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Integrative Re-Solutions®

Written By Lori Kochevar, M.S., L.P.C. strategies to upgrade the physiology of often develop survival behaviors that
and founder of Brighten the Brain. Lori traumatized or attachment-disturbed push away the family.
has served as a professional in the child children. With these techniques, the
welfare system for over 25 years, and is behavioral symptoms that would create Therapy and education are significantly
a mother of two adopted children. havoc for a biological family, prevent a more effective after the child and
family from adopting a child, or create parents can reliably access the
Hope for Traumatized Children the need for a higher level of treatment executive cognitive functions in the
for a child in the foster-care system, are brain.
and Families
eliminated or reduced significantly.
The sympathetic and parasympathetic
Brighten the Brain provides innovative
Through Neurofeedback (NFB), the nervous systems work in concert to
solutions to families and treatment
brain finds new paths of health, activate motion and settle into
providers who are raising children with
flexibility, and resilience. Brighten the relaxation to create functional fluidity.
the greatest challenges. Providers and
Brain simultaneously addresses For a child whose nervous and
families need the means to effectively
secondary trauma that affects the endocrine systems have been impacted
address and resolve learning
parent/caregiver/potential adoptive by trauma and attachment breaks, the
difficulties, special needs, and
parent. Integrative Trauma Resolution symptoms of un-discharged traumatic
unattached violent or shutdown
(ITR) trains professionals and parents to stress make daily life extremely
behavior. Parents have often tried
use brain-based protocols. This allows difficult. This in turn challenges the
multiple techniques with minimal
children and parents to give and caregivers of a child whose nervous
results, which is discouraging. Brighten
receive love and become effective system is “stuck on” anxiety, panic,
the Brain moves families from stuck-in-
members of the world in a way that hyperactivity and an inability to relax;
pain to being unstoppable in their
would not have been possible before, or “stuck off” in depression, exhaustion
journey. The success of these families is
due to the inordinate amount of time it and chronic fatigue; or, even more
the inspiration for this mission.
takes to deal with undigested trauma. confounding, is bouncing between
Trauma and attachment-breaks create One mother stated that she had 80% “stuck on” and “stuck off.”
neurological reactivity in a child's brain, more time in her life after participating
limiting his or her ability to function. in this program. With this time she has Reactive Attachment Disorder
Brighten the Brain optimizes the brains gotten a part time job, is participating Trauma
of those children, enabling them to in a graduate school level training
move up the pathway of success. program and has noticed more ease in Many traditional approaches to
Brighten the Brain works toward the all of her other responsibilities. treatment for the Reactive Attachment
following outcomes: Disorder (RAD) and severe trauma are
Long-term, significant, and sustainable only partially effective. Children with
Noticeable benefits are
neurological change for children and severe trauma and attachment
parents who have experienced trauma, reported by 80% of people
disruptions become dysregulated in
secondary trauma and/or severe trained in just 10 sessions their survival behavior/ neurology
attachment breaks.
during a triggering event. Psychological
Training for biological, foster and
models that focus on frontal lobe
adoptive families who are better able
to support this neurological healing Trauma in the Neurological and functioning and insight usually do not
process. help when a child is triggered. The
Chemical Systems of the Body
Training for clinicians and treatment reptilian brain in which survival
providers to build satisfaction and Children need to belong to a family.
capacity to work effectively for these For more info contact
Unfortunately, children who have
families. Lori@brightenthebrain.com
Brighten the Brain uses sophisticated experienced trauma, learning
technology and neurologically based differences, and/or attachment breaks

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instincts are neurologically triggered ignite further emotion or shutdown at a counter-productive because it
creates a biochemical cascade of certain point in the trauma triggered strengthens the original ineffective
hormones and a muscular structural response. Before the child is able to neural routes. Stress and unresolved
reaction in the body and memory of a access their frontal lobe in a consistent, issues become physically hardened in a
traumatized child. reliable manner, treatment protocols cumulative manner in our bodies and
that focus on emotions or insight can minds, leading to ongoing physical and
During times of overwhelming stress, easily overwhelm the traumatized mental health issues.
children and adults are unable to child. Biological, foster, and adoptive
access the frontal lobe, where cognitive parents routinely report this Advantages of Bypassing the
processing, cause-and-effect thinking phenomenon. Conscious Mind
and emotional integration occur.
Instead, mental energy is concentrated Power of Survival Neurology Conversely, Neurofeedback bypasses
in the reptilian back brain to maximize
the conscious mind and directly trains
their perceived sense of survival. The When humans experience trauma, our the brain to functional fluidity. As the
neurological behavior options of fight, mind takes a snapshot, assigns a brain becomes more competent and
flight or freeze are clearly meaning to the event and reenacts the effective, physical and emotional
demonstrated in the behaviors of a memory when retriggered by a stressor symptoms resolve. The energy saved
human stuck in a dysregulated state. (Levine 1997). Historically, practitioners through this organic efficiency is then
have relied on cognitive strategies available for a child to grow, learn and
Traditional Models Are Often intended to allow people to “reason” thrive.
Minimally Effective with RAD themselves out of symptoms. The
problem with this approach is that On a structural level, Neurofeedback
and PTSD
when responses are wired in the helps strengthen the rate and quality of
Traditional approaches used to treat survival neurology, we cannot access neuro-communication between all
Reactive Attachment Disorder and the frontal lobe or override the areas of the brain. This allows the
complex traumas often create protective physiology to change cognitive mind to engage and make
frustration for the clinicians, caregivers behaviors. For the purpose of survival, solid, conscious decisions. For the
and children. When the neurology is the structural and muscular systems of traumatized child who lacks these
addressed through brain-based the physical body hold onto the pattern connections, the reactionary states of
protocols, breakthroughs occur. and children grow into adults who are flight, fight or freeze are the behavioral
unable to think themselves out of choices observed over and over again
Historically, cognitive behavioral certain behaviors (Lowen, M.D., 1958. when faced with a perceived stressful
programs generally combine cognitive Ogden 2006). These traumatic situation. Keep in mind that this
restructuring techniques with experiences that are etched into the behavior may be triggered simply when
behavioral techniques related to brain and central nervous system the parent says no to candy for
conditioning, such as classical, operant, memory make it difficult for the child breakfast.
aversive, Pavlovian, and exposure to evolve out of fight, flight or freeze
therapy. Much of what has been taught behaviors.
in our schools as learning, parenting
and therapeutic approaches was based Additionally, the meaning that humans
on this underlying theory. For children assign to a stressful event is
who are unable to reliably access their emotionally loaded because energy
frontal lobe, these strategies are flows to the back-brain where life-and-
counterproductive when we consider death intensity codes are neurologically
the newest research findings on how and chemically embedded. As
the brain works. neurobiological hormones of stress
(cortisone and adrenaline) flood the
Instructions that focus on child’s body, instantaneous thoughts
understanding “inaccurate” thinking like “all adults are unreliable and
around the traumatic event or the unavailable” reinforce “stuckness” on
emotions underlying the trauma when all levels. Focusing on the problem
the child becomes triggered, can either before the neurology is optimized is

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Holding these children and forcing
them to engage is typically ineffective.
Unfortunately, many parenting,
Counterproductive teaching, and treatment strategies The “holding therapy” technique
Conditioning Strategies based on operant conditioning are creates overwhelm, reinforcing
embedded in our cultural previous learning patterns of terror and
Holding therapy which involves understanding of how change occurs. power imbalance. This can trigger
swaddling and holding the child tightly, These strategies are contraindicated for cumulative entrenched memories
regardless of how hard they resist is RAD, PTSD, and TBI. established by past abuse.
based on operant conditioning
techniques that are similar to the time For example, as an early attempt to When fight or flight behaviors are not
when Skinner (1953) put a person who address the desperation of a family effective to escape the holding therapy,
is afraid of rabbits in a room full of parenting a child with RAD, many the child’s behavior is forced to regress
rabbits until he or she “gets over it”. parents were taught holding backwards to a place of freeze. The
The current neurological understanding techniques. Creating a freeze response child may become compliant, but his or
is that the subject’s nervous system in the child does not appear to produce her neurological well-being has been
shifts into a state of overwhelm and any useful results. It is imperative that compromised. Van Der Kolt (2011)
shutdown, rendering the person unable we take the brain research that is now noted that the rescued victims in
to have the neurological flexibility to available to change our clinical hurricane Katrina that had their
respond to the stimuli. At the time practices to include brain-based movement restricted while being
holding therapy was created, it seemed protocols. transported to safety were further
to work for a certain population. traumatized by being strapped down
However, because the current brain Children with RAD are neurologically and unable to move.
research was not available at that time, reactive to relationship triggers.
we could not clearly see the drawbacks.

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Even those that are working solid relationship to another person. Professionals trained to use Integrative
in a trauma-informed This level of interaction best occurs in a Re-Solutions are able to physiologically
setting, often need a bridge family that will commit fully to the enable children and parents from the
child’s well-being. As the child gains “inside out” to create a different way of
to implement the plethora of
regular and reliable access to all areas interacting with others. The program
brain research that is
of their brain, the relationship creates has resulted in dramatic shifts in the
coming out daily and to fully
the container and cognitive/emotional ability of previously diagnosed children
understand its implications
coherence necessary to learn from the to function at home, school and on the
for best practice. Ultimately, natural and well thought-out parental playground. Observations from
it is neurological relief consequences. We never support teachers, peers, siblings, parents, and
coupled with state of the art consequence that predictably threatens other professional’s support Brighten
brain practices that will the perceived existence of any being in the Brain’s clinical assessment
create progress. that they are ineffective and measurements of significant change.
(Hughes 2012, Siegel 2012) counterproductive

Consequence-based strategies pre- Integrative Trauma Resolution/


suppose that children trust that the Psycho-physiological Capacity
Shortcomings of Consequence behavior their guardian is “shaping” is Model
Based Learning Model in the best interest of the child. Many
children/adults lack a secure sense of Brighten the Brain employs Integrative
Organizationally, many delinquency trust and ability to accurately assess Trauma Resolution, which addresses
models, school-based learning for others. A traumatized child with severe components of the chemical, structural,
troubled youth, and juvenile treatment attachment breaks often has difficulty and neurological systems of the body
facilities rely on a consequence-based trusting that any other human has his to optimize the psycho-physiological
model of earning rewards for good or her best interest at heart. Most of capacity of the clients we serve. This is
behavior or losing rewards for bad these belief systems reside in the an evolutionary and revolutionary step
behavior. These strategies tend to be cellular memory (Pert 1997) and are forward in resolving trauma issues that
minimally successful long-term. not consciously processed until they were previously addressed primarily
are able to integrate and optimize their through psychological and emotional
Positive reinforcement is the only Central Nervous System functionality. It strategies. Traditional therapy depends
model that has current research to is truly miraculous to witness a child’s on the patient’s insight and ability to
show it is generalizable. Examining sense of trust and ability to form and maintain a relationship with
behaviors and cognitions have gotten comprehend their traumatic past, the therapist. Establishing a therapeutic
us so far, and we continue to know as organically unfold as their neurological, relationship with a child or very stuck
clinicians and customers that biochemical, and muscular-structural adult with RAD, can often be difficult
something is still missing. Predictably, systems become functionally fluid. because attachment patterns are often
children learn how to manipulate the
well hidden from the consciousness.
system without achieving a close
Improving the psycho-physiological
enough relationship with therapists and Brighten the Brain Outcomes
capacity is the most direct route to
those trying to address the attachment
Integrative Re-Solution restores the well- being.
and trauma issues. These issues must
be fully understood to identify the “internal operating system” for the
underlying fight-or-flight behavior that well-being of our children. Integrative
created the necessity for the child’s Re-Solutions has significantly reduced
placement. placement disruptions in foster and
adoptive children with challenging
Ultimately, a primary relationship with behavioral issues. Research clearly
a committed, mindful parent is the indicates that the long-term welfare of
most effective vehicle to heal our children is positively affected by
attachment issues. minimal shifts in placement (Fahlberg
1991).
Resolution of attachment issues largely
depends on the capacity to develop a

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Brighten the Brain - Integrative Re-Solutions Results
Prior to
After Integrative Resolutions
Integrative Re-Solutions

Frozen Psychotic After 10 2-Hour Sessions After 20 2-Hour Sessions 1 year later
14-year old Depression Taken off Concerta. Hoarding minimized. Only received 20 sessions
Disassociative. Extreme shut Out of Freeze mode, Body Expressing thoughts and Mom credits Brighten the
down. release trauma stored in CNS. feelings. Brain.
4 years with family, adoption Process info and respond to Attachment progress
Shows compassion and
stalled. questions. continues.
kindness.
Low initiation. Improved eye contact.
Began expressing feelings. Parents’ paradigm shifted to
Fewer school behavior/
Is unable to feel menstruation Thanksgiving. “I’m grateful I physiological capacity.
performance issues.
pain. made it in this home 1 more Adoption finalized after 5
Has fun with friends and
Low self-care, refused showers year.” family. years.
and cleaning up after self. Youngest son is including her Increased efforts to connect.
Cutting/self-harm. now. Allow safe touch.
Flat affect. Uses her foster family’s last Feel physical pain (cycle).
Has shallow, superficial, name. Enjoys family nighttime
strained relationships. Says “mom” and “dad”. rituals.
Anticipating, enjoying, and
asking for family.
Follows hygiene routine.
Chores in 45 mins. vs. 4 hours.

Fight Flight After 10 2-Hour Sessions Four months later


8 year old Spina Bifida Shows appropriate anxiety. Family will use NFB through all future transition.
20 + surgeries Connects verbally with nurses. Functions well in public school full-time after 3 years needing
RAD/PTSD/DD Mood is stabilized, happier. to home school due to overwhelm.
Screams when sees hospital. Says “ I don’t want to” rather Parents were thoroughly trained in parenting paradigms - ITR
Fights procedure. than “I will never.” before application of NFB.
Resists tasks and instructions. States needs. Shows lasting attachment gains–Increased affection, asks to be
held, gives random hugs and says “I’m glad you are my mom
Nurses thought she had no Mom can console her through
and that you adopted me”, wants to hear adoption story, has
verbal skills, in freeze mode. process.
deeper connection to the family.
Is difficult to manage- low trust. Relaxed enough she slept
Learning improvements apparent
Has severe attachment issues. through a procedure.
Loves eating lunch in the cafeteria with friends versus
G-tube x2 with less reaction
overwhelmed by activity
than flu shot 3 weeks before.

2 years later/after 30 3 years later/after 50


Fight After 10 2-Hour Sessions Sessions Sessions
4-year old 10 to 30 minutes to get to Went from bottom of class Therapist reports ability to
RAD/PTSD/Sleep disorder sleep, some nights no wake- behaviorally and academically resolve emotional issues
Takes 2.5 hours or longer to get ups, easier to get her back to in Kindergarten to the top of around abandonment and
her to sleep, and wakes up 5-6 sleep. her class in 2nd grade. abuse that had overwhelmed
times nightly No reaction at bath Advanced abilities in reading, her to the point of shutdown
Screams, kicks up to 8 time/enjoys playing. writing, and math. (freeze) previously.
hours/day When triggered, able to work From RAD diagnosis to teacher Well-liked by peers and
Has terror at bath time through incident and tell mom reports in 2nd grade of most teachers
needs. empathetic child in room
Vocal cords damaged by
screaming. Huge increase in ability to Supports peers when they are
participate in daily routines. afraid.
Very violent, could not be held

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or comforted. Dramatic decrease in violence Show significant increase in
toward self and others. reparative sleep patterns.

Systemic Multidisciplinary functional fluidity to allow more change and Co-Modulation Parenting (Siegel
Brain Based Trauma to unfold. 1999).
Informed Approach
Measurement Tools &
Brighten the Brain uses a systemic, Treatment Aims
multi-disciplinary and advanced trauma-
informed approach to support We strive for change across domains on
Attachment and Bonding. Consultation an analog scale that is neurobiologically Online Support & Training
to teach parents how to create a informed. Brighten the Brain provides in-
regulated state for their child and depth assessments to determine which In addition, Brighten the Brain provides
themselves is paramount. Brighten the skill sets for both the child and the online Interactive Parent Support and
Brain succeeds by using the most parent are in need of strengthening. Training Groups that can provide skill-
efficient form of treatment available to From here we develop a comprehensive based relationship-focused parenting
systemically address PTSD, secondary family training program. For example, that uses a psycho-physiological capacity
PTSD, and RAD. In the past, this has been one child we work with had explosive model.
difficult terrain because even well- rage reactions, with remorse (some do
grounded, skilled, clear, caring, loving Only when the central nervous system is
not show remorse which is initiated in a
parents and clinicians find it difficult to regulated neurologically (Robbins 2008)
different area of the brain) while the
remain balanced when a child’s behavior and hormonally (Kuchinskas 2009) does
parent had difficulty switching tracks of
is highly dysregulated. Based on previous a human feel safe to be in a relationship.
focus. Using attachment and bonding
abandonment, abuse and neglect, Only then can a child’s mind begin to
experiences while suggesting parenting
children with RAD exhibit a frequency form and act on thoughts that indicate
strategies to address the specific areas
and intensity of dysregulated behavior he or she can be nourished, fed and
of the brain in need of optimization, we
that is consistent with survival loved, even if that has not been the case
were able to make significant progress
neurobiology (fight / flight / freeze). in the past. From this physiologically
with this family.
Integrative Re-Solutions gives a healthy place, attachment and bonding
jumpstart to the neurobiology of these can occur for the child diagnosed with
traumatized children as well as the Effective Parenting Strategies RAD. Many factors play into the success
parents who are struggling with of each situation. Having parents who
Clinicians can often ascertain when a are fully committed to the child long-
secondary trauma, so that nourishment
child has RAD by the frustration term and willing to address their own
can be given by the parents, and
exhibited by traditionally trained parents attachment issues is critical. In addition,
received, integrated, and metabolized by
and caregivers. Even the most the age at which we begin working with
the child.
sophisticated parenting strategies (Post a child and the number of times the
Neurofeedback results are stronger and 2006; Siegel 1999; Purvis ) leave parents brain has been myelinated is important.
longer lasting when the family supports of severely traumatized children unable
the changes. When encountering too to sustain compassion-based parenting
strategies. This is why retraining the Neurofeedback Optimizing
much stress, change or triggering
circumstances (i.e. the child feels the traumatized brain is essential. It is Potential
stakes are too high, as in loss of a important that parents use effective
intervention techniques when a child is Neurofeedback is a cutting-edge
parent’s love), a child can revert to
regressed. Two examples of this are technology with decades of history and
previous neurobiological behavior
decreasing the stressors or increasing research. NFB creates a healthy nervous
patterns. Once the neurological
comforts in the child’s environment. system with which children can optimize
evidence for the new behaviors have
Parenting strategies that are their ability to regulate their own
been seen in the child’s behavior, they
neurobiologically informed are the best behavior. Neurofeedback is proven to
need to be supported through the
option for children with trauma and decrease anxiety, trauma and stress.
primary relationships and the
attachment reactions. Parenting models And like riding a bike, once your brain
environment. As clients acknowledge
in sync with the Brighten the Brain learns the optimal pathways to success,
the substantial and seemingly small
philosophy are Beyond Consequences it never forgets. Bodies that have found
changes, the family can create enough
(Post 2006), Connected Child (Purvis) the new neural routes will remember
how to find the zone and stay in flow.
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NFB supports the capacity to relate, As the neurology stabilizes, the innate support the changes through their
relax and heal, as well as the ability to wisdom of the physical body begins to parenting approach and the internal and
perform and respond from our most heal the issues that most threaten a external dynamics of the family.
skilled place. person's ability to survive and thrive. For
example, a child’s ability to establish a Traumatized children that are
Neurofeedback enables providers and secure bond with others typically must nuerodevelopmentally sequentially
families to provide more stability during improve before his or her school grades higher, tend to respond to stress with
placement of traumatized children. The improve. Sometimes there is a mismatch fight or flight. The most neurologically
between what the parent or system damaged children are most likely to
benefits of Neurofeedback training are exhibit a freeze response (Remy 2009).
would like to see improve first and what
deep, profound, cumulative and As they mature, children who do not
is decided by the neurology of the child.
unchanging. Leaders in the field of NFB respond when hurt, can sublimate their
experience a success rate of nearly 90 pursuit of meeting their needs. Children
percent (Robbins 2008). It is imperative to trust the innate stuck in freeze mode do not typically
wisdom of the physical body to react violently, as do those in fight/flight
The effectiveness of Neurofeedback is
reestablish homeostasis. mode. Their hopelessness is reflected in
enhanced by training in physiologically-
withdrawal from life, and this
based parenting and relationship
debilitation can be overwhelming and
strategies that allow parents/spouses to
draining to them and those around
co-modulate with their children/partner. Results them.
Brighten the Brain relies on a non-invasive
Results of Integrative Trauma Resolution Traditional systems are not well-
system that is easy to use, safe, quick, and
vary from person to person. Some designed to support parents who are
long-lasting. Traditional Neurofeedback
people experience change immediately raising a child with severe trauma,
systems targeted a specific brainwave
and others need multiple sessions. Some attachment issues, special needs, or
pattern. The state-of-the-art system used
experience immediate shift and growth learning differences. The behavior of
by Brighten the Brain does not depend on
while others grow slowly and steadily. children who are gaining internal
targeting brainwaves to create change.
Progress can go “up and down,” neurological equilibrium, sometimes
Rather, the system trains the brain to be
depending on how well the caregivers becomes more difficult before it gets
functional fluidity to create optimal
better. This journey is best supported by
performance. The system is much safer
than other forms of Neurofeedback Complex Case Dips in Behavior :
because it allows the brain to recalibrate Integrative Re-Solutions –Concerns and Improvements
itself versus imposing perceived best Integrative Resolutions Services
outcomes. The problem with perceived Issues- After Hormone Influx at age 13
Age 11-13
best outcomes is over/under training the
brain. Homeschooling program- gained 2-4
Shift to day-treatment program for school
years of competency academically in
due to multiple stressors in the family
reading, writing and math,
We train the brain in real time, moment
to moment. Unlike traditional Medication reductions include the
Neurofeedback systems that train one decrease from 200mg Trazodone to Off of all Trazodone, fish oil, zinc and
brain wave at a time, the Brighten the 25mg; from 4mg Risperdal to 1.5mg; magnesium.
and 60 mg of Adderall to 7.5 mg.
Brain system trains 16 brain areas at
once to relieve clients from symptoms Moved from TRCCF to Adoptive Home,
Still in Adoptive home, Violence re-appeared
much faster than older systems. The Violence toward peers, property
different, less intensity more damage to
damage and anxiety disorder are
change is not dependent on excessive property.
minimized until he began puberty
effort, diligence, or practice. The change
occurs because of physiological shifts. Significant increase his ability to think
Dip in this ability and on the upswing again
These internal modifications create a before he acts
long-lasting, ongoing improvement in Went from nightly being awakened by Off Trazodone, Sleep continues to be much
the ability of those served by Brighten nightmares, with 200 mg Trazodone to improved, work through nightmares not
the Brain to relate to the world. one sleepless night in 8 months. triggered happen s1X every 2 months
His communication has changed from Working on teaching requests versus
non-talkative and withdrawn to regular demands. Learning to take accountability,
interaction with the family. not be triggered all day.
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Continues deeper into core issues7versus
continues to improve. Now able to
avoiding, very painful for him and the family
discuss core issues (birth family, sexual
to deal with the reality and severity.
abuse, past failed adoption, starvation).
an Integrative Re-Solutions Certified people in freeze mode. It is important to networks of multi-disciplinary providers,
clinician. note that moving from freeze to and 3) systems that are using flexible
flight/fight is a neuro-sequential step Integrative Trauma Resolution
Ample research supports the toward healing, even though this strategies.
effectiveness of Neurofeedback on a behavior is more difficult to manage.
plethora of symptoms. Neurofeedback is Integrative Re-Solutions works toward Most often, parents who are supported
shown to be an effective treatment for resolution, not management. Therefore, are able to make the best decisions for
depression (Hammond 2004); trauma sometimes it is imperative to allow the their children. We find that only family
and attachment breaks (Huang-Storms child to go through the crisis to get to relationships can fully provide the
2008; Pop-Jordanova 2004; Askovic the healing. Every child speaks a constancy and stability needed to
2009); anxiety (Michael 2005); affective different emotional language when develop secure attachment. Supporting
disorders (Rosenfeld 1999); migraines needing assistance and support from professionals and parents with effective
(Stokes 2010); sleep disorders (Okonula those around them. training, comprehensive evaluations,
2007; Gleeson 2009); substance abuse and physiological optimization tools is
Brighten the Brain Supports
(Scott 2005; Corbitt 2010); traumatic ultimately how we will resolve the
brain injury (Trudeau 1998; Yucha
Parents and Professionals complex dynamics of trauma and
2008); and ADHD (Levesque 2006; Strehl attachment symptoms.
2006). Children with RAD often shut down in
relationships. When they develop the
Many of these are traditionally treated core strength as the neurobiology begins
with pharmacology. Brighten the Brain to awaken to shift from the superficial Desperate for a family
has found that many of the clients we responses of projection, reflection, and
serve have experienced a successful distraction they organically, from within, A desperate 11-year-old boy with seven
reduction in dosage, or are no longer in begin to have access to their core issues. prior placements and one failed
need, of prescribed medications. Initially, this can be difficult and adoption was moved from a group home
challenging for them and their circles of to a residential treatment facility. A
Neuro-Sequential Treatment support. foster family was willing to take him out
Planning of the facility despite psychological
When this deep level of work is
reports that indicated that he would
occurring, it is important that the entire
Bruce Perry (2009) clearly demonstrates never be able to function in a family.
team is being supported to avoid the
that Neuro-sequential development of
pitfalls of unresolved transference. This They had witnessed how effective
the brain requires matching activities for
is an opportunity for everyone on the
an optimizing experience. Parents whose
team to heal any unresolved issues in
brains have been optimized and can shift
the safe container of professional
their re-actions in the heat of a difficult
consultation. It is the team’s job to
moment, create stability and constancy
completely support the parents and
in the external environment of the child.
frame this difficult behavior as an
Using this model, we have found that it
opportunity for the child to work
is critical to have a network of
through their daunting past reality. It is
therapeutic respite options available for
important that we as a team do not try
the parents entrusted with children who
to distract the child or ourselves from
are this dysregulated. This creates the
this work. The child sets the pace as
critical break in the present moment to
his/her neurology heals.
stop old interaction patterns and allow
for the opportunity to respond from a
healthy place versus reacting from fight Families are a Key Ingredient to
flight and freeze. Healing Complex Situations
Brighten the Brain clinicians recognize We are to address complex trauma and
that it is imperative to acknowledge how attachment issues if we focus on
seemingly small behaviors, such as supporting the family through 1) easily
smiling at a peer or being able to do accessible web of therapeutic respite
homework are gateways toward providers, 2) well trained professional Integrative Re-Solutions was for their
substantial quality-of-life changes for

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other adoptive child and his biological Even though the time span before
sibling. Since then they have witnessed adoption (48 months) is greater than Children have achieved successful
incredible improvements in the boy’s after the adoption (42 months), the adoptions earlier than projected
ability to function. Things have not been amount of money spent since the because of the program.
perfect for him and his adoptive family. adoption is more than twice the amount
They credit their ability to keep him out spent before. This demonstrates the One foster/adoptive parent
of the foster-system and in a family tremendous difference in cost of
commented in a program
home to the work they have done with intensive placements that burdens the
evaluation, “I was dreading the
Brighten the Brain. We credit them and child welfare system.
their commitment. adoption and what it might do to my
More notable is the potential savings sanity, family and marriage. She [the
Between the ages of 11 and 13, the had the ITR been applied at the child] was so violent I was afraid of
results were phenomenal. In the first beginning of this child’s case. The costs what would happen. Now we are
year he gained between 2-4 years prior to adoption remain the same. Had looking forward to adoption day.”
competency in reading, writing, and the intervention been used at that time,
math, as measured by the state of it is reasonable to believe that the
Colorado homeschooling program. His family’s first adoption attempt would
Children labeled as ‘unadoptable often
need for medications decreased have succeeded.
dramatically and he went from being found themselves adrift in the system
awakened nightly by nightmares to only Beyond the evident benefits for the with a case plan of long-term foster
one sleepless night in 3 months. child’s emotional well-being, the family
care. Today, the North American
gaining a child, and all other intangible
One therapist who has worked with gains had the adoption not failed, the Council on Adoptable Children and
many of the children who received ITR at cost benefit for the taxpayers and the other national child advocacy
Brighten the Brain noted, “The progress Department of Social Services from using
organizations believe that no child is
shown in weeks is incredible. Issues they ITR would have been $237,475. ITR
had been struggling with for years clearly saves money. This child has been unadoptable.
resolved” placed with a family that has committed NACAC, 2012
to adopting him.

Cost –Savings – Maximizing our Children Need Families to


Investment Survive

This section examines the costs


Children need, more than perhaps
associated with one family served by
anything else, a stable family in which
Brighten the Brain. Adoptive
they feel safe and secure. They fail to
permanency of this child was previously
thrive when placements are unstable, in
deemed improbable by his treatment
flux, and apt to change multiple times.
team. However, the child has shown
The quality-of-life improvements and
remarkable behavioral and
financial savings are substantial.
developmental advances that make the
option of permanent adoption possible.
A parable tells of the old man taking his
morning walk on the beach, each day
The evaluating psychologist projected
throwing one starfish after another back
the boy would remain institutionalized
into the sea. A boy says there is no way
until he aged out. The child has been in
the old man can make a difference for all
eight placements, had one failed
of these starfish, adding most of them
adoption because his behavior was too
will die. As he rescues another starfish,
difficult for families and professionals to
the old man replies, “I have made a
manage, and he was on a ladder of
difference for the life of this one.” Then
increasingly more intense and expensive
the boy also begins to pitch in. Together
placements.
we make a difference for the families we
serve, one brain at a time.

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$350,000.00

$300,000.00

$250,000.00

175,200
$200,000.00

$150,000.00 44,714

$100,000.00
89,400 89,400
3
$50,000.00 27,125

$0.00
Cost if aged out of system ACTUAL: Using NFB at the back-end Potential costs if NFB used at front
($301,800) after the failed adoption ($171,314) end aided in the success of the 1st
adoption ($64,325)

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