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ABSTRACT
Previous research has demonstrated attachment-schematic
processing of attachment-related stories when attachment-
related memories are activated before exposure to a story.
This study investigated the possibility of obtaining attach-
ment-schematic processing without the activation of attach-
ment-related memories. Undergraduate participants provided
attachment style self-ratings and several weeks later read
either a positive or negative version of a friendship story.
After a distractor task, they took a recall test about the story.
Secure and fearful attachment ratings were positively associ-
ated with recall of focal story events, relative to peripheral
story details, when participants read the negative story.
However, secure attachment was associated with recall of
focal events involving the friends’ joint activities, whereas
fearful attachment was associated with recall of those involv-
ing their separate activities. These and other results are dis-
cussed in terms of attachment-related models of self and
other.
The author is grateful to Gavin Malcolm whose patience in the construction of stimulus
materials and coding of story recall helped bring this study to fruition. Thanks are also due to
Evelyn Leung for her independent coding of story recall and to the anonymous reviewers for
their constructive and helpful suggestions on an earlier version of this manuscript. Address
correspondence to Judi Beinstein Miller, Department of Psychology, Oberlin College,
Oberlin, OH, USA. [E-mail: judith.miller@oberlin.edu].
Journal of Social and Personal Relationships Copyright © 1999 SAGE Publications (London,
Thousand Oaks, CA and New Delhi), Vol. 16(6): 773–801. [0265–4075 (199912) 16:6; 010454]
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Of particular relevance to the present research are results from Miller and
Noirot’s study (1999) of attachment style correlates of story encoding. In
this study, memories of supportive and rejecting experiences in close
relationships were expected to activate attachment-relevant material in
memory and affect the encoding of subsequent attachment-related infor-
mation. The four attachment styles defined by Bartholomew (1990) —
secure, dismissing, preoccupied, and fearful — were used to reflect the
beliefs that secure and insecure individuals have about themselves versus
the significant others in their environments (Bowlby, 1973).
Undergraduates provided self-ratings on each of these attachment styles
and several weeks later were randomly assigned to write an account of
either a supportive or rejecting friendship experience to activate their
attachment beliefs. Half then read a story in which the main character
experienced an equal number of positive and negative events in a close
friendship. After reading the story they solved a set of figural analogies and
then responded to a cued recall test about the story. The other half read the
story after solving the analogies, but before writing their friendship
accounts.
Results from this experiment provided evidence that the activation of
attachment-related memories would influence story encoding and that the
nature of their influence would depend on participants’ attachment styles.
The more fearfully attached the participant, the better he/she recalled
negative focal events from the story when either supportive or rejecting
memories had been activated. The more securely attached the participant,
the better he/she recalled positive focal events, but only when rejecting
memories had been activated. These results occurred when attachment-
related memories were activated before rather than after the story and
therefore supported an attachment-schematic encoding hypothesis. Their
asymmetry could have been caused by differences in accessibility of attach-
ment beliefs between the securely and fearfully attached. As suggested by
Simpson and Rholes (1994), attachment beliefs might be easier to activate
among those who are chronically concerned about their relationships, and
fearfully attached individuals are by definition chronically more concerned.
Benign attachment memories might be sufficient to activate their attach-
ment beliefs, whereas more threatening, negative memories might be
required to activate the beliefs of the securely attached.
This experiment also provided evidence that the activation of attach-
ment-related memories could influence the processing of attachment-unre-
lated information and that the nature of their influence would depend on
participants’ attachment styles. Scores on the figural analogies test were
positively associated with dismissing attachment and negatively associated
with fearful attachment, when participants’ memories of rejection had been
activated before the story and test. These results are consistent with prior
research in which participants with dismissing attachment styles have been
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better able to suppress negative relationship memories than have those with
more consciously anxious styles (Fraley & Shaver, 1997). They are consis-
tent with prior research in which anxious attachment and perceptions of dif-
ferences in conflict responses were negatively correlated among study
participants who had previously written accounts about rejecting relation-
ship experiences (Miller, 1996). Results from this study thus provided evi-
dence for attachment-related allocation of information processing resources
as well as for attachment-schematic encoding of attachment-related infor-
mation when attachment beliefs are activated. However, the results also
raise three questions, addressed by the present study, about the contexts of
information processing in which attachment style effects can be obtained.
Research questions
The present study addressed these three questions: (i) eliciting attachment-
schematic information processing without priming, (ii) the cognitive mech-
anism that elicits attachment-schematic information processing, and (iii)
the nature of the stimulus that is subject to attachment-related information-
processing biases — by changing three aspects of Miller and Noirot’s
experimental design. To determine whether attachment-schematic encod-
ing could be obtained without activating attachment-related memories,
participants were asked to read and recall a friendship story, but were not
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Method
Participants
There were 182 undergraduates from an introductory psychology course who
participated in return for partial course credit. Of the 179 who provided com-
plete information about their attachment style, 78.2 percent were Caucasian,
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8.4 percent were African-American, 6.1 percent were Asian, 3.4 percent were
Latino, and 3.9 percent were of other ethnic backgrounds. Of the participants
with complete attachment information, there were 35 males and 58 females
who read the positive story and 29 males and 57 females who read the negative
one. Most (82%) were first-year students. Their romantic relationship status
was not ascertained. Participants provided information about their attachment
styles early in the semester and 2–4 weeks later participated in the experimen-
tal session. They were tested in groups of 20 to 30.
Pretest materials
Early in the semester, participants rated themselves on Bartholomew and
Horowitz’s (1991) four attachment prototypes using 5-point Likert scales (1
strongly disagree to 5 strongly agree). Participants rated themselves on the
prototypes instead of selecting the single prototype that best represented their
style because individuals commonly develop multiple attachment relationships
that can create different attachment expectations (Baldwin et al., 1996; Bowlby,
1969). Within this sample, only 45 percent had a single attachment style, as
defined by ratings of 4 on one prototype and ratings of 3 on the other pro-
totypes. Twenty-seven percent had multiple attachment styles, as defined by
equally high ratings above 3 on two or more prototypes. Another 13 percent
rated two or more prototypes above 3 but not equally high, thereby indicating
moderately strong secondary styles, and the remaining 14 percent rated each of
the prototypes at 3, thereby indicating moderately undifferentiated attach-
ment expectations.
Of those participants who rated one style highest, 43 percent designated
themselves as secure, 12 percent designated themselves as dismissing, 20 per-
cent designated themselves as preoccupied, and 25 percent designated them-
selves as fearful. This distribution is consistent with Brennan, Clark, and
Shaver’s (1998) figures for a sample of 1086 undergraduates, which were 46, 15,
16, and 23 percent, respectively.
Mean ratings for secure, dismissing, preoccupied, and fearful attachment
were 3.01 (SD 1.29), 2.80 (SD 1.18), 2.73 (SD 1.36), and 2.78 (SD
1.48), respectively. As indicated in Table 1, there was a moderately strong
negative correlation between secure and fearful attachment ratings and a small
negative correlation between dismissing and preoccupied attachment ratings.
Secure attachment ratings also had small negative correlations with dismissing
and preoccupied attachment ratings.
tary school. In third grade they worked on a science project together, and
Sara/Scott, because both of her/his parents worked full time, went to
Emily’s/Eric’s house every day after school. In fifth grade they helped organize
an activities carnival, but each worked on a separate activity. After elementary
school they became involved in separate curricular activities and Sara/Scott
developed another friendship with someone else. But when they were seniors
in high school they took a trip to Florida and spent a lot of time doing things
together. Their last meeting had been before Sara/Scott left for college, and at
that meeting they reminisced and thought about the future.
There were eight focal episodes in the story and a variety of peripheral details
that provided additional information but were not essential aspects of the story.
An example of a peripheral detail would be the name of the music group that
the friends listened to on their road trip or the name of a movie that the friends
saw together. Focal events involved their joint activities, such as their interac-
tion over the science project, and/or their separate activities, such as their devel-
opment of separate extracurricular interests after elementary school. Two
versions of the story were written, one in which the focal events had positive
outcomes (positive story condition) and the other in which the outcomes were
negative (negative story condition). For example, the positive version of the
grade school project depicts the friends joking about their project and having a
good time, but the negative version depicts them arguing about their project
and having a miserable time. Thus participants read about a main character,
Emily/Eric, who experienced either uniformly positive or uniformly negative
outcomes largely because of her/his friend, Sara/Scott. A copy of the negative
version, which elicited more attachment-schematic recall than did the positive
version, is appended. Participants were given 7 minutes to read the story.
For the figural analogies task, 20 problems were selected from Thorndike
and Hagen’s Cognitive Abilities Tests (1971, 1974). Participants were given 9
minutes to solve the analogies and told not to worry if they could not complete
them all.
After the figural analogies task, the test packets were collected and a cued
recall test about the story was administered. Participants were given 15 minutes
to answer the questions as precisely as they could. Twenty-five questions were
about the focal events and 13 were about the peripheral details. Of the ques-
tions about the focal events, 9 were about the friends’ joint activities or feelings
(e.g., How did things in Sara’s/Scott’s and Emily’s/Eric’s relationship change
after elementary school?) and 16 were about their separate activities or feelings
(e.g., How did Emily/Eric feel about Sara’s/Scott’s relationship with
Amy/Alex?), 9 about Emily’s/Eric’s and 7 about Sara’s/Scott’s.
Analytic procedures
Scoring of the recall test was conducted by giving 2 points for each correct
answer, 1 point for partially correct answers, and 0 points for incorrect answers.
An independent coder scored one-fourth of the tests. Coding agreement was
94.7 percent, Cohen’s .91.
Four recall scores were computed for use in subsequent analyses, the pro-
portion of total recall (0–76 points) as a result of memory for focal events (0–50
points), and proportions for the three types of events that constituted the focal
events, the friends’ joint activities (0–18 points), Emily’s/Eric’s separate activi-
ties (0–18 points), and Sara’s/Scott’s separate activities (0–14 points). A fifth
recall score, the proportion of total recall because of memory for both friends’
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TABLE 1
Intercorrelations of study variables
Results
ses, especially in the supplementary analyses that included the effects of parti-
cipant sex. Consequently, the subsample was purer than the total with regard
to a single attachment style but not as pure as it could have been.
TABLE 2
Regression of the proportion of recall caused by memory for focal events
TABLE 3
Regressions of the proportions of recall caused by memory for the friends’
joint activities
while controlling for the effects of participants’ other attachment styles, were
.29 (p .05) in the negative condition and .20 (ns) in the positive condition.
The effect of dismissing attachment, however, was close to zero. The total
(adjusted) variance predicted from this analysis was comparable to that for the
total sample. Results from both analyses are thus consistent with predictions
based on attachment-related attention to different types of activities in the
story, in this case, that secure attachment would be positively correlated with
recall of friends’ joint activities, relative to other story details.
TABLE 4
Regressions of the proportions of recall caused by memory for both the
friends’ separate activities
TABLE 5
Regressions of the proportions of recall caused by memory for Sara’s/Scott’s
separate activities
attachment ratings and recall, while controlling for the effects of participants’
other attachment ratings, were .29, p .05, in the positive condition and .16,
ns, in the negative condition. The total predicted (adjusted) variance increased
from 6 percent in the total sample to 13 percent in the subsample. These effects
are also consistent with predictions based on attachment-related attention to
different types of activities in the story, in this case that fearful attachment would
be positively correlated with recall of the friends’ separate activities, relative to
other story details. The fact that the effect was obtained primarily in the nega-
tive condition provides evidence for attachment-schematic encoding as well.
The regression of recall proportions for Sara’s/Scott’s separate activities
yielded two attachment main effects and one interaction effect in the total
sample. As indicated in Table 5, secure and dismissing attachment ratings were
each negatively associated with recall. A fearful attachment condition inter-
action indicated a negative effect of fearful attachment ratings in the positive
condition that was eliminated in the negative condition. Correlations between
fearful attachment ratings and recall, while controlling for the effects of par-
ticipants’ other attachment ratings, were .25, p .05, in the positive con-
dition, but .12, ns, in the negative condition.
In the analysis of the subsample, the main effect of secure attachment was
obtained again, but the main effect of dismissing attachment was smaller than
for the total sample and statistically non-significant. This analysis, like that for
the total sample, also yielded a fearful attachment condition interaction.
Correlations between fearful attachment ratings and recall, while controlling
for the effects of participants’ other attachment ratings, were .31, p .05, in
the positive condition and .22, p .10, in the negative condition. However, the
two analyses predicted comparable variance in recall proportions for
Sara’s/Scott’s activities.
In the analysis of recall proportions for Emily’s separate activities, there was
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TABLE 6
Regressions of the proportions of recall caused by memory for Emily’s/Eric’s
separate activities
only one attachment main effect obtained for the total sample. Fearful attach-
ment was positively associated with recall (See Table 6).
The analysis of recall proportions for Emily’s/Eric’s separate activities
yielded a different result in the subsample. The addition of attachment con-
dition interaction effects for secure, preoccupied, and fearful attachment
together indicated that fearful attachment ratings were positively associated
with recall in the negative condition, but not in the positive condition, and that
there was a similar trend for secure attachment ratings. Correlations between
fearful attachment ratings and recall, while controlling for the effects of par-
ticipants’ other attachment ratings were .39, p .05, in the negative condition
but .07, ns, in the positive condition. Correlations between secure attachment
ratings and recall, while controlling for the effects of participants’ other attach-
ment ratings were .24, p .10, in the negative condition, but .11, ns, in the
positive condition. Comparable correlations for preoccupied attachment
ratings were only .14, ns, in the negative condition and .19, ns, in the positive
condition. The total (adjusted) predicted variance was 12 percent, in compari-
son to 8 percent for the full sample. Results for the subsample thus suggest that
fearful attachment was associated with attention to Emily/Eric primarily when
he/she experienced negative outcomes, a result consistent with attachment
schematic encoding as well as with predictions about attachment-related atten-
tion to different types of activities in the story. The similar trend for secure
attachment was not predicted.
TABLE 7
Regression of figural analogies scores
ratings, were .26, p .05, in the negative condition and .20, ns, in the positive
condition. Correlations between fearful attachment ratings and test scores,
while controlling for the effects of participants’ other attachment ratings, were
.29, p .05, in the positive condition and .05, ns, in the negative condition.
Comparable correlations for preoccupied attachment ratings were .27, p
.05, in the positive condition and .01, ns, in the negative condition. Results for
the subsample thus indicated that the positive story was distracting for partici-
pants with preoccupied and fearful attachment styles because it appeared to
interfere with their subsequent problem-solving. In contrast, it was the negative
story that appeared to distract participants with dismissing attachment styles
because their subsequent problem-solving suffered in the negative condition.
Supplementary analyses
Because women often report greater intimacy in friendships than men do
(Canary, Emmers-Sommer, & Faulkner, 1997), and might therefore assimilate
related information better than men, the effects of participants’ sex were also
examined. Although females had slightly better total recall for story events
than males did in the total sample, they did not differ from males on any of the
recall proportions (See Table 1). In the subsample, females also had better total
recall than males did (r .23, p .01), but but did not differ on any of the
recall proportions.
Participants’ sex, condition sex, attachment style sex, and attachment
style condition sex interactions were also added to the main analyses of
recall proportions. Participant sex, dummy coded for male, was entered in the
first step with all other main effects, all two-way interactions were entered in
the second step, and all three-way interactions were entered in the third step.
In subsequent steps, all statistically non-significant three-way interactions were
removed, followed by all statistically non-significant two-way interactions.
These analyses did not change the results reported earlier and yielded only one
statistically significant attachment style sex interaction for the total sample.
In the analysis of memory for Sara’s/Scott’s activities, a negative regression
coefficient was obtained for the preoccupied attachment sex interaction
term, which provided the added effect of preoccupied ratings among males
(standardized
.40, p .05). A positive, but statistically non-significant,
coefficient was obtained for the effect of preoccupied ratings among females
(standardized
.11). Correlations between preoccupied attachment ratings
and recall of Sara’s/Scott’s activities, while controlling for the effects of partici-
pants’ other attachment styles, condition, and the fearful attachment con-
dition interaction, confirmed the difference in effect. The correlation was .27,
p .05, for males and .11, ns, for females. In the subsample, however, this inter-
action effect was not statistically significant (standardized
.13).
Correlations between preoccupied attachment ratings and recall, while con-
trolling for the effects of participants’ other attachment ratings and condition,
were .15, ns, for males and .02, ns, for females.
To determine whether attachment-related information processing biases
extended to the entire story, total recall scores were regressed on condition,
attachment ratings, participant sex, and their interactions as described earlier.
Only two effects were obtained in the analysis of the total sample. As indicated
previously, males’ total recall scores were significantly lower than females’
(standardized
.22, p .01). Also, a preoccupied attachment condition
interaction effect (standardized
.40, p .05) indicated a negative effect
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of preoccupied attachment ratings in the positive, but not in the negative, con-
dition, as can be demonstrated with partial correlations. The correlations
between preoccupied attachment ratings and total recall, while controlling for
the effects of participants’ other attachment ratings, were .25, p .05, in the
positive condition but .06, ns, in the negative condition.
In the analysis of the subsample, the preoccupied attachment condition
interaction effect was not statistically significant (standardized
.26, ns).
Nevertheless, correlations between preoccupied attachment ratings and total
recall scores, while controlling for the effects of participants’ other attachment
ratings, continued to show a negative trend in the positive condition.
Correlations were .23, p .10, in the positive condition and .00, ns, in the
negative condition. In addition, the analysis for the subsample yielded a main
effect of secure attachment. The more secure the participant, the worse was
his/her recall.
Discussion
Results from this study provide intriguing answers to the three research
questions that guided the investigation. The first question concerned the
possibility of obtaining attachment-schematic processing of a friendship
story when attachment-related memories were not deliberately activated.
Consistent with an attachment-schematic encoding hypothesis, fearful
attachment appeared to enhance the processing of focal events, relative to
all other story details, when the story was negative. This information pro-
cessing advantage occurred primarily because of the processing of infor-
mation about the friends’ separate activities, especially those of the main
character. As will be indicated below, the apparent tendency for fearful
attachment to facilitate the processing of information about the friends’
separate activities can be interpreted as one form of attachment-schematic
information processing.
Secure attachment also appeared to enhance the processing of focal
events, relative to all other story details, when the story was negative, but
this result is inconsistent with an attachment-schematic encoding hypothe-
sis. According to an attachment-schematic encoding hypothesis, secure
attachment should have been positively related to recall of focal events
from the positive rather than from the negative story. One reason for this
inconsistency could be the failure of the positive story to activate partici-
pants’ attachment beliefs uniformly. According to attachment theory, the
attachment system is activated primarily by threatening circumstances, and
the attachment beliefs of individuals with fewer attachment concerns are
thought to be more difficult to activate than those of individuals with more
numerous and frequently troublesome concerns (Simpson & Rholes, 1994).
Securely attached individuals are by definition those who have fewer unre-
solved attachment concerns. If the negative rather than the positive story
activated their attachment beliefs then their attention could have been
attracted to one or another types of negative events only. The finding that
the positive association between secure attachment and recall of focal
events from the negative story occurred because of superior recall of the
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friends’ joint activities rather than their separate activities might also be
interpreted as one form of attachment-schematic information, as will be
discussed shortly.
Consistent with Miller and Noirot’s (1999) research, dismissing and pre-
occupied attachment styles were not associated with recall of focal details
from either the positive or negative story. Dismissing attachment appeared
to enhance recall of the friends’ joint activities and to limit recall of the
partners’ separate activities in the total sample, but this effect was not
obtained in the subsample of participants who did not have multiple attach-
ment styles and could therefore have resulted from competing attachment
expectations. Preoccupied attachment was not associated with enhanced
recall of any focal events but, instead, appeared to interfere generally with
the processing of the positive story. One reason for this result might be the
desires of preoccupied individuals for excessive closeness. These desires
could have been activated by the positive story and competed for infor-
mation-processing resources. The absence of a negative correlation in the
negative story condition could reflect greater attention to the negative
story, which compensated for distraction. The fact that preoccupied attach-
ment had a negative effect on figural analogies scores, and the fact that this
effect occurred primarily in the positive condition among participants
without multiple attachment styles, is consistent with the possibility that
attachment concerns could have used up information-processing resources
of preoccupied participants who read the positive story. This explanation is
also consistent with previous findings that unsuppressed anxious attach-
ment, when activated by prior relationship concerns, can interfere with the
processing of both attachment-related and attachment-unrelated infor-
mation (Miller, 1996; Miller & Noirot, 1999). It is consistent as well with the
negative effect of fearful attachment on figural analogies scores in the posi-
tive condition among participants without multiple attachment styles.
Dismissing attachment also had a negative effect on figural analogies
scores among participants without multiple attachment styles, but this
effect occurred in the negative rather than in the positive condition and is
inconsistent with previous research results. Miller and Noirot (1999)
reported a positive association between dismissing attachment and figural
analogies scores among participants whose negative attachment-related
memories had been activated. They attributed this effect to dismissing indi-
viduals’ superior ability to suppress negative relationship experiences, pro-
viding them with more resources available for problem-solving. Results
from this study are inconsistent with that idea unless the ability of dismiss-
ing individuals to suppress negative relationship information applies only
to their own experiences. It is also possible that the negative story did not
activate their attachment-related beliefs. If individuals with dismissing
attachment styles have superior ability to suppress attachment-related
experiences, then it would be particularly difficult to activate their attach-
ment systems. The negative story might have instead been distasteful and
reduced their interest in subsequent activities associated with the study
(i.e., the figural analogies test). Results for preoccupied and dismissing
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Appendix
Emily was relieved to have her own project because the third grade
science fair project had been a lot of stress. Both of the girls worked very
hard on their activities and looked forward to the carnival. Everyone who
attended the carnival enjoyed the activities that the girls organized. Emily
had set up activities like storytelling, poetry reading, and a writing work-
shop. Sara had set up a basketball and a softball game. At the carnival,
Sara was disappointed with her own project because Emily’s had been so
creative.
After elementary school, the relationship began to falter in trust because
Sara was spending so much time with the soccer team. Emily was not on the
team because she had joined the Academic Challenge team. They only saw
each other at Mr Chicken, where they both worked, and argued whenever
they were together. In seventh grade, Sara became close with Amy, a girl
from the team. It wasn’t long before Sara introduced the two. Emily
remembers that weekend in particular. She and Sara were planning to see
‘Back to the Future’ at the Cinema 8. Sara called Emily in the afternoon to
ask if Amy could join them. Emily was disappointed, but did not tell Sara.
Emily said that she would meet them on the corner, outside the theater.
When she arrived at the movies, there were Amy and Sara, already in line.
Emily was late but was hurt that they had not waited. She ran up to join
them in line. She met Amy and found her to be outgoing and very smart.
She was very jealous of Sara.
Emily looked down at her watch and realized that the plane was already
fifteen minutes late. She tried to remain calm and collected but couldn’t.
She was really nervous at the thought of seeing Sara again. She looked
around at the other gates to distract herself. She noticed a group of pas-
sengers arriving from Orlando. There was a sunburned woman with two
little girls, a business man carrying a brown briefcase, and a family with five
kids coming off the plane. This made her think of the road trip that she and
Sara took on spring break of their senior year of high school. Sara and
Emily both wanted to take a trip to Florida, but could not afford the air-
fare. Emily’s parents were not very pleased with the thought of Sara and
Emily ‘experiencing life’ in Daytona for a week, but they agreed the girls
could go if Emily could earn the money herself. Emily and Sara spent a lot
more time working at Mr Chicken and less time with their extra-curricular
activities in order to raise the money. They had a terrible time because of
the fact that it was work. They raised the money and Sara’s parents lent
them their minivan to drive to Florida. They packed their clothes and beach
stuff, CDs and tapes, and junk food and sodas into the van and departed
early on a Saturday morning. It was an 18-hour drive, so they split it up into
two days. They stopped every couple of hours to snack and to take a break
from each other; the girls never realized how stressful it would be to drive
so far together. Sara made Emily listen to The Beatles over and over until
they both could sing every lyric to every song. On the road Sara and Emily
talked a lot. They argued about topics like abortion, religion, and the
future. It made them feel distant to understand each other’s different ideas
about these topics.
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Emily told Sara she wasn’t sure exactly what she wanted to do with her
life yet, but was thinking about something in music or writing. She told Sara
that she planned to stay home for a year to earn some money and to decide
what college she should go to. Sara said that she thought Emily’s plan was
pragmatic because college is so expensive and those majors could be very
useful someday. Emily felt like Sara was talking down to her. Sara then told
Emily that she really wanted to be a doctor and that the University of
Michigan was definitely the place for her next year. Emily felt inadequate
to know that Sara had such a good idea about her future.
On September 2, Sara and Emily spent their last time together before
Sara left for college. They hung out at Sara’s house and argued about old
times. Emily was sad, because she knew that she and Sara would not see
each other for a while. She was envious because she knew Sara would meet
a lot of new interesting people at college. Emily was also unhappy to know
that Sara would have very different experiences at college than Emily
would have at home. This made her regret her decision to stay home
because they would not have a lot to talk about. Sara did not look forward
to all the new experiences she would have. Before Emily went home, she
and Sara agreed to stay in touch by e-mail. Emily didn’t think that they
would.
Emily heard a flight being announced over the intercom. It was Sara’s.
By now, her flight was forty minutes late. Emily knew that any minute she
would be seeing Sara again and was very apprehensive. Emily looked into
the crowd of arriving passengers. So many were smiling and looking around
eagerly, probably for friends or family who were supposed to meet them,
but there was Sara, with a frown, walking towards her lugging two big,
green bags. Emily thought to herself, ‘not much has changed’.
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CALL FOR PAPERS
on Narratives In and About Relationships
A special issue of the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships
will be dedicated to research using narrative methodologies to study
interpersonal relationships. The special issue will highlight recent
methodological advances in the use of narratives to understand how
individuals find relevance in dyadic and group relationships (includ-
ing family relationships), which in turn may be related to relational
well-being. Authors must clearly address the theoretical rationale for
using narratives to study relationships as well as provide substantial
documentation of their methods. Preference will be given to em-
pirical studies, although theoretical papers may be considered.
Manuscripts will be peer-reviewed, consistent with policies of the
journal. Questions regarding the issue may be directed to
Barbara Fiese, bhfiese@psych.syr.edu or Harold Grotevant,
hgrotevant@che2.che.umn.edu. Submissions are due no later than
February 1, 2000. Six copies, prepared in APA style, should be sent
to Barbara H. Fiese, PhD, 430 Huntington Hall, Department of
Psychology, Syracuse University, Syracuse, NY 13244–2340, USA.