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Written By Lori Kochevar, M.S., L.P.C. strategies to upgrade the physiology of often develop survival behaviors that
and founder of Brighten the Brain. Lori traumatized or attachment-disturbed push away the family.
has served as a professional in the child children. With these techniques, the
welfare system for over 25 years, and is behavioral symptoms that would create Therapy and education are significantly
a mother of two adopted children. havoc for a biological family, prevent a more effective after the child and
family from adopting a child, or create parents can reliably access the
Hope for Traumatized Children the need for a higher level of treatment executive cognitive functions in the
for a child in the foster-care system, are brain.
and Families
eliminated or reduced significantly.
The sympathetic and parasympathetic
Brighten the Brain provides innovative
Through Neurofeedback (NFB), the nervous systems work in concert to
solutions to families and treatment
brain finds new paths of health, activate motion and settle into
providers who are raising children with
flexibility, and resilience. Brighten the relaxation to create functional fluidity.
the greatest challenges. Providers and
Brain simultaneously addresses For a child whose nervous and
families need the means to effectively
secondary trauma that affects the endocrine systems have been impacted
address and resolve learning
parent/caregiver/potential adoptive by trauma and attachment breaks, the
difficulties, special needs, and
parent. Integrative Trauma Resolution symptoms of un-discharged traumatic
unattached violent or shutdown
(ITR) trains professionals and parents to stress make daily life extremely
behavior. Parents have often tried
use brain-based protocols. This allows difficult. This in turn challenges the
multiple techniques with minimal
children and parents to give and caregivers of a child whose nervous
results, which is discouraging. Brighten
receive love and become effective system is “stuck on” anxiety, panic,
the Brain moves families from stuck-in-
members of the world in a way that hyperactivity and an inability to relax;
pain to being unstoppable in their
would not have been possible before, or “stuck off” in depression, exhaustion
journey. The success of these families is
due to the inordinate amount of time it and chronic fatigue; or, even more
the inspiration for this mission.
takes to deal with undigested trauma. confounding, is bouncing between
Trauma and attachment-breaks create One mother stated that she had 80% “stuck on” and “stuck off.”
neurological reactivity in a child's brain, more time in her life after participating
limiting his or her ability to function. in this program. With this time she has Reactive Attachment Disorder
Brighten the Brain optimizes the brains gotten a part time job, is participating Trauma
of those children, enabling them to in a graduate school level training
move up the pathway of success. program and has noticed more ease in Many traditional approaches to
Brighten the Brain works toward the all of her other responsibilities. treatment for the Reactive Attachment
following outcomes: Disorder (RAD) and severe trauma are
Long-term, significant, and sustainable only partially effective. Children with
Noticeable benefits are
neurological change for children and severe trauma and attachment
parents who have experienced trauma, reported by 80% of people
disruptions become dysregulated in
secondary trauma and/or severe trained in just 10 sessions their survival behavior/ neurology
attachment breaks.
during a triggering event. Psychological
Training for biological, foster and
models that focus on frontal lobe
adoptive families who are better able
to support this neurological healing Trauma in the Neurological and functioning and insight usually do not
process. help when a child is triggered. The
Chemical Systems of the Body
Training for clinicians and treatment reptilian brain in which survival
providers to build satisfaction and Children need to belong to a family.
capacity to work effectively for these For more info contact
Unfortunately, children who have
families. Lori@brightenthebrain.com
Brighten the Brain uses sophisticated experienced trauma, learning
technology and neurologically based differences, and/or attachment breaks
Frozen Psychotic After 10 2-Hour Sessions After 20 2-Hour Sessions 1 year later
14-year old Depression Taken off Concerta. Hoarding minimized. Only received 20 sessions
Disassociative. Extreme shut Out of Freeze mode, Body Expressing thoughts and Mom credits Brighten the
down. release trauma stored in CNS. feelings. Brain.
4 years with family, adoption Process info and respond to Attachment progress
Shows compassion and
stalled. questions. continues.
kindness.
Low initiation. Improved eye contact.
Began expressing feelings. Parents’ paradigm shifted to
Fewer school behavior/
Is unable to feel menstruation Thanksgiving. “I’m grateful I physiological capacity.
performance issues.
pain. made it in this home 1 more Adoption finalized after 5
Has fun with friends and
Low self-care, refused showers year.” family. years.
and cleaning up after self. Youngest son is including her Increased efforts to connect.
Cutting/self-harm. now. Allow safe touch.
Flat affect. Uses her foster family’s last Feel physical pain (cycle).
Has shallow, superficial, name. Enjoys family nighttime
strained relationships. Says “mom” and “dad”. rituals.
Anticipating, enjoying, and
asking for family.
Follows hygiene routine.
Chores in 45 mins. vs. 4 hours.
Systemic Multidisciplinary functional fluidity to allow more change and Co-Modulation Parenting (Siegel
Brain Based Trauma to unfold. 1999).
Informed Approach
Measurement Tools &
Brighten the Brain uses a systemic, Treatment Aims
multi-disciplinary and advanced trauma-
informed approach to support We strive for change across domains on
Attachment and Bonding. Consultation an analog scale that is neurobiologically Online Support & Training
to teach parents how to create a informed. Brighten the Brain provides in-
regulated state for their child and depth assessments to determine which In addition, Brighten the Brain provides
themselves is paramount. Brighten the skill sets for both the child and the online Interactive Parent Support and
Brain succeeds by using the most parent are in need of strengthening. Training Groups that can provide skill-
efficient form of treatment available to From here we develop a comprehensive based relationship-focused parenting
systemically address PTSD, secondary family training program. For example, that uses a psycho-physiological capacity
PTSD, and RAD. In the past, this has been one child we work with had explosive model.
difficult terrain because even well- rage reactions, with remorse (some do
grounded, skilled, clear, caring, loving Only when the central nervous system is
not show remorse which is initiated in a
parents and clinicians find it difficult to regulated neurologically (Robbins 2008)
different area of the brain) while the
remain balanced when a child’s behavior and hormonally (Kuchinskas 2009) does
parent had difficulty switching tracks of
is highly dysregulated. Based on previous a human feel safe to be in a relationship.
focus. Using attachment and bonding
abandonment, abuse and neglect, Only then can a child’s mind begin to
experiences while suggesting parenting
children with RAD exhibit a frequency form and act on thoughts that indicate
strategies to address the specific areas
and intensity of dysregulated behavior he or she can be nourished, fed and
of the brain in need of optimization, we
that is consistent with survival loved, even if that has not been the case
were able to make significant progress
neurobiology (fight / flight / freeze). in the past. From this physiologically
with this family.
Integrative Re-Solutions gives a healthy place, attachment and bonding
jumpstart to the neurobiology of these can occur for the child diagnosed with
traumatized children as well as the Effective Parenting Strategies RAD. Many factors play into the success
parents who are struggling with of each situation. Having parents who
Clinicians can often ascertain when a are fully committed to the child long-
secondary trauma, so that nourishment
child has RAD by the frustration term and willing to address their own
can be given by the parents, and
exhibited by traditionally trained parents attachment issues is critical. In addition,
received, integrated, and metabolized by
and caregivers. Even the most the age at which we begin working with
the child.
sophisticated parenting strategies (Post a child and the number of times the
Neurofeedback results are stronger and 2006; Siegel 1999; Purvis ) leave parents brain has been myelinated is important.
longer lasting when the family supports of severely traumatized children unable
the changes. When encountering too to sustain compassion-based parenting
strategies. This is why retraining the Neurofeedback Optimizing
much stress, change or triggering
circumstances (i.e. the child feels the traumatized brain is essential. It is Potential
stakes are too high, as in loss of a important that parents use effective
intervention techniques when a child is Neurofeedback is a cutting-edge
parent’s love), a child can revert to
regressed. Two examples of this are technology with decades of history and
previous neurobiological behavior
decreasing the stressors or increasing research. NFB creates a healthy nervous
patterns. Once the neurological
comforts in the child’s environment. system with which children can optimize
evidence for the new behaviors have
Parenting strategies that are their ability to regulate their own
been seen in the child’s behavior, they
neurobiologically informed are the best behavior. Neurofeedback is proven to
need to be supported through the
option for children with trauma and decrease anxiety, trauma and stress.
primary relationships and the
attachment reactions. Parenting models And like riding a bike, once your brain
environment. As clients acknowledge
in sync with the Brighten the Brain learns the optimal pathways to success,
the substantial and seemingly small
philosophy are Beyond Consequences it never forgets. Bodies that have found
changes, the family can create enough
(Post 2006), Connected Child (Purvis) the new neural routes will remember
how to find the zone and stay in flow.
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NFB supports the capacity to relate, As the neurology stabilizes, the innate support the changes through their
relax and heal, as well as the ability to wisdom of the physical body begins to parenting approach and the internal and
perform and respond from our most heal the issues that most threaten a external dynamics of the family.
skilled place. person's ability to survive and thrive. For
example, a child’s ability to establish a Traumatized children that are
Neurofeedback enables providers and secure bond with others typically must nuerodevelopmentally sequentially
families to provide more stability during improve before his or her school grades higher, tend to respond to stress with
placement of traumatized children. The improve. Sometimes there is a mismatch fight or flight. The most neurologically
between what the parent or system damaged children are most likely to
benefits of Neurofeedback training are exhibit a freeze response (Remy 2009).
would like to see improve first and what
deep, profound, cumulative and As they mature, children who do not
is decided by the neurology of the child.
unchanging. Leaders in the field of NFB respond when hurt, can sublimate their
experience a success rate of nearly 90 pursuit of meeting their needs. Children
percent (Robbins 2008). It is imperative to trust the innate stuck in freeze mode do not typically
wisdom of the physical body to react violently, as do those in fight/flight
The effectiveness of Neurofeedback is
reestablish homeostasis. mode. Their hopelessness is reflected in
enhanced by training in physiologically-
withdrawal from life, and this
based parenting and relationship
debilitation can be overwhelming and
strategies that allow parents/spouses to
draining to them and those around
co-modulate with their children/partner. Results them.
Brighten the Brain relies on a non-invasive
Results of Integrative Trauma Resolution Traditional systems are not well-
system that is easy to use, safe, quick, and
vary from person to person. Some designed to support parents who are
long-lasting. Traditional Neurofeedback
people experience change immediately raising a child with severe trauma,
systems targeted a specific brainwave
and others need multiple sessions. Some attachment issues, special needs, or
pattern. The state-of-the-art system used
experience immediate shift and growth learning differences. The behavior of
by Brighten the Brain does not depend on
while others grow slowly and steadily. children who are gaining internal
targeting brainwaves to create change.
Progress can go “up and down,” neurological equilibrium, sometimes
Rather, the system trains the brain to be
depending on how well the caregivers becomes more difficult before it gets
functional fluidity to create optimal
better. This journey is best supported by
performance. The system is much safer
than other forms of Neurofeedback Complex Case Dips in Behavior :
because it allows the brain to recalibrate Integrative Re-Solutions –Concerns and Improvements
itself versus imposing perceived best Integrative Resolutions Services
outcomes. The problem with perceived Issues- After Hormone Influx at age 13
Age 11-13
best outcomes is over/under training the
brain. Homeschooling program- gained 2-4
Shift to day-treatment program for school
years of competency academically in
due to multiple stressors in the family
reading, writing and math,
We train the brain in real time, moment
to moment. Unlike traditional Medication reductions include the
Neurofeedback systems that train one decrease from 200mg Trazodone to Off of all Trazodone, fish oil, zinc and
brain wave at a time, the Brighten the 25mg; from 4mg Risperdal to 1.5mg; magnesium.
and 60 mg of Adderall to 7.5 mg.
Brain system trains 16 brain areas at
once to relieve clients from symptoms Moved from TRCCF to Adoptive Home,
Still in Adoptive home, Violence re-appeared
much faster than older systems. The Violence toward peers, property
different, less intensity more damage to
damage and anxiety disorder are
change is not dependent on excessive property.
minimized until he began puberty
effort, diligence, or practice. The change
occurs because of physiological shifts. Significant increase his ability to think
Dip in this ability and on the upswing again
These internal modifications create a before he acts
long-lasting, ongoing improvement in Went from nightly being awakened by Off Trazodone, Sleep continues to be much
the ability of those served by Brighten nightmares, with 200 mg Trazodone to improved, work through nightmares not
the Brain to relate to the world. one sleepless night in 8 months. triggered happen s1X every 2 months
His communication has changed from Working on teaching requests versus
non-talkative and withdrawn to regular demands. Learning to take accountability,
interaction with the family. not be triggered all day.
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Continues deeper into core issues7versus
continues to improve. Now able to
avoiding, very painful for him and the family
discuss core issues (birth family, sexual
to deal with the reality and severity.
abuse, past failed adoption, starvation).
an Integrative Re-Solutions Certified people in freeze mode. It is important to networks of multi-disciplinary providers,
clinician. note that moving from freeze to and 3) systems that are using flexible
flight/fight is a neuro-sequential step Integrative Trauma Resolution
Ample research supports the toward healing, even though this strategies.
effectiveness of Neurofeedback on a behavior is more difficult to manage.
plethora of symptoms. Neurofeedback is Integrative Re-Solutions works toward Most often, parents who are supported
shown to be an effective treatment for resolution, not management. Therefore, are able to make the best decisions for
depression (Hammond 2004); trauma sometimes it is imperative to allow the their children. We find that only family
and attachment breaks (Huang-Storms child to go through the crisis to get to relationships can fully provide the
2008; Pop-Jordanova 2004; Askovic the healing. Every child speaks a constancy and stability needed to
2009); anxiety (Michael 2005); affective different emotional language when develop secure attachment. Supporting
disorders (Rosenfeld 1999); migraines needing assistance and support from professionals and parents with effective
(Stokes 2010); sleep disorders (Okonula those around them. training, comprehensive evaluations,
2007; Gleeson 2009); substance abuse and physiological optimization tools is
Brighten the Brain Supports
(Scott 2005; Corbitt 2010); traumatic ultimately how we will resolve the
brain injury (Trudeau 1998; Yucha
Parents and Professionals complex dynamics of trauma and
2008); and ADHD (Levesque 2006; Strehl attachment symptoms.
2006). Children with RAD often shut down in
relationships. When they develop the
Many of these are traditionally treated core strength as the neurobiology begins
with pharmacology. Brighten the Brain to awaken to shift from the superficial Desperate for a family
has found that many of the clients we responses of projection, reflection, and
serve have experienced a successful distraction they organically, from within, A desperate 11-year-old boy with seven
reduction in dosage, or are no longer in begin to have access to their core issues. prior placements and one failed
need, of prescribed medications. Initially, this can be difficult and adoption was moved from a group home
challenging for them and their circles of to a residential treatment facility. A
Neuro-Sequential Treatment support. foster family was willing to take him out
Planning of the facility despite psychological
When this deep level of work is
reports that indicated that he would
occurring, it is important that the entire
Bruce Perry (2009) clearly demonstrates never be able to function in a family.
team is being supported to avoid the
that Neuro-sequential development of
pitfalls of unresolved transference. This They had witnessed how effective
the brain requires matching activities for
is an opportunity for everyone on the
an optimizing experience. Parents whose
team to heal any unresolved issues in
brains have been optimized and can shift
the safe container of professional
their re-actions in the heat of a difficult
consultation. It is the team’s job to
moment, create stability and constancy
completely support the parents and
in the external environment of the child.
frame this difficult behavior as an
Using this model, we have found that it
opportunity for the child to work
is critical to have a network of
through their daunting past reality. It is
therapeutic respite options available for
important that we as a team do not try
the parents entrusted with children who
to distract the child or ourselves from
are this dysregulated. This creates the
this work. The child sets the pace as
critical break in the present moment to
his/her neurology heals.
stop old interaction patterns and allow
for the opportunity to respond from a
healthy place versus reacting from fight Families are a Key Ingredient to
flight and freeze. Healing Complex Situations
Brighten the Brain clinicians recognize We are to address complex trauma and
that it is imperative to acknowledge how attachment issues if we focus on
seemingly small behaviors, such as supporting the family through 1) easily
smiling at a peer or being able to do accessible web of therapeutic respite
homework are gateways toward providers, 2) well trained professional Integrative Re-Solutions was for their
substantial quality-of-life changes for
$300,000.00
$250,000.00
175,200
$200,000.00
$150,000.00 44,714
$100,000.00
89,400 89,400
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$50,000.00 27,125
$0.00
Cost if aged out of system ACTUAL: Using NFB at the back-end Potential costs if NFB used at front
($301,800) after the failed adoption ($171,314) end aided in the success of the 1st
adoption ($64,325)