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Dear Reader, Thanks for picking up this special report on The Foundational Concepts of NLP. I’m in the business of teaching people how to utilize human communication more effectively. Specifically I focus on the areas of influence and persuasion. It’s pretty amazing when you think about it. By simply learning how others think and behave, you can create relationships with key players and get access to opportunities, resources, love, money and just about anything else your heart desires. Half of my life’s mission is to research the most effective strategies and techniques for effectively influencing others. The other half is to distill what I learn into an easy to understand and apply format. The single biggest piece of feedback that I get from customers and clients is that while the techniques I show them work, many people feel awkward trying to execute them. It doesn’t feel natural to them.
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They feel like they’re going to make a mistake and their target is going to catch on. The same goes for NLP. You could learn every aspect of NLP there is to know but if you can’t get comfortable with it, the techniques are going to be tough to execute. That’s where this report comes in. This report is going to cover the foundational concepts that make everything you learn about NLP actually “work”. Once you understand these concepts, the next step is to put them to work. To to that check my The Paramount NLP Quick Start Pack. Click Here To Learn More
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Ok, let’s get started. Like any other discipline, neuro-linguistic programming has its own set of foundational concepts that must be learned first before you delve into any NLP techniques. These foundational concepts are rapport, sensory awareness, outcome thinking and behavioral flexibility. Let’s talk about rapport first. If you have ever read a book on hypnosis or covert influence, you have probably encountered the idea of establishing rapport with your subject. In the context of neuro-linguistic programming, the idea of rapport is the same: rapport is both a method of creating and measuring harmony between two or more parties. I emphasize the word harmony here because many of the challenges that we face on a daily basis are actually caused by a lack of harmony or rapport with other people. Here’s a good example: in one study performed in the United Kingdom, researchers discovered that 80% of employee-respondents did not understand or fully comprehend the instructions given to them by the management. This communication problem will of course result in employee problems and productivity problems as well.
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And all of this can happen just because management was not able to communicate or express itself well to regular employees. Rapport is essential to personal excellence because eventually, we would have to disagree with someone but we still have to preserve our relationship or association with that person even if we did disagree.
The second pillar of neuro-linguistic programming is
sensory awareness. People often have this deep-seated trance where they are only able to focus on ‘what needs to be done’ – to the exclusion of all else. NLP shatters this trance by teaching people how to accept different stimuli from the various senses if this will help a person improve something in himself or in other people. You might be surprised as to how much information about yourself (and other people) you can glean by studying how people process the various stimuli from the environment. The third foundational concept is outcome thinking. The problem that many people encounter when they are trying to solve their personal problems is that they tend to focus too much on the actual problem than potential solutions. Again, NLP breaks this common thinking pattern so that people would start focusing on the outcomes that they want so that they can create a path or solution to the desired Copyright Influence Mastery Inc. !6 outcome. You will focus on what will happen after you have created the solution – that would make the whole problem-solving process much easier. Outcome-based thinking can be used to solve problems from any part of your life. It doesn’t matter if your biggest problem is weight loss or if your biggest worry is the promotion that never came. By using NLP, you will be able to craft solutions because you have already seen the specific outcome that you want.
The fourth and final foundational concept is behavior
flexibility and this is what truly separates NLP from all the other disciplines because it actively advocates changing oneself so that specific outcomes can finally be achieved. Unlike other forms of self-learning, NLP is not modest when it says that a person has to change if what he is doing right now is not working at all. Learning all of the theories of neuro-linguistic programming is amazing but if you do not develop behavioral flexibility, you won’t be able to apply the things that you will be learning in this NLP book or in any other NLP reference. Often, people need fresh points of view or perspectives in order to change. With neuro- linguistic programming, exciting new perspectives and thinking patterns can be used by anyone, immediately. The difficulty associated
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with learning new behaviors and thinking patterns evaporates because a person will use a slightly different learning route. The four foundations of neuro-linguistic programming are by no means new. People have been aware of them before the proponents of neuro-linguistic programming picked them up and utilized them for the purpose of teaching new practitioners how NLP worked. These four foundational concepts are essential for handling life’s many challenges. Here’s a good example – let’s say you bought a new computer and after months of uninterrupted use, the computer suddenly stopped working. You call technical support but they are not very helpful and your deadlines are coming. You will need the four foundations of NLP if you want to survive a situation like this. You will need to establish rapport/harmony if you want technical support to handle you seriously. You will also have to use all of your senses to report what you are actually experiencing when you try to turn on the computer. Using your senses will also allow you to control your speech rate and tone of voice, which are both important for effective communication. You will also need to focus on a specific desirable outcome. What do you want to get from contacting
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technical support? What will you ask them to do now that your computer is not working at all? If you do not succeed the first time that you call technical support, it would be a good idea to practice behavioral flexibility so you can think of other ways to remedy the situation. When you use NLP to improve yourself, it doesn’t mean that you are never going to encounter failure. To say that you will always succeed in what you want to do would be fallacious because there will be times when even our best efforts will not yield the desired outcomes that we had in mind. But that’s alright because with NLP it is much easier to plan and implement these new plans. You will never be stuck in any mental state because you can shift your own mental state whenever you want. If you’d like some NLP concepts that you can begin using in as little as an hour check out the Paramount NLP Quick Start Pack.
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