholoved eson Sheet her Inher was ong tot them ave 4 Ton Ao sb comet a et Ste o ns were moa shag hat Erp fis were diferent. Her ad ken nay the television se when he heat that the gels wee isn which people ge and se cach ee Me dna ny Heid wr shame Buttes imran ois he peri Bore the cer pth ate cen tough they hal ool doing alr Egy ls show how tego wen fw a athe ad riked and wed ber The npn pope oral lays became dear nthe end Ssser wondered anyway what here could be hekingwhenbe about his suger expos to thse things Reel, sheske, do we eve go! Nowhere bt his hose oe et ofthe ap where By, Whee dose hk these things could appent™ ahr fered the nee of Eypins onthe Bedoun oman pion wast the most serous problem the Bedouin ed wan abut nermatge beeen Bedours nd Eyplns ihe pst, no Ata, een the Spl aepted, wold ve is daughter tb pes a they ved cll al Egyptian nen the ra pny president Thiys were more dic now. Where blr tbe been almost comple Bedous excep ore Egypans racing win segons ke thes tha mere coe wo lange es, Expat iy perce of the population. rouble wh the Eaypean presence, he went om wash the Epi eo prey They ae esd ip, cmd out thi and wore “oop of Boo cers dot ee to cs wha do sromen who"walksround naked Thee concer state young ndthem tect and want toma thee, Theaters cous, to mak them lappy ad might age the young men mare i thee woud no loge be any aieence betwee Bedcu and i the next gneaon Kam’ the ha ware teers f ths hemetng eam, hh tha the ross would etd tha the boys sede gle m school. log be asad that fle right pick up ching fom Faypane—tke arming to have Tor expe, lich he Epping don ink wis set wes riage Thx would bong about hed bl Bos. en heey, on what apts Reon ke se nou eo Hr father wouldve been proud thet of poste fee 7 hn eronhngn els sr quai ad ee ya, at ras ud cht he ena ws wan) Te sesey nd er nr ee eee ‘haract drain hss den epee lays ‘he ee tga yar eet En ah cy en of en ‘ted ey pen cling, opted Throat iteman Nononca hana ad ower hth hone ‘died orc orth ser an, Ti at Th ‘men andl eer hn) 2 har repens Te espe ie yung eure he ‘i ter thy ae eae Sth eer tu Ys wt iain mth car eset of ‘ebelate Eero tine tant eran joa ena hah gas ope he ein) 1 Hepa od ee rhe 5 Theol apt nk vs af he fay nd he oper ‘eas lsat Tear rg ne hom ad mesa ‘nee hep oho retin, Frame oer ‘fy has rae dnt arse map pron om hay Bon “nage nomm Whey eda oman supa fo neh mos ‘eo phe Obersevametohe Ihe has mts ad Jims slew ahora a Sable be tay nr rent a Bont Bees men het ee hated athe ap Thay grand iat hay te Rh) hf Gl py Smet ye en nw ip prope {ho pram. ae wal ree ey file us of he Trp hye Pople we oe ia he Pope wd > at Tay re ‘fm hr hho eet ns) Ierestingly, Kala didnt hae choy abot any theron! ‘vines excep thes, ey. aloagh se wae vhemeh abate por tance, pers she coal ae afr oti through hp, tes proud ol heather pcr al bospay but wa a source! tenston sine dhe utde ledge many gues el onthe overwork ‘women oth household. And fhe wert nk abot how the eters reds berween kn ate to be maintained she wo be oad he vcs artigo patna cousins the kindof mage se wanted despre toad "ery wasadillrn mater ike many, Kara was cong defen 2 the ae of re pressure coming om the yates tothe lias inp She was comet pon out ow ep withthe ath her in were ‘Thy reckoned the months bythe Isl hiner eet, he Yas by he annual lous fas, age By thenuber of years a perion ete he ton f imadan andthe hart he ay by tebe esr prayer Al he ‘er women and ary ofthe younger ones payed relly Bog wt {he aoutremens of ey people, women sgy prayed mhee thy we ligated ying ow sal ere ome gout ele es vill ike Kala ater nded know mor. They would ave eared orate th Quran an hey comued tea fom theese a ‘ey Foy estos he sncimonious Egyptians and now some Bedouin Ges, who were becoming as hey ptt Tolower ete nde, the ie of he Prope, hve Been med The older women steno MThy argc ax Kamla delta hey we vay worn ede hing ihr ann seadlth They reve beng ld tht ome ofthe ve en devout Mist ae ean is more naire Somes she dled hes Molin Seer an sometimes se went along ath he ld Bouin wore they them One eering having rested sme pty and ome fale fr my bene Karla srt Ds red oer mead Kana Rave ou ge ils any songs” peescoy Tmo, tape person minding my Tm th Gn pues ow ny Lord” Iooted,pethaps thinking of Kamla Jove ofthe radio and vie grins Bat Kamla wen oly alsking "Ase ins don have anphing do mah song” ‘mocked her, "Whats ths? Youve Boome pos” Everyane theo aunt onined. "Gs besings G's lessngs! So. youre Beard Fomy™ as commotion, eerone talking t once abou the top ha was Thence dye te aris ease om itll Thy religous peopl, fllovng Gus pu the pa aver ™ fas hardly cominced Tovento Gat thy ve ncersea eaten byl Coty hough they should bermoe espe. Putshe aie, ay God hey dove thing hat apt neo. Doyen wt Oat ies out wet ye she says hey that he pr dlls ae wren, od We make to ceebnte the Prophets bia. Rain Me The or the bth ht the we nov ler 9 1 aun concured, “Have you ever heard of aig ie that worn wee cea moretewtet Once when aie fom the easing th evening conversion ure othe top these pes: She complained that they hal fore eebrations of day mcading he candy and meat exten ther. They tad adit 10 cll any balun “Sunt so-and's0” She sd “They have eerything Why the ex thing you kw they i th Cates sed make ws yo around mld then described tothe group guheed around her how hse people ‘She tol them about the we ofa Mas Deother caloo ‘rey Tuedaysheroon for any wean who waded oka The woman Wor {velba coreed her eod and ere. "acept forbereyes She moe ves {Niessdowntothe ground andshoes Asteid woran pat," ocks ke Seow” Kam showed ll her knowledge of rigon. Is wrong fra woman veils face What seid is tha yout head be coveted fs neo expose your hs, your fet and yur ce “Thee moran then commented onthe men “Tey al an around wh those bearde Why, Doctor Ahmed sicko ike th Ie aks Ie pu ta Kamla hao raise her voi to beard over he wd later “Ba Aue ‘beers raion of he Prophet ala had cone ome that she would ave edo replace her kere wate new blame headovenng ut she wa aid ely would oes photograph ler wah eshool friends eee that shew the oly oe among them nt weang the ew modest ess. Yer Kam rice me eral who wore thistyp of hing bat added Hows and ml cred endive: Shes thi eli teacher Pad gen then 3 vealling to and had confsted thet flowers and headands esi You want oak onthe vei dot sexy” Kamla said she woul opt hs ‘devel God opens the may fore and getty someone eae ‘ANEW ORDER ‘Theil par of Karey aso hive een about wha she hoped wou hangs in er community. I She fd wrt, hough a his ‘Asoo ad hg wa a hoe he, She ead thal sentence an ok ame “What ae te wrong wish ih Redouins would finch wih Te aleady dacuieed thee, Fr th ees soup They retoully meanngles and wrong Lwishthey wool se et ‘he opportunity tpt ede. Thy se er sa wert bing. You kno ‘he “Another thing wis thar they wou et hele coms and tats rnetherto sack an extent ht hy beet the casos ey pple ie wrongad teint Whenever thy see hata pr educa, Syheswrong, weve ght niehthey woud respecte ects. wish he ‘ould preserve ther cstoms and trons ut he ne ved. ‘ho gesto schon! dos fre et cam td eds no mateo ese she becomes Een ifshe gosto Europea Arey, he edo tillpreseveRercustons and wadtons They shold pe et ote eed “ote thing wish that hey woul et ore PANES wh Uy iin inetenanceeei pita isle order inter Wes. Among Bouin, der comply a every sre of ther seein terms of food nang to may rin the way theyre them-—theres no order the house pens carton aka wha nla ncn by “ode She pve roe close ohome “Sy youve x mobretherr ing mone hae. ised thee es they'd pt exch one ns nm outed the Btearyng more than coe viet wa they cage it views. the bgae sn The Propet is ot lode the Propet Ifyou sn wet hem ly. Bats ran cance done. 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Tas [mene say, No, thee showld be order Ahad etd Kissell oder Lsingn veel ol weny ofwhor ar anderen yard can chanced op, Karla sy. "Tis est a he, sa bedi etation shes her eased tet other caingher Sathya the rae character ina famy panning alverincmenomlvsson Shy ws 0 mary chen. ner lap om her soulers, om her esd — to draw water or lk the cow thy bed allover her a he, Gest would plop "We can changethewsy wee” es youn, she ued to come her school acu pong 1 mare an Egy doctor and only hae one hl het she was png ve only wo ce, Doh anges, She iveslone house with et hasan, at the te hem saschaeon men mk women wrk har nd dn py atenon tthe. En ‘iny al hey ot ie fingertip noe even to pck wp acy by Fagplan met ip their wives eet tem and re them well. When ‘oh younger str echoing ats, acaced Eine of bangs “an mot olin ood to ther gets, Kamla defended them to sper er forte there. She rgd tht they jo dl thing ip a panel ane they spec meal ime, uke whe Bedouin who brought out fos whenever anyone topped by Kamla confess that se long to wo words Wie sites and ‘oun healed soa the tg they ew, ot ting on tht se wae aieren Bathe were 5 ony tings se cou tk to her shoo ens thot that she could ne ak swt with tom things ike pois. Sometimes ‘heseemedtoacrp her dole ie wihesuaniny When naw her sping sth erat ne dy. ase, “Hy Kamla so you know hwo p00?” She Tad bnighed "Yes, an go eer way If ars ou Tm 0 be ied Td tha Ad ft ums util be a Bedouin, TH now how” "When suggested she might be lonely ishe moved into abou of er own she was sara °No, Iwo is them at al” Yet thie someone who Secly proud of er ar or ing an mporaneman eho e eeroe rt lous Despeecasional confrontations, she spends, ie et ster, na ‘ery evening ting le to her mother and lking Even er boo of te "Sling only somtines dts er cay The youngest she an rarely es ‘gabtng hug Delighed by ths two year-ldseey new aecomplishnen, ‘he whispers new wordsin heer and Kesher when she rat th ‘oof the time, hough se sys se wane so er ot Terry a0 alse confidence hate the ey wl be so mach beer Tsay Trt ber escesmen of Hein momen es, Langa eth Kamla hte ‘beste ores the sess of thir eaonsip andthe way they ve ‘lays sige ck (and were expected). er own ie evidence. 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